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| 9 | Going to her place.Wine or ice cream. Depends if she drinks or not. | /r/seduction | 08/07/26 03:20 AM |
| 4 | Can you be misogynist and successful with women at the same time?Women love to have babies with wife beaters. This week my Facebook and Instagram have been full of viral cases of women publicly denouncing that they were beaten by their husbands or child’s fathers. They show pictures of the guys and they are the most obvious women beater looking dudes ever, yet they somehow got involved with them. | /r/seduction | 04/06/26 07:31 AM |
| 12 | Unusual ways to meet womanAlso country music clubs. Those are the ones where I have found the hottest women I've seen | /r/seduction | 31/03/23 09:28 PM |
| 27 | Unusual ways to meet womanhahaha that's cool. For an average man, at least getting a number and close some other day is doable to anyone. I've gotten numbers at the bus stop, bus, train, planes. All a man gotta do is just not be weird, be decently groomed and have at least 2 brain cells to stand a basic conversation. Women love the fantasy of destiny "the right place at the right time" so you can use those random encounters in your favor. | /r/seduction | 31/03/23 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Does this sound like sex addiction?how do u even have the time to jerk off that much | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Does this sound like sex addiction?not sure if you are trolling. Jerking off 8 times a day is humanly possible? I legit can't cum after 3 edit: and after that I can't masturbate within the next 2 business days | /r/seduction | 24/10/22 11:46 PM |
| 26 | Is having your own place mandatory to get girls regularly?I live with my parents and I've taken my last two hook ups to a motel lmao. They live with theirs as well, so we really had nowhere to go. So after a make out session I asked one them if she wanted to go somewhere where we could be more comfortable and alone. She asked where and I said "my house" at first. Then asked me if I live alone or if my home was empty. And I said no lmao she laughed and then I proposed "a place I know" (a motel) and she agreed. Easy. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Had a great first date, now I think I'm being ghostedyou are too clingy and she probably sensed it. She didn't want to tell you directly, but she decided to ghost you instead. It is what it is. | /r/seduction | 21/09/22 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Is the "texting is for logistics only"-Mindset really still applicable these days?It's cultural. In North America / Europe texting is not important in seduction. Women are unresponsive and emotionless via text, but in person their attitude most of the time is completely different. In Latin America, texting is king. You can make women legit fall in love just texting. | /r/seduction | 20/09/22 07:55 PM |
| 57 | What’s the missing ingredient that holds a lot of guys back from really connecting with women?Having an actual functioning brain. We men can be so stupid at times and blow great chances for legit no reason. You don't have to be smart all the time, but having a spark of quick thinking can sometimes help you close | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | "I want to get to know you more"Take them out on a date first before suggesting to come over or you go to their apartments. Basic stuff. You can then suggest watching together while on the date. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Confessing my feelings tomorrowDon't be dumb. Won't end up well. | /r/seduction | 13/09/22 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I pursue girl with a BF?A few years ago I made out at a party with a girl who had a semi-long distance boyfriend. We exchanged Facebooks (back then lol) and I made the mistake of not leaving it there and texted her a couple days later to ask her out. She did reply initially but a few minutes later I got a message from the boyfriend, saying that she told him I kissed her, that I better stopped talking to her and that if I had a problem, he was going to come to town soon and we could solve it as men. For some reason, the… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 03:30 PM |
| 11 | Her friend is way more my typeLol you risk ending up as we say in my country: “like the dog of the two sandwiches”. With none. It’s easy. Date this girl for a while and be irresistible enough for her to agree to do a threesome with the friend. Then you can either swap or keep both. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 01:57 PM |
| 31 | Doctors, lawyers, professors, engineers, businessmen, what is your dating life like?is being a doctor that huge in the US? In my country being a doctor is whatever. Women don't even want to date doctors because they know the orgies that happen at the hospitals. | /r/seduction | 30/08/22 10:27 PM |
| 14 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?Because on this sub there are a lot of menchildren who want immediate gratification instead of playing their cards well, and if they don’t get things the way they want it they will rather throw away that option instead of waiting for the right time. Your thought process is the ideal and more mature approach. If a man blocks them, he is confirming the woman she was right about him. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 1 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...I’m a guy lol my Reddit character is a videogame character. But hopefully this will help women who read it haha | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 03:57 AM |
| 21 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...maybe you don't have a welcoming vibe or idk. I have friends who have women legit throwing themselves at them, they don't really have to do anything. I also was quite hot when I was a teenager and experienced events like those. It stopped once I got mild acne lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:52 AM |
| 7 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...sometimes, yea. Like warts or shit like that. Other times it's just silent and you never realize you are infected. It can also give you fucking dick cancer, throat cancer etc. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Girl not ordering any food, drinks etc on dates?She probably didn't have a lot of money and was too shy to rely on you paying her lunch. She didn't want to risk having to pay for her own stuff. Makes sense, it has happened to me a few times lol | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:46 AM |
| 61 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...When you are hot you need no game. women will throw themselves at you. Can't really provide useful advice for the common folk, you can only talk about your experience. He said a couple interesting things, though. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:17 AM |
| 11 | I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt...That's the shit that scares me the most. HIV odds are significantly lower, but HPV is legit everywhere. Even a nice shy girl can have it if she fucked once with a dude like this guy. I also recently did a PCR study of HPV because of I girl I had suspicions she may have had it (it turned out negative, fortunately) and shit, it was painful as fuck. They stick a brush inside your urethra and then they shake it. I don't wanna go through that ever again. I'd rather pay the test for the woman before h… | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Supply and demand is the reason why dating is more difficult in the US than other countriesThose ones usually find americans appealing (mostly because of their different humor). But not as much as the others, though. They others will throw themselves to the first american who falls. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Supply and demand is the reason why dating is more difficult in the US than other countriesMore like 8-10 aren't abundant anywhere. You see better rated women when you travel because you go to the hot spots. It's no different than in your home. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 7 | Supply and demand is the reason why dating is more difficult in the US than other countriesNo, the reason why you are getting more women when traveling is because you are american. Americans are highly rated in Southeast Asia and Latin America. You show up there and you immediately become a sex god. | /r/seduction | 28/08/22 03:48 PM |
| 11 | Do women really hate when men approach? I’m referring to a purple pilled subreddit post that started a debateThat's what extremists want you to think. But no, 99% don't hate it if you are casual and not too obvious. | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 12:33 PM |
| 5 | How to stop caring what she’s doing?Why would you try polyamorous? Unless you are a league one sports player, famous artist, giga rich or have a face&body carved by God himself, as a man you are in a massive disadvantage against your partner. It never ends well, the woman can get 10 dudes by the time you manage to get 1 for yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:40 PM |
| 1 | How to keep interest when you can’t meet her for two weeks?Sorry, but in this fast paced world two weeks it's like two years. Unless you are handsome as hell or have a banger body, I'm afraid to tell you that her interest will eventually fade. Don't try texting a lot because that won't work neither, you already seem needy and you may make it worse. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 12:07 PM |
| 8 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?I always ask the Instagram over the number, so I can: 1.- Verify she is real and 2.- See more pictures and make a better judgement. Have dodged a few catfishy ones this way that would've just wasted the time of both. Once I have the Instagram I ask for the number later | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 1 | The quality of photos of girls to boys in tinder is DISPROPORTIONATEI texted a girl a bunch and she stopped talking to me because I text too much. I learned and texted less... a girl LITERALLY cancelled plans with me tomorrow becuase I didn't text enough for her tastes 😂😂😂 You gotta calibrate this and it's not really that hard. Responsive and enthusiastic women like texting. Is she cold and takes hours to reply? Don't text too much. | /r/seduction | 22/08/22 12:08 AM |
| 0 | Does peacocking still work?It works. My style of dressing used to be very basic and boring. Polos, shirts, boring t-shirts, and always jeans. When I learned about peacocking, I changed my style into extravagant clothes, I definitely started to get more attention, comments and looks. All of them positive. And I got much more success. Being different than all the basic dudes sparks something in women's minds. I'm dying my hair soon for the first time (nothing too crazy) and I'm sure I'll get results. | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 05:43 PM |
| 10 | What’s the most effective way to shift the power dynamic from you chasing them to them chasing you?You basically have to make the woman fall in love with you. It's a mix of many things. And it ain't easy. It's either that or you just gotta be reasonably more attractive than her, so she is afraid to lose you. | /r/seduction | 16/08/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Strangest cold approach of my life todayHe earned social proof of a hot woman who he could've possibly befriended and would most certainly have hot friends who he could've met through. That's worth it in my notebook. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:35 PM |
| 2 | She wants to hang out in the morningego is the demise of so many men. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 2 | She wants to hang out in the morningThe problem is all these guys' ego. They want to be in full control, and will refuse to adapt because in their minds they will be weak and cede the control to the woman if they do accept their terms, just because they think morning dates are not good. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | She wants to hang out in the morningI'm not a woman. I'm a rational man who is mature enough to leave his ego aside and take the date at her available time, if she is clearly willing to meet but really can't at any other time. A day date is reasonable. Acquiesce? Things don't always have to happen the way you want. You either adapt or jack off alone at home. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 2 | She wants to hang out in the morningJust go. Would you rather have no date? Stop bitching and go get some nice breakfast. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:50 PM |
| 3 | She wants to hang out in the morningDate in the morning is better than no date | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | Lost interest on second day of texting. Now no reply. How to figure out what I did wrong?Most of the time, nothing wrong with you. She probably just found someone else that she likes better. That's it. You also gotta try to ask her out literally on the first day. No more than 3 days apart from the initial match / cold approach / meeting. Ideally the day after. If not, weekend is fine but you will always be at risk of other dude appearing and stealing your slot. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Hooking Up On Vacation AdviceThat would be harder but doable still. Just play drinking games or some shit. You have the terrain advantage, American women are usually not very atrracted to Peruvians, their only options are the guys from your group. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Hooking Up On Vacation AdviceLiterally just download dating apps and you will be a sex god. Latin American countries women lose their panties for Americans and Europeans | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?you gotta use it to improve both your looks and confidence | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?I left home and started fresh. Made new friends, new people. Women didn't have a pre-judgement on me anymore, so I felt free to act. Also started making money and that itself gave me confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:24 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?Leave home. Start fresh, it did the trick to me. Also, make money. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 05:23 PM |
