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Keep texts that say she enjoyed herself, you may need it incase there are any allegations.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 09:24 PM
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Well that takes a lot of undoing because your mind has been conditioned in the system, you cant think about what you want to do whilst your in the system and a job. If you could do what you wanted to youd have to quit your job but if you could quit your job youd already be doing something else.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 10:00 PM
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I would like to coin my own phrase. These days, women want to be "Captain of the ship, but still have it be women and children off the boat first"
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 03:16 AM
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I believe that all game is a bi-product of being a winner/being your own purpose. Game is great but if you arent living a purposeful life then it's all built on sand.
/r/TheRedPill18/07/18 10:10 PM
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I agree with this. I would even go so far as to say you need about 1 years worth of your salary saved up for pure mobility and the ability to walk away.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 12:46 PM
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As i get older, I have really built confidence and frame through my beliefs (not religious). I can understand now why its men that built beliefs like religion, they were really ways of survival in a group setting, Men test ideas of survival and women test men on those ideas, hence why you might see some skinny guys that arent good looking with very hot women, pull all the PUA bullshit you want, but if its not backed by strong, core beliefs, at the first serious life shock, you will crumble, alon…
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 09:04 PM
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I love the rush hour quote: Not being able to speak is not the same as not speaking. You seem as if you like to talk. I like to let people talk who like to talk. It makes it easier to find out how full of shit they are.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/18 08:58 PM
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Most jobs exist because a business owner cant be bothered to do them, know this, and you can start finding your passion.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 08:21 PM
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Ythis is true, debt slavery is the real aim of rothschilds
/r/TheRedPill02/11/17 09:01 PM
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I think what people mean when they say just be yourself, is actually ...be confident IN yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 08:39 PM
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Ive been to the bottom, unemployed, playing games, masturbating every day for nearly a year. At some point i just realised theres no real other choice but to go up, got off my ass, applied to somewhere along the lines of 100 jobs, eventually got one, now only 4 years later, make 6 figures, have my own place, and admittedly not slaying as much as i should, but i do get some ass every now and then. My advice to you, stop sabotaging yourself, play the cards youve been dealt and move forward, hell i…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 08:35 PM
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Pussy should be seen more like a barometer of success
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 06:03 AM
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Im saying it gets paid only because people wouldnt do it without the money. Think of skiing, you PAY to ski, because its a fun activity on its own. You should find careers that you enjoy on their own, the money may or may not come, but atleast you did what you wanted to. People get into the trap of doing what they believe they have to do so that they can docwhat they want to. But if youre in the western world, with a half decent family, you can pretty much do what you want in the first instance.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 10:12 PM
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I thought id comment here because im in a similar job situation. Modern workplaces where an alpha male works 20 years in a job are basically gone. Modern workplaces are pretty much so passive aggressuve and politically correct aht people "appear" to be getting things done but really dont. The average office environment has slimy, slimy people who would stab you the first chance thy get. My advice is if you cant start your own business, look into contracting, it can be quite lucrative. Even thoug…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/17 02:10 AM
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I think traditional stereotypical alpha propogation is debunked by being two things: Confident and congruent.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 11:02 PM
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Men are on the clock to be awesome, women are on the clock to find someone awesome.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/17 09:39 PM
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I think the best epiphany i had was when a girl said "you cant plan things like that" when i was talking to her about dating in general. Their concept of all the logistics, planning, forethought, preparation that goes into dates to be able to generate "attraction" is that theyre not even AWARE of it, all they know is that theres no attraction when you dont lead, kino, escalate, plan logistics. Good lesson in, demonstrate do not explicate. You just have to be a guy who "gets it".
/r/TheRedPill18/08/17 09:47 PM
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I would also blame a few fuckheads who abused their women too, typical progression over the last 50 years has been to demonise the whole group for the actions of a few, in this case, men.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 12:34 PM
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This post could not have come at a better time. I thank you sir for this fine read and an in depth "next level" approach. It made me sad to read the truth of the red pill, this post helps me swallow it completely. Off to lifting, banging chicks, and sharing my real self with my bros and family.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/17 10:54 AM
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Totally agree, i need a lot of redpill advice in a feminised workplace where its very politically correct, its all great to be red pill to get some poontang and keeping your woman and all that, but how do we navigate the workplace?
/r/TheRedPill11/08/17 09:01 PM
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You have to go through some real shit to get to this level of acceptance. You have to let the boy go and that you are a man in this world.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 01:21 PM
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Best analogy for this is big dogs v little dogs. Big dogs are quiet, wheras little dogs yap around all the time.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 02:27 AM
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She may not have anything to offer, but she still wants the top 1%. Even if she is partying, if she met someone of a 1% caliber, she would settle down. When she actually does hit 30, she may either continue to search for mister 1%, or settle down with <1 %, OR complain why there are no good men around. Moral? Be or appear to be top 1%. A woman is on the clock to find someone awesome, a man is on the clock to be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/17 09:37 PM
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Hmm ive been on and off nofap. Almost like an experiment, i would conclude that fapping (atleast to high speed internet porn) affects your reward system to the extent that you get into this "meh" state and not getting off your arse because you got a whole bunch of interactive ladies waiting for you.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/17 09:48 PM
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Experimented with nofap and have been on and off porn nd tried it pornfree and nofap style. Personally if you were addicted to porn, nofap is the way to go to rewire your brain. Once youve rewired however, i think masturbation when youre not getting regular sex is fine, as long as the masturbation too doesnt become a bad habit.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 08:05 PM
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If youre not outright goodlooking / know them decently well poking their hips is not gonna add any value hoenstly. If youre already friendzoned it will just make them angry
/r/askTRP07/07/17 07:15 AM
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I get annoyed at work when they subtly dodge actual responsibility, in our politically correct society i cant say "you didnt do this" or ill be on the target list. Its so fucking double standard in the workplace nowadays. In my relationships ofcourse i never blame women, whatever you do, never accuse or blame women in a relstionship you are trying to get some pussy, it will dry her up like no tomorrow if youre not able to deal with their subtleties.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:58 PM
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I work with a lot of women directly on my floor and this happens almost every week, including the married ones. Its actually helped me maintain frame in my other relationships, cos bitches always be testing you.
/r/askTRP06/07/17 09:56 PM
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I think its more of a spectrum rather than a binary choice, girls are often into money, but they can also be into fun, energy and overall knowing that youre a good time. And being a good time for a woman can be hard if youve just got money going for you. Rmember rollos priority Game Looks Money
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 09:33 PM
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However red pill she might be (which is good, hence, from the horses mouth) this isnt reality. Put yourself in a female perspective. It is doing the wrong thing, but wheres the other choice? She cant wait forever for an alpha since her smv is declining. The sexual marketplace doesnt allow for both strategies. Agreed, this is good advice. Ultimately women are on the clock to find someone awesome and men are on the clock to become awesome. The time our smv peaks and declines are effectively switch…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/17 09:13 PM
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I think you and me are arguing about the same thing here except we are just seeing a female understanding the red pill, with the money women are making these days and the benefits society provides, she doesnt really need a provider. I actually believe this article displays an evolution of the red pill or even red pill from a female perspective.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 11:26 PM
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The thing is, it is basically the usual dont settle you go girl just masked in a different way. The article is literally saying dont settle, effectively betas should have nothing, not even relationship pussy. The quote about alpha widowed is that she literally never forgets her alpha fucks during her prime SMV years. It is quite actually saying never give the beta anything, even give the alpha some fucks here and there but if you have the choice, be single than even be with a beta. Will provide …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 10:52 PM
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Yeh, im finally starting to build some wealth by not spending as much, not hanging out at shopping centres. My friends pretty much buy all this new shit whenever they get a raise, im the other way, i work out ways to spend less so i can get out of this abominable thing we call 9-5
/r/TheRedPill04/07/17 09:00 PM
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They are but wired differently to men, which is the whole purpose of this whole subreddit. I certainly dont see any movements by women to try to understand men, only feminism came along to further female interests, not bring equality. Tadaaa
/r/TheRedPill01/07/17 03:49 AM
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Probably go to bed around 10pm. The key to disciplining yourself is sometimes not to always do an all out workout, but when you dont feel like going, just get your ass to the gym anyway, doesnt have to be the craziest workout. This way, when you do need to put in a good workout, the "getting to the gym" part will be easy. Most people do an all out workout, then dont go for like 5 days. Remember consistency is king, in the gym and in the world. You can still be social during the week, scheduling …
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 09:02 PM
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I want to basically retire at 40, i lived and partied from 20-24 so its all good. I recognise that as i age i wont be able to always work like this, but by around 35 id like to have as many options as i possibly can, financially and mentally.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 12:01 PM
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8-4 aint nothing. I do 8.30-6.30 every day with a 1hr commute on either side. Wake up at 5.30 to get a workout in then cook and meditate when i get home. Took a long while to build up to this point, but really all it is my friend, is just habits.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/17 11:46 AM
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Its not lying at all, its about boundaries, what has she done to deserve all this information about you? I relese information to girls very carefully only when they have earned it and in little drips and drabs. You dont just open yourself up completely, it keeps the mystery going as well.
/r/askTRP28/06/17 11:36 AM
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Agree and amplify kinda works here. when was the last time you had sex?" Just before i met you "if you are not gay then why don't you have a gf?"im bi sexual, polyamorous "how long till you graduate?" Next week, can you come to the party "why is it taking you so long? you don't even party or have a gf" none that you know about. Etc etc
/r/askTRP27/06/17 09:06 PM
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The overall respect a man was given just by virtue of being a man diminished because a few asshats ruined it for us all. Once a few idiots had done domestic violence and workplace harassed women, the script had flipped and men were now demons to be kept in a box. Plus also they dont need us as much for physcial things anymore i.e an average job back in the day was some fkn coal mine or factory getting black lung, which women simply did not and could not do.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 05:09 AM
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Lets face it, its really a form of validation.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 03:48 AM
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When i have coke now i can stay up for 24 hrs even after a long gym workout. Not even kidding since stopping coke if i have a single can i will be like a jackrabbit
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 03:21 AM
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They might not get approached all the time directly but they will have any number of orbiters and alphas ready to go on the carousel.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 09:17 PM
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Well the best example of being Alpha, and sums up your post, is kinda how little dogs bark all the time, wheras big dogs dont bark until they need to. Most people in life are kind of like this too, the ceo of a company isnt running around barking everywhere, hes quiet, brings out his teeth when he needs to, and this is the alpha you should strive for, dont start an uproar over petty bullshit, it makes you look insecure.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 10:40 PM
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I drive past 2 cemetaries going to work each day, good reminder as i effectively see a cemetary 20 times a week. Its slowly having a profound effect on me. Makes me also laugh at all the stupid shit people worry about.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 09:49 PM
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If youre talented enough to have such an app idea then great. But for those that arent genetically gifted or as talented such work ethic is a prerequisite. Im apalled by this sub, its really a blue-pill avoidance mindset to think that you can just coast along and a million dollar idea will just smack you across the face. Pretty much all the big names we know had this insane work ethic, kobe bryant, jack ma, jeff bezos, bill gates, tim cook even twitter founder was doing 16hr days. There are exce…
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 09:21 PM
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Not saying do that forever, but all the great names in business did do crazy hours of work to achieve what they did atleast over 5 or so years. Theres no denying that. Even Arnold.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 10:33 PM
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Well at 28 im on 6 figures after being unemployed only 4 years ago. I could only imagine what is possible if i really went hard at something. 100 hour work weeks seem wrong because to ordinary people it is. Work ethic like that is almost a prerequisite. Delude yourself whichever way you want. Im just here to tell it like it is.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 09:46 PM
