How to react when she says no right away when approaching?

TheeRickySpanish · 2021-04-19T17:07:57+00:00

Once she says no I’d move on and definitely wouldn’t take it personally. Rejection is just part of the game and over time it won’t bother you at all.

I had an old coworker who was gay and told me about what his girl friends would vent about. He said something I’ll never forget. “Generally speaking, all men who approach women they don’t know are automatically creeps. You just need to make yourself the least creepy as possible.”

The way I go about that is to have a reason to talk to them and keep things super casual. Here’s an example, I might notice she’s wearing a watch and say that my cousins birthday is coming up and would love a watch like that, and then I ask where she got it. Then we start talking about other stuff, a few minutes goes by, I pull out my phone and say “Well I’ve got to run but it was nice talking to you. We should grab a drink sometime, what’s your phone number?”

btt069 · 2021-04-19T16:33:19+00:00

Get rejected 100 times, you will get your answer boy.

TheDevilPutD · 2021-04-19T16:38:01+00:00

Just shrug your shoulders and go on with your day.

55LostBeCause6 · 2021-04-19T17:16:45+00:00

You're too direct. No game. No charisma.

Let me tell my supermarket story from a month ago. So im in the laundry detergent section and i see this mexican milf with hella ass and titties. She's smelling the different laundry detergents to see which ones she likes. So i said "there's so many options to choose from i dont know what to get. You seem like you know your laundry detergents." And then conversation kept going. Ran some game on her. She asked me for my number and then fucked her that same night.

And to this day i still use her laundry detergent recommendation lmao

Moral of the story. Create a scenario and then control the scenario.

themasterg69 · 2021-04-19T18:24:36+00:00

You say "ok" with a confused kinda smile and you move on up and leave.

Ethman2k9 · 2021-04-19T18:46:08+00:00

If you go for a direct day approach then move on. I’d say indirect day game works WAY better. Ask her what she thinks of the pomegranates and feel her out. Convo dies you have an answer.

Game_Tight2020 · 2021-04-19T16:43:02+00:00

You went direct and got shot down. That is why opening direct is so fucking stupid. Not optimal at all. Not game.

Should have went Indirect and built it up from there.

I’ll let you in on a secret. You will never get a hard no rejection from a indirect opener. This will buy you time to build up the attraction. Get your foot in the door.

ManTheFudgeUp4 · 2021-04-19T21:32:02+00:00

It is known to happen from time to time but I think you did the right thing.

Approaching is about finding girls who are available. Which is only 30% usually. So you're going to get rejected 7/10 times without screening

Mustbeaight · 2021-04-19T19:24:37+00:00

Hi hello.. first time someone on this sub actually says hello before starting to talk

SeasonedRP · 2021-04-19T22:24:04+00:00

Good job on approaching girls. Don't worry about the rejection. It happens. You should feel good that you are taking the initiative to do approaches. As you do more of them, you'll get a feel for when to say more and when to walk away. I think you handled this situation just fine.

EHPimpNamedSlickBack · 2021-04-19T17:16:19+00:00

K, next.

_Tumbleweedz_ · 2021-04-19T19:37:44+00:00

Smile, laugh, nod, and move on.

QPRCHOC · 2021-04-19T20:30:55+00:00

The best way to react is just not to react.

You should be entirely independent of her answer.

RedEyeBlackEye1 · 2021-04-20T00:56:34+00:00

"f#$k you... stankass b@#$h!" As loud as possible to make a scene. Then punch a wall to let her know you mean business. If that doesn't work, slide your thumb across your neck(in slitting motion) while staring menacingly into her eyes.

That'll show her. /Jk'ing

Edit:

Honestly though, she did you a favor. Move on, forget she ever even existed. Work on your self Improvement, ESPECIALLY looks, hair, facial hair, grooming, posture, swagger, charisma, and frame/game(they're yin and yang).

hellionmma · 2021-04-19T17:44:05+00:00

Girls will do this just to instantly screen alphas from betas. If every guy that walked up to her wanted to talk she wouldn’t have a free minute.

Re-open with something like “hey hang on, I’m xyz nice to meet you”. Show a little entitlement.

However, with that being said some girls are just assholes and aren’t worth the time. But if you wanna try that next time it may turn around some of the instant rejections.

michael1962-01 · 2021-04-19T19:23:27+00:00

Hey. I like...... - not the best one

A strict "no" is ok.

Title	How to react when she says no right away when approaching?
Author	InspoBreach
Upvotes	14
Comments	55
Date	April 19, 2021 4:24 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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