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| 1 | Boyfriend is punishing me for going to a partyBut if you put on your big girl panties Oh, but wait, now I see why you need RPW. I'm a man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/09/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy as an InstinctThat is an entirely new definition of the word "perfect" you've put together, and it sounds an awful lot like everyone else's definition of "the best possible choice". | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/09/24 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Tattoo of husbands nameDo you have space over your heart? Barring that, depending on your dynamic, above your ...lady parts would be a good spot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/09/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | I feel like my boyfriend isn't gentil enough, is it me sabotaging a good relationship or is it valid?Here is a post from TIL about the relationship between academic major and marriage rates: https://www.reddit.com/r/todayilearned/s/h69a45BTej Included in the list of those least likely to marry are - exactly in line with the stereotype - music, theater arts, and philosophy. Highest rates are for science, engineering, and education majors. If you want a fling that goes nowhere, date a musician or a poet - according to the data. If you want a lifelong marriage, date someone with a serious major li… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/24 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Low effort on dating appsThere is an implicit statement you're making to men by playing up the child-free stuff that you may not notice if you're not considering the male point-of-view: "I may sleep with you, but I don't consider you worthy of reproducing". It's not very complimentary. Food for thought. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/07/24 02:39 PM |
| 1 | To B or to DD: Where do you draw a line for your partner’s preference regarding your appearance?I'm going to be generous and assume you are merely unaware of this particular fairy tale, and not just dim-witted in general: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rapunzel | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/24 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Are you honest about dating other men?since the MEN'S rep pill movement started. This sub, along with its rules, was actually created by the men of TRP and gifted to the RP women. This sub's take is the MEN'S take, adapted to serve the feminine imperative. Just so you know, this sub even has a sidebar that explains all that too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/24 08:01 PM |
| -1 | The reason why women aren't actively trying to date men is because they were told that men need to pursue a woman, otherwise she is labeled as "needy/clingy" for showing interest.I am speaking for myself, as an RP man, and I concur with what she said. That's the threshold you set. If you want to move the goalposts, whatever. She's still right and you're still wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 06:49 PM |
| -2 | The reason why women aren't actively trying to date men is because they were told that men need to pursue a woman, otherwise she is labeled as "needy/clingy" for showing interest.Then letting them prove you right by speaking for themselves should not be a problem, yet here you are speaking for them. If that's all you need, then I've got you covered bro. She's right. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/24 05:48 PM |
| 1 | deep crisis in my LTR (13.5y, 3 children)If you twist the situation to suit you, you're probably right, the courts will favor you. Your children may not appreciate it when they grow up and gain an adult perspective though, and their interests should come before yours or his. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/24 04:17 PM |
| 7 | Hypergamy, Wandering Eyes and Monkey BranchingIf you have internalized the idea that "monkey-branching" is an aspect of hypergamy that you never cease doing and should continue throughout your life, then you are never actually "pairing off". "Pairing off" can not begin until you stop monkey-branching. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Why do some women get proposed to a lot?"Getting the ring" isn't the proposal, it's the wedding. If you had stood up 10 different men on your wedding day(s), maybe you would have a point. But proposals? Girl, you are for the streets, and they were feeding you the lines that every mid woman has heard at some point. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/24 08:20 PM |
| 6 | Why do some women get proposed to a lot?And she is very desirable. There are few things more attractive in a woman than proper spelling, grammar, and diction. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/03/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Dating and being "older"Okay, I'll summarize some of the stuff from the sidebar and add in my personal commentary as a man (and incidentally, an attractive, tall, early-40's man with a successful career). -more financially stable than most Men don't care how successful you are (a heavy debt load is a red flag, but that's only slightly related to career success). If anything, it works against you because more financially successful women have a tendency to just leave for seemingly trivial reasons, and often it turns you… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/02/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Dating and being "older"You seem intent on knocking her down a peg because she self-identifies as attractive I'm knocking her down a peg because her self-perception is setting her up for failure. She could very well be the most attractive 40-y/o on the planet. It doesn't make a difference if she is, because 50 failed dates. It doesn't matter if there are men who prefer 25 year olds and don't choose her because they prefer 25 year olds. Those men are not even in her pool. I wasn't referring to those men. I was referring… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/24 04:50 PM |
| 4 | Dating and being "older"Counterpoint (let's attach some numbers to these assumptions): Let's assume she's in a small city, and the 50 guys she's dated represent 50% of the total dating pool of 100 men who meet her personal criteria. She's had a 0% success rate and she's already depleted half of her pool. Now let's say she's in a larger city, and her candidate pool is 1000 men. She still has a 0% success rate, but she's only depleted 5% of her pool. Not as dire of a situation - but she still has that 0% success rate. By… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/24 01:48 PM |