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Caffeine or not, the work ethic has to be there, and yes, without it, you will just be another chode. Heres another example. Michael Jordan was known for practicing ridiculous hours everyday. Eventually this started to rub off on his teammates, making the Bulls one of the best NBA teams in history when Jordan was the leader. Before regular practice started, Jordan would practice at his house. Overtime, Scottie Pippen decided to join him. Pretty soon, most of the team followed suit. Through sheer…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 08:44 PM
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Agreed. Some really successful musicians loved what they did so much they went and stayed up for days to achieve what they wanted. Elon Musk even recommends 100 hour work weeks just because you'll achieve more. Its true, if you arent so immersed in what youre doing that you lose all sense of time and place, youre probably just another turd floating around. Get your reality checked often or await the fate of the average person deluded by their meagerness. If thats what you truly wanted, a simple …
/r/TheRedPill13/06/17 11:49 AM
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The thing is, treating them like shit works short term, what it does is it makes it appear like you have something other than what the usual AFC has going on
/r/TheRedPill11/06/17 11:55 PM
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Stop fapping and youll feel more rested with less sleep. Note i said fapping not actually getting laid. Chronic fapping leaves you feeling unrested.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/17 11:42 AM
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Depends what you do when you move out. If you can bring girls home and you do actually go out and use your room for social benefit, then great. If youre just going to sit and continue to be a social potato (which ive seen a lot) it wont matter. People think that if their external circumstance changes theyre going to be some totally different person, believe me, you arent.
/r/askTRP05/06/17 09:11 PM
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Theres something about sharing sad feelings that turn women off. Go deal with sad emotions with other men imo, funnily enough men are more sympathetic. Always keep the mystery going, she should never believe she understands you, this is what she means when she wants someone to "keep things fun"
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 03:47 AM
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Apologies, not ryan connor. Connor murphy. https://youtu.be/vOvwTWhVT24 Even better is one of the girls goe "for someone to love me etc the dad bod is better". Blatant example of giving sex to the AF and extracting committment from BB.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/17 01:37 AM
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Lookup connor murphy, he does a dad bod v fit bod experiment, open red pill truths displayed. Girls are asked who would they hug? Dad bod wins. Who would they one night stand? Fit bod. Fit bod guy then proceeds to get all their numbers. A reall open display of AF/BB. Urge people to check it out.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/17 09:53 PM
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Good mentality to have when you are lazy. These days theres not much external pressure for you to go get things done
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 03:36 AM
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The wire is a show you must watch. This quote is one of the best from this scene , https://youtu.be/N2JjP8ATI7s Remember "Deserve's got nothing to do with it". The reality is everything is relative. Complaining about your commute into work for a crappy job? Theres probably some person in africa travelling 20km by foot to get water. Complaints, are very, very relative.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 08:42 PM
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I am in this phase too, its like ive opened my eyes to what women are...but its like in the matrix quite literally. Neo : I can't go back, can I? Morpheus : No, but if you could, would you really want to? Neo isn't sure, so decides not to say anything. The only way to solve it is to take massive action, and enjoy it for what it all is, a fleeting moment.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:00 PM
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Ofcourse, these types of things are great. Im talking about the type of spending that just keeps your more trapped in things you hate, like you may hate your job, but you stay in it, because you ran up a higher debt to spend more. Im not talking about sustainable spending, thats great. Im talking about people getting wealthier and become almost asset/debt rich and cash poor.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:21 PM
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To me anyway, stuff and having things is overrated. What money buys is actually freedom, if you dont just spend it on useless shit. A lot and i mean a lot of people start to earn more and become more wealthy, only to spend more and cry poor. Keep it in your minds, money buys you freedom, dont buy into too much consumerism, its just there to trap you to get back into that cubicle. Use money as a conduit to live a life where you can wake up when you want and work towards what you want.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 08:33 PM
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" the vast majority of people are capable of having a normal discussion, irrespective of their views -" Im sorry, but just no. This is simply not true.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/17 10:55 PM
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Ive been both on and off nofap over the last year, with occasional 3 week streaks, and can without a doubt say porn affects your motivation in life very significantly.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 09:07 PM
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Jesus women have almost become like driving, be a defensive driver, dont be put in a crash situation no matter what they do.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/17 09:16 PM
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Yes!!! Instead of me going on dates where i felt like i was an entertaining mule boy i started saying fuck it, ill do what I want on the date, if she doesnt like then she can get fucked. This way atleast i can filter the ones i actually want, which really creates a better experience for both myself and the date.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/17 03:14 AM
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All game is derived from being on your mission. You can hack the orocess and focus on game only. But that is only a shell of what is possible.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 03:25 AM
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Women i find are attracted to particular belief systems, and you express that belief system through confidence in being able to walk away from the woman for those beliefs. This is essentially what game is, but its been perverted by the PUA industry, you can go directly for game as well, but if you dont have a core inner belief system that backs it up, youll still feel shallow. Women become very enjoyable when you hold true to your beliefs tell them to get fkd when they step out, and rpthey still…
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:28 PM
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I find Indian girls often have this superiority conplex, like they believe they are more traditional and somehow better even though they will go down on you just the same as any other girl.
/r/askTRP08/05/17 09:22 PM
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Self esteem is the balance of holding the two ideas that you need to both improve and be ok with yourself as you are now.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/17 12:20 PM
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Societies tend to care when they have enough resources for themself. People tend to be giving once they have plundered enough wealth for themselves. You may think guys like warren buffett etc are altruistic, but lets not forget all the polluting, backstabbing, warmongering, corrupt companies they invest in. Thats somewhat why being good doesnt really affect attraction from women. They would always choose guys with better resources (however high their smv will allow) than a guy whos good with les…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/17 10:04 PM
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Well, average is average, cos its... well... the average. The top 10 % of a society at any time has always been rare, nothing really new here. Most of redpill will, statistically, be average too.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/17 09:37 PM
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All game derives from being on your purpose and always, always maintaining that the girl is #3 maybe #2 in your life. The moment you portray to her that she 'has' you, the time bomb is ticking, or as is usually the case, has exploded.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 01:11 PM
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Theres a great quote from arnold and im paraphrasing here, "going through the pai barrier, the last 2 or 3 or 4 repetitions, thats what makes the muscle grow, if you go through the pain barrier you may get to be a champion, if you cant, then forget it"
/r/TheRedPill14/04/17 10:47 PM
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Im going to say that while this maybe true, there are far too many betas who are able to command in a typical leadership sense like in an office, but have no commanding presence in their relationship. Bypass this by developing a direct commanding aura within the relationship itself and youll save yourself the hassle of believing you have to command anything, especially in a shitty corpprate environment.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 09:39 PM
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Remove bullshit social committments unless its actually going to advance your SMV, family weddings of a distant relative are a waste of time unless you just get there for free food and leave.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/17 07:48 AM
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I think theres just a lot of entitled motherfucking guys too, just cos that ugly porno guy smashed that girl, doesnt mean you can do that in real life too unless you yourself are high value. Solution? Become high value. Average exists for a reason.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 09:35 PM
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This i believe comes from putting women #2 and you #1.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 08:57 PM
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Also its all about holding frame, a girl once pulled way from a kiss, then hours later was fingering her the same night
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:02 AM
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Should add, women avoid responsibility "when its not in their best interests", they will be perfectly responsible when kept in check with boundaries or vying for the attention of men.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 08:42 PM
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Ive concluded the simplest thing after a long while in the currents of life. Just do what you want. Seriously whatever is within your means, just go do it, dont apologise, dont wait up, dont theorise why, just go get it done. Dates have been so much more fun when i just do what i was going to do anyway, talk however i was going to talk anyway.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/17 07:11 AM
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I would also add, dont follow too many people, everyone has an opinion these days or believe they know they know the truth about a particular subject matter by reading a few dailymail articles. True experts in their field are very very few and far between, even amongst those who have "title" in corporate environments. Its very difficult to get good mentors, but if you like what you do and find one, never let go, otherwise, learn yourself, the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 10:57 AM
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Id have to agree, after working closely with a all women office being the only male, you spend 40+ hours a week and these women never, never own up to mistakes however large. They care more about your attitude and how you make them feel.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 06:34 AM
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Yes my apologies it was sun tzu
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 05:48 AM
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You cant talk less with nothing else to offer, its ok to talk less if you are swole af, run a business or have atleast some aura about you. If youre just some douche who makes average wage youre gonna have to sell yourself. It all comes back to congruence, its hard to pull off mystery when you dont actually have much else going for you.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 08:11 PM
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Agreed, i recently started an online business whilst also working full time, youd be surprised how many people are supportive of your efforts then go ahead and distract you when you say you cant make it to ridiculous events. Like lao tzu said "the dead bodies of your enemies will float by the river if you wait long enough". You have to think of lazy people like enemies, constantly wasting your precious time on this earth with pointless pursuits.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 01:57 AM
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Most girls will be ambiguous about it. One girl brought up the fact that she had never been to a hotel before, its not about asking, its about asking in a covert way, why do you think "netflix and chill" was invented, then when the time comes, make the physical move.
/r/TheRedPill09/02/17 07:57 PM
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Being alpha comes from having gone through so much adversity and coming out on top and winning. Dont expect to just read some knowledge and expect youll internalise said knowledge without some pain. There are plenty of fake alphas mimicking that behaviour but when you meet a true bona fide alpha, youll go back to your beta ways. Being alpha comes from having a passion or a vision for your life and sticking to it, come hell or high water.
/r/TheRedPill01/02/17 08:24 PM
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But lifting and being healthy cannot be bought. Being healthy makes you happier. Being fit and able to use the freedom that money buys is also big, and that takes hard work. It is why fitness is so highly regarded these days, it cannot be bought, it is through sheer will and determination that a fit and ripped body is created.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/17 02:39 AM
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Since moving jobs, i drive past two cemeteries , two on the way, two back, so 20 times a week i am reminded of mortality, and see fields of gravestones as i trudge through slow moving traffic. This has actually made a greater impact on me than even trp, the constant reminder that you will end up like them, and not to give a fuck what people, especially vapid bitches, think.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/17 04:05 AM
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The one i find the hardest from Rollo to digest is that women are not capable of loving a man truly the way he ought to be loved. Everytime i think they can, i remember this quote, i know it to be true but the beta in me keeps pulling me back to believe they can. Women ultimately do not want to win, they just want a winner.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:19 AM
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You need to have an AHA! Type moment, sounds like youre stuck in a bit of inaction, part of life is a grind which people dont really embrace. I was out with a tinder girl and said fk it lets try to kiss her . Made out did some grinding all within 1 hr of meeting a random girl.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 01:48 AM
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It is, "just be yourself" and it isnt. Some people dont know how to be themself. Some people dont know themself and what they want.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 06:52 PM
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My manager is about a 7/10, fit and slim. I got her to say she dreamt about me not coming back to work after the holidays. Simply by treating her like a person and not some unicorn. Probably would never have done this pre - redpill, so thanks trp for making my work life pretty easy, she even protects me and fights for me not to get shitty work, little does she know im functioning at about 50%. Now, if only we could do this with the girls we really like and All. The . Time.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:44 AM
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Just dont go nuts and say something like this at work.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:59 AM
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The problem is that youre expecting an external event (that is always changing) to make you happy, you have essentially wired your brain to think that things like women wwill make you happy, when you got it, your brain reverted to its habits (which is again thinking "im not happy now, there must be something else)...
/r/askTRP09/01/17 08:41 PM
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It is literally like fishing, not even joking. Game / looks /money / status / power are the bait.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/17 01:01 PM
1

