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| 1 | 16 year old girl 19 year old guy. Feels kinda weirdHonestly if it was 21/18 I wouldn't have an issue, its not necessarily the time difference but moreso the fact shes still pretty young thats bothering me. | /r/askTRP | 10/04/20 08:52 PM |
| 22 | To jack it or not to jack itIf you don’t want to have sex with this girl, you don’t need to have sex with her. I’d advise against beating off though. This is all personal experience but NoFap really does help, I find myself much more confident around people and especially women when I’m not beating my dick once every other day. It got to a point recently where I just forgot about masturbating | /r/askTRP | 14/03/20 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?Hadn’t thought of it like that to be honest. Still, personally my ‘mission’ is related to powerlifting, it’s not as if I’m always occupied as I can only train 2-2.5 hours a day. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?Personally, I didn’t think it was all too rude. This was the argument my friends made too. As far as I’m concerned, I saved us both time and left no mystery as to my feelings towards her. She can go on her way living her life. What would’ve been a kinder thing to say? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:43 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?Completely agree dude. Assholes do better because they’re doing what they want/believe in without a thought of how people will perceive it. True IDGAF is powerful. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?I related to that last sentence way too much haha. I’m nowhere near as confrontational or aggressive as I was when I first came here but I still wouldn’t be surprised if something I say pisses off some unit | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?I see what you’re saying. I’m a pretty mild mannered guy now, as much as I hate it when others say it; I can’t be bothered for bullshit anymore and give my honest thoughts. In the same way Greg Doucette calls people fat, I’m not going to attempt to weasel or sidestep the girl by saying haha must’ve been an error. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?In the back of my mind I was hoping this wouldn’t be the solution lol, I bounced from a group of people who hated once I started to do well to potentially another. I didn’t say the comment with any malicious intention, my justification for it was my time doesn’t need to be spent justifying why I do things so I tried to give a short reason that would also end things there. Maybe my ‘friends’ are just pussies idk | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?Ya man each to their own. I completely agree about the jacked comment though, as I get bigger and stronger I realise I don’t need to prove myself by being overly aggressive. Honestly one of the best byproducts of lifting. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:33 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else realise that they’re a bit of an asshole but not really care?I can see where you’re coming from. I’m still fairly young (19) so maybe as I get more experience I’ll realise I’m making a mistake. As of right now, everything is finally going good, I’m happier, healthier and financially better off than a lot of teenagers /young adults. I wouldn’t say I’m unnecessarily an asshole either, I just didn’t want to waste my time arguing with a girl about why I should follow her, I’m surprised she even had the balls to message me about it. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 11:12 AM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts are on not having kids?I imagine this will be a pretty unpopular opinion, but the idea of raising a child without a partner sounds pretty dope. I'm definitely missing some of the more sad/difficult parts of it from my fantasy but if my life really goes that way I wouldn't be too unhappy raising a kid or two on my own. | /r/askTRP | 26/02/20 02:44 PM |
| 1 | What can I do to not lose frame with attractive girls?Yeah dude you’re right fuck it. I’m overthinking it like I used to way too much. Fuckn send it and if it goes bad it’s not gonna affect me | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 12:22 PM |
| 0 | What can I do to not lose frame with attractive girls?Yeah I thought so tbh. If it just fixes with time that’ll be convenient lol. Anything I can actively do to help? | /r/askTRP | 09/02/20 11:58 AM |
| -4 | Field Report: Bus Stop Girl - did I react inappropriately to a red flag?I completely agree. I had intended to, but the first lonely thing just knocked me a bit. Bad experience in the past. Think I made it bigger in my head? | /r/TheRedPill | 29/01/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Trapped in a financial box by my MumAppreciate the reply man. Especially the lack of insults lol. It’s not so much an issue of lost time. Just a lot of jobs, especially ones for my age, enjoy having a flexible worker and when I say I won’t be able to do some hours due to training it removes me from the pile. Every session I do from now is with my coach, I’m planning on worlds in 2021/2022. But that being said you’ve opened up a couple avenues for me. I’m going to see about local odds/ends jobs available to work when I can until I … | /r/askTRP | 08/01/20 12:08 AM |
| -2 | Trapped in a financial box by my MumI got what I needed from someone that managed to not call me a faggot every chance he got. I find it funny you critique me attacking you but do it over and over again to me? Gonna take the post down. Just found it funny how you came at me yet call it out when I point out you’re a man let. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 10:40 PM |
| -6 | Trapped in a financial box by my MumLmao Jesus Christ I swear half this community is genuinely insane. I have time to pursue powerlifting yes, forgive me for prioritising it currently whilst I’ve not got as many responsibilities as when I’m 30. I have time to work but due to the rigidity of both my schedules the time doesn’t always align. Like I said. I’m still looking for one that doesn’t mind me not being as flexible as the average 19 year old. But sure man, you are a big alpha male for saying faggot 3 times. If you want your ad… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 09:17 PM |
