I have not been single for over 5 years. In that time I have become more confident, successful and maybe a bit better looking but generally speaking I am the same person. Back then I did use tinder and some pre tinder dating apps and I remember that the 2nd or 3rd date rule was enforced pretty consistently and being forward about wanting a hookup or casual relationship got you shut down fast, even by girls who actually were happy with those things; they just didn’t want to admit it because Society generally still saw it as being too easy.

Well now I’m single again and back on Tinder I can’t really believe how much the culture has changed. Shy reserved girls wait until the second date, everyone else is fucking within hours of meeting. Girls are not phased at all by you telling them you want a hookup or a fuck buddy, in fact if you suggest otherwise you’re more likely to get ghosted. I think you would have a harder time convincing a girl to wait for the third date for sex than to get it on the first date at this point.

The ease in which you can sleep with a new women (or two) every week is really sucking the fun and excitement out of it for me. The only thing limiting you is how much time you are willing to put into it, because it is still a time consuming process to play the numbers game until you’re on the date, but when you’re on it, it’s like the deal is already done.

Anyone else losing the mystique of it all? It doesn’t feel sexy anymore.. I don’t feel like Bond I feel like a manwhore.