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Success StoriesExtensionAir9675/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 06:33 AM
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It depends on people. My ex was always influenced by SM and i would tell her that she should know how to use SM etc. Guess what ? The day she started cheating, she deleted all her SM , guess why?? Because her AP ask her to do it. Lol women logic🤣
/r/Divorce_Men24/09/24 07:51 AM
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Most of them act like this. Even mine.. they just cant face any shame.. thats it.. Dont care about her now, live your life
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 06:35 AM
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We are men, thats what we do 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men23/09/24 06:13 AM
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You are a real man. I did the same. Especially i love the ' prize ' part. Mine even told me that AP chose her because she is a prize. Out of all the women , the AP chose only her ,so she felt entitled. Good riddance i told. AP can have her , i prefer my dignity.
/r/Divorce_Men20/09/24 06:16 AM
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I gave her all even the one she bought me. No regrets .. 🙏
/r/Divorce_Men19/09/24 10:28 AM
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Wow, proud of u bro about the progress u made.. keep going. The bad moments will still be here, its normal, even i get it from time to time but dont dwell.. focus on the things which bring u happiness. I am doing the same.. i can even imagine a new future now on my own and i see myself really at peace and happy.. you will get there too , am rooting for u mate
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 03:47 AM
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Always mate .. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/24 03:42 AM
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25k and there will be further 35 k for a final procedure.. totally worth it !!!!!
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:32 PM
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Cheating and lots of lies and other bad thing...i prefer my self respect over anyone else..i kept my dignity as a man and am proud.. no regrets.. i miss her ? Yes. Do i want her back? Not even in my dreams😂
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:30 PM
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Yes bro.. narcissist.she has all the traits of being one. And selfish also.. but who cares.. not my monkey since long.. thanks bro
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:21 PM
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I always think about this group. Thats why i drop for an update. I will come to root for all my bros here.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:20 PM
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Next time wont come soon mate.. i am loving this life. Peace , peace and only peace now.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:19 PM
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Well who said i dont have kids?? She was one 😂😂 ..joking mate.. am focusing on the positive parts.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:18 PM
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Good luck mate.. Rooting for you. Be patient. You will get through.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:17 PM
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Am also same age as you mate.. it takes time but tell me what are u really doing to move forward? Are u doing the works or just waiting for time to heal ? It does not. DM me if you want. We can talk.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/24 04:16 PM
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Pain is inevitable.. Misery is optional.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 04:20 AM
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She started the process but i made sure to finish it very quick. No regrets.. only peace
/r/Divorce_Men09/07/24 05:17 AM
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Feel u bro.. same here.. Divorce was finalized yesterday. A new chapter awaits. DM me if ever you wanna talk. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/24 04:09 AM
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You dont ask, you dont inform, you just file. Boom
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 05:10 AM
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Never did gym in my life. Am skinny due to my genetic. Started a diet since May and i gained 7 Kg in 2 months. Also hitting the gym 4 times a week. Was doing shoulder press at 8kg last month, this week i did 18 kg shoulder press. Bench press increased by 8 kg in 2 months. Am taking it slowly and i really see the initial changes in my body. My divorce will be final next week and i am mentally prepared for that. For me its just paperworks now. Life does get better only by actions. I have other hob…
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 04:02 AM
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You are so young man. Run as far as u can. I am going through this and I feel your pain. Its hard ahead but will be better than you were. Sometimes the trash remove itself.