| -8 | Trapped in a financial box by my MumI quite literally said I’m going to actively keep on looking and id appreciate if I wasn’t told her roof her rules. You demonstrate such a big issue with TRP which is why we get grouped up with Incels. “Quit being a pussy” is useless advice. You are not a drill sergeant, they only work in person due to fear, I am not afraid of LucidBananna. Be constructive next time yeah? Nice one. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Only Enjoy First Time SexDude I get this exact thing. I don’t even mean to, it happened some girls who showed promise but I guess it’s just Post Nut Syndrome? | /r/askTRP | 29/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Passive-Aggressive comment at meeting - how to handle?He could’ve just been making an off hand comment to his friend. But either way, you did the right thing. Ignore it. Continue with your portion of the meeting but don’t make the same mistake. If he publicly calls you out that’s a different story. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Passive-Aggressive comment at meeting - how to handle?I wouldn’t really call that a shit test. But yeah, just ignore it. Try not to do it again though as you may have looked like you didn’t know what you were talking about. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/19 12:51 PM |
| 1 | You ever not escalate because they’re too nice?“Reeee sidebar” behave yourself. Let me rephrase your last sentence “congratulations you’ve made a female friend”. Not everything is beta and alpha, Jesus Christ | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 0 | You ever not escalate because they’re too nice?I’m not searching for validation, I could care less if people here do it. It was interesting to me as it’s not happened before. Stop with all the chad bullshit too, you sound like an incel | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:45 PM |
| -1 | You ever not escalate because they’re too nice?Well maybe you should :) | /r/askTRP | 18/12/19 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Everything here finally clickedI’ll give you a full rundown of what most days look like, I don’t follow a strict diet and try an IIFYM approach. Breakfast: 4 eggs, 4 crumpets and a banana Snack 1; 2 mini pizzas (270cals each) and a bag of crisps Lunch: a big ass bowl of chicken and pasta (400g chicken) OR subway if I’m at university, subway is usually easy 1000 cals from a foot long spicy Italian cheese and toasted Snack 2: 2 more mini pizzas, back of crisps and 2 crumpets Dinner: whatever has been made really, usually someth… | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 05:43 PM |
| 3 | Everything here finally clickedHoly shit. Yeah fair enough I can’t agree with you enough on the last couple paragraphs. Definitely as well about the wholesome cocky mode, that’s where I’d consider I reside, an asshole because I’m so up my own but I’m self aware enough to be charming (i hope). You should definitely put that in a post though. I remember my first few posts interacting with TRP just made me think it was a bunch of fat dudes over the internet being assholes. TRP can definitely be wholesome too. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How did I handle this shit test?Got an example? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 11:57 PM |
| 3 | How did I handle this shit test?I’m not too sure about her past as it’s limited. But yeah I’d agree with you on the last bit, I think it’s the first time I’ve been uncertain on how I did with a shit test if I’m honest. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 11:57 PM |
| 2 | Any of you seen r (forwardslash) pinkpillfeminism ? Shit is the manifestation of double standards and possibly straight up the proof TRP is absolutely right about women. Disgusting. Any thoughts?Eh let them do whatever they want dude. If a girl pulls some feminist bullshit just next. Not a big deal. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 10:46 PM |
| 4 | LTR keeps talking about her exWhenever someone says shit like this I always find it funny to just reply "Good thing I didn't ask" and move on. But yeah dude shes not over him. As I read on this sub the other day (I will paraphrase) "The opposite of love is apathy". | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 10:21 PM |
| 3 | Found out my girlfriend dated a 45 year old guy when she was 25. Is that a red flag?Should your partners sexual and romantic history bother you? Unless its abhorrently long or contains your Dad; no. | /r/askTRP | 09/12/19 10:11 PM |
| 29 | Chance I’ll see my ex with her new boyfriend today. How to act?“The opposite of love isn’t hate. It’s indifference” might actually be the smartest thing I’ve ever read on this website. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 06:52 PM |
| 7 | I take way too long to respond to girls messages, is this filtering out the flakes or is it causing girls to lose interest?What could you possibly be doing that means you consistently don’t have the ability to reply for 12 hours though? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 06:55 PM |
| 10 | I suspect my ltr is cheating on me, how do I approach it?No evidence but you ‘suspect’ it? Are you being insecure or is there a genuine reason? Gonna need more here | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | How to make a girl lose interest without leaving a bad opinion?I’m fine with all of that except moving gyms. I really don’t want to leave it lol | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | How to make a girl lose interest without leaving a bad opinion?I really don’t want to leave my gym. It’s the best one in terms of price/location/people. Fuck. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Is she losing interest ?You seem way too invested in one girl. Is there any reason for that? Personally if someone spoke like that to me I’d just leave her to her own devices. Unless there is some hidden reason to keep her around just go onwards and upwards to the next man. I’m really trying to be nice about this but “I feel as if she makes no effort in our conversations” is the most feminine sentence I’ve seen. Let her make no effort and just ghost it man. Come on, you’re better than that. | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 12:48 AM |