The problem is, you can only act like you dont care if you are already a high SMV guy (whatever that means for you or your passions) . Skinny betas who play video games in their basement cant afford to not care, their game needs to be of a higher level.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 11:01 PM
1

Im just generally a happier person when not watching porn, enough said. Not so sure about fapping in moderation tho.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 09:00 PM
1

I want to save my brother, he married a landwhale for god knows what reason, became fat himself after marriage when running a marathon the year before.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:10 PM
2

Or a motorcycle, selling my first motorcycle was as painful as a breakup.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 08:08 PM
6

This is because an average job back in the day was some fkn coal mine getting black lung. If you have to put up with a bad wife too...well...
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 08:55 PM
6

Average by definition is .... well average. If everyone becomes chad then ....well that becomes the new average and there wilk be another level of chad to reach...its the way of the world...get better or die trying.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:58 PM
17

I like the red flag about previously dating a gangster, you will never measure up to the thrill of her having dated a true bona fide criminal.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/17 08:55 PM
15

However there is a randomness element to working with women, fuck up a huge project , no problem! Fuck up an email or dont cc her in...all hell breaks loose.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 08:02 PM
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The game is not rigged, thats just the belief of poor people, believing its rigged so they dont have to work their ass off to get what they want. Even if it is rigged, wouldnt you rather try than be some loser with no pussy at all?
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 12:20 PM
1

Ah yes, it is weird the number of posts this guy has.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 12:18 PM
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Yeh im going to have to disagree with this. I actually thought the OPs post was spot on. Taking things too personal is beta. You should take your OWN ACTIONS personal, it quite literally is and not take OTHER peoples actions personally.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 02:01 AM
1

I believe MGTOW types are basically guys who believe that "you cannot lose the game if you do not play... you cant win either".
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 08:01 PM
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Youre in the anger phase and need to grow out of it. If you go to dates with this anger pent up inside you, it will probably alienate women even more. Women are fun bro, especially when you can get them.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:56 AM
16

Its so ironic now that i think about all the stuff ive read about pua, game etc. It all came back to one thing " just be yourself", i hated that advice when i was less experienced, but in a way thats what it really boils down to, say what you want, do what you want. Game in my opinion is a bi-product of having an awesome life and a purpose youre on. Although it is possible to hack the system so to speak and get girls by learning game directly, far more effective and satisfying is to have game be…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 10:44 PM
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I agree, texting can be used either way, as long as its not overused or as a crutch for actual time together.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 12:42 PM
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This is pretty true, but i think some amount of texting is ok only when she initiates the texts.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 08:54 PM
2

This is so true, i believe "game" is really a biproduct of having a life that you enjoy living.
/r/askTRP18/12/16 07:58 PM
3

Its not even logarithmic, its like several logarithmic curves that end on plateaus that you need to push past followed by my more logarithmic curves
/r/TheRedPill17/12/16 08:42 PM
5

Some of those Chobani yoghurts have 18g of sugar per serve...
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 08:38 PM
15

I believe platos allegory of the cave is appropriate here. In summary, 3 prisoners in a cave, where they cant see anything except shadows from birth. They believe shadows are the real thing. One prisoner frees himself and sees outside world and comes back to tell the other prisoners that shadows arent real, the other two prisoners beleive he has gone mad from going outside the cave and when he tries to free them they violently kill him. Plato continues, saying that the freed prisoner would think…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 07:39 PM
2

I read some research that bullshit like celebrities and news aboit people we dont know or have ever seen are so interesting to us because they effectively have formed part of our tribe. Back in the day it would be the equivalent of hearing about a story that a second cousin or distant relative in another village had some juicy gossip or passed away. Case and point are stories about Kim and Kanye, I mean who really gives a fuck about Kim and Kanye, i really dont want to know or care.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/16 08:31 PM
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This is pretty true, sme really hot girls HB10s are stuck in a void of validation through facebook and instagram that they are actually easier to game than the 8/10. Its like the difference between game at level 1 and game at level 10.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/16 06:49 PM
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The biggest downfall with porn is actually the energy it robs you of, im like a jackrabbit when on nofap, and a sloth when watching porn.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 06:57 PM
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The truth, its not so much idgaf, but that i KNOW what idgaf about,i.e i feel better in who i am as a person when nofap and meditating.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/16 11:47 AM
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I know a lot will consider it pseudoscience but whenever i stop fapping i just get heaps of shit done and just feel on point wherever i go.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 09:00 PM
7

Been riding for 10 years and the motorcycle scare tactics are usually examples of stupid riders who believe they can get away with shorts and a singlet. Wear all the gear including shin height boots and dont do stupid things on regular roads and youll be fine
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 09:32 PM
1

Read mastery by robert greene
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 08:02 PM
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The reality is, is its hard to swallow the pill even when you read and are aware of it. What hope do you have of convincing someone who doesnt want to be saved? If it was easy, it would be done by everyone, this is why approaching women is still not the norm a decade after the rise of PUAs.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 08:11 PM
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Find a passion that becomes #1 above all else, even women. Sounds like you dont enjoy your job? And its just money at this point? A lot of game in my opinion is derived from having a passion and recognising that the passion is higher up on priorities than any women. I.e you will pass all the shit tests by subbordinating what a woman says to second on your priority, guys fuck up when women are made #1. Second is to really just take action. Go to bars, go to touristy venues in your city, there can…
/r/askTRP19/11/16 09:14 PM
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He got friend zoned pretty much immediately. Most of the time she could care less if you make her laugh even though thats what they all say. Free jokes are not going to attract anyone, theres a guy like this at work, he doesnt know when to be okay with being silent. Sometimes all the jokes are masking deep insecurities that all women pick up on. And i like it because it actually reflects sydney a fairly good deal
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 11:27 AM
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The greatest thing about passing this shittest is the amount of shit he can now get away with. Actually scratch that, ive just realised what ive written, women arent like that, they have selective memory and will continue to shittest even more.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:08 AM
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Yes, ive refrained greatly at work from expressing any views that trump might be good in some ways. Most sheeples put everyone into the GOOD and BAD basket pretty much based on whats fed to them by the media machine. I didnt even come close to saying even that "it remains to be seen whether trump can be food" because that would be seen by typical SJWs at work to be pro-trump, even though really its a rational viewpoint.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 10:27 AM
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I believe that game is a bi product of knowing you have options, i.e you will game at 100% efficiency when you know youre a bawce at life.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 10:24 AM
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Im saying that as a result of the internet people believe they know about a topic they have never taken action in or verified and struggled for themself to find out, approaching girls for instance. So they know a lot, can probably talk about it at length, analyse different points, but cant take action and suffer the pain of rejection or failure. Reading and expanding your mind is great, but its only one part of the puzzle.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 11:05 AM
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The flipside of the internet is that people believe they know about the entirety of a thing from reading one snippet while their zonked out of their head on their way to work.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 11:09 PM
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https://au.tv.yahoo.com/plus7/first-dates/
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 09:35 AM
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Its not real in its delivery. But the actions of the women are. Remember its not what they say. Its what they do lessons can be learned from that.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 06:20 AM
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I should really edit that line. What i meant was if you are strong in who you are and dont apologise for it. She will follow.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 06:10 AM
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I should really edit that line. What i meant was if you are strong in who you are and dont apologise for it. She will follow.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/16 06:10 AM
1

