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I'm tagging you "disease dong douchebag" Well it's good to know you keep track of descriptions of penis. Keep that hobby up. FYI - 1) Asymptomatic, doesn't mean disease free. 2) Getting a negative result on a generic STD/STI test doesn't mean you're free of infection. 3) You don't show detectable antibodies for diseases until after 3-6 months after infection. 4) enjoy keeping track of infected penises 5) No such thing as 100% certified disease-free, unless you have skin grafts. And then you'd on…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 06:42 PM
-1

Who said I didn't say that?
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:40 PM
-4

You must think asymptomatic means you don't have the disease. Wait until you get sick and the infection appears. Good day sir. Plus, it's cute you think you can take a woman at her word and assume she tells you the correct number of partners she's been with. TooCute4me
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 05:40 PM
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So... not sure what this is debating. I don't care about the number of partners a women has. I'm banging them because I want to bang them. Is this telling me not to bang sluts anymore? Nah, I'm good. I didn't want babies anyways, so them being infertile doesn't hurt me one bit. And I definitely don't want any LTRs so wtf do I care about how many people they banged. Is this just ammo for the debate of "the past is the past"? Cause I couldn't care less about the past. Don't be judging me on mine, …
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:43 PM
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Lol @ the guy touching your girl and she says no. And then you bang his girl. Lol so stupid, if they had a relationship like yours his girl would've said it's a no-go if he can't participate. Obv beta. Most swingers are old/ugly and very few hot/crazy. The few young couples I see are mostly ugly gay/bi dudes with a hot gf. Or black guys with white gf. I don't know why but that's the combo out in the Suburbs of LA.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 02:05 AM
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oh... okay. Then you win. Bro love.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 05:07 PM
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So, go find an LTR and not worry about what sluts do. But, don't think your LTR material wasn't a slut, or a reformed slut from back in the day. She wiped spooge off her chin just like all the other sluts. Thing is, IGAF. If you were my friend, and you brought her around, and you liked her, and she was chill. I wouldn't give a fuck, cause you're my friend, and you're happy. But you want to think that somehow her being a slut is bad. Okay. I just don't give a fuck about people's past, cause they …
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 03:45 PM
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I think it's really hard to find true bro's in life (best friends) and very easy to have a bunch of associates and loose friends. That's what I meant. As you get older, this just tends to drop off man. You heave to realize, you made your best friends when all you had to do was some hw and go home and play. As an adult, you got work, bills, if you're trying to keep fit you exercise, if your like working on your car you do that... It's part of being an adult. You lose out on people because people …
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:35 PM
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But they want to marry them and give up a % of their pay for half the length of the marriage? If you want a loyal woman, date girls who are virgins. You'll be their first puppy/true love. Notice your choice of word "sloots" referring to women in a demeaning manner. Why don't you just call them "human beings"? Is it cause you resent their evolutionary advantage at being easy to get sexual partners? Are you really criticizing something that comes so easily to her? Do you demean yourself because yo…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 11:29 PM
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If you want female friends, then don't look for them on Tinder. If you want female friends, then you can find them anywhere and them being "gross" is irrelevant. You're there for friendship not to be judgmental. If you don't have male friends, then go find hobbies and make friends. If you don't have male friends at the "level" you're expecting, stop being judgmental. All this could be avoided if you stopped being judgmental, and enjoyed people for who they were and not some caliber you want them…
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:42 PM
1

Perhaps there's no need for LTR in red pill.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/15 03:40 PM
1

So people want LTRs with women who aren't "gross"... go to church. Problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 10:56 PM
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All girls are well-groomed horses in clubs. It's the social pressure. Donkeys can become horses with makeup, heels, and a nice outfit. OP is asking for unicorn. Because OP is looking for "good quality" women with gf potential. Why is he asking in this sub for gf potential? He either likes a girl and makes her his gf, or maybe he only likes her if she's a virginesque female? He should date muslim women. #problemSolved
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:27 PM
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Jesus christ this is the only post on here pointing out the real stuff. What's up with these dudes seeking relationships in TRP? When did it all go down hill? That "good girl" you met at the library got fucked on a bar-stool last week. This. Always. If you can't accept that a girl is going to whore it out for her to gain assets and or value, or just cause she's horny, then I don't think OP gets TRP. Worthwhile companionship isn't as easy as finding a woman and putting your dick in her - it invol…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:22 PM
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not worthy anymore wtf does that even mean? You mean, not worthy of sticking your penis in them? Was it hunting? In an art gallery? Walking down the street? All these girls also go clubbing and suck the peepee and whore it up. So where exactly are the hidden gems that seem to possess good quality women? Wtf are you talking about? Marriage? Kids? Gf? Girls who been f'd by less than 5 guys? I'm confused, when did TRP become about LTRs?? You want friendship? Make friends with males. Get hobbies. wt…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/15 08:22 PM
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Roosh --> Travelling other countries so I can pick up pussy easier, where english is exotic.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/15 04:51 PM
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Yes it's real. You should buy stuff from this guy and take him up on guitar lessons.
/r/becomeaman14/07/15 11:28 PM
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That girl's a prostitute? I follow her on instagram... Also, he paid twice to jerk himself off. And then went to use tinder. Not sure if this is satire.
/r/MGTOW22/04/15 03:26 PM
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I'd keep her as a side piece. But I have no moral stigma on cheating, and that's simply because I assume people will always cheat so don't judge/criticize them for it.
/r/askTRP11/11/13 07:05 AM
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Lol yeah that's why I was confused, good post tho
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 01:11 AM
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Comment on techniques and shit i should do TRP Seems like you got it down. I rarely find black dudes, or ppl from the east coast (yeah, I consider chicago east coast, so what?) who don't have game at some level. It's just the environment that builds it into you. good post, had to read through like 3 times cause did not understand why you were giving bottle advice on the subway. wtf? Thought you had a company that did this lol
/r/TheRedPill03/10/13 12:24 AM
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Well, I don't have with rejection, I just like it. Doesn't mean it's an issue, or effects my self-esteem, I see it as a game. The one doing the rejecting is winning. But good post, I like it. Thanks man :D
/r/TheRedPill28/09/13 12:24 AM
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Well if you're bad at sex, then I guess they do. Stop giving them attention if it doesn't bring you sex. It's always pay-to-play.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/13 12:13 AM
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Number 1, learn dancing if you're willing to take the lead like OP. If you're gonna be shy and not use this tool, then it wouldn't make sense to take the time/money/patience to learn. I know how to dance, took lots of classes in different styles, but it took me longer to realize it's not the dancing that gets the girls (although it helps) it's the control/initiation you take. That is all. Glad someone else is promoting bachata: Protip: you can never go wrong learning how do dance Latin dances, i…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 09:39 PM
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Don't talk about red pill with a woman who seems secure enough to talk about it. You will lose and look like an asshole. Any opposition to females will make you look like an asshole. It's your disregard for their opinions that matters, and makes them realize their opinions of you are valueless. I tried to prove the theory based on the relationship stories a nice lady was telling over drinks. Never talk logic to women. It's your fault for not keeping up passionate, exciting, lustful convo topics.…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 09:34 PM
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So you're saying my grandfather gave me my small penis :/ That bastard!
/r/MensRights26/09/13 09:24 PM
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I've looked around and can't seem to find any strategies or tips or how to go about things. If I know a fat chick, and we're cool, how do I use my friendship with her as a way of meeting her attractive friends? My advice: Don't. It's too much of a hassle. You can't prevent her from associating the time/attention you give her to being solely due to her friends. Unless this person is blood-related, or lesbian, or so cool with you that you can openly say "hey, help me out with your friends" or "inv…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 09:19 PM
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dude deleted comment. Was it valuable advice? Or just a snide remark?
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 09:02 PM
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asking advice from a woman is like asking advice from a woman. Don't lump blind dudes in with female advice, that's just cruel.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:52 PM
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Good shit, thanks man. So need red-piller feedback: if a girl did this to me I'd want some sort of revenge cause she thought she was rejecting me and I don't like rejection, so if I too her home the 2nd time: I'd make her give me a bj Bend her over and do her the stick it in her butt and then if she tripped out, I'd be like "oh well, you can go now" and tell her to get out. Otherwise, let her suck the poopdick and when she was done I'd be like "yeah, you just sucked your own poop, that's gross. …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:48 PM
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As a dude who loves watching body language and subtle cues, I watched this on mute and just noticed what happened. I loved the fact that she kept the arm up with the dress, either protecting herself from harm or shame, and then the fact that she regresses to a child like state by staring at the floor and closing her eyes. Don't know what was said, but I pretty sure she didn't want to admit/acknowledge what was said about her. Also as a side note for you red-pillers, if she has tattoos, she puts …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:40 PM
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They missed a chance to really humiliate her. You think she doesn't know that she's a slut? I don't know about you, but I would've stuck my penis in her ass and made her suck my poop-dick, and then repeat over and over. ... but that's just me. Or let her give me a bj, and then when I was finished, present the other dude and be like "okay, now give him one" and she'd have to do it cause who doesn't crack under pressure? And then we'd laugh and laugh, and grab a beer, and tell everyone about how w…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:37 PM
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She wasn't gamed. She wanted him because she found him attractive. So she fucked him in the bathroom.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/13 08:33 PM
1

Well as an average male without health insurance, I welcome obamacare.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:29 PM
1

Well, I'd be more likely to teach women's studies courses if I could bang the student population...
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:27 PM
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Doesn't that mean the guy she slept with had a small penis? So,... wouldn't her son find someone like her?
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:13 PM
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Come over to my house bro, I'll do it for you. Bro love <3
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:12 PM
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No, they're enrolling because it's an easy major and it piques their interest. If I could get a degree in watching cartoons and action movies, I would. Don't mean I can make a career from it.
/r/MensRights26/09/13 08:12 PM
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It's an attention-whoring sub... you got banned for calling them out on their attention-whoring and advised them to stop attention-whoring which goes against their sub. Never let the puppets know they're are strings attached to them, or make them aware of the puppeteer... they'll turn on you for making them aware.
/r/MensRights03/09/13 07:49 PM
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The question comes from the records, saying the had an OBE and remember seeing a man on top of them, is hard to prove. If you had a traumatic event occur, why would you not experience it in the first person? If you have a tragic accident, do you not remember the details of the accident from your perspective? Why is it an OBE that you rely on for evidence? The other image, of the girl remembering it vividly makes more sense. It almost appears as if one of the children was molested, and the other …
/r/MensRights30/08/13 11:15 PM
1

ON the brightside... she's getting one fat paycheck in child support every month.
/r/TheRedPill30/08/13 07:38 AM
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That's why my cousin always said it's better to pick up women at the supermarkets... cause they're being the real them and not the made-up versions of them. But, the ones in bars always look so much better.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/13 04:45 AM
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If she's not cheating on you now she will be... I'd suggest getting a divorce or getting a side piece. My many mistakes here are glaringly obvious, but let this be yet another reminder that a woman with a higher partner count is going to be much more difficult to deal with in the long run. all women are hard to deal with... it's because they devalue with age and can't comprehend why they no longer get the things they got when they were younger. As they age less and less people put up with their …
/r/TheRedPill23/08/13 07:07 PM
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What gets me is that no one punishes women who sleep with drunk men.
/r/MensRights22/08/13 08:56 PM
0

In her defense he cheated on his ex-wife. And? What does cheating have to do with his ability to be a father?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 08:55 AM
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Suicide. That. is. all.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/13 08:02 AM
2

Well... I don't approach fatties anyways. So...
/r/TheRedPill11/08/13 11:21 PM
-7

Ah, I must be. Good day sir.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 10:05 AM
-9

Ah, you must bang only virgins. You must like it when they say you're the biggest they ever seen. You win.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 09:43 AM
-9

I was just helping you out. You're unhelpable.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 08:11 AM
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There's a difference between sluts and bitches. A slut is a girl who'll sleep with every guy in the room. A bitch is a girl who'll sleep with every guy in the room, except me. I think you meant to say "It's okay to dislike bitches".
/r/TheRedPill09/08/13 07:49 AM
1

Well, the type of porn i watch is simply for the shock factor... and I don't have sex that way.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/13 06:20 PM
0

How can I overcome it? Social skills, you have none. That's all it is. Be sociable and be comfortable being the center of attention
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 06:30 PM
5

thumb in pocket, fingers pointing to crotch.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/13 05:59 PM
2

I want a career that I can enjoy and not a job to support others.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/13 10:02 PM
1

then you agree.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 11:55 PM
1

I would if I felt comfortable with it. I don't see any moral issue with it, in fact I'd prefer to bang porn stars only because I know they get tested every month for stds just imo. But I don't for some reason feel comfortable with it, I never got the point of strip clubs either. I don't like the fake act of pretending to enjoy my company I guess. Just me though
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 08:25 PM
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If you're going with the subconscious, we all make decisions based on subconscious. Women just rationalize it differently.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 06:56 PM
1

Emotions. Females are more in tune with their emotions. Men are taught to ignore emotions and thus rely on logic. It's up to you to use your logic to recognize emotions.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 06:54 PM
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Nah I went back and ninja edited after I realized you were talking about your couple friend. My bad didn't reply fully at first.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 06:53 PM
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Usually there will be a mismatch in attractiveness in the husband vs the wife. (wife hotter than husband). Have you seen most women in swinging situations? Most are not attractive one bit. If they were attractive they'd be having discrete affairs. He once told me HIM and 3 other guys gang banged his wife for her birthday. In turn, he has been with multiple women at one time on several occasions. This seems like an exception to the rule. Basically you have two attractive people who swing because …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 06:47 PM
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You don't. You accept that no one should/could/would care for you the way you think/feel2 you should be cared for. Thus you pick up the slack yourself. You accept this and move on.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 06:45 PM
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you're using too much logic. you lost it.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 05:27 AM
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Lol just did... I laughed
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 04:59 AM
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No one said I'm comparing a girl who isn't attractive. I'm comparing a 10+ to an 8, an 8 is still attractive but only one of the the two is intimidating. Who do you think would get asked out more by the average bp male? butterface fatgirl with pretty face a perfect 10
/r/TheRedPill21/07/13 04:56 AM
2