| 11 | Is she losing interest ?Your friends are assholes. What kind of a man sends a woman a video of his friend making out with someone else? Get some friends that aren’t trying to tear you down first. As far as the rest, why do you ‘limit’ yourself to 3/4 texts a day. Don’t ignore someone just to seem busy, actually be busy. Opposite to what a lot of people here preach conversations over texts can be good and especially useful for maintaining interest if someone lives far away. Absence makes the heart grow fonder yes, but e… | /r/askTRP | 05/12/19 12:33 AM |
| 3 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?I’m sure some was BS but I doubt he’s a model citizen lol | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?Honestly despite everything I might do this. The only opinion I’ve formed of him has always had an outside voice shouting in. If he’s still an asshole then at least I’ll know that was my call. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:02 PM |
| 2 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?That’s what was making me think I’m caring too much. Thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?This is what I’d thought too. I’m sure some of the stuff I’ve been told was lies as it sounds straight out of Lethal Weapon, but the few times I’ve been near him he’s acted fucking insane; trying to break in, hurling abuse whilst stood outside in the early hours of the morning. Stuff like that shows at least a fraction of what I was told is true. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 12:00 PM |
| 4 | I want to meet my biological Father just to intimidate him, am I doing the wrong thing?I’m sure some of it is just lies to compound the bad image I already had of him. But personal experiences like a couple I’ve listed really pushed me to thinking maybe some of the stuff is true, the few interactions I’ve had with him he didn’t sound too friendly or nice. | /r/askTRP | 02/12/19 01:03 AM |
| 4 | Should I break up? What are your thoughts?I was in a very similar relationship that ended and sent me here. We'd see each other once a week if that. Imo thats not enough for a healthy LTR, maybe a casual thing but if you're wanting to build a longer relationship you need to do more things. However, just inviting her over is kinda boring. You claim to be on 'your purpose' but you invite this girl over to come and bang at your house? If I always had a girl just inviting me over to her house to bang I'd just think she does nothing with her… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys address plates and women in general?Ah yes. You just fuck too much to remember someones name. Just keep their names saved in your phone. If its a 1-1 situation you rarely need to actually use someones name, no need to distinguish who you're talking to. | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best way you’ve ever been rejected?Honestly I really don't care if someone turns my advances down. I used to a lot before I found this place but finding something you love or want to do with your life really puts things in perspective. For me personally I want to compete in the IPF, however if I'm out (which honestly rarely happens anymore) and I get rejected by a girl I don't really care. I think you're attaching an idea of happiness to these random girls, personally I'd recommend not attaching happiness to anyone except yoursel… | /r/askTRP | 30/11/19 01:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you help someone that just doesn’t fucking listen?Appreciate that reply man. I can relate as I even remember getting those feelings. I’ve not patched things up but we didn’t end badly. My main concern for him is things ending badly and knocking him off course, I’ve just barely been able to drag him into the gym with me lol | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 05:00 PM |
| 1 | How do you help someone that just doesn’t fucking listen?I just can’t understand why he’d want to go through it again | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you help someone that just doesn’t fucking listen?It sucks man. I know what he’s feeling but just can’t help him. Wish me luck when it happens again lol | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you help someone that just doesn’t fucking listen?It sucks man. I know what he’s feeling but just can’t help him. Wish me luck when it happens again lol | /r/askTRP | 25/11/19 10:58 AM |
| 2 | How to get up earlier?It’s actually the contrary to that, I sleep nearly 10-11 hours a night and have done consistently for a while. I wasn’t aware of the hormone release though, I’m going to try and time it with that tonight | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | How to get up earlier?I’m currently in my first year at university. I live a few minutes away from the campus, only am required 8 hours a week of taught lessons, 7 hours of which are in the afternoon and evening. There is 1 9am lecture I semi consistently miss which is part of the reason I’m wanting to get my sleeping in check. As far as work, I work a fairly flexible rota in a local gym and so usually end up covering the graveyard shifts (8pm - 12am) most nights. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 04:15 PM |
| 2 | How to get up earlier?I’ll look into getting one of those, thanks mate | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | So I’m a skinny bastard trying to get muscular. What’s a good routine to follow?Go to r / GainIt for more in depth answers. As someone else said; 5x5 and EAT like you’ve never eaten before. | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Should I break up with my LTR?Imo it just saves yourself trouble down the line, opens up better potential possibilities that wouldn’t be there if he’s hindered by a relationship. | /r/askTRP | 18/11/19 01:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR admited to kissing a girl while drunk before we met. Am I thinking too much into this?Just to be clear 100% clear; not a big deal dude. You’ll survive. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 10:04 PM |
| 1 | LTR admited to kissing a girl while drunk before we met. Am I thinking too much into this?To me it doesn’t sound like that big of a deal. When you say never expected her to do such a thing you make it sound like something was wrong. She kissed a girl in a club when she was probably drunk, if she’s a bit bi nothing’s wrong, just get used to being pegged and you’ll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | LTR admited to kissing a girl while drunk before we met. Am I thinking too much into this?Might want to ask yourself why it’s bothering you instead of whether you’re justified in being bothered (which you probably aren’t). | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:52 PM |
