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| 0 | RPW Basic Dressing Essentials | ADVICE | Eugenius666 | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/20 01:42 PM |
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| 2 | What are some good feminine habits you have adopted that you are proud & willing to share?Nails and toes!!!!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/08/20 06:06 AM |
| 3 | How to have a life in the digital age? How to cope? Maybe I need help with perspective? Not sure what I’m looking for, but perhaps others are also struggling/have struggled with this.I'm a guy, but that's all good. 😄 And I can 100% relate to the "spending too much time in forums/social recluse" dilemma you speak of. Yes, getting out and living life is the key to it all. Not documenting every aspect of it on social media. These people are trying to fill a hole within themselves; normal folks just live their lives without that need to showcase, micromanage, and present perfection to the world. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 24 | How to have a life in the digital age? How to cope? Maybe I need help with perspective? Not sure what I’m looking for, but perhaps others are also struggling/have struggled with this.Social media these days is pure, unadulterated, grotesque Narcissism. These supposedly perfect looking lives are fraying and decaying behind the scenes. You would not want to be friends with these people IRL and would run for the hills if they ever became your neighbor. Believe me. Lol. 😳😱 | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 2 | Men are trash.Nietzsche's sister was anti-semitic and really scewed her brother's work in that direction after his death, making it prime pickings for the Nazis. There was no despair in Nietzsche when he declared the death of God. It was jubilation for those you could find strength in the freedom that the death of God brings ...but despair for those who cannot fathom life without the concept of God and thus remain shackled to the past. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/08/20 08:11 AM |
| 8 | Should I try to make my partner want me more or should I just leave?God. Run for the hills. Gay men's chatroom??? Uh, that would be ONE big red flag amongst many others. He is not into you. He sounds like a horrible boyfriend. You deserve to be with somebody who treats you better than this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/12/19 10:27 AM |
| 4 | I don't know how to have fun with my boyfriend anymore.I'm sorry, that communication block must be frustrating. The fact that you mentioned both of you being introverts is illuminating though. It helps explain the deadlock a little better. Were your past two relationships with introverts as well? It's nice to have that counterbalancing energy in the other person. One idea off the top of my head though is maybe dial back on the texting and focus on having meaningful telephone conversations. Two introverts relying on texting to communicate doesn't sou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/19 11:21 AM |
| 3 | I don't know how to have fun with my boyfriend anymore.Uhhh, yeah that awkward silence in the car is a killer. Just reading that sent shivers up my spine. That's not an optimal position to be in after 4 years. But where are the common interests? Did you not bond over anything like a shared sense of humor , or political views , or same taste in Netflix shows , or shopping ...something other than the purely physical? There must have been something you two found interesting about each other in order to last 4 years. But maybe there wasn't a whole lot t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/19 09:48 AM |
| 1 | My marriage has changed for the worse since I quit drinking regularly.Well, I want to say first off that there is nothing inherently wrong with a "safe marriage." People get married for many different reasons, and having a safe marriage definitely has its upsides. It can allow you to focus on areas that particularly motivate you , whether it's a strenuous yet highly rewarding career or staying home with the kids. But if you're anything like a romantic at heart, as I am, it can end up being stifling to the soul. Now I cheated a little and glanced at your post histo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/19 09:13 AM |
| 12 | Do you agree with the red pill sentiment that most if not all women will generally cheat given the opportunity? Is that your experience?I have not observed this to be the case. In my experience, both men and women do a pretty damn good job of trying to make a relationship work. Where I see the difference though, is what happens when these individuals are not in relationships. To put it plainly, the women seem to go a little bit more wild. The women are more prone to having "FWBs" and going out on the town with the girls; their social nature puts them in more situations where "things" can happen. Whereas the guys I know, when not… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/12/19 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What are your best solutions to late replies?I am sorry I just went on a rant and didn't address your main concerns. I am a texter and very much pro-communication, so these situations just frustrate the hell out of me. So I know what it feels like even though I come from the male standpoint. I'm sure the girls will have some good advice on how to proceed. 🙏🙂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/19 08:23 AM |
| 35 | What are your best solutions to late replies?I just don't have much patience for not replying to texts. It literally takes two seconds, I don't care how busy somebody is. If you're in a relationship, and you care about each other, you do not wait a week to answer a text. Inexcusable. It seems straight forward enough to me. I hope he starts doing better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/19 08:06 AM |