| 13 | Anyone else get almost no results despites being attractive?You gotta understand that looks aren't everything. I'll share you my experience. When I was a teenager I used to wonder why I couldn't get any girls and two of my closest pals, who were objectively less physically attractive than I was, did consistently. My issue is that I lacked the status and validation they had. One of them was a people magnet, everyone liked or respected him. He also used to go out every single week, always had a plan with friends both on Friday and Saturday and threw partie… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Is picking up girls at the beach possible?I heard bringing props like a frisbee helps This. The fact that you are having fun attracts them ladies. When I used to live in a huge apartment complex, my roomate and I used to bring a ball to the pool and girls would actually approach us and ask to play with us lol. We pulled a group 3 cute koreans back to our apartment once and got a few numbers some other times as well. Bring props, have fun and they will approach you. You can also invite them to play if they don't and most of the time they… | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Surprisingly got a girls number from the club yesterday, what do I do next?Hit her up with a message and ask her out. There's a chance that she won't be responsive anymore, not your fault. Club girls in my experience usually flake after that night, so if it happens, don't let it hit you. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | If a girl invites you out to the bar with her friends, is it wise to do that or wait for a better opportunity.Risky. I would only go if someone else I knew could come with me. If you go by yourself it may backfire, unless you are a very interesting and social person who can get control of the entire group. Not many people can do that. If you think you can manage to survive her frame unscathed, go. If you are insecure, just don't and find a good excuse. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:56 AM |
| 4 | How to keep a woman's attention/interest until the date (Tinder)?It sucks bro. I'm actually in the same exact situation right now. Matched with someone last Friday, I wanted to take her out on Saturday right away, but I couldn't. Then I had to work the entire week and didn't have time to even text at all, so we started to talk less and less, after an initial success. I still managed to set the date for today, but yesterday she cancelled and asked if we could move it to Saturday. Now today she hasn't replied to Saturday's logistics. That date is not going to h… | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 3 | I went to the doctor today, she's cute, I want to take her out on a date...Watch the How I Met Your Mother episode when Ted asks his doctor out. If you follow his guidelines, you will get to date her and get engaged, but she will leave you at the altar. Sorry bro. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 05:49 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else find modern dating extremely stressful with how fast it is?Same. Once I actually meet the woman IRL, I got it. But the competition is fierce, they have a shit ton of options and getting to set the date (and them actually show up) isn't easy. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:19 AM |
| 3 | What is it that makes the men 'unable to commit' so desirable to women who want them to commit to exclusivity?Harder is attractive. It's polarizing, not predictable and boring. It makes them work for a goal, rather than have it easy. Do you like videogames that are easy as fuck to complete? I can assure you that you prefer good challenges that make you feel satisfied to achieve. Easy is boring. Polarizing is key. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:01 AM |
| 31 | Strategy: Why it's good to always start off as "friends"This sub has became a sad beta joke | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Do girls who constantly flake on dates, flake on other things like job interviews?Most of the time they are those kind of women who are always late for stuff. Have several female friends like that who usually flake our friend group gatherings, arrive late, leave without saying goodbye or shit like that. They are also usually late to work. | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 88 | Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot!lol movies like the American Pie series create high expectations, but the reality is different. Now the college hook up culture is mostly dominated by dating apps. Only the top 10-5% college dudes can brag about their crazy college experience. I asume it used to be slightly better for the average Timmy back in the 80's-90's. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:22 AM |
| 5 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?Yea but we are not talking about millionaires, just people who make around 6 figures. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 05:32 AM |
| 22 | Who dates the hottest girls, excluding rappers, celebrities & sports athletes ?Doctors, lawyers, businessmen. Not necessarily attractive. Every time I go to a concert or club in my town I'm amazed of the amount of hot girls that arrive with their sugar daddies. Most of the time they are ugly 40-50 yo dudes, but they have money. Also, hot guys around their age hoard several of the local hot women at the same time, leaving crumbles for the not-so-hot nor rich enough. These hot guys usually have money too. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 12:45 AM |
| 5 | Got played by the classic 'going to the toilet' move.It was when I realised one of them is into me So maybe she faked being into you so they could possibly get free drinks? Women lie all the time. Some will throw themselves at you and ask you to buy them something. You do and most of the time they will just disappear. Happened to me once and never again lol. Never buy a woman drinks unless you are already fucking her. | /r/seduction | 20/07/22 12:10 PM |
| 0 | Am I a Simp for this?All right then why not? If she is calling you to go it’s not simping. You would be simping if you insist on going without her asking. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:34 PM |
| -2 | Am I a Simp for this?Call her to your city and she should come over if she really wants to see you. She may set you up for robbery or some shit if you go there, you never know. I just knew about a case like that last week lol. | /r/seduction | 19/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 7 | girls want to be desired, not neededWelcome to the history of 20,000 years of humanity. At least we don't have to fight other men to death anymore to get the woman. | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 16 | I still live at home, does that turn girls off?Lie to hook ups. Make excuses and find another place to take them. A girl who really likes you as a relationship option won't care, so you can be honest with those ones. | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 12:26 AM |
| 4 | Who is here using only the Mystery Method?This sub shits on the MM and PUA stuff, but it works wonders for begginers. Changed my life at the beggining too. It's great to gain confidence, a perfect method to start in the seduction world. However, it's unsustainable in the long run if what you want is a normal relationship. | /r/seduction | 15/07/22 07:48 PM |
| 0 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMARight! My ex's sex drive was very high too. Her body was fantastically natural with zero excercise, with enhanced boobs we would've killed it. Especially because we lived in an exotic place with interesting locations to shoot cool stuff. Shame it couldn't happen, leaving her for that job was the biggest mistake of my life so far. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:50 AM |
| 1 | I’m an Onlyfans creator with 2 girlfriends AMAYou are living my dream. My ex and I broke up because I left to another job in a different city before the pandemic started. Had we stayed together, I’m pretty sure we would’ve started an only fans together, I would’ve convinced her in exchange for the boob job she had always wanted. We would be fucking millionaires by now. | /r/seduction | 14/07/22 02:29 AM |
| 8 | Sedditors from nine years ago or successful sedditors disappear after a few years? Why is this?Tons of stuff can happen in 9 years bro. Getting married, lost access to the account, became ultra rich, may not even be alive anymore or just stopped using Reddit. While I do agree, the posts were higher quality in the past. All we get now are mostly shitposts. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 11:57 AM |
| 2 | How did men back in the days get women when they were a simp?They were not simps. Being courteous was the norm. Simping as we know it nowdays is just the result of the desperation of being unable to get women. A few things have drastically changed the mechanics of how relationships used to work in the past: the rise of feminism, the invention of social media and also men have became weak overall, because we legit live in the most peaceful era humanity has ever seen. You know the quote: “Hard times create strong men, strong men create good times, good time… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:52 AM |
| 2 | How did men back in the days get women when they were a simp?Average men won't have social media success, unless they are showmen or they really good at something interesting (and this still requires the effort to grow a base following). This means the average man won't have many options thanks to social media simply because very few people will notice them online. Average women can have thousands of dudes following her on Instagram just with a few good hot pictures, which artificially inflates their ego. And only a select group of top men will get a shot… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Incel To CHAD Seduction Transformation (18-20)gigachad | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI'd like to know your reasoning. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 01:36 AM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHave you ever not liked some dude and then you became friends with him because you found you had things in common or you realized he was actually cool? Or some dude used to hate you for any reason and then they liked you? It works the same way, but instead of friendship interest, you can become a romantic one. | /r/seduction | 07/07/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI've never seen someone pull a girl who was clearly not into him when he opened I agree with that, there will be some girls who aren't going to be possible. That happens. But you are making the mistake of judging "not attracted" as an absolute, when it is not, there are several levels. While you won't be able to attract the ones who are definitely not interested, there will be other ones who are at or closer to the "neutral" spectrum. Maybe the whole 'girls do'nt care about looks much' is someti… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHotness from the female perspective, unlike men, is not 99% physical. She can initially judge a man may not be handsome, but if that same man has something about his personality that she finds hot and makes her desire him. On the other hand, there are some physically hot guys that are completely brainless with poor social skills, who they end up not liking because they are losers. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNah I made it up while answering the comment lol | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesHave you seen all those ugly guys dating super cute women? Do you think the women initially felt attracted to them when they first met? And no, they are all not rich. The mistake everyone here makes is only viewing attraction from the men’s POV, which is usually 99% phyisical. For women it’s not, they are not as visual. They can judge that you are not hot, but it doesn’t mean that they cannot get attracted by you in other ways. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI wish I was | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:08 PM |
| 5 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesNo. Before she indicated it or even decided. When you meet a woman she can either feel attracted to you or not feel attracted. Not feeling attracted is not absolute, it subdivides in: “remain neutral and open to possibly feel attraction”, or “she has already found you disgusting and this will not change.” You can’t attract someone if they think you are ugly or a loser. That’s a defeat, move on. But you can convince the ones who remain neutral. Women don’t function like men. We decide if a woman … | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 04:05 PM |
| -1 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI’ve done it lots of times. But ok, keep being closed minded 👍 | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 01:27 PM |