| 12 | Dating and being "older"You don't decide what your league is. The market - which is to say the collective opinions and preferences of single men - decides what your league is. The 50 men you've already gone out with? (Assuming you're dating online and those dates were made by people who had seen your dating profile) That's your league. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/24 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Advice for young girls seeking commitmentYou can not be ready for marriage and still recognize wife material. When I was in my late teens and early 20s, I knew very early on which girlfriends were candidates for marriage and which were not, even if neither of us were ready at the time. The relationships didn't work out for one reason or another, but my assessment never changed, and importantly - I didn't think of them as fit for marriage just with me. I meant it in a broad sense. Over the years I've checked in to see how life turned ou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/11/23 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How can I make more girl friendsYou may find your inadvertent laconic wit is an asset if you do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/11/23 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Women are, in fact, significantly more attracted to wealthy, high-status men regardless of their own attractiveness and age. This finding holds true either in the United States, China or even "Liberal Europe".You realize women's opinions would be impacted by societal norms and expectations right? The point of comparing results from different societies is to remove this very factor from the data. By finding the same result across multiple societies, this study demonstrates that this particular preference is not affected by societal norms and expectations. This is known as the proper application of the scientific method. You think that what you're doing is pointing out a methodological error, but you a… | /r/BlackPillScience | 10/11/23 02:39 PM |
| 16 | CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flagsA paternity test is not something you need to ask a woman for. You don't need her DNA for it, so you don't need to involve her. You're pondering the ethics of a question in a way that is completely detached from reality, which suggests that you've only ever considered it as an abstraction - and your abstraction is unrealistic because you've never experienced a situation yourself which could be used as a template for the interaction. You are hung up on rhetorical gotchas and what-ifs that are irr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:23 PM |
| 50 | CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flagsI get the sense that this is an abstract concept for you, and you've never actually been in a relationship with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 06:01 PM |
| 5 | A cheap date is disrespectful to us young women.People are highly suggestible and "transitioning" is being pushed on impressionable youth by the most powerful institutions in the country for several years. His brain has been broken by propaganda. Healthy, sane men do not voluntarily castrate themselves. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/23 01:30 PM |
| 3 | A cheap date is disrespectful to us young women.OP is a he, not a she. That's an important distinction here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/23 01:19 PM |
| 9 | A cheap date is disrespectful to us young women.The funniest part is that OP isn't even a real woman. OP is a man that takes estrogen as a recreational drug. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/10/23 01:17 PM |
| 0 | told friends I never say no to sexParis Hilton's first stunt to insert herself into popular culture was to "leak" a sex tape where she unintentionally revealed that she was a starfish in bed. But go on, tell everyone how having sex with your husband with any regularity is degrading. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/23 08:22 PM |
| -1 | told friends I never say no to sexThe irony of this comment from someone who based their username on Paris Hilton and Nicole Ritchie is the cherry on top of this oblivious sundae. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/10/23 06:39 PM |
| 9 | Feminine but not girlyIf he's about your age, his progression from 'spiritual yoga' to Christianity and now to radical traditionalism is actually becoming pretty common with men, and is not necessarily a bad thing as long as he sees it through. I think one of the reasons we are seeing more of this is that male rites of passage into adulthood have been all but eliminated in the West, and what he's seeking is something to fill the void. I agree with the other commenter saying he would benefit from a mentor, but strongl… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/23 04:19 PM |
| 3 | What do you bring to the table?Moreover, if you get him to fall head over heels in love with you now, he'll never notice you aging anyway. I know my wife has gotten older, I was playing around with an AI picture tool online recently and I realized even the AI thought she was getting older, but I swear she still looks like the 23-y/o I fell in love with when I look at her. I don't think she's aged a day. Wife goggles are a hell of a drug. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/23 01:05 PM |
| 9 | What do you bring to the table?I can rattle off a few of the things my wife brought to the table that sets her apart: -Not only can she cook, but she cooks well, enjoys it, and works to better at it -She's a reader, and well-read enough that I've never lacked for stimulating conversations with her -She worked to maintain her appearance when we first met (still does, but I took note early on). Additionally, when I first met her mother, she still looked good in her 50s, so I knew my wife would stay attractive if she made the ef… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/23 03:20 PM |
| 5 | Lies promoted hy egalitarian culture that ultimately hurt womenYou can have everything you want without ever having to consider compromising | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 06:42 PM |
| 9 | Any good female red pill content creators you recommend?AKA Imitation Pearl The best argument against her applies to any other RP content creators that match her life situation - she's single and only learned about RP relationships after failing multiple times with the blue-pilled approach. Don't take advice from anyone who doesn't already have the kind of life that you would want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 11 | Good for the boyfriend, nglSo based on your post, it sounds like you're shit-testing him and haven't consciously recognized it yet. Edit: my apologies OP, I got confused typing my response and thought it was your post. The bartender is definitely shit-testing him and doesn't realize it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Sexy Gift GivingYou have no idea. It exceeded my wildest expectations. The best part is the boxes are intended to be multi-use. I'm going to build a shelf for them so I can pull one down whenever I want a different "wife" for the night. One box is a 'mystery box' that has stuff that's too flimsy to survive a second wearing, and will get refilled (eventually) after its contents are torn to tatters. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 06:01 PM |
| 5 | Field Report: Sexy Gift GivingIf she asked for further input, it would have ruined the surprise. 11/10 would recommend; steal this idea from her, it's a good one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 05:00 PM |
| 3 | Liberal women have an easier time datingYour question implies that it's impossible for sex to be anything more than physical for men, and that they are incapable of having an emotional connection to sex. Did you intend to be this insulting, or is it just an intrinsic part of your personality? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 01:26 PM |