| 5 | Assholes seem to ALWAYS get ahead in the world, and us "nice guys" are the ones who suffer. I'm looking for a self-help book or video by an asshole; a type-A personality that shows you how to grab life by the balls and compete with the other assholes in this asshole game called LIFE?This might be the first genuinely funny Reddit comment I’ve read | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Should I break up with my LTR?You said you’re gonna be breaking up anyways? Why not end it and relieve the stress you’re under now. I know how you feel, but you said you know it’s going to end anyway? So what’s the point in wasting more of your time? I’m a little confused on the thinking behind that. | /r/askTRP | 17/11/19 09:45 PM |
| 3 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?Dom Mazzetti? | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:10 PM |
| 3 | What does it feel like to have achieved a top physique?Maybe SARMs? When I saw that shoulder I insta thought gear but if he’s talking about not real gear it’s likely SARMs or some pro hormone. | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 12:07 PM |
| 6 | How not to be boring?You’re probably bombarding them with information. Just take a step back and don’t take it too seriously, let things flow. Also maybe discuss similar interests or ask about theirs | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 9 | Post from the front page of Reddit where a poor confused married guy has no idea what is happeningA lot of men still deep in the blue pill actually do share that ideology in the first paragraph. To be honest, it’s sad a lot of people are okay with “good enough” anyway, without spouting too much inspirational drivel; why not be the best you can be? | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/19 11:49 PM |
| 11 | Does my LTR deserve to know all my business?I'd be careful saying "or I am leaving you". Sounds... not normal? Like someone has tried to sound as normal as possible but failed. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I lost it, need some guidanceYou seem mega focused on girls. Focus in on yourself, how this job makes you feel and then work up from there. If the isolation from the city is making you unhappy then fix that, personally I live and breath cities and so I know living and never being in the city would slowly drive me crazy, sounds similar to what its doing to you. Just evaluate what you want outside of sex and then go about getting it. Without getting too deep, what makes you truly happy? On the inside? What makes you feel sati… | /r/askTRP | 10/11/19 09:12 PM |
| 3 | "Home wrecking"‘Being her alpha’ dude you’re taking this Alpha Beta thing too seriously. The idea of taking your friends girlfriend turns you on but you see it as morally repugnant, but you’re trying to justify it by saying he’s jealous or some shit. If you want to have sex with this girl then have sex with her. Be aware of the consequences that you WILL receive, and if you still want to do it then be ready for them. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:29 PM |
| 10 | Negged by alpha milf . How should I respond ?Just say something like “how about I come over and show you how I use it tonight?”. She’s not an “alpha milf” nor did she “neg” you, it was a shit test in which you shit the bed. Recoverable if she just wants to fuck but idk the situation. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 11:27 PM |
| 27 | How to punish my LTR sexually?Lol dude go to a sex subreddit or something, I’m not gonna tell you how to fuck your girlfriend | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What is YOUR definition of AlphaLol I’ve seen the term thrown around so much as if there is some ideal personality we should all strive to be, the term annoys me. It might be just an idea to you or someone who’s been here a while it isn’t always perceived that way by newer guys. | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 04:48 PM |
| 15 | Why am I a laughing stock?You're insecure and weak. People pick up on that and see you as easy laughing points to look good in social terms. Don't take shit from anyone. Lifting will help with that. p.s. literally nobody cares if you're a virgin, its in your own head. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Shit test? Or new guy got her attention or possibly both?You've been so focused on not looking needy you've cunted yourself. Theres a difference between not looking needy and looking like you're not into the person. You want your attention to be something she craves, but not something she'll never get. Otherwise whats the point in pursuing you? Next time show some form of push like someone else said. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 10:24 PM |
| 4 | What is YOUR definition of AlphaGod I fucking hate the term Alpha. Its a stupid term. There are some primal things at work when it comes to social success which is why qualities such as Assertiveness are seen as 'alpha', but its nowhere near as important as people make out. To answer the question. Someone who is comfortable enough with themselves to not call themselves alpha or even think of it. Someone who is able to try at things and overcome problems without complaining are what I'd consider the most 'Alpha' terms but I'd m… | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Good financial habits to get into before full blown adulthood?Lol I’m not really a big party guy. Drinking really affects me and the gym too much to be a viable hobby | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 12:52 PM |
| 9 | What it is that seperates the light-hearted, dgaf, easy-going dudes from the weak-framed, emotional beta dudes?Confidence doesn’t come from knowing you’re better than everyone. It comes from not needing to prove yourself as you’re comfortable with who you are. The guys who seem easy going are the most confident as they’re comfortable with who they are and happy, everyone likes confidence including the girls. The latter of your title always reek of trying to prove themselves as better and care too much. My favourite saying to this is “its not that deep.” . | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 01:22 PM |