It's a free .pdf, and at worst set up a free email account to get it. It's free because it's basic info that everyone (should) know about the basic workouts. It's an easy read. I avoid the standing should lifts (supposed to work out shoulders/lats) only because it makes no sense to have that much weight overhead until you're bigger and have a more stable foundation imho. I'd do lat-pulldowns/rows to compensate, but other than that seems good.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 05:02 PM
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A 5 on the street is an 8 in the club. Girls seem to think this means they're attractive. The funny thing is, if you were really attractive, most of the general male population would be too intimidated to speak to you. Women think because they're flirted with means they're attractive, but what they don't realize is guys self-rationalizing it as "yeah I have a shot with that". So when they're hit on by "losers" it's in a reality a diss. They never see it though cause they think they're hot. Also,…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 04:56 PM
2

I start bitching and whining like a bad grandma or an ungrateful spoiled kid: "This is wrong I told you don't do this like this you never listen to me yada yada yada" Complaining is always Beta because real men don't complain, they fix what needs fixing, and if it can't be fixed, they don't bother with it. Complaining is a female trait, leave it to them. Well, this was an asshole move, she did not deserve it at all after such a day. And it was not alpha at all! It was both asshole (spiteful, ung…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:08 PM
-1

and still layin pipe on 19 year olds. This is how the world actually works. My hero. I wish I had the appropriate Denzel.jpg saying "my niggah" ... manly tears of joy
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 02:56 PM
1

So you're insecure, no worries dude your average. Some girls like dudes with big dicks, some guys like girls with big tits. For everyone else, there's MasterCard.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/13 03:57 AM
1

How big is your dick? Is it micropenis size or are you just insecure about your average size?
/r/TheRedPill18/07/13 12:29 AM
1

I think it would be loyalty, and the self-imposed stigma of breaking that loyalty. The term "loyalty" doesn't relate to relationships, it means loyal to your own set or morals. in other words, op is asking why do women act with different morals? The answer is hypergamy.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:55 PM
2

It's a male trait passed on through stories/society/culture etc Women have no stories of honor or loyalty, it's not inbred in them, they don't join the military/defense/police/fire departments because of it's honorable. It's not a trait that is advantageous to them. From an evolutionary standpoint, hypergamy is the better choice. From a cultural/societal perspective, hypergamy is the better choice. women force loyalty unto men as well because it's the men that are the providers, and thus they ch…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/13 11:29 PM
2

I'm fine with it if it actually is for her beliefs, but if not than there are plenty of other women I could be dating Wtf? So you're okay not having sex with her, but if only it's because of her religion. If it's for any other reason, you don't think it's right not having sex with her? No man, if you're not going to be faithful then stop asking silly questions. If you're not going to date girls to bang them then stop asking silly questions. If you're going to date a girl who's 'religious' and th…
/r/TheRedPill10/07/13 07:35 AM
1

Age old argument, here's the solution: It's a value based system. That which requires more talent/skill has more inherent value. Therefore a woman sleeping with 100 guys is no more talent related that me taking a piss standing up a hundred times. So why should I congratulate her on this miniscule accomplishment? A man sleeping with 100 girls is a talent, because it required some sort of skill based on social stigma. To counter-point this, if a celebrity (rich and successful) or a model-looking m…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/13 12:59 AM
1

What bothers me most is that she is (or acts) oblivious to why guys always buy her things She's not oblivious, she knows. She just don't want to tell you she knows cause then you'll cause an argument over it. Should it bother me that every single day multiple guys are complimenting her and buying her things to try and get in her pants? Or am I just being insecure, and need to man up and accept any 10/10 woman is going to have guys going after her like this? Your gf is hot, what's the reason to b…
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 11:07 PM
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Low hanging fruit is easy to pick. Slump-busters. Also, depending on where you live lots of women are single mothers. If I lived somewhere where single mothers were shamed, there might not be so many, but there are lots where I live. Also, single mothers or older women aren't looking for relationships, they just want to get it in. I don't know why men get into relationships with them, that would probably be lack of confidence, but I see nothing wrong with banging those women.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 03:46 AM
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You come to the realization that most of the stuff you're learning isn't to cause you pain, but it's to prevent pain. The pain of future infidelity while you've been monogamous in marriage. The pain of finding out your children aren't yours. The pain of having to work your job and have 50% of your pay taken away for alimony/child support. But it also allows you to freely enjoy things: To freely enjoy what you have been evolved to enjoy (i.e. sex) To freely enjoy your freedom to pursue your caree…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/13 08:42 PM
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Must just be the people I work with then. I'm not Japanese so they tell me this, and they say having mistresses is okay as long as you don't have children with them. Somehow that's taboo. But I figured that's what most affluent individuals do anyways, so successful Japanese men are no different than successful American men.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 05:03 PM
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Yeah, I hope it'll come in handy when you spending Law School learning logic and how to apply legal definitions to your work, spending time researching precedence and whether or not laws are applicable in your case. ggwp good day sir
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 05:03 PM
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Lol no... this guy hahahaha. A bachelors degree is a requirement, not a criminal justice degree. And passing the LSATs... oh man, you win. It's over, you win.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 06:38 AM
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You forget to take into account that in Japan they marry to keep/improve social appearances, no different than a woman marrying a man for money. Also in Japan it's also known that men can keep mistresses and so that's more Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 06:37 AM
0

yeah, let me know when that criminal justice degree comes in handy. And let me know when it becomes a requirement for law school. Thanks pal!
/r/TheRedPill01/07/13 06:24 AM
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I have a Masters degree. Troll harder son. Good day fag.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/13 12:06 AM
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Nope, citing it as a reference. If you don't know what that is, then perhaps educated discussions are far beyond your capacity. You clearly are uneducated about the law. I must be the one asking officers not to do their jobs. Hey, who knew that was being uneducated? Its like talking to a 10 year old at this point. That feeling. Is. Mutual. Good day sir.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 06:00 AM
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No. You'd suppose incorrectly. I guess asking why waste money on a departing venture is grounds for bringing up shakespeare. Must be why guys get vasectomy's, to spend more money than child support. /s
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:19 AM
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No one deleted what I said. do you not how to use the context button?
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:17 AM
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THERE IS NO OFFICER DISCRETION FOR DOMESTICS IN SOME STATES Whut? You are speaking to officer discretion I believe in a uneducated way which is not applicable in this situation. Whut? Officer brings evidence to the DA. The DA then prosecutes. What about domestic 'discretion' are you talking about? You don't understand. Are you sure you do? LEOs "enforce" the laws based on social norms and laws created by Congress or state representatives. Yes, and false reports, or failure to act on behalf of th…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 05:15 AM
1

I've seen worse stories.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 03:48 AM
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but that's extra money... why waste money? It's pointless now. If anything I would've gotten a ring/jewelry box and had it like I was gonna propose and put the papers in there. No need to waste money... unless he took the flowers/jewelry with him.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/13 03:48 AM
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Backstory: Was a virgin until about ~22-3, never kissed a girl, never a gf. Puberty age: Discovered porn, orgasms. I also discovered that I practice blueballing myself, which let me control my orgasms (never wanted kids so I saw this as good practice) and can last a while. Age ~23: Lose virginity. Busted a minute man. Realized sex didn't live up to the 'hype' I thought it would. Said fuck it, if it's not going to live up to my expectations, I'm going to make live up to my expectations. Told the …
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 09:20 PM
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Rape is a bad thing. There are some people I feel deserve bad things to happen to them. She is one of those people.
/r/MensRights27/06/13 07:28 PM
1

Not that I remember. They won't do it unless you're over 24 years of age or something. You simply ask about it. They sit you down, and talk to you personally, they tell the risks, the fact that you may not be able to undo it, etc. Afterwards they set up an appointment, and tell you about the required "donation". They tell you that you won't be able to drive yourself home, and that you'll need to buy a jock-strap, and a bag of frozen pees. And you'll be out of work for about two or three days.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 07:25 PM
5

It was like that in Los Angeles, but I'm a Hispanic male in a Hispanic community with lots of babies... so, maybe they just want us to stop producing :/
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 07:23 PM
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meh, I was just raging and a little drunk. I don't hate cops, just individuals who don't use their powers correctly (i.e. cops who take the woman's side simple because she's a female). I have friends who are sheriffs, and it happens. They just say, it's the way it's done. They want to create a hassle if it's simply a little fight between a couple.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 07:22 PM
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Vasectomy: 20$ copay (actually "donation") with planned parenthood. Not having to pay child support to a bitch wanting to have a free check for the rest of her life: Priceless. I don't really understand the point of the flowers and jewelry, unless of course he took them back at the end of the night lol
/r/TheRedPill27/06/13 08:47 AM
1

Women cause no crime because their value does not depend on possessions, but it does on body proportions. This is why you can't ask the question, why don't men have suffer as much from bulimia/anorexia as women do? That's because female value is dependent on body size (and youth). You should speak against this sociology class and call them out on their BS
/r/MensRights26/06/13 07:46 PM
0

Graduate student.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/13 05:04 AM
3

"are you going to let her carry that!?" No. If they reply with "what kind of man are you?" "I don't ask you to wash my dishes." Since this is all office-related you shouldn't feel required to do anything simply because you're a male. As for the woman who cuts you off, don't speak around her. If she's going to intentionally cut you off (if that's her personality) then there's nothing you can do. People will simply put up with her behavior because it's 'her'. What you can do is make it more sociab…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 08:33 PM
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From an evolutionary standpoint that's the only way to go.... if you want children. You make money/acquire wealth to pass on to your son. When you acquire money, you bang sexy/attractive women, so that if you have a daughter she'll be able to attract other wealthy men. paternity tests. always.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 07:33 PM
0

...and? So your advice is to go down on a girl who you're embarrassed to be with? You logic == outstanding. Good day.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/13 05:10 AM
2

Just to clarify, you can bang single mothers, but you don't date them. You never get into a relationship with any woman who has kids. You can have sex with anyone you like.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 02:03 AM
2

I like attractive women. I don't care if they have tattoos. I don't care if they're sluts. I only care that I like them and I want to see them naked. /thread.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 02:01 AM
2

You got to get of these 'alpha' 'beta' terms man. Did the guy go out drinking hoping to meet someone? Yes. Did he get laid? Yes. Did he waste time trying to get to know her or talk about her 'feelings' afterwards? No. He got up and left. If want to criticize his moves/expertise in bed, you shouldn't cause it doesn't matter. Then, go down on her and make her come several times. I guarantee that she will let it go if you can give her multiple orgasms. You only do this for girls you want to continu…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:54 AM
3

How is this beta if he got laid and then left? I'm confused. Unless she was grotesque and he sobered up, but even then he got another notch on the belt.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:49 AM
15

"That's definitely a point for you" Everything I do is a point for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:47 AM
1

Spend money on a girl only when you are already fucking her, not before. After you bang her, there is no need for you to spend money on her anymore. She'll start doing it to justify the fact that she's been intimate with someone she likes, and so she'll pay for stuff. Guys should only pay for drinks ;)
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:39 AM
0

wtf. What does it matter what class she is? ... what does it matter what someone else does?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:32 AM
2

The cool thing about the Art of Seduction, is that it allows you to gauge where you fit on his persona scale. Let's you understand what to polish and what to stop using.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:29 AM
4

I don't know about how TRP feels about this, but unless you're looking to make money or a career of this (e-book writing) writing new stuff just results in more over-saturating of the market. but if you're going to make a compendium besides getting books on 'game', and 30day challenges, you may want to (considering this is TRP) add in information (first hand accounts?) of members/readers who are willing to divulge information such as their marriage/divorces and having to pay alimony, or paying c…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 01:18 AM
2

Nah, those are good numbers for a guy. Solid.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 12:59 AM
4

This works but simply adding emphasis on step 1) ... Women online (like in real life) date up. So if you consider yourself a 4, then you'll be getting lots of messages from a 2. If you're a 10, you'll get them from 2s too, but you'll also get them from 8s. Lastly, if you're a 10, gtfo online dating. You're ruining the curve for the other guys ... And step 5) should always be followed, for first dates just in general.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/13 12:59 AM
1

Well, I don't know if he lives in Tokyo or not, and I've never seen the guy from a physical perspective, I simply read his reports. But once I found out he was a white guy in Japan, the whole perspective changed. I never criticized him or his skills, but I point out the facts. Not everyone who read and applied TofuTofu's advice is from Japan, mind you. No one said they didn't, in fact I apply his mentality/beliefs myself (which are simply that of self-improvement and confidence) but to think tha…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 09:24 PM
1

I see your point and argeeing with what she appears to be. But from a TRP (from my little time on here) perspective, going with a girl and not calling it a 'date' seems like a waste. What're you doing, being friends? If you're friends, then what does it matter who she talks to? If she's more then a friend, then why not step up and label it what it, it's a date. I'm not saying we're all perfect, but what I am saying is the OP is posting as if he did a successful thing (and not staying around and …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 08:59 PM
1

if you gave a noog I'd punch you in the face. no offense, but I don't put my hands on other men and I don't expect them to put one on me. I guess my fantasy world doesn't include giving other men noogs... sucks to be me.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 05:11 AM
1

said the guy who said "you live in a fantasy world" ... kk
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:25 AM
2

kk, good point.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 04:24 AM
3

Avoid online dating unless you're attractive enough to get initial messages. If you don't stand out, no point in wasting time or effort. Work on your mouth-game by talking, flirting, etc in real life, not some e-mail/sms crap.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:45 AM
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Not criticizing this post, but a word on TofuTofu,... Dude is White guy living in Japan. I highly doubt he should be the one writing a book on seduction. It's kind of like - I don't want to take investment advice from Donald Trump. It's easy to make a billion dollars when you're born a millionaire. It's easy to seduce women, when you're a high-value foreigner in another country. Not hatin' just statin'. I'd rather see a book by some fat, nerdy slob who turned his life around and became a seducer…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:39 AM
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Third, we are prohibiting “seduction guides,” or anything similar, effective immediately. This material encourages misogynistic behavior and is inconsistent with our mission of funding creative works. And yet how many women complain about men not being 'manly' or 'assertive' or 'confident', and how they stop dating 'nice guys' because those 'nice guys' weren't 'passionate' enough. Fourth, today Kickstarter will donate $25,000 to an anti-sexual violence organization called RAINN. Because enjoying…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:33 AM
2

Live and learn. I made a big list of criticisms about your post, but if you have this belief and you acknowledge that you're making mistakes as you learn then honestly you're better off than most dudes on here. Kudos on the post.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:25 AM
2