| 1 | Liberal women have an easier time datingIt's rare to see someone create a strawman to argue against, only to have the strawman seem smarter by comparison. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/23 11:55 AM |
| 7 | Liberal women have an easier time datingIt sounds like they don't have an easier time "dating", it's more like they have an easier time being run through. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/08/23 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Has this sub become more feminist over time?Be careful, this is the sort of insightful opinion that will get you removed from Kamala Harris fundraising emails. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/23 04:59 PM |
| 0 | Has this sub become more feminist over time?One of the big sticking points that seems to cause (imo illogical) outrage is voting rights, which I think is a problem not just with women's suffrage, but democracy in general. The argument that voting is inherently tied to citizenship or even paying taxes is factually wrong. If you own property in multiple states, you pay taxes in all of them, but are only allowed to vote in one. This is in fact an argument that was put forth by the original anti-suffragette women. Voting should be restricted … | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/08/23 04:57 PM |
| 6 | As an Indian woman, it irks me to see most of my male indian role models are married to foreign women"Celebrities/Household names =/= HVM" There's a reason that historically actors and actresses were considered no better than whores, and in some cases worse. Our ancestors were not fools. They could not afford the luxury of it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/07/23 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Freedom from VanityShe is, I misread her comment. My comment is not meant to disparage women who put effort into looking good. I was just trying to say that men lifting heavy weights to look good is no picnic either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?You just did it a second time while commenting on it, so it's no longer the fault of software or a zero-thought thing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?My response is no more or less racist than the original post. Nor is it any more or less racist than "an Indian couple on Love is Blind that ends up not marrying bc the groom can't get past his idea that he wanted a White woman." It is definitely less racist than how you capitalized 'Indian men' but not 'White women'. However, both a cursory reading of the data and your anecdote indicate that my statement is accurate and correct. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 03:34 PM |
| 0 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?You'd think with all of the economic and political power they're claiming, they'd be able to force the media to represent them more favorably. Unless of course the power isn't real, and they're just the pawns of someone else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 03:16 PM |
| 4 | Food for though: What will you teach your childrenIf the tactics work, it's because they are also part of God's truth. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Freedom from Vanity"Seems to hint at insecurity" -seems to -hint at It sounds to me that it doesn't do that at all, otherwise you would use more definitive wording, and what you're really doing is projecting your own insecurities and inadequacies onto other women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 02:27 PM |
| 2 | Freedom from VanityDo a few sets of bench press putting up your own body weight and tell me if you still agree with your statement. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 02:25 PM |
| 4 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?Despite the text of your post, a quick look at the data shows the majority of Indian men marrying out are doing so with White women. That would imply that it's not the Indian men that are the prize (otherwise more women of other races would be jockeying for them), but rather the White women that are the prize. Similarly, the low rates of outmarriage among White women would imply that the ones who marry out are either selling themselves short, or just didn't make the cut. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 02:03 PM |
| 5 | Freedom from VanityYou know this comment reveals that your original post was made entirely in bad faith, and everyone can see it, right? You're not so oblivious as to believe you're actually a kind and thoughtful person, are you? | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 01:31 PM |
| – | Did anyone hear about Arab women affected by western lifestyle overseas. Families are collapsing?-I think I have some "alpha" qualities as well but I can't be sure If you're unsure in your own mind, I can promise you that you don't have them. Doubly so since you're announcing it on a board predominantly inhabited by women. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Non-traditional women of RPW, what brings you here?It's not a strawman, it's accurate. You shut down the part of your brain that listens to people as soon as you started responding. However, I should apologize - I read your response as much more aggressive than it probably was, because I didn't realize until afterwards that you are currently quite pregnant. The internet does not convey tone of voice well. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Non-traditional women of RPW, what brings you here?Honestly, I don't think I can give you a useful answer, because I don't think you are genuinely interested in listening. The fact that you reflexively identified yourself in a way that you believe negates the possibility that you're traditional in any way reveals that. I get it. You're a special and unique snowflake. At no other point in history has anyone led life the way you are now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 01:13 AM |
| -1 | Non-traditional women of RPW, what brings you here?To all of the women who consider themselves "non-traditional", but are happily adhering to (and enjoying the benefits of!) an RPW relationship, I have some news for you: You are traditional. You simply misunderstand what "traditional" means, or more likely, have been miseducated on what it means. Moreover, when you say "traditional", it helps to specify which and whose traditions you are referring to. A few weeks back there was a hair-on-fire article in the Guardian describing this very sub as "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/23 02:49 PM |
| 9 | Non-traditional women of RPW, what brings you here?Someone needs to pay Laura Doyle to re-enact the Fight Club scene with the altered script: "The first rule of RPW is that men are not attracted to Big Dick Energy. The second rule of RPW is that men are not attracted to Big Dick Energy." | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 3 | How to stop being a plateSo basically he told you the same thing blushingoleander did? And what do you think your takeaway from that should be? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/07/23 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Traditional and “Progressive” Men are not mutually exclusiveI think the fact that not only OP, but a number of commenters as well, express fear of publicly and confidently stating their belief in traditional values does more to prove the tiktok lady's assessment is accurate and correct than any point I could try to make. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/23 03:56 PM |
