| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 14 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh" | ExNihiloGN | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:32 PM | |
| 10 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips? | ExNihiloGN | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 03:39 PM | |
| 3 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input. | ExNihiloGN | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 03:50 PM | |
| 2 | Sticky Situation: Getting her back to my place and escalating | ExNihiloGN | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 01:05 AM | |
| 0 | The Problem: HB getting under my skin and I don't know how to stop it- or if I want to. Escalate or bail? | ExNihiloGN | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 02:36 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | The Problem: HB getting under my skin and I don't know how to stop it- or if I want to. Escalate or bail?Well beyond that point brother ;) | /r/seduction | 03/03/11 01:42 AM |
| 1 | The Problem: HB getting under my skin and I don't know how to stop it- or if I want to. Escalate or bail?Good input- thx friend. Say I am interested- any harm in sparking up "the talk"? | /r/seduction | 01/03/11 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Sorry bros, did not lose my v-card, but it was good and I have a cool move with Rock Band I haven't heard about beforeGood stuff. She's giving off tons of IOIs. Go for it smoothly but confidently. I'd say she's yours for the taking- though you might get a fair bit of last minute resistance. Search the posts for how to deal with that. | /r/seduction | 04/02/11 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Sticky Situation: Getting her back to my place and escalatingSolid point. | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Sticky Situation: Getting her back to my place and escalatingThanks Ched. I agree with you on both points- and have made mental notes of this myself. Kino was escalating but that can only go so far in public. I was in the middle of giving her once last chance to come over before nexting her (via text, and good advice on_the_dl). She sensed where things were leading and called immediately. Explained how she was well aware of the 3-date rule and was really enjoying getting to know me and was very much looking forward to seeing where this goes (i.e., clearly… | /r/seduction | 02/02/11 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Sticky Situation: Getting her back to my place and escalatingExactly man. Good advice- perhaps a deferrment would be smart. Bad frame altogether. I've also been thinking of flinging a hail mary. Something along the lines of "Listen, let's just pass on tonight. Dinner without the possibility of figuring out exactly if I want to rip off your clothes is not tickling me. You're not safe anymore lol" or something to that effect. A bit stuck as to which route to go. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Roll Call for NYC Sedditors - Let's get this lair up and runningI'm up. | /r/seduction | 01/02/11 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Sorry man. Big thanks for your advice again. I actually did an FR follow-up as I did not want to leave y'all hanging. http://redd.it/fabus | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 06:40 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"Everything changes; nothing ever stays the same. In terms of relationships, people either grow together or step away when the situation doesn't suit them. Being purpose- driven is a part of being a man. A part of that is often building a career, which hopefully is aligned with that purpose. Not sure how your point is pertinent. | /r/seduction | 31/01/11 06:39 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"Thx for the advice wildcard | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 02:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"LOL. Thx man | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 12:38 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"I agree. It is a possibility- hence "use it for good". | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:14 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"thx! | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"Exactly- thx | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:11 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Follow up- "Ut-oh. The Talk is Nigh"thx guys- and for your help | /r/seduction | 28/01/11 04:11 AM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Thanks man. Again, solid stuff. Posted a FR | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Thx for the good advice again. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Let's not get technical- any talk is an exchange between two people and owned by both. What was meant was that it was important for me to establish the tone, structure and character. Agreed on your second point. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Thx for your $.02. It was worth far more. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?After a few months, if she's a quality gal- I'd think you might be pushing your luck. They're driven towards commitment- you can only delay. If that's not for you, let her go. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?You were on the money- thx bro. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?I'd have otherwise agreed with you, but it was clear things were on the good given since she made the offer to bring food- it was a positive gesture. | /r/seduction | 27/01/11 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Upvote- thx bro. You're 100% right- I'm not sure of what I want- it's too early. And I agree with you- you have to be totally ready to walk. If you're not ready, they'll sense it and push their agenda as hard as they can. Conversely, I believe they'll sense your seriousness if you approach things the right way and end up respecting you more for it. Good advice from you and others- thx. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?You're 100% right. It is a delay tactic- and girls of quality will only deal with it for only so long. Right now I have a few balls in the air, and want to see which one suits me the best. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?I've been thinking that exactly- it is MY talk- not hers. Will def FR. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?good stuff as well. Very nuanced and solid- thanks for this. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Thx wildcard- feeling this too. Solid advice. Here's a follow-up question- if I get the shutout, how should this be played moving forward? | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Ut Oh. The "Talk" is Nigh. Any pro tips?Thx frogma. Good stuff. You were rigjht | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Do you remind a girl about the date?This- in droves. Your time is as important as hers. Don't supplicate yourself. She's not a goddess- even if she looks like one. Don't kowtow. And lastly, don't pave her escape. It comes off weak. Assume she wants to spend time with you, and that's she's crazy if she doesn't. Act that way. And if she doesn't, it's her issue. Sounds like a bit of one-itis going on too. Address that. As the old adage goes, there's plenty of fish in the sea.....seriously. | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 04:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input.dead on. This got her raring to go. Thx for the solid ;) | /r/seduction | 26/01/11 03:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input.seems like everyone's agreed. I think you and the rest are on the money- thx a ton. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 03:05 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input.Nice. Thx bro. That very well could get the boulder rolling and keep it rolling all the way. | /r/seduction | 23/01/11 03:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input.Yeah, it came off totally playful- she got it and has already hit me back. Thx again for the solid advice- next time its on my turf- I'll keep you guys posted. Hopefully she'll relent before I get bored :) | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 07:16 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Second Date. Woman are head-scratchingly insane. Alphas, need some solid input.no, brother. Not sure what gave that indication- was pretty hung over this AM. Thx for the input- good idea ;) | /r/seduction | 22/01/11 06:18 PM |
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