| 0 | Stats on 40 Cold Approachesweirdos are the ones who approach a woman out of nowhere to tell her "I thought you were cute so I came to talk to you" | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesI understand your view. But if you are going to limit yourself to the girls who instantly like you, you will lose tons of great opportunities. You gotta give them time to know more about you and decide if they like you or not. I would say more than half of the women that I've at least kissed with were not initially attracted to me. I earned that attraction over a certain time period (which most of the time, wasn't even really long). Had I followed your principle, I would've missed out a lot of t… | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 10:39 AM |
| 5 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThat’s literally what seduction is about lmao | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:43 AM |
| 15 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesIf you expect a woman to feel attracted to you instantly, you’ll keep failing. Instant attraction is really hard, only extremely good looking men have that gift. In your current position of complete failure, trying something different will certainly not be any worse. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:23 AM |
| 28 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesYea and she will reject you if she doesn’t feel attracted to you within the first 5 seconds. You gotta give yourself some time to try to create attraction before your intentions are fully revealed. The best hunters in the animal kingdom know how to hide, approach and wait patiently for the right moment to go all in on their prey. If they initiate the attack brainlessly literally yelling at them “I’m going to eat you!”, the prey will most likely flee. Seduction is no different. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:12 AM |
| 22 | Stats on 40 Cold ApproachesThat’s the thing, to make her wonder. “Is he hitting on me or not?” It’s part of the mind game. Indirect has always worked great for me. I have a high success rate, but I also pick my battles. | /r/seduction | 06/07/22 05:07 AM |
| 1 | This girl I’m seeing won’t date me but she lets me play with her tits ..I would think to myself: "A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one". | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Showcasing WealthYou can do it, but later you will be complaining that you only keep attracting gold diggers. I would moderately show my lifestyle and the women I'd attract would eventually find out how wealthy I am. This said, if you don't care about gold diggers, then great. You get what you want and go on to the next one. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?Watch Mindhunter | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?Well, in this case the pandemic and all its consequences will have effect in many men. Social media and dating apps are alarmingly increasing this phenomenon too. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How to play itShe sounds crazy bro. And she also has a boyfriend, it would be ideal if you respect that. And I’m not saying that to give you morality lessons. But I believe in karma and doing harm can bite you in the ass later. Also: usually crazy’s boyfriends are even crazier. It’s not worth putting yourself in a difficult position just because of a girl. If you could get this one, you can get many other ones. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:15 PM |
| 3 | So guys are out here killing innocent people because they can’t get laid?Normal healthy people can go insane after traumatic experiences. Not being able to get women can develop a frustrating trauma over time to a lot of guys, which will indeed make them be mentally ill by the time they commit an attack. Most of the time it's not that they were born crazy, they became. "Mindhunter" on Netflix is a great series that touches the criminal psychology topic. It was exactly thought that killers do their thing just because they are crazy, but the main duo interview several … | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !American women are not afraid of getting of you at some point. They are also entitled to think they deserve the best of the best, and will not settle with ease. The thing with Mexican women is that won't let you go easily. You have more leverage with them because the power balance benefits you. You can get away with tons of shit that would get you ghosted back in the US. They will also be willing to try long distance if that means they'll still have a chance to keep you. It's crazy. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Made out with a girl, connected with her for 2 hours, the next few days she gives me half ass answers when I invite herRight. Nowdays there's no room for early mistakes, women are ruthlessly unforgiving. They will instantly dump you because they have many options anyway, they'll keep looking for their idea of perfect man. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 10:25 AM |
| 10 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Well it depends where the girl lives. If it’s in a nice zone or not. Most of girls live with their parents, anyway. Only the foreigners live alone. But if you get their socials and talk with her via call or voice note, you’ll likely be fine. Potentially dangerous girls are easy to identify too. Avoid girls who have pictures with sombreros, boots, holding whisky bottles and Kimkardashian wannabe look | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:50 AM |
| 58 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !You said it. Also, being noticed in society that they get married to an American or European is a huge success for them and their families. They are seen as “they succeeded in life already”. I’m from Mexico and my Facebook and Instagram are full of females who got themselves a foreigner and now live in their countries. Mexican guys? I can count them with one hand. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:41 AM |
| 16 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !You only need no more than 1000 bucks, a couple more friends to join you and you are good to go 4-5 days to Mexico. Worth saving for. | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 01:21 AM |
| 139 | Not getting laid? Go travelling !Anyone considered average from North America / Europe can go anywhere in Latin America and will literally be a Tinder god. No matter your race. Latin America is the promised land for the average first world man. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Right. Unless OP is buying her electronics, clothes or straight up giving her cash, he is not a sugar daddy. What he is paying for is for his enjoyment as well. I think is fine paying for dinners or trips together if it doesn’t affect your wallet and you make much more money than the woman. Simple courtesy. And you get sex for it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 01:22 PM |
| 2 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsDefinitely. It's a great book with awesome concepts. But I do agree with you that the "vulnerability" is very questionable. It doesn't convince me. I personally believe that he added that idea to differentiate his book from many others | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 3 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsWell yeah. After she said started to call me out, the kiss was my response. But during the days before that, there had already been kino advances and I had noticed certain interest. And lol yea you gotta resist the neediness. That's the only way. I've made that mistakes too and still do sometimes. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:21 PM |
| 5 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsYeah man, it's a game. Don't try too hard before you see signs that the woman is interested. I didn't kiss this girl out of nowhere, I had already established kino and had a few signs, just picked the right moment. And I know it seems unreal lol. None of my friends believed me when I showed them her picture. We are still in touch sometimes on IG, it's been like 4 years already. | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 07:05 PM |
| 4 | The fatal flaw with Mark Manson's ModelsI can give you one of mine. There was this latina beauty queen (8.5/10, I'd say) that I hosted at my place for a few days (I didn't even know her, but why she was staying in my apartment as a guest is not relevant). Anyway, I didn't plan to make any moves because I thought it would be impossible since she was out my league. So I just treated her like any random woman. Resepectfully, because she was my guest, but I didn't simp her like those kind of women are used to. She had just had a contest i… | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowThe fact that you are not a teenager makes your presence in the teenagers sub even sadder. Of course, you are living your life to fullest lmao | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowhahahaha I love your delusion, teenager. You are the typical Twitter personality:a completely delusional being who puts words in other's people mouth. Have a good life | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowGood thing that we won't have you around in this sub any longer. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowNo one is perfect, everyone will have something wrong, women included. And you need to go out and live. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:36 PM |
| 0 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowNot really. It didn't use to be like that. Social media has harmed the relationship market for everyone, not specifically men or women. In the past, no one really had many options. People from Alabama would just marry someone from their town. Now those same town people have access to see the entire world in social media. In women's case: really handsome, successful and rich desirable men. Why would they marry Joe from Alabama if they can get someone like that? Why settle? They think: "I can do b… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Report - Stop Simping your ruining the market report down belowRelationships are a market. You gotta "sell" yourself and "buy" a mate in order to fulfill your biological mission of reproducing. Tons of men being desperate as fuck make women quote themselves higher because they realize they have demand, and that unbalances the market. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 11:19 PM |
| 8 | Women with "Woke" or "Toxic Feminism" mentality - Is it worth the effort to date these type of women?Yes, the grand majority of women are like this nowdays. Find someone who is not brainwashed by social media. It's shit because this is exactly what the elites pushing this agenda want: gender division. If they can make at least 50% of women irretrievably hate men and make them date between them, way less babies will be born, I guess. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 02:55 PM |
| 2 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?Who cares? Gaming is for short term flings. Playing the nice guy "I'm myself" is not the way to get many women, that's what people are here about. The ones who are looking for relationship shit they can go to the relationship advice or the nice guys subs. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 08:34 PM |
| 27 | Why is a woman's attraction to a man so unstable?the issue is that every woman is different and sometimes an specific game won't work on them. It's basically random. With the one you were distant and cold you had to be needy and lovable, and with the one you were needy and lovable you had to be distant and cold. | /r/seduction | 07/06/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Why was online dating supposedly so easy mid 2010s?Adult friend finder was a blast in the 2000’s. I remember setting up a fake account with my pals, since we were like 12 lmao and there were a ton of real attractive women | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 05:10 AM |
| 30 | Why do women think that it's totally normal and acceptable to completely ignore texts from a guy?Do you have any idea with how many people women text with? First of all, females text each other daily, and have group chats where they gossip. A pretty girl will have several female friends she talks with constantly. She also has a family, and text daily with their mom, dad, siblings, etc. Then, she also talks sometimes with her actual male friends, coworkers, class buddies etc. And then at the end, there's a shit ton of guys that message her very often, who want to get in her pants. She replie… | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?those guys get many different women | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:07 PM |
| 6 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?The same little pool of top guys in their area. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:59 PM |
| 109 | Honest question for women: why aren't women having sex all the time?Little do you know hot women do have sex all the time, anytime they want. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 01:51 PM |
| 7 | Asked for her number in public transportShe wasn't interested. She was just bored or is a person who needs to be always talking or attention. Not worth it. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 08:19 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps for men are a game of chance where the odds are against you, even for attractive menLatin America is a paradise for the average american man. | /r/seduction | 24/05/22 05:30 PM |