| 1 | So I’m not aloneI'm telling you, the people coming up with these narratives really haven't gamed them out to their logical conclusions: https://www.theatlantic.com/ideas/archive/2023/05/hispanic-american-racism-white-supremacy/674081/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/23 05:06 PM |
| 1 | How do y'all feel about podcasts like "Whatever" and "Fresh and Fit"?Also, his room is a goddamned mess. He can't even follow his own advice. He's been spiraling for a few years now, and it's mostly because he has failed to live up to his own moral principles. The moment where he broke his "Always speak the truth" rule is very well documented. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/06/23 01:30 PM |
| 2 | My relationship with my FNF obsessed boyfriendIf, in the very likely scenario that your views change as you get older, you may find that having had an abortion haunts your conscience for the rest of your life - particularly if you have children in the future. You don't want to be watching your kids unwrap presents on Christmas and find yourself suddenly overwhelmed with the sense that someone is missing from the room, and you'll never be able to get them back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Boyfriend's acquaintance keeps crossing the line. How to address this in a RPW way? Or do I STFU?I'm going to respectfully disagree. If this woman doesn't take kindly to being rejected, she may attempt trying something underhanded with HR. She may be able to help discredit any false claims that may arise. She shouldn't just wait around for something bad to happen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 02:39 PM |
| 7 | Boyfriend's acquaintance keeps crossing the line. How to address this in a RPW way? Or do I STFU?Provided he is okay with it: Start visiting him at work more. Prepare and bring him a lunch - and make sure that is visibly your objective - if you need a pretense for being there. This will firmly establish to your man's coworkers that he is solidly in a relationship that he'd be foolish to step out on. Also, start chatting up the girl and being friendly with her - also visibly. Get her to do as much of the talking as possible. Both of these moves will make it much harder for her to attempt som… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Guardian Article about RPWShe looks like she identifies as Trans-Harry Potter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 02:14 PM |
| 5 | Guardian Article about RPWThere are hundreds of articles like this. "RedPillWomen is White Supremacist". "Gender roles are White Supremacist". "Farmer's Markets are White Supremacist". "Being on time is White Supremacist". "Math is White Supremacist". Frankly, I don't think the writers churning out these articles - or the editors greenlighting them - have fully thought through the ramifications of the narrative they're pushing. If you spend enough time hammering it into people's heads that everything they love, everythin… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 10:36 AM |
| 5 | Guardian Article about RPWI wouldn't be surprised if the author of the article made the post, based on the "quality" of her other research. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 10:26 AM |
| 10 | Guardian Article about RPWYou should at least look at the picture of the writer at the top of the link. First, I want you picture what you think she'd look like. Alright, do you have an image in your head? Congratulations, you're right. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/23 03:48 AM |
| 6 | Do you use dating apps/do HVM?HVM are by definition the men that all of the women want. The fact that it upsets you when a HVM elects to exercise those many options available to him does not negate the fact that he is high value. Were he not high value, he would not be able to order women like pizza. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/23 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Advice please?"Just gaslight him into thinking its not a big deal" Besides this being terrible, manipulative, self-destructive advice, and not being RPW advice at all, it won't work. You can't gaslight a man into not having a problem with your sexual history, because it's not a conscious thought you're trying to change, it's a gut reaction. You can't argue or debate a gut reaction, you can only find ways to deal with it, which can be either constructive or destructive. Mods, do you award negative stars? Becau… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/05/23 03:29 PM |
| – | Media's Portrayal of TradwivesI agree, we need more representation for Black Supremacist tradwives, Jewish Supremacist tradwives, and Muslim Supremacist tradwives. Because as we all know, if it's a White woman doing it, it is by definition White Supremacy. White women deviating from progressive feminist orthodoxy is always and forever an expression of hate speech and bigotry. We cannot allow nuance on this topic, ever. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/23 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Good male psychology booksIt's only worth reading if you understand that you should do the opposite of what the book says. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/23 03:32 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-countAnyone reading this person's comments should understand who this "Lilith" is being referenced by her username first: https://www.wombsoflilith.org/faq.html "Is it true that the ritual to become a Womb of Lilith involves an abortion? Yes it is. The ritual to become a Womb of Lilith is a similitude of what Mary would have done with the christ which god raped into her. The ritual does involve an intentional pregnancy with a planned outcome of abortion. This is why christians, jews, and muhammadans … | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 05:23 PM |
| 24 | Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-countThis kind of response is why he's feeling antsy about it. You are lying about the thought process that led to you giving the "not much more than 20". You know how bad the real number sounds, so you tried to play word games to get the kind of responses you want to hear. That is the thought process that led to your answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 05:00 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend doesn’t know if he sees a future with me because of N-countIn the same way that women are able to evaluate relatively quickly (sometimes instantly!) if they would be interested in having sex with a man, men are able to very quickly sort women into categories of 'worthy of wifing up' and 'just for fun'. If a man doesn't ask, it means he either lacks the assertiveness to (not an encouraging sign) or he simply doesn't care because you've already been relegated to the latter category. If your three boyfriends didn't ask, one of those two statements is why -… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/23 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Do men actually care if a woman is smart/professionally successful or not?They don't care in the sense that they're not considering the woman's career or education in their selection of a mate. They care in the sense that they're picking the future mother of their children, and they don't want stupid children. This is why the expression that a woman was attending college for her MRS degree came about. It's not said (at least by men) with any sort of derision. It's to point out that she's shopping specifically for an educated husband, and signaling that she will make a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/23 05:47 PM |
