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So true. Plug the numbers. 12% body fat at age 30 and you’re in the top 6% of men. https://dqydj.com/body-fat-percentage-comparison-calculator-by-age/
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/22 04:24 PM
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Agreed. I had tons of attention when I was young and in shape and had no idea
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/22 03:20 PM
5

Oh fuck these people. I asked out a cashier a few months back. Guess what. She said yes.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/07/22 03:06 PM
54

This is what trash postmodernism will bring you. Can you really blame them tho? They’ve been brow beaten with this stuff their whole life!
/r/RedPillWomen11/07/22 02:38 PM
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I mean. Charges were dismissed and expungement after a year. I don’t know if the Pussy pass was really denied here…
/r/PussyPassDenied26/06/22 06:45 AM
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Idk man If a girl asked me why I wasn’t Into her “You’re fat, bitchy, not nurturing, and you have a fuzzy upper lip” isn’t too hard to come up with
/r/TheRedPill14/06/22 05:11 PM
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If you don’t wanna be friends, don’t be. But you should at least explain things to him rather than ghost him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/22 04:25 AM
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I think you need to have a talk with him. If you’re gonna do friends you need to tell him to respect your wishes not to be intimate. If he violates that then you take a break for 6 months, let the feelings dissipate, then try it again. If he’s someone you’d like in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/22 12:20 PM
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Get an undercut. polo. Khackis and decent shoes. Maybe some cologne. Keep lifting. Your approach doesn’t sound that bad. Keep in mind as a man your stock is gonna only go up over time abs one day these girls are gonna be eating out of the palm of your hand even if you can’t see it now. Have fun with it. Joke around. Don’t take it too seriously. Try to focus on meeting them as people and not as a pussy to fuck. If you want a line “You must be Hrambes exhibit cuz I’d love to drop a baby in you”. P…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/22 01:11 AM
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Mine wasn’t an alcoholic, but was angry anyway. Everyone on this forum had a shitty mom. Get off the mushrooms. Stay in the gym. I recommend counseling. And talk to a priest while you’re at it
/r/TheRedPill16/04/22 03:17 PM
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I like it. That’s what we always said when I was in welding. Ignore the experience requirements and all the little extra things they want you to have, you tell the man “I can pass your weld test and I can pass your drug test, when do I start”. It’s like weightlifting, the X-Ray doesn’t lie. You can do it or you can’t. I guess I assumed it was different and full of more bureaucratic bullshit in white collar fields. I’ll check out that book too, thanks
/r/TheRedPill04/03/22 05:04 PM
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Some questions. 1 - How is a work gap from the start of covid to now viewed? 2 - If I’m applying in a completely new field. Like going from blue collar work to office work (back problems), is that going to throw up red flags? 3 - How difficult is getting bullshit work like customer service or an admin assistant or something while I finish schooling for my new field 4 - Should I leave off 3 years of college that I had right after high school. 100 credits but no degree. Was irrelevant to my blue c…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/22 04:16 PM
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My guess is you’ll have a form of Complex PTSD. I have it too. There’s a subreddit for it. When you can you should see a therapist. Try to get psychodynamic therapy it’s much better than the other. Being thin as a rail and wearing skirts is the absolute ideal for a woman. Your mother sounds like she has mental issues and is probably jealous. Selling your body and dressing slutty - go with your gut on if you’re doing that and don’t listen to her opinions. Don’t dress like a whore but YOU be the j…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/22 06:08 AM
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Those things are only beta if he does them out of weakness / because he thinks it’ll score points with you. They’re alpha if he does them because he wants to and is genuinely concerned about you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/22 02:38 AM
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I think you’re overthinking this
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/22 06:02 PM
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First of all this is why you don’t get married after 6 months. I don’t give a shit if you’re 57 years old! Your man has deep seeded psychological issues and your current course of action is making them worse. You said he’s a good man. You liked him initially. This can either go very right or very wrong depending on how you handle those issues. He seems to be somewhat submissive and you’ve said you’re somewhat masculine from the army. He’s not gonna change overnight but you CAN do it given enough…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/22 07:21 PM
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That was a bad example. I’d go for taco shack girl even if they were the same weight and age but you get the point.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 10:30 PM
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Girls are free to be as fat as they want. And I have no obligation to be attracted to them. I’ll be their friend but I have the right to good sex. I think most of you guys wouldn’t date a fat dude either unless he made up for it in some other department. Men are different tho, personally I’d rather date a 110 lb girl who works in the local taco shack than a 200 lb CEO.
/r/RedPillWomen05/02/22 10:29 PM
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Holy Shit Reddit is a cesspool. Not you the comments. You guys make it sound like she’s dating a recently unemployed Burger King fry cook not a tenured professor at a prestigious university. Dude. Those guys make like 80k. At LEAST. NO reason a family can’t live on that. Anyone who says otherwise frankly is gold digging. You have a shitload of money, you’re gonna be a lawyer. Your future husband makes enough YOU could be a housewife if you wanted. What’s the problem? Go get a prenup if you’re th…
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/22 05:15 PM
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“She was talking to another guy that turned her on and it gets transferred onto you.“ Dude THIS. But it works in reverse too. If you break up she’ll bang dudes who reminded her of YOU. Very good list. Also that stuff about looks hygiene not mattering etc - yes and no. They matter but aren’t the be all end all. It’s a matter of degree. If you’re a 300 lb computer geek who hasn’t showered in a week, it doesn’t matter WHO you remind her of. Buuut if you’re a little below average this stuff holds tr…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/22 03:07 AM
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You were good enough to FwB but not good enough to actually date. Honestly, I’d throw about 9/10 of the women I find hot enough to fuck in that category. I wouldn’t say you were wrong to end it if you wanted something more. But find a dude who wants more with you from the get go. Also take a look inward and make sure what you’re bringing to the table is worth a ring.
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/22 02:48 AM
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Yeah I don’t thinks gonna work out too great for them. Who said that one?
/r/TheRedPill09/01/22 05:17 AM
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Yup. The worst part is they expect you to take them seriously...
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 03:58 PM