| 1 | I Cheated on my boyfriend but he still wants meI'm not exactly so sure she is a troll. That was quite an overly verbose explanation of events (yes I read every word because I have no life lol 😛). Elliott sounds like a pretty good guy. He probably shouldn't get bogged down with your drama, but if it's something you're committed to fixing, it might be worth while to keep him on your contact list as you get your shit together. You precisely zeroed in on what you need to work on: those empty, lonely feelings and need for male attention because o… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/19 03:49 AM |
| 5 | Long Distance Advice?One thing I do with my long distance girlfriend is keep up with "date nights" even though we're apart. Often it is merely watching the same movie or TV program simultaneously...and then we discuss it afterwards or text back and forth, if it's something happening in real time...like a political debate, etc. It's a nice way to feel connected as if we were together. In general, I encourage a lot of video chats or texting (especially after work hours when you're both at home alone). Keeping that clo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 11:31 PM |
| 6 | My marriage has changed for the worse since I quit drinking regularly.Your husband doesn't sound like a dynamic, inspiring, "the guy who lights up a room when he walks in"--type of guy. Unfortunately, it sounds like you made the safe choice when you chose to marry him. He may have ticked a lot of boxes indicating he would make a great father, but did he capture your heart? Were you enthusiastically madly upside-down in chaotic love when you married him? Or was he merely "good enough?" He ticked the boxes. You may have settled here, and you knew so from the beginni… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/19 04:42 AM |
| 4 | I don't mean to be mean, but why are all of you having such a hard time finding a good boyfriend?Awwwww, where's the love? " It's so easy to laugh/It's so easy to hate/It takes strength to be gentle and kind." Somebody wise said that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/19 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Nun mode vs. potential captain or sinking ship?You need a neurotypical guy without all the red flags. Do not settle for this Mr. Hum-Drum with Aspies. You have plenty of time. 🙂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Trying to Earn Respect from a ManThis guy is not worth another second of your thoughts. Let him be dead to you. You're not going to miss him (and you're not missing out on anything either). Guys like that are a dime a dozen and you have much better things to do with your time than squandering it on pond scum like him, I assure you. 👍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when "boys" become "Men"?Where are you from ? Just curious. 🙂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/12/19 03:08 AM |
| 5 | Rant: Being an Alpha Widow is not cool or interestingOh! I sincerely apologize then for jumping in too fast without fully digesting what you were trying to convey. Thank you for being gracious about it; it's a good reminder for me to step back and think for a minute before hitting the submit button. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Rant: Being an Alpha Widow is not cool or interestingDo you think you're in the best position to judge yourself Low Value, or not? How are you so certain of this? All of us, men and women, tend to judge ourselves too harshly. We can hardly be objective arbiters of our own value. Furthermore, you may be romanticizing the past; still perceiving this guy thru rose-tinted glasses. Was he really all he was cracked up to be? Look, the relationship failed, and it takes two to tango. It wasn't meant to be, obviously, and it could have a much more prosaic … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Sex drive differenceTell him to ease up on the ketamine, it's a libido killer. 😉 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 09:40 PM |
| 11 | I think I made a mistake and now he’s pulling awayNo matter how busy he is, it takes 2 seconds for him to text you. It's inexcusable of him to go on for days like that without keeping in touch. He seems to be acting like a pouting baby who didn't get his way, and now he's giving you the silent treatment. Utterly inexcusable in my opinion. Cut him loose, he's not worth your time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | How do you know when "boys" become "Men"?Yeah, I don't think you can gauge somebody's intentions by how frequently or exuberantly they text. That is such an individualized preference for communicating...some people love it, others loathe it. I happen to be somebody who loves to keep in touch via texting, but I know other people who won't respond to a text for days. It's just not their preferred communication style. That being said, his intentions should be much more apparent after the second date...and that's when you should spend the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 08:35 PM |
| 15 | Too many (potential) captainsI wouldn't put too much pressure on yourself, it's only a 4 day event. Go and have fun, do some networking, but in all likelihood you won't see any of those people again. You're going to have a far greater chance finding your future Captain at school, or at work. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 06:50 PM |
| 6 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?Well this has all ended up as good news for me. I don't consider myself a Red Piller but I am definitely looking for the traits that define a RPW in my future SO. And so learning in this thread that RPW aren't necessarily looking for a RP-dude is comforting/satisfying. There is kind of a paradox in that concept at the surface level, but it's definitely something I can live with lol. 👍 | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 05:43 PM |
