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1

By "have the ability to determine themselves" do you mean "have agency"?
/r/MensRights14/03/26 04:08 AM
-4

I'm not saying men's rights isn't about equality. I still believe in men's rights. I'm saying I have doubts about r/MensRights
/r/MensRights11/03/26 12:04 PM
-37

r/mensrights WAS about equality. Lately I'm not so sure.
/r/MensRights11/03/26 04:52 AM
17

Neither of these cases involved a sperm bank. I doubt these men would have been held financially liable if they had.
/r/MensRights01/01/25 02:01 PM
7

"Rosey Hudson was among numerous people being taken to court"
/r/MensRights15/12/24 01:03 PM
7

Are aides not supposed to run errands?
/r/MensRights09/12/24 02:53 AM
7

Only 77 likes and 1500 views? Tell the algorithm to show it to people, like and comment.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 08:36 PM
6

Bruh, she didn't make you break your air pods. Did she take possession of your central nervous system and move you like a puppet to break them? Of course not, you chose to break them; no one made you do anything. Sounds to me like you do have anger management issues. Breaking things when you're frustrated means you were never given the proper tools to deal with your emotions growing up. Knocking the building blocks over is what a child does, and it's scary as hell when an adult does it, because …
/r/MensRights24/11/24 04:36 PM
5

I just want to read the comic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/07/24 04:20 PM
17

So you're encountering people who argue that testosterone makes men, on average, inherently more violent? Personally, I would flip the script and ask leading questions so that the person answering them comes to their own conclusions (socratic method). "What would you say if you got angry at me over something, and I dismissed you by saying 'oh, you must be on your period'"? They may respond along the lines of: "But those hormones are real and do make women more emotional and prone to mood swings.…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/05/24 01:28 PM
2

This statistic is meaningless unless you also include the percentage of journalists who are women. Are 50% of journalists women? 11% doesn't seem like a lot. Are 5% women? 11% does seem like a lot.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 12:31 AM
3

The entire argument falls apart when you realize that it rests on the assumption that sexual preference is a choice. You think someone decides to like dick or decides to like vagina? Really? You think a gay person in the deep south was pressured in to being gay by society? So what, you're saying women are pressured in to being straight? You're saying that choice was made for you by society? Even if that's the argument you're making, you're essentially saying that free will is an illusion, and th…
/r/MensRights11/02/23 12:57 AM
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I used to be a teacher for children 18months-52months. I did this for 10 years; now I'm a carpenter. Most parents have no issue with male teachers, but it's that psychotic 5% that are the reason I gave up the profession. I quit because I was genuinely afraid some crazy parent would make false accusations that would put me in jail or otherwise ruin my life. For any male teachers out there reading this who are brave enough to continue teaching. Here's a bit of advice: flip the script. A parent doe…
/r/MensRights09/01/23 02:38 PM
-1

I'll admit I'm pretty ignorant as to how gay and lesbian bars work. What exactly makes them a gay/lesbian bar? Is it an explicit rule? Advertising? Reputation? Is it that the community of gay people in an area have collectively decided that THIS is the bar? With my admittedly limited knowledge, it seems to me as though you decided that this bar was your bar, and now you're upset that strait people are doing the same thing. I mean, what are you going to do? Put up a sign outside the bar that says…
/r/MensRights03/08/22 12:51 PM
-2

Why have it be led by men? Why not men and women?
/r/MensRights01/05/22 02:16 AM
1

There's got to be a way to do it right. Hear me out. For example, I've always wondered why there aren't scholarships that that say something along the lines of "in order to qualify for this scholarship, you must choose a major in which your sex is under represented by a 3-1 margin or greater (25% or less)." This way, the scholarship that inscentivises women to go in to computer science is the same scholarship that incentivises men to go in to early childhood education. I also don't see why admis…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 02:15 PM
2

Thank you!
/r/MensRights21/02/22 03:51 PM
3

Can you link to an article about this?
/r/MensRights21/02/22 05:33 AM
-1

Where in the article does it mention the retirement age for men?
/r/MensRights18/01/22 10:08 PM
1

Oooooh. My mistake.
/r/MensRights25/12/21 01:01 AM
-3

You looked at a single community, and then came to the conclusion that female dating strategy generally is disgusting and discriminatory? How'd you come to that conclusion?
/r/MensRights23/12/21 11:33 PM
-1

Your comment gets to the heart of the issue, really. Who gets to say who is a true feminist or a true MRA? I can call myself anything and who are you to say I'm not? You think I can't be an egalitarian if I'm a feminist? I say you're not a true MRA if you think being an MRA and a feminist are mutually exclusive. But that doesn't matter, I don't get to decide if you're an MRA, and you don't get to decide if I'm a feminist. We each get to decide that for ourselves. And that's how you get man-hatin…
/r/MensRights11/12/21 08:11 PM
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For every cherry picked anectode to support your position, there's likely a similar cherry picked anecdote someone might use to support their position that the MRA movement is a toxic misogonist hate movement. Anecdotes you would likely dismiss as not representative of the whole, exceptions, or a small vocal minority (as would I).
/r/MensRights09/12/21 06:06 PM
1

I could could also say I'm an egalitarian, but that's just semantics.
/r/MensRights09/12/21 06:00 PM
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I call myself a feminist. Women deal with issues unique to them, just as we (men) deal with issues unique to us. The loudest voices aren't going to change that. Not from "feminists" and not from "MRAs."
/r/MensRights09/12/21 12:58 PM
1