Federal elections dont have as much of an immediate impact as people make it out to be. They impact the lives of people slowly, for decades to come, through war, healthcare policy and budget setting. The same way the repeal of the glass-steagall act by bill clinton freed up financial markets to cause the global financial crisis, many years later. The state government probably has more of an immediate impact for most people.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:53 PM
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The matrix analogies in trp here really woke me up. This quote is pretty much most people in workplaces. "Morpheus: The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And ma…
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:13 PM
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Sydney is especially terrible though, every girl with a pound of makeup believes shes a 9/10 and in the office everyone says oh hes "punching above his weight" nearly every frieken day. There are many girls here like Eve who despite being single till 27/28 will not accept even a decent guy, its almost as if the wall is extended to 35 here.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:08 PM
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Haha thats what got me into watching this show in the first place. They definitely want a guy that can hold boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:05 PM
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Yes thats it. Even patrice o neal goes into it in one of his radio sessions. If you draw cartoons for instance, draw a pic of her looking really sexy and especiallu if she is into artsy types, shell dig that.
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 07:03 PM
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I work with a female supervisor and she bitches about her fiancee, even called him a "princess". I actually find women who are close to betting married to be the worst, they are so close to sealing the deal but also very willing to break it.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 06:52 PM
1

Caffeine. fapping. screen time.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 02:08 AM
1

The problem with just be yourself is inactivity. You can "be yourself" in an active or inactive way.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/16 08:32 AM
1

It is like Plato's "Allegory of the Cave" - in a tldr 3 prisoners are chained facing a wall in a cave with their backs to the entrance from birth. They see the shadows of objects walking by and take it for the real thing. One prisoner frees himself and sees the outside world. He comes back and tells the other two prisoners what he saw that the shadows are not real and tries to free them. The other two prisoners violently reject him thinking he is crazy. I love this analogy take a closer read if …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 08:12 PM
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This is actually a very good post. Part of the growing problems between men and women is recognizing these issues. In the past, a man wouldve had many more greater worries like getting food for the next week, and a shit test wouldve been passedas part of a mans innate skillset. Now, handling these little dramas in an effortless way is even more paramount.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/16 11:16 AM
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Well thats what amused mastery essentially boils down to, controlling your emotions when a girl makes one of those snide comments that are kind of a stab at your ego and recognising that you are okay with who you are, holding frame and being amused by the game we all play. I cant tell you the amount of times a girl has on paper looked like she hates my guts, but remembering trp, recognising it for what it is and taking the appropriate action has yielded more results. And thats what you need to r…
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 08:14 PM
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You cannot lose if you dont play the game, you cant win either. Dont expect results by trying to be so far down the idgaf route that you look like a person thats not playing the same game everyone else is.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 11:58 AM
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I see, i guess as long as its a kindness women feel has been earned and not just being a doormat, it would be okay in this way.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 11:09 AM
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Do you believe women care whether you are kind or not? OR does are women essentially indifferent to it?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 08:55 PM
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Waking up early and hitting the gym has really benefited me greatly, it just feels better to get it done in the morning.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:53 AM
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Jeez and i thought me swallowing the pill was hard. This is more like having 10 pills shoved down your throat and then having them vomited back up and then having another 50 shoved down your throat.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:51 AM
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This bit is the real standout of the article: Rob reminded me a lot of Matthew. He was decent and honourable, the life and soul of the party but with a kind and sensitive side. Honour and decency not high on the priority list pre-wall and low and behold post-wall honour and decency are great values to have. And by decency she means not having multiple women, decency is simply a politically correct veil that people use to keep us in the matrix.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:47 AM
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Its actually quite crazy how it has become in Aus, despite a supposed "blokey" culture, everyone gets so effin butthurt over the slightest thing.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 10:41 AM
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No im not worried. Think about hard it is to actually take the red pill properly how many times you have to throw it back up and how often you think about going back to blue but cant.To reject mainstream society feminism is a difficult task and tbh everything taught by red pill is never overt always covert. Truth is truth, regardless of how bastardised it may become in the mainstream. A ripped muscly body isnt going out of fashion because no amount of money can replicate it, it is the result of …
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:23 PM
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Fight back ! Australia has become a massively feminist hipster society.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 07:19 PM
1

Probably shouldnt have asked whats his name, or whod you fuck etc. Also a better reply wouldve been "We're not together or anything" and start putting your clothes back on, remember she tried to make you earn her pussy, you have to combat the shit test by framing it as her having to earn your committment.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:13 PM
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I never really understood until i worked in a team full of women. When you work in such an environment with 8+ women for 50 hours a week, you start to pick up on their bullshit so fast. They have no concept of things like honour or having a purpose, their purpose is having a man with purpose. And the senior women in an organisation do not look happy that they have to be a leader, believe me, they do not want to lead.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:15 PM
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Only way is if youre seen as a "chief of the village type" i.e usually men with real power are like this. And there are very few, very, very few.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:06 PM
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Yeh, so im in this position as well, the woman above my manager is a complete bitch. Its harder when she is in a powerful position within the company, my plan is to learn what i can because the work isnt too bad, then jump ship in a year or two. Like the other guy said, keep your head down, dont ruffle any feathers, jump ship when the time comes, there are other companies. Even my manager says she doesn't like working with women, lulz.
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:03 PM
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I work in a team full of women now and it makes me sick the stuff they get away with saying and the subpar quality of work they bring in.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/16 08:22 AM
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I would attribute this to the fact that guys these days have no external pressures motivating them to get shit done and feel like a man. Between 18 and 25, looking back now i was basically a vegetable compared to how hard im working now to achieve my goals. I think this is the same for a lot of guys, because in the past a mans purpose was almost decided for him, i.e work your ass off so you could atleast get a meal next week. Now we actually have to decide...we dont know wtf to do.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 08:15 PM
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Be covert when theyre overt and overt when theyre covert.
/r/askTRP19/10/16 08:43 PM
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Please learn to read. I said moderate dopamine release, not cut it out entirely, if you want to fap profusely to internet porn day after day, go ahead. And like Op said you will suffer sooner or later.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/16 01:45 AM
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You need to essentially moderate dopamine release to its bare minimum. Dont masturbate just for boredom, dont eat those stupid cakes in the office just because everyone else is, dont drink alcohol unless its with friends you want to build relationships with etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 08:06 PM
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I find tinder girls to be the most entitled of all. They believe because you as a guy just swiped everyone, they think they can get you.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/16 02:01 AM
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The reason TRP often makes people hateful is because they wish they wouldve seen it sooner i.e not wasted a part of their life with completely the wrong view of reality.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 08:09 PM
1

Australia is a pretty pussified politically correct society anyways.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 11:26 AM
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The orbiters were probably your usual AFCs who stand around at a bar get a drink then watch girls going "naah shes not even a 7" when they wouldnt evenbhave the balls to approach said 7. Then when a 10 comes along they all go "whoaaa" but all are in agreement and find flaws in the 10 like "only goes for jocks" etc to avoid approaching the 10. They go home empty handed, drunk, and call it a good night. Good on you OP for trying and you probably couldve approached her later in the night alone, rem…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 12:12 AM
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Women make good friends if you talk on THEIR level, i.e gossip, inane things like The Bachelor etc don't ever talk about anything deep with women, they just won't understand it. If you want social proof via female friends then always talk about how she feels about other people, they will blirt out anything and everything, because gossip comes natural to them, the same way that you take a shit in the morning. And dont ever expect a female friend to be "there" for you, she will never help you in t…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 08:04 PM
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Once you fuck her you can always fuck her again, if you dont ...well..op's story sums it up
/r/TheRedPill15/10/16 02:13 AM
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Im heavily into higher states of consciousness and these days feel closer to achieving them. It is like being aware of higher floors in your house when youve been living in the basement the whole time. One thing that has solidified my motivation is to stop thinking too far ahead, think about your goals for the week, have overarching goals but dont dwell on them, knock out good habits and stop bad ones and you really start to find a little more stability.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 09:21 PM
1

Well this is really a case of a self-fulfilling prophecy, if you believe its not possible as an indian man, go sit in a ditch somewhere and cry about it or actually believe its possible and do something about it.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/16 08:36 PM
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The thing is, indian women (somewhat like western counterparts) of previous generations could actually cook, didnt act like stuck up bitches and stood by their man. My grandfather looking back now was alpha as f, and im sad i didnt learn more from him, because he did try to teach me red pill behaviours, my grandma always made him food right up till the end and never i mean never talked back. I could have dealt with an arrangement like that, but in todays society, no fucken way. Looking at how my…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/16 08:08 PM
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I believe that game is essentially a shortcut to getting the girl when you dont't have other pursuits. Ive met plenty of guys who dont have any real pursuits, being good with women but ive also met people who have never learned a day of game, pass all the shit tests a women could throw from a place of "i have a passion for X , I WANT you, but i dont NEED you", which frame you'd rather come from is your choice.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 08:22 PM
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If time feels slow for you in the present moment then you look back and it went by fast , youre usually not living a fulfilling life. Now if time feels fast in the present and you look back and say i did aa lot in that time, youre living a happier life.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 12:59 AM
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From the kybalion - "The possession of Knowledge, unless accompanied by a manifestation and expression in Action, is like the hoarding of precious metals-a vain and foolish thing. Knowledge, like wealth, is intended for Use. The Law of Use is Universal, and he who violates it suffers by reason of his conflict with natural forces."--The Kybalion.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 08:06 PM
1

“If you wait by the river long enough, the bodies of your enemies will float by.” Sun Tzu 28, 115k / yr, own place, 3 years ago i had $500 to my name, i kid you not.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 12:03 PM
2

What the fuck did i just read?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:54 AM
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Its called the law of use, any deep knowledge you learn will torture your soul until you use it. Neo: I cant go back can i? Morpheus: If you could, would you really want to?
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:52 AM
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Do up youre profile photos on tinder, seriously makes a huge difference, more than i ever imagined. Secondly yes, women are nowhere near the LTR material they used to be, they are however fast becoming fantastic plate material. And yes add weight, speak deep, stop wanking all day and speak with confidence.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:49 AM
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You gotta start thinking of yourself more like the chief of your cillage. Does a chief give a shit if one woman leaves his village? No, there are plenty of other women for whom he provides and is king of. A king is a king, there is no word for a man who marries a queen, whereas a woman is elevated to queen just by being married to a king. By being clingy, you stopped being a king in her eyes.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:42 AM
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Tell her to flirt with him back if she wants to, learn from patrice o neal, you gotta be able to take a loss i.e her going off and sucking some other guy off and being okay with it, being okay meaning that you can go find some other bitch faster than her in the meantime.
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:27 AM
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Women can be attracted to virtually anything if you have a true self belief in it. You know those exceptional people that bring you over to a genre that you didnt even like? Try to have that kind of passion. I dont even like basketball or tennis or even rock music, but Michael jordan, roger federer and Eddie Hazel got me watching / listening to their shit. Do i follow basketball or tennis? No, but i will watch replays of jordan and watch federer when he plays. Everything else will fall into plac…
/r/askTRP05/10/16 11:19 AM
1