| 32 | Need advice on how to proceedI’m on mobile so this formatting will be shit. “I was scared she would leave (and never return)” okay? And if she does leave are you going to drop dead and never be happy? She’s been over 3 times dude. It’s not that serious. If she leaves and never wants to come back let her, you being a coward is depriving you of a definitive answer here. However, from the rest of it it sounds like she doesn’t want it. Or is super nervous. | /r/askTRP | 31/10/19 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Breakup Sex; should I do it?Lol. Speak morally correct but act the complete opposite, sounds about right | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Breakup Sex; should I do it?Yeah I see your point. At the time of writing I lacked a better word. I'm just apprehensive due to having past experiences with people who get too attached. I value my space above any amount of women. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 10:01 AM |
| 31 | How to start living?You don't sound in a good place at all. Your 'lower back pain' is probably soreness. You sound depressed and without direction. TRP can help you get yourself out of it, but nobody can do it for you. I'd genuinely go talk to someone to see if they think you might have depression too. There are some things you can fix now. Don't complain about being without energy if your diet is shit. Eat like shit and you'll feel like shit. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and understand that you're going to need… | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | question for closing with former plateIf she comes over then good for you. If she doesn’t then it quite literally couldn’t have less of an effect on your life. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:30 AM |
| 33 | Has anyone gone God mode?Dude everything was cool until that last sentence. Reading it back after that you sound kinda manic to prove yourself. Get your shit together. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:29 AM |
| 2 | How to deal with girl with bf type thing who wants to fuckPlease, use punctuation. If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If you don’t want to, then don’t. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:27 AM |
| 2 | I’m 16 and need help with working outFind a gym you have freeweight access and follow a beginner 5x5 program. Compounds are the basis of everything. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:25 AM |
| 3 | How to respond if a girl disrespects your dick?Lol dude leave her to it, NEEEEEEXT | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:24 AM |
| 25 | Should you pretend to be a beta male at work?No. You should be able to talk to someone without trying to have sex with them. If someone is attracted to you and you don’t want to pursue it you don’t have to even acknowledge it, they’ll get the picture sooner rather than later. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What is the endgame for redpilled men?Dude. Do whatever you want and what makes you happy. You find a woman that you genuinely like? Don’t fuck it up and develop onetis and just have fu with it whilst lowkey screening for negative qualities. If she has none & you want to then LTR that bitch. You want to sit as a celibate monk in a shack on a Tibetan mountain? Go fucking do it. Find what makes you happy in life and do the fuck out of it. We’re not here to tell you how to live your life. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 12:00 AM |
| 13 | When woman leave LTR,does she always has another man?I was the same age when I came here. My girlfriend of years broke up with me, 3 months later is on holiday with one of her Male friends. Dodged a bullet imo. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/19 06:15 PM |
| 0 | I keep fucking myself over in universityTrue. Had I seen this post that's advice I would've given myself. I have loved the subject I study since Year 7 (around 8 years ago for the Americans) and its something I'd want to pursue a career in. I guess "Quit being a bitch" is applicable advice here lol | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 11:45 AM |
| 2 | What does TRP think of standing up for the unpopular guy?I always thought a stronger stand alone would’ve been more attractive. Obviously that’s not what caused my actions but the ghost did actually surprise me. Not pursuing her or anything just a little weird. | /r/askTRP | 19/10/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Creating comfort out of trxtsTalk to them, get to know a little like you would if they were in front of you. Try to use that to eventually set up a date as you can only do so much over text. Don’t press it though, maybe wait a few days of general chit chat and then ask them if they want to go out or something. Keep it light and not too heavy, nobody wants to text about their deepest fears. | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 01:47 PM |
| 8 | How to get interest/stay in set with young girls?How old are you? A lot of my female friends think older guys approaching them is creepy. One thing I do find funny is it only becomes really ‘creepy’ if they’re around their friends. Like being on display makes them act differently. | /r/askTRP | 16/10/19 08:34 AM |
| 3 | How to address girl give number but not replyingImo it’s just one of those. The My Maddening Mind podcast has an episode on this about the manager at express still being alive or something. Sometimes things go great and they just flake. They either don’t find you SUPER attractive & are just busy or just genuinely aren’t feeling it. It varies a lot. | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 12 | How many of your approaches are based on soley thinking a women is attractive vs women who are attractive and have given you some sort of IOI?One thing from The Red Pill I found invaluable was the confidence. True inner self worth makes me feel like I belong everywhere. I heard someone on a TV show once say “you stroll through life like men want to be you and women want to sleep with you”, mildly arrogant yes but very accurate too. If you find the woman attractive, go talk to her man. Worst case scenario is you get blown out and don’t get to go back to hers. Best is you get the slobber nobblin, green goblin double hand gurk gurk in so… | /r/askTRP | 15/10/19 09:47 AM |