Revenge A good example is the Rwanda genocide. Hutus are in power and exploit and repress the Tutsis. Years of bloody conflict later, the Tutsis are in power and oppress Hutus (gross oversimplification, I know). Neither is okay. Children shouldn't be made to suffer for the mistakes made by their parents. Young boys and men shouldn't be made to take responsibility for 'centuries of patriarchy' they had no hand in.
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:38 PM
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I disagree. Here are some counter points: Cutting her out will only push her towards those with even more extreme ideology. Furthermore, are you really going to cut out your best friend in order to avoid difficult conversations? As much as I disagree with your friend, being in the habit of cutting out those you disagree with will eventually lead to a self curated bubble of friends who leave you with a skewed world view. Doing the easy thing isn't necessarily the right thing. There's a popular sc…
/r/MensRights12/11/21 09:25 PM
2

Can I get a source on men getting paid less for the same work? My understanding is that the gender wage gap does exist, at about 1 or 2%. More importantly though, it varies by industry; there are some industries where the wage gap still exists.
/r/MensRights20/10/21 02:01 PM
2

Commonly reffered to as benevolent sexism.
/r/MensRights31/05/21 03:39 PM
2

Anecdotes are not evidence. It's easy to cherry pick to support a narrative.
/r/MensRights11/05/21 03:46 PM
65

Exactly what I came here to say. Since when is okay to emulate their shitty behavior?
/r/MensRights10/05/21 12:01 PM
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From the ad campaign: #1: DON'T APPROACH HER #2: DON'T WALK BEHIND HER #3: CROSS THE STREET #4: HOOD DOWN HANDS OUT #5: DON'T RUN CLOSE TO HER #6: TALK ON THE PHONE #7: EDUCATE YOUR MATES This campaign targets behaviors. While it may be true that a woman can judge someone's behaviors as threatening because they APPEAR to be a man, the analogy doesn't hold up. An Islamophobe will judge someone based solely on appearance, without regard to behavior. Furthermore, I would argue that it's fine to jud…
/r/MensRights08/05/21 06:08 PM
1

2 things. First, this ad campaign is all sorts of wrong. I can't walk behind someone? If you have a problem with normal behavior then cross the street, I have zero plans to follow you. Second, in principle, there's a big difference. One is based on BEHAVIOR and the other is, more often than not, based on APPEARANCE. Singling out people based on their behavior is fine. Doing so based on appearance is not.
/r/MensRights08/05/21 06:07 AM
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Because they aren't comparable. Sure, both prevent children, but only condoms prevent STD transmission.
/r/MensRights02/05/21 02:12 AM
2

"Imagine if we had something equivalent" I don't have to imagine, some assholes will refer to a woman as a cunt. It's just as offensive.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 11:35 AM
7

There is evidence to suggest children need role models of both variety.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 05:27 PM
5

"25% of boys will be living without a father at home." Terrible. Can I get some context? Is the number really that much different than girls living without a father at home?
/r/MensRights03/04/21 02:31 PM
1

First of all, the people I mostly see not wearing masks are those standing around or near a construction site interacting with each other, not in the middle of heavy labor. How do I know they're construction workers? The hard hat is a give away. Second, while not on the same level as a construction worker, I am a carpenter, and yes, I have to lift and move heavy shit while wearing a mask all the time.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:09 PM
1

I don't know what it's like in the UK, but here in the U.S. it's hard to find construction workers who do wear masks.
/r/MensRights11/03/21 05:42 AM
1

What's the job opening if I may ask? 'Cause i can think of a few corner cases in which this would be okay. For example, when you have need 1 male and 1 female news anchors and you already have a male one.
/r/MensRights19/01/21 10:57 PM
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I would have tried to catch her with her own words. "Do you think it is sexist for an individual to make generalizations about the opposite sex based on a few anecdotes?" She very well may not have realized you were talking about her and responded in the affirmative. To which you could have responded "So you openly admit to being sexist?" Using neutral language can also help others realize the hypocrisy. Maybe not her, but definitely your peers.
/r/MensRights12/10/20 07:11 PM
1

I can't think of a better way to make someone's ODD worse than to confirm their biases again authority figures. What were they thinking? "Oh, this kid doesn't trust authority figures? Let's lie to him. That'll fix the problem."
/r/MensRights08/10/20 02:52 AM
1

Is there an article on this I can read somewhere?
/r/MensRights17/08/20 04:40 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/MensRights09/05/20 07:25 PM
3

News source link?
/r/MensRights09/05/20 02:15 PM
4

What's wrong with being left on the political spectrum?
/r/MensRights18/03/20 03:16 PM
2

What ARE the numbers? Where's the source study?
/r/MensRights06/03/20 11:10 PM
2

Doesn't want to be judged for choice of attire. Judges others for choice of attire.
/r/MensRights27/12/19 03:13 PM
-9

Misleading. Show me the numbers on investment in advertising and outreach .
/r/MensRights12/07/19 12:18 AM
-1

What do you think a false charge is? Please define "false charge."
/r/MensRights08/05/19 03:40 AM
1

The quote wasn't to to let them DO whatever they want. The quote was to BE whatever they want.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 09:34 PM
1

Sounds like a good parent to me. Too many adults try to teach kids what to think. We should instead teach them HOW to think.
/r/MensRights21/04/19 12:00 AM
1

I do, did you read the article?
/r/MensRights20/04/19 11:51 PM
1

I agree with you. I think you've misunderstood me. And I think that misunderstanding comes from a common misconception; that gender is the same thing as physical sex - they aren't. Lets take my one friend as an example: She's physically a male and wishes to keep it that way (her sex), she's physically attracted to women (sexual orientation), and she prefers to go by her female name, female pronouns, wear dresses, and use purses (gender). I should add that the misuse of the word gender is often v…
/r/MensRights20/04/19 04:19 PM
1