| 1 | 2nd date, hiking. What to wear and how to stay in feminine frame?This thread should be higher up, because that piece of information has a lot of bearing on the answer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/23 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Am I in the wrong?I think you - as well as the vast majority of the responses - are misinterpreting his statement. He said it was hard staying monogamous - a factual statement for all men, remember that men and women are different - but he said he was doing it (obviously this is a choice he already made). If he is unsure of the prospect of a lifelong marriage with you, and that is what you desire, it is your responsibility to make that marriage a more appealing offer than any alternative. This is the purpose of "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/23 02:31 PM |
| -2 | Boyfriend won't give up porn unless i give up instagramIn addition, the argument that she's using Instagram to promote her DJ "career" - try and find a 'Senior DJ with 20 years experience' on LinkedIn then - implies that being a DJ is of greater importance than building a relationship with someone you hope to buried next to by your many children. That seems to contradict the whole point of this subreddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/23 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Are my standards unrealistic?It's hard to say if your standards are unrealistic without seeing what you look like; your personality isn't a selling point, but perhaps you are incredibly good-looking. In any event, I think you're asking in the wrong sub. I think r/smallbusiness is probably more your speed. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/23 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Is anybody here in intercultural relationships?Of course it is. They are just goyim, after all. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/23 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Upper class men marry educated womenTwo questions for you: What is the most prestigious country club in your area? What reasons did they give for rejecting your application? You should pay attention to those reasons, they are relevant here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/12/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Turned off. Now what?Is he active duty military? If yes, has the culture lately in the military something that has been impacting him negatively, and could that be driving his drinking? As I understand it morale is extremely low in the ranks right now. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/22 11:56 AM |
| 1 | “Wouldn’t you check the carfax before buying a car?Do you understand that the framing of the analogy makes clear that humans are superior to objects for the purpose of the comparison? It would be one thing if you objected to human beings ranking lower than objects in the analogy, but if you think comparing them under any circumstances and in any way is objectionable, then you are clearly acting in bad faith. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 11:36 PM |
| 2 | “Wouldn’t you check the carfax before buying a car?u/PearlsandStillettos u/Livelyleechee this one deserves a star | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 12:50 PM |
| 5 | Am I a chameleon if I get my tattoos removed?I have over a dozen tattoos. My personal preference is irrelevant, and honestly so is yours. OP posted asking for advice for her dating prospects. "You go girl, you shouldn't be ashamed of them" is also irrelevant - because she never said she was ashamed of them. She brings it up because she's debating how they will impact her chances of achieving her relationship goals. She's making a logical calculation; she needs actionable steps, not reassurance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/22 10:33 PM |
| 2 | Am I a chameleon if I get my tattoos removed?Given that the notion is relevant to the very purpose of this sub - No. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/22 10:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I just keep faking it?No, she's moderating. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/22 08:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you guide your man?Theft approved | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/22 08:10 PM |
| 4 | How do you guide your man?True love is a transactional relationship where neither party keeps receipts or ledgers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/12/22 03:53 PM |
| 18 | Should I just keep faking it?I know some people that share both your views, and the conundrum you find yourself in. As much as I want to tell you to fearlessly be yourself, it would be bad advice. Cancel culture is getting worse, with no end in sight, and if you are more open with those "ultra-liberal feminists", one of them will certainly try to destroy your life. Probably whichever one(s) isn't as pretty as you. Instead, I would say start looking for other people in your circumstances, and I know for a fact they exist. He… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/22 07:49 PM |
| 1 | feeling alone in pregnancy1) It is not pro-choice advice, it is pro-abortion advice. 2) You do not know what I believe, and you would be foolish to presume. It says in the sidebar that men should refrain from commenting unless they are older, married, and established. You are 20 and you are subbed to r/lonely. Stop giving feminist, blue-pilled advice. This is not a forum for simps. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/22 07:23 PM |
| 2 | feeling alone in pregnancyI put it in the caveat that you shouldn't presume people's views because it was obvious your presumption is incorrect, but clearly that was not subtle enough for you. "Just about any pro-choice person would agree with me" is incorrect. Your poorly-considered responses gave me a suspicion that you're rather immature and suggested you were treating someone else's life (lives) as a meaningless game - and it turns out I was correct. You are 23 years old, just out of college, and despite not even mak… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/22 07:19 PM |
| 0 | feeling alone in pregnancyDid you abort a child that was planned, with a man you envisioned yourself building a life with? You bring up that you're "pro-choice" when I didn't bring up the (false) dichotomy of pro-life vs pro-choice, nor did I state what my own views on the subject are. Whatever those views happen to be, you would be wrong to presume them. OP is in a tenuous emotional state, and is flooded with hormones right now. This is not a result of rape, incest, a broken condom, or her little brother replacing her b… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/22 04:32 PM |
| 1 | feeling alone in pregnancyThis wasn't an 'oopsie' baby, this was one she wanted. Abortion should be the absolutely last option you look at. If she has an abortion, there is a high likelihood that it will haunt her for the rest of her life. You are encouraging her to murder her first-born in the womb. Tread carefully with such advice. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/12/22 04:15 PM |
