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| 2 | Valentine's Day Mega ThreadSwooning over your playlist! I might need to make one in Spotify myself. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/16 10:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly self-reflections with RPW 08/02/16The good: - The situation is bad, but the reactions from SO and me are definitely the good! We are an international couple and we are going for a visa for long term relationships. We have to prove our financial situation is fine and we are financially interdependent, our living together for two years, and that our relationship is legitimate. We had a meeting with immigration lawyers today and got told about an additional financial requirement we did not know about and we will probably not comple… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/16 06:09 PM |
| 3 | CLOSURE UPDATE: UPDATE: Am I making a mountain out of a molehill and overreacting to my bf helping out his mentally unstable ex?Can confirm: Farmers are very attractive no matter where in the world they live ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/02/16 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Sexy or great plans for February 14th, anyone?The weekend before we are going to a 4 star hotel in a city we have never been in and spending he night there. We have an appointment in the city the next day so we took advantage of needing to be there to have a nice night away. The actual weekend of Valentine's Day we may go to a restaurant we have a voucher for. Depends on what we are feeling that weekend :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 07:50 PM |
| 2 | 5 things you love about your SOOh yes! I love bragging about the SO Absolutely hilarious. I can find things funny but I won't laugh, but he consistently make me laugh out loud. He is one of two people to make me laugh until I cry, and the other is a family member. Hard worker. He is a farmer, which demands a lot of his time, as well as works two part time jobs on the side. Once a weekend, he works a 13+ hours shift. Without complaint, he continues to work because it is the best situation for him at the moment. I would be a wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/01/16 08:31 PM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsThank you! I swear I have looked before, and I swear I have looked on Amazon as well! I must have somehow missed it - happy to see it's there though! ETA: I found it on Barnes & Nobles also. I am very embarrassed -.- | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/16 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsIs the surrendered wife available in an ebook format that I am missing or is it strictly a physical book? I would rather read it on my e-reader, but I might bite the bullet and purchase it soon if I can't! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/16 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 04/01/2016That's a good idea! I see an under-the-bed storage bin in our future for the hinges he would like to keep :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 04/01/2016I haven't done one of these for a few weeks, but I'm ready to commit myself back into it! The good: -I lost a pound over Christmas without working at it! I let myself eat maintenance + I didn't calorie count because there was a lot of sweets and other delicious goodies around. I thought for sure I would have gained a pound and even expected it. I was very pleasantly surprised this morning and I am back into the swing of counting my calories. - I don't want to talk to much about it yet, but I'm e… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/16 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriend not really making moves for sex on weeknights. What to do?I'm going to chime in with that if you are both happy with the frequency/ act of sex, then do not let what you "should" be doing change that! My SO and I are about once or twice a week. When he is working (which is more often than not), he is not always in the mood. I make sure I am available and initiate when I am feeling a bit hot and bothered, but sometimes he won't be into it. It seems that he may not want to have sex when he is tired and stressed, which is why while you were on vacation you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/12/15 07:41 PM |
| 6 | Your man may just be laid back, not passive.I had/have the same issues with my boyfriend. Finding RPW made me frustrated because I wanted to submit but he wasn't giving me anything to submit to! I recently had a positive situation with him recently and this post is helping me frame it correctly. He is definitely laid back, like /u/Namshubophile described. But he does step up and take charge on things that matter and things he has strong preferences for. I recently bought my first car in his country, but I left the decision making process … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/15 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 11/23/15The good: I am back working again after too long being out of work. The job is just basic administrative assistant/temp work but the company is great and the people are lovely. SO says he is proud of me for adapting so easily to it. I have lost almost 6 pounds! Counting calories really works for me and it's making this whole process easier. I actually DO NOT need to eat as much as I was to feel satisfied. Made tea for my SO every morning that he had to drive me into town to catch the train. He t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/15 05:55 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend borrowed my car last night, got drunk, and was arrested. Don't know where to go from here.Late to the thread, I completely agree with you Tempest. About two years ago my SO had a drunk driving incident. He wrote off his car but he was extremely lucky in the incident - He only hit a tree and caused minor injury to his person and no one else. He also has friends with a tow truck and was able to rescue the car before any police involvement. Anyway, it was a dumb decision on his part and one he regrets to this day. Since then, he has drastically cut back on his drinking and refuses to pu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/15 08:34 AM |
| 3 | Catch the Fish, Eat the FishNothing else to add what the other ladies have not already said, but this was absolutely on the mark and poignant reminder of my relationship with my SO being a conscious decision. :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/15 07:25 PM |
| 2 | How did you name your children?We have the same agreement re: him naming boys and me naming girls with both of us having input/veto powers. He does want our children to have very traditional-to-his-country names, and I am very excited to eventually choose our future babies names within those parameters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/11/15 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-reflection Thread: 11/09/2015Getting into late evening over near me so time to reflect! I have been a busy bee the pas week between exercising and doing farm work plus general day to day stuff. I did not let my period affect me as much as it has in the past and I didn't use it as a crutch. Yes I slept a bit more and getting myself out of bed was tougher, but I got up and did things so my SO didn't have to come home and do farm work in the dark! kept up with my exercise for the week and kept myself under my calorie count for… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/11/15 06:16 PM |