Agenda? An agenda would imply the parent imposing a gender upon her child. The quotes in the article give no reason to believe that Charlize is doing anything other than simply accepting her children for who they are.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 04:10 PM
1

Uh, gender orientation is not the same thing as physical sex. Take my one friend for insance. She's physically a male and wishes to keep it that way (her sex), she's physically attracted to women (sexual orientation), and she prefers to go by her female name, female pronouns, wear dresses, and use purses (gender). That you are conflating gender with sex only reveals your ignorance.
/r/MensRights20/04/19 04:07 PM
1

Are you suggesting people aren't born with gender and sexual preferences? Are you suggesting that it's a choice? Are you suggesting that anything other than validation is the appropriate response to a child declaring they are a gender opposite of their sex? They're figuring it out, just let them know that whatever they are, it's okay. Maybe you're a girl, that's fine. Maybe you're a boy, that's fine too. You have time to figure it out. How is this controversial?
/r/MensRights20/04/19 03:59 PM
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What does this have to do with men's rights? I'm reading the comments and this is quite possibly the most toxic and transphobic thing I've read on /r/feminism or /r/mensrights. People are equating gender orientation to kids wanting to be animals or robots; that's sick. That's like equating gay marriage to interspecies marriage, or gay sex to bestiality, or gender reassignment surgery to species reassignment surgery. As someone who has worked in childcare for over 10 years I can think of at least…
/r/MensRights20/04/19 03:31 AM
1

It is certainly different than institutional discrimination. I'm not sure what you mean by systematic.
/r/MensRights30/11/18 02:17 AM
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It's definitely sexist and racist. However, to play Devil's advocate for a moment, how is it fair that you know a teacher who has the sort of connections to recommend people for a Lockheed Martin Scholarship? How many deserving people do you think lack those connections?
/r/MensRights29/11/18 12:41 PM
3

More reasons why we should let the FBI do their work before rushing to judgement.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 12:50 PM
10

White? Yes. Liberals? Certainly not.
/r/MensRights30/09/18 04:55 AM
0

Why don't we just wait for the FBI probe, yeah? Judge Kavanaugh's demeanor on the senate floor was telling. Dr. Christine Blasey Ford released therapy records from decades before this nomination was made. Still, I'm going to reserve judgement until the probe is over. Is that reasonable to you?
/r/MensRights30/09/18 04:17 AM
-5

Serena was penalized points, and likely lost as a result.
/r/MensRights12/09/18 07:39 AM
1

You have a house plant that is wilting and generally not doing so well. You move it to a place with more sunlight, water it more often, put a humidifier in the room, and put on a classical music radio station in the room the plant is in. The house plant soon springs back to life and regains its health. What caused the plant to regain its health?
/r/MensRights10/09/18 11:14 PM
1

So calling someone out on their behavior = being overly sensitive. At least, according to you, the person who likes to lob personal insults at people. To be clear, I'm not particularly bothered by others lobbing insults or being condescending to me on a personal level. I think it's a real indicator of maturity when someone does these things, and I wish everyone would just grow the fuck up already. You're not in high school anymore, act like it.
/r/MensRights10/09/18 02:05 PM
1

How mature. I think I'd rather stay on my high horse than get down in the mud and make personal attacks.
/r/MensRights10/09/18 01:59 PM
1

Again with this darling nonsense. It's very condescending. Also, to point to a single cause and claim that it is the only cause isn't exactly being honest, is it?
/r/MensRights10/09/18 01:55 PM
-5

No source in infographic; downvoted.
/r/MensRights09/09/18 05:54 PM
-3

I'm not sure that person was joking. The "darling" is quite condescending and I don't appreciate it.
/r/MensRights09/09/18 04:02 AM
-13

Problem here is that there are people who legitimately identify their gender as other than the sex they are born with. Claiming you identify as a women when you do not undermines the ability of trans and queer people to be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights09/09/18 12:18 AM
2

As soon at the child is born, it doesn't just belong to the mother, as it has now touched the lives of others. The child is a member of society. By your fiancee's logic, she could kill the child at any point after being born and call it an abortion.
/r/MensRights22/07/18 05:28 PM
0

I see, so you believe that men and women shouldn't be treated the same?
/r/MensRights22/06/18 07:57 PM
11

Like In New York. Court ruled that if men can walk around topless, so can women. Makes sense to me.
/r/MensRights17/06/18 01:02 PM
6

I need some context here. Is Chris talking about divorce court here?
/r/MensRights28/05/18 09:40 PM
1

You can argue that men and women inherently want different things and therefore choose different occupations and work hours. And don't write me off here, I'm not denying this, not entirely at least. What I am trying to say is that perhaps the culture and society in which we live encourages and nudges us towards these different professions. This is a difficult argument to make without then evoking the question of whether making such an argument is a willful diminishement of people's agency and ch…
/r/MensRights10/04/18 07:27 PM
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"Men don't cry" "Man up" "You throw like a girl" Just a few small examples of toxic masculinity. Toxic femininity exists as well IMO. To say that Masculinity or femininity is inherently toxic is not really what these terms mean, though I'm sure there are those who take them to mean as such.
/r/MensRights10/03/18 01:32 PM
1

I'm sorry, I thought this sub didn't subscribe to the notion of guilty until proven innocent.
/r/MensRights19/01/18 02:52 PM
246