No, some of them go to india and do yoga/meditation for a couple of years. Not that those tasks are bad, but they do it as an escape from their fate of hitting the wall.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 08:04 PM
6

Patrice o neal "You're better than her" and "Men have had to develop skills like being funny, good at something or charming in order to be on the same level as pussy"
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:20 PM
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My manager told me she didnt like working with women two months into my new job. I didnt't confirm or deny....because women.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/16 08:07 PM
9

All you need to be concerned about is AT THE VERY LEAST, is are you better than yourself of last year?
/r/askTRP02/10/16 09:15 PM
1

Whatever you do, dont give her an ultimatum like "last time im gonna ask" even whales will reject you for giving ultimatums.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 08:35 PM
1

Well, what are the quality of problems you want to have? If you dont want all the glory like some people, then be happy with that. Some people are happy with less, some people are unhappy with more, figure out your own way you want to live this life and be content with that. But believe me there are universal principles that noone rich or poor can escape from. Things like working to stay fit keeping your mind busy eating the right foods. Noone is beyond the above habits
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 08:18 PM
1

I get bored quite easily and found drinking to be a boring and repetitve feeling of emptiness. After about 26 i barely drink more than a beer. There really is no quick way to happiness, which is whay drinking promises.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 12:09 PM
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Also think this way, even someone like mohammed ali, as great as he was, will be forgotton by future generations. I dont remember a single boxer pre 1970s.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 12:05 PM
1

Im talking perfect form unassisted, maybe im slow or something but if someone taught me how to deadlift and a week later i tried it again, im pretty sure i wouldnt be doing it perfectly. Probably another reason why so many people think theyre doing a deadlift correctly but actually doing it wrong It takes a long time for something to enter your muscle memory.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/16 09:04 PM
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When starting out how to deadlift i would recommend doing WEEKS with no plates at all, have someone correct your form, look at videos, video yourself and you can avoid injury and continue to lift another day.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 12:30 PM
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Can confirm, used to have mild back pain and posture issues, fixed right up with the right stretching combined with good form deadlifts and squats. The reason it works so well is it targets so many muscle groups.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/16 11:55 AM
3

Depends if youre a beta cuck to that one girl. Even rollo is faithfully married.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 08:54 PM
21

Women are on the clock to find a man who is awesome, a man is on the clock to be awesome.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 08:44 PM
1

G.I Gurdjieff, "To think about change, one must also think about what one would give up"
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 08:38 PM
2

Yeh and you are the devil for saying a single thing about the dress code too, I once jokingly called out a female co worker about wearing what was basically something you sleep in to work, theb got blasted by her (luckily on instant messenger not in the open) for it too. Women want it both ways in the workplace, they want to be treated like a queen and get priviliges when it suits them, at the same time be seen as an important holder of responsibility and title.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 11:29 PM
2

The mentality you want is to be like a lion, everyone else does the work, but you sit back watch the fruits of your labour
/r/askTRP21/09/16 09:34 PM
6

This is so fkn true, its a hard path to take, to be fully engaged, but outcome independant. I.e keeping the bigger goal in mind, but not losing the present in a desperate attempt when you wake up and compare yourself to other people. Ive found, comparing myself to myself of 1 year ago to be a better barometer of success and source of motivation than constantly comparing yourself to others. Dont get me wrong, learn from people who are better than you at specific subjects, but note that your sense…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 09:06 PM
1

Im so sick of corporate life, even the CEO of the company has to tippy toe around women and be vomitingly politically correct. Makes me want to say fk it and become a mechanic or tradesman so i can hang with the boys and talk like a man.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 09:01 PM
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But this honestly goes for women too, theres no external pressure to produce something of value in the first world, we have so many options nowadays that people often choose to 'travel' as if that was a unique life purpose.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:48 AM
2

Dont be weak either, sometimes crazy can be better than hot in casting a spell on you if youre beta
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:25 PM
3

I feel this way also
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:21 PM
1

This. Motorcycling is a PASSION for me. I actually get annoyed when i have to take someone on the back of a sportsbike, and some people are really bad pillions.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:25 PM
2

Boss the fk up in other areas of your life and start pouring attention onto another chick, shell come crawling back
/r/askTRP18/09/16 12:00 PM
1

There was a great quote someone said, "Entrepreaneurs work 80 hrs a week so they dont havebto work 40 hours a week", not sure who said it.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:55 AM
0

I must say even intelligent women talk this nonsense too, they buy into these reality tv shows like the bachelor
/r/TheRedPill18/09/16 11:54 AM
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Dry spells are usually a result of believing in the beta myth that : girls will make the move you dont have to game that ONE girl wont need to be gamed Even without looks or money, you must have game, whether that game is being secure in yourself to have intent and action to fuck a girl, or actually approaching heaps of women, on tinder or out in the street. One of my good buddies in high school taught me a lot about his inner world when it came to approaching women. Whatever he did, he never le…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/16 09:58 PM
8

Its not really theorycrafting when the science backs it up.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 10:34 PM
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Lol wtf scientists have actually proven that we are all genetically one race you ignorant fuck.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 10:33 PM
2

Ive noticed something at my workplace though, (im in finance and i work with all women, go figure) women are becoming more like men and men more like women, and let me tell you, noone looks happy about this "equality". Whenever i get my job done, do it well, take responsibility, all these women at work are almost crying to not have that responsibility. My manager after 3 weeks of me being there, said to me she was "over it". They will submit to you in the workplace as well if you are pro at what…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 11:22 PM
1

That was brilliant thanks for sharing. I especially liked this passage, however i do believe MEN ARE BECOMING MORE LIKE WOMEN AND WOMEN MORE LIKE MEN. The vanity of women, even if it should not be greater than that of men, has this evil in it, that it is directed on material things — that is to say, on their personal beauty and then on tinsel, pomp, and show. This is why they are in their right element in society. This it is which makes them inclined to be extravagant, especially since they poss…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 11:13 PM
4

Tbh like patrice o neal said, men have had to work hard to better themselves unlike women. Most women have no clue what they are doing, there are the occasional women who are amazing, but few and far between most women would prefer some guy to take care of them long term
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:43 PM
12

This is basically because there is hardly any external pressure to succeed in a modern 1st world, especially if you have good parents, theres no impetus for you to actually go ahead and change, as previous generations had done. Nowadays pretty much everything is available to you in the first world. The trick to succeed in todays society is to put that pressure on yourself.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 09:05 PM
1

Look, my advice is, look at your current life, start making 1 week goals and STICK to them. Write down, or mentally note to yourself, I will go to the gym 3 times this week and push hard. Or I will aim not to masturbate furiously to internet porn for 5 days. Then once this little goal is done, pat yourself on the back, this time, reward yourself with something indulgent, it could be something like playing 1 hour of video games, but no more than that. You need to start rewiring the reward circuit…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 12:38 PM
2

Yes, it's important to eventually let these people go. I would also add to the list people who dont want to grow and stay in durr state most of the time with drugs or alcohol, just leave, especially if they dont want to help themselves.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 12:21 PM
1

And respect is better than love.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 08:56 PM
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Another note id like to add to this: stand for something, have beliefs dont be a wishy washy type who accepts another persons viewpoint completely without EXPRESSING your own. The different beliefs of religion in my opinion were quite literally formed because of men having a blief in their way, and sticking to it. The key is to talk about your views without being arrogant, but also being able to disagree or confront other people's views especially when decisions are being made. If everyone wants…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:20 PM
6

How long is the time between step 3 and 4? Ballpark
/r/TheRedPill06/09/16 12:43 PM
4

The listen and dont speak bit i guess is about gossiping, but at the same time you need to play the game with the people that play the game, in a discreet manner of course, this will truly create that air of mystery youre talking about
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 12:24 PM
1

Begin to realise that its easier to do the difficult thing.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/16 12:31 PM
10

I am indian and I really think Indian girls are the worst. They are worse than chinese / korean women etc. Indian girls have a weird belief that theyre pussy is made out of gold or something, especially if they are pretty, this is highly due to the fact that the Beta Bucks is quite literally set up for them through an arranged marriage. So they can fuck the white guy without their parents ever knowing, then say yes to a BB when time suits. Dont get me wrong, back in the day during tough times an…
/r/TheRedPill29/08/16 08:53 PM
1

The problem is now, is that you have to put the pressure on yourself to change. In days past, that pressure was more or less external.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 08:55 PM
7

It takes time and action and a bit of reading. Old habits die hard...very hard especially with blue pill ideologies, you, like me and many others here are probably reading trp as a result of something actually not working out in their life, and recognising the way we used to think is not how reality is. We want so bad for women to just be attracted to us by us showering them with gifts and being nice to them, but thats not the way it is. Men are the real romantics I.e so far blue pill ideologies…
/r/TheRedPill25/08/16 01:09 PM
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Its like the matrix quote "neo: i cant go back can i?" Morpheus: if you could would your really want to?" Its so so tempting to try to go back, but once you realise it, truth is just the way it is, not what you want it to be.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:05 PM
16

I thought this gurdjieff quote is important. I have read and re-read it and has a different meaning every time. It is very difficult also to sacrifice one's suffering. A man will renounce any pleasure you like but he will not give up his suffering. Man is made in such a way that he is never so attached to anything as he is to his suffering. And it is necessary to be free from suffering. No one who is not free from suffering, who has not sacrificed his suffering, can work. Nothing can be attained…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/16 09:02 PM
1

Wtf i think Dismissive Avoidant is EXACTLY what I am, like right down to the detail.
/r/askTRP22/08/16 11:56 AM
2

Can you please explain logically what was said wrong by the responders?
/r/askTRP21/08/16 09:20 PM
1

Holy shit can you guys see me or something. That's pretty spot on, it's like you know me better than some very close friends I have... Thank you very much, will definitely take note of this and will remember this next time, either way trp has been great for actually getting me out of a hole and actually take some action. I can definitely say I did handle the rejection pretty well (better than I expected) but thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 10:40 AM
1

First date was a short interaction, but my theory is she sized me up right away in a fuck or not to fuck category. But weird because she still initiated texts, kept it playful etc. Probably way too much texting availability and way too much interaction time for the second date. I'm worried she just put me into the BB category for laters.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 07:48 AM
1