| 19 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?I guess I have confused myself. I have always associated the word "beta" as synonymous with "submissive" and/or "effeminate." I have also always interpreted "beta" in a pejorative context, in the sense that a man is not supposed to be submissive/effeminate. Those traits you list don't seem necessarily "beta" to me...they seem like normal ideal traits for a man to possess. Thank you for your reply, it's clarifying! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Discussion about (why we generally don't recommend dating) red pilled men?This is interesting. May I ask what RPW perceive to be the ideal beta traits for a potential boyfriend/husband to have in the mix?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/19 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on Nick Fuentes?Trolla's gotta troll | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/19 08:01 PM |
| -1 | Can a RPW be single forever?Yup, just like a RPM can. 🙃 That's equality I guess. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/19 07:45 PM |
| 3 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededYou helped me see the obsequiousness in my response to OP...it wasn't my intent to sound that fawning; I was just sincerely impressed with OP's depth of thought in dealing with this issue which is so similar to my own. At any rate, your comment helped me see the light...and I thank you for YOUR graciousness. 🙏 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 12:38 PM |
| 1 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededI was just trying to be helpful. No ill will intended. I have been a successful commenter on this sub for awhile, but I am only human and will be hit and miss. I will take your constructive criticism to heart though, thank you for the feedback. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:29 AM |
| 2 | TL;DR online dating feedback needed??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 08:06 AM |
| 2 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededIt's my pleasure, and it's completely apparent that you are going into this with the best intentions and your eyes wide open. Your generosity of spirit is quite astounding and this guy...I hope he can perceive what he has in front of him, and count his blessings, and treat you accordingly. Your intuition is such that you WILL know something definitive after the first real conversation. Just trust your instincts because I think they are as sound as a bell. I hope the real time conversations are a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 07:35 AM |
| 3 | TL;DR online dating feedback neededI wouldn't dump him until you have moved to the next phase of the relationship where you're talking on the phone and interacting with him in real time, away from anything work related. I really like the idea of working on yourselves before taking these next steps. It's hard though...I am in the same situation as you, but I'm the guy. I've tried to step away to work on myself, but I just miss her too much and I'm back online. I keep telling myself I can walk and chew gum at the same time, interac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 4 | How to stop buying things?Instead of driving to the mall, drive to the gym, or better yet, drive down to your local food bank and see if they need any volunteers. Do something differently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Slut shaming v slut advocating - Camille PagliaI definitely think nobody "needs" a sex toy. Definitely a luxury item. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/11/19 01:02 AM |
| 2 | Slut shaming v slut advocating - Camille PagliaShe's creating a market that shouldn't exist? You don't think anybody should be able to buy dildos? I think this gal just wants to sell dildos, and she is using every angle in the book to do so. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/11/19 02:56 AM |
| 1 | I have a bit of a porn and masturbation addiction and I’m kind of struggling with it.Yes, that's much better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 01:03 PM |
| 9 | Where do I find a good wife?Be careful. You're a product of "this disgusting culture" as well. Look in the mirror and straighten yourself out before condemning the entire world. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 10:48 AM |
| 12 | Help me manipulate...What is the endgame here? Romance should lead to more sex, right? Or do you want more romance just for the sake of more romance? I guess it all boils down to what you mean by "romance" and if it's a means to an end or not. Scenario 1 above sounds like an awful tease to me. Having to leave for work while my wife is standing there in hot lingerie would make me late for work. How about flashing some of that when he gets home from work??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 08:20 AM |
| 1 | Being looked down on because you are a well kept feminine woman, anyone ever been there?YOU are the one doing things the right way. YOU are the normal one, just remember that. We live in upside-down times. Thank you for being an embodiment of the ideal...a shining example for others, and remember the younger ones looking up to you as well. Breath of fresh air. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Gift ideas for your captain?Gift certificate for a full body massage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 03:12 AM |
| 2 | I have a bit of a porn and masturbation addiction and I’m kind of struggling with it.I know, I was trying to be light-hearted. But I totally understand what you mean. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/11/19 03:00 AM |
| -2 | I have a bit of a porn and masturbation addiction and I’m kind of struggling with it.Yes, and please keep in mind men's penises IRL are not that big. 😂😂💁♂️ Please give us a break. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/19 04:35 PM |