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Well that's the key of course. If she's faking it you should have no problem dropping her like a sack of bricks. They're really not that hard to sniff out. Your plan's not bad. Call up one of your buddies with decent game she doesn't know and ask him to seduce her if he can. I would say an easier way would be to see if she actually commits to it. If she puts time and energy into it. Really not that hard to tell how enthusiastic someone is about something. Is she going to services every week? Doe…
/r/TheRedPill07/01/22 03:57 PM
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Well. If you don’t vet them…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 08:03 PM
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Whats that quote from justified “The people of Harlan County party Friday and Saturday night and get saved Sunday morning”
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 08:03 PM
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Well you know as they say church girls are either a 1 or a 10 on the sluttiness scale. It depends on if they really embrace an orthodox form of the faith or not. If they believe it, they’ll be chaste. If not they’ll have a lot of pent up resentment and then it’s your stereotypical catholic schoolgirl giving blowjobs to half the class behind the bleachers, whips, chains, and fuzzy handcuffs. Gotta make up for for all that lost time repression you know! Really. You’ve just to deliver a dart just h…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 06:31 PM
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You know I was facepalming hardcore for about the first paragraph of this. But no you’re exactly right. Try dating a religious girl. They’re great and don’t do any of this shit. That’s why I tell all my player friends, if you’re gonna corrupt a girl - corrupt a girl whose already a whore. That way you’re not ruining a good girl for someone else!
/r/TheRedPill06/01/22 04:52 PM
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NYC will ruin you. Get out. Move to the country or a small town
/r/RedPillWomen05/01/22 11:05 PM
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Bro beans. You gotta realize. You’re better than both of them. She’s a depreciating asset. Work on your career, go pass that exam, lift, dress/groom well and talk to as many girls as you can. In time you’ll see the bullshit for what it was. I have a rule, never cry over whores. If she’s really a nice moral girl and you fucked up fine. If she’s a hoe, you’re not allowed. 95% of these girls are hoes. This one defiantly is. Do you really wanna be with someone who would treat someone like you like t…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/22 07:36 PM
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Could also move to a more traditional country / state
/r/TheRedPill02/01/22 07:22 PM
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You sure he’s not just saying that to make you more comfortable. Lotta dudes are brainwashed to think it’s illegal to tell their woman to lose weight
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/21 06:26 AM
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Liberal in that culture and liberal in our culture might not be the same thing. My guess would be if they want him to come home they probably want him to live a more traditional life but who knows. Posibble he’s telling you what you wanna hear, maybe not, you know the situation better than anyone here. If he’s that dead set on it you could try flying over there to visit and see how you like it. Maybe meet his folks and Gauge for yourself. At any rate if you do break up and everything was great b…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/21 03:03 AM
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My guess is it would be more the family than anything. You need to talk to him about this tho. If you go with him I think the expectation is you’ll probably get married. Course you might wanna make sure that’s not one of the countries that allows multiple wives 😂😂. I would talk to him about it. Maybe see if him waiting another 6 months or a year is an option or if this is truely a once in a lifetime career opportunity. I would think by then you’d have a better idea If you’re gonna end up togethe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 11:31 PM
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Agree with the other posters. SJWs are insufferable. Don’t be friends with anyone who outright betrayed you. But if it’s someone who kinda just didn’t wanna be around you then I say go for it
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/21 07:01 PM
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I actually think I’ve been realizing this lately but you put it into words. Kudos. They sort of show up in your life when you start doing things. When you start pulling your shit together, working out. Really going places and doing what you fuckin want girls notice and come up with reasons to hang around. Looking back most of the girls other than ones I met on apps chose me long before I picked them. Throw parties hang out with cool people, do Shit, be good at it. Theyll notice ya.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/21 11:20 PM
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Quit being a depressed fuck. Go out. Meet people. Enjoy your life. Be good to people. Only reference this stuff when you’re having issues. Basically the red pill can be summed up as “don’t be a pussy”. Be good to your woman. Provide for her and take care of her. Remember the men of old. Think of your great grandfather and the kind of life he led. Emulate that. Think of your grandmother. Marry a girl like that. Stop hanging out with whores or you’ll become jaded. Maybe find a girl who lives in th…
/r/TheRedPill12/12/21 06:59 AM
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A year and a half really isn’t very long. Maybe read some of the men’s red pill forum about why men are apprehensive about it. How’s your end of the relationship, are you holding up your end?
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/21 10:58 PM
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Separate accounts, a credit card for each type of spending perhaps. Aldi has take n bake pizzas for $5 each. They’re HUGE. Pizza joint near me has a large pizza sub breadsticks and 2L of pop deal for $22. My parents used to pay like $30 with delivery fees to have it delivered. Go pick it up. Better yet, cook yourself. A dollar today is worth ten in retirement. I live by myself on $950 a month, rent and utilities included. Plus about 5 grand in annualized expenses half of which is car depreciatio…
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 03:59 PM
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Then perhaps it’s not the best move. At least right now
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 06:49 PM
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But the point of taking action to fix something you don’t like is the same. Be okay with and accept things as they are or fix the problem. Some problems require more derastic measures than others. I’m not telling her what to do I’m plainly laying out her options. Accept yourself as you are or take action to change it if you don’t like it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 06:48 PM
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I mean if you're unhappy about something take action. It's like if you're fat. Be fat and happy or lose weight.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 04:16 PM
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Does HE say anything about it? If not I wouldn’t worry about it. Or get a breast lift.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/21 03:41 PM
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I love it. Downside is you made me want the Chinese buffet now and I don’t need to stuff my face with that garbage.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/21 04:36 AM
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I’ve heard elements of this before. That theory was something like not impregnating your woman all the time makes her lizard brain think you’re infertile cuz back in the day a chick would get pregnant 20 times before menopause. But who gives a shit. It doesn’t matter. Yes a woman’s nature is to constantly trade up. Your nature is to collect as many 18-25 year olds as you can, put them in a big castle, and fuck them on rotation. Monogamy is a supernatural concept, god is the third person in that …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 08:49 PM