| 1 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?I'd like to know what you're saying, then. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?There's no competition if 5 are dating the same top 5% guy simultaneously. They all get him. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why are women oblivious to how easy they have it on the dating market?Competition from other women? Yea that doesn't exist. Chad can handle several women at a time until he decides he wants to marry. But marriage can't stop him neither. | /r/seduction | 22/05/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Following up an ignored DM openerhave some self respect and move on to the next one | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:54 PM |
| 15 | Is a woman's romantic interest much less stable than a man's romantic interest?I would say they have full leverage nowdays. They have all the power over romantic relationships. Men only do if they are rich. | /r/seduction | 21/05/22 05:46 PM |
| 20 | Met girl on social media, got her number, she seemed interested and flirted, fast forward texted something one bubble and got back “Lol k” and then she leaves me on read and unfollows meDude. There's zero room for mistakes. You can't a afford to make one mistake or you are doomed. Women have no mercy, like men do. If you say something they don't like before they are invested in you, they will cut you off. The thing is that you almost never know what the mistake was. It can be anything. In this case, complimenting her post probably was the mistake, and the last nail was asking if you said something wrong. You should've just asked her out and limit the texting contact after she a… | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 10:41 PM |
| 9 | Date set up for Thursday. How do I continue texting the girl so that she doesn’t lose interest before then?It's tough because it's a coinflip. There are girls who like and need texting interaction, and others who hate it. You are basically walking on a tight rope. Overtext and she may flake, don't text and she may flake too. It's all up to your personal calibration of the woman to decide how to handle it. | /r/seduction | 16/05/22 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Few dates in with a model girl and now she hasn't messaged me.Ma boi, she will likely not text you. Those women are used to be contacted by men all the time. I can assure you she very rarely contacts a man first. Especially if she doesn't see you as something serious yet. She will just think: "all right, this guy never texted me again, he is not interested anymore or I scared him out with my lifestyle. Whatever, next". And you missed out. I don't think she will see you as needy if you contact her, because it's normal for her to always be reached out. Just … | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Few dates in with a model girl and now she hasn't messaged me.Those type of women are hard to mantain, honestly. If you are not famous, a producer, an athlete or shit like that, they will eventually leave you for one of those type of guys. You can try texting her and hope you can enjoy this while it lasts. Or while it lasted. Best of luck. | /r/seduction | 10/05/22 08:01 PM |
| 1 | can someone explain the reason for skewed male:female ratio on dating apps and pretty much all real life social settings such as bars, clubs, etc?Make a profile on Tinder and Bumble of a handsome fit realistic guy and you will see how many women will be instantly DTF. They are very horny and would be happy to have sex daily, but now with any regular Joe. Men are willing to have sex with almost whoever they can get it from. That's the only difference. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:48 PM |
| 3 | can someone explain the reason for skewed male:female ratio on dating apps and pretty much all real life social settings such as bars, clubs, etc?It's clear to me that you haven't, if you think they are not horny on a daily basis | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 10:36 PM |
| 4 | can someone explain the reason for skewed male:female ratio on dating apps and pretty much all real life social settings such as bars, clubs, etc?Lol? Women are as horny as men. They just don't show it the same way men do (by being needy, desperate or simping any woman they run into). | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:49 PM |
| 6 | Date perfume recommendationVersace Eros. I always get complimented by both women and men lol | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?You could try | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:34 PM |
| 0 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Let her decide. If I can't get into bed with her, I'll give you 5k. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:31 PM |
| -1 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?I like cougars. Maybe I can call your mom instead? | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 08:22 PM |
| -5 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?"real balls" lmaoooo. I've been with women you'd dream to just exchange words with, including a South American beauty queen. My method works, proven. I don't need losers like you to validate it. Keep acting like a caveman. Go on, approach another 300 and get 15 numbers and 2 f closes (very questionable quality ones), while smart people like me can attract and close more than half out of 20 approaches (quality ones). But hey, yOu HaVe BaLLs! | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?lol there are no set words. While scripts are useful sometimes, just going with the flow is better. If you follow scripts everytime, you will always struggle on making conversations flow. You gotta train yourself to be able to talk comfortably about anything. How? Just talk to people every time you have a chance. Men, women you don't like, an old man in the train, to a fucking cat. Call your relatives idk. They can all be your practice so you can be ready and confident enough whenever you want t… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 07:01 PM |
| 4 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Nowdays, women walk around with their guard up. In this miserable and violent world, they have no reason to trust a random stranger who comes up and tells her she is cute and wants to talk with her for a bit. It's weird and uncomfortable to most. They are expecting that from the weirdos their friends talk to her about, or her own who have assaulted her in the past. Pretty women have to deal with stupid shit from random men all the time. Don't be that potential guy. I never show that my intention… | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Another failed dateshe may like you and is just playing games. Some girls play hard to kiss, I've been rejected for a kiss even if the girl clearly likes me. If she is asking you out again, go for it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 05:03 PM |
| 18 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?Cold approaching with initial lines that reveal you are attracted to her is the stupidiest thing you can do. Y'all love approaching with "hey, I think you are cute and I wanted to come and talk to you". You are basically sabotaging your chances, that's why y'all's numbers are so low. Before you say "iT's WoRkEd FoR mE sOmEtImEs": yea, a broken clock gives the right time twice a day. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:57 PM |
| 4 | What's your seduction unpopular opinion?if my options were only fat/ugly girls i would gladly just remain single with some porn for the rest of my life. I can handle being a single father. | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 04:52 PM |
| 4 | To all my brothers battling in the trenches..this is for youJohnny is that you? | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:46 PM |
| 2 | If You Turn Her Off Via Text By Being Too Clingy/Pushy/Simpy/Needy/Texting Too Much, Then There’s No Recovery Right?Yes, there's no turning back. You are not allowed to make a single mistake, or it's 95% over. You can only get away with mistakes when you are already in a relationship, because by then the power balance is closer to even. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Got dumped after 4 dates, don’t know whyAre you me? This happened the same to me a month ago, but she just ghosted me lol. Women are like this. I don't think anything is wrong with you, they are just weird. They will change their mind at anytime. Your woman probably thought things were going to get serious and decided to peace out. Sucks, but this market is how it is. Move on and learn from every experience. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Cold Approach is BrutalDirect is even more brutal at uni. People are already talking shit about him with others. If he goes around telling girls they are cute, he will gain a bad reputation and possibly get reported as a stalker/creep with the uni authorities. Not worth it for 1 lay. Indirect is fine in his case, but he is doing it wrong. He is basically interviewing them for no reason and asking them out without building attraction. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | What motivates you to flirt with women?sex | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:59 PM |
| 2 | Girl visiting my city ghosted me after going to the restroomthis was a fun bar with lots of games and a cheerful atmosphere and she could've stayed probably not her vibe, she could've expected a quiet bar. Anyway, it's all speculation here, she was just a shitty woman not worth your time. Not even worth this thread at all. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 08:12 PM |
| 4 | Girl visiting my city ghosted me after going to the restroomShe probably just didn't like you in person or got bored and decided she would just disappear. I mean, she could've just said she was not feeling well and leave. But the majority of women prefer to avoid confrontation and just find easy ways out of stuff. It's ok, those type of women are not worth our time. Feels shitty, anyway. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:24 PM |
| 3 | Stats on 50 cold approachesIt’s a powerful tool, but it takes effort to build a good profile. I think it’s worth it. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:07 AM |
| 14 | Stats on 50 cold approachesTry indirect approach without complimenting. It works for me. I don't usually daygame a lot, but when I've tried I've had success being indirect. For example, asking for bus routes, actually approaching inside a bus. I do a short genuine routine and end up asking for the number number/instagram after building rapport for a while. I follow the rule of "never verbally let the woman know you are interested in her before you can feel that she is interested in you". They can imagine what you want, of… | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 09:43 PM |
| 1 | How to get with a girl from workIt's really hard, honestly. If you were at school, I would say just go and try to get her number or ask her out directly. But you are at work, and it's much harder and riskier, what you do for a living can be on the line if she takes your approach badly and files a complaint. Flirting at work is a long game, and you just gotta wait til the woman makes the move, you can't risk your job for her. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 08:17 PM |
| 3 | How to get with a girl from workMy strategy was to get her comfortable with me in a friend-type way So your strategy is to get friendzoned. The problem is we don't really spend enough time together for me to build that type of relationship. Life giving you the chance to not friendzone yourself. I also feel like lately she is not as enthusiastic Did you tell someone at work about her? | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 06:07 PM |
| 5 | Went to a speed dating event. Didn't do well.there's the ocasional not desirable woman who brings her hot friend to not go alone. It's worth a shot I guess, better than sitting at home doing nothing. | /r/seduction | 28/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever texted some girl you previsouly did not know on instagram or facebook?There have been roasting sprees every time "Me too" is hot in my area. Girls will upload pictures or conversations with their "stalkers" and literally tag them. Some of them are legit stalkers and weirdos, others are just guys trying to flirt. A couple of my boys have been roasted when they did nothing wrong, other than just add some girls and try to ask them out. Some will comment "omg he messaged me as well" and have ruined their social reputation with women. I prefer to avoid that. | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Did you ever texted some girl you previsouly did not know on instagram or facebook?it works when you are young with fellow young girls because everyone is stupid as fuck. When I was 13 and MSN messenger was a thing, I would legit ask my friends to share girls email addresses with me so I could add them and cold-message them. I didn't give a fuck. They would almost always reply and follow up with the conversation. I met a shit ton of girls that way. When Facebook started to be a thing, I also added random girls like whatever. It didn't work as good, but still had some success. … | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 07:47 PM |
| 1 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsIt stays | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 06:25 PM |
| 1 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsusing beard stimulating products that contain minoxidil and taking vitamins that contain biotin can help the hair growing process. It's slow but it works over time | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 06:53 PM |
| 4 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsYou can try to become the best version of yourself. That's what I'm doing at the moment. I got lazy because I started to have good success after having zero game from birth til I finished college. But now I've realized I could physically be in a better position, so I started to go to the gym, will book an appointment with the dermatologyst to have a better skin. I take good haircuts, have fought really hard to grow a decent beard. I will be in a better spot in a while. Men age well if we take ca… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:00 PM |
