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n8thing/r/seduction04/10/19 03:16 PM
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No way, you can get a woman attracted in one minute. You have Tinder matches who are waiting around for a month? Most girls will give you their number within five messages if they’ll do it at all, and after texting back and forth a few more times you can set up the date.
/r/seduction25/10/19 12:24 AM
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Your experience is completely normal. The first rule of Tinder is don’t take anything personally. What I mean is, if a woman isn’t responding, the problem is much more likely that she has 25 other guys talking to her, or was only window shopping anyway, than that you aren’t witty enough. I would say that without a lot of practice, a great profile or studying text game, getting 10% of women to have a normal conversation with you is a good result. Of course, if 10% of women you have a normal conse…
/r/seduction25/10/19 12:18 AM
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I totally disagree with this. I’m all for talking to people in real life, but the fact is that girl you’re thinking about talking to at the party is probably on Tinder anyway, so the idea that the pool of people you can access in real life is different than the people who are available on Tinder is very questionable. You do need to know Tinder is rigged against you. It is true there are more men than women. It is true that women behave however the hell they want without regard for your feelings.…
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:51 PM
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Start seeing other girls now. If nothing else it will give you more confidence to deal with this girl, but more than likely this is over, and you can meet some other cute girl and move on. Don’t get stuck on this one.
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:41 PM
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Ignore all the other answers. Yes. Now what are you going to do about it?
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:31 PM
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Congratulations, I think you have done a very good job so far. I have had some pre-date interactions with women that have been very explicitly sexual, and usually the date didn’t happen at all. I learned that the way to do it is to build sexual tension without actually talking about sex. You have done this, and the girl sounds very interested. I definitely would treat this as a normal date, but with this framing I think this date is very likely to lead to sex. However, don’t assume anything and …
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:28 PM
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Good. So let’s see if she follows through.
/r/seduction24/10/19 11:06 PM
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I think this sub has a handful of experienced or intermediate people and a bunch of people who have no clue at all. Reading the posts here really makes me think an awful lot of people are trapped in their heads, on the internet analyzing things endlessly instead of... I don't know, living. It's a pretty sad commentary that society produces men who have no clue how to mate. I think they deserve help, though. I'm somewhere near where you're at with my game. Let's try to help out guys who have no c…
/r/seduction21/10/19 08:17 PM
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Once you learn how to read IOIs and have seen one or two of them, you can go in for some physical contact knowing it's very unlikely to be rejected. My point is, the physical contact doesn't just come from pure ballsiness on your part (though that's good to have), it's part of an escalating series of steps that are very predictable. By the way, I've traveled a lot in Asia and I don't know of any country where hugging in public would offend anyone. If we're talking about India, I get that it's mu…
/r/seduction21/10/19 08:11 PM
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Hmm and what is your success/response rate with that? I can tell you 100% that negging does apply to Tinder, and so do all the other aspects of game, with some adaptations. The "preselection" you are talking about might exist but it's extremely casual, much less meaningful than a girl making eyes at you across the bar, and I do know how to game in both situations.
/r/seduction17/10/19 02:22 PM
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Nope, in fact online game is just a slower version of real-life game. Best of luck eventually figuring out how to neg, bro.
/r/seduction17/10/19 01:56 PM
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I usually approach girls through online dating apps, and I have found that if you don't neg them strongly, they won't give you the time of day. However, I usually try to gear the negs toward something that is neutral and not personal. The hair comment sounds very likely to offend, but I don't know, maybe it works on 10/10 girls who are incredibly confident. I'd be more likely to imply that she's impolite, mean or has offended you somehow. The focus is then not completely on something about her t…
/r/seduction17/10/19 01:37 PM
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This is the best site I know of to learn this kind of stuff: https://www.tinderseduction.com/ Given that you're good in person, I'd say your text game should be about getting her out in any way you can. I get the best results by negging really hard and trying to quickly move toward a vision of the two of you doing something awesome in real life, which becomes the plan for the date.