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Perfect. Optimize what you can change. Forget about what you can’t. For every girl so innately ugly no guy what’s to be with her, another 10 are that way because they shove muffins down their throat. For every guy not getting laid because there’s something so wrong he can’t overcome, another 10 can cut the bullshit, stop feeling sorry for yourself, make the necessary changes and can have more pussy than he knows what to do with. If he gets off his ass and does something about it. You know what. …
/r/TheRedPill29/10/21 07:15 PM
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Is he replying to her? No. Has he given you a reason to doubt him? Let it go. Agree with everyone else, drop the social media, all it's doing is stressing you out.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 07:41 PM
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This.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 07:40 PM
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Yes. You guys overthink things too much
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/21 07:39 PM
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Another Thing. I have a friend who'se 5'3. He had a hotter girlfriend than ALL OF US in college. Chick was a legit 9. Beautfiul personality, blone hair, blue eyes, perky nipples, the works. Great girl. Married a guy about 15 years older than her which gives me hope for us all. Anyway a lot of this too depends on your community. If you're Jewish, Asian, or Indian - your average height is significantly lower. 5'5 might be AVERAGE for an Indian and 5'2 might be the 5'7 of white people. So it's not …
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 06:53 PM
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Dude I’m 5-7 1/2, I’ve gotten to at least second base on more than half the first dates I’ve ever been on. Particularly on swipe apps. Never mention my height before or in my profile. The average guy in the USA is 5-9. Half the population is under that. 25th percentile is 5-7. Girls don’t give a shit unless they’re abnormally tall. Ie they want you to be taller than them. If she wants you to be taller than her in 4 inch heels, skip it, she’s a bitch and you’re better off. Honestly you guys are f…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/21 03:33 PM
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The red pill is a toolbox. It’s very useful in moderate doses but deadly if taken to autistic levels. Maybe find out what prompted him to get into this in the first place and address the most glaring issues.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/21 11:12 PM
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I like to talk every day. I tend to prefer the phone, much more personal. I'm fine texting during the day a few times as long as its not this rhythmic respond every 10 minutes for an hour bullshit. As far as starting it I really think once you start dating you fall into a rhythm. Like I really wouldn't want to even have to think about it. Generally I'll let her start it unless I haven't talked to her all day or am thinking of her or something happens I want to tell her about.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 05:35 PM
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If you were dating me I would assume weren’t interested 🤷‍♂️. Some girls like texting a lot, some less. I like some but not 24 hours a day. I mean most of my dude friends I go multiple days without speaking to, even my closest ones so. Yeah a lot of guys aren’t used to traditionally minded girls and unfortunately you have to realize that’s the dating mannerisms of the country you live in. Talk to whoever you’re on a date with and figure it out. Don’t be all gung ho stick to your guns, dudes don’…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/21 03:20 AM
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Can someone make a TLDR. I got bored. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/21 02:53 AM
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There’s a really good YouTube channel called The Nomad Capitalist. Highly recommended. Even tho I wanna stuff the guy in a locker. Lots of good info on places to go, tax rules and strategy overseas, etc.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/21 09:51 AM
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Some people are very self interested. They tend to be greedy and egotistical. Probably good to distance yourself anyway. I don’t think you should stop trying to stop that stuff in the future, maybe not with this chick, she seems like a lost cause. Still that’ll make her think twice about it and spreading good in the world is never a bad thing. You could always anonymously tell her boyfriend and the dudes wife if you want. I think burner phones are like $15 at Walmart.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 08:26 AM
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I mean you’re not the one causing the drama. In my opinion the guys wife at the very least deserves to know, as does your friends boyfriend, particularly if they get engadged. That said I can’t say I live up to my own ideals on this one. I do take the opportunity to try to teach my friends when the opportunity arises and get them to stop being shitty people. Guys and girls. About a 0% success rate so far.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/21 07:48 AM
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This man deserves a PhD in psychology
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 03:32 AM
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Y’all should make a sidebar archive with these
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/21 09:37 PM
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Yeah you know before even reading your comment I was thinking it might be a little much
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/21 05:26 AM
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This IS Australia. Idk if you’ve been seein what they’re doing about the Chinavirus over there but I saw a meme today that said “Worlds Largest Prison” and it was a map of Australia. Nothing those people do would surprise me at this point and I wouldn’t take it as seriously as if it were happening elsewhere. Still not a good development tho.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/21 04:40 AM
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Agreed. Lift while you have the muscle mass underneath. Much easier to keep than to regrow afterward. Big compound movements. Squats, deadlift, pull-up. Don’t bother with the chest you’re not a dude. Lose 1lb a week - moderate pace to prevent sagging. Eat lots i Okkk f omega 3s and protein for skin. If you need a breast lift after, have it done. That would be my biggest complaint about formerly fat girls. That said they tend to have good attitudes and sweet personalities. Losing a little weight …
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/21 05:30 AM
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I think so. And if it takes time, be patient. You chose this guy for a reason. Just because you’ve had bad experiences doesn’t mean your future ones will be bad too. Maybe this will be your future role model of something working itself out
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/21 04:55 AM
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Agreed. Therapy can help you. Alcoholism is genetic, you either have the gene or you don’t. Not that everyone with the gene will be an alcoholic but for many people it’s not nearly the same risk it likely was for your father. You’re right, it isn’t fair to judge him based on your past experiences. Have him talk to someone, help him through his work stress and the alcohol will likely take care of itself.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/21 06:53 PM
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To a degree your dynamic is going to be that you’re the more assertive one. That seems to be how you two naturally are. My guess is you like this dynamic between you but not when he has to deal with other people. You’re going to have to work on that with him. Building his confidence and get him comfortable with saying no to people. He sounds like he has serious issues with his mom. A therapist would probably help. She sounds like a piece of work. That said he should be the one standing up to her…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/21 10:52 PM