| 20 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsWhy would we want lower elo women? We don't ask for too much, We just ask for a woman in our own elo. I don't need to be with a 9/10 to have a happy life. And I swear: everytime I see men with lower elo women I just think to myself that I would rather be alone. They still have to deal with their shit and it's not even worth it lmao. I have a few uncles in their 40s-50s who are in relationships with women way below their leagues, and have to stand their toxic shit. No, thank you. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:38 PM |
| 46 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsIt's funny because my ex girlfriend is exactly in this situation right now. We lived together and had a great relationship. But I had to leave to work in another city, after a few months of LDR she couldn't last and we broke up right before the pandemic. After a couple months, she wanted me back so bad, but I was just starting another relationship (which the pandemic screwed btw). So she downloaded Tinder when Passport was free for all at the start of the pandemic and met a handsome american law… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 02:27 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with the fact you blew it with a really cool girl?How did you blow it? | /r/seduction | 25/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?You are not a good person. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:44 PM |
| 4 | Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them?The UK guy is the asshole, the Pakistan guy is the nice guy | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?I’m a guy lol that’s a video game character haha | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 03:50 AM |
| 2 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Neg hits early on are the classic example of this. I met a girl with pretty green eyes the other day and asked right away if they were real, cause they seemed fake to me. She got upset at first lol but hooked her with that I ended up getting her number anyway. Also, being overly confident and braggy about something in specific. Like being built and bragging about your muscles, or shit like that | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:06 PM |
| 2 | Is it a good idea to send this text?No. She will ghost you. You will hit her pride by trying to make her compete with someone else. Do you think she doesn't have options? She will say "ok good luck in your other date" and go out with some other dude. What would you do if she says the same to you? I personally would walk out, no woman is going to make me fight other man for her attention. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 09:00 PM |
| 13 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?Try to be polarizing and you will see the results. Women are emotional beings that respond to emotional stimulation. That's the reason they love assholes, they create emotions from the start. The nice guy doesn't. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 25 | How do some guys make girls obsessed with them?He has a big dick, gives them good sex or head. Also, it doesn't matter what he says, what it matters is how he makes them feel. He makes them have a polarizing reaction at first (hate, anger), which is an advantage for him. You gotta create emotions for women when you first meet them, it doesn't matter if they are positive or negative. Once they feel negative an emotion towards you, it's easy to change it to a positive one, and that's when you create confusion. After he does this, they feel the… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Need some clarificationCould be anything. She may have been busy or had a rough day. I mean, if she is still down to go to the date, then everything should be fine. If she wasn’t interested she would have cancelled already. I would go find out and then just move on if the vibe isn’t there. It’s not a waste of money, it’s a bet. And I see the odds of winning higher than losing. | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 05:12 AM |
| 10 | How Music And The Media Romanticize Emotional Neediness And The “Nice Guys”.He still got more women than he should've IRL lol. He also had slight dork game, like when he hooked up instantly with Barney's fake wife at her mother's house lmao | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 05:46 PM |
| 1 | I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention.Online life is part of real life already. Average women from your town quote highly in the market because they get attention from dudes in other cities or even different parts of the world. They won't date their coffee shop coworker Timmy, because they get attention from Chad, a successful crypto bro from New York who is inviting her to meet, and Andrew, a handsome LA aspiring actor. They feel they are too good for Timmy, they can do better. That's the problem. The average Timmy is singled out b… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I'm sure a lot of you wouldn't be lonely if you went for women more in your own league, or the women who don't get much attention.You have no idea how many options average women have. It's insane these days the amount of attention an average woman gets. They don't want to date average men neither. That's the problem. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Anyone have examples of great (high value) instagram profilessolid profile. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:09 PM |
| 2 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamI agree. Still, you have to compete with 699 dudes who also paid, they can’t guarantee you to be too 10 or that you will get matches, they just place you above most of the free accounts. It’s a fucking gold mine for them. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 01:06 AM |
| 104 | Tinder’s Algorithm is a scamIt's simple. Let's think about this: there are 1000 men in a certain area. Not sure what's the actual ratio of men that do pay for Tinder, but let's say that 700 out of those 1000 pay for Tinder Gold/Platinum, so they get preference in the stack over free accounts. If you don't subscribe, you are buried under all the guys that pay, even if you have a better profile. The ladies will see the other ones first, most of the time. Tinder doesn't hate you, they have to deliver what they promise to the … | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 12:04 AM |
| 6 | Should I trade my Android for an iPhone if I want to get as many girls as possible?When I used to take out my old Galaxy A50 in public, everybody looked at me with shame. No one respected me, women used to tell me to get lost. Now everytime I take out my iPhone13 proMax 1TB all the ladies flock around me gracefully. I stole a guy's girlfriend in front of him because he only had the iPhone13 basic version. What a loser. Apple changed my sex life for 2 grand. Forever thankful to Mr. Cook. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Went out and while walking into the club tried to start a conversation but was immediately dismissed and ignoredComplimenting right away is a mistake, 50% of women will find it creepy coming from a stranger. Also, by being by yourself, they probably perceived low value on you. They found you as a creepy single guy who is complimenting them in the street out of nowhere, activated their shields and ignored you. It sucks, but it's understandable. Think about how many creeps have complimented and tried something with each one of them in the street, they can't can trust a random guy. Still it's fine. You will … | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 06:37 PM |
| 14 | Cold approaching is really insaneGood job | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate with girls in a clubYea just grab her hand and if she holds it back you got her. You can also put your hand on her waist and dance like whatever. A club is the probably the place where you gotta put the least effort to get someone lol. But the competition is tough, because an average club it's usually like 70% males 30% females. 95% of that 70% male population is looking for some action, while the females' is % it's usually much much lower, leaving the availability rate pretty low. And we are not count the ones who… | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 09:02 PM |
| 12 | I became her "gay friend", now what?You are fucked my dude. Escaping the friend zone is really hard, and most of the time, not worth the effot. Just keep friends with her, meet other women and tell her about your dating life. She may become jealous at some point and that could be your card. But in the meantime, you gotta take the loss and don't ruin your friendship. You don't have to stop talking to her if she makes you happy as your friend, just be cool with her, date other people and you'll be fine. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 07:28 PM |
| -6 | How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s?Why would you want to date a 34 year old lol at that age, we would want a young woman who can give us healthy kids. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:04 PM |
| 14 | Are you better off not sharing your success with guy friends?That's normal for guys who think looks are the main tool to get women. I used to get really salty when I saw objectively much less attractive friends attract women somehow. Never said a word to them, though, or talked shit with someone else. I just couldn't find an explanation. Once I immersed in the seduction world, I understood everything and my bitterness disappeared. Now I'm just upset that I had to spend hundreds of hours learning this shit, and there are people who have no clue about what … | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 04:38 PM |
| 2 | is not having a car a deal breaker for women?Not a total deal breaker, but it can add up to other small things. In my city, for example, it's a complete deal breaker because you need to do stuff together. For a successful attractive man, having a car is expected, not having one is an anomaly. Logistics get really hard if you don't have a car. It makes it harder to go get dinner together, to visit her, bring her home, go out on a roadtrip or idk. It's expensive to Uber everywhere, you have no privacy on your way to the places and you miss b… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 07:52 PM |
| 1 | How direct and explicit do women actually want guys to be??In my experience, most don't respond well to sexual directness. I've lost several women for being direct, even after we had made out or I was sure they were into me. Indirect works better for me, they like to pretend they didn't see things coming and it just happened. Edit: with directness, I mean words. You can be direct with actions and that's different. They just don't like hearing it, but you can act. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 5 | What is the rejection rate for a good-looking guy doing cold approach?Rejection rate is really high. So high that you will rather work with the success rate. I recall reading Mystery's full post log on the original Fast Seduction from, and there's a post/comment where he talks in depth about this. He said his f-close rate was around 20%, a super number, actually. But he was a 6'5 arguably goodlooking dude with style and insane game. A 5% should great enough for a regular guy. At the end of the day, it's not about quantity, it's about quality and keeping the ones y… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeIt's the real shit, I've used it several and it works, women love it. This post's version is not as accurate as the one in the book "The Game" is. It is narrated there how some random PUA used it with Paris Hilton at a taco restaurant and actually got her number. At least that's what they claim, and a picture of the encounter exists. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:21 AM |
| 0 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeTry it yourself and find out. I'm talking based on experience, you are talking out of your ass. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:15 AM |
| 0 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeThe many women The Cube has helped me to put on track disagree with your statement. | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 12:13 AM |
| -1 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeUsing this routines and having a developed personality are not mutually exclusive. You can perfectly do both. This kind of games are gold, women love them. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeDude, I always use The Cube play. Every fucking time it works. If it (presumably) worked with Paris Hilton, it will work with anyone. Women love games and tests, specially personality ones. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Strawberry Fields Vs The CubeThe Cube is the best one | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Texting random girls on InstagramOnly if you have a solid Instagram with great pictures and at least 1k followers. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Girl obviously lyingPeople here love to open like "I saw you and I thought you are really pretty. So here I am, talking to you, hoping we end up having sex". I think that's a mistake. It immediately activates their special force shield, like the Star Wars rolling droid ones. There's a very important rule that usually works for me: make the woman feel attracted to you before she is completely sure that you are attracted to her. You gotta be cool, fun, casual and avoid her considering you a threat so the shield remai… | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 06:13 PM |