| 8 | What do I do now girl asks me for my kik account but I don't have itLmao dude you're looking WAYYY too much into this. How was creating a Kik account smooth? You could literally just say you use WhatsApp/Snapchat/even a text. You got yourself into a hole. Just use WhatsApp dude. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?I’d just let them do it. Entertain them for future yeah but don’t have sex with that woman. Some women who are well adjusted will just see it as a drunken mistake and nothing more, others who aren’t so mentally sound will say you took advantage of them and boom you’re a sex offender. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 14 | Making moves on drunk/tipsy women?In my opinion, unless you’re also drunk. Don’t fucking approach and try to fuck drunk women. That’s weird dude. Morally it’s fucked too, not worth potential prison time for a quick fuck. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:14 PM |
| 1 | What's a good way to plan your schedule?I don’t have a strict schedule, I kind of fell into my current routine. However I can say it massively depends on who you are. Do you work full time? Go to school? Have kids? A lot of that will impact how your day goes, and thusly how much freedom you can have with timings in your schedule. I’ve always thought the idea of splitting time into ‘units’ of 30 minutes like in About A Boy would be a good way to plan it. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 01:09 PM |
| 2 | [SCREEN] How can i escalate from there ?Ohhhh shit lol my bad. I thought sweat meant literal sweat and it was one of those flirty excuses to get you over. In that case I’d go over, maybe a bit of general chat and see if you can get her on a date. If the reason you were at hers was completely platonic you’re gonna have a lot of groundwork to do in terms of flirting/escalating. If you’re not feeling it ask her out on a date to get more comfortable around her. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 11:36 AM |
| 4 | [SCREEN] How can i escalate from there ?First one, but I’d rephrase to “When’re you free for me to come and collect it?”. Sounds less like you’re asking permission and more you’re trying to arrange a date | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 11:28 AM |
| 62 | Can't get into my head that women view me sexuallyThis seems to be the issue most non red pilled guys have. They think rejection somehow = a lifetime of unhappiness. It’s odd, personally I think it’s because of a low inner confidence that they allow to be bullied even lower after some random girl doesn’t want to fuck them. | /r/askTRP | 14/10/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Overtly setting/reinforcing boundariesFor this one incident, I’d leave it as it looks like you’ve dwelled on it too much. As someone else said, stamp out the behaviour next time it happens with anyone, not just a LTR. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 08:03 PM |
| 6 | Pros and Cons of LSD?I feel like you think LSD will cure your social awkwardness. I don’t know too much about it since the idea of changing my mindset isn’t something I’m fond of. I don’t think it will change you completely. I’d start adopting healthy habits/hobbies such as reading and exercise. Don’t rely on a drug to pull you out of being socially inept. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/19 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Not quite. Steroids are not good nor bad. They're a compound. However, when I'm natural and claim natural, to be accused of steroids is to be accused of cheating my audience about progress attainable naturally inside 13 months. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?I agree I Red Pilled wasn't the best way of putting it. But this place is a haven for self improvement right? What do you mean "This is what females do"? Gain followings on instagram and pursue careers in fitness? | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:47 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Its mainly done through engagement. Getting the first 500-600 is the toughest part imo. Find your group, in my case it was teen body building/powerlifting and start to follow those guys. Comment on their stuff and begin to cultivate a friendship and then continue to do the same with others. I'm not saying befriend everyone in your industry. But when I post I get around 10-15 comments inside half an hour which is great for getting my posts seen by more, for some reason this makes your posts more … | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?I'm not really sure if that would be welcomed here, by all means I would be happy to, but I'm not sure too many people would be interested. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?I wouldn't say interest. Politely, she looks like a goblin. But she's quite a kind person usually, ying and yang in the couple. I think he feels threatened as he used to be significantly stronger than me too when I was terribly skinny. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:43 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?I'd like to avoid a fight as I can imagine the fallout this guy would cause me, especially since you mentioned it would look like actual roid rage. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:40 AM |
| 8 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?"You look like a girl can rob you" made me laugh due to its accuracy. I think he's definitely begun to notice my social rising as well as my social media presence increasing and its trying to keep me grounded with him. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:39 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Yeah that seems to be the consensus. I am actually planning a cycle of LGD, I'd prefer if nobody here tried to talk me out of it as I know its dangerous but its something I hope would help advance my career. I'd love to see his reaction of me once I begin that. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Removing him would probably involve the removal of some friends I know want me to do well and go out of their way to support me, its gonna be tough to get him out but keep them. Next time I have this happen again (which it 100% will) I'll try going the calmer route. But I'm glad you understand my frustration. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Another few people have mentioned it, I'm gonna read about it at some point today. I think I get the general idea though. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:33 AM |