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I would say that’s an almost certainty
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 01:52 PM
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OT sucks up a lot let me tell you that. When I had one I barely had the energy to do anything except work, eat, and sleep. Possible there’s something related he can do instead but don’t under estimate how tough some of that work can be. Especially construction. I’m sure he still likes the things he used to, probably doesn’t have the energy to do them. As for getting fat - we’ll that should be easy enough. He’s working a physical job he’s gonna burn 3-4000 calories a day. I slimmed down 50 lbs at…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 01:21 PM
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A man whose working hard isn’t gonna be able to “perform” for you 24-7. Sorry. He might have been easier going cuz he wasn’t stressed all the time. I would suggest not spending his money on dumb shit, saving up, and buying investment property so you can keep the time he has to spend doing this to a minimum. Seriously tho, a guy working a physical job is going to be BEAT. It’s what happens. Maybe work with him on the weight thing but realize someone isn’t gonna be happy go lucky all the time. May…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/21 06:00 AM
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Like a big party school. Not a universal rule but trends. Right we see one or two warning signs it’s probably coincidence. You start seein 7-8 things, she’s probably a little ho ho
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 03:17 AM
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Aaah. Here we go. Truthmosis 24 signs she’s a slut. Absolute Classic. https://www.returnofkings.com/16837/24-signs-shes-a-slut
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 08:55 PM
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This is half true. Innocent looking girls are total whores half the time. But it doesn’t work the opposite way. You can see a slut a half mile away. Sometimes she has a slut face, tattoos, hoop earrings, etc. A lot of times other behavioral characteristics give it away - dopamine addicts of any sort are gonna tend to be slutty, impulse control, girls with confidence, daddy, or mental issues, girls who are 5s or 6s, liberals, arts majors, girls who went to a state university. There was a really g…
/r/TheRedPill14/08/21 08:53 PM
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Yeah I mean if you do social events like that just make a budget that won’t take away from your other goals and say I have X amount of money for this a month and don’t go over it. Maybe you get a sandwich and water if you’re running low or something. Or pick up a side hustle to cover the social budget
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 04:50 PM
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I bitch at people about finances constantly and might be the most frugal guy on Reddit. That kind of debt isn’t bad debt. You sound like you’re making all the right moves. You’re on the right path. Keep with it and you’ll be where you wanna be In no time. That said, start applying other places. Don’t quit your job but if it’s low pay and a dying company - get out! On the spend side there’s almost always ways to cut costs. I buy banana republic clothes at goodwill for $5 for example. Groceries ca…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/21 11:40 AM
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Does this involve that updated privacy notice we got today? Has anyone considered a discord server?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/21 12:17 AM
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Wait seriously? What garbage. Eff that. Imma move to Saudi Arabia.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 02:52 AM
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Red Pill men don’t give a shit what a woman does. I’d rather date a girl who works in a cake shop than the Secretary of State. Careers involving nurturing are attractive. I also don’t mind science chicks or girls in the arts. If she’s a lawyer, recruiter, used car salesman, network marketer, or uses her looks to make money in any way - im looking at you waitresses who leave an extra button open to get more in tips - forget it.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 12:19 AM
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You could always get a prenup…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 12:13 AM
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You could always get a prenup…
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 12:13 AM
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Yeah Well... This is Why Alexander Dugin wants to nuke us
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 08:38 PM
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Not that I would ever get a vasctemy. But If I did I would totally find a broad like this and play dumb. After the 40th "Be my babys daddy" with her legs wrapped around me still can't figure out what the fuck is up
/r/TheRedPill02/08/21 08:38 PM
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Oh and don't bang a ton of dudes in the mean time.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 12:20 AM
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Well those are two good places to start. I can't stress how vital therapy can be for those who need to go. That frankly should be your #1 priority. Weight loss you're gonna wanna target about 100 lbs + 5 for every inch over 5 foot. Bmi in the 20-25 range. That's an ideal not a cutoff. I'd go maybe 10-15 pounds heavier depending on how it's laid out on the girl. Muscular is good. Girls who lift are literally the sexiest chicks on the planet. Just don't look like a bodybuilder. Which you're not go…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 12:17 AM
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So you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife. Glad science is finally catching up.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/21 12:24 AM
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I mean… what you don’t?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 03:43 AM
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I like this guy. Keep em.
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/21 03:34 AM
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If you just relapsed you could have been in a flatline. That’ll do it every time.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/21 02:32 AM
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Speak for yourself. Who the fuck Is Kevin Smith? I skipped your whole discussion of he man halfway through because it was boring me.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/21 05:49 AM
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I mean I think you can be pro black people but not necessarily support the marxist shit show that is BLM. I don’t know if he likes you he likes you. I wouldn’t worry too much about it. The guys willing to date a black girl so he can’t be that bad. I personally never take a girl to dinner on the first date. Kinda how girls don’t wanna be used for sex dudes want to know girls like them for them and aren’t trying to take them for a ride. If we eat it’ll be a picnic or a more casual spot. Think $1.1…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/21 03:46 PM
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I’d suggest nofap over edging. It has its place but best practice that with your girl. Or without the porn. Porn will ruin your mind son.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/21 11:20 PM
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I read about this. Girls apparently prefer more of a brad Pitt fight club physique than an Arnold terminator one. Forget where I saw it at. Even Dom Mazetti says once you hit a certain size the only people who are gonna be impressed are other dudes. Men think being huge is better but girls actually find being cut to be more attractive. Which makes sense really. Bodybuilders who are lifting for sarcoplasmic hypertrophy are basically a bunch of puffy pussies. It’s muscle that sits there looks pret…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 10:47 PM
1