Thats true, i do believe i was too available texting her. Yeh fair enough, i got a few wild stories from my time in Africa travelling etc.
/r/askTRP21/08/16 03:28 AM
1

This honestly sounded like the date I had, one of the replies for it was very good, you can go check it out.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:17 PM
1

Wow I wasnt expecting such a great response. Not gonna lie, I deve into deep topics way too quick as thats just how my brain works (and im working on that) I guess what you mean is all my language prior to trying to kiss her was beta? I dunno I really find it hard not to share deeper topics especially when the conversation gets dry, how do you respond when she asks things like why are you on tinder? My response was "same reason as you", but then followed it up with some story.
/r/askTRP20/08/16 10:13 PM
1

What i'd like to know is how is a guy like Tony Robbins to just simply hang out with. I understand he is amped up and energised in a crowd full of people hanging on his every word he can say basically whatever he likes, and he needs to because some people are in such a state that they literally need to be shaken up with the truth to wake up. But how would he be just chilling on a Sunday afternoon or getting the groceries done?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 11:53 PM
1

This is actually a really good way of putting it, thanks
/r/TheRedPill18/08/16 12:50 PM
1

Very true, id have to agree here. The content in your life is not important to WHO you are.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:54 PM
1

It will always be a huge drag because youre seeing things relative to your current peers, i.e that you are average. No matter how great civilisation becomes there will always be average people, theres no escaping that. Its SUPPOSED to be difficult to attain wealth and hot bitches, otherwise it wouldnt be something people covet so highly.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:51 PM
1

Look, the comparison to previous times was just a positive thought on how much better it actually is. All of that never really matters though because youre here NOW, the future arrives as NOW. Youre trying to reduce the present moment as a means to an end, the present moment is quite literally all there ever is in your life. You can sit and stew in it until you die, or look at the reality for what it is not what you think it should be and get all sob story about it.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:48 AM
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You realise that if you were born just 50 or 100 years ago, an AVERAGE job for you couldve been in a coal mine stuck getting black lung? If youre in a first world nation, youre probably living like a king compared with generations before you. The only problem now is instead of external pressure, we have to put the pressure on ourself to improve, and this is the dilemma.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 09:06 PM
1

Do not reduce the present moment as a means to an end - eckhart tolle
/r/TheRedPill16/08/16 12:28 PM
1

I gotta agree here, been about a year on TRP, women start telling me all kinds of deep shit about themselves way more than they ever did. One girl even basically asked me out on the second date after the first.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/16 11:38 AM
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Its actually that life is NOT hard that makes it hard for millenials. Atleast in a 1st world context. We quite literally have a choice, which is scary for most. Even just 1 or two generation ago, an average job couldve been stuck in a coal mine getting black lung. Now you get to go to a nice clean office, or if a labourer have great workers compensation schemes set up if anything happens. The challenge of millenials and gen Y is to put the pressure on yourself, there's a lot less impending uncer…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 09:13 PM
1

Time doesnt wait for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/16 12:14 PM
8

Ive boiled it down to this, too many guys stressing over wanting to sleep with the bitches that dont give a fuck about them and ignoring the ones that do.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:10 PM
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Im sorry but this is one of those situations where you need to man up. If a woman isnt texting you back, or only texts you when you text her, she isnt attracted to you. Start putting the people in your life that matter to you.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:06 PM
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But I ask you, wheres the other choice? Unless youre a millionaire, cold approach pickuo is a much faster way of picking girls up with the frame of "im picking you up" rather than forever sit in a friendzone of social circles.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/16 09:01 PM
0

Id say Taoism is more like TRP
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 08:58 PM
2

You cant call women out OVERTLY, you have to communicate it SUBTLY. This means, no ultimatums, its better to not reply or use "..." or reply with a cocky funny text than call women out on their bs. By calling them out, she will immediately recognise you as a man who cannot put up with the bullshit that life throws up, and will never open up to you. Have boundaries, but dont be bound by them.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:15 PM
1

Wow, Lovren looks like a male model, is rich, fit, and a sports star. I guess rollo was right, if you could have any one of 3 strengths:looks, money and game, always choose game.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/16 09:09 PM
7

Well a friend put it nicely. People now have this attitude of "if it isnt on facebook, it didnt happen".
/r/TheRedPill06/08/16 10:32 PM
8

My theory is that people have are presented with a HUGE paradox when getting into ANY kind of self improvement. This paradox is essentially about being okay with yourself to a degree of confidence, and at the same time youb have to recognise your weaknesses to be able to improve on them. Which by definition, if you are a logical human being should rob you of a little confidence. Basically, how ive overcome it is, be confident IN THE ACTION, but allocate time for reflection, but not so much that …
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 09:46 PM
6

Balance goal setting and being present to the moment, confidence will arise.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 09:39 PM
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Ive been on and off porn, and have to say porn is overall destructive. Its not that you CANT function when watching it, its more that you could be better NOT watching it.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:11 PM
1

If you dont atleast portray an awareness of gossip and who is good / bad at their job in the workplace, rest assured someone will most likely be talking about you. Unless youre fukn exceptional at your job, you have to maintain an aura that someone will tell you if someone else shit talked you. This, on some level, gives you a particular level of power. Im not saying its right or good. Im saying "PLAY THE GAME WITH PEOPLE WHO WANT TO PLAY IT, AND WIN." Now for close friendships, this should not …
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 09:07 PM
2

I might get flamed for this, but high speed access to HD porn of all variety, basically anytime anywhere would also have contributed to this.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 12:49 PM
1

Well the real problem lies in balance, to improve yourself you have to recognise that parts of yourself are not up to par e.g talking to women. But that same recognition can rob you of confidence if you dwell on it too much. You can't also underthink, otherwise you will become conceited and not improve. So many people ive realised basically peaked in high school, now I was basically a relative loser back then (happy but still a loser), now im killing it. Balance thought and action. Sun tzu, if y…
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 09:13 PM
2

And like morpheus / neo convo goes. "I can't go back, can I? Morpheus: If you could, would you really want to?
/r/TheRedPill02/08/16 09:19 PM
1

Well its like this, if you find your purpose, goals etc, maintaining frame becomes easy, as you will have an abundance of 'grounded' positivity from having these goals sorted, the frame will come from a true place. But if you maintain frame just for the sake of maintaining frame it will be exhausting.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 01:07 PM
1

Maintaining frame isnt hard, if that is WHO YOU ARE, and as cheesy as it sounds, involves finding out what boundaries you will tolerate.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 09:09 PM
7

A one bedroom with a carspace 8km from Sydney CBD is about 600 to 650k now...
/r/TheRedPill19/07/16 08:51 PM
1

To be truly red pill you have to realise that not just you dont give a fuck, but the other side is that other people dont really give a fuck either, most people just say whatever random shit comes into their head.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/16 10:59 AM
2

Agreed with everything except the introducing yourself by first and last name.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:59 PM
8

But lately women are becoming more like men. Why? Life expectancy has increased substantially, and the default state for most people in society is actually pretty garbage. An average job back in the day mightve been a coal worker getting black lung, nowadays your office job is no place for men to be men.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/16 12:55 PM
17

Honestly getting laid in a wheelchair is a bigger accomplishment than the majority of neckbeard gamer types will ever hope to accomplish.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 09:38 PM
1

Truth of the matter is that blue pill is blue pill because its really the comfort zone of society, not questioning things, accepting the status quo and becoming a mindless consumer. If reading the red pill hurts, the actual red pill will hurt a lot more as you face pressure from simply witnessing external society. It will then be even harder in practice. Ultimately TAKE ACTION, do not trick yourself into believing reading the red pill is enough. I recommend watching RSDs 4 part on success for mo…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 07:57 PM
1

Tinder is like porn for women.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/16 01:41 PM
1

I think what you mean to say is that there arent THAT many 9s and 10s.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 10:05 PM
1

I think its better to say women will not be friends in the same way that men are your friends. If you want women as your friend you kind of have to act like the gay guy to them, gossip about other people, talk about how other people make you feel etc. Essentially do a bunch of beta things if you want women to be your friend.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 11:15 PM
2

Very true, these guys often tell people about themselves with statements like "I like to give because I am generous, thats just who I am" or "I wear my heart on my sleeve" they are usually statements that other people normally bestow on others, not on themself. It usually points to an over inflated ego. Keep to your path, ditch haters, move on.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 10:29 PM
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One thing id like to add is HAVE A GOAL, living frugally can get demotivating. Its important to reward yourself APPROPRIATELY with the things that matter to you. Also i am in Australia too, and to be honest the service is fucking dog shit at most places. Ive had better service at a fucking mcdonalds than a place that does $25 pizzas. Its quite demotivating to know that it takes atleast $40 or a hit and miss to get some decent service in Australia.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 09:20 PM
1

Its earned and its also done through realisation. The realisation that you should stop reducing the present moment as a means to an end.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 08:53 AM
1

What do you say to people who seemingly have everything in life but still commit suicide etc? Eastern philosophy is simply misunderstood by the west.
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 08:51 AM
3

It is because the story in your head is not who you are. The underlying self is who you are, you cannot try to find yourself in that story, because the story is always changing, based on circumstances etc. You cannot also reduce the present moment as a means to an end, even the "deep and meaningful experience" you seek with women will not bring you satisfaction. Remember that the future arrives as the present, it doesnt mean you dont plan for the future but it doesnt also mean that you destroy t…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 01:08 AM
1

Even if there was only 5000 women in your area , its still a lot. And more than the average office person wouldnt get anywhere close to approaching or even meeting in real life or have the time to do so.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/16 12:45 AM
2

Haha im going to use that one. Genetic Celebrities.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:56 PM
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This is true, women are thought of as bringing a compassionate attitude etc. But I would say they are more ruthless than men when it comes down to it, in fact, most of the things men have done to people is because of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 10:47 PM
5

One problem i have faced with meditation is trying to control yourself in actual situations which require your frame. I.e i feel all great and everything in the comfort of my home when i meditate, but when im out in the real world, its almost like holding frame becomes EVEN more difficult, because I am now mindful of my thoughts. Meditation is funny, its almost as if when i started my thoughts got worse before it got better. Moreso when you are around people who are totally identified by their t…
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 09:21 PM
3

