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LawyersExpert_Cod5485/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 10:47 PM
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Spousal Support / AlimonyExpert_Cod5485/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 02:40 PM
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Sorry… But even in Christianity there is no Feminism. Now in part of women’s rights? Yes there are rights they don’t have. But they are not fighting for those right as much as they are fighting to take away Men’s rights. Maybe they should focus on the real obstacles?
/r/MensRights17/06/24 10:02 PM
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This is not progress. She had to just say the words and everyone believed her He had to move the heaven & earth for anyone to believe him Until we change “Women are innocent even if proven guilty & Men are guilty until proven innocent” we cannot have any progress.
/r/MensRights13/06/24 07:51 AM
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Any non western country. But it goes back to your previous comment on how this has spread everywhere. So for example in the middle east, the woman will tell you exactly how much she will take after the divorce. Which doesn’t change if you get richer or poorer.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:36 AM
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True. This is happening elsewhere in the world too. But unlike USA where they can bankrupt you, take half of your stuff, then Alimony and Child Support? This has not spread everywhere yet…
/r/MensRights11/06/24 01:26 AM
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I need to leave this country… Wtf.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 12:01 AM
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This can’t be ethical or legal?
/r/MensRights10/06/24 11:26 PM
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Why are they like this? So heartless… Do they feel the same when their own sons suffer in silence? Do they feel the same when their own brothers suffer in silence? Do they feel the same when their own fathers suffer in silence? Do they feel the same when their own nephews suffer in silence? Do they feel the same when their own cousins suffer in silence? Do they feel the same when their own friends (the ones they care about and not the ones they are using as an emotional punching bag) suffer in s…
/r/MensRights10/06/24 09:41 PM
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I made a post on this on a different sub. Worth a read. Our mental health is discarded across cultures and time. We need better access to help. Mental Health - Abuse by Wife
/r/MensRights10/06/24 12:31 AM
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Buddy. The fact that this group exists is because our rights are being stripped away. And when we want to protect our money you counter it with your fake ideology and baseless arguments. Stand for whatever you want to stand for. But stand alone. There is a crazy person in every corner.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:39 AM
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How do you know the child is yours?
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:32 AM
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🤦‍♂️ You don’t want the gov’t to test if you’re the father or not. Not worries. We get you. Now please sit down.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:29 AM
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the moment you are countered with facts you start throwing insults and cursing? Sounds about right.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:23 AM
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Why must you be forced to pay for someone else’s child. Wouldn't you rather have the option? To not pay voluntarily? You want the government telling you what to do?
/r/MensRights09/06/24 03:21 AM
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Then don’t touch our bank accounts.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 12:56 AM
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So you support paying child support for a child that is not yours?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:46 PM
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Wrong question. Why is it not Mandatory?
/r/MensRights08/06/24 11:38 PM
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CONGRATULATIONS!! Can’t wait until I can make a similar post!
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 09:22 PM
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He forgave that amount I believe. The thing is, The abused will want nothing to do with the abuser and run away to be safe. The abuser will do everything in their power to keep their grip on the one they are abusing. If only the courts opened their eyes and saw this.
/r/MensRights07/06/24 12:05 AM
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Courts and public image matter. Something the men fighting for men’s rights fail to understand. Take Johnny Depp’s trial, the female lawyer was a beast! But imagine if it was a male lawyer with the same facts? We can’t change how society views us. That will be a fight for the next several generations. But we can pave the way for them by starting to view men as human beings and not ATMs or Human Trash.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 10:48 PM
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Dude. It’s only a wholesome post. A woman who wants to help a man that has been through hell by other women. That is all. Now in regard to Men’s rights… How do we change the laws to where men are not guilty until proven innocent? How do we change the laws where men are not homeless because they wanted to leave an abusive relationship? How do we change the laws where a father is seen more than a ATM machine? How do make more resources available to men EQUAL to women? If me being mean to this woma…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 11:56 AM
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Because I fail to understand what filling my heart with darkness and hatred will do for me? I don’t know if you seen my post history but man I was sleeping with the devil disguised as my wife. I do however refuse to go to her level. My goal in life is to be happy and successful. My ex can be happy, sad, or whatever devils do. I don’t care. So just based on this post at face value, I would like to think this woman is actually trying to help one of our brothers out. Why can’t we be happy for him a…
/r/MensRights06/06/24 10:33 AM
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No I understand. Trust me…. I unfortunately understand…. But this post-partum is not the issue Im going to fight them on. As abusive, crazy, and a psycho of a woman my ex was… Child birth was no joke and if I ever do forgive her (I don’t think I can or will) it will be for my kids she brought into this world.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 09:13 AM
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Out of all the issues Im actually not sure about this one. If she does have post-partum she needs to be checked. And if she does not then we can go into abuse. Men don’t give birth so we can’t understand the pain or have post-partum depression. We can have depression or other conditions though. If checked out and she does not have post-partum, then I have no issues calling her out as a neglectful mother. But it is too early now.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 08:59 AM
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Im rooting for bro. I have to.. Hopefully, hopefully she does not screw him over. Even if in the future she decides the friendship or whatever is over, she leaves him peacefully and not by destroying whatever is left of him.