| 6 | Trying to be a traditional woman after having grown up without a motherSo just learn recipes that involve meat. It's less for you to have to take on as part of a new skill, and he won't care that it doesn't involve two sides and an appropriately paired soup. It is the act of you feeding him that matters, not the meal so much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/22 02:36 AM |
| 2 | What to do if you're a "ruined" woman?I hadn't noticed. I don't keep track of imaginary internet brownie points. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | What to do if you're a "ruined" woman?Yeah, it tells me you think the age of consent is too high. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/22 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What to do if you're a "ruined" woman?You're a male feminist, and thus not enough of a man to be making statements about the quality of other men. Take your simping elsewhere. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you're a "ruined" woman?Read the sidebar if you would like to avoid the embarrassment of a future social faux pas. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/11/22 02:39 PM |
| 0 | Guy I just met seems nice, but missing a few teeth...At the age of 27, I suspect bar fights in his youth are more likely than having his teeth rot out. Whether that's better or worse though, is a matter of opinion. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/10/22 10:57 AM |
| 3 | Help! First time doing a boudoir photo shootI would like an explanation of how this would be any different in practice from OnlyFans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/10/22 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Microsoft DEI and Inclusion agendaThe raw data shows that people have been worse off every year, since around the time women started to enter the workforce in large numbers: https://www.epi.org/blog/growing-inequalities-reflecting-growing-employer-power-have-generated-a-productivity-pay-gap-since-1979-productivity-has-grown-3-5-times-as-much-as-pay-for-the-typical-worker/ Furthermore, it is universally accepted among economists that "a rough doubling in the number of workers" is behind it. Leaked memos from Amazon confirm that t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Microsoft DEI and Inclusion agendaDEI is dressed up in the same warm, fuzzy language that second-wave feminism was, but the net result of second-wave feminism is that being a SAHM and raising a family has become exceedingly difficult - essentially a luxury good - and the majority of people are now relegated to lives of wage slavery where both parents work and they still just scrape by. There is no reason to believe that the recent DEI push hasn't been constructed in such a way to achieve a similar result - especially since it's … | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Microsoft DEI and Inclusion agendaI thought HR was supposed to encourage these conversations about DEI... | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 04:23 PM |
| 8 | Microsoft DEI and Inclusion agendaIt reduces your dating pool by reducing the absolute number of men with the careers that qualify as "High Value", for one. This essentially equates to: "You can't marry a man capable of supporting a family if no one will hire them, I guess you better just go to work instead." | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 02:12 PM |
| 13 | Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creatorsI don't revert to it, I just didn't have a problem with someone else doing it. But yes, I do believe she should be bullied off the internet. I would say she's acting in bad faith, but I don't believe she has the level of awareness required for it. She's not producing her show, and she's not making her own editorial decisions - someone else is, and they are acting in bad faith. A 21-y/o does not spontaneously, with no prior knowledge or expertise or resources, create a channel that immediately av… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/10/22 01:41 PM |
| 4 | Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creatorsI didn't know who nikkitutorials was so I wasn't certain I knew what you were implying until I looked her up, but: I'm pretty sure JustPearlyThings was born a woman, but I'm still glad you called her a tranny. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/22 11:53 PM |
| 14 | Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creatorsShe's not putting effort into anything, she is a prop in someone else's stage production. First of all, there's tens of thousands of dollars of production equipment visible in her videos. Now you can handwave that away by saying she's independently wealthy through her own efforts or inheritance, but simple wealth doesn't explain the knowledge required to select or utilize it. There's no "learning curve" visible if you compare her early videos to her most recent ones. Her channel was started in A… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/22 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Pearl's 2 cents on YouTube creatorshttps://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLNU3Yu_O9xa_HddkIwObIOYEonn7oeKr1 | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/22 03:18 PM |
| 6 | I've recently been having a lot of anxiety around RP.You have to first understand - TRP was banned from Reddit a while back, along with its main creator, Whisper. The actual useful ideas on TRP and RPW are considered heretical by the powers that be, so you should understand that when you see shows like Fresh n Fit not only allowed to exist on Reddit, but actually being promoted - they are a scam and you are the mark. They're like those wooden ducks hunters use to attract the real ducks. They're decoys. The algorithms, or the people writing the alg… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/10/22 02:08 PM |
| 7 | I first learned submission on the back of a bike.That attitude, applied to being a motorcycle passenger, is liable to get you both in a painful wreck - and you would be the one at fault. It's the same with relationships, incidentally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/22 02:02 PM |
| 4 | How To Overcome Hatred For Working?If your going to put your PR degree to work, you should find a way to do it where you can promote your own values. Spread the good word of raising healthy, cohesive families. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/09/22 02:14 PM |
| 6 | With the rise of red pill ideas, is feminism doomed to fail?Spending your fertile years making PowerPoint presentations from your cubicle, only to die of a box wine and Prozac overdose in your other cubicle. Just like anti-racism, it's deceptive marketing to condition you for a lifetime of reduced living standards and servitude. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/09/22 12:01 AM |
