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| 162 | We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic | Question for BluePill | ExcitementChance4025 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:28 PM |
| 54 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out. | Conversation | ExcitementChance4025 | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 03:45 AM |
| 24 | So many scam coaches out there- Thesingleguy | Resources | ExcitementChance4025 | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 11:52 PM |
| 8 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman. | ExcitementChance4025 | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 06:27 PM | |
| 0 | Where else can I go? I don’t know any space that understands me. | ExcitementChance4025 | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/25 01:43 AM |
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| 1 | Why are you afraid of “Rejection?”its not that im afraid of rejection more so i dislike the idea that were supposed to be equals in society yet men have to approach and set up and plan and pay for the date. to me it seems like we are creating a society that breeds women into narcissist through pedestalization | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 06:18 PM |
| – | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.a society that says women can hit you and nobody will bat an eye but if you stand up for yourself she automatically becomes the victim. also you dont ask out or even approach men first , rather you wait for men to do it first which paves way for other pick up artist and dark triad men to be the father of your children | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:10 PM |
| – | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.because you want to be equals but dont even approach men . you want to be catered to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:08 PM |
| – | Many women have been socially programmed to be self-centered and narcissistic.the fact that men have to approach first . instantly breeds narcissistic women in western society despite us being equals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/26 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.doesnt seem like equality to me if i have to start the conversations. this is more red pilling then you think. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Those who have 0 game and no action in years, what you all doing?gym basketball MMA videogames Business BBQ'ing | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 05:22 PM |
| 0 | Mark Manson debates red pill guys on Jubileeactually it was claude but i think the points are still valid | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 04:44 PM |
| – | Mark Manson debates red pill guys on Jubilee"The Manosphere Is a Business That Profits Off Keeping Men Angry" What Manson argued The manosphere is a monetized rage machine. Figures like the Tate brothers and Myron Gaines exploit young men's anger and insecurity for profit. The incentive structure rewards keeping men angry, not helping them. The counter-argument "You're describing every media business on earth, including yours." Outrage is the business model of cable news, political commentary, fitness influencers, and yes, self-help autho… | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 04:38 PM |
| 1 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.im open to friendships with women but they never talk to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 03:44 PM |
| – | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.im open to talk to them and make friends but they never approach me. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 03:36 PM |
| 0 | How to refute the redpill argument that adult men are having less sex?no they are not. they are able to get it without doing anything. as a man i have to mercilessly improve myself. as a women you get to have it without doing any kind of self improvement . no wonder modern western society breeds them into narcissist. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/07/26 03:30 PM |
| -5 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.i just understand the automatic assumption that your the bad person in any kind of conflict man or women. i never got suspended from school. i never got in fights. so i am not a confrontational person but i have seen how women have an ability to flip the general perception against you as they get whats called the natural victim perspective. you might say those videos are staged but on subreddit AMITHEASSHOLE they did an experiment and would post identical situations but flip the male and female … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 09:24 PM |
| 0 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.life does feel like one big competition sometimes. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 08:25 PM |
| 1 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.i wasnt aware of this im sorry. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 08:23 PM |
| 0 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.no | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 07:26 PM |
| -8 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.i did when i was in school (university and highschool) I had a few friends that were female in my early 20s (coworkers and such). now a days i have none. but having friends that were women doesnt do anything . | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 07:13 PM |
| -10 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.majority of men are cool and nice but women are still scared of violence and mean rejections. Im not scared of being accused of rape. im being scared of accused of bothering someone and knowing what i have seen happen to other men (they just outright ban them from that particular space or can get other surrounding people to turn on you) ive been in spaces and communities for years it doesnt mean anything unless you have pick up ability. also i disagree i am flawed. if being a tall , muscular and… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 07:11 PM |
| -7 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.yes most of my female clients reached out to me first. i never approach women in public even when they stare at me because safety. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 07:01 PM |