/r/MensRights06/06/24 06:49 AM
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We need more of you! If more woman had the empathy you have for him he would have not be in the place he is today. He is a lucky man to have you in his life now though. And you reaching out here is the right step in the right direction!
/r/MensRights06/06/24 04:26 AM
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Finally!
/r/MensRights30/05/24 07:19 AM
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Congratulations!!
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:48 AM
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Do not look creepy ✅ Do not have eyes in the gym ✅ Have multiple consent forms before and during intercourse ✅ Stay under 24/7 Video surveillance to prove your innocence ✅ Stay home don’t go out side ✅ What am I missing? 😬 Also she looks creepy. Can we get her into prison for looking like that?
/r/MensRights22/05/24 03:17 PM
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Your story does not end here. This is the beginning.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 11:16 PM
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My ex did something similar. Run man run. BECAUSE THOSE ARE NOT THREATS. They are her plans and she has them on speed dial.
/r/MensRights19/05/24 05:45 AM
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Live your life. She was a stranger before you met her. She is once again a stranger after you divorce her. The 7 years together is only a memory now. Nothing more nothing less.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/24 01:12 AM
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You should get rich then and then tell us! 🤣 Jokes aside. Congrats man, you probably found a diamond in the rough
/r/MensRights13/05/24 05:11 PM
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I have physical custody of the children. She only sees them every other weekend. No Alimony or Child Support has been set yet. So Judge ordered for me to pay the following in a temporary court order: Monthly Money above $2k Co-sign for her apartment. She will make payments but if she misses then I will pay and it could be discussed during the divorce. She has no assets and works a min wage job. Not sure what will be discussed. Get her a car and make monthly payment on that car Pay for her car in…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 09:15 PM
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Got a better job after being laid off and middle of a divorce. So now the judge ordered I pay her more…
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 03:46 PM
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it sux man. but better to be lonely than having someone remind you constantly you have no one.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 02:11 AM
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Even when you were married she was not yours.
/r/Divorce_Men02/05/24 01:40 AM
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Is here a manual on this? My soon to be ex also tried to tell our 6yr that I kicked them out. But I was luckily saved because her brothers knew better and told their sister the truth. But the fight is on going man. It never ends!
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 04:59 PM
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Some positivity you may need I would have laid down and kissed my 9mm. I am there now and def in need of positivity. Thanks for this post man!
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/24 02:11 AM
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Yeah thats my #1 thing to do on Monday!
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 03:07 AM
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I wish it was bs… Just got this served to me in court last week. No judgement yet as court date was moved but now I have to provide my parents bank statements, income, etc. Also from your response, are you a lawyer by any chance? Any info on this will helpful! Edit** I never heard this before either which is why I left the courtroom dumbfounded.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/24 03:00 AM
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she had threatened to harm them multiple times. And what did you do about that? Recorded the abuse. Had her see a psychiatrist and therapist. She was admitted to the mental ward multiple times. Cops were called a few times. Before this divorce, I have attempted and wasted money on a divorce 3x before. But unlike the times before this time we separated fully and additional false charges were filed against me after I filed for the divorce which was dropped after presenting the evidence. regardless…
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/24 02:56 PM
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1000000%%%% Not enough zeros! Enjoying the peace. This time will need to be strong enough to remove any negativity and only allow the right person to be in my space.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/24 05:36 AM
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Yes, But that could also backfire. Because when they can’t push your buttons anymore they raise the heat! Man dealing with crazy makes you crazy. Not recommended lol. Next time I see crazy. No matter how beautiful. Im spraying holy water on her and running the opposite direction.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 01:48 PM
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Temporary Protection Order
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 09:05 AM
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Mine was singing and dancing while abusing me. Humming, loud conversation which including calling me names, and even bad mouthing me to the kids. The moment I filed for divorced and she was served that is when she went batshit crazy! She started cursing me out, breaking stuff, yelling at the kids. Then all of a sudden everything went quiet and she completely ignored me while being nice to the kids. Next thing I know she leaves the house and I am being served with a TPO which stated that Im obses…
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/24 12:20 AM
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Always say yes for your kids. Work around your kids with the any new person. If someone comes into your life and does not respect your kids, then ask yourself if she even respects you? However also know when your ex is trying to have an impact on your post-divorce life. Do not let this happen. Does not matter if they are happy or not post divorce. That should not matter anymore or what their personal schedules are. Put a stop to it and get a lawyer involved if needed. Keep records of everything …
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/24 02:06 AM
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No… I don’t smile anymore. Everything is temporary. Happiness is temporary. But on the bright side so is pain. My personal Journey to Temporary Happiness and Temporary Pain… -Son’s birth. Needed a job, responsibilities, and hope that maybe the wife will be a better mother than she was a wife -Daughter’s birth. Needed to move to a better neighborhood and school district, responsibilities, and hope that maybe the wife will become a better mother than she was for the boys -New Job… Few days later i…
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 12:08 AM
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Only thing I will add to this is Record Everything.
