So all day today ive been chilling with my roommates and just drinking smoking having a good time. we have more company come over and everything is chill and cool, but i can never get over the feeling that i bring the group down. and after hanging out the apartment we go to the nearby bar. We're inside chilling, and i go for a girl and she rejects me... but then starts dancing with my rommate. after that he came to me and said sorry, and i just said it was cool and that i didnt take it personal, but in my head it still feels crummy. My self esteem has been low, and have this lingering feeling that im a creep and no girls want me... fast forward to when were back at the apartment, after escaping from the chaos in the lving room for about minutes, i haer them start talking about what happened back in te club, and basically the group consensus was that they felt bad for me ( which makes me sorta happy cause they care and take notice of me) but it doesnt help this sub par feeling i have all the time. Sorry for the sappy storytelling but could somebody give advice to turn this situation around?