| 1 | With the rise of red pill ideas, is feminism doomed to fail?I agree with you, but not for the reasons you want. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/09/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Is hypergamy real?? (some real life counter-examples)I think Russia announced they'd be giving Griner a DNA test to determine if it's really a counter-example. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 12 | Gender Roles and Self-SufficiencyThey may not be absolute, but you're citing extreme outlier examples of things and suggesting they should have a bearing on normative values. It's either foolish or malicious, depending on your intent, but in either case it's absolutely destructive to the proper functioning of civilization. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/08/22 02:42 PM |
| 4 | The Ultimate (Red Pill) Guide to make your man happy and head over heels in love with you (never be worried about younger women ever again) Part 1Thank you for this 3rd grade book report | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/08/22 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Am I not good enough?Nearly all of those hate crimes against Jews in blue cities end up being hoaxes as well - such as the Jussie Smollett example you gave. They are almost entirely a media contrivance. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/22 08:12 PM |
| 6 | Fitness…No, you take advice from people able to maintain a healthy weight, diet, and lifestyle - not women with eating disorders, and not women that have resigned themselves to obesity. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/07/22 12:06 PM |
| 9 | Fitness…Note to OP - always do the opposite of any advice given by a woman who self-identifies as "thicc" and posts on eating disorder subs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Modern wimpy menYou see, this is exactly the kind of behavior the OP is talking about. Discussions of postmodernism should never be more involved than acknowledging it's a retarded incoherent worldview propagated by depressed pedophiles. Well I'm sure you were shoved in your fair share of lockers in high school, I contend that it didn't happen enough. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/22 03:09 AM |
| 4 | Modern wimpy menThat's a whole lot of text to spend apologizing and explaining something that women inherently want anyway. I understand that you've been brow beaten into apologetics over the course of your life (even if you don't fully understand it), but it's unnecessary on this sub and it reads as weakness to women wherever you are. Your personal experiences and preferences aren't particularly relevant here in any case - unless OP is specifically interested in marrying you - the goal here is to offer advice … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/22 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Modern wimpy men"I think OP is far too young to think there are not HVM out there who will want a successful doctor as a wife." There's a saying I've heard in the engineering field before: In theory, theory and practice are the same thing. In practice, they are not. The world is not going to be the way you think it should be, simply because you have imagined a different way for it to be which you prefer. It is the way you observe it to be, which incidentally, is the same way everyone else observes it to be. The… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/22 07:24 PM |
| 10 | Modern wimpy menHave you found what it is you say that you want? If yes, you can probably offer some insight from firsthand experience. If no, have you considered that your view on what should be is not in concordance with reality? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/22 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Modern wimpy menThere are masculine men in every state (although some states do have more than others), but your real issue is probably knowing where they hang out so you can fi d them. How old are you and what state are you in? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/22 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Age gap experiences/pros and cons?I have no doubt the government and academia support your brand of nonsense. It's also why 40% of Americans support armed insurrection. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Age gap experiences/pros and cons?Basically every human being over the age of 33 has spent the past 20+ yrs studying human sexual behavior. That's not a noteworthy accomplishment. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/22 07:45 PM |
| 7 | I am F32, divorced. Live with parents. I recently started an affair with my neighbor M40 widower, single dad. I love the child and am hoping it becomes something, but the dad doesn’t want to marry again. Do you think it would change with time ?If I became a widower, I would not remarry. I made a vow to remain with my wife through this life and into the next, and I meant it. I have spoken to other men who share this sentiment before. Besides, no one wants to be in the middle of that awkward introduction when they get to the afterlife. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/07/22 01:55 PM |
| 3 | Reddit CensorshipWell, Reddit is certainly beholden to a foreign government, but I don't think it's China - given that one of r/worldnews' most prolific posters was just sentenced to 20 years this week for sex-trafficking children. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/22 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Reddit CensorshipThere would be none. The overwhelming majority of conservatives lack the moral confidence to actually stand up for their beliefs - and I say that as a conservative. It's very disappointing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/06/22 11:17 PM |
| 20 | keeping a man past a few datesMove out of NYC. Men looking to marry simply don't look in Manhattan - because that's not what Manhattan exists for. They are there to take advantage of all of the women who internalized the propaganda from Sex and the City. If you're looking for a husband, try literally any R+10 district. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/22 12:23 AM |
| 8 | discussion - following the leaderI'm coming from the other side of things so my input isn't terribly relevant here, but I've radicalized my wife towards absolute Monarchism by treating her like a queen. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/22 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Will Red Pill Man Who Loves Me Only Commit after 90+ pounds lost?I don't think he's stringing her along. There are a couple points that stood out to me - one is that even though he's gone on a few other "first dates", none have really panned out, the other is that OP admitted she misrepresented herself with an older picture where she weighed less. What I take away from that is that he likes her personality and temperament (aspects of someone that are pretty set in stone) but doesn't like the extra 90lbs. Instead of him "cutting his losses" and moving on, he's… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/06/22 05:34 PM |
| 2 | Will Red Pill Man Who Loves Me Only Commit after 90+ pounds lost?I'm going to have to disagree with a lot of the "you go girl he don't deserve you" comments here. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment, and one of the biggest hurdles men face in our society when selecting a wife is that there are no external forces pushing women to stay committed to their man. Legally, there is no-fault divorce, initiated by women 70% of the time, working against men. Socially, you have women in this very thread encouraging you to move on - after you're 2/3 of the way towards … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/06/22 01:44 PM |