Quit being a fuckin doomer. Yeah it’s skewed. But so is your perception. Yes. This girl is still below you. The guys she bangs - she can’t keep. She’s ruining herself for men at her own level. Just because a girl can bang a really good looking guy…. We’ll that doesn’t mean you should be relegated to fucking fatties.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/21 01:29 AM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP26/06/21 09:17 PM
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Girls with boyfriends are a no win scenario. Scenario A - you get the girl. Now you got yourself a girl who cheats and or leaves her boyfriend for other dudes. Congratulations. She'll leave you for the same reasons eventually. Don't get too attached or cry when she does. Scenario B - She proves herself to be an upstanding chick. Problem is... you don't get the girl... It's a lose lose. Unless you're the kind of dude who wants to break up a couple cuz you wanna get your dick wet which I can't con…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 04:08 PM
3

Listen to uncle Thad. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=5g-TkEF2iVA
/r/askTRP21/06/21 01:30 AM
9

Age. Dick Count. Gonna make me read an entire paragraph and not spill the goods…
/r/askTRP21/06/21 12:50 AM
1

Second this. If you like the dude and can be friends, then he’s your bro now and you keep him close. Bros respect the bro code. If you don’t like the dude and don’t wanna make him your bro… YOU TELL YOUR GF YOU DONT LIKE THE MOTHERFUCKER… She’ll then either hang with him some more or stop. Then you’ll have your answer.
/r/askTRP19/06/21 03:02 PM
0

Yeah I don’t think I’ve had a single instance where she looked better without clothes than with them. I say we should sue for false advertising
/r/askTRP19/06/21 02:45 PM
7

Unpopular opinion - take the 31 year old bro. She sounds like a great gal. I think you innately know this.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 07:38 AM
13

Dude here. This 100%. The girl who makes me a better man is a gem you can’t ignore
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/21 07:12 AM
1

Go to the nofap sub. You’ll have to stay away from porn for a long time. Your brain WILL re-wire eventually. Also check out yourbrainonporn.com
/r/askTRP15/06/21 04:12 PM
5

I'm gonna cite Roosh here. Water Takes the Shape of the Container that it fills. Find you a nice religious girl. Failing that. A Nice country girl. Preferably once who hasn't taken too many dicks. Set up that tinder profile so that the wrong type of girl isn't gonna be interested. Don't show off money or you'll wind up with a gold digger. Don't do shirtless pics unless you want a girl who just wants to fuck. Maybe some nice pictures of you with your family or a dog. Don't try to meet girls at ba…
/r/askTRP15/06/21 06:41 AM
3