Let me know when they actually win the lawsuit.
/r/MensRights09/01/18 02:55 PM
1

I counted more than that, but lets agree to disagree. Lets assume for a moment that 1% of men are rapists. If you have a bowl of M&Ms and 1% of them were poisoned, would you eat one? See how bad that analogy is now? Lets not also forget the self selection bias that is involved in wanting to be an audience member for a specific show.
/r/MensRights10/12/17 07:00 PM
6

There were plenty of women in that video that chose not to clap. Seriously, watch it several times.
/r/MensRights08/12/17 04:32 AM
1

Can I have some context? Who is the guy in the chair and what was he mansplaining?
/r/MensRights06/11/17 12:18 PM
3

To be fair, they are all on TINDER. There's a bit of a self selection bias to be accounted for.
/r/MensRights03/03/17 08:20 PM
1

Just wait for international men's day. Then sue for discrimination then.
/r/MensRights28/02/17 03:32 AM
1

All I see is the Attack on Titan poster.
/r/MensRights14/12/16 04:45 PM
4

Can someone link to some of the ads these are parodies of?
/r/MensRights28/10/16 09:01 PM
5

This belongs in /r/justiceporn
/r/MensRights24/09/16 04:57 AM
7

This is a very vague description and there are always 2 sides to a story. You also used the word "invade." I hate to be that guy, but my bullshit detector is going off.
/r/MensRights15/01/16 05:06 PM
2

http://www.politifact.com/virginia/statements/2013/jul/15/terry-mcauliffe/mcauliffe-says-women-earn-77-percent-mens-pay-same/
/r/MensRights20/08/15 12:58 AM
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They're both mostly right. Milo says that when you take in to account personal choices such as vacation time and having children, women make less. This is true, but to then assume, with no real evidence, that this because women want different things in life and find fulfillment in different ways than men is nothing short of sexist. (Seriously, why do people assume that it is my role as a man to work, and not take care of kids? I love kids.) The real question is WHY do women feel compelled to mak…
/r/PussyPassDenied09/08/15 03:42 AM
-4

If someone grabbed your wrist, clenched first or otherwise, and wouldn't let go, I'm pretty sure you'd be in the right to take a swing.
/r/MensRights08/07/15 11:49 AM
1

And?
/r/PussyPassDenied14/06/15 07:42 PM
1

Agreed, 8 years seems like a lot for statutory, regardless of sex. I say this because pretty much all sentencing in the U.S. seems overboard. Look at Norway, even Brievik got 27 years. People are not the sum of their worst act.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/06/15 12:50 PM
2

"So you believe people should be treated differently based on their sex?"
/r/MensRights15/04/15 10:42 PM
3

Cognitive dissonance.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 03:25 AM
-18

ITT: Immature comments about her appearance.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/15 12:39 AM
-17

How does this contribute to the conversation? Are you insinuating that someone's self-worth hinges upon their appearance? This person isn't garbage because of how she looks. She's garbage because of what she did.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/03/15 12:38 AM
1

And? Is that it? Where's the rest of the article?
/r/PussyPassDenied22/02/15 01:22 AM
1

http://youtu.be/Wh3OasC6bDs?t=19m1s
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/15 05:38 AM
1

The smug look on the lady in the background is amazing right here: http://youtu.be/Wh3OasC6bDs?t=19m1s
/r/PussyPassDenied03/02/15 05:36 AM
1

If you think that one group of people is more inclined towards or adept at manipulating another group of people, then you might be are prejudiced. What this lady is saying about how the manipulation in the video and phone conversation works is spot on. That she attributes this sort of manipulation exclusively women is nothing short of sexist. Don't delude yourself in to thinking that women are the only ones capable of emotional manipulation within relationships.
/r/MensRights26/01/15 04:07 PM
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I'd like to remind the people in this thread that the person banned is a troll who gets his/her jollies off by creating conflict. It is possible and likely that this is a lone actor who added in the "SRS" comment simply to do more of what they do best - troll. Everyone here seems to be falling for it too. Do we have any evidence this was part of a coordinated smear campaign? No? Then lets not make assumptions. Aren't we against making assumptions?
/r/MensRights09/01/15 04:59 AM
6

Do we have any evidence this was part of a coordinated smear campaign? No? Then until we do we should assume that this is just a lone troll and, guess what, you're falling for it!
/r/MensRights09/01/15 04:54 AM
3

I feel like a man in bondage gear with guns would be just as inappropriate. Despite the rhetoric, I feel this has very little to do with female or feminist sensibilities and more to do with inappropriate sexual content given the social context.
/r/MensRights15/11/14 09:34 AM
0

I thought we were supposed to be preparing these people for work in the real world.
/r/MensRights13/11/14 05:39 AM
68

This isn't helpful.
/r/MensRights02/11/14 03:38 PM
8

This would be completely fine if it were in gender neutral language.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 02:44 AM
0

If you aren't interested in what they have to say, why should they be interested in what you have to say? You need to at least pretend to show interest in order have someone be willing to listen to you. You're basically saying to me that trying to reason and talk hasn't worked, and that your approach has been to essentially say "Everything you've been raised to believe is wrong, now be quiet and listen to why, I don't care what you think and, by extension, don't respect you." And you wonder why …
/r/MensRights30/09/14 09:32 PM
1

Don't put might in quotations, I never said might. If there's anything I can't stand it is having words put in my mouth. That aside, I think you and are going to have to agree to disagree. The next time someone says to you that the patriarchy hurts men too, I suggest you try using the socratic method and ask what they mean by that.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 10:52 PM
1