Law 4: Always say less than necessary. This should come with a caveat though, when you do talk, it should be delivered with an inner confidence, even when its about something boring. Also, one analogy i like to refer to is small dogs bark a lot more than big dogs.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/16 07:07 AM
2

I thought this quote was beautiful from the book and can pretty much be applied to EVERY aspect of life. Could also apply to a fair few people on TRP as well - "they want to flatter themselves that they know the truth" "The problem with all students, he said, is that they inevitably stop somewhere. They hear an idea and they hold on to it until it becomes dead; they want to flatter themselves that they know the truth. But true Zen never stops, never congeals into such truths. That is why everyon…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 10:14 PM
1

I HIGHLY recommend Mastery by Robert Greene, goes into all of this in excellent detail.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:19 PM
2

Well i have to echo what Eckhart Tolle said "You cannot reduce the present moment as a means to an end, your life has never been not now and will never be not now"
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 09:17 PM
1

I think this can be compared to the nerdy PUA that tries to learn a bunch of words and caricatures to fit a feminin reality. Wheras she will still fuck that muscle bound bouncer or bartender that barely utters a word. Though both strategies work just on a different level. The universal principles like game and frame are being dissected too much. Things like frame and game are a RESULT OF masculinity not the CAUSE of it. You can have frame and game but without masculinity you wont necessarily be …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 10:23 PM
72

The problem with tinder is that even girls who look hot on there arent hot IRL, its just their best photos taken with the best angles etc
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 08:51 PM
6

Selling a motorcycle is like breaking up, you know you want to try the other bikes, but still got used to to your current one. I went and tested a bunch of bikes, it felt like cheating on my current one haha.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/16 09:01 PM
3

Well everyones just on their phones now...
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 09:11 PM
3

I'll have to agree with the previous poster here. Emotion can be get you to point A quicker than logic sometimes. Emotion is an effective tool to summarise a decision sometimes and you can call this your "gut feeling". Read the Fourth Way by P.D. Ouspensky. It says that there are 3 key centres in your brain : -Emotional -Intellectual -Mechanical (or moving) are analogous to a three-storey factory, the intellectual center being the top storey, the emotional center being the middle one, and the mo…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/16 11:04 AM
3

Everything clicked for me after i realised how fucking beta my brother was after he got a semi arranged marriage. It makes me vomit, but motivates me never to become like him.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 10:27 PM
5

Because youre trying to create permanence in a world of impermanence. Any happiness you do feel with a girl is always temporary.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 01:01 PM
1

Well its essentially enlightenment from ignorance. For example, 10s of years of training go into becoming a tibetan lama, to understand the nature of this world, passed down from generation to generation.
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 10:38 PM
1

I always believed this, but found it difficult to have confidence when i wasnt doing that well. I always used to see guys who had great losses still exhibit confidence, how do you cultivate this ability?
/r/TheRedPill08/06/16 09:11 PM
1

This is a bit of a moot point, its kind of like saying if I only knew then what i know now, superfluous.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/16 12:53 PM
8

Maybe they should also watch the video of the amputee doing flys. Also, lifting and looking good is something that cannot be bought, no matter how wealthy you are, this i believe is what is truly attractive about achieving a great body.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 09:09 PM
1

3 words. Read Eckhart Tolle.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/16 02:11 AM
5

Would even go so far as to say approaching is even rarer since the advent of dating apps.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 10:45 PM
1

Well people think things happen all of a sudden. It is important to argue the core of who you are, these cannot be negotiated, i see this core as a collection of experiences that have worked out well for you. Usually these core principles are UNIVERSAL, they apply to everyone, rich or poor. An example is working towards good health, even rich men cannot buy a great body or good health. This is not negotiable for me, if she calls me a fitness freak and tries to change my attitude in this area i w…
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 10:31 PM
1

Very very true. My martial arts instructor is literally the most red pill badass ive ever met. Hes not married and still smashes women every week. He gave this aura of not being controlled by anyone, even when you talk to him.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 07:52 AM
2

This is excellent. Case and point if anyone has watched him is Athene, who im not sure is still around. He was an Alpha within his world, i.e gaming, and had a hot gf to boot, he made a video about it a while back in which he essentially says "walk your own way", i.e dont try to replicate someone elses personality. This is why there are so many versions of PUA and they all can work based on who you are. If youre a nerd and like to study and learn about things, be the strongest version of that gu…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 09:14 PM
1

Yes definitely, going by my other habits i felt i would descend into alcoholism and use it as a crutch, its all good when you can control it.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 09:09 PM
6

Ive had a rule thats worked out pretty good, never drink unless in the company of others who are also drinking, but not to oblivion. I have never drunk alcohol alone, and after all these years cant understand why anyone would drink alone, and i intend to keep it this way.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 11:30 AM
1

Bruce Lee: "I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/16 12:01 PM
1

My goal is to save like a mofo and be pretty close to financially free by 35. The corporate environment is a cesspool of nitwits capable of nothing more than small talk and believing they actually contribute anything meaningful to society.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/16 08:48 AM
4

Just like blue pill beta tendencies and feminist upbringing is a matrix, so too is porn. Morpheus: The Matrix is a system, Neo. That system is our enemy. But when you're inside, you look around, what do you see? Businessmen, teachers, lawyers, carpenters. The very minds of the people we are trying to save. But until we do, these people are still a part of that system and that makes them our enemy. You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 09:07 PM
9

Im going to have to agree here. Masturbation is healthy in moderation, but cutting out porn has made me take a lot more tangible action in my life and i feel a lot socially less awkward than when i was using porn. I also enter a lot more "flow" states than when i was using porn, it has made me "alpha"
/r/TheRedPill14/05/16 08:21 AM
6

Yep, talk it over with other men if you must. Women dont understand the trials that men have to go through to be on an equal playing field as their pussy.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 08:40 PM
1

Definitely right about that. Parents are a big one until youre able to move out too. The thing is, you will realise there are people who have such strongly held views and wont change because for them to change, they have to admit theyre life is literally a lie. And it gets worse over time, either until : a deep suffering causes them to change a deep suffering causes them to get even more strongly held views. Its really important to become the kind of person that is actually open to several ideas…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/16 09:03 PM
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I love musashi's quotes. Favourite is " there is nothing outside of yourself that can ever enable you to get better, stronger, richer, quicker, or smarter. Everything is within. Everything exists. Seek nothing outside of yourself."
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:20 PM
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Good post. I have often confused aloofness and idgaf with not caring and this just ended up me not being present. Listening is an important tool, also, tske your earphones out of your head on the way to work unless youre listening to something important, dont just zonk out listening to some overplayed song.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 10:19 PM
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Its like patrice o neal says "WE'RE BETTER THAN THEM"
/r/TheRedPill02/05/16 08:45 PM
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Id have to agree, video games are good relaxation for those already established in game / pickup. But not for those who need to make much bigger leaps and bounds and play "catch up" so to speak.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 09:19 PM
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For women shit tests are almost a reflex. But for you to deal with them is work, when you fail them, men build resentment. Learn game. Improve on it.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/16 10:30 PM
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Very nice post. Patrice o neal, said that the queen is always the kings bitch. If a queen marries a low level guy he never becomes the king. He also said that you can't blame women for it, it's just in their nature. Guys just need to embrace their own nature (which is to spread your seed far and wide) which has been suppressed by the pussified Politically Correct society we now find ourselves in.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/16 08:31 PM
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Idgaf was only truly revealed to me when how much power i had over a girl who i would text, then she would respond right away, then i would respond 5 to 10 minutes later or not at all, but she would always keep coming back. She would get mad, but i realised anger is better than no emotion in a woman, and sometimes anger is almost like love anyway. If you can make girls feel anything, (as long as its not pity, once a girl pity's you its over, if she ever says your future wife is going to be very …
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 09:39 PM
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I prefer to be alpha outside of work, and beta at work, anything remotely alpha, like commenting on a girl's dress, shutting idiotic statements down, making people laugh with rude jokes, has always been met with some white knight beta whos more senior than me to quote some corporate bullshit about how thats not how you should mke people feel.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/16 09:34 PM
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I think this can be summarised by the bruce lee quote, " Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one"
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:56 PM
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Well you need TRP and nofap to make nofap really work for you, otherwise youre still a beta not fulfilling real the real things in your life.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 09:44 PM
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Ive tried to quit coffee many times, with 3 week stints being thr longest. Generally i felt better overall, but the societal pressure to drink coffee always made me go back. A large number of interviews/social gatherings in mornings are over coffee. A lot of these symptoms youndescribe i have when i have srunk 2 or 3 plus coffees in a day. It also has definitely contributed to something of a low level depression. What strategies do you suggest for quitting? I always end up going back, i have tri…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/16 08:01 PM
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See, some people dont play games, so i have this philosophy. Play games with those who want to play the game. AND You cant win if you do not play, you cant lose either.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/16 08:30 PM
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Subtle shaming attempts in group situations. (Big one here, a lot of BP men pretend not to care, but they do)
/r/TheRedPill26/03/16 09:12 PM
2

I recently met up with a girl i hadnt seen in a while, before any pleasantries were exchanged (barely a how are you), the first thing she tells me is "I broke up with my bf and im moving out, you recently bought a place didnt you?"
/r/TheRedPill21/03/16 08:07 PM
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http://itsalwayssunny.wikia.com/wiki/The_D.E.N.N.I.S._System Thisnis like the dennis system above, only after the other steps do you separate entirely
/r/TheRedPill20/03/16 07:57 PM
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Yeh i have to remind myself, THE FUTURE ARRIVES AS NOW, and your life has never been not now and will never be not now.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 07:50 PM
2