Yes.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 02:47 AM
1

Military guys tend to marry early. If you’re joining the service and she says she’ll understand, she probably will. Plenty of military wives have dealt with the distance in the past and there are all kind of groups for military wives. Women many times treat military men different.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 04:33 PM
1

Usually yes. Sometimes the nerves bite ya tho
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:36 AM
2

Why not so strength / myofibrilliar hypertrophy as opposed to sarcoplasmic. Do like 3x3 and compliment your mma
/r/askTRP06/06/21 07:34 AM
3

That’s actually the best plan I’ve seen in this thread. I concur the analysis. A gay friend is still an emotional attachment to a dude. In my opinion it’s more of a red flag than a threat. Like she sees that behavior as ok, and he’s going to be a bad influence on her. Shoulda nipped it earlier but yeah. Impossible choice. If it’s serious, then tell her she’s gotta drop him. But then you’re the insecure little bitch. What you need is a REASON to hate on the guy. Maybe start shit and accuse him of…
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:37 AM
1

The entirety of reddit aside from the red pill subs are full of sjws...
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:29 AM
2

Down to 16 is legal till you’re 20 in many states
/r/askTRP05/06/21 04:21 AM
6

I mean... is it working?
/r/askTRP03/06/21 04:52 AM
2

I haven’t noticed any girls I actually know going that route. Of course trash repulses me so I don’t stick around too long
/r/askTRP01/06/21 12:51 PM
9

Agreed. Your mental state plays a role. As does keeping stress down, supplements, sleep, diet, and gym. Also I’d suggest Praying to the big guy
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 06:10 AM
1

You’re in love dumbshit. Don’t fuck it up.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:13 PM
2

Yeah when did we start bashing restaurants. What the shit. I love most of the places around here. Not wanting to be used for food I get it but don’t bash every food place in America. Holy shit
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:02 PM
1

👐👐
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:07 PM
0

Not your beginner gains. Also if he had muscle before and lost it
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:13 AM
1

It’s water dude. Carbs bind to water molecules abs if you’re eating like you should for lifting ie carbs + brotein and little fat you’ll retain more water. Salt will do it too. 11 lbs is 38,500 calories. So unless you’re eating an extra 1800 cals a day I wouldn’t think much of it
/r/askTRP26/05/21 07:11 AM
3

I would be a smartass and ask her if she wants to show ya. But do it while your gf is reading the convo so she doesn’t think you’re serious
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:57 AM
3

Put yourself on the pedistal instead of the girl. And chill dude. Giggles = good
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:52 AM
2

Yeah well... British people are more polite
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:37 AM
6

This is the way
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:36 AM
4

I do the same Shit. Except I’m a sadistic asshole and thoroughly enjoy it. Scares the crap out of the dude every time. Unfortunately it also makes your woman think you’re dangerous. Which I mean... hey I told her what she was getting into. Not my problem if she doesn’t believe me.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 06:22 AM
16

Has to be. Or a rum punch fueled gangbang on a Caribbean island.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:42 AM
1

Whelp. You’re on the right forum. Chin up buddy. I and many others were once in your shoes. It gets better. Girls rn are the hottest they’ll ever be and you’re gonna be frustrated cuz they’re banging the football team. I’d suggest adopting a “fuck it” attitude as soon as possible. Fuck it. You’re gonna graduate. Who cares what these people think. You’ll learn. Go have fun. Never forget. A mans potential is limitless. You make something of yourself you can have all the girls you want. Dudes your …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:11 AM
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I mean eventually you’re gonna realize you’re masterbating in vaginas. Not to go all Roosh on you here but long term love, god, family and children are a hell of a lot better than sticking your dick in everything that moves. Now if only we could get them to legalize adding a new 20 year old wife every 5 years or so like they do in Utah it’d be perfect. The old ones can wash the clothes
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:06 AM
5

You win the internet today
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:02 AM
-1

I said a bang bang bangadie bang
/r/askTRP24/05/21 09:01 AM
7

Eeeeh. She’s domesticating you. I assume you been datin a while? Sounds like my ex. It’s all part of the normal progression. The betaization. It’s like 25% Shit test 25% comfort test 25% you fucked either way. It’s an “I like you but this is how i want my relationship”. Short term brownie points but stay on the ladder too long and she’ll lose respect for you and then she’ll start suckin dick again. Except it won’t be yours. Gotta try and act more alpha in some capacity, take charge, maybe lift? …
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:57 AM
1

This is a her not you thing. Mostly. Listen. She’s not over him. You’re her “I need to think about someone else”. Don’t think about it too much. But yeah getting too hot on the phone can be bad. You can do some of that ahead of time but not too much. Like you gotta talk and get along with her too. Try that in person. Probably you need to build more trust and connection with her. Try watching less porn, it’ll help you socialize with girls better and not get too horned up too fast
/r/askTRP24/05/21 08:19 AM
13

“I’m lying to make you feel better”. Said with a smile and a laugh will deliver better results than simping. Every. Single. Time. Bonus points if it sounds like the professor in futurama. The point is tell the truth. Always. Never give in. Saying you felt sorry would have been fine, IF YOU ACTUALLY DID. Really lying cheapens your word when you do tell the truth. Sympathizing isn’t bad. But don’t do it too often. And be genuine when you do it. And don’t lie and say you are when you aren’t. I don’…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/21 06:15 PM
21