| 6 | You HAVE to strike while the iron is hot. A woman's attraction will plummet if you don't.I’d wait 2-3 days to text the girls I met because that was some sort of rule. That used to be the rule back when people were not used for everything to be basically instantaneous. Now you gotta be quick or the deal will fade in the blink of an eye. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Where should I have sex with this girl?Not a real bro. I would give anything so my son can get laid lol | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Where should I have sex with this girl?Park is safer I guess. No employee can kick you out and call the police (or your parents lol). Unlikely that someone who cares can catch you at the park one. Yolo | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | Where should I have sex with this girl?Can't you sneak her in? If your house is sized enough, it's possible. Or you can ask if you can sneak into hers. Other options are public places: at the mall's dressing room, some bathroom, at the cinema in some movie no one will go and watch, idk. Or wait til someone throws a party. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 07:08 PM |
| 5 | Why am I getting ghosted so often? I've been out of the game for 7 years and holy crap is this a huge problem!Welcome back. My last 2 dates have ghosted me after successful dates. One after the first one (kiss closed) and the other after the 4th (kissed closed on the 2nd, didn’t have the proper chances/environment to escalate to sex). Both of them looked really into me, but never messaged me back. The issues I see with ghosting/flaking is that you usually don’t know what went wrong, and can’t learn from that experience. My friends get ghosted very often too. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 03:58 PM |
| 7 | DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responsesVery few people actually do lol. You gotta build an interesting enough profile so random people in other parts of the world follow you. All the "influencers" barely know anyone really. Most of them just manage to fake a cool life and get people follow what they do. Pretty girls get followers for being pretty and uploading bikini pics. Fit guys get followed by other dudes and some thirsty women. Rich people who upload tons of cool pictures of themselves around the world. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 08:59 PM |
| 5 | DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responses1k at least | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 16 | What did I do wrong on this "date"?She implied it was a date and you insecurely replied. You could've said "no" and would have been a better answer. You could have tried to kiss her anytime and you didn't. Maybe she was horny, someone texted her and decided to go with that guy, since you seemed to be too afraid to make a move. What did you do wrong? You were doubtful and overthought, instead of making a move after several signals. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 08:01 PM |
| 67 | DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responsesHaving a good Instagram is the reason why you are getting responses, not the opener. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | How to compensate when you have bad skin from cystic acne, dating advice?I have a few scars too, my friend. It sucked ass when I was younger because looks are more than 80% of your attractiveness when you are at school (if you are not a rich kid). But 10-12 years later, I've developed in my career, personality, style. I had a couple good relationships and also some hook ups. Would I get more chicks if I didn't have them? Most likely, but it is what it is. Work on yourself physically and mentally, try to get treatments inside of your possibilities and you will feel be… | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 11:06 PM |
| 16 | Do girls talk to each other about a guy they think is hot?Of course they do. Wtf. Surprise: women want to have sex as much as men do. They are not aliens. | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Set up a date with her for today, she asks “who else is coming?” Is it over?Tell her it's just you and her, plus, that your guys already have plans and can't invite anyone. Cancel her if she says the friend is coming anyway. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 08:11 PM |
| 5 | I wonder how many guys who share advices here are actually getting girlsI get girls. But still learn from y'all. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 04:24 PM |
| 4 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.yea right I read his reply after I replied to yours. He's gotta work on himself first, true. Good luck to you as well, brother. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.Then you need to work on yourself, my dude. I'm sort of introverted too, but had met a couple women via online dating. Hit the gym, read some of seddit recommended books. Try to build good social media. Go out with your mates to drink, do some sport. You will always be introverted, but you can deal with it. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.I mean, it has worked for me. Not serious dates, just a few hookup potential ones are fine to slowly focus your attention in other people. He can also focus on himself, in the meantime. It will make it easier | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:57 PM |
| 7 | Drunk called my ex who had dumped me 4 years ago and begged her to take me back.Sorry bro, shit happens. I'm glad you can finally try to move on. I'm in a similar situation, but I don't see myself deleting our pictures. I do plan to lock them somewhere so I can see them again in a few years, maybe. Sucks. Try to go out and date someone, it will help you heal. I was going out with someone recently, and helped me forget a bit. Still hurts, though. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:43 PM |
| 7 | The powerful effect of social status in seductionWhy? It’s not like he is sharing it for us to follow him. Him sharing this experience contributes with useful information to this subreddit. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 06:12 PM |
| 1 | A good Instagram profile helps getting chicks .Get fit, dress well, do interesting shit and post it. People will start following you if they run into your profile, even dudes. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | A good Instagram profile helps getting chicks .Doesn't matter if your goal is to get laid. I don't care how shitty people the girls I bang are, I just want to bang them. When the time I want a long term girlfriend comes, I will careabout the personality. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Got GhostedLet her go. She probably didn't like that you asked that. You should've turned her on until she asked for it. Something similar happened to me, I went out on a coffee date with this Bumble girl. It was clear that she was interested, so I suggested to go to watch a movie. Once inside, she was really touchy and it was clear she wanted to be kissed. We made out there, but logistics weren't good that night and we didn't have anywhere to bang. We kept texting for like a week with great interest, good… | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | girls on tinder started to text me less, should I just ask her out?immediately ask a girl out when she looks she is interested. You gotta ask her at least at the second day of texting, usually the first one if she is very engaged in the initial conversation. Online dating is a high tempo environment. You gotta act quickly, you are not her only match (like she is usually yours). The longer you take to ask her out, the odds of other guy doing it exponentially increase. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 05:30 PM |
| 18 | I'm sitting here with this girl I've known in her bedroom watching horror movie. How do I escalate things for a quick hookupAsking is worse than a coin flip and usually ruins things that would’ve gone well if you hadn’t opened the damn mouth. Women will rather feel things just happened than consciously knowing that they are about to have sex with a guy they barely know. | /r/seduction | 12/03/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Cold approach on public transportOf course. It's even better than other places like the gym. You are not interrupting her, she isn't doing anything and will most likely be open to have a conversation if you don't act like a weirdo. I've gotten a few numbers at the bus stop, actual buses and planes. Openers are easy. Just approach asking for information about the route or shit like that. After that, a conversation should naturally flow and will keep its course if she is interested. You should always end telling her it was a very… | /r/seduction | 11/03/22 12:11 AM |
| 21 | Girl thought I just wanted to hang out.If you wouldn't have asked anything you could've probably scored without knowing she was engaged. Good thing? I guess? If you care, of course. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 11:39 PM |
| 3 | My new GF (4 months in) is perfect in every way except 1…..It's fine bro it's a phase, maybe. Some girls I've grown up with were exactly like her, but slowly started to stop posting that much at some point. Not sure how old are you guys, but I feel still young, right? Could be an issue if she's already over 30. | /r/seduction | 10/03/22 10:48 PM |
| 35 | Do women who aren’t interested in you romantically actually want to be friends? Or are they just being kind and letting you down easy?yea sometimes you gotta take the loss and just keep friends with women, even if they aren't interested in you as a partner or fling. That's ok, more chances can come through them anyway. I have a few cool and pretty female friends I can invite to hang out anytime and they will be down for it with no hesitation, or sometimes they ask me out too. And it helps for my validation whenever we show up somewhere and other women notice me accompanied by a hot girl. Or also by uploading shit to my instagr… | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:59 PM |
| 19 | Do women who aren’t interested in you romantically actually want to be friends? Or are they just being kind and letting you down easy?Lol that's easy, just go. Attend with no expectations and be cool with everyone. If she doesn't like you and just wants to be friends, one of hers may like you and you can go out with that one later. Or you can open for yourself a new group of people you can hang out with and meet their friends' friends and so on. Be social and women will like you. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 06:51 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]I would add: never ask a girl for something to happen between you (relationships,sexually). The great majority want it to happen, but don't want to hear it beforehand. They love the fantasy of thinking that things just happened by themselves. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:31 PM |
| 105 | [deleted by user]Don’t move dude. Just pretend you are busy and don’t look out of the window. Or man up and wave back if she does, you shouldn’t care. Time will help you forget. Or just go out and meet other girls, that’s the best way to forget about someone. | /r/seduction | 27/02/22 02:12 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] Battling neediness, honesty, and vulnerability on a terrible dateYou did all right, but Models is very radical about honesty and showing your true self. Sure, it will get you some great dates when the match is appropiate, but it can also ruin other good ones. You revealed too much about your stance in some arguably controversial topics by trying to strictly follow the honesty principle. You don't have to lie and it's fine that you were honest, but you could have avoided talking about them on a first date. I think those disagreements that are not very importan… | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 14 | Social media/ technology and its part in making it harder for the average man to get interest from women.Every man has flaws. Even our fathers/uncles had their own, but could get away with them because women didn't have unlimited options back then. It's much difficult now to get away with flaws or little details if women notice them early. They have a sea of men waiting for an opportunity to take them out, so they just keep looking for the one with no apparent flaws. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 05:45 PM |
| 1 | How long does the texting stage usually last?If the person is a man, doesn’t matter. You can do whatever and you will make it last as long as you want. Doesn’t really matter if you, OP, are male or female. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Seriously how do i keep my libido up with a virgin girl?Lol be patient. You don’t know for sure if she is a virgin, though. I had a similar situation with a girl I was dating. She claimed she was a virgin and we had a long talk about it before we decided to get in an actual relationship. She told me to not expect sex, and I was fine with it. At first, we started doing everything you have done so far, then ee had some oral and we finally had sex after like 4-6 weeks. It escalated step by step, I didn’t rush it, and she ended up telling to get inside h… | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | for newbies: big dating subreddits can do you more harm than goodFurthermore the girls you like, the young hot, sexy, beautiful women you like and want to fuck, are 99.9% NOT on reddit They are on Reddit. But posting nudes to promote their only fans, definitely not taking the time to give dating advice to random losers. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 08:21 PM |