I have never had any of my normal feminist friends say that. They are normal, pro choice, anti slut-shaming, pro equality feminists who would probably be more interested in the MRA movement if it wasn't for all the anti feminist rhetoric.
/r/MensRights29/09/14 10:21 PM
1

Well, first of all, the issues men and women face shouldn't be about magnitude. Just because one problem is worse doesn't mean the other doesn't need to be dealt with. Second, I don't usually have that experience. Likely because when someone says "like what?" in response to my assertion that men are discriminated against as well, I can and do respond with my personal experience working in the child care industry. I've had 3 separate cases of parents taking their child out of the daycare I worked…
/r/MensRights29/09/14 06:08 PM
1

What do you mean by that? Can you elaborate?
/r/MensRights29/09/14 01:02 PM
1

Well, they exist.
/r/MensRights28/09/14 08:51 PM
1

Have any of you ever actually met a normal, non-radical feminist?
/r/MensRights27/09/14 01:27 PM
1

You're being disingenuous, the article states "most domestic violence may actually be violence against men"
/r/MensRights18/09/14 12:40 PM
1

For instance, you don't know how old this person is. This could be a young and stupid teenager who is just starting to develop their political views. To isolate them by disowning them rather than by being a person in their life with different opinions seems like it would counter productive. Radical and extreme views are what people develop when they either become isolated from or isolate themselves from people who think differently.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 05:33 PM
-1

How would you know? You know next to nothing about her.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 04:35 AM
-2

You would drop your friends because you disagree with them? That seems quite immature.
/r/MensRights06/09/14 01:12 AM
1

A conversation between Marauding-lunatic and Pickfights.
/r/MensRights19/08/14 02:58 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 02:04 PM
-2

These are anecdotes. Can you please site some statistics that show this as a trend.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 05:58 PM
1

You can still split the sexes and have them attend both... not sure how to ensure the instruction stays the same.
/r/MensRights30/06/14 05:23 AM
6

I'm a left leaning egalitarian independent.
/r/MensRights14/06/14 06:38 AM
2

Put a different image on the other side of the pamphlet?
/r/MensRights21/05/14 04:28 AM
1

Boko Haram has clearly stated their intention to sell the girls in to marriage. They aren't known to lie about these sorts of things.
/r/MensRights08/05/14 05:19 AM
2

I know I'll probably get downvoted for this but fuck it. People are killed in Africa every day. It's not really a big news story anymore. Kidnapping 234 girls people all at once is not nearly as common an occurrence. Additionally, these people are still alive, and so something can, in theory, still be done to save them. While the attack on the boys at the school is tragic, it isn't like we can actually do anything to bring them back to life. Does the media typically have a bias towards women's i…
/r/MensRights08/05/14 03:24 AM
5

The entire premise of this is that one sex is expected to care and take responsibility for their family and that the other isn't. Furthermore, it perpetuates the idea that in order to be a man/woman you need to do something other than have the appropriate genitalia.
/r/MensRights26/04/14 05:23 AM
2

Read the damn article and stop putting words in my mouth.
/r/MensRights20/04/14 02:47 PM
2

The problem is that this class is exclusively for boys, which you would know had you read the article. You're right when you say that in most parts of the world women are still second class citizens and that children should know the history and state of affairs. That isn't what this class is.
/r/MensRights20/04/14 10:39 AM
4

What bothers me about this isn't the course content itself, but the fact that this is for boys only. If the course is as it claims to be, and is about women's issues worldwide then this is something all children should be exposed to. Unfortunately I'm not sure that's what this is.
/r/MensRights20/04/14 10:29 AM
10

Its a culture of unaccountability, not rape.
/r/MensRights16/04/14 03:09 PM
9

Who are these people? What does this have to do with /r/mensrights?
/r/MensRights15/03/14 04:02 AM
7

Certainly sexist, not sure "most sexist" is not an exaggeration.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 08:36 PM
6

Irony.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 01:54 AM
5

I've worked at a daycare for 10 years now. On three separate occasions parents took their kids out of the program because they weren't comfortable with a man changing their kid's diaper. This is fantastic news. Not only because of the small victory, but just knowing that there are other men in my line of work. I mean, I once went to a workshop to update my certification and out of 33 people, I was the only man.
/r/MensRights27/01/14 09:34 AM
1

Take note folks, this is how advocacy and educating the public is done - without blaming or pointing fingers.
/r/MensRights17/01/14 03:07 AM
1

How are we to make the same determination for ourselves if you don't post both for comparison? Are we supposed to blindly accept your assertion as valid? How about a few news links?
/r/MensRights30/12/13 10:48 PM
-6

The intent was to show love in the face of violence. Also, in what universe does kissing a helmet constitute sexual assault?
/r/MensRights17/12/13 05:43 AM
0

We're not going to win any allies by focusing on the negative things other people say about us. We need to write our own narrative instead of allowing others to write one for us.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 03:46 PM
-2

Awareness of what exactly? What MR issue is this about? Child custody? Suicide rates? Selective services? False rape accusations? No, this post is about none of these things, and doesn't contribute to the conversation at all. Ignore the peanut gallery already, when you don't, you legitimize them.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 05:11 AM
2

They A single person created that image.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 01:20 AM
7

The assertion that many MRAs blame feminism is not a false assertion.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 01:18 AM
-1

To be fair, a lot of people here like to point fingers (usually at feminism or feminists) instead of raising awareness and discussing the issues.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 01:16 AM
1

Ah, okay.
/r/MensRights28/11/13 04:59 PM
1

What is an "NP post"?
/r/MensRights28/11/13 07:58 AM
16

Can we instead have an international men's health awareness day?
/r/MensRights19/11/13 11:43 PM
1