| -7 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.but women could also introduce themselves? im not scared of rape accusations. i am scared that i am ultimately the bad guy in a female and male dynamic automatically and they have this upper power that nobody seems to acknowledge . https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xEZH6YSQvwA explain why no one steps in when females are in the violent roles. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 06:59 PM |
| 0 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.im super comfortable talking to women (or anyone) its just that women never talk to me first so i dont want to make them uncomfortable or put myself in a risky situation. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 06:39 PM |
| -11 | I've read Models by Mark Manson 3 times. I'm 33 and still have never been with a woman.i was the only person in my friend group who never dated, got laid or a girlfriend in highschool and in university and in my 20s. the problem is that i am expecting women to say hi first before i talk to them. its a safety pre-caution because you dont want to talk to the wrong one who can falsely accuse you and ruin your life and we also have a issue with white knights who will side with women (and you can clearly see from social experiment videos when women act violently towards men nobody does… | /r/ExRedPill | 22/07/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | So how do you build a community and get into a relationship? I don't see how this works at all.both concepts are alien to me because i dont talk to women at all and they dont talk to me. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/26 04:12 PM |
| 1 | So how do you build a community and get into a relationship? I don't see how this works at all.i dont know the difference | /r/ExRedPill | 15/07/26 02:22 AM |
| 0 | So how do you build a community and get into a relationship? I don't see how this works at all.I dont approach women. women dont approach me . reasons for both is ego and safety. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/26 09:41 PM |
| 0 | Complete lack of validation from women in Toronto as a tall black dude has me depressed af nglwhy not i thought we were equals. | /r/seduction | 14/07/26 07:49 PM |
| – | So how do you build a community and get into a relationship? I don't see how this works at all.i was educated. tall. gym rat. i came from a well off family. i turned 30 and still never been on a date. never had sex outside of escorts. the issue is that you need pick up artist skills but that is branded under the red pill umbrella. i dont subscribe to any internet ideology anymore but there is a clear distinction that women have a clear advantage in society that naturally breeds them into narcissist . so unfortunately you must learn pick up artist skills or else you settle for someone who … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/07/26 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Shy women are seen as cute. Shy men are invisible. That’s the manosphere pipeline.I actually agree with you. its terrible. OP You'll be okay dude just approach more women and drop the anger. i promise after a couple weeks of being uncomfortable can change your trajectory. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 07:52 PM |
| -3 | Shy women are seen as cute. Shy men are invisible. That’s the manosphere pipeline.I agree. Women aren’t obligated to give men anything. But men also aren’t obligated to pretend dating dynamics are perfectly fair or to avoid discussing strategies with each other because it makes people uncomfortable. That conversation is literally why the manosphere exists. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 06:59 PM |
| 0 | Shy women are seen as cute. Shy men are invisible. That’s the manosphere pipeline.So i will give you my experience take it or leave it. but how good of a person you are has nothing to do with your success with women. its all skill based and whether or not you were born with the right genetics (social skills and looks). no amount of being a good person, having non-misogynistic thoughts, not harboring negative feelings internally will change that. you need to stop believing in stupid reddit beliefs that the people having sex and getting women are morally superior lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 06:42 PM |
| 0 | Shy women are seen as cute. Shy men are invisible. That’s the manosphere pipeline.thats why abusers and horrible men never get into relationships right? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 06:14 PM |
| -2 | Shy women are seen as cute. Shy men are invisible. That’s the manosphere pipeline.lol because abusers and bad men dont get into relationships? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 06:00 PM |
| 2 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?cool ill try those (minus the bars because i dont drink). thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/25 02:22 AM |
| 1 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?im an asshole because i dont have good PUA abilities .. cool | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/25 01:53 AM |
| 1 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?because you are not looking through her phone, you are not with her everywhere she goes and sees the interest she may be getting. perhaps you have better things to talk about then which guys tried to hit on her lately so of course its not something at the forefront you would be aware of. its not that they are drowning its the fact that they have options and get to play the game with minimal effort. i do put myself out there , i have memberships to 3 different gyms and try to get exposure . unfor… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/25 01:52 AM |
| 1 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?i wish i was trolling. unfortunately this is my situation bro. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/25 01:47 AM |
| -2 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?i think this is where the disconnect is. you dont have to approach if you did all those things above i did. and i think you might be equating it with putting in effort. thats not what i mean. remember you described yourself as "not unusually hideous" im not "not hideous" im tall, facially attractive(i have been told), atheltic/muscular and have a good job. im still social and outgoing and make connections easily. its just that im shy to approach women especially when im attracted to them. so now… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 11:18 PM |