| 52 | I have a bit of a porn and masturbation addiction and I’m kind of struggling with it.I would just put the electronic devices away for awhile. Start going to the gym. Change up your routine. Get out of the house. Volunteer at the food bank. Do something differently. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/19 04:11 PM |
| 2 | No respect from man at workAttitude is everything. I know it's cliche, but exude a positive demeanor and can-do spirit. Sitting slumped over at your desk with a put-upon or resentful look about you will not win over new allies or better work assignments. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/11/19 07:08 AM |
| 6 | Masturbating...If it feels good, do it. The important thing is you are comfortable with your own sexuality and you know how to get yourself off. That puts you leagues ahead of a lot of women. To know thyself, and to know what buttons to push, will only help you have better sexual relationships in the future. To me, that sounds pragmatic and healthy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/19 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I don't want to nag...but I'd like it done!Seems like the toys should belong in the kids bedroom. That's where I had to keep all my toys. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/11/19 05:12 AM |
| 1 | What would you define as the X-Factor?Well it definitely can be intimidating for a dude...! Once he sees that, he has to know the ball is in his court. And so he needs to approach you. Or do something, not just sit there! Lol. But you are freezing guys in their tracks, so you must have something going on. 😉😆 | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 07:19 AM |
| 1 | 27F living in the suburbs with my parents should I move out?I don't think there is a stigma. If anything it is a built up resentment and frustration in the culture that having the ability to be a SAHM is just not a viable option for a lot of women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 04:10 AM |
| 7 | Should you be financially independent from ur spouse?Every happy, normal marriage I am aware of ...the money all goes in one pot. The wife having a secret stash of cash seems counterintuitive to a healthy, solid marriage. It's like she is eyeing her exit from the marriage already, that's not showing much faith in the union. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/11/19 04:06 AM |
| 4 | 27F living in the suburbs with my parents should I move out?I didn't notice anything wrong with your English! It's better than most native speakers lol. Well you should be able to date at 27 and not have to hide it from Mom and Dad. But I have a feeling that's a no-go in your situation. It sounds like you might also be the only child. It's going to have to take a negotiation...if there is a way to move into the city that might be palatable for them, like perhaps rooming with extended family (if any) or somebody they know and trust like a long time friend… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/19 06:26 PM |
| 2 | What would you define as the X-Factor?Dude, I don't know what kind of chicks you hang out with, but they seem quite a few echelons downstream from the ones who would frequent this sub. This advice might go over better with the ones you pick up from the Subway inside Wal-Mart. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/19 10:40 AM |
| 3 | Found out I was seeing a guy with a girlfriend... I feel low valueWere you faithful to him this entire time even though he never committed to you ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/19 10:12 AM |
| 23 | How to maintain high value and use feminine energy to attract a man...Highlight your most feminine virtues and be confident in your femininity. Be authentic to yourself and your high value will be apparent and appreciated by the right men. Don't try to be everything to everybody. It seems like the dating apps are full of the same cookie cutter archetype: with the outdoorsy poses (I like nature!) , pics with baseball cap on drinking beer watching football (Just one of the boys!) , and selfies at hip restaurants ( I am a refined food connoisseur!), etc etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/11/19 03:10 AM |
| 12 | What would you define as the X-Factor?Confident being Feminine. I live in an area of the country where the women and the men dress and style themselves in much the same manner. So I love seeing a woman embracing her femininity, and perhaps pushing it somewhat: heels, glamorous nails, make-up, flowing locks. It's an exhilarating sight and breath of fresh air these days. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/19 08:22 AM |
| -1 | [NSFW] Is there any benefit in NoFap for women?You only live once. Enjoy the moment. Be kind to yourself. Consider it a form of self-care. You are worth it. I wouldn't worry about it one iota. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/19 05:25 AM |
| 11 | I just got used by a friend I was in love with. He is now dating a friend of mine who is way more educated then I am, supermodel hot, and more accomplished. I’m going crazyThat's not even pseudo Christian advice. That's sub-retarded pseudo pseudo Christian non-advice. At least she knows how to write a sentence. Be better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/19 05:21 AM |
| 4 | Why are some men approached by women more often? How is it different from women being approached by men?But men who have that special energy , which can "light up a room," are pretty intimidating for most women. The smart, careful ones would notice them, but observe from a distance. Then calculate a strategy and proceed with a plan. The ones who pounce immediately don't have any foresight , and most likely are playing well above their level. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/19 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Feel terrible for my female friend --it only takes one thing to act as a dealbreakerThere are plenty of nice guys out there who don't mind if a woman smokes a little grass and drinks on occasion. She probably wouldn't be happy with this guy anyway, he sounds like a square. She will be just fine. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/10/19 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Women seek attention, men seek...?Devotion. Having a woman 100% devoted to you with the knowledge that she thinks you're the most handsome, the funniest, and the sexiest man in the universe. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 09:44 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?Sounds like a nice profile 🙂 You were honest, straightforward, it sucks they wouldn't even refund you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/10/19 02:35 AM |
