ExMouth7 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Greek Islands and Game		ExMouth7	/r/seduction	30/06/13 08:20 PM

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18	Why are PUAs often so mean-spirited or dismissive other guys (both PUAs and non-PUAs)? It's totally unnecessary. Unfortunately many of the men who got involved in this community and even many of the people teaching it are emotionally damaged. If someone doesn't treat others with the respect they deserve then game won't help them.	/r/seduction	25/11/13 12:56 AM
1	How to do make women feel more comfortable during conversations? You are recognizing this which is good. It is the first step to correcting it. Something about your body language, appearance, words or what not may cause her to feel uncomfortable. Take some time to evaluate yourself and be honest with yourself. It would help to ask your friends for their opinion too. If you see this happening in the future, you need to take steps to calm her down and make her comfortable. One of the best ways to do this is to recognize the emotion she is feeling and comment on…	/r/seduction	17/11/13 01:17 AM
3	I'm 20 and working at a cafe in San Francisco as a barista. What are some good openers you could think of that would yield a quick/effective number close? This is a valid warning but totally dependent upon his boss' demeanor. Some in retail are really chill and wouldn't care others might be up tight. Really it depends on his boss. Of course if the boss says stop then you stop.	/r/seduction	10/11/13 01:05 AM
2	I'm 20 and working at a cafe in San Francisco as a barista. What are some good openers you could think of that would yield a quick/effective number close? Forget that 200th approach number that is bullshit and nothing more than a limiting belief. You get over a fear of rejection by facing the possibility of rejection. Everyone gets rejected, I got rejected today while day gaming at the mall. The reality is that a normal well adjusted woman isn't going to be rude to you for complimenting her in a respectful way and trying to find out more about her. A foundational belief in pickup is that you control your own destiny and if you don't approach somet…	/r/seduction	10/11/13 12:59 AM
1	I'm 20 and working at a cafe in San Francisco as a barista. What are some good openers you could think of that would yield a quick/effective number close? People typically want their coffee fast. You need to be very direct and quick since they won't want to talk for a while and the next customer will be wanting their coffee. Say something like "Here is your Latte (or whatever) and I have to say you are very attractive. I'd love to get to know you but I don't have time right now. Give me your number and I'll be in touch later." It is simple but should be effective if she is attracted to you. It also won't be considered rude so you don't have to wor…	/r/seduction	10/11/13 12:50 AM
5	Need help with a girl in my class She wants to get fucked clear as day. Tell her you enjoy spending time with her and want to do something fun with her this weekend. Take her bowling (don't do movies make sure you can talk) or something like that just the two of you. Don't do anything over the top but try to make her feel at least a little special so she doesn't feel like a slut. Scout out some quiet and dark parking lots nearby you could take her too. Basically that is where you hook up in high school since you can't get her ho…	/r/seduction	28/10/13 11:55 PM
1	How to handle a girl who directly asks about your intentions The best answer is always honesty. It sounds like you were having fun with her so all you had to say was something like "Yes we are having a great conversations (your words above) so I would love to see you again." If you say that with confidence you'll be off to the races. Girls sometimes do this. It's basically a major IOI. In the future there is really nothing you need to worry about just answer her question with honesty.	/r/seduction	27/10/13 01:54 AM
4	Openers First just relax. Nothing you text will magically make her like you. If you think of a joke or something make the joke but just talk to her in text like a normal conversation. Use your first text to reference something you talked about with her especially something that got you a DHV hit. For instance if you mention you do cross fit and she is like "OMG I tried it once and I loved it," you can make your first text "Just finished my cross fit workout today, have you done anything exciting?" Then …	/r/seduction	01/08/13 02:17 PM
1	I need a critique You are off to a good start. I would change up what you say during the day to be something like "You're way too cute for me not to know so tell me something interesting you did recently?" If she doesn't respond answer with something you recently did that is interesting (surfing for instance). Remember that during the day women are busy so get a couple of minutes of rapport with her then number close. Don't cling for a long time because that appears needy. After two or three minutes say something…	/r/seduction	20/07/13 05:22 PM
4	Try This in Your Interactions When Going Out I have a rule when I first meet someone if it is on a job application don't ask about it. If you decide to ask about it or if she brings it up make statements not questions. For instance saying "You seem like someone who works with kids," is way better than "what do you do for work?" Even if she doesn't work with kids it is more interesting but if she does work with kids then it is usually results in a DHV spike. In my experience good subject to talk about when you first meet someone are how the…	/r/seduction	15/07/13 10:30 PM
1	Greek Islands and Game Good to hear. I was considering Ios and Santorini. I've heard a lot of good about Santorini and Ios is close by.	/r/seduction	30/06/13 09:01 PM
2	Anyone got any pro tips for dating/making plans with super busy women? Very True. If women like you they will drop hints.	/r/seduction	30/06/13 08:22 PM
6	Anyone got any pro tips for dating/making plans with super busy women? I have a couple items of advice, especially because I like the same women. After all people who are worth being with are usually busy with school, work, social life, volunteering, working out and so forth. I would avoid asking what her schedule is like because it comes off as needy. Recognize that she is busy but let her know you are too. Say something like "I know we are both busy people but I want to see if you can handle some balls. Let's go bowling and grab ice cream afterwards. Can I pick y…	/r/seduction	30/06/13 07:52 PM
4	How to game bartenders: advice needed They are just like normal women and will be attracted just like a normal girl. The key is to go on a slow night when she will be standing around waiting for customers. If she is running around to serve drinks to everyone on Friday night she can't really have a conversation. Go on a Monday or Tuesday. If you are the only one in the bar it is perfect. You don't need to worry about opening but you got to DHV and then build a connection. It is basically the same interaction you would have with any g…	/r/seduction	30/06/13 01:30 AM
1	Some help please Basically what you are saying is some girl in a bar rejected you but danced with your roommate. This happens all the time to everyone it is no big deal and you shouldn't let it bother you. You should be proud that you at least had the balls to talk to a girl because a lot of guys don't even have that. If it is a consistent pattern that he gets more female attention than you should try to learn from your friend and determine why he is more successful. An easy tip to make sure you are more attract…	/r/seduction	30/06/13 12:02 AM
1	How long do you wait for the first txt? - trying to optimize this sticking point You need to add value with your text. One of the best ways to do this is to reference something exciting from your conversation. Let's say she mentions she does yoga. The next day you could say "Are you doing anything fun today like yoga? I'm going hiking (or insert anything else that isn't lame you are doing) today since it is gorgeous outside." Doing the above tells her you remember the conversation and that have things to do which are also fun (hiking). Telling her to txt me back sounds like …	/r/seduction	29/06/13 11:52 PM