| 7 | What if I want to break the rules and "shit where [I] eat" ?Doesn't matter, that rule just applies to people with established positions/career in a place where they will be working in the long term. This is fine, flings happen all the time between young coworkers. | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Call me a noob but honestly, I don't get how people talk to girls on Snapchat...used to like 8 years ago when it was full pictures. Since they introduced text messaging... not that helpful | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:09 PM |
| 9 | My friend met and had sex with a girl 1 day before I did. We both met her on Tinder. And it was a total coincidenceHe can even ask her to bring a friend and have an orgy | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 06:13 AM |
| 8 | What’s the best US City for a single man?It's not bad, tons of young Disney/Universal women cast members. Their workplaces are loaded with other women and gay guys, so they really want to meet quality men. I used to work at Disney World, was young and stupid at the time so I didn't get that many laids, but a couple roomates did get a shit ton. I also had a coworker who told me that Disney parks were the best place to get hook ups, that he met women all the time there (the parks are FULL of attractive female guests who usually go alone/… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Give me a game plan.women are desperate to find a prince who will take them out of the Latin American hell | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Give me a game plan.Go on vacation somewhere in Latin America. You will return back to Seattle with a wife. | /r/seduction | 05/01/22 12:44 AM |
| 1 | if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us??Women think they can change them, make them fall in love and live happily ever after. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 8 | if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us??Of course. But the fact that they are looking for them rich chads instead of settling in their league is what is fucking average guys in the ass. | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 10 | if young men in US are having sex 3x less than they were a decade ago but female rate has stayed the same, how are we supposed to believe there’s any hope for us??Social media has raised women expectations. Why settle with an average Joe if they can wait for the handsome rich guys they see all the time online? | /r/seduction | 03/01/22 04:27 AM |
| 32 | How do I stop getting cucked?Doesn’t matter if OP was just looking to have sex. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 14 | Bursting the pussy bubbleDemand for pussy will never fall, there are millions of desperate beta folks that will keep pumping average girls' egos to supermodel levels. This is the only bubble that will never burst, unless the internet suddenly disappears forever. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:24 PM |
| 13 | First time approach, got a number at my airport gate from an absolute babeLucky Fucking Guy | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 07:10 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Oh, sure. Totally. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 09:55 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Well, sexual attack accusations are different. I'm talking about texting/verbal misunderstandings where the woman didn't like what the man said or didn't get a clear joke, then procceed to roast them online as a harrasser/weirdo. Happened to a couple friends last year, women in my city started to roast their "offenders" on Instagram/FB/Twitter, and some good guys got splashed for absolutely no reason lol | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:32 PM |
| 27 | [deleted by user]Modern social media gave women tons of power over the average men. Do or say something that a woman interprets as "harrasment" and be ready to get roasted online and screw your dating life. And let's not start talking about how social media gives women access to "better" options than their average high school boyfriend Joe from Alabama. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 08:06 PM |
| 36 | At what age for men is it easiest to attract and seduce women?Lol bro you don't know what you're talking about. Men can peak any late in life. My father used to get laid with different women of several age groups in his 50's lol. A man in his 30's is seen as a god by college girls, and women from his age group are getting old and out of options. You also have the more mature women that want adventures with younger men, but don't want a kid in his 20's. Women, normally peak between their 18-25, for several reasons (usually, having kids screws them over). Wo… | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 01:25 AM |
| 3 | 3% man Vs Models Vs The Mystery MethodIf you are a rookie, read The Game first. Then immediately, the Mystery Method. Once you get some experience, read Models | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Who is a 10/10 person to you ?She's a whole package. Beautiful, smart and seems to be a really kind person with her feet well placed on the earth | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 12:47 AM |
| 10 | Girl asked me to leave after we started making out when I came back from bathroomMomentum stopped, she had time to think and change her mind. If you had stayed, you probably would've fucked. Blame your bladder. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 01:07 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I think the "vulnerability" advice is trash and it's just an elaborated thing to try to be revolutionary. Overall, I think it's a good book, it has some other very useful points. But I agree, is very overvalued by the community. | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 21 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsNarrator: "and OP got kicked out" | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Of course, she was fine AF | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 09:17 PM |
| -2 | Tension with girl on houseparty but she has a boyfriend. What do I do?Well, you don't know the conditions of their relationship. Something similar happened to me. My roommate had a party with his co-workers in our apartment. I chilled with them for a while, all cool. There was this very hot girl with her boyfriend that was looking at me with a sexual vibe. I had to work early so I left to sleep, and after like 10 minutes this girl entered my room and asked if she could use my restroom. When she finished, she stayed chatting with me for a bit, then came to sit on m… | /r/seduction | 06/09/21 02:16 PM |
| 48 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Handsome does not mean "pretty face". Well groomed and nice dressed are an important part of looking handsome. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 213 | Countries where Asian men are Most Desired?Literally in Asia. Jokes aside, in Latin America there are millions of people (including tons of women) who are into anime, manga, K-pop and crazy about the Japanese/Korean cultures. They would wet their skirts if they meet a handsome Asian/Asian-American guy | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Apparently I'm popular in Korea, not sure how to handle the attentionI don't find that "racism" bad. As long as it's not because of blatant hate towards one in general, people are allowed to not find attractive certain races and prefer other ones, that's completely normal. Like, I don't find attractive Chinese girls, but I find Japanese extremely hot. Indian ones are not my type, but I'm crazy about Black girls. But sometimes hotness is universal. If one day an Indian supermodel hits on me, I will be happy to go home with her. | /r/seduction | 02/09/21 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Just got rejected by three prior first dates, all at once.Good that your experience is different. Generally, the consensus for the average man is that if we don't move fast, women fade. Every comment I post is thinking about the average man. If you are inside the top 10% of men, they will be down wait to meet you weeks after the initial contact because you would be actually the reason they fade. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Just got rejected by three prior first dates, all at once.Yea 10 days is like a year in women time nowdays. In 10 days they can go out with at least 3-4 of the hundreds of guys a week that she can match with, have sex with two or like one of them better and they will forget about you forever. The same has happened to me whenever I want to contact girls I went out or matched with after a while. They just won't bother, they get tons of new options everyday. We must be quick to stand a chance in such a competitive market. | /r/seduction | 14/08/21 02:09 PM |
| 5 | "Should I stay or should I go?"In my country people have coffe and eat sweet bread at 6 pm lol coffee dates are common around that time and even later in the night. My grandpa drinks coffe everyday at like 8pm and he goes to bed at 12am. | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 01:05 PM |
| 12 | Picked up a total babe while driving for Lyft a few months back,I was expecting a happy ending that never arrived | /r/seduction | 13/08/21 12:45 PM |
| 3 | 2nd field report: A horrible date, ghost from the past, and incredible timing last weekendlmao Big Girl's arc is very funny tbh. She is pictured in my head as someone I know, and she ain't fine XD Great report. Hopefully Blondie will text you back or you can run into her again sometime. Seems like you live in a small city. | /r/seduction | 10/08/21 03:21 AM |
| 5 | I did my first cold approach!checks out | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 12:27 PM |
| 4 | I keep track of my sexual partners via a spreadsheet and since I recently hit the 150 milestone, I thought I'd share some of my data with you guys for funWhy do you think this is the case? It's a worldwide phenomenon. I'm from Mexico and it is so true: Bumble has good quality women, Tinder meh (but some diamonds in the rough), Facebook Dating has the lowest quality of women you can ever imagine. Edit: typo | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 12:17 AM |
| 8 | I keep track of my sexual partners via a spreadsheet and since I recently hit the 150 milestone, I thought I'd share some of my data with you guys for funCouchsurfing is supposed to be a traveler community where you can receive travelers as guests or request to stay at someone else's during your travel. It's a fun tool to meet people, I made good friends the times that I used it, both as a host and traveler. It was secretly a sort of dating app too, since it was common that single traveler girls could request to stay with you if you had a good profile and good references from other travelers. I actually had sex with two women I got from Couchsurf… | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 12:09 AM |
| 28 | Does she spark something in you, or are you trying to force chemistry for your own validation? Your level of authentic attraction is also crucial for successYeah I've felt like that with a few women I didn't really like. Even having sex is hard for me when I don't like someone, I just don't turn on and it sucks. Eventually, they notice and we just stop talking. And I don't care tbh. I'd rather be alone jerking off at home than wasting my time with women I don't feel very attracted to. | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 12:37 PM |
| 42 | What I’ve learned from dating apps as a Male.username checks out | /r/seduction | 23/07/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | About to go and meet a YouTube star.What happened to that girl? I saw that tweet lol but didn't get to know more details afterwards. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 03:14 PM |
| 22 | About to go and meet a YouTube star.Yeah OP delete this, people are shit and someone may call you out to her about posting the tale here. Edit: unlikely she will see it, but better not stupidly blow your chance up like this | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneGlad it works for you anyway. I've tested it myself and my numbers are way better when I don't tell them straight up they're "cute, hot, pretty". It mostly works with drunk girls lol. But still, probably social/cultural context from our locations are what makes the difference. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Another night of approaches and eventually found the oneGood close. Although, I would advice to never compliment women physical looks while opening. Unless you are a 10, it usually scares them out of the convo. Just be cool at first and try to catch their interest. If you notice, you succceeded the one time you didn't straight up do that. | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.She thought you were upset because you read the message but hadn't replied. I would move on to the next one unless she schedules the next date. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 01:40 PM |