No need to say his actions were childish. They were very RP indeed. [I'm not the guy you responded to, just commenting] So you would've gone up to her and grabbed her to pull her off a promoter? You would've said 'no' to this being a date? You would've counted the minutes it took for her to text you? Idk man, it seems like there were a lot of mistakes here, and no one's pointing them out. just imo.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:23 AM
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It's not childish to call someone out on being childish. The dude pouted, he was upset (cool it happens). But we're here learning game/social skills/confidence/red-pill/etc because we may have not been taught, or we want to change. But changing is learning, and if you're learning, then it's okay to be called out on your mistakes. This post wasn't about making mistakes, OP thinks he made none. NOT ONE mistake does the OP call himself out on. Even if op wasn't sarging, he should've been talking to…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:17 AM
5

This. Damn, I thought this sub was different than fucking r/seddit. Even when r/pickup was up it was more deserving than this stuff. Your win-win is exactly what this site to be dedicated to.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 02:09 AM
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Because I find that my hobbies and physical fitness pursuits are much more rewarding uses of my time. (Which is sad) Not sad, it's called putting your self first. Her friend looks jealous and asks if we are on a date The answer is 'yes'. You only hang out with women for dates, they're not buddies (not being sexist but honest) because if she was a buddy, she'd be helping you get laid with other girls (winging). Obviously she didn't/wasn't, then what's the point of hanging out with her? We both re…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/13 01:57 AM
0

fag.
/r/MensRights22/06/13 01:45 AM
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notice how many of the PUAs gurus were afc rich guys that then used their money to enhance their selves. notice how many of those dudes are on drugs or alcohol, and use that as a lure to ~20-5 yr old college girls. notice how many of the 'gurus' are Americans in foreign countries giving out advice where they're considered 'exotic'. notice how I'll use any excuse to diminish the PUAs value. NOTICE!
/r/TheRedPill16/06/13 04:25 AM
2

Yeah, I think making your own rules is kind of cool. Makes it more like a "choose your own adventure", and since I believe (wholeheartedly) in the placebo effect, it doesn't really matter to me...
/r/MensRights06/06/13 05:03 PM
2

Yeah, I just stuck with Buddhism (more philosophical) but stuck more with the Nihilism aspect (I basically created my own religion in my head i.e. like the matrix) and made up my own rules. So it's kind of like I'm writing my own story as I go, and it makes life entertaining. Kind of like: can't give up now, I got to see how this pans out.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 04:15 PM
2

This is why I stopped being atheist. I don't care if nothing exists, I sometimes know that I need to believe in fairy tales to keep me going. fairy tales give me hope. I never try to convince others of my fairy tale though.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 03:45 PM
0

Good day sir.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 01:04 PM
0

First off: Thank you for the My Approach, I never understood when to bring up this issue, or even how to phrase it without appearing aggressive (i.e. if you think this is a waste of time, then maybe it is) and losing the girl due to the phrasing. Also, best advice ever: Do not surrender that freedom, it is the only bargaining chip you've got. Once you surrender it you will find yourself at the mercy of the woman who is most certainly not in it for you. Man's only saving grace is that they unders…
/r/TheRedPill06/06/13 12:52 AM
0

please shut up now. You're boring and irrelevant. Good bye sir.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 12:09 AM
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please shut up now. You're boring and irrelevant. Good bye sir.
/r/MensRights06/06/13 12:09 AM
0

the child that is not my responsibility because i had no agency in it's birth. You sir, have no idea how the law is written nor how it is implemented. Good day. You may not agree with how the law is, which I don't either, but you're arguing me over a non-issue. I don't agree with the law. But it is the law. We're not arguing whether the law should be valid, we're arguing whether or not the the state follows the law. and if it fails? now he's stuck witha child and if he gives it up it'll default …
/r/MensRights02/06/13 08:00 PM
0

cool story bro.
/r/MensRights01/06/13 09:30 AM
0

if it was rape, then follow up on prosecuting a rapist. Don't let 'law officials' convince you that it's not worth claiming rape, which is what they due in these type of cases. Fight it to the end. Men have fought for it, but it hasn't changed That doesn't mean stop fighting. And as for waiting for the law to be on my side before I have a child; I think you've forgotten that we're talking about the product of a rape, not a willing conceptio I'll tell you what I tell women about rape, don't put y…
/r/MensRights30/05/13 08:23 PM
0

your talking out out of your ass trick is very uimpresive but maybe you should go join a circus instead of trying to claim it is in anyway meaningful. Said the soon to be lawyer who got upset over the fact that I said "child support is for the child"... your logic is illogical. even then no you do not have a point. so what if child support is for the child. yes children have a rights. but the fundamental aspects of rights is that no roghts can trump another right. Because the child did the rapin…
/r/MensRights30/05/13 08:21 PM
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You motherfuckers are ignorant. I never said you didn't have rights idiot. I said, "Child support is for the child" this is the law. You motherfuckers need to learn to grow up and understand the law. The law is not on the man's side. Therefore it's up to you, the individual, to challenge the law, and use it to prosecute offenders. Having a bitch rape you, get pregnant, and give birth, and then charge you child support is the stupidest thing I've ever heard. But even more stupid is the motherfuck…
/r/MensRights29/05/13 07:10 PM
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They would if you fought for it. Don't complain about something you're not willing to fight for. Don't have children until the law is on your side. /argument.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 07:03 PM
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Child support is for the child. If you don't want to pay it, take custody of the child from the rapist and force that individual to pay you child support. Preferably after they served time in jail.
/r/MensRights29/05/13 12:52 AM
0

Uh,... how is it insulting to state that you have a choice in deciding what emotional state you want to be in?
/r/MensRights26/05/13 04:11 PM
1

Well... an attractive woman, but surely an attractive lesbian.
/r/MensRights17/05/13 12:16 AM
0

If gender was a choice, I bet he'd be a woman. There's a reason why women choose not to have female friends.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 11:32 PM
1

They should live in a better neighborhood.
/r/MensRights15/05/13 07:34 PM
2

I 'shouldn't' do anything ... I do what I want. Punk.
/r/MensRights14/05/13 09:54 AM
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Most people aren't against alimony either.... by 'most' I mean women, and a subset of men who don't pay child support
/r/MensRights14/05/13 08:57 AM
5

Why is there never any stories of hope? Because, all the stories of hope follow similar patterns: a male went out into the real world, didn't get married, had no children, and became successful in their careers, and now have nothing to worry about except having to determine whether or not the women in their life are simply there for the money. It's a blessing and a curse, but it's better than being broke because your paying child support and alimony, to someone who gets to live on easy street wh…
/r/MensRights27/04/13 08:02 AM
1

Why Most Divorces Are Initiated By Women... ...because they get paid to start over again.
/r/MensRights19/02/13 01:21 AM
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Well... I'm pretty sure they don't have mandatory child support that bankrupts the father, so that's a plus-side.
/r/MensRights04/11/12 10:34 PM
3

If you listen to the audiobook, which is her reading her work, you could obviously tell it wasn't the experiment that made her depressed. She was already like that.
/r/MensRights27/10/12 09:36 AM
5

Go to clubs, and watch black dudes, and how they approach women on the dance floor. Copy them. Win.
/r/seduction06/10/12 05:30 PM
13

Yeah but it ain't gonna happen. Not that it shouldn't, it just won't until women themselves start arguing to be drafted into wars.
/r/MensRights03/10/12 08:43 PM
2

I have. Don't, it's a waste of time. There's no point in putting in effort on girls you're not attracted to. Think of it this way, you wouldn't make friends with someone you didn't find friendly. No point in being attractive to someone you don't find attractive
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:53 PM
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Read this as: My biggest problem: Ass-to-Mouth. ಠ_ಠ As for your post, cause you look at guys as your competition. Don't. Once you start getting girls guys will come up to you and try to buddy-buddy you cause they see how you are with girls. Other guys are never competition, they're just background noise. Why the fuck do I keep comparing myself to them immediately when I arrive to a club and how do you guys deal with that? Cause you think you aren't good enough. If you weren't good enough, you wo…
/r/seduction08/09/12 11:51 PM
1

How do people dance at Hipster clubs? Wtf?... lol research time!
/r/seduction06/09/12 05:13 PM
1

Nah. I have had the thought though of: Damn if it wasn't for Seddit, I might have married any girl that was going to give it up to me. And this girl may have been a whore in her youth, and that would have made me insecure and unable to truly love her. I would've been screwed. Now my thought process is more like: Whatevs. We are what we believe.
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:05 PM
1

A lot. Because everything you are has lead you to this point in life. If you were confident with women, you wouldn't have even heard of 'seduction'. I don't want to put off this obviously not genuine "slick rick" persona or act as some baller or total flirt when I really am not. What you're really doing is changing your internal belief system. Most people think they're not 'worthy' of XYZ. Most guys on seddit think they're not worthy of getting girls. Once you change that belief you begin to 'be…
/r/seduction06/09/12 03:02 PM
0

That's a lie. I KNOW how to dance very well, and it does me no-good. Either one, I'm too good and get bored with the person I'm dancing with, or others are intimidated, or I'm intimidated because the only people I dance with seem to have YEARS of experience over me (Salsa dancing). I don't really do the bump and grind thing Then you're setting yourself up for failure. This is the only thing people do in clubs, or dancing. Think of it this way: If a girl is shy, then the last thing she wants to d…
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:35 PM
0

Fuck girls. Network with people. Intern, build a CV. Don't get too much debt. Join a fraternity, if only because it'll help your networking skills after graduating. Study abroad. Don't work, unless it's in the field you're trying to work in. Join lots of clubs. As for girls, just get lots of dates, and you do this by being active in lots of things. People see that and like it and think you're someone special. Take them for drinks in your room == sex. Sex is no big deal in college, it happens.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:29 PM
3

Is this a race thing or a sex thing?
/r/MensRights30/08/12 08:37 PM
1

Look at it this way, you're one step closer to having sex now. Now you know you can attain it. Also, it's a funny story to tell ppl when you get older. We all have similar type stories here and there. As for the advice, I suggest learning how to blueball yourself. That is, when you masturbate (if you do) do it until you're about to finish and then stop. Let it go away, and then when it's gone do it again. Practice, practice, practice and then you'll be able to control the sensation to last longe…
/r/seduction20/08/12 05:56 PM
0

That's actually one of the smartest things I ever heard of doing. This way you get to see if you like the girl first before actually paying for anything.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 10:37 PM
1

For women: Don't get involved emotionally. And learn the subtleties of flirting.
/r/seduction11/08/12 11:05 PM
2

Have another date set up, and ignore your urge to respond to the one that cancelled
/r/seduction30/07/12 01:15 AM
5

some predrinking at my Ass. lol'd for like 5 minutes. this was really odd because we'd have our private groping session and then split up. It wasn't odd. That was her style, it's your job to adapt to all the styles. You did good. Saw my ass. Laughed for another 5 minutes. but he wasn't really interested was just being friendly, but oneitis girl seemed all into it You should learn from him. If you had that attitude with the sets you opened, they wouldn't have floundered, because as soon as the co…
/r/seduction29/07/12 11:32 PM
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Oh whoops, I didn't think you composed it! I simply thought it was something you found online, and was noting that usually that's the first you want to understand in any form of self-improvement. Kudos on taking the time to write it down :D
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:23 PM
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Number 4 should be number 1. If you understand this concept, and see how they relate to all the other points you'd be on your path to wellness. Then if you're smart enough, you can change your ego to be more helpful than it is today.
/r/seduction20/07/12 07:10 PM
2

What's male bashing about "If only a man could be as dependable as this.... wine." ... I don't know about you, but I can't comprehend how a bottle of wine is dependable. But I also wouldn't know which wine would be un-dependable.
/r/MensRights30/05/12 01:42 AM
1

Only the middle one is disgusting because it's obviously wrong. If a man is smart he won't get her pregnant, do you know how expensive child-support is nowadays?!? Not smart.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 07:57 PM
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It's shit like this that just pisses me off. You sound like the women that got upset at Dr. Pepper's campaign to target their new 10calorie drink to men. Good job, marketing people from GNO Because their prime demographic are males drinking Sparkling Wine. Dude it's just marketing. You probably don't get offended when hot women are in car advertising or beer commercials.
/r/MensRights29/05/12 07:32 PM
1

HIV. Good day sir.
/r/seduction26/05/12 07:32 PM
1

Again. No evidence. Your sophistry is truly empty. You cannot accept the challenge, cannot admit you are wrong, and cannot comprehend the most important aspect of cognitive dissonance. mirror mirror on the wall... If you cannot see the ways in which you deceive yourself, you can never know truth. Hows that mormon life going? I don't need to validate myself. Dissonance. Cause you didn't need but you wanted to? At best, you have taken a psychology class or two. At worst, I could've gotten a degree…
/r/seduction22/05/12 10:47 PM
1

Lol. You are too funny. Nobody is doubting cognitive dissonance. It's cute that you don't see your dissonance as clearly as you state you can in me. It's also funny that you have to validate yourself to an anonymous user. Do you not see the irony, pot? If you really, truly think you are right and I am wrong. Bring it. Show me your sources, and I'll show you mine. That ego, son, that ego. Aronson, E. (1969). The theory of cognitive dissonance: A current perspective. In L. Berkowitz (Ed.). Advance…
/r/seduction22/05/12 09:16 PM
1

Why don't you check the wikipedia entry? That's all I needed. Good luck with that. Sour grapes, still. I see. We see what we want to see. We also understand that which we feel most comfortable with. Enjoy them grapes. Ouch. I didn't have to Google far to prove you wrong. Google makes it so you don't have to google far. It's how it works. Ouch, it is. Thoughts of grandeur much? You know, wiki is the source of all education. You can get your degree on wiki nowadays. Care to share your area of stud…
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:37 PM
1

You have the dictionary version of cognitive dissonance, and fail to comprehend the ramifications of how and why that process is always at work. Because there's more than one definition to a psychiatric term. Or are you philosophizing? It is integral to learning. We're always learning. But it is also integral to participating in and protecting your own personal culture. That's the ego not cognitive dissonance. Cognitive dissonance is simply the tool used by the ego to protect itself. It is about…
/r/seduction22/05/12 08:18 PM
1