| 16 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?She looks like Peter Kay in a wig. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?I'm gonna read up on that, its not something I've come across before. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:32 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?This is sound advice. I honestly think I might try this before instantly cutting off as half my group of friends stand by my side until kingdom come, removing this guy would involve removing some friends I hold dearly. I think I'll give this a try and see if the response is any different. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Yeah thats what I'm planning on doing. I've made a couple friends via instagram but I'm still waiting to have the means to visit them to see what other people like me are doing. Good to be so aware at 18 tho lol, you're gonna do good in future | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:27 AM |
| 14 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Luckily for me, I'm not as someone else said a Social Retard. In the very early stages I tried to show people towards TRP but then soon realised that its not something you can be shown by a friend, you need to have an eye opening experience as I'm sure many of us had here. Until that mostly people brush it off as internet bullshit, which is why I no longer try to introduce my friends to it. | /r/askTRP | 09/10/19 11:26 AM |
| 3 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?When typing it out that did actually occur to me. But the way he was attempting to convince others of it being the truth makes me think it was just malicious jokes. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 10:41 PM |
| 44 | Is it normal for old friends to begin to hate on you once your Red Pilled nature becomes apparent?Thank you for reaffirming that. People who want the best for you are notoriously hard to find in my experience. | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I survived a car crash, but not my manhood.I can’t comment exactly as I’ve never been in such a situation that would cause PTSD, which it sounds like you have. But, like a lot of other people said; dude, you survived. You camped out like Bear fucking Grylls and was able to provide for you and your gf. She’s helping you get back to where you were, she wants you to be the guy you were before the crash just as much as you do. Nobody was hurt, it was a shitty accident and you did the absolute best you could’ve in that situation, time should … | /r/askTRP | 04/10/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?Yeah completely dude. Gotta just figure out if this is something that’ll continue or whether we can sort it out. It’s only been plate for about 3 weeks , but I’ve known her since I was 2 so I know her pretty well, just never seen her act like that before. & yeah, we just kinda bounce between whatever. Weigh is KG, height is Ft and Inches, speed is Mph, temperature is Celsius. Think we just pick and choose what we want to go for. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:54 PM |
| 2 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?Yeah it wasn’t a huge deal until she acted the way she did. I agree zero tolerance to some things, especially at such an early stage. If the attitude isn’t dropped then I’ll have my answer but women (and men sometimes) will occasionally lose their shit, especially when something bad happens that she wouldn’t of been able to blame anyone for. I feel that last part. Italy drive the same as you Neanderthals and so I was either going 20mph to be sure I was right or just getting everything wrong and … | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?That’s probably what I’m going to do. The main thing that annoyed me was just how she acted, with trying to hurl insults and curse at me. I know she was wrong and I think she does too, I have a feeling her feelings of anger because I didn’t stick with her and attempt to pin it on this girl. I’ll see how she acts tomorrow and if it’s a similar tone to this morning/yesterday then I know what I’m going to do. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?She’s calmed down a bit now, at least she’s stopped hurling insults and cursing. I’m not sure this is something I want to deal with every time we disagree in future however. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Plate/potential LTR blew up at something that was her fault. Red flag to eject?Exactly what I thought. Not too sure it’s worth trying to fix either due to the time frame. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/19 02:34 PM |
| 3 | 10 Things I Have Learned From Female Nature In my 4 year red pill JourneyI’d say the first 4 are basic principles within TRP. Latter ones are well fleshed out though. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/09/19 05:25 PM |
| 2 | I suck at escalating outside of dancingThat actually makes perfect sense. That’s what sometimes happens when I’m in a loud place but obviously it’s never been intentional. Thanks brother. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | Turning a long term friend into a plate?Yeah I think that first part would be a major downfall for me here. I phrased the second poorly, I’m not going to go around and now tell everyone I used to know how non blue pilled I am, just if I was in this scenario with another potential plate that I used to know I’d want to be able to change the views previously held of me by someone who could add value. | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 09:34 PM |
| 0 | Cuckold sub has 246k members now, what the fuck is happening ?That’s why I choose to masturbate over female friends instead, much safer mentally. /s | /r/askTRP | 12/09/19 06:31 PM |
| 3 | Lets PURGE ourselves. What's the most beta thing you've done?Thought the photo of me and my girlfriend disappearing off of her feed was because her Instagram was glitched. Conveniently it would go down shortly after a disagreement or if she’d been a little distant that day. I knew what was happening but was too scared she’d leave me to confront her. Man I was bad. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 03:20 AM |
| 6 | Found wife planning on cheating. How to protect my assets?People will lie for the smallest reasons, she probably stands to lose a lot and so I wouldn’t be surprised if she lied to get her ass out. She could argue his abuse is what led to these chats/thoughts of cheating. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 05:35 PM |