| 3 | How do you meet bimbo girls?The most expensive bars, restaurants, clubs in your closest metropolitan area. The ones where people go "to be seen." Or move to Vegas. Bring suitcases of cash. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/19 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Why am I so obsessed with people’s replies?How the heck did you get banned from both lol ??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/19 05:46 AM |
| 25 | What would you choose? Hypergamy.The wrong answer to every question is "Maybe I should just be a sugar baby." | /r/RedPillWives | 20/10/19 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Sex issues with my fiancé 33MThere really is not enough information here to go off of. It depends a lot on how he is processing this. Is he genuinely as perplexed as you are ? Is he unbothered ? Is he indifferent ? If he is shrugging all of this off, I would be concerned. If he is nonchalant about the dearth of your sex life, I would be alarmed. Something is up, something is going on. But we need more information about his reaction to all of this to really be certain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 09:22 AM |
| 1 | Advice about sex in my marriageYou deserve way more than rushed bathroom sex. I am disappointed in your husband and his nonchalance towards your sex life together. I hope he has an epiphany or sudden realization soon that he needs to step up his game and pay more attention to you and just be more engaged and alert as a husband and lover. And video games are for little boys...he needs to grow up. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 09:08 AM |
| 7 | Should I be sleeping around (or something like it)? please read..Being promiscuous at this point in your life doesn't make much sense. If you were meant to be a promiscuous woman, it would have happened by now. Sex with dumb random men who don't care about you is not the way to proceed. It will bring nothing but emotional pain; you will become jaded, cynical, and less of a catch for the ideal RP man who may be lurking just around the corner for you. What you are proposing almost sounds to me like the equivalent of saying "Hmmm, I have never been a drug addict… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Should I be sleeping around (or something like it)? please read..Being an older guy who hasn't had sex in 10 years, I would be more careful with your generalizations. I wouldn't see myself acting any less respectfully because of that. However I agree with your overall point that dating/hooking up with somebody older (all things considered) should result in better outcomes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/10/19 08:33 AM |
| 0 | Let's talk about nails!I'm not touching anything. I'm being good. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Let's talk about nails!I know nobody wants to hear from a man on this thread, but I just can't overstate the importance of nice nails. It's something I notice right off the bat. A nice, simple, clean french manicure is magical. I also think length is very feminine. I am just one man with his opinion, but men do notice these details. Thank you for having this conversation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 08:00 AM |
| 1 | How to hold out sex with an alpha manI don't disagree with anything you are saying. But I do think alphas can come in different shapes and sizes. Some can prefer women their own age, others may prefer younger. There are also 22 year old women who can be quite mature in many ways. I guess we just can't pigeonhole everybody. But I respect how you view what a true alpha should be like, and perhaps your view is the ideal that every alpha should shoot for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | How to hold out sex with an alpha manAnytime , it's a pleasure 😉 | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/19 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How to hold out sex with an alpha manI think your instincts have been correct thus far so I would continue to trust them. And hey, he may turn out into being a fake alpha wannabe, you never know. But then you will that experience to gird yourself for the next one. I think you should strike while the iron is hot , and keep the ball rolling. And maybe just frame it as a positive learning experience no matter how it may ultimately turn out. Have fun with it and be safe. 🙂 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 11:37 PM |
| 1 | How do I let my husband know I appreciate his support over the last few months?I think you really need to be creative here and think outside of the box. In my opinion the ideas offered thus far are rather mundane and hum drum. If you want it to be a truly special present from your heart, you need to get into HIS heart and HIS head and give him something he would least expect and never forget. I think only you could know what that would be. And as you said, it can't just be another material possession. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Regarding "older" women...The MILF thing only seems to be a fantasy for a subset of dudes from the age 17 to 25 -ish range. It's a phase they largely grow out of. Additionally, that particular age range is the cohort most actively consuming porn, so their preferences are over represented in the statistics. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to hold out sex with an alpha manWhy would a 40 year old unattached alpha with the whole world at his fingertips NOT want to date younger women? There are 22 year olds out there who would melt into his arms like butter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 09:04 PM |