| 1 | Fwb left me for exNot bad, you fucked someone else's girl. This happened to me as well lol the girl got out of a 3 year relationship, 1 month after that we started dating, fucked a shit ton, gave me blowjobs etc (she claimed she was a virgin, but I don't think so lol). We decided to end it after 4 months. 6 months later she is back with her ex. I'm pretty sure she also didn't mention to him that she dated someone else lol but it doesn't matter. It kind of sucks. But when I think about it, it could've been worse. … | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Just got rejected 12x in a row at the mallSocial media gave women under 8s the confidence of 10s because of all the teenagers and desperate men simping them 24/7. Even at my third world country lol | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Cold approached a cute girl on a hike yesterdayGreat approach! That was a no brainer one and you handled it perfectly. Glad you decided to take the shot and it worked. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 18 | Sex won’t make you happyI've been a celibate man and I've been a sex man. And I choose sex every fucking time. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 03:34 PM |
| 50 | Sex won’t make you happyHaving sex everyday? I would be happier on that one. | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 12:46 PM |
| 9 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):I watched "Virgin at 40" last week and man, Paul Rudd looked very average in that movie where he was quite young (approx early 30s I think). He's looks so much better now in the MCU movies! He's such a Chad. Men can age like wine if we take care of ourselves. | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 11:30 PM |
| -3 | To those feeling like crap because you missed out "the best years of your life" (AKA high school or college):This is harsh but true, idk why they are downvoting you. Some women also start gaining considerable weight after 25. In contrast, men can actually get better over time till 55. I saw Virgin at 40 the other day and man, Paul Rudd aged finely! He looked very young and pretty average in that movie. Now in the Marvel movies he looks very handsome (no homo) | /r/seduction | 05/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 5 | How do you escalate/flirt on a date with a girl you already know?Go dance somewhere, dancing escalates kino and can create sexual tension | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 06:52 PM |
| 9 | I accidently hit on a 16 year old todayWhat do you expect haha half of the people in this sub are weirdos with zero prudence | /r/seduction | 15/06/21 11:26 PM |
| 5 | “Do women like muscles?”Women like fun and money. IRL, they will know for sure if your average tinder guy that barely gets any matches is actually fun and also can possibly know better if he has money or not. On dating apps this is not possible, unless the guy shows off their money in some way through their pictures. If they don't, women will most likely ignore him, but not in real life. Honestly, dating apps are mostly "whoever looks good gets the matches". Nothing else matters. A random ripped guy may have zero game,… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 03:53 AM |
| -1 | Got rejected at a party and now I feel stupidNever dance with a woman. Neither verbally ask or try to, because you give her the power to reject you. There are several reasons, the most important one is that it's very obvious for her that you want to dance with her because you wish to court her. It's too stereotypical and this sucks because it sets up behaviors with classically defined roles. Also, dancing is a waste because while you are dancing, you could be talking to her. They left you alone with her, you could've taken her elsewere to … | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Got rejected at a party and now I feel stupidSomething similar happened to me lmao. Same situation as you, but instead of going to wash my hands, I had to run to the closest walgreens to get condoms cause I didn't have any. In the meantime, momentum was lost and the woman left. Make sure to always have condoms. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 07:41 PM |
| 0 | Should I text her one last time or move on?Move on to the next one. Don't act needy, bro. If she is interested she will text you. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 07:35 PM |
| 4 | Just got rejected for a dateWill not be the last rejection you get. Move on to the next one, remember it's a numbers game. | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | The 80/20 in skincare for menSeddit skincare meta atm | /r/seduction | 29/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Recognize the signs of seduction at workThere are women that just are like that. Especially in those positions, where they want to be friendly with everyone because they are the boss. I had a HR manager just like that, that came over to good morning kiss everyone to their office every single day. 75% of the people in the office were men, but she was not slutting or anything lol she was just a super friendly person. Don't fuck up, don't ever try to make a move or you may risk losing your internship. There's a huge power imbalance, it's… | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 1 | She asked if she can bring a friend of herGive it a shot, the worst thing that can happen is they just leave early or chat the whole night just them two. The best scenario is a threesome. First of all, it is very important that you prepare beforehand and have very good conversation topics. You want to avoid at all cost to get singled out of the conversation and just spectate them talk. Try to focus on the friend at first, for a while. Be playful, but not directly flirty with her. Try to scan indicators of interest from her. If your girl… | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 03:06 PM |
| 24 | Approach when she's got company.Talk to the mom first lol. Be friendly and funny with ehr. If she instantly likes you for her daughter she will make things easier for you and try to set you up with her. Literally will become your Wingmom. Moms love making their daughters date guys, for some reason. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 02:42 PM |
| 1 | How should I go about this?Reply with a "lit" (fire) emoji to her IG story or something lol if she replies with text you got her, just chat a bit, ask her out and that's it. | /r/seduction | 28/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 3 | The Do's and Don'ts of approaching any girl ?Girls love the unexpected. I have gotten numbers from women at bus stops, trains, airplanes. I have learned that the "Destiny" factor plays a role in how women respond to those type of random encounters. Using the Destiny approach of the right place and the right time in your favor is a almost a guaranteed opportunity with women. | /r/seduction | 27/05/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | BE HONEST: what's your success/rejection ratio in real life?Yeah of course. Daygame is not for everyone. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | BE HONEST: what's your success/rejection ratio in real life?For an average man, I would say 8 out of 10 will end up in a rejection. Never let rejections affect you, everyone gets rejected often. Even the best Casanovas get rejected. | /r/seduction | 26/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Are there any rich guys that leveraged their money to help them attract more women?Just be confident. If you are rich, just project an image of "I don't give a fuck". And actually don't give a fuck. Demonstrate women that, and they will be attracted to you. Just don't flex money, act like it's whatever. I was poor AF when I was 15-23 and now I'm doing very well. When I didn't have money I was afraid of losing a woman, it projected insecurity and got me tons of rejections. Now that I have, I don't give a fuck if a woman doesn't reply my texts, rejects a date or ghosts me. Their… | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 06:35 AM |
| 1 | What is the prime age to be a male dating wise?30-40 for sure. Even 40-50 is still good. Men age like wine. | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Talking to girls at work(food & beverage)A roomate I had used to get tons of numbers from customers and got quite a few dates. He usually treated those girls in a playful way, recommended stuff to try. Sometimes women left their numbers to him. So try to be funny, playful and have good convos. Edit: I forgot to say he is italian and good looking, easier to pick up americans lol. But anyway, I'm sure what he did works anyway if you are good enough at it. | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Girl came up to me at a bar and it ended as I expectedIt's ok man, you did nothing wrong (except for the questionable choice of phrases via text, but that's not the reason she ghosted, anyway). She was drunk and having fun, maybe she did liked you at the moment, but nothing happened and that's it. Women are just like that. It has happened to me that I make out with a drunky girl during a party night, we have a good chat, exchange instagrams. And when text her after two-three days I get two word replies and ghosted after the 4th reply. It's ok, some… | /r/seduction | 01/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | Getting back in the Game: A collection of field reports #1Dude let the thing happen. You could have kissed at least girl #1 and #3. Maybe not that day, but other day. Keep your mouth shut and just escalate. Patience pays off. I've made that mistake before. A few years ago, I had a canadian summerjob coworker that I could feel that was interested in me. One day we were at a club party, having fun, dancing, making good physical connection. We sat together to chill and talk a bit. Instead of escalating and let everything happen, I opened my mouth and said… | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Negging is DumbIt can be a double edged knife, but it works most of the time. You have to know how to do it, though. Because as I said, it must be in a way that is daring but not mean. If you are being mean it will never work, no one likes a disrespectful stranger. For some reason people hate on Mystery around here (hence the downvotes), but the Mystery method is the most effective and easiest to learn. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 03:32 PM |
| -2 | Negging is DumbNegging works only with very hot and coveted women just because no one ever negs them and that makes you different. That works most of the time, it's a good move with that type of women. You should not neg normal average girls, will not always work. Actually, not every neg is disrespectful. Some negs are playful in a way that they know you are kidding, but you still differentiate from others by being daring. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 05:48 AM |
| 1 | I got a bartender’s number.Nice man. Good that you had the guts to ask for it, that's progress! However, the way you asked for it could have been better. It can be perceived as a cringey bad joke if you don't have solid game yet, next time just tell her there that if she is interested in going out sometime, you can exchange numbers. If she agrees, then wait til the next day, she may even text you before you do if she is interested. Keep up! Hope she texts back. | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 05:10 PM |
| 1 | So close, lesson learnedWell, dating coworkers is not usually a great idea. You can fuck yourself up or it can end up great too. I once dated a coworker that was also my housemate lmao but it was fabulous, we were together literally 24/7 and we felt very comfortable that way. We broke up after I left the company to work in a different city, but had I stayed, we probably would still be together. You took a long shot and it initially worked, good. She may have had second thoughts and that's why she canceled the date. Goo… | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 06:39 AM |
| 3 | What to do after successful first date from cold approach, but no dates in near future?Number 2 is not good cause she may lose interest if you just wait. You can't miss the chance if you know that she probably liked you. Number 3 would look rushed and sort of desperate. Do it only if she suggests it, and don't accept right away. Number 4 I'm personally not a fan of facetiming with girls I just met. And doesn't sound like a fun date #2 tbh. Number 1 is the best one. She probably told you the truth and just couldn't meet you again that weekend. So just text her again normally as if … | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 05:27 AM |
| 1 | How to talk to this girl from Tinder on IG?No conversation with a girl will last a week if you dont take her out quickly, specially if you got her from Tinder. You gotta be fast and go out ASAP or she will match with other guys that will do and you will just be another one left behind. Edit: just analized your post again and you didn't mention you matched. Tbh, most girls on Tinder who write their IG down are just looking for followers. And it's also hard to be succesful with cold approaches via IG (because shit tons of guys do it). But … | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Should you ever wait on a girl to make a decision about you?Keep hanging out as normal. You literally are describing a relationship, you guys just don't have the label yet. And that's fine. My 2 previous relationships never had the label and they would have been the same if they did. Give her time, she will bring it up whenever she's ready. And when that happens, just be cool about it. If you like her, try to not lose her over this | /r/seduction | 22/03/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | 25M I am going to lose my virginity this week to an escortI lost mine to an escort as well lol I was like 21. Not ashamed to say that lasted around a minute lmao. I'm honestly not very proud about first timing with a hooker, but it's ok. It helped me to break that psychological barrier, and after that point, I started to have sex often and I've gotten much better at it. It's a snowball after you start, you gain more confidence after each women you have sex wtih. Good luck and enjoy! | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 01:02 AM |
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