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Fundamentals Extreme-Bid-5989/r/seduction23/07/26 12:00 AM
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Fundamentals Extreme-Bid-5989/r/seduction14/12/24 11:42 PM
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I get it, but still they are people too. Try to let that go and make them valuable on their personality and not their appearence. Make them feel like they can win you over by being themselves and accept it when you are no fit.
/r/seduction16/08/26 03:58 PM
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Just stay calm and try to think clear. In your head you create so much value in hot women. They are human just like you and me. They also have problems to face, they have things they like, things they don't like, things they're scared of. They do everything any other person does. What should be relevant is if you guys fit together. Don't create this story in your mind where she's a godess and you're her slave.
/r/seduction14/08/26 06:14 PM
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You're experiencing the effect of hormones. When you see a hot girl you create testosterone and thestosterone creates brainfog. It's a part of it. Try to be clear headed and don't overthink it.
/r/seduction13/08/26 09:29 PM
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Friendzone is a direct effect of being needy.
/r/seduction10/08/26 11:11 PM
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True.
/r/seduction10/08/26 06:37 PM
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Watch the identity changing video's of david snyder on youtube for free. You are limiting yourself and you can fix it easily.
/r/seduction10/08/26 05:17 PM
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most of the innergame problems come from a weak identity or trauma. to get laid you still have to do the innergame work most of the time. Eliminate the problem at the root not the symptom. still it's a very good thing to work on yourself don't forget that.
/r/seduction10/08/26 05:15 PM
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You have to understand reality is created in your mind. Do you want to talk with me and maybe I can help you put things in perspective a littlebit. I know how it is and have been there too
/r/seduction10/08/26 07:30 AM
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it's worth every minute. this stuff is so valuable.
/r/seduction09/08/26 08:45 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/seduction09/08/26 08:03 PM
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There is a natural mating dance that explains exactly when to take steps. It's called 7 stages by david snyder. you can find it on youtube if you're interested in it.
/r/seduction09/08/26 06:55 PM
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The video’s sometimes are very long but there is so much value in the stuff he teaches. I promise it will change the way you look at most aspects of life.
/r/seduction09/08/26 04:01 PM
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Try to stay more positive and open minded man. It makes life way more easy :)
/r/seduction09/08/26 02:52 PM
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You should watch David Snyder focusing on creating a very strong and attractive identity and mindset. It’ll change your life completely. Watch David Snyder speed attraction playlist.
/r/seduction09/08/26 02:34 PM
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Scarcity mindset for me was a side effect of trauma. When I started resolving my trauma I also resolved my mindset. Trauma does not have to be some very dangerous situation. It can also be some situation where you felt unsafe and it still can have effect on you. Sometimes you need to start at the root and everything else will get resolved too.
/r/seduction09/08/26 12:07 AM
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Search 3 magic questions by david snyder on youtube. It's very powerfull and I think it's what you're looking for.
/r/seduction08/08/26 11:58 PM
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It's even good to have standards. Beautiful girls also want a challenge and they know they're beautiful so you have to challenge them in another way.
/r/seduction08/08/26 11:55 PM
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Make shure you also do innergame progress because it also is very important.
/r/seduction07/08/26 08:50 PM
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I'm sure you are a good guy. Your looks is not what is holding you back. Being anxious about your looks is holding you back. You reject yourself for being "ugly". Your looks is your fiirst impression but you also can do other things to become attractive. Attraction is not only the way you look. Your limiting belief of you not being attractive enough stops you from discovering if you can do other stuff to become attractive. There is a lot of other work you can do to become attractive. Maybe we ca…
/r/seduction03/08/26 09:39 PM
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Also rejecting yourself is never the way. You need to always accept first and acknoledge it to atleast yourself and close friends. after that it will not be such a problem anymore and the blockage will be gone most of the time.
/r/seduction03/08/26 09:21 PM
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Also over text you should keep the emotion high. Never dry text.
/r/seduction03/08/26 08:11 AM
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Experiment with it. Try to be flirting over text and see if it works for you. And if not, why not?
/r/seduction02/08/26 10:08 PM
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You have some limiting beliefs that create anxiety inside you. If you allow me we can dismember them from your system and you will grow.
/r/seduction02/08/26 01:36 PM
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Nothing. She wants to think about it so let her think. Give her space. If she chooses you she will know where to find you.
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:36 PM
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Give her time for a while. She will be back when she decided.
/r/seduction01/08/26 10:00 PM
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When mixed with dominant bodylanguage it creates attraction.
/r/seduction31/07/26 11:43 PM
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Practice
/r/seduction31/07/26 10:40 PM
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Just realise you have control over it. And by that you can blame yourself and change the behalvior.
/r/seduction31/07/26 03:25 PM
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Get a system that works for you. Combine it. Experiment with it
/r/seduction31/07/26 03:22 PM
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There is a lot of things you can do to get emotions. Eventually the goal is to get her invested. The reason you want emotion is because it’s hard to find a guy who can give that to her because it is not easy for everyone. It’s possible to get her to feel a lot of emotions by only talking about her. I really recommend “speed attraction” by David Snyder on YouTube because it’s so complete.
/r/seduction31/07/26 03:19 PM
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You have a innergame problem. You can flik the frame and become the price by just changing the mindset and with that your choices and thoughts and eventually situations you’ll get in.
/r/seduction31/07/26 09:53 AM
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If it works for you it's good. I think it's more about The emotional delivery.