Have you tried improving and seeing where it got you? I promise it works. Don’t read that bullshit, it’ll poison your mind.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/21 03:09 PM
2

As a rule If I’m put on the spot I never do what I’m being pressured to do. Even if I want to. Out of principle. Always take the time to think it over. Whether it’s a pushy salesman, a girl, a dude, anyone who wants you to do something you weren’t gonna do. Never do it. The opportunity will still be there. Or if it isn’t it wasn’t meant for you and you’ll find another one anyway. Even if it’s a real estate deal or something. If your gut is telling you to hang on a minute, listen to it.
/r/askTRP15/05/21 03:02 AM
32

Keep it up my man. Look ahead never back
/r/askTRP15/05/21 02:59 AM
0

Find a religious girl
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:50 AM
8

The first half of this felt a little gay, not gonna lie.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/21 02:51 AM
4

u/compofoggyclegg OP has a girlfriend. He'll fuck her when his reboot is complete. I agree the people on there can go a little bonkers after a period of time. I can't really speak for the efficacy of years long celebacy. I always fuck it up before that. I can say the end goal is to be having sex and not using porn. As far as masterbation with your own thoughts if you don't have a girl, I go back and forth. Certainly not in excess. I think there may be something to T levels dropping without ever …
/r/askTRP06/05/21 04:13 PM
50

Try the nofap sub. Cut porn first if you’re using that. I don’t see a reason to cut sex unless you wanna go hardcore with your 90 days but your chicks gotta be ok with it.
/r/askTRP06/05/21 11:22 AM
1

I’m gonna break with all the other commenters. I think it was a good idea. But she failed miserably. I notice this with the people in my own life. People only wanna be around you when they’re benefiting but god forbid you ever need anything... Best find out when in a situation you don’t actually need her for. People are self absorbed or don’t want anything to do with it if they don’t get their dopamine hit right away. Slut tells also check for this: ie coffee addict, instant gratification, etc. …
/r/askTRP05/05/21 01:39 AM
5

Self sabotage is classic BPD. Could also be the effects of complex trauma. Really very similar effects. If you love her or want to make it work for your daughter I would start by having her seek counseling. It’s not hopless but know it’s a journey you’ll have to help her with. The key here is she actually has to be willing to go. And put the effort in. Like it’s a lot of hard work but if she does the issues should stop and you’ll likely end up liking her more. That said she has to be willing.
/r/askTRP04/05/21 03:34 AM
21

Seriously. Long hair + don’t be fat + don’t do anything to intentionally screw it up and you’re ahead of 75% of the crowd. By intentionally screw it up I mean lesbian hair cuts, unnatural hair colors, tattoos (100% unattractive 100% of the time) piercings that don’t involve your ears. Some chicks can do bellybutton, tongue and nipples and it’s hot but I’d assume you get around a lot. Beyond that wear form fitting clothes - no t shirts or flip flops , throw a little makeup on and call it a day. N…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 03:49 PM
26

100% this. Every single girl I’ve developed feelings for since I was 23 or so has been from the counties surrounding my city. In the little towns about an hour from here surrounded by farmville. Girls from the city and suburbs.... really they’re too crass, mannish, bitchy, and have too high of expectations. Find you a country girl. Note, some of em I found out after the fact they were from like bumfuck nowhere and moved to town when they were like 10. Literally without exception. Find you a coun…
/r/askTRP03/05/21 12:35 PM
3

This was pretty much on point until you started talking about suicide. Then it got real dumb real fast. Look. You’re gonna have to do a few things. 1 - make absolutely SURE you’re ok with a dude who makes significantly less than you. 2 - find a dude who doesn’t give a shit. Maybe an artist or musician type or a stable guy who fine being a stay at home dad. Like you’re gonna have to actually hold the feminist premise and not think of him as disposable which is going to be very hard. You’ll have t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/21 09:01 PM
1

This. Wouldn’t mention it. But time to start acting more aloof and less responsive to her.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 07:34 PM
2

Platonic male friends either A -aren’t attracted to you, B - have a girlfriend or wife - actually.... we’ll your female friends boyfriends are probably safe... maybe. Actually.... welll. Anyway C is you guys hooked up in the past and don’t have a desire to again. Basically if he isn’t attracted to you. That’s about it. Plus side - you’ve got male cousins so there’s that.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/21 01:15 AM
1

No. Call him out for having a dick measuring contest and make him look like the little insecure shit he is Edit: the more vulgar the better. Tap the guy next to you and ask for a tape measure. Then say “on 3 drop em” “oh you didn’t wanna have a dick measuring contest. Oh. Ok whatever man I was going with what you were doin but we good”. I suppose it’s a derivative of A&A
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:28 PM
5

I’m stealing that 10 10 10 10 thing.
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:28 PM
9

Don’t get attached
/r/askTRP27/04/21 08:25 PM
24

Call her a whore and threaten to never talk to her again. You’re her kid. You have more pull than literally any other male on this planet, your father likely included. But... you may have to follow through
/r/askTRP26/04/21 01:35 AM
2