Co payments are the incentives.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 12:29 PM
1

First of all, being born a boy or girl is NOT a choice. Second, addiction IS a sickness. The idea that we should make healthcare unaffordable to those who need treatment isn't only immoral, it is incredibly stupid. Stupid because these people who don't receive treatment end up costing the health care system more than if they were to just get regular checkups and talk to a doctor. Third, obesity is the result of a lot of things. It is linked to socioeconomic status, geographical location, availab…
/r/MensRights31/10/13 09:57 PM
5

Bad example. Buying alcohol is a choice, getting sick isn't.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 02:27 PM
6

So then, it should also be easy to discriminate on the basis of race. Should we do that too? What about by age? Older people need more medical care you know. You seem to be forgetting what insurance IS. Insurance is SUPPOSED to spread the cost out evenly among those who are more and less likely to get sick.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 02:26 PM
-4

I'm sure women will be forced to buy insurance which covers prostate exams. Besides, if you start nitpicking about these sorts of things then soon insurance for women becomes more expensive than insurance for men. I thought we were all about equality here. Men and women both have certain medical needs that are specific to their sex. Lets just agree to spread the cost out evenly instead of denying or making more expensive insurance on the basis of preexisting conditions (like being pregnant). Edi…
/r/MensRights31/10/13 06:21 AM
1

Thank you.
/r/MensRights27/10/13 07:45 AM
1

I would like a screenshot of this conversation, not a one sided description of it. On the occasions I have defended men in /r/feminism the response has always been engagement and debate.
/r/MensRights26/10/13 10:15 PM
12

The university’s definition of consent states that consent cannot be obtained from someone who is “asleep or otherwise mentally or physically incapacitated, whether due to alcohol, drugs or some other condition.” If you kill someone while drunk you have to take responsibility. If you cause property damage while drunk you have to take responsibility. If you get someone or become pregnant while drunk you have to take responsibility. If you commit any crime at all while drunk you have to take respo…
/r/MensRights17/10/13 04:23 AM
3

But then he couldn't see the child that is his.
/r/MensRights15/10/13 12:04 PM
2

Haven't there been similar cases where women who have been raped have been sued for child custody rights by their attacker?
/r/MensRights01/09/13 02:26 PM
7

This is good, but the target audience for these sorts of infographs isn't going to see this infograph and try and find sources. They're going to read "scientifically proven" and their bullshit alarm is going to go off. This infograph needs sources and better word choices.
/r/MensRights12/08/13 03:59 PM
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Whenever an info-graph or a person uses the words "scientifically proven" it sets off my bullshit meter. When my bullshit meter is set off for one part of an infograph it calls in to question the validity of the entire thing. If you cite sources, this is fine. If you don't, this is nothing more than a person's subjective opinion based on his or her interpretation on what he or she has read and/or observed. Take line 4 for example. I can easily switch the left column to say "The scientifically pr…
/r/MensRights12/08/13 03:55 PM
3

I don't understand these words, but I understand that they are words.
/r/MensRights06/08/13 04:35 AM
12

That shit is all staged.
/r/MensRights28/07/13 08:11 PM
1

Late to the thread is an understatement.
/r/MensRights27/07/13 12:00 PM
1

Right, but you aren't trying to appeal to most MRAs, you're trying to appeal to the general population.
/r/MensRights20/07/13 12:22 PM
2

Could you make one that isn't sarcastic? This isn't doing it for me.
/r/MensRights19/07/13 12:32 PM
2

This isn't a men's rights issue, as men can be the victim of rape too. Just because someone tacks on "I need feminism because" to a political view or personal perspective does not a men's right issue make.
/r/MensRights17/07/13 07:49 PM
30

Why the fuck does a 15 year old need a babysitter?
/r/MensRights13/07/13 08:43 PM
6

Don't leave us hanging. What was your friend's response?
/r/MensRights09/07/13 02:45 PM
1

How old is this book?
/r/MensRights26/06/13 02:42 PM
3

I'm supposed to know you're a woman just by looking at your user name? No, some of us are legitimately trying to figure out if you're serious, sarcastic, or just a troll.
/r/MensRights25/06/13 03:05 PM
1

Confirmation bias at its finest.
/r/MensRights13/06/13 07:30 PM
145

Yeah, actually, I have been denied a job because of my gender. Ever try to get work at a daycare as a man? Fucking impossible.
/r/MensRights10/06/13 05:05 AM
-1

Some perspective gentleman. 100 or even 50 years ago this wouldn't have seemed so ridiculous - and still doesn't in some parts of the world. The problem here is that these positions have never been reevaluated to reflect a changing society in which women generally enjoy the same rights and careers as the rest of the population. One could still make the argument that a lot of sexism still exists in certain fields against both men and women, but to frame this as the result of patriarchy just doesn…
/r/MensRights29/05/13 02:41 PM
10

You make good points, but being self righteous and sarcastic isn't helping your case here. In fairness to butyourhonor, you mocked SucksAtFormatting before she mocked you.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 03:49 AM
8

In fairness, mockery and sarcasm was met with mockery and sarcasm.
/r/MensRights26/05/13 03:46 AM
12

This article serves no actual purpose. How is this a case for anything? This isn't about rights or equality, it is the rebuffing of a viewpoint, not the advocacy of a viewpoint. It alienates instead of recruits. Articles like this will cause us to lose the public education/awareness campaign via alienation.
/r/MensRights20/05/13 03:08 PM
-1