Aha. Anyone who starts with correcting a typo, rarely has a leg to stand on. But I'll keep reading. Read on player. Read on. Statistics are a useful guide. I made a generalized statement, and, so far, you aren't presenting any contrary evidence. Except for having you agree that statistics are guides, and generalized statements. It is the discomfort associated with being wrong and being unable to accept it. For the layman. Did you just discover this term? Cognitive dissonance is when you have two…
/r/seduction22/05/12 07:45 PM
1

The internet courage strong, in this one, is. Are you to dumb to Google a quote? too, and no, I'm not. I'm also not dumb enough to not read through research articles, without criticizing their discussions or methodology of which statistical analysis they chose to present over another, and quote it as gospel. Everyone knows statistics can be skewed either way to fit the data. Statistically, placebos are more effective than anything on the pharmaceutical market. Good luck with that search. I'm sta…
/r/seduction22/05/12 12:31 AM
1

The internet courage is strong in this one. Only that you prejudge, making any argument invalid, and shown without source. You are, as we like to say, a cacapeepeepoopoo. Good Day sir.
/r/seduction20/05/12 11:27 PM
1

You're still replying? That ego, son. DatEgo.
/r/seduction19/05/12 02:54 PM
-1

You worry about saying the wrong thing, and then you end up saying the wrong thing. Try worrying about saying the right thing, 24/7, then guess what might happen...
/r/seduction17/05/12 06:11 PM
0

cognitive dissonance my original statement was correct Sucks to be you. Cacapee
/r/seduction17/05/12 06:08 PM
1

Checkmate. Peepee poopoo caca. Again... it is clear you are more afraid of being wrong than taking 30 seconds to Google something to learn about it. Peepee poopoo caca. You must know about causation/correlation... you win
/r/seduction17/05/12 02:03 AM
1

more about not wanting to be wrong. transference my friend, seek not to do it. Also, correlation isn't causation. Intelligent people seek our career paths that require more time and attention in order to establish it as a foundation. This means putting off meaningful points in life until later in their life, i.e. having children, or being married. This has nothing to do with intelligence, it has to do with seeking a career. Most people that seek careers put of marriage until later on. Your state…
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:57 PM
1

What stats?
/r/seduction16/05/12 11:03 PM
1

I think you have that backwards. The smarter a man is, the more he realizes his potential... therefore, the more he realizes there's no need for him to get married. The smarter a woman is, the more she realizes her beauty and youth is her biggest asset, and it makes sense for her to attract the best mate at her optimal attractiveness.
/r/seduction16/05/12 07:21 PM
2

Any line is a good line to open with...
/r/seduction11/05/12 08:11 PM
4

Lol you had me at "I feel fucking dirty"
/r/seduction10/05/12 03:14 AM
4

True, no doubt, but sometimes it's the semantics that trip people up. I've heard plenty of men in the community complain about not having confidence, but rarely would someone say they're not courageous. Simply changing the word, changes the thought process, and courage itself is something men can understand without necessarily understanding what it means to be confident. Fake it 'til you make it ...is probably useless advice if someone doesn't understand what the it is in order to fake it. But t…
/r/seduction15/04/12 12:54 AM
1

There's no such thing as confidence. What you gain isn't confidence, it's courage. It's the courage that's seen and interpreted as confidence by others explaining why you can do what they can't do (choose not to do). I like the post, my dude, very good. Upboating.
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:42 PM
3

She might not know where they are, but it's not like they're lost. Nice. This is actually a pretty good line. You could to it "we're all still in here, somewhere, we just need to find each other" implying that you're a part of her group, subtlety inferring that she can feel safe/comfortable around you and also the fact that you're assisting her in looking for her friends (without actually looking for them obviously). I had to do a bunch of damage control on this Such as?.... as in literally walk…
/r/seduction14/04/12 10:37 PM
1

Accept you'll die. Don't waste time establishing dominance over other males.
/r/seduction11/04/12 08:45 PM
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Alpha males are not douchebags. Douchebags pretend to be alpha males.
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:54 PM
1

If he were a true AMOG, you touching him would've led to a fist in the face. I don't touch other men, but I definitely would've said the same reply, and probably winked at him, and bit my lip, so he would feel uncomfortable.
/r/seduction09/04/12 11:11 PM
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How close do you live to this place? I mean, are you literally across the street or what? You need to explain the dynamics of what went on in the car/taxi if you live far enough away to where LMR might set in man! I need the info!
/r/seduction27/03/12 03:08 PM
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I get apathy, but not cause I'm good or consistent. It's just cause it's boring doing this stuff solo. Been solo for years. Sadz, man. Sadz.
/r/seduction14/03/12 11:32 PM
2

mystery isn't ripped
/r/seduction08/03/12 11:48 PM
3

Is that front they put up. Obviously hiding their insecurities, being a bit demanding. Because one of the major tenets of seduction isn't "fake it 'til you make it." What I do find attractive, is when a girl is not only smiling when approaches but I have clearly seen her having a good time and comes in with no fear Isn't that what men do when approaching women? because at one point, she was bossy or she told me what to do. "Call me", "Come find me", "Don't move stay here", "Can you hold my drink…
/r/seduction07/03/12 07:16 PM
2

Do you still try to attract women (passively or intentionally) when you're in a relationship? Yes. Only a fool would say no, True. but that's what I've failed to do in the past 9 months since getting with my current girlfriend. Use her as part of your entourage/social proof. Don't try to make friends with women behind your gf's back, do it in front of her. You have nothing to hide, bring her along, she serves as a buffer that "you're okay, and not in it for sex/cheating/etc" then build attractio…
/r/seduction06/03/12 11:09 PM
1

Why is it "facts" if everything the lawyer is saying seems legit? And what's up with all the downvotes simply because you don't agree with the lawyer, the lawyer isn't saying anything wrong, that's the way the law is written? Does it suck? Yeah, most definitely, but it ain't the lawyers fault. It's their job to interpret the law, not write them. I've known men with the inability to pay (tough most were disabled from work so it was validated through a federal agency, and had to prove through doct…
/r/MensRights06/03/12 08:24 PM
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You could reply, "Only if you're checking me out", or "Why? Are attracted to me?" When most guys question another male on their sexuality (which shows they're not real men, since a real man would never question another man on anything) they're actually trying to appear superior over you. By replying with a witty comment, and questioning their sexuality in return, you turn the tables around and make them start defending themselves. Always remember, the person asking the questions is always in cha…
/r/seduction02/03/12 09:02 PM
1

Basically, fuck what women want. Get what you want. This. OR Understand what people want in general. If you understand that, then you'll obviously understand what women want. OR If you understand what you want out of life, then you'll understand what individuals want, and therefore what women want.
/r/seduction29/02/12 03:24 PM
1

Confused by these: Seductive eye contact is MONEY, I literally took her breath away a couple of times with just this. PRACTICE THIS You mean practice in-field, or is there something else you've practiced with? Obviously in-field, but are you talking about staring at yourself in the mirror or something? Hold her hand and caress it (60 years of challenge) What the hell is this? Is that something I have to google? - Edit: Nvm, figured it out. I'm dumbz.
/r/seduction15/02/12 02:02 AM
1

Best part of Neil Strauss' AMA :here:
/r/seduction15/02/12 02:00 AM
2

"Thank you for having the confidence to come up and ask me to dance. I'm thinking a lot of guys have a fear of rejection. That's another thing that attracts me to you." Reality just slapped me in the face. Hard. Good FR. Also, you didn't get rejected 14 times, you found out 14 times reallly quick the type of girls you don't want.
/r/seduction13/02/12 11:22 PM
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Props for the Lion King analogy... not only was I turned on during that scene, but I too, felt like a Lion King. Le Proud. Le Impressed. I didn't last long (embarrassing!) Lol, I wonder if Simba had the same problem. No worries about the first time being bad, I've had guys (with natural game) say that they're intentionally bad the first time so that she doesn't expect much. Then the second time you bang her you blow her mind, and then she's like 'where the hell did that come from'.... not sure i…
/r/seduction12/02/12 08:46 PM
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This sub is about bettering how you feel about yourself and I can quite positively say that you've done that for me. Thank you. Truer words. Enjoy the feeling :)
/r/seduction12/02/12 12:15 AM
1

Finally a good comparison in which stereotypes cross gender-guidelines.
/r/seduction11/02/12 11:58 PM
1

Offset their wealth with uniqueness. Take up some hobby that makes them want you, simply for being involved in that hobby. Whatever it is, people want people who are unique. You being rich, with her being rich is normal.
/r/seduction11/02/12 02:59 AM
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So I'm soon to be 25 and I've never even kissed a girl. Came in here looking for someone ~50yrs old, and even then my advice would've been "It's only too late if you think it is"
/r/seduction08/02/12 11:34 PM
3

Wut?
/r/seduction06/02/12 09:50 PM
2

haters gonna hate. 2x is that-a way... hate hate hate hate hate
/r/seduction03/02/12 02:57 PM
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Basically, after an ad campaign telling men not to rape unconscious women, reports of sexual assault against women dropped by 10%. I'm pretty sure if you told women to stop being in situations where they could end up unconscious, rape of unconscious women would also decrease somewhat. ... but I'm just thinking outside the box on that one.
/r/MensRights02/02/12 05:26 AM
1

I learn by example. Will you show me in person? I don't even need to have you guys teach me, just one night out, I observe, I learn.
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:43 AM
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How do I maintain that balance of her assuming that I'm interested, but not looking like I give a shit? Try not giving a shit. I work with a girl that's super cute. Red hair, nice body and a great personality... one-itis. every conversation at work is seemingly laced with some sort of innuendo and I truthfully don't know how to handle it. you're scared. she wished me "sweet wet dreamz." wow. My personal analysis is that: (a) She is a tease and (b) she's looking for attention. so... pound her lik…
/r/seduction29/01/12 03:09 AM
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You must have not studied your prey enough. One needs to be sexy and one needs to love them self. That's the entire point of seduction. The girls are simply are side-effect that come when one finds his inner confidence. I see a lust for crude sex instead of romantic sex. Probably best to have a vast amount of both to tell the difference don't you think?
/r/seduction29/01/12 03:01 AM
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Wow... it's gotten this bad? You don't need an invitation to open someone. You just do it.
/r/seduction29/01/12 02:58 AM
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You aren't even pretending not to be a misogynyst Don't know where you got that idea from. I love women. Maybe you have problems with men/women. Maybe you see misogyny where there is none, because you're so used to feeling it. Check yo'self.
/r/seduction28/01/12 11:26 PM
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Women who hate seddit/seduction, hate the fact that it gives men confidence. Women who love seddit/seduction, love the fact that it gives men confidence. Men who love seddit/seduction, love the fact that it gives men confidence. Men who hate seddit/seduction, are women.
/r/seduction27/01/12 12:40 AM
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New: Do you go out to make new friends alot? I go out. I make friends were I go. New: Why haven't you finished your drink?
/r/seduction25/01/12 01:26 AM
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Note: When I read this, it threw me off, so this is the first thing that popped into my head, and what I would've replied irl. New: Wait, aren't you gay? Yeah, but only on Tuesdays. New: So you think you're all that?
/r/seduction25/01/12 01:24 AM
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No, your breast were staring at my eyes. New: You should go talk them over [points to another set]
/r/seduction25/01/12 01:21 AM
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Note: and then sip on your drink and look her in the eye.
/r/seduction25/01/12 01:17 AM
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So you don't know where the bathroom is? How'd you know I was gonna ask that? new: you're too young for me
/r/seduction25/01/12 12:04 AM
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First of all: Props on writing a good FR and making easy to read. I read that whole thing in what seemed like a few seconds because it was such a good/well-written post. Keep it up. I just have a few questions: 1) Have you ever gone home with a girl/group before? If you haven't then the confidence you had in the club (you're normal go-to place), where you're filled with 'comfort', may have been gone and could have possibly been read in your your body language. Since I don't know if you have or y…
/r/seduction24/01/12 08:52 PM
2

So I have to download something from some guy on the internet?.... hmmm. Why not just post it in two parts, your original post, and then the second part as the first comment/reply to your post.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:48 PM
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Sometimes I feel like sharing my feelings and stuff with girls...but I always feel like it's pretty beta. Why don't you do it and see what kind of feedback you get. Doing things for feedback is always alpha, doing things wrong, which you know are wrong, are sort of beta.
/r/seduction19/01/12 08:43 PM
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"Oh we're only getting drinks, not dinner. Let's go sit over there", she obliged and followed me to the bar where we sat next to each other. Epic line. I'm impressed. Simple, yet elegant. Epic story man. Epic.
/r/seduction17/01/12 11:33 PM
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a girl I know comes up ... and kiss opens me... while I am sitting on a swing at the bar... I end up finger banging her and fucking her doggystyle until I ... cum all over her ass... Wut? What kind of bars have swings? Aren't they afraid of drunk people on swings? ... This is an awesome post btw.
/r/seduction16/01/12 12:00 AM
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What happened to the guys can pick-up any or almost all women? They're called mPuAs ... and even then they can't pick-up all the women. If you actually study them, most have just adapted their style to where the go to most. Guys who find clubs easy, only focus on club game. Guys who find normal convos easy, only focus on day game. They can't get all women. They simply focus on getting certain types of girls, that they find easier to attract. Listen/watch who most of the girls these guys get. Par…
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:28 AM
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Dude... you're judging women. Don't judge women. Judgment of women reeks of internal conflict. You want a woman, but you don't want her attitude/hate/game/etc... You need to develop a love for all women. You love all women, regardless of whether you want to have sex with them or not. You love all women, regardless of whether you want to have kiss them or not. You love all women, regardless of whether they find you attractive. You love all women, because you're a seducer, and women are the most p…
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:24 AM
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The bad news is, IMO, you have absolutely terrible inner game. Read up on the sidebar again and start trying to become more harmonious with your life outside of pickup. in his defense, developing solid inner game is probably the hardest thing to do as a novice in seduction. That process comes with dealing with loads of internal problems beforehand. The sidebar can be as much of a hindrance as a help if people are out there using steps they don't really click with but figure "this should work cau…
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:14 AM
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"going to battle" with everyone else. I pointed it out then and I'll point it out now: that is not a healthy mentality and directly leads to you getting pissed off Truer words. Truer words. Listen to Kumar, not only does he know you IRL, and therefore can more correctly judge your approach/inner game/mentality then anyone on seddit, but this is also good general advice. If you got the mentality of going 'hunting' that's different than a mentality of going 'fishing'. Most seducers don't go out hu…
/r/seduction14/01/12 02:08 AM
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The girl motioned for this guy to come over and save her from you. Nah, if this were true he would've come up and straight AMOGd or booted Optim from her. He didn't. I figured the guy probably liked the girl Optim was dancing with (the guy is probably an AFC of the group) and didn't want anyone dancing on her, but he can't straight out come out and tell Optim not to dance with her since it's not his girl. Plus, considering the other three approaches, it seems like Optim was trying too hard on th…
/r/seduction14/01/12 01:55 AM
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Inner game.
/r/seduction13/01/12 09:39 PM
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if you love women, women will love you I want to restate this as: If you love yourself, then others will love you ... unless of course, they're haters. Haters are simply people who hate themselves and transfer it unto others, nothing you can do with them but ignore them.
/r/seduction12/01/12 11:07 PM
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Nice. That actually made me smile. It also associates her bf (if existing) with the problems of the relationship. I like it!
/r/seduction12/01/12 10:56 PM
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Is he spanking/licking you enough? This actually works? If a girl says that, I simply say "That's cool" and continue doing what I'm doing. If I'm talking/joking with her, I keep it going. It's not my fault she has a boyfriend, and since I'm single, I have no obligation to make sure she's faithful. That's her priority, and if she were faithful/committed/in love, there's nothing I could say to seduce her anyways. But some people aren't faithful/committed/in love/etc so it doesn't matter that she h…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:32 PM
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Now it seems you're ignoring my points to continue arguing and avoid fault. No fault is needed to be taken. My statement was, a man can express his emotions in a relationship if wants to. There's no need to label "Don't be this guy" if he's already in a relationship. loss of nostalgia and interest I agree with your argument of constant presentation of value, diminishing the value. You say over-expression is a bad thing. Yeah, it is. So is under-expression or non-expression. My standpoint was fro…
/r/seduction10/01/12 07:13 PM
1