Heres another EXCELLENT quote from eckhart. Any action is often better than no action, especially if you have been stuck in an unhappy situation for a long time. If it is a mistake, at least you learn something, in which case it's no longer a mistake. If you remain stuck, you learn nothing.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 07:04 AM
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Highly recommend Eckhart Tolle and the power of now. Reread about 7 times now. And..not sure if this should be on theredpill as its grossly offtopic. Always say “yes” to the present moment. What could be more futile, more insane, than to create inner resistance to what already is? what could be more insane than to oppose life itself, which is now and always now? Surrender to what is. Say “yes” to life — and see how life suddenly starts working for you rather than against you.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/16 06:55 AM
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Agreed. Not sure how this is any different to Kanye West' Gold Digger
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 09:40 PM
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Catcalling and a learned approach are two very different things, one is animalistic...almost reptilian, the other is a little bit more carefully planned and uses higher centres of the brain.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 09:20 PM
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There was a quote once and i cant remember who said it, but "Nowadays, it feels as though even if something great happened in your life, it didnt happen till its on facebook"
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:30 PM
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Another thing i have learned is that while the pill may be hard to swallow. You cant blame women for optimizing their strategy, be it through casting lines with orbiters. Remember, they are the one thatbis pursued, not the other way around. Patrice o neal said, no matter who it is, a woman is still the one getting literally fucked. Can you blame them for trying to optimise their strategy for wanting to be fd by the top 5%?
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 08:27 PM
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I read quite a lot of evidence saying that attractive women are actually Not approached much (not directly and out in the open), and they they usually shack with alpha males of their social circle (which is usually fairly large). For as much as you read about pua etc, not many guys actually do hardcore cold approach pickup.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/16 07:59 PM
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The other variant of this is "you will make some girl very happy one day"
/r/TheRedPill15/03/16 07:34 PM
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Well instead of the two steps forward one step back it used to be, i employ 1 step forward and two steps back, be careful though, only use that on women with higher smv.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/16 08:09 PM
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Ive linked this several times and think this is quite relevant. “Without payment you cannot get anything. But as a rule we want to get something for nothing, and that is why we have nothing…We cannot have old things and new things, there is no room for them, so first we must make room for them. This is so even in regard to ordinary things. If one wants much, one must give much. If one wants little, one will give little…Change is impossible if one wants to keep everything. To think about changing…
/r/TheRedPill13/03/16 08:20 PM
3

We live in a fantastic time in the western world, truly. I am grateful for the internet and how it has allowed my mind to open up much more than would otherwise. Instead of an average job being stuck in a coal mine somewhere getting black lung, or being a eunuch, i am able to get on my phone to peruse an assortment of women who may or may not want to sleep with me. I feel blessed, dont listen to the BS negativity of regular mainstream media, GROW, come to the manosphere and grow yourself and you…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/16 08:42 PM
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Another point is that if youre actually ripped but are a nice guy, it presents this contradiction in womens heads which they find attractive.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/16 12:33 AM
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You can also do this exercise after thoughts occur. Say for example you were extremely angry one day. THE NEXT DAY when you are calmer, try to remember how you felt the previous day. It will be difficult, but doing it when you are calmer will result in better progress during the moment.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/16 07:50 PM
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This is interesting I have few low value married female friends as well, they love to flirt about and play games all the time, makes think if I was alpha enough i could probably fuck them, but they are quite depressing individuals so good point, probably best they try to win me over than the other way around. Actually wilfully being selective with who i choose to associate with has made my life more clear.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 08:04 PM
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IDGAF is more about not giving a fuck about the arbitrary rules society imposes on average people to keep everyone plugged in. "Break the rules not the law" - Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 09:34 PM
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Well this always stems from who likes who more. You as a man will pass ALL shit tests if in youre in a frame of mind where she has to qualify herself to you, it will automatically happen, because youre not putting her on a pedestal. I.e you will pass her shit tests if you come back with shit tests of your own. In fact, lack of any shit test is worse than any failure to pass them.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 08:00 PM
2

This is very true. Make friends with female work colleagues and gossip even a little bit, they will reveal a lot.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/16 10:57 PM
1

Pretty good post honestly. Needed to hear this as i am in similar situation. It all helps to swallow the pill
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 10:19 PM
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It's here folks. Orwell predicted the groupthink and doublespeak will be on us before you know it.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 08:03 PM
1

Its because the future arrives as "now". It doesnt mean you dont make plans and take action, but if that action comes from a rejection and place of "why cant it be better?" it will always result in a perpetual "grass is always greener attitude" a cycle of neverending desire.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/16 06:09 AM
1

Practicing abundance mentality doesnt mean you just sit on your arse....thats away from the reality of things. It means not getting so worked up about not being able to fuck someone right this instant. Whatever path you choose...the process has to be enjoyable...and this is where your abundance mentality comes from....enjoyment of the process.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/16 02:15 AM
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I also dont believe parents are avle to keep up with the world we live in today. I believe the growth weve seen in technology has created a HUGE gap in the reality that children and parents grew up in.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 09:14 PM
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I know i will get flak for this. But, the present moment cannot be a means to an end, which means that both sides are wrong. Rejecting the sexual marketplace is wrong, just as pursuing it is. The future ARRIVES as "now". Even if youre with a girl doesnt necessarily mean you will be happy, nor "not" being with a girl. This attitude funnily enough is the "true" abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 08:07 PM
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Good post, women are just one part of life, and should be treated as such, just like money is one part of life and should be treated as such. Its all interlinked, never forget that, everything is bleeding into everything else. Stop looking at things in a vaccum.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:27 AM
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This is exemplified throughout the great series "The Wire" In this scene. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=N2JjP8ATI7s Deserve got nuffin to do with it, its his time is all. No matter how important you think you are or how hard you think youve worked, deserve is just a made up word.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:30 AM
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Time doesnt wait for anyone.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/16 09:08 AM
1

Interesting distinction. Being in love doesnt absolve you of being game aware at all times.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 09:53 PM
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Ive only really met 2 truly natural red pill people in my life, both of them were prominent martial arts teachers that slayed a lot of poon working as a bouncer and never married. Everyone else i have met has either been blue, or macho blue (macho and red pill in appearance and speech, but really blue pill on the inside and enacting blue pill ideologies with a basically red pill mindset) Many of the above red pill on the outside and blue inside are your typical executive that gets divorced at ar…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 08:56 PM
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Depends on how much ppwer you have. If youre that new graduate starting out in a law firm, let me tell you that any red pill or anti feminist behaviour will result in a swift exit from said law firm...keeping up appearances right?
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:26 PM
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Will definitely check it out. Part of the reason things like lifting help is that they are direct ways to change, easily observable. Things like the red pill, religion, politics and feminism are ideologies that cannot be reversed until something terrible happens to your life or a consistent effort on your part to reject your old way of thinking for the new. There is no "direct and observable" change when ypu go red pill, its a moving and fluid thought process that needs continuous revision, that…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:08 PM
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Excellent articles here points out such problems. I killed a large part of my zombies by reading, and then re-reading various books to unplug me from the mediocre system of thought i find myself around in family and friends. One key book which i hold above all is "The Fourth Way" by G.I Gurdjieff, a quote below if youre interested. http://dailymind.net “Without payment you cannot get anything. But as a rule we want to get something for nothing, and that is why we have nothing…We cannot have old …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 08:31 PM
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Well you only need to look at the best and brightest of any institution, for example the NAVY SEALS BUD/s training, it is drilled into them that "It pays to be a winner" because at a fundamental level this is what got us to where we are today. Winning is rewarded, losing is punished, but less harshly than 50 years ago, where "losing" would be stuck in some coal mine getting black lung until you're 50, and now, it might be some dead end government job. This is why some guys will come away from th…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 09:54 AM
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On the game: You cannot lose if you do not play. You cant win either.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 04:05 AM
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Good point. While The Red Pill may taste bitter, you have to let everyone believe you are swallowing the sweetest candy known to man.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 02:50 AM
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Yes, she is definitely hitting the wall (looks like she mightve been quite attractive in her youth) and now her headlines read : "Imagine if half the people directing films were women" "if things said to female writers were clickbait headlines" "is a resting bitchface an asset" "should we fight for womens right to be topless in public" (And no doubt shame men for ogling at said toplessness) "8 incredible women who deserve their own biopic" "i want more women to make films" Aaand the final nail i…
/r/TheRedPill03/02/16 01:15 AM
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Blame all the inner city hipster douchebags that wear no socks, wear beards they didnt earn, tight pants and those oh so common black raybans. Sydney is a nanny blue pill minefield, the political correctness of sydney should be ridiculed. I dont approach women close to my place of work or tell any blue pill or married mofo that i even approach girls. Trust me keep it to yourself and keep your dating life even more secret.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/16 08:12 AM
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Avoid fake high energy males too i.e dont be drawn into their energy, maintain YOUR frame, avoid the ones who put on more of a court jester act.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 09:35 PM
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Ofcourse redpill is extreme. “You have to understand, most of these people are not ready to be unplugged. And many of them are so inured, so hopelessly dependent on the system, that they will fight to protect it.” Morpheus I work in a very "blokey" mining co. and the guys here are abt as blue pill as you could imagine. They have very outwardly male tendencies, but use that to fulfill blue pill ideologies. People who think a certain way for 30 plus years are by nature going to find this extreme. …
/r/TheRedPill31/01/16 08:34 PM
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Oh god, dont get me started, all these idiots buying $150 fitbits, to track 10,000 steps while they chomp through a burger at work. Makes me wonder if they have any sense of logic at all. Then they laugh at me when i leave work to get to the gym 3 times a week.
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 02:56 AM
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You need to fk her mind before her body, if all your actions when hitting up women are simply with sex as the goal, youve basically put pussy as a pedestal, you lack the abundance mentality. You need to post typical texts or conversations with girls and we might be able to analyse more.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 09:14 PM
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Sounds like youre having a hard time swallowing the red pill. Read up the rationale male blog, and im paraphrasing here, you cant fulfill your blue pill goals with a red pill awareness. Even that LTR that you think you may have found or believe you can find still has a strategy based on her SMV. Remember Alpha Fucks/ Beta Bucks and hypergamy doesnt care. Forget the idea that some "nice girl" is LTR just because she is nice and may not have slept around. Nice girls still have a strategy because s…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/16 08:13 PM
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A few people have spoke about this. Uglier girls you dont need to be as hard on the cocky funny / mind games as you would a hb9 or 10. Their past experience has innately taught them that they are not attractive enough so the cocky funny often doesnt resonate with them.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 11:20 AM
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Australia is one of the most PC nanny state countries in the world. We cant even enter bars and clubs after 1.30am in the city. Look what happened to Chris Gayle the cricketer. Basically asked a television reporter out on a date on air. Proceeded to get blasted in the media, sacked from EVER playing cricket in Australia for the Big Bash League, all because the feminists said she shouldnt feel uncomfortable in her place of work. I am saddened by what Australia has become, a bunch of hipster douch…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 08:11 PM
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I would agree with the above 3. But they are all interlinked, something more like a pyramid.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 08:29 AM
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