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/24 06:16 PM
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No one should suffer in silence. We were not meant to be this way. This is why even through heartbreaks we still look for that someone. Some call it stupid, but this is how we were designed. On the redpill stuff, I watched their content, I watched feminist content, I even watched content to resonate with my wife’s culture! She is from my home country but I grew up here in the East Coast since I was 1yr old. I don’t agree with any of them truth be told. -Redpill promotes passport bros or whatever…
/r/Divorce_Men20/03/24 06:21 AM
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Sounds good. I should probably do the same. 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 05:06 AM
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Exactly! We want OP to succeed and live his best live! Hopefully we are right behind him finding the right one as well! Then I we got comments like “f this dude, toxic dudes”. Like buddy chill, Im trying to help him. To see both sides and to continue to be happy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 05:04 AM
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Thank you! Not sure if I worded my post incorrectly but now some random strangers is labelling me toxic man 🤣. And here I am still believing in love, looking for that one who I will cherish and give my everything to. But in return if I have to be her everything and if that means I need to be her rock I will be it. Not sure how this is a toxic pill or whatever the other guy stated. I just think OP needs to be careful. One heartbreak is enough, multiple ones can actually make someone go to the dar…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 04:33 AM
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Everything was good until you cried and explained it to her…. Should have just treated her with a nice dinner and a very generous gift instead. And Respect.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/24 01:36 AM
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by trading places with me. My stbx won’t sign and keeps on delaying. I just want to be free!!! 🇺🇸
/r/Divorce_Men14/03/24 05:33 AM
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Ask yourself this. -Where was society when you were unhappy? -Where was society when you needed help? -Where will society be when you die? Based on those answers then think how much you’re going to let society influence your life.
/r/Divorce_Men13/03/24 04:19 PM
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Why are men allergic to Lawyers?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 05:27 AM
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Holy
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/24 04:00 PM
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What is a GAL? Guardian At Litum? I have one of those coming in. Scared as hell!
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/24 03:15 PM
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This hit personal and I can’t even argue!
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 02:44 PM
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praying every night. Her lawyer is a female and also seems like she has an agenda against men.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 04:32 AM
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We are with you brother.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 02:24 AM
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I think I need to Marry this Karma chick!
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 10:14 PM
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I just read your post. PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD… DO NOT GET MARRIED!
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 07:23 AM
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I didn’t read your post. I read the title. I DON’T CARE IF YOU MET MOTHER THERESA WITH THE BODY OF KIM K! Do not get married in the UsA!!! If she wants to be a wife, go to a different country where they practice your religion, get married in front of GOD only without any government, come back to the USA and live the rest of your life as boyfriend and girlfriend.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 06:04 AM
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nah im trying to keep the kids
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 03:49 AM
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I said the same thing!! And the fact that they are encouraging her, giving her the resources, and doing everything for her speaks volumes. Makes me think how much of the people that actually go to those shelters really need help?
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 04:56 AM
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I need to ask this! Thank you!!!
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 01:48 AM
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I Do and they only provide the first 30m-1hr of free consultation. Im looking to get additional advice from those consultations.
/r/Divorce_Men23/02/24 01:38 AM
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She got an TPO and went to a shelter after I filed for the divorce. I had the TPO dropped as she had no proof (because I never raised an eyebrow) and I had proof of her abusing me. But her lawyer is sticking around and screwing the daylights out of me. Either from the shelter or a some type of help services?
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 11:42 PM
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damn thats perfect!
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 11:20 PM
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No. She is playing you. She is setting a trap. DO NOT FALL FOR IT. She is not miserable or sad. She is rather waiting for the next moment. In her mind she has not lost and she never will. In her mind she is the VICTOM. So she will have her revenge. BE CAREFUL!
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 05:06 AM
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man this scares me to the core
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 04:47 AM
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what is a docket?
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/24 03:54 PM
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sooo…
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 12:15 AM
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So I need to find a lesbian friend
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:53 PM
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