Would you oppose an image stating "Three reasons why we need more men in education."?
/r/MensRights10/05/13 01:27 AM
10

The same way we need more men in education.
/r/MensRights10/05/13 01:26 AM
-2

This is most certainly better. Much like there is a lack of men in primary education, there is a lack of women working in technology. If we want equality, then this is just one more thing that needs to be fixed.
/r/MensRights10/05/13 01:23 AM
7

So... these two are both rapists?
/r/MensRights16/04/13 12:51 AM
4

Who asks if it is okay to kiss? I mean honestly, its a body language kind of thing, if you asked it would completely ruin the mood.
/r/MensRights16/04/13 12:50 AM
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While the title is antagonistic, I'm at least glad we're starting to make a distinction between radfems and feminists.
/r/MensRights14/04/13 08:30 PM
-1

Were the mother and father living together at the time? The article doesn't explicitly say so.
/r/MensRights04/04/13 07:56 PM
0

I expect more from us than these sorts of responses.
/r/MensRights03/04/13 04:50 AM
3

While I don't agree with everything said in this post or the post it is responding to, it would appear as though we are finally starting to engage in a dialogue in a relatively respectful manner; this gives me hope.
/r/MensRights30/03/13 05:12 PM
1

Now I know, thanks.
/r/MensRights25/03/13 12:06 PM
2

"How girls were complicit in Steubenville." What's the big deal?
/r/MensRights25/03/13 04:01 AM
1

Just an FYI, someone thought it prudent to post this in r/feminism 4 hours after it was posted here. They seem to approve of it as well.
/r/MensRights24/03/13 05:25 AM
3

Nicola Gavey deserves to be educated. FTFY
/r/MensRights24/03/13 03:10 AM
-1

You've dug up a scant three quotes from people I've never heard of before. Are these people important? Do they represent all feminists? For every quote you dig up like these I can probably dig up a quote of a self proclaimed feminist taking the opposite view, as well as hateful speech from someone who frequents r/mensrights. I'm not saying that some feminists extremists don't think this way and that it isn't a problem, it is. I'm saying that more than half the posts here in r/mensrights are femi…
/r/MensRights24/03/13 03:09 AM
1

Ha, you're right, I hadn't noticed that, thanks. Still, there are some pretty ignorant rape culture denialist posts in this thread.
/r/MensRights22/03/13 04:48 PM
-2

Because clearly men are the only individuals who perpetrate rape culture. This isn't an isolated case by the way, it takes an entire community to create a rape culture, not just men. To quote from the article I just linked to: My best friend disavowed our friendship over this case. Imagine my utter devastation and hurt when I realized she was participating in some of the mud slinging against me. Her mother even joined the fray and used Twitter to state what a “fat sweat hog” and “bitch” I was, a…
/r/MensRights21/03/13 02:59 AM
0

That's doesn't make it any less of a stereotype though. Stereotypes are often the products of history and/or ignorance, rather than reality.
/r/MensRights14/03/13 04:06 PM
1

I suppose I shouldn't eat yogurt either?
/r/MensRights14/03/13 04:16 AM
0

Okay, but lets say that's true. That just means that there is a common perception as these being commonly accepted stereotypes.
/r/MensRights14/03/13 03:07 AM
3

The study released on Wednesday by the Crown Prosecution Service (CPS) reveals that during the 17-month test period – when all false allegation cases were referred to the DPP – there were 5,651 prosecutions for rape and 111,891 for domestic violence in England and Wales. By comparison, over the same timespan, there were only 35 prosecutions for making false allegations of rape, six for false allegations of domestic violence and three that involved false allegations of both rape and domestic viol…
/r/MensRights13/03/13 06:41 PM
2

End lifetime alimony FTFY
/r/MensRights12/03/13 05:19 PM
9

I read this as: Most men aren't rapists at heart. If you agree, don't blame women for getting raped. Or am I missing something here?
/r/MensRights07/03/13 07:14 AM
6

I'm confused, how will raising the minimum wage reduce the number of women making minimum wage? What is this image trying to tell me exactly?
/r/MensRights06/03/13 05:09 AM
3

Alright, well the reason is simple really. A lot of us here in r/menrights don't blame feminists of feminism for the problems males face.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 04:46 PM
13

Asks about upvotes, says he doesn't care about upvotes.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 11:40 AM
5

Same reason you don't seem to be getting any.
/r/MensRights05/03/13 10:38 AM
-1

Yes, however the article clearly stated that the men had shared the pictures with each other. Receiving is one thing, distributing is another.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 11:52 PM
-2

Yes, however the article clearly stated that the men had shared the pictures with each other. Receiving is one thing, distributing is another.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 11:51 PM
-15

Uh why are we getting in to a tizzy over this? The photos were of nude females, not nude males. Now, if the photos were of both male and female students, and only the male students were suspended, then I would have a problem with this.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 09:41 PM
2

Relevant Article
/r/MensRights14/02/13 05:15 AM
10

And both groups are not representative of all Christians/feminists as a whole.
/r/MensRights12/02/13 04:04 PM
-11

She's right, male circumcision IS less harmful than female circumcision. I dare you do explain otherwise.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 04:19 PM
3

Browsing your post history, it is hard not to come to the the conclusion that you are exactly the cancer that is plaguing this subreddit. You just hate women. Some of your posts include: "Play stupid games; win stupid prizes. Seriously, females these days are a negative-sum game." "That's why I don't bother with women: common sense ends where their feelings begin." "Easy: women manipulate men into betraying their own interests." "Canadian pussy passes must smell like salmon and poutine." And tha…
/r/MensRights25/01/13 04:11 PM
-1