| 2 | Where did you meet your husband?We met in a bar! I was on a trip in his country with my college for my major and he was in a bar in a major city with his friends for the weekend. I had just been broken up with by my previous boyfriend and was upset, so I had a plan to go and make out with a bunch of people while I was on this trip. We met in the first few days I was there, we kissed a bit, and exchanged Facebook information. I was so smitten with him that I didn't kiss anyone else. We met up again later during the trip and rea… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/15 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Weekly reflection thread: 11/02/15I missed last week due to being fairly busy, so time to reflect on two weeks: Relationship w/ SO: Celebrated an anniversary with my SO last weekend! We did some archery and clay pigeon shooting, which was a lot of fun. We were in a slight competition over the archery and he won, though I did frighten him when I had some really good rounds. I am secretly glad he won, and he seemed pleased I handled the shotgun well enough during the shooting. I have been a bit grumpy lately, but I try turning it … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/15 12:04 PM |
| 5 | Any european RPW here?Technically an American but currently living over in Europe with my boyfriend :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 10/19/2015I seriously love this thread! It is so nice to have a weekly check in Dating: This is working out well, as usual. We honestly click so well together that it makes perfect sense for us to be together. This weekend will be our anniversary so I am looking forward to the plans we have made together and to give him his gift! Diet/Exercise/Health: I am getting back into running, which I am happy about. Last week I ran three times and I am hoping to keep up that frequency for a couple of months before … | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/15 12:55 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 13/10/15I'm actually really excited about this thread! Accountability definitely helps. So last week I said I was dealing with erratic/late-but-I-knew-it-was-eventually-coming period and I luckily got it this past week. My mood regulates itself pretty quickly after a day or so into it, so I luckily did not have to deal with fighting my pms in addition to my hamster. So much better with communication and making sure my partners needs were met! He just left for a friends house with a quick sandwich for th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/15 07:02 PM |
| 4 | What (YOUR) men wantMy boyfriend is a cattle farmer and really seems to enjoy that I am "hardy" (his words, not mine!). I can carry 20 lbs bag of meal, drive the farm vehicles short distances in the field, herd animals into different fields, and I am starting to be able to pick up when animals are sick or just not right. I think he is impressed with how well I took to it considering I did not grow up around this lifestyle! He definitely prefers me a bit rough and tumble, like Tempest's husband. He likes me in jeans… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/15 07:23 PM |
| 5 | The Travel-Widow, or why travel for the single woman is a red flagThis topic hits home because I know A LOT of female friends who have this mentality. They travel to these destinations, meet and "hook up" with these men on their trips, and come home expecting to have a LDR with them. Then they become upset when these men start to ignore them and never commit to them. I have had many nights listening to these women whine about these men being "jerks" and until reading RPW I didn't have words to explain why this complaining did not sit right with me! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/15 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 05/10/15I have had heavier flows but I was told to expect that with the IUD and they've calmed down a bit. I have had issues with exhaustion for a while and I was thinking the other day that my hair seemed to be falling out more than normal but I wasn't sure if I was just remembering incorrectly. (not enough is falling out to create bald spots because I have so much of it, but enough to be annoying). | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/15 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 05/10/15Thanks for the link to that - it may explain some of the other issues I have been having that I have noticed but have not been too worried about. It may be time to look into some supplements and diet changes | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/15 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 05/10/15Thank you! It feels great to know that I am in control of my mindset and my actions instead of throwing a pity party for myself. Even this morning has been an improvement attitude wise for both of us through some tiny changes. I am not sure why my period is so erratic - I am on the copper IUD and have been for a year and a half. I was on the pill immediately before that so my period was all over the place as my body adjusted to no hormones and this foreign object in it. The past few months seeme… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/10/15 09:42 AM |
| 4 | Weekly Self-Reflection Thread: 05/10/15I am coming out of lurking because I needed this. It is exactly the kick in the butt I needed to recognise this horrid, entitled mindset I have had festering the past couple of weeks! My period is acting extremely erratic this month and I have been using it as a crutch to not be the girlfriend my partner deserves. I have been feeding him and baking for him, but I have not been initiating anything sexually which is causing us to stagnate on intimate relations. He has been working so much between … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/10/15 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Age differencesI know I'm a little late to the game, but there is a five year age difference between my partner and I (he's older). I was dating people five years older for a while before I met him, though not on purpose. We both seemed to be on the same wavelength, priority-wise, so it worked out well for us. I know he feels he is a bit behind where he would like to be in life compared to his age, but he got set back a bit between a tough economy and a breakup with his previous GF of 5 years. I have been so i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/15 10:04 AM |
| 1 | Careful how you praise him.I needed this; my SO definitely doesn't respond well to objective compliments and, if I am remembering correctly, there has been times when I have used the subjective and the response has been significantly better. I definitely would not have realised the difference for a while. Thank you! :-) | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/09/15 09:18 AM |
| 3 | Official Welcome Thread for New Members + A Few RemindersHi ladies! I've been lurking for a few months and just recently (as in today!) created a new profile specifically for RPW. Relationship status: taken! We have been dating for almost 2 years and living with one another for a year. We were in an international LDR until I moved to his country for graduate school. We have a five year age difference (he's older). Goals: I feel like everything you ladies stand for I need work on! I want to work on my attitude (stop complaining), my health/beauty routi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/08/15 08:17 PM |
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