/r/seduction17/10/19 01:13 PM
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Interesting, I’m a text game guy and you sound like you do a lot better irl. The last text comes across as if you’re expecting a rejection. You telegraph that you like her in spite of her ignoring your last text, and almost ask her not to come by telling her you’ll forgive her if she doesn’t. I think this was probably over when she didn’t respond to your joke but something like just the middle sentence would be a better way to invite her to the show.
/r/seduction17/10/19 01:05 AM
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Go to the damn party! The way to get girls is to stop analyzing every tiny gesture to see if she likes you, and just keep the door open to it. You do that by going to the damn party. There are probably other girls there too.
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:57 AM
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I disagree that you fucked up. From the sound of it, you’re not pulling 10/10 girls every day, so why not give yourself some credit for making a smooth comment and getting a smile?
/r/seduction17/10/19 12:26 AM
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This is interesting, because my observation with Tinder over the past few years is that women have become much more selective and much more willing to immediately freeze you out if you make a wrong move. You have to be one smooth mofo, and I can't imagine how most guys can even get a date without studying game and having tons of practice. However, I have also found that most women will sleep with you on the first date if they are willing to sleep with you at all. I have to be honest, I can't mak…
/r/seduction14/10/19 01:48 PM
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Seems to me your problem is taking other people's opinions way too personally. If mainstream society in Toronto won't accept you, then start hanging out with some smaller community that will (such as people with a common interest or other non-natives with accents). From what I understand Toronto is very diverse. Even if 95% of people despise you, hang out with the 5% that don't and learn to disregard the opinions of the rest. In the worst case, as you mentioned, move somewhere where you won't be…
/r/seduction12/10/19 01:03 PM
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I was in a similar situation several years ago. At first I was going to cut her off, but then I decided to do the same thing. I also started dating other girls, and unapologetically slept with a couple. I know she also slept with another guy. Eventually she dramatically called me when I was on the way to meet a fuck buddy and begged me to come back because she really wanted me. I did, and we ended up in a long term relationship. That is the type of situation you can create if you are willing to …
/r/seduction05/10/19 07:10 PM
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Language of Lust by Lawrence Lanoff. Unfortunately he has transformed into a weirdo spiritual guru and doesn't sell any of the sex stuff on his site anymore. If you can find it somewhere, I think you'll be satisfied.
/r/seduction05/10/19 05:08 PM
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I wouldn't do it unless she's hinting at sex already. I hate booking hotel rooms "just in case." Usually you just end up with a bill to pay, and you're right, some chicks wouldn't be down because accepting would come off as slutty, even if she's into it. On the other hand, if you can get her into a taxi with you at the end of the night, tipsy and turned on, go to the hotel.
/r/seduction04/10/19 06:59 PM
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Maybe someone else can give you some advice to accomplish this, but to me they sound like two contrary things. If I just wanted to have sex with a girl, the last thing I'd do would be meeting her friends, which sets up all kinds of expectations and makes it difficult to walk away. Is the point of that to eventually have sex with the friends? That's pretty bold. Aren't there enough cute girls in college that she doesn't know?
/r/seduction04/10/19 06:42 PM
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Yeah, I think you're right. The funny thing is, earlier in the date I told her I liked her, and I noticed her attraction instantly bottomed out, so I back-pedaled on it to the extent I could and didn't say it again. I think that was still in my mind when she asked if I liked her boobs. And yes, there were plenty of signs she was insecure. It was to the point that I wouldn't have pursued this beyond the one date because it would have been too emotionally difficult to deal with her. Perhaps the co…
/r/seduction04/10/19 03:53 PM
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Short term: read any basic pickup book. Long term: get over any guilt you may have about expressing yourself boldly with women, become the best person you can be and work toward doing whatever the hell you want and having unshakable confidence in yourself as a long-term life plan.
/r/seduction04/10/19 03:23 PM
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