Send that shit. But remember Thad Castles 3 rules https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=C3ph7a-dS08
/r/askTRP23/04/21 04:45 PM
1

If you think you can avoid drama by only sleeping with hookers...
/r/askTRP23/04/21 01:57 PM
1

Seconded. How easy is this job to replace. If this is a dime a dozen job, fuck it, go for it bro. Nail every pussy in that office and peace. Make sure you got in good with the boss for a good rec for the next one tho 😉
/r/askTRP21/04/21 06:17 PM
1

I wouldn’t worry about it unless his dick has been inside of her at some point
/r/askTRP20/04/21 02:37 PM
1

I used to be like that. No fucks given attitude helps. But the REAL cure is becoming a dude who knows who the fuck he is. I still get those shakes sometimes. Then I remember “I’m fuckin me” and then it stops. Takes years of doing shit to build that up tho.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:48 PM
4

If you go for a direct day approach then move on. I’d say indirect day game works WAY better. Ask her what she thinks of the pomegranates and feel her out. Convo dies you have an answer.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:46 PM
4

No. She’s a batshit crazy liberal. Stop dating them. Wear a MAGA hat on the first date to screen these people out. Will save you a lot of time and hassle later
/r/askTRP19/04/21 06:40 PM
2

Call ICE
/r/askTRP19/04/21 02:18 AM
1

Get out of your own head
/r/askTRP16/04/21 01:30 AM
1

I’d say the girl with male friends is worse. But this is a tough call
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:48 AM
5

God doesn’t take kindly to seducing religious girls. Best stick with whores unless you want something serious
/r/askTRP13/04/21 02:47 AM
167

They key is not taking this shit to autistic levels
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:31 PM
4

I second this. Definitely dd/lg. She needs to learn where and when this is appropriate (when you two are alone) and when it isn’t (in public). You gotta draw the line now son, BEFORE you lose control
/r/askTRP12/04/21 06:11 PM
6

Why are you fucking a 32 year old
/r/askTRP12/04/21 08:30 AM
-9

Elliott Hulse, Kayne
/r/askTRP12/04/21 07:17 AM
2

I mean.... How bad we talkin? Some dudes are gonna care a lot aren’t. Like other people said the worst thing you can do is lie. If a chick told me a number and it was somewhere in the middle I might at least deal with it but if she lied about it, then what else is she lying about you know. Take it as an opportunity to show how you’ve grown up. Besides, if it was only boyfriends, unless you’re that chick with a new one every two weeks, it can’t be THAT bad.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/21 07:50 PM
9

He’s absolutely. Good advice. And fuck his brains out. Also. Puerto Rico is wide open for travel. Friend of mine just went for a month with his new wife.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/21 10:23 PM
3

Can we get a pin on this? Maybe include it in the weekly prayer service?
/r/TheRedPill09/04/21 04:25 PM
74

I really bombed that one in college. Defiantly a finer point. Asshole game = good. Asshole without social finesse = everyone just thinks you’re an asshole
/r/TheRedPill07/04/21 06:45 AM
1

It’s one element but it’s not the whole game
/r/askTRP05/04/21 03:51 AM
2

3 men is fine. Don’t go on one night stand Post breakup spree because you’re single now. Try to keep it to long term partners as much you can and no one will fault you. How much was he making before and what would the new job have paid may I ask? Was this a career shift? Would it have been a more stressful job? I had a friend take a job going from 50-70k but the stress he endures isn’t worth it. I advised him to take his old job back. Sometimes there are reasons for not wanting to move up and it…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/21 07:27 PM
5

Looks like the boomers have infiltrated the sub
/r/TheRedPill29/03/21 05:01 PM
4

I’ve always said if I was rich I’d rent a 1 bedroom apartment and buy a used beater car and pretend to live there / drive it soooooooo. If she’s a ltr. You want a women who loves you for you, not your money.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 02:01 AM
3

Well.... Electrical engineering would be a good way to go 😂😂. My suggestions would be to first NOT waste any more money till you know what you’re gonna do. Second. Take what you can at community college and invest the savings (stocks, real estate, your own businesses, etc). Third - wealth isn’t about how much you make. It’s about how much you spend. Plenty of plumbers have bigger bank accounts than doctors or lawyers. Money made - money spent x growth. Living is a lot cheaper than you think it i…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 05:43 PM
48

Does drinking at Starbucks count? Cuz you gonna get a lot a basic white girls doin that
/r/askTRP24/03/21 01:13 PM
36

Girls are hotter. Trends that were already happening get accelerated. Like if a friend was pisisng you off you’re gonna tell him to eff off. You’ll stop pussyfooting around with girls. I also notice a dopamine surge by the end of the day. Low dop levels early on but super high the more stuff you actually do. And more aggression. Less calm. You almost wanna figure out how to boost serotonin to offset some of it because it can be a bit much.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 06:09 AM
0

First of all I can’t stand all the people whose gut reaction to any kind of relationship is “you can do better, break up”. These people are damaged and probably have a myriad of issues themselves. Secondly, did any of these friendships pre-date your marriage? In my opinion certain things have to be grandfathered in - if one of you was going to sleep with someone you knew before a relationship you would have done already. This does NOT apply to ex’s. Third, I agree with the poster who said it’s c…
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 05:49 AM
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