| 5 | How to hold out sex with an alpha manI say date him. You're into him, he's into you. Have fun. Get some experience with a true alpha under your belt. Just live in the moment and try not to think yourself to death about what the future may entail. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more feminine?Nails, nails, nails | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How to be more desired as a womanSo looking completely like a man happened to get you a lot of male attention. Hmmm. Maybe they considered you just one of the boys. Also safe. There doesn't seem to be anything intimidating about your demeanor. I would be hesitant about adopting this method for anybody else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/10/19 03:29 AM |
| 2 | Is it worth it to play hard to get?If "playing hard to get" is a euphemism for "having high standards" then by all means play hard to get. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/09/19 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Do men really notice how we dress and do our hair?"I don't think you have to dress up to impress men. They usually won't notice." That's quite a statement right there. Men notice everything. Remember we are very visually attuned. After making eye contact with a woman, the first place my eyes usually dart to are her hands, then straight down to check out the footwear situation. There is much to be gleaned from how a woman keeps her nails and the style of shoe she wears. T And of course feminine attire is highly preferable to a thrown together lo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/09/19 07:11 PM |
| 4 | How do I (24F) show my support of him (29M) when he receives support from many people?You both need to open up more to each other. You cannot continue to have these innocuous , surface level text communications. That kind of bond will not be sustainable in an LDR for too much longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/09/19 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Being Intoverted is not Feminine...or is it?I think it is very feminine and shall we say more submissive to have an introverted personality. I dont think you need to worry about that. However I am a little concerned about your need to have "space" from your husband. I myself would want my wife at my side as much as possible and would feel hurt that she had to "take a break" from me. To me that would be letting me down somewhat and it's something I would want to get resolved. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/19 11:51 PM |
| 5 | I keep ending up with beta males. What am I doing wrong?I think you can do a lot better. This guy has some hangups that will drive you insane over time. You have succinctly defined them already. All those little whiny moments when he can't articulate are going to get under your skin and fester...each new episode reinforcing the old ones. You will grow to resent him and you will resent yourself for suppressing the red flags and overvaluing his upside. You can get that exact same upside with a lot guys who ALSO know how to handle a puppy and don't have… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 09:27 AM |
| – | Simple QuestionsWell if he's your husband then it shouldn't come as a complete shock. Whatever you do, don't open the jar for him. Give him your best shaming expression with no accompanying verbal harangue. The look on your face should give him all the information he needs to deal with the jar like a man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/18 09:06 AM |
| 3 | What kind of nails do you have?I think nails are so important, they can say and reveal so much about a person. I unconsciously check out a woman's nails almost instantaneously. I think in a lot cases length equals feminity, so I prefer them with some length, either naturally or via extensions. One can never go wrong with a french manicure/pedicure...it just goes effortlessly with everything in your wardrobe and shoe closet. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/18 09:37 AM |
| 1 | Let’s Talk About the “Pick Me” FemalesUgh. I can't read this. It sounds like it was written in a different language. Yeah, I'm old, but still. People really talk like this? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/18 11:35 AM |
| 1 | False nails?Got it ! Thanks for the reminder! I have been away. I will do my homework and post responsibly...have a great weekend | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | False nails?Guy here. Nails are important. One of the first things I notice. And long nails are extremely feminine...so it's a pretty straight forward answer. :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | My relationship is becoming transactional, how can I stop thinking this way?One thing to consider is the potential he has for making the sort of living that you would want. He sounds like a nice guy to me. It sounds like you're covered on all the other aspects except his current income. If he has the drive, the potential, and the ability to earn more, then perhaps he will. Some guys just don't have the super high ambition. Find out if that's something he can kick into the next gear. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/17 07:11 AM |
| 3 | Having a bit of trouble in the bedroom situationHe doesn't seem to be responding like a normal male. I think it's an excuse to focus on his stress and his exams and whatnot. I wouldn't bend over backwards for this guy, I believe you deserve a whole lot better. Leave him to his studies and find a guy who -wants- to be intimate with you. | /r/RedPillWives | 31/05/17 06:54 AM |
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