Ettienenumberfive Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	Should I bother with constant shit testing?	Ettienenumberfive	/r/seduction	07/10/19 05:37 PM
2	Anyone else turned off by how easy picking up seems to be now?	Ettienenumberfive	/r/seduction	14/10/19 11:43 AM
2	Potential girl has much hotter ex boyfriend - should I bother?	Ettienenumberfive	/r/seduction	10/10/19 12:24 PM
1	Convos fizzle out of you Leave too long before the date?	Ettienenumberfive	/r/seduction	15/10/19 05:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	how to get over hook-up nerves? Porn use will also reduce your arousal during hookups so there’s that too So many factors! But one thing you might feel like I do is that after a long term serious relationship, you realise that random pussy is not as exciting as we imagined it would be, and actually relationship sex is better in pretty much every way.	/r/seduction	18/10/19 08:41 AM
2	how to get over hook-up nerves? Hey OP, I’m in a similar boat, I split with my fiancée and have been back dating for a few weeks. In that time I have had two hookups, one a disaster like yours, but the other very successful. Honestly the big difference between the two imo was time. The terrible hookup was on the first date, the great one was a booty call a few days later. There is an emotional element and I think the time to think on the date and the person you met allows some of that emotional stuff to settle. So that’s one. …	/r/seduction	18/10/19 07:28 AM
1	Convos fizzle out of you Leave too long before the date? I can’t decide what’s more awkward: making shit boring conversation until the date or just going relatively quiet and not saying much?	/r/seduction	15/10/19 06:48 PM
2	Not oneitis but... I’m a bit like this too, I just prefer to form a connection with someone even if it’s for something casual, and if You’re doing that with multiple girls at the same time not only is it time consuming but it also undermines that feeling of connection in the first place or even challenges your attitude towards human connection itself. Dont do anything you don’t enjoy, there is literally nothing to be gained from sleeping with heaps of women. If you want to focus on one, focus on one, yes it might …	/r/seduction	15/10/19 08:28 AM
1	Anyone else turned off by how easy picking up seems to be now? A big part of the quantity I’m referring to is probably my location (a European capital) and I agree that the workload to get on the date is higher than it was, but it seems like when you’re on that date, it’s like a foregone conclusion. The girls go into it wanting sex and they will be damned if they’re not gonna get it from you. It feels completely different to when I was dating in the early 2010s. 2010 me would obviously have dreamt of a time like this, but now that it’s here it really sucks …	/r/seduction	14/10/19 02:45 PM
2	Anyone else turned off by how easy picking up seems to be now? A Scandinavian one	/r/seduction	14/10/19 02:44 PM
1	Successful at picking up but don’t even enjoy the sex? I’m very good at sex in a relationship but apparently I suck at pick up sex, are they two different skills??	/r/seduction	12/10/19 03:57 PM
1	Potential girl has much hotter ex boyfriend - should I bother? This is not normally a thought that crosses my mind but it is this time specifically because he looks like a male model, not just above average, but one of those Instagram guys that barely exist. He also looks dumb as shit. You don’t usually pick those guys for any reason other than his looks and even though I’m happy with my looks I tend to sell myself a lot more on personality and value etc	/r/seduction	10/10/19 01:11 PM
1	Is there a double standard with girls trying to game guys? I’m sure you are a very intelligent person and I also find the psychology of attraction interesting but when it comes to initial stage there really is no skill or game required when you are a woman, even if you are below average looks let alone a lingerie model. At most there is some game playing in attempting to keep him out of your bed but still interested, but your looks will dictate most of the effort he puts in. I honestly believe that the need to game men comes deep into a relationship whe…	/r/seduction	08/10/19 07:54 PM
1	Is there a double standard with girls trying to game guys? Sorry but where does game or psychology come into a lingerie model picking up guys? Or is it their game and psychology you find fascinating? Because initially attracting a male does not require any use of brain power or social awareness on your part whatsoever.	/r/seduction	08/10/19 02:06 PM
1	Should I bother with constant shit testing? The problem is one shit test leads to another at this point, no matter how many I pass, and I can’t even have a normal conversation with the girl	/r/seduction	07/10/19 06:00 PM