Hey Seddit,

Wish I read up on this more often, but hindsight is 20/20. Here's my scenario:

Went to college with this girl I thought was cool. She showed some interest in hanging out with me, but I knew she had a boyfriend so I tried to stay away.

After about a year of not speaking to each other, she randomly facebook chats me. We catch up a little bit. She eventually brings up that she wants to hang out and blaze soon (something we had in common when we first started hanging out).

I asked her what her boyfriend would think if she was hanging out with other dudes. She said that "he probably wouldn't like it, so we probably shouldn't tell him. It should be fine if we don't cross any lines, right?"

What does she expect me to do? How should I play it? What the hell is going on...