QQ: What do you do for your women on Valentine's day?
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:08 AM
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I was refering to your statement that there is nothing wrong with what the kid is doing. What the kid wrote, should never ever be written by an experienced adult in a relationship. If that's a part of your philosophy then you follow it. I wouldn't have written it the way he did, but I certainly would've written it if I wanted to. What the kid wrote should never be done, it is not okay as it is too needy and overbearing. nobody said he was needy. That's what you assumed. Over-expression can lead …
/r/seduction10/01/12 01:03 AM
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No, you can overdue it. Everything can be overdone. But posting this, and claiming it's an example of what not to do does nobody any good. Look, we can't tell whether this guy is an AFC, PuA, or something in between, but stating that this is something you shouldn't do is too extreme of a measure to blatantly state. All I said is "it's okay to share emotions", there's no need to act like a stoic/macho/AMOG throughout a relationship. No, you're job is to be a seducer, and if you're in a relationsh…
/r/seduction10/01/12 12:23 AM
2

I felt right at home as I do stand up comedy, which makes it impossible to have AA I kind of felt proud of you until I read this. After this, I kind of expected more of you son. I am disappoint :( AA is the biggest hindrance for PuA and since you have no AA, you should have been talking to everyone at the club, like you were a VIP, especially since you had your uncle who knew everyone (DHV). You had all the potential to make it an epic night, and it seems like you wasted it... hate hate hate hat…
/r/seduction09/01/12 05:06 AM
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trying to change my life (better late than never). That's the truth. Accept death. You'll die one day. Everyday you spend being mediocre/depressed/AFC/etc is a day you wasted. You were meant to shine, you were meant to feel awesome/sexy/attractive. Best success story I could think of, and often use as motivation, is Sean Stephenson's talk at a David DeAngelo seminar. There's a few video clips, but the fool audio is available via torrents. Hear him first, hear his mentality and figure out his min…
/r/seduction09/01/12 04:36 AM
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can one really make such a display of affection so public and maintain inner game? If you take into consideration the opinions of others for actions that you choose to do, then your inner game is lacking. Inner game is simply living by a set of rules you have decided to live by. If your inner game is solid, nothing you do can be devalued by anyone else, and your value wouldn't depend on anyone else. A person with solid inner game can display signs of affections publicly, because that is how he f…
/r/seduction09/01/12 04:22 AM
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The post on the wall sounds like a guy who's in love, and letting his girlfriend know it. There's nothing wrong with what he's doing, considering that she's already his girlfriend, and he's trying to make her feel special. Complimenting women is okay to do, it's a form of seduction while in a relationship. If you don't think you have to seduce throughout the relationship, then you're doing it wrong. Now, on the other hand, don't be this guy in order to try and get the girl. Just a friendly remin…
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:41 AM
1

LATINAS This one's easy. NOBODY but Latino guys can lay Latina girls. Nobody even KNOWS these girls. You might as well try to fuck dead movie stars like Greta Garbo or Lily St. Claire or someone I'm glad I'm latino... but if you guys want to know, money is money. If you have money, or play like you got money, then they'll go for you. Black guys are banging latina women, and also Persian Jews are banging their maids. Anybody can lay anyone, just use the tribe theory mPuAs talk about. I don't know…
/r/seduction06/01/12 12:54 AM
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what exactly is flirting? Signalling to an individual that you're interested in getting to know them without overtly stating it's simply for ____ (sex, marriage, kids, companionship, free food/drinks, whatevs)
/r/seduction03/01/12 03:00 AM
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Just cause you're not getting laid, doesn't mean you're not a sex-god. Think of it this way, just because a butterfly isn't flying, doesn't mean it's wings aren't beautiful. You should always know, that just because you're at a certain level now, doesn't mean you'll always be at this level. This isn't an affirmation. This is knowledge. There is one thing that you can always do, no matter the situation - change. You asked what 'being in state' means, for you it will mean knowing that you can chan…
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:57 AM
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Failures are part of the process. You learn more from failure than you do from success. Some people claim "being in state" is the ultimate in pickup. Others deride it as nonsense, and claim that you should be able to pickup in any state of mind. My take is this: many (most?) of us who seek out PUA have deep-seated insecurities with regards to ourselves and social interaction in particular. Now you know what it feels like to go out and not approach anyone. Now you know what it's like be a wallflo…
/r/seduction28/12/11 01:07 AM
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"Attraction is not a choice" ... I interpret this to mean not only can she help but to feel attraction, but you cannot make somebody attracted to you. It's either you have it or you don't. Your interpretation is off. If you take "Attraction is not a choice" from David's DeAngelo's pov, it means that if you trigger all the evolutionary traits of attraction, then she has no option but to be attracted to you. It isn't a choice, therefore she will feel attracted if you follow the process. Look at Se…
/r/seduction28/12/11 12:50 AM
1

post in /r/losangelesseddit that place seems dead and needs livening up
/r/seduction26/12/11 11:31 PM
1

However, I've told a few people that I met her "online" and the reaction seems to be mixed. That's cause they're lame. Tell them you met her off of Facebook, and then they'll somehow think you have game. Tell them you met her off of Okcupid and somehow that's 'pathetic'... social stigmas are stupid, and why many AFCs exist. If you're a real pua, you don't care about other people's opinions. If they ask simply say "Don't worry about it." You don't need to validate yourself to others. You meet gir…
/r/seduction21/12/11 11:38 PM
2

Ask her out directly. Or simply say something like: She says "No I don't want to go out with you because you flirt with everyone at work." You say: "I flirt with everyone, but I only ask out the best. Guess you don't think you're better better than them. That's sad. (walk away) I only date confident women anyways." You cannot say this with malice, hate, or anger, for being rejected. It's simply a fact. You only date confident women. If she doesn't date you, then she is not confident. Simple as t…
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:52 PM
1

I feel if I get blown out in my social circle or one thats connected to mine, it might get back to me. The girl might tell her friends and say something like I'm too creepy or aggressive. Try blowing them out before they get the chance to blow you out. Like saying things "You want me, I know it, too bad we're friends. Oh well" In Social Circle game you don't have to find ways to 'break the ice' or 'blast through the bitch shield', they're already cool with you simply by association. So you're us…
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:47 PM
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I feel if I get blown out in my social circle or one thats connected to mine, it might get back to me. The girl might tell her friends and say something like I'm too creepy or aggressive. Try blowing them out before they get the chance to blow you out. Like saying things "You want me, I know it, too bad we're friends. Oh well" In Social Circle game you don't have to find ways to 'break the ice' or 'blast through the bitch shield', they're already cool with you simply by association. So you're us…
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:43 PM
1

I say 2nd...
/r/seduction23/11/11 11:09 PM
1

Funny enough, I was reading Sean Stephenson's book, Get off your "But", and he said the same thing about Clinton. But he went into more detail, he said it wasn't about shaking hands, it was about the fact that he remembered your name, cared about your opinion (I mean, dude he's the president, and he cares about your opinion?!? What?!?), and the fact that he knows voice-tone inflection... basically all the stuff you learn as you learn PuA stuff. Clinton was a PuA? Maybe. Or maybe he was just conf…
/r/seduction21/11/11 01:36 AM
1

Eyeliner and mascara go a long way; I don't need a ton of color on my face. I used to ask my filipina co-workers if they were sick or dying when they didn't put on mascara. They looked good with, but without it ... ew. Kino is EVERYTHING. As soon as you take a guy's hand and get his attention, the whole game changes. I think that goes for both sexes. People love being touched, and the people that don't have touch-issues themselves and will quickly let you know through body language that they don…
/r/seduction21/11/11 01:32 AM
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I wasn't drunk enough. You're doing it wrong. Maybe you don't realize this because you're still in college, but you don't really understand how easy it is to talk to other college students. Dude I used to chat up people in the laundry room (when I was an AFC so not sarging) simply because it was soooo easy. College is the easiest place to talk and meet people, once you enter the real world it either becomes harder or different (based on your level of confidence) but you need to understand that i…
/r/seduction21/11/11 01:29 AM
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Nice. Me and my friends used to do this too. For some reason they expect most guys to be douches, or hit on girls innappropriately, but if you just show that you can hang with them without appearing needy (obviously AFC) then you already stand out from most of the people there. Also, I'm always the guy letting other guys into parties I'm invited too. Everyone hated me for doing it, but my thing is "someone , somewhere let me in so why can't I?" Plus most people are grateful to be let in and neve…
/r/seduction21/11/11 01:15 AM
1

If you see flirting as game then yeah it's a hassle. I choose to see it as part of the mating ritual, a sort of a seductual dance that needs to be done in order to prime each other.
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:53 PM
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This. Also, if you check out /r/sex there's usually posts in there about women who have gone gasp two weeks without getting laid. Learn the art of hunting, and then when you hunt you get the 'kill'... if you don't learn how to hunt then how can you feed?
/r/seduction18/11/11 09:51 PM
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Don't ever think anyone is 'the one' unless you've been in a relationship with them for at least two years.
/r/seduction16/11/11 02:40 AM
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That's the problem with every guy trying to learn seduction. That's why most systems force you to go out there and embrace rejection. It's for two reasons: You get over your fear of rejection. It's part of the game. You learn what works for you and what doesn't. The things that work are things that will feel easier for you to say/do and is what develops your inner game. Just FYI from what I understand of the game. I'm by no means any more different than a step above an AFC.
/r/seduction15/11/11 07:09 PM
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What? The psychology is simply building up your self-esteem and establishing that you the individual is worth getting anyone you desire. PuA/seduction is just the mechanism by which you go to achieve that confidence.
/r/seduction14/11/11 12:16 AM
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brown guy What the fuck?.... What does it matter if you're brown? I'm brown too and I don't care! :P Good FR man, glad to see you're enjoying your progress.
/r/seduction13/11/11 10:01 PM
1

Yeah I've had that advice before but it's pretty difficult to simply understand what 'breath from your diaphragm' means without knowing whether or not my diaphragm is moving. It's like saying 'think using your frontal lobe' ... I'm like 'okay...' but yeah I've been trying to work on the diaphragm breathing. Thanks :)
/r/seduction10/11/11 03:39 PM
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Hey it's all BS and they charge you money to rip you off... Take my course, it's more real it costs XYZ and it works! Hypocrites, everywhere. How is this guy different from all the other seminars? His method is direct game but his still selling products. Does his method work? Yeah, cause it teaches guys to be confident. Do other seminars/methods work? Yeah, cause it teaches guys to be confident. Bottom line, what do all these seminars have in common? Telling guys to stop giving a f*ck about the …
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:26 AM
1

Texts are considered IOIs now?
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:22 AM
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Try it the other way and you sound ten times less like Harrison Ford. You said there is no 'try'. You failed. BUT because I noticed it, it indicates that I'm following your advice, therefore you win. I see what you did there. Also, you stuff sounds a lot like NLP... I like. No, wait... I love. What does 'canvassing' mean? Good post btw. The only problem/question I have is that I have a soft-toned voice, and one tip I learned to be more vocal/heard/understood better is to enunciate the last conso…
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:11 AM
1

"No. We are enemies.", then face-punch.
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:07 AM
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the lesson is, don't go home when you can be hitting on women. I'm tattooing that quote on me. ... Nice.
/r/seduction10/11/11 04:01 AM
3

AFC is usually a really basic term. It means Average Frustrated Chump (just means anyone who hasn't learned to seduce).
/r/seduction08/11/11 10:56 PM
1

Sidebar...
/r/seduction08/11/11 08:50 PM
1

Sidebar...
/r/seduction08/11/11 08:50 PM
1

What does this have to do with /r/seduction???
/r/seduction08/11/11 08:49 PM
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Wow, nice. Look at it this way, you failed at setting up a 4-some simply because you invited another male to join. Next time, don't ask anyone else to join. The party was set.
/r/seduction06/11/11 09:15 PM
1

You say kino should be reciprocal. It is. Otherwise you stop doing it, and go back to the previous step of building rapport and comfort. If kino isn't working it's because the previous step failed. If you fail at step B, it's because step A wasn't fully settled.
/r/seduction06/11/11 09:06 PM
1

Cool. Never met a female pua but hope it works out for you. Reddit-Love from a fellow
/r/seduction06/11/11 09:02 PM
2

Learn to get other girls. Some people are flakes just because stuff in life comes up. Stop focusing on her and get out there.
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:37 PM
1