| 3 | How the Red Pill impacted my in unfathomable waysThink you missed the point dude. The headphones thing was an example to show how far I'd come. The guy who gave this guy the headphones would never have stood in the guys face when he's starting to make threats. I've literally said in the post I was Blue Pilled Loser and probably started in a worse out spot than most of you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 12:08 PM |
| 3 | How the Red Pill impacted my in unfathomable waysI used to do the exact same thing lol, always text the moment a slight bit of interest was shown, jesus christ I was pathetic. I feel like you were me. > I remind myself that whatever the consequence is, in the end I will be okay. That line is probably the most important part. Do whatever you want, we are survivors by species and 99.999% of the time you're going to come out okay. Are you sure about 5% BF? That's like Mr Olympia levels of conditioning. If you are then major props to you. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 12:05 PM |
| 2 | How the Red Pill impacted my in unfathomable waysIf someone had told me what was going to happen around 5 months before it did I wouldn't of believed them and stuck to that relationship tooth and nail. Its something you've got to experience in order to really be engrained in you that they really don't mean anything. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How the Red Pill impacted my in unfathomable waysOh yeah for sure dude. I did get a little lazy with my training and nutrition but we're back on it now. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/19 12:00 PM |
| 9 | Guy thinks his girlfriend cheated on him with meIt really is. Harvey VS Louis is like night and day Red Pill VS Blue Pill | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 12:08 AM |
| 8 | Guy thinks his girlfriend cheated on him with meI point to Harvey Specter for the reason he doesn’t sleep with women in relationships. “It’s too much of a pain in the ass, as evidence by this moment here” | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 11:59 PM |
| 1 | New girl just wants sex and I’m trippingExactly dude. Thank you. I’m just gonna sit back and wait until we’ve sealed the deal. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 01:25 PM |
| 0 | New girl just wants sex and I’m trippingAs much as I appreciate all the people being nicer about it. I think I needed this. Thanks dude. Tinder to me is just a bit of a dick about until I move away in the fall, I don’t use it too actively but when I do it’s usually just because it’s funny to say dumb shit and see what people come out with. | /r/askTRP | 29/07/19 12:46 PM |
| 30 | Whiteknighted and threatened by frat boysThe macho attitude is great, and I respect OP for standing his ground and not backing down. But there’s a difference between bravery and stupidity, he’s gonna take on multiple guys at once? Nah, very few people can successfully accomplish that, not to mention OP said one of them was huge. If this ends in a big fight OP is in trouble. | /r/askTRP | 11/07/19 03:25 PM |
| 13 | I litreally don't know how to think or act anymoreDude. Stop obsessing, take things as they come. Don’t let anything rock you and react appropriately to everything. Your parents died? It’s okay to be sad, it’s fucking normal. A girl turned you down? Maybe even threw a drink in your face? Oh well. There’s always the next. The Red Pill taught me that focus on the self is the only way to truly be happy and content with life. People are attracted to healthy people, the girls are a byproduct of being a healthy happy Male. There is a lot of sexual st… | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 01:56 PM |
| 5 | Field Report - AskTRP essentially got me laidYeah hopefully I can add some variety. It was my first actual time attempting and applying the things I had read here, so I was playing close to my chest. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 06:01 PM |
| 8 | DiscretionAs someone pointed out, I’d probably lost her slightly before that Hulk smash of a slap she had on her. Acting giddy completely ruined the frame I had been attempting to build up with this girl. Great advice nonetheless, just wish I had read it before going out! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Field Report - AskTRP essentially got me laidHaha thanks dude! I’ve got a super long summer so I’m gonna do exactly that! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 12:08 PM |
| 4 | Field Report - AskTRP essentially got me laidFor the longest time I was super embarrassed haha. It took a girl leaving me to realise I was weak & then realising I’m in a pretty lucky position. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 12:08 PM |
| 11 | Field Report - AskTRP essentially got me laidI hadn’t looked at it that way, although from everything we know that sounds a hell of a lot more accurate. Happy she ejected my ass then since it probably wasn’t going anywhere after she saw me get near excited. Strange that a ‘quarantined’ subreddit is one of the most supportive, nice job Reddit. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 12:06 PM |
| 7 | Field Report - AskTRP essentially got me laidThanks! Yeah since I’ve had an especially long summer I’ve decided I may as well take a break as this will be one of the last times I get this opportunity. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/07/19 12:03 PM |
| 1 | Bit of an odd scenario for you guys to hopefully help me outI’m still pretty new to this. But my god, dude it worked?? What?? To me at least its mind blowing that worked. I guess just the confidence to say something like it made her more attracted to me? I need to really do this more haha | /r/askTRP | 07/07/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Can no loner access main sub on reddit mobile?Were you subscribed to it beforehand? It’s listed as an NSFW subreddit and so something in your settings should enable you to view it. You have to set it up on desktop though, it’s like “View NSFW subreddits”. I can’t check the exact text or where it is as my Reddit on desktop is fucked. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/19 04:18 PM |
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