| -2 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?put 10 years in the gym and make 100k(minimum) a year. i guarantee your results would be different for you then it is for me. not sure why you are bringing up abortion as we are talking about inequality in dating. also you are welcome to try dating apps where you will be flooded with likes and attention while i get radio silence. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 10:58 PM |
| – | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?no i have no interest in joining your cult based on another cult. i just come on to reddit to complain about the unfair nature of dating. i dont subscribe or visit any red pill websites or forums. but the one thing at least they and more men spaces can admit is the unfair nature of dating. And with reddits heavy bias in favor of women no one wants to have a discussion about it because they want to supress this unfairness and not have it start to become more mainstream as i threatens the existing… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 09:17 PM |
| 0 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?please look up feminist norah vincent - she went through life as a man and it caused her mental distress and she eventually off'd herself. there are also dating experiments done on youtube by women using ai to turn them into men on dating apps and then they admit their mental health starts to deteriorate | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 08:57 PM |
| 0 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?no its pretty wide spread. they have a better time on dating apps. they get to go into the clubs for free. they get to wait passively and be approached by men and not doing the initiating themselves despite being "our equals" . you dont want to admit the shitty truth and therefore men create safe spaces to discuss these inequalities because you cant handle a discussion without resorting to attacks and downvoting. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 08:55 PM |
| -5 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?i put a decade of self improvement ( gym,career, social, hobbies, no drugs/alcohol lifestyle, education, health optimization) yet almost gonna be 33 and i have never dated or hooked up. my sisters however can eat junk food, live most of their life scrolling on their phone, and yet still have more suitors then me. the contrast is insane. women dont even grasp the concept of self improvement to the same extent because they will be valued no matter what. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 08:07 PM |
| -5 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?as a man i have to initiate and do all the heavy lifting and dont get to live passively and still have a dating life like women do. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 07:57 PM |
| -3 | What helps red pilled men escape that culture?probably started to understand the unfair nature of dating for men and you couldnt reap the benefits of him no more. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/25 07:07 PM |
| 6 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.good point - i guess the therapist never tried connecting the childhood upbringing to the current day problems. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:18 AM |
| 6 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.i saw a few therapist, some for months. it just doesnt help because unfortunately its not like the therapist is gonna come out and approach women for me. or magically make women want to approach me. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:08 AM |
| 2 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.my thoughts is this person looks interesting , lets have a chat. but subconsciously my mind signals danger and fear of the unknown. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 08:07 AM |
| 7 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.ive tried therapy, many different ones. it doesnt work me. unfortunately action is the only thing that can get me out of my predicament . | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:48 AM |
| 1 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.beliefs that help me = tall, athletic, facially handsome (strangers compliment my eyes and smile), witty, strong, financially responsible, laid back beliefs that stop me = being pakistani and bad hair genetics (balding at the crown) but ultimately what stops me is that it never happened to me when it was "suppose to be easy" like in highschool, college or my 20s. like i said my friends didnt approach or read about game they just kind of lived their life like i did and it just happened for them. … | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 07:38 AM |
| 4 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.thanks bro | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:35 AM |
| 9 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.i mean they were my classmates, my coworkers, my friends girlfriends, my sisters, cousins. so if you mean talking to them as another human, yes. if your referring to taking a platonic relationship and making it flirty... then maybe not so much. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:11 AM |
| 15 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.thanks bro for the insight. lets say i dealt with that parenting style. what would be the solution? | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 05:03 AM |
| 9 | my friends have no issues with dating/hookup. What am I doing wrong where I'm always the odd one out.thanks for your reply bro, i never struggled making friends or networking. And i have been blessed to get opportunities that put me in roles that require people skills like corporate management. but you are absolutely right, i need to approach more women from the frame of curiosity and sometimes humor as i feel those are my strengths. | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 04:11 AM |
| – | Where else can I go? I don’t know any space that understands me.therapy is bullshit bro, sorry but i have been to many. and its never helped. not sure why your in here fixated about that part? are you here to help or just be an ass | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/25 02:00 AM |
| – | Where else can I go? I don’t know any space that understands me.my mental health is fine. i have periods of sadness when i think about this topic in particular but otherwise im doing well. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/11/25 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Best thing a woman has said/did to you that made you feel extremely desired?put her hand on my cheek with a loving stare | /r/seduction | 27/09/25 03:50 PM |
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