How should i ask her out. I would just have to go upto her and say something and ask her out without building attraction. There aren't a lot of oppoturnities because the 9/10 times i see her, she is with a co-worker and i am not going to talk to her then If you've developed your game well enough then opening her shouldn't be a problem. Neither should building rapport. I think your problem is the fear of getting 'rejected' by a girl who has girlfriend potential. Simple advice: Go ask her out. Use…
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:34 PM
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Go back to the context. There was GingerTiger that made comments to my post too that had some good info. She's female and she buys men drinks too.
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:29 PM
1

Man I've read this in about 5-10 different posts on Seddit's Frontpage... do you have this somewhere as a CopyPasta for when it comes in handy? Alot of these posts could easily be cleared up by simple reading of the sidebar. Modding must be hard/annoying. Just giving you props Curve :)
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:16 PM
1

You learned seduction for the wrong reason (You haven't really learned seduction by the way): You don't learn seduction to get girls. You learn seduction because it's a mission of self-improvement. Look at it this way, you don't set a goal in your head of "I want to be a successful businessman" and then stop pursuing it once you get a part-time time job at Taco Bell. Or saying you want to get in shape and then stop going to the gym when you lost ten pounds. The reason you have no desire to conti…
/r/seduction06/11/11 08:09 PM
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Learn to embrace rejection /thread. She came out of left field. Considering that you guys aren't good friends at all, the fact that she added doesn't mean anything. She could've updated FB had your e-mail saved in her contacts on the e-mail client, and simply added you because FB asked if it could. When you said "Let's catch up" why would she want to catch up? You guys have nothing to catch up on. If you wanted to play with her, you could've simply asked her why she added you. Then whatever her …
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:49 PM
3

when I had the funds I was that girl who bought the drinks every time. Nah, it's not trying to hard, it's just that you simply come out of left field. For example, it's like meeting a girl who's 6ft tall. At first I'm like, 'Whoa' but after a second I'm back to normal. It's that 'whoa' moment - the caught of guard moment, that's the problem. Was I trying too hard? Maybe? Maybe. Maybe not. ...basically, if a guy doesn't have any qualms about a little emasculation, he's probably very confident for…
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:46 PM
1

/r/relationships.
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:42 PM
1

Don't date women until you've established that you're in a relationship with them. You don't want to spend your time or money on dating women you don't connect with. Women love dating because it's free, and might be fun. Men don't need to date by spending money, but don't waste your time dating women you just want to bang. Plus, dating women you're in a relationship with keeps the flame on/high. Just get better at opening, and learning that rejection doesn't matter.
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:40 PM
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she was down to go back with me but her friend was being cold (all my guy friends tried to be a wingman... didn't work, but o well) This means that you didn't win over her friend. Maybe your LMR's are simply a failure to win over her friends. Try focusing more on your potentials friends, for example, compliment them or ask their opinions, this will show that you hold them of higher value, and will be less likely that you think of them as 'those types of girls'. It's all about giving them value, …
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:20 PM
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I think the turn-off comes from not being 'normal'. I mean, it's just so rare that we wouldn't know how to react. But... If you're doing it as a opener, then you're doing it wrong. If you're doing it a guy you've been chatting up a bit: If he offered to buy you a drink first and you said 'No, let me buy you one' then you just emasculated him. If you went to buy yourself a drink, and just happened to buy him one too, then what you've shown is that you're a girl who's out to have fun and don't min…
/r/seduction06/11/11 07:04 PM
1

I. Just. Came. Not from the threesome, but from sheer awesomeness.
/r/seduction06/11/11 01:21 AM
1

Big. Hug.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:57 AM
1

not to sound vain. It's not vain, it shows what level you're at with your game. Congratz. There shouldn't be hater on seddit for you to have to say 'not to be vain'. Tofu Tofu has a thing about using the bathroom to break last minute resistance.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:56 AM
1

...but Hitch bought her a drink too. He only would've got away with it cause he has game (although it is a movie). Also... "Or she might say...(pause)..." HUGE reliance on her to comply, if not comply - wut do?
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:49 AM
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What?... Girls who approach guys: Intimidating only because it might catch me off-guard. If she's running similar game to mine, we'll laugh, slap each other's buttcheeks and have enjoy the rest of the night. We'd probably wing each other and then birfday sex. Is this you? Girls buying drinks for me? Yes. Guys/Me buying drink for girls? Nah. Just curious, why is it that you think you need to develop game? Most guys try because it's expected of them - I'm just curious why you would do it.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:44 AM
2

Nice. This made me laugh.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:33 AM
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As I'm not the outgoing type, this was quite a tough decision for me. Stepping out of your comfort zone is always a good thing. went up to them, introduced me and asked them I'd they go to this club often and if it's always that "busy". They didn't respond well, so I moved on Why are you opening with stuff everyone else would open up with? Your point is to stand out, not fade in with what every other guy would say. I talked to the other bartender, but she wasn't into talking. She's working. Next…
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:32 AM
1

For some reason, this whole pickup/seduction thing seems like one, big mask or disguise, designed to conceal your actual personality and to give women a wrong impression of yourself. You're doing it wrong. It's meant to teach you how to be comfortable with who you are, by first giving you routines, failing, learning that failing doesn't matter, and then you go out there with the confidence to be you. That's it.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:21 AM
1

If you suck at being social it's best to start with basics (assuming you're supper bad at being social): Say "Good morning" to people you pass while running. Practice smiling by smiling at everyone you meet at customer service jobs, and say 'thank you', 'thanks', etc... If you have a problem maintaining eye-contact, practice on keeping eye contact with people driving towards you (obviously while you're on a side walk, or they're exiting a parking lot). This limits the 'amount' of time you actual…
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:17 AM
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"Number 2" here from your subreddit. I like your CF attempts. At least failing allows you to work on modifying it a bit, until you perfect it, then you'll be CF. Glad to see someone else is out there just trying to improve on opening set, especially from the get-go. QQ: Why are you running out of money? Are you drinking too much? I've found that one drink an hour is all I limit myself to so that I don't rely on alcohol as a stimulant to open sets.
/r/seduction06/11/11 12:13 AM
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Well thanks for the insight on the second half. But to keep the philosophical debate short: i don't believe what I typed in the first portion, it was just used as a simple model, and as something some may feel familiar with. I think the model simply reasons, there's no reason not to believe in God since even if you're wrong, it won't matter. There's no punishment for being wrong. To tie that in with the latter portion - there's no 'wrong' reason to live your life in 'fear' it's perfectly normal.…
/r/seduction04/11/11 10:44 PM
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Notice that he said he doesn't like Bars/clubs. I'm noticing this a lot among the PuA. Those interested in day game, rarely if ever, are interested in Club game. and vice-versa. Really weird, because the whole point of seduction is that you should be yourself, regardless of where you're at and therefore should pull similar results in places. Very weird. Nice video though. He's going full-peacock with that hair.
/r/seduction03/11/11 11:21 PM
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In a value-based system, lacking value is the worst thing you can be. Fear keeps you from accepting that you have no value and keeps you participating with Society. Consider it like the philosophical reasoning on whether or not to believe in God: God Exists? Yes No Believe Eternal Life n/a Don't Believe Eternal Damnation n/a The argument here is that regardless of whether God exists or not, it's best to believe simply because the payout/punishment is worth it. In terms of value, here's this tabl…
/r/seduction03/11/11 10:27 PM
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This. Actually. Made. Sense. Seems like the question (mark) implies that you're waiting for an answer. Without it, it reads like you couldn't care less.
/r/seduction02/11/11 11:43 PM
1

Read the material. Nowhere in any material does it ever suggest to buy anybody drinks. They advice you don't drink at all, but most PuA anyways (they don't follow there own advice)... never has it been advised to buy a woman a drink.
/r/seduction29/10/11 08:32 PM
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I don't celebrate halloween... no for religious reasons, it's just that I grew up poor and my costume would consist of me painting my face black. I'd call myself Black Face... somehow, now that would seem inappropriate. In terms of seduction, do you see it as an art-form or do you see it as a machine/mechanism? Also, do you see learning seduction also helping you out in other aspects of life - such as business, friendships, job interviews, etc.
/r/seduction27/10/11 06:54 PM
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He's pointing out the extremes in thinking... I like it.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 09:34 PM
1

End the notion that women are legally entitled to things simply because they're women, and mothers. End the mentality that men don't need to express emotions to be 'real men', leading them to never saying "I love you" to their wife or kids, or even an "I'm proud" moment. Point out the hypocrisy in relationships. I think a good father comes from being a happy father. A happy father lives in a happy home. A happy father comes home to a happy wife. The happy relationship between mother and father, …
/r/MensRights13/10/11 06:13 PM
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Ahhhh, I see now. Actually that would make sense. Thanks for the insight. I'm guessing that's why there would be so few that look so good? Not criticizing, just saying that it's a big decision to make at such a young age and the help needed to do so might not be so easy to come by.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 05:49 PM
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Oh sorry, I'm guessing you don't believe in evolution? Thanks for the chortle. I'm guessing you also don't believe in sexual dimorphism within species? I mean, both male and female peacocks have bright plumage right? /educational moment.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 05:46 PM
2

You ever been confused for a man/trans? Just asking, since I have no visuals to go off of.
/r/MensRights13/10/11 05:45 PM
1

I like.
/r/seduction12/10/11 10:57 PM
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You can usually tell from other things though and not just genitals. Hand size, shoulder width, arm movements, walking gapes, etc are all visual cues that are evolutionary distinct between the sexes. As for the sexual aspects of it, once they're seeing you naked they pretty much are too excited to be critiquing the genitalia anyways. By then, it's all good trans or not, cause obviously they want to see you nakiez!
/r/MensRights12/10/11 10:46 PM
2

Just like why would you expect to know if your significant other was being faithful or not. I personally don't care but some people would like to know all pertinent information when making decisions. If this is one of those things, and you keep it from them, then expect the consequences (those being heartbroken, ashamed, distrustful, etc and not violence) If you don't want it to be a big deal, then date men who don't consider it a big deal. How do you find them? By letting them know upfront, the…
/r/MensRights12/10/11 10:40 PM
1

That's pretty misogynistic of you misogynistic You're in the wrong sub-reddit. I don't hate women, I love women. Everybody is a left-over, the only difference between you and food is that you can make the conscious effort to change yourself fix those things that you feel are wrong. but I like to think of myself as more than just somebody's leftovers. That's fine. You'll be leftover wormfood when you die, just like the rest of us. Just because a woman isn't a virgin doesn't make her "leftovers". …
/r/seduction12/10/11 05:38 PM
1

Thanks for the FTFY, I just didn't include men because it seemed like OP didn't date men.
/r/seduction12/10/11 05:35 PM
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Your mistake is thinking that some women aren't left-overs. All women are left-overs unless they're virgins. So would a man want left-overs? Yes. I just wouldn't left-overs I once had, vomited up, and then was offered again. I threw that shit up for a reason.
/r/seduction12/10/11 12:12 AM
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Habits define who you are. If you habitually quit, then you're a quitter. Questions break habits. Whenever you are about to do something you don't like (i.e. not talk to a girl) ask yourself questions. Ask: "Why can't I?, Who said I couldn't? What's it going to hurt? Am I going to die from it? Why the fuck am I talking to myself in my head?!?" Then act the way you want to act. Go and talk. This breaks unwanted habits. New habit is then formed slowly but surely. After time, the new habit is habit…
/r/seduction11/10/11 06:43 PM
2

Plus then you get to watch Daytime TV. ... Imagine how daytime TV would be different if men stayed home? Boobies during the daytime?!?! :O Yes.
/r/MensRights06/10/11 06:47 PM
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Good, maybe now women can end up paying child support and alimony. Win.
/r/MensRights04/10/11 08:56 PM
2

Two problems: Challenging the courts that the minor misrepresented their age doesn't negate the fact that the crime was still committed (sex with a minor). Want to fix this one? Pretty hard to do, you'd have to pass legislation for it. Hard to get a politician to back any legislation where having sex with a minor was 'okay'. The societal acceptance of a Female suspect but immediate hatred for the Male suspect. Want to fix this one? Make just as big of a racket when women commit the crime as when…
/r/MensRights03/10/11 07:46 PM
1

Yeah... too many colors. At least the equal sign could have been made a solid color, that way it would balance out.
/r/MensRights03/10/11 07:37 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/MensRights02/10/11 07:42 PM
0

Sorry I'm not on reddit 24/7 fag. I have a life. Enjoy the penis in your ass.
/r/MensRights02/10/11 07:42 PM
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Is there a context link for the purpose of the picture?
/r/MensRights30/09/11 11:17 PM
3

Yes. Most of those also seem like valid reasons for a woman to break up with a man.
/r/seduction29/09/11 07:45 PM
3

Why is this in Men's Rights? This is a relationship issue not a Men's Right issue...
/r/MensRights21/09/11 10:09 PM
3

I.e. Business Relationship.
/r/seduction18/09/11 08:26 PM
1

No.
/r/seduction10/09/11 07:47 PM
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This. "I always had boyfriends when I was younger..." Problem with older women is that they become less desirable, and single men at similar ages have options to date younger women. I bet when she was younger she was dating older men as well, but somehow now in her late age it's deemed 'inappropriate' for men to pursue young women. It's good when it benefits them, bad when it doesn't.
/r/seduction02/09/11 08:57 PM
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Go over.... and bring alcohol.
/r/seduction02/09/11 07:53 PM
1

I think game is all about scoring notches on your bedpost That's your problem. You think game comes from validation. I see "game" as getting anyone I chase. I don't have to have sex with many women, or hit triple digits in sexual partners, I just have to be able to get who I want to get. I want the confidence to act, I want 'game'. As for game in relationships, the way I say it, I could reword it as, "I want to be confident at all times with my SO."
/r/seduction01/09/11 07:37 PM
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I just see "LTR" and "game" being rather contradictory terms. Then you're not doing it right. If you don't believe in the benefits of seducing your SO then someone might as well sweep in and seduce her for you. When you're in a relationship, you have to be Alpha/Seducer all the time. You want her to be yours and nobody elses. "A woman who is content can not be seduced [by others]" Robert Greene, Art of Seduction.
/r/seduction01/09/11 07:34 PM
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You get to the point of where you see anything you say to yourself simply for what it is: an excuse to fail. That's it. Nothing else matters except your mindset, if you think you're going to fail because of XYZ then you will fail. Same mindset works the other, if you know you're going to succeed because of ABC then you will. Seduction is an art-form, a craft, the more you do it the better you become. Just like any other form of art, the more you do it the better you get.
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:50 AM
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Maybe that's a chauvinistic/one-sided approach to looking at it Nope, that's actually pretty good. I want to get to the point of where I can seduce anyone I want regardless of socio-economic status, job title, fitness level, etc... I want to have that confidence level of where nothing is used as an excuse to fail.
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:47 AM
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background... whoops
/r/seduction01/09/11 01:44 AM
2