| 10 | Stay at home anyone?In another comment you claim to weight train and do an hour of cardio per day, but those are your blood pressure numbers? Do you suck at everything you do? | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 10:32 PM |
| 5 | Stay at home anyone?Most of your responses are poorly organized walls of text, so I'm going to batch respond to a bunch of your points here using, as you call it, "maths": You claim to work varying amounts of hours per week as a teacher, but I'm going to be generous and assume the highest figure is true - 60 hours. There are 168 hours in a week. Assuming you get a normal 8 hours per night, the maximum amount of free time you could have is 52 hours per week. So by your own misguided attempt at bragging, you spend mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/06/22 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Do we talk to our partners about the Red Pill?My wife and I discuss it all of the time. She's on here right now as a matter of fact. You both took a vow to love and honor each other until death. Engaging with an RP mindset isn't necessarily manipulation, and that should not be your default assumption in the context of a marriage, or even an LTR. You should assume your partner is acting in good faith when they do things. The idea that the sexes are by default antagonistic towards each other, and cannot be otherwise, is another example of the… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/22 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?My point wasn't about border controls, so clearly you still aren't getting it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 04:41 AM |
| 0 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?Thank you for the context Sunshine, but whether the women of either North Vietnam or South Vietnam saw direct combat or not is besides the point. My main point is that - in the context of Handmaid's Tale - an individual woman's "right" to not reproduce when 99% of other women have been rendered infertile takes a backseat to the broader need for humanity and civilization to continue to exist. I don't believe for a second that women who served in the military during a Civil War would take issue wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?My point sort of flew right over your head (or under it, considering where you live) but don't worry about it too much. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?Something tells me they won't look kindly on people valuing abortion over every other political consideration either. In fact, we'd probably agree on a lot of things, like the second amendment, tight border controls, etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 02:16 AM |
| 5 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?Yes, and one of the justices pushing for the repeal of Roe v. Wade is ACB. Whether that's because a Supreme Court Justice is somehow oppressed by the patriarchy, or because she's a devout Catholic and mother of 7 who has a reverence for human life, well that's a matter for debate. A very stupid, one-sided debate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?If your position is that the only person whose well-being you will ever consider in your political positions is your own - that's fine. It's your right to take that position. You should not be surprised though, when that attitude causes men - who have to register for the draft when they turn 18 - turn around and laugh at you when you cry about your rights. The absolute narcissism and self-centeredness of feminists is why Roe v Wade is going to be overturned, and I suspect it's just the beginning… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/22 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?Out of curiosity, what percentage of the world's population would have to die in a catastrophic event for you to feel duty-bound to something higher than yourself? 95%? 99%? The specifics of these scenarios in speculative fiction are important, but Handmaid's Tale is the only one I've ever seen where there is absolutely zero philosophical contemplation resulting from the book's plot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Comparisons between traditional women/life to Gilead-- how accurate are they?If I recall, the forced surrogacy is a policy adopted due to plummeting fertility from a few different causes. While fertility rates in the West are below replacement rates, we're not facing the kind of fertility drop that would result in catastrophic depopulation - the US government just wasn't able to get vaccination rates for Covid high enough to pull it off. What I find more fascinating about the novel is the degree of selfishness and short-sightedness you'd have to have in order to view hav… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/06/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Please leave this RedditApparently the Slippery Slope evangelicals were 100% correct. They are owed an apology. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/22 02:23 PM |
| 5 | Exactly what is considered to be a "red pilled woman"?You know, you say you're happy, but you don't sound happy, and you certainly don't respond to people like a happy woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/06/22 10:53 PM |
| 15 | Trying to not feel ashamed by wanting to be a housewife.I have it on good authority that you can you can be a housewife, take care of small children, and still find time for your writing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/06/22 04:45 AM |
| 7 | What to do when your partner is in a heated situation? I don’t want to undermine his masculinity but I also really dislike this type of confrontation.It seems based on your replies, you're not actually interested in relationship advice, and you are just looking for an opportunity to shoehorn your opinions on gun control into discussions where they do not belong. It looks a lot like the very hypothetical posts you've made in the past to r/pro-life. Perhaps the culture in this country is not well suited to you, and you would be better off somewhere else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/06/22 12:41 AM |
| 6 | One more reason to keep marriages intactTo the dear reader: Often, when encountering a smug know-it-all retort like this, lacking in a counterargument or even a counterpoint, it is instructive to scroll through the commenter's post history. This commenter is chronically single and unable to maintain personal relationships, is dependent on multiple psychiatric medications, has BPD, and posts an excessive number of unimpressive nudes to the internet. Teampocketrockettt's opinion on the second amendment is worth about as much as she char… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/22 01:26 PM |
| 2 | my boyfriend likes seductive posts and i hate it…So you've learned something about his preferences from all this that opens the door for an actionable solution. Pick a social media platform, doesn't matter which, make an account, go on his phone and have him follow you, then set the account to private. And simply start posting seductive pictures of yourself to it daily. You know what gets his attention. Go do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/22 12:20 AM |
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