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/24 09:11 AM
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You still care man thats why you hope this happens. Dont do it. Say to yourself that you dont care about her life or any shit anymore. If she is happy , good for her and if not, not your problem. Be happy with your life. Thats what we do.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 09:26 AM
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Shot 💪
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 09:22 AM
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After 3 years of marriage, when she told me they are just friends while she knew he was hitting on her since day 1. Tried to reconcile but man that was too much. I only heard all type of excuse since it was difficult for her to mend thing, the next thing I did is kick her out. I made it easier for her. Lol. She is now with her AP and waiting for divorce in 3 weeks. Guess what I got my new house, and its full of peace and positivity. Am i hurt ? Yes . Do i regret ? Hell no.. 🤣
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 06:50 AM
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They all do that man, so that they dont feel guilty. Mine still tries to contact me for useless matters, but guess what, i already got a PS5 at home to play games. Women cant accept they ruined their relationship etc, they rationalized everything they do even the bad things. Just be done with her and dont try to understand anything she does, it hurts but they dont care. Fuck them
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/24 05:28 AM
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Reminded me of my cheating ex wife except that she love kids and despite that she got pregnant ,aborted the child without my knowledge. Glad am getting divorced next month. Good riddance.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/24 12:56 PM
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Man are you telling my story?? Same shit happened to me. Always new friends. My ex had 10 jobs and in all the jobs, she had "best friends". It was a pattern and I never ignored that. Tried to advise her on this but as we all know some human hate settimg boundaries. And guess what she fell in love with her best friend of 1 year at work.. am gald i dont have to deal with all this now. No more my monkey.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/24 03:55 AM
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Women do that. They deny and when they accept it, its all your fault. Shit logic!! Dont buy that. Go and see your options. U deserve better. Leave the trash where it belongs. I did it and no regrets till now. You will be proud as a man.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 03:46 AM
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Am getting divorced next month and am 31. But i dont worry about what other woman will think of this. You are worrying about the future which is unknown man. Enjoy ur present. Some women may have an issue with u being divorced but not all. You will never know what happen in the future the way you never thought u will be divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 08:59 AM
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Yes. I was hurt and even confused at first. Few months later, i started feeling the peace. I no longer had to care about making her happy and explaining to her about boundaries etc. The memories hurt from time to time but it lessens with time. I am enjoying the life am living now. First time in my life, i went for a massage twice a month, focusing on my diet like never before, lifting weights, routine sleep time and waking up. We create our own happiness and not depend on someone else to be happ…
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 08:34 AM
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Formal!!! Talk only about the divorce. I did that. Blocked her on all platform except mail but also informed her that anything related to divorce goes through our lawyers. Thats all. The rest , I fcuking care🦧
/r/Divorce_Men30/05/24 08:22 AM
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100% agree with this comment. Exactly same thing happened to me. The depression excuse all of a sudden and she was cheating since 3 months. Tried to help her with everything but was destroying myself mentally and physically without realizing. Kicked her out and now getting divorced. It hurts, its painful but am free from all the bullshit. Trust your gut man. Life is not over. You still have your future in your hands. Your call !!!! Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 05:01 AM
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Women are crazy , i even told mine that the divorce need to be finalized quick because she still have my name and am damn serious about this. My name is the most important thing I own and i dnt want bitches disgracing it🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 05:04 AM
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Ofcourse..not my circus, not my monkey anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 09:38 AM
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Of course.. sometimes i pity her but she never acceptesd what she did. For me she seems mentally unstable. She has works to do on her. Hope she learns and take better decision in the future.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/24 03:50 AM
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We are doing mutual divorce and we already talked about property sharing etc. Now my lawyers are not receiving any response from her part. I had to contact her that after 5 months of NC and again she start blaming me that I should have wait for her etc while she is living with her AP lol. In the end she told me she need some money and I agreed to give her but told her it will be included in the agreement. Already informed my lawyers to amend the agreement and send her lawyer the final version. N…
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 12:32 PM
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Yea mate.. 🤣🤣
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 06:50 AM
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No but she is delaying the divorce process.. she told me that i will never get someone like her.. i replied.. who the hell wants someone like her and get hit with a divorce lol.. i will get my divorce by hook or by crook even if i have to play dirty..
/r/Divorce_Men05/05/24 06:50 AM
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I also wanted to ask this question. Am goind through this with my wife. I really dont understand but its better we dont try also. My stbex even told me that i did not give her time so that she could stop talking to her AP and what she continued to do for months was going for lunch with him, sending him msg at night. She expected that I should sit and watch all these. Lol. Am a mf with self respect and dignity. Only women understand women and they hate each other. Lol
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/24 11:54 AM
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I get you bud. Its really hard but we should accept the situation and move on. I try to do this everyday. I dont run from my feelings and the thoughts of her. I let it come and go away by itself. I accepted that I will miss the person I love but it does not mean that I want her back. Its just human feeling and nothing more. You are not alone on this. Few things which have really helped me and it does not require a lot of efforts is that I removed myself from every social media, no insta, no FB e…
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 05:01 PM
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I can feel you dude.. am 30 with no kids. Wife cheated and now awaiting for divorce. Just built a new house and planned for kid this year but things did not go as planned. I am 5 months since separation. It hurts but in the long run, you will feel at more peace. You cannot stop someone from cheating. Its beyond our control. Am not rushing my healing, still a long way but i can tell you its not easy. Take things slowly and dnt be too hard. The future is bright if we walk towards it. Be strong cha…
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 09:14 AM
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