Evergreens1992 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
9	When are we ready to date again? (Post 1 year)		Evergreens1992	/r/Divorce_Men	11/11/23 03:53 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Someone talk some sense into me. I relisten to it in moments of stress. It’s good	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/23 03:29 AM
3	Someone talk some sense into me. I don’t think you’re unusually pathetic bro. Your response is what it is. It doesn’t need to define your attitude twenty minutes from now or even tomorrow. Highly recommend listening to the Power of Now.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/12/23 01:47 AM
12	Someone talk some sense into me. Mate you need a therapist, a gym membership and a divorce. I hate to be so flippant, but your story feels too similar to mine. I couldn’t bring myself to take action but afterwards I wish I had. There is no coming back from her affair. And don’t blame yourself or be ashamed. It reflects her choices and nothing more. Be glad you can now spend tomorrow and the next day moving on, and try not to make sense of it all or seek closure. You’re unlikely to get closure from her or an apology that satisfi…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/12/23 09:58 PM
2	When are we ready to date again? (Post 1 year) Thanks Man. Seems like the pinned post is the only general advice we are gonna find. Oh well. I am reasonably confident that my current relationship is good/healthy.	/r/Divorce_Men	13/11/23 09:51 PM
1	Should I or should I not do marriage counseling if suggested Counseling is unlikely to save your marriage but it won’t hurt. Whatever happens, get your own therapist, go for a year minimum, focus on sleep health and crush it at work. Be kind. Oh and for some of us we respond well from going to the gym 6 days a week. Your call.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/23 03:16 PM
1	Should I or should I not do marriage counseling if suggested Sorry man. Sounds a bit more painful than the ending of my marriage. Keep your head up.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/10/23 03:13 PM
1	Cheating wife. Any suggestions on a good GPS tracker? Don't waster your time. And this didn't happen to you. It happened for you. This is the data/info you needed to remove yourself from the relationship and truly move on. When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/23 05:38 PM
2	Watching my marriage decay into nothing Ideally you two would have had your feet underneath you as individuals before you married. If it was possible to pursue individual goals/dreams while staying together I would suggest trying to stay together, but I have the feeling that it is best to part ways. Perhaps postpone the divorce and just file for legal separation. Better talk to an attorney. Good luck man - but no matter what, you'll be alright. Believe it; it's true.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/23 06:39 PM
3	Destroyed Sounds like you're still in a lot of pain, and feeeling the way a lot of us have after our divorce. I don't know all the details, but hopefully you can accept your current situation and not beat yourself up about the past. Whatever it was before, it is no longer. This is your opportunity to build a new better future. You're better off now, one day you'll realize it.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/23 04:05 PM
3	Men in your 40s who got divorced in your early 40s from the love of your life. If you found genuine happiness again (where you don’t think about your ex on a regular basis), how did you find it? My sympathies brother. I can relate. The aha moment may come and then fade, so like some of the other responders, rinse and repeat as needed going forward. Sounds like you admired your ex, and so it will be inherently difficult for your feelings to exceed that with a new partner, even if we all think she is better than your ex. I'd accept that reality and just appreciate the future partner as they are. Be in the now. Moving to a new city sounds adventerous and appealing to me (someone that has y…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/10/23 03:57 PM