Yeah but you don't know you're doing it wrong until someone does it, with worse circumstances, to prove that it's not your situation, it's your mindset. That's why I love reading background stories on PuAs, I think I gain more insight from that than FR, only because my motivation is then amped.
/r/seduction31/08/11 11:25 PM
1

Any voice get's drowned out... I'm loud as hell and nobody can hear me in the clubs...
/r/seduction31/08/11 10:32 PM
2

FYI there's a highschool seddit.... Any form of kino is good kino, so I like. After both kisses the girls kinda played it off like nothing and I did too. Since they didn't reject you after it, I say keep doing it to them. That way you establish a baseline of that's the way you are... it's better than being seen as an AFC. Any form of progress is good progress.
/r/seduction31/08/11 10:23 PM
2

"I'm a ninja".
/r/seduction31/08/11 10:19 PM
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My stats to verify OP's story: Age: 26. Lived with parents after graduating college. Slept in my car the last three months of college due to costs. Unemployed for five months after graduation. Admitted AFC. Still banged a girl while I was sleeping out of my truck in college. Still banged two girls living out of my parents unconverted garage. It's not about the money. It's not about the looks. It's all about your self-confidence and your drive. This was all before I joined/knew about seduction, i…
/r/seduction31/08/11 10:15 PM
3

I work for a company where I constantly have to sub for other people... today I noticed I was flirting with a woman twice my age. ABG... practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction27/08/11 02:47 AM
1

Oh I don't doubt it, but how do you determine what the loss in future earnings were? Hard to say...
/r/MensRights25/08/11 10:01 PM
1

If men who get women pregnant without their consent... ... you mean as in rape? Or poking holes in condoms?
/r/MensRights24/08/11 09:32 PM
1

That's how it usually is. Attorneys aren't going to pick jurors who would vote against them. The plaintiff, identified only as John Doe in court documents, Thank god. is suing Sewanee for negligence and breach of contract, claiming he received no due process when forced to leave following a university ruling on the alleged rape. Good, I think he could win this case. He seeks money for the damage to his reputation and loss of future earnings. Future earnings?!?!... Bad, I think he could lose the …
/r/MensRights24/08/11 09:05 PM
2

Link to the article.
/r/MensRights24/08/11 07:33 PM
1

Yeah, but that's because you've already set it in your head that "I must know a person this much in order to have physical contact" ... I'm just saying that you can change that mentality if you wanted to. It's not a big deal. But it's like being sexually/flirtatious with people you've just met. If you're not used to or not familiar then it's uncomfortable. I myself, am trying to get to a point where anything I do/others do is comfortable.
/r/seduction19/08/11 11:13 PM
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and a hug isn't appropriate for a casual intro... That;s because that's what you felt is inappropriate. Have ever met people that were 'huggers'? They don't think it's appropriate. You ever meet someone and shake hands when introduced, but after talking to them they hug you good-bye when they leave? Why is it okay to hug when saying goodbye but not saying hello? ...
/r/seduction18/08/11 08:59 PM
1

He's just sleeping with her (as in, we've talked about this) Nice.
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:14 PM
1

When I meet girls I'm playful and I joke a lot with them, and a lot of my joking is borderline inappropriate, so they kind of expect it of me. That's the key... you establish from the get-go the type of person you are. That's problem with AFCs, they try to be something they're not in hopes of getting something they want. If you're upfront about everything you want, then those women who aren't seeking it will leave but those who are will gravitate towards you. You just developed your foundation a…
/r/seduction18/08/11 07:12 PM
2

This. The only thing that will matter will be the "what if" scenarios you play in your head when you don't ask her out.
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:17 PM
2

Nearly all the guys I work with have no problem walking up to a random new girl and attempting a move. Not really, otherwise there wouldn't be AFC. How do you know if a girl is attracted to you? Attraction can be built regardless of whether there's initial attraction or not. So it doesn't matter if she's attracted to you at the moment. But how do I know if she likes me enough to go out with me? Don't know until you ask. And from what you said, if you ask it always pays out. So ask her and it'll …
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:15 PM
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slow clap tears running down my eyes standing ovation proud.
/r/seduction17/08/11 09:43 PM
1

You're right, they're in the top eight, but Guinness had Marilyn listed as the Highest IQ before they retired the category of High IQ in 1990. Kim Ung-Yong is currently listed as the smartest person alive, but there's a reason the category was retired since test vary by regions and age, and there's not consistent measurement. That being said, since you understand std dev, and stated that most women fall into 'average' categories than Marylin being listed to so high (as to be in the top 8) would …
/r/MensRights17/08/11 09:25 PM
1

But Q follows P in the alphabet!!!!
/r/MensRights17/08/11 09:01 PM
1

"Just 'cause you're hung like a moose doesn't mean you gotta do porn." Lies. Beause I'm not hung like a moose, I can't do porn... so negative proven.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 08:21 PM
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You mean r/mensright should consider higher intelligence due to the Y chromosome only? ... I'd like to prefer to think that my intelligence came from hard work, studying, and dedication, not because I'm a male of my species.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 08:20 PM
1

The title of smartest people in the world belong to women... that's some major std dev there.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 08:18 PM
2

Never mind that a lot of great (male) inventors and scientists had little or no advanced schooling, and/or did badly. Says who? That's a general statement that doesn't seem valid.
/r/MensRights17/08/11 08:17 PM
2

"Can you believe bruinmario, he is working so hard to win over Liz; look at how much he has changed for her." Entitlement... women have it, so why shouldn't men? I negg the guy a little for being underage Hater-aide. Don't neg guys... Good job banging her sister... hopefully she was hotter.
/r/seduction17/08/11 12:19 PM
2

you just need a good spanking since she was very flirty sexually but instead...I use a different word like beating Lol... at least you would have said it correctly if you were sober.
/r/seduction17/08/11 11:11 AM
1

Hahaha Try using a real account and not a troll one. Lol
/r/seduction16/08/11 10:17 PM
1

Isn't it too late? It was only too late when he didn't act on her touchy-feely stuff. After that I think he lost it.
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:21 AM
1

her saying that she didn't want to lead me on, was only interested in me platonically That's not a rejection. That's a key sentence telling you that she's willing to bang you without commitment. She doesn't want to get emotionally involved. so we went to the park with a box of wine... ? I've had box of wine but I've never once thought of it being used on a date.... nice. That gives you points in my book. there were a couple of times when she got a little more than chummy... Told, physical attrac…
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:20 AM
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I've done this with girls who smell good. Like their conditioner or shampoo or perfume... I'll smell it at the bar, let's say, and ask what they're wearing (perfume?), they'll say "BLAHblah ..." and I say "Wow it smells good", smile, and leave with my drink. Then talkie time laterz... if I don't get AA
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:13 AM
1

Three options: 1) She probably met some real successful people, wherever she studied abroad, and compared you to them. Considering you were going to move with her while she went to Grad school shows you didn't have a life game-plan and where just tagging along. She probably compared you to the people she met, and behold, you weren't meeting up to her standards. The reason she probably feels bad or guilty about leaving you is because she's emotionally attached to you, but logically she has to mov…
/r/seduction16/08/11 12:09 AM
3

Or you can try touching them places where they won't know the palms are sweaty, like covered areas of the body.
/r/seduction10/08/11 08:34 PM
10

First how old are you? That's trivial information. He could be 18 or 55, it wouldn't matter. You'd just be looking for info to validate or invalidate some belief you have. Second, would you say that okcupid is a decent site for finding these types of dates? It's a dating site, so it pretty much goes that it will be used for dating.
/r/seduction10/08/11 08:20 PM
1

Learn to wink, tilt you head, play with your hair, touch the guy's shoulders/back, bite your lip, etc.... learn the art of flirting.
/r/seduction09/08/11 05:27 PM
4

Or community college for the cost-conscious
/r/seduction09/08/11 04:39 PM
2

Welcome young padowan, welcome.
/r/MensRights09/08/11 04:34 PM
5

I'm glad he stepped up to her BS and then treated her like a sub-dominant... "I don't think you're cool. You're insecure" lol You had to validate yourself. Lol
/r/MensRights04/08/11 07:40 PM
1

waffle?
/r/MensRights04/08/11 03:58 AM
1

Awwwe, it's cute that you decided your input was needed. Nice.
/r/MensRights03/08/11 09:30 PM
1

Sidebar --> High School Seddit.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:57 AM
2

Later comes, and she doesn't reply to my text message or phone call. What makes you think she gave you the right number and not a blow-off number?
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:52 AM
7

Give him your number.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:50 AM
1

You're reading too much into it... OP could've said it.
/r/seduction02/08/11 04:18 AM
1

I've talked about it numerous times, it's a concept known as "sexual anxiety" and he's getting over it. Then you talk about the process of how you got there... not just boast of the results. We have anxiety that we aren't good enough, or performance anxiety, or whatever. Hell, I couldn't orgasm the first couple of times I had sex. A good solution: have more sex. Practice makes perfect. I totally understand this portion, but where in the original post does it hint at the "sexual anxiety" ?
/r/seduction02/08/11 03:11 AM
3

Nice.
/r/seduction01/08/11 11:25 PM
1

Ok... but what does this have to do with seduction? ... This is just bragging that you got laid, being at the right place at the right time...
/r/seduction01/08/11 11:25 PM
1

How is it a FWB if you didn't have sex? ...
/r/seduction01/08/11 11:24 PM
1

It's so cute how you think being condescending merits actual response... look at you, and big and mighty! Good boy! You win! :D
/r/MensRights01/08/11 11:13 PM
1

Awwwwe, it's cute how you think the conversation is still going on. That's nice, I'll let you continue until you decide it's okay to end it. Congratz :D You win!
/r/MensRights01/08/11 11:03 PM
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The other reason was that government "allows" person a to do something. Awwwe, that's cute. you think you're an anarchist. <3 Did you ask daddy before you dared to raise your prices? Awwwe, it's cute how you don't think that taxes help pay for public education. Do you "allow" the market to fluctuate without your participation? That sucks, maybe you should ask your daddy how to research <3 Reddit Love.
/r/MensRights01/08/11 10:12 PM
2

Rofl. Rofl - Because he doesn't know how subsidization of student loans jacks up the price.
/r/MensRights01/08/11 10:05 PM
4

... So favor for a favor? Got it. So what's wrong with the sugar-daddy/sugar-baby scenario?
/r/MensRights01/08/11 10:00 PM
7

Because getting somebody to pay your way [] is the height of empowerment. FTFY ... and yeah, pretty much.
/r/MensRights01/08/11 08:50 PM
1

Agreed. I would venture to say that she is/has a mentality of a virginess looking for a prince charming, but ultimately more focused on her schooling/education and developing a career. But then I'd be speculating too much.
/r/seduction01/08/11 08:38 PM
1

That's what I'm thinking. I think it's more of a "I have no value unless someone values me" concept. BUT I could be wrong and looking to help a fellow redditor nonetheless.
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:43 PM
1

Hahahaahahahaha you must have not read up on the people who started the PUA movement. Lrnz2read. All PUA is meant to do is give you confidence to pursue what you want. End.
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:42 PM
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Argument 1) If student debt weren't so high, perhaps they could pay it off themselves. Blame government for allowing schools to charge so much. Argument 2) Water seeks the path of least resistance. If they're are sugar-daddies willing to pay, then I'm not going to blame the sugar-babies for taking advantage of it.
/r/MensRights01/08/11 07:36 PM
1

He used to call and we'd have long conversations, he'd drive long distances to see me and then all of a sudden I wasn't enough anymore. Nah, if he likes you that much, then you already had him hooked and you just lost him. I suppose there will always be a wandering eye when it comes to guys, Nope, if we find one we're willing to forego the other ones. We're all looking for the same thing in life, even is you're a PUA or a AFC. I just wish I knew how to fixate that eye upon me... If he's doing al…
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:30 PM
1

You never know if you're in good place, or if he's just in it for the sexy time. It cuts both way... is she in it for me? Or is she only into it because of all the attention I give her? I guess the only way to know is to hold out. She's holding out? Forget that, girl XYZ isn't and she seems to be into me more.
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:13 PM
2

It might be coming off as "too much work for little gain." Especially if you're not looking to settle down, then some guys would not be willing to take long drives, or cook for you, or go out of their way for you if you're just another girl they're dating but you take up too much work/time. You have to think about the balance, especially if you're not reciprocating it equally. Do unto them, what you want done unto you - seems like the easiest advice.
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:12 PM
1

I was hoping for some advice on picking up and maintaining men. I don't think it'd be hard to do. The hardest part would be to learn to flirt, and then let the guys do the rest. If you're wanting to pick up the "nice shy guys" then you'd have to do more work, but if you're trying to pick up the guys that already know the rules/game then it's just smile, touch, hug, etc... I'm too young to be settling down forever right now,... Do you mention certain things like "I'm looking for a relationship" o…
/r/seduction01/08/11 07:08 PM
2

Yeah, go with the French Chef comments, or just say in the Restaurant Business.... Or respond with "work is work" ... I say this because you might want to use your skill at being a 'chef' as a surprising tool in your arsenal.
/r/seduction01/08/11 05:46 AM
1

It sounds pretty clear like she wasn't interested in you... I don't know man, it's hard to tell. Russians have different cultural standards about what's okay and what's not. I mean, in Russia, if you smile to a stranger walking on a street it's seen as lewd/flirtatious... even smiling is only allowed in photos. She made some pretty clear hints.... "Well, I don't like you." "Maybe I like you if I didn't have boyfriend." she says, "Everybody lies. I lie. I flirt. But I never cheat." She talks abou…
/r/seduction01/08/11 05:18 AM
1

So how did the waving test pan out?
/r/seduction31/07/11 07:55 AM
28

I get stupiedly nervous around girls A LOT... But you got invited to a lingerie party?... Damn... jealous. Are you in college?
/r/seduction31/07/11 03:58 AM
5