Tell me again how you aren't just a man filled with hate toward women?
/r/MensRights25/01/13 04:04 PM
1

The first image could easily be a reference to many of the 3rd world countries in which young children really are bought and sold. Here, here, and here are some examples. The second and third links are the typical garbage I get from you people when I post my arguments against feminism bashing. That is to say user generated content, usually created by one individual, reposted as fact and a reflection of all individuals like the one who created said post. For every one of these articles, blog post…
/r/MensRights25/01/13 03:45 PM
-4

I think the perception comes from widespread access to television and the 24 hour news cycle which sensationalizes child molestation. "I can't believe he would do such a thing" is what the interviewee always says.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 07:25 AM
-4

See parents distrusting me has absolutely nothing to do with feminists. It has everything to do with the constant 24 hour news cycle in which incidents of child rape and molestation are sensationalized. "I can't believe he would do such a thing" or "he was a very nice neighbor" is what the interviewees are always seen saying.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 07:17 AM
-21

She understands.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 06:30 AM
0

This is also about the sort of neighborhood you want to live in. Businesses like these tend to attract the sorts of people and activities you don't generally want in your neighborhood.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 02:31 AM
2

I fail to see how this is related to men's rights.
/r/MensRights25/01/13 02:25 AM
-6

These are just a few individual bloggers. How they hell are they a full representation of feminists? Did you even click the links and read them? They're laughable. By framing the quest of obtaining civil rights for men as a quest against feminists you are are being counter productive. You are putting more fuel on the fire, giving these radical feminists more material with which to write hateful opinions. You are basically confirming the radical feminist narrative that the men's rights movement i…
/r/MensRights20/01/13 12:33 AM
0

Write back stupid. Be as polite as possible.
/r/MensRights16/01/13 05:41 AM
-26

Instances of rape do not equate to number of people raped. These statistics indicate the number of reported rapes, men in prison are often raped multiple times.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 03:05 AM
5

Well said.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:42 AM
-10

Are there any groups of feminists that are? It's not just that fact that a few feminists aren't willing to have an open dialogue (that would be like us complaining that feminists weren't willing to have a dialogue using SRS as an example), it's that there are no groups of feminists that are. I have already expressed myself in regards to the "where are these other feminists" question elsewhere in this thread. And feminism is more interested in exaggerating women's victimhood and portraying their …
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:22 AM
-25

Sure, a male being raped is more common than a female being raped inside of a prison setting. That would stand to reason, since the majority of the prison population is male. So, men being put in to prison at a higher rate than women. Women being raped at a higher rate than men when you control for those in prison. Seems like too kinds of discrimination, one against each sex, which needs to be addressed.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 02:04 AM
-16

Please show me these mainstream feminists that are willing to have an open dialogue They're everywhere. Some have been sucked in to radical feminism, sure, but when you talk to them one on one, without a group of people around them enforcing a pack mentality, you'll find they can be quite reasonable. Additionally, I already mentioned the confirmation bias, maybe if you looked a little harder you would find that you only consider radical feminism mainstream feminism because you come here all the …
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:32 AM
-12

No, the problem is not how we identify or view these problems. The problem is that these problems exist in the first place. Fact: Women ARE more likely to be the victim of rape. Fact: Men are ALSO victims of rape. Contrary to what r/feminism would have you believe, being a white male does not automatically invalidate every single opinion you have on matters of discrimination. Oh, and fact: men are more likely to be the victim of every other kind of violent crime.
/r/MensRights14/01/13 01:26 AM
116

Just because a group of feminists in a relatively tiny corner of the internet aren't willing to have an open dialogue does not mean all feminists aren't willing to have one. Friends, family, coworkers, acquaintances, classmates, friends of friends on facebook. Maybe if we talked to each other more we wouldn't all be victims of the confirmation bias. Look, females ARE discriminated against (though, not in as many ways as most purport; example would be wage gap myth). Females DO have to deal with …
/r/MensRights14/01/13 12:57 AM
1

"Children need to be taught how to think, not what to think."
/r/MensRights13/01/13 07:01 AM
5

Talk about custody discrimination.
/r/MensRights10/01/13 05:49 AM
-6

Shit like this is what gives Mens Rights a bad name.
/r/MensRights15/12/12 04:25 AM
4

Just educate yourself on recent Rwandan history and you'll know that just because a group is a majority doesn't mean that group is the one who sets the status quo.
/r/MensRights17/10/12 10:39 PM
7

Did I miss the memo on being required to pick sides? Because I consider myself both a feminist and men's rights proponent.
/r/MensRights01/10/12 06:19 PM
19

I feel the "you aren't attractive" one is entirely false.
/r/MensRights02/09/12 03:15 AM
0

I am... why couldn't you? Bigotry is a 2 way street.
/r/MensRights24/08/12 01:24 PM
-9

This is a free speach issue, not a men's rights issue.
/r/MensRights21/08/12 08:17 PM
2

This is why I subscribe to Men's Right. I feel you man, there's a giant bias against men in the field of child care. Parent like that piss me off. I've worked at a daycare center for 8 years now, and on at least three occasions parent have pulled their child out of the program because they don't feel comfortable with their child sitting on my lap, giving me hugs, or getting their diaper changed by me. It's sexism plain and simple. It makes me sad knowing that child will grow up thinking child ca…
/r/MensRights26/07/12 08:09 PM
1

I'm just going to leave this here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_genital_mutilation
/r/MensRights17/07/12 06:13 AM
2

Link to the thing this is parodying please?
/r/MensRights17/07/12 05:28 AM
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