Oh I don't doubt it. I think all comedians have a higher than average intelligence. It's just that - - - Not that I don't see 'it', it's that I don't get 'it'. Not a criticism, more of a, "Hey he can do it, why can't I?" .... That's it. Of course, it could also be envy.
/r/seduction27/07/11 11:49 PM
7

Russell Brand because I have no idea how this guy would even be considered a womanizer but he is...
/r/seduction27/07/11 10:27 PM
2

Link to original thread.
/r/MensRights27/07/11 06:39 PM
0

Ask: waffles or pancakes?
/r/seduction26/07/11 07:07 AM
1

Why tell them you're in a relationship? Your honesty is only to your gf, you don't have to be honest with the girls on the side. Open relationships are new/not too popular and so you'll come across people who are still into the "monogamous-only" type of relationships. If you want to you could join a swingers group or a sex club. They don't have any stigma like the kind you're facing. Also, check out /r/polyamory
/r/seduction21/07/11 12:23 AM
2

Cool, I'm number 2042... Awesome! I just checked out the subreddit, is it really that bad? Isn't it like a meta-circle jerk?
/r/MensRights20/07/11 09:08 PM
2

My apologies for assuming your sex/gender. I think both parties should have responsible, safe sex. That wasn't the statement, although I agree with multiple BC's, but the statement was men have no input in deciding whether or not the child is born. They certainly have an input in determining whether or not the women gets pregnant, but not give birth.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 02:10 AM
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Surely, then, you agree that if a woman sabotages birth control, the man should've just "gotten better birth control", and worn a condom or gotten a vasectomy, right? Yup. But I also know that it's the woman who has to carry the child for 9months and also that she is the last line of defense in terms of preventing pregnancy. So, in effect there's no excuse for her getting pregnant other than the fact "she wanted to get pregnant".... the number of birth control options for women as opposed to men…
/r/MensRights14/07/11 01:49 AM
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Then get better birth control... it's hard to sabotage a shot you have to get by a doctor once every five months.
/r/MensRights14/07/11 01:34 AM
1

Men can lie about birth control? ...
/r/MensRights14/07/11 01:33 AM
1

*Sweet, I got blown out. Finally. Taking risks! * Best reaction to a blow out... What a great mentality, I'm in shock that you felt you weren't putting yourself out there or taking risks. Awesome FR
/r/seduction13/07/11 11:52 PM
2

I think I'll call her again. think? ... Lol Nice job with the kino and leaning away, I probably would've taken the closed off as a "wall" and called the night a dead end. Seems like I would've failed where you succeeded. Good FR
/r/seduction13/07/11 11:41 PM
5

She's just using you for the attention... She's attention whoring. Either that or she's really shy/attractive and has never had to 'pursue' a guy. She's the one always getting pursued. She's banging other guys, and you're banging other women, so what does it matter? If you really want to play games you can invite a girl you're banging with you the next time you hang out as a group, but then you might have the problem that she (the non-initiative girl) will play that game to and start flirting wi…
/r/seduction13/07/11 06:53 PM
1

Risk factor, it makes sense. Thanks :)
/r/seduction17/06/11 08:24 PM
1

This. I don't do drugs, I don't like smoking at all, but I am a drinker. I hang out with smokers, pot-heads, drug-users, and they laid all the time and brag about it, and try to put me down (I'm a good-looking guy so they like brag that they get more girls than I do) and so I just bite my tongue. 1) the types of girls they're getting aren't as attractive as the girls I get [they may get more, but I feel I get better] and 2) I always have to explain to them that it's easier for them because of th…
/r/seduction17/06/11 07:26 PM
1

Anybody else think it's ten times easier for people who smoke weed, than non-smokers/drinkers?
/r/seduction17/06/11 06:38 PM
1

My question relies on the future generation, the children,.... Do you think that it's easier for a person to develop game if they grow up around positive male role models? Female role models? Both? Or irrelevant? Considering seduction as an art/skill would it even matter?
/r/seduction15/06/11 02:31 AM
5

It's in the post...
/r/seduction14/06/11 04:47 AM
0

Just shake your head and walk away. Don't say anything. If you really want to be a dick, you can do what girls do when they're approached by guys they don't want, and give them a disgusted look on your face implying "really?!? You actually think you can get with me?!?!"
/r/seduction13/06/11 09:59 PM
1

I would've been scared if that happened to me. Bitch could've been a psycho.
/r/seduction12/06/11 10:01 PM
2

It's not the quantity women complain about... it's the quality. General rule of thumb is that really attractive women attract rich/powerful men, the kind the can afford luxuries the normal guy can't BUT the lifestyle of these men also attracts lots of attractive women. The problem then becomes what does the guy do when loads of attractive women after him. Then the problem with being faithful comes in...
/r/seduction12/06/11 09:34 PM
1

The point of PUA isn't to pick up lots of girls... it's to give you the confidence to talk to any girl you desire to talk to and have the confidence to see if you can get her. Rather than thinking you can never get her. If you already have confidence in yourself to get girls, then there's no need to explain it. You get girls. Good for you.
/r/seduction11/06/11 10:55 PM
1

The best times I had were with people I was comfortable with, once I was comfortable with them I had sex in many different places, different positions, etc... That's just me, some people like to be adventurous with only new ppl. Whatever works is fine.... But I was talking about not getting nervous having sex, the more times you have it (with different ppl) the less nervous you get when doing it (or the lead up to doing it).
/r/seduction11/06/11 01:42 AM
2

No, I read the same thing and came it to give advice on that... on this I actually have no idea what to say
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:53 PM
3

Oh my bad, I thought the "Hey go fuck her" was the end of the escalation.
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:43 PM
2

I think you're missing the point. The point is he gave his number. He manned-up.
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:12 PM
3

*wipes tear from eye Laugh. but for reals. what did she say Laugh again. Who are you?!?!?! Me!?!?
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:11 PM
6

This analogy is also how you should approach 'dates' as well. The more you date, the more comfortable you feel in the 'dating' environment. The more the real, more relaxed you comes out (this 'real' you is what is portrayed as 'confidence' to women. What they perceive as confidence is always you just being comfortable with who you are.) ... This analogy is also going to apply to the number of women you bang. In the beginning, having sex might be odd, anxiety-inducing, exciting, panicky, etc... b…
/r/seduction10/06/11 06:08 PM
3

The way I reason it out with myself (I have never been 'the other guy') and to my friends (who feel guilty about being 'the other guy') is this: The girl was going to cheat anyways. In life, if someone's willing to cheat that's their choice. BUT if she's going to cheat, it's best she cheats with someone's who's clean, uses protection, and isn't going to cause the 'innocent' (as far as I know he's innocent, but he could've cheated on her before and this may be her payback) boyfriend any drama. So…
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:52 PM
1

This is just an excuse you tell yourself to explain why you aren't having the success you desire. And this is the reasoning that keeps me working hard on trying to improve myself. mad_about_shoe may still be in the first phase, but being on here is a step in the right direction.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:47 PM
3

If you say "no homo" it's not gay.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:46 PM
2

I would've that too until I read the line where he admits to only having slept with 3 girls... I don't care what you look like, if anyone had only slept with 3 girls they'd all feel the same sort of intimidation/fear I would have felt in that given moment. Difference is, he chose to act on it.
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:45 PM
2

Wow, did you know at the time or did you find out later with HB7 & HB8 drinking? ... If later, would you (or any PUA) automatically taken it to be a positive sign?
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:43 PM
2

Where did he escalate? Not criticizing, I'm just a n00b/AFC. Was it the bow-tie moment?
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:22 PM
2

Best fucking line in the whole story: Nothing close to this has ever happened to me, until now, I'd only slept with 3 girls. I hated you until then,... then you became my inspiration. I was jealous, then inspired. Good [FR]
/r/seduction10/06/11 05:19 PM
1

So now it's been posted over 13 times?
/r/MensRights05/06/11 05:12 PM
2

That's assault and a rape waiting to happen, they will be rapists in the future!!! Send those bitches to jail! Women have to be responsible and held accountable for their actions no matter what!!!! ...
/r/MensRights05/06/11 05:11 PM
5

Well you can just change some of the numbers in the url that way you get the discount too but it doesn't get associated with the site/blog
/r/MensRights04/06/11 06:56 PM
8

definitely no a tl;dr worth post.
/r/seduction28/05/11 01:54 AM
2

It's a cliffhanger... Tune in to next week's episodes.
/r/seduction28/05/11 01:51 AM
1

The purpose of learning how to be a PUA isn't to bang tons of chicks (that's just a perk) the whole point of learning PUA is to gain the confidence to go after the girls you would've never thought of chasing/getting. This may be that girl for you and even if in the long run it doesn't end well, would you rather be with tons of chicks and regret not having taken the chance, or taken the chance. You learned PUA for a reason, not it's time to benefit from it.
/r/seduction27/05/11 11:43 PM
2

I'm not into the type of music played in the reference link, but I do understand from the video what you mean about variety, tempo, and space. Here's a video to latin-type dancing which also shows the same ideas to different music/style. Granted, these people are probably a couple, and have danced with each other for long, as well as they come off as experts but I'm solely looking at the way the guy is moving/tempo/variety/and space taken up. Plus, his girl has a smile on her face the whole time…
/r/seduction27/05/11 11:12 PM
4

It's a relationship, like any other relationship. Take it as it comes. Most of the time you don't end up being friends (if this was a one-itis/ex) but if it starts out as a fwb, then yeah friendships develop afterwards. But honestly, do you want to stay friends with someone you used to bang, and at a certain point no longer can/want to?
/r/seduction26/05/11 06:17 AM
2

Holy shit. That makes perfect sense.
/r/seduction25/05/11 08:36 PM
2

Hmm... this makes so much sense. Upboats, buddy. Upboats.
/r/seduction18/05/11 09:59 PM
8

Shit. Awesome. Fucking. Reply. Totally made me feel fifty times better about myself in this situation... I just got around it by blaming it on the economy, but your rationale makes me smile. In a good way. Much love.
/r/seduction18/05/11 09:40 PM
0

tl;dr that shit.
/r/seduction18/05/11 05:47 PM
1

"why do they want to be with women that need to be seduced?" Is isn't that women need to be seduced. It's that men need to be taught to be confident, and it is that confidence that then attracts women. We just label it seduction because it's easier to learn a skill, through practice, rather than accept that it's already innate. If you notice, those individuals that are learning seduction are really timid, shy, geeky, or perhaps males who grew up with single mothers, or older sisters, lack of mal…
/r/seduction18/05/11 05:18 PM
2

Lesson: 1) Don't be a nice guy. 2) Accept your inner jerk. 3) Work on physical appearance so women won't have to 'settle' for you. QED PUA here I come!
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:23 PM
4

Girls are cute... not intimidating. Best fucking advice ever. It's not lack of skill that ruins individuals (because individuals can always learn to be better) it's the intimidation that stops people from achieving their goals. A+
/r/seduction09/05/11 08:33 PM
4

Don't use money as a necessity. For example, don't assume once I get money I'll get women. Use it as a method to accentuated your method, i.e. Once I get money I'll get different types of women. Not more, but better.
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:49 AM
13

Damn,... TIL I'm Option 2.
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:48 AM
1

Nah, I think you lost your chance. If you had a chance it would've been then and there, now if you go back, it'll seem like she has you chasing her like a puppy. Or show up a half hour or so before closing, say you were at another party and just decided to drop in... DHV. Yeah, but I don't mind.
/r/seduction28/04/11 02:19 AM
1

A Beta wonders what it takes to be an alpha. An alpha says "what the fucks an Alpha?"... then when told, he's says "Oh yeah, that's me."
/r/seduction28/04/11 02:17 AM
1

Why not just say "Well, I'll see what happens. If I can't work anything out, I guess I won't be seeing you." Leave it up to her to make the move, since you like being seduced. If she doesn't then you know not to give the gift (that's what I would do)
/r/seduction27/04/11 07:40 PM
2

Why not just say "Well, I'll see what happens. If I can't work anything out, I guess I won't be seeing you." Leave it up to her to make the move, since you like being seduced. If she doesn't then you know not to give the gift (that's what I would do)
/r/seduction27/04/11 07:38 PM
1

I suck so bad at every single one of them, and here's the catch: the guys are all being so super nice and kind about it that every ounce of attraction fades away and they are all friend zoned although they are dropping IOIs like crazy Damn,... that would've been me. Honestly, you should set up a routine where you go out with other sedditors and show them how guys mess up. I think that would really help people out. Keep postin'! don't put the pussy on a pedestal! Hardest lesson for a man to learn…
/r/seduction15/04/11 08:02 PM
3

Not every guy wants to sex up every woman who gets near him ... Are you capable of facing rejection? This and this. If you're able to accept rejection, then you should find someone soon. It's a numbers game.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:57 PM
3

I feel like a 15 year old and everyone else is so experienced. This is how most guys feel and why the art of seduction has to be taught through subreddits like this and PUA's out in the field. I never really understood how women can feel insecure, because I assumed their value was always determined based on how they dress. If you wanted to be valued you can head to clubs and bars, make eye contact, smile, and watch the guys line up to meet you. I can't tell the difference between legitimate sexu…
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:56 PM
11

The 5 year relationship probably fucked you up a lil Curse and a blessing. Being in a LTR probably made him better in bed than most people (because of the communication and comfort levels) but probably killed his dating/pick-up game. I know it certainly did mine...
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:08 PM
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Truer words never spoken. Guys have to realize that when a women is seeking someone, there's plenty of options they have, so don't do anything to limit yourself or hold yourself back. Thanks OP for the lurker post, and insight into my own insecurities.
/r/seduction15/04/11 07:06 PM
13

I need to Alpha up more, I've been wasting my time. I laughed. I cried. I bawl'd. I proud.
/r/seduction02/04/11 05:33 AM
1

I shrug it off and continue dancing with my friends I would say this is Alpha, you're still there with your boys and you're there to have fun. But my confidence in approaching is shot It's not about the number of times you hear 'no', it's only about the number of times you hear 'yes'... You never hear yes if you don't approach. From an admitted Beta... don't be me.
/r/seduction02/04/11 05:04 AM
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Isn't the hard part now? Now that you've kissed the girl... I mean aren't you a beta who did an alpha move? This doesn't automatically make you an alpha does it? I'm just trying to bring you back to the beta-side...
/r/seduction02/04/11 04:56 AM
3

I got a quarter reading this.
/r/seduction02/04/11 04:54 AM
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