/r/seduction30/07/26 12:32 PM
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You’re missing the point here. It’s not about the particular questions. That is why you should watch the video. Even though you want me to tell you the shortcut. Hate to break it to you but there is no shortcut.
/r/seduction30/07/26 12:26 PM
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Search 3 magic questions by David Snyder on YouTube. It’s op stuff.
/r/seduction30/07/26 09:33 AM
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Depends very much on the conversation afterwards I think.
/r/seduction30/07/26 06:53 AM
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It means you have to make her feel different emotions by asking questions and telling stories.
/r/seduction30/07/26 06:49 AM
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If you approach direct it's better to make a comment to her that's personal. One that you cannot say to anyone. Try to make it feel like the most personal thing you've ever said to anyone.
/r/seduction29/07/26 09:54 PM
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The power of a abundance mindset
/r/seduction29/07/26 08:59 PM
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Cannot say from only this. But she probably needed some more emotion.
/r/seduction29/07/26 08:35 PM
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I never said surpress and wasn't going to recommend you to do that. I was going to recommend you to embrace it and everything you struggle with. It will bring peace and disarm the negativ mindset. That is when growth starts. There is so much resistence within you towards anyone here (guys who try to help you) that I'm shure you will not take my advice. But I think you can be healed. You are the only one who can do it.
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:45 PM
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Hmm, sounds like you're not really good at receiving feedback. Would you be open to me telling you what happens? (might be confronting). First i want to tell you, in order to get better at anything you have to accept you are not good at it right now. Might be hard but I don't make the rules.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:54 PM
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Confidence comes from acceptance. If you need my help PM me.
/r/seduction29/07/26 04:13 PM
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There is no book that will tell you the route because it is a personal process. You might need to go a direction that falls into a category but still it’s personal.
/r/seduction29/07/26 03:15 PM
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Because it’s in your nature. It’s in every guy’s nature.
/r/seduction29/07/26 12:35 PM
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It’s true at some point but don’t get caught up on it. You can be enthousiastic with her and also have other options. Girls realise that. The main point here is being not needy by having a abundance mindset. Don’t try to act. Become non-needy, non-reactive, confident. When this becomes your identity it doesn’t matter what you do because you will be giving good vibes and be tuned in. This takes time and practice but it can be developed.
/r/seduction29/07/26 10:51 AM
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You only have chance when you did not react badly because reacting badly shows neediness which is a major attraction killer. Whenever you get rejected don’t be affected by it. It kills future chances with the same person
/r/seduction29/07/26 10:43 AM
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Look for "mating dance david snyder" on youtube. I find this the best system of getting physical.
/r/seduction28/07/26 05:14 PM
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The reason some girls go look for fun with other people is because they're not getting it with their boyfriend. Make sure she gets what she needs and she won't feel the need to cheat.
/r/seduction28/07/26 02:35 PM
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By cold approaching you already show to a women you're not the average guy because most of them have too much anxiety to cold approach. If you stay confident anytime and don't let rejections come to you (which might be hard sometimes) you are already 10 steps ahead of anybody who doesn't approach.
/r/seduction27/07/26 06:35 PM
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Just pay attention at what she tells you and does to you. She gives cues and you probably read them wrong.
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:55 PM
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I don't agree with the statement. It doesn't have to be. It can be but only if you go work on outer game before you work on innergame. People seriously misunderstand the importance of working on your innergame for seduction. Outergame is nice to work on, but innergame makes or breakes your attraction.
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:47 PM
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It's easier then you think. Now, if you look for "3 magic questions david snyder" it will teach you a system that will get you a lot of rapport, emotional engagement and always something to talk about. If you like this video he also has free webinars on speed attraction you might want to check out. Very powerfull stuff on that youtube channel.
/r/seduction27/07/26 04:45 PM
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Interesting conversation is about something you both have interest in but doesn't really have emotions in it. Emotional conversation is one where you create a emotional rollercoaster and take them trough a lot of emotion. Casual conversation is a chill conversation with a bit of emotion and a bit of interesting stuff.
/r/seduction27/07/26 02:02 PM
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You should let go of the limiting belief that you can only date when you have enough money.
/r/seduction26/07/26 02:13 PM
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What di you think is the most effective and fast way to gain attraction?
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:17 AM
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Probably not. Being jealours is a very bad habit because it shows neediness. And it's very womenlike. You need to be solid as a rock. Unreactive.
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:15 AM
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I think it's still underrated.
/r/seduction24/07/26 09:12 AM
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Listen brother, When you want change ther must be action. Without action there won't be any change. Before even thinking about approaching or seducing you should have your mental health under control. I strongly suggest you to go to the gym, get your health under control because physical health and mental health are connected to eachother. Fitness fixes both most of the time. You need to make yourself proud again. That player is still in there but you need to find him back. You got this king
/r/seduction23/07/26 10:17 PM
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What are you trying to ask here?
/r/seduction23/07/26 10:07 PM
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It's very personal. This type of wiring depends on what you learned as a child. The reason most women belive in a perfect love where there is love at first sight with a handome guy, is because disney told them that's the way. Works the same for you here. You have to understand that your beliefs are based on your conclusions of experiences you had. Most of the time they weren't even true. The beliefs system is a very interesting phenomena because it makes us al live in our own world. Our own poin…
/r/seduction23/07/26 10:02 PM
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There are a few things you can do to get a more dominant vibe. stand tall, chest upfront, chin up. Take your space. Speak with a deep sound of voice. Don't hide your hands.
/r/seduction23/07/26 09:52 PM
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Enthusiasm is a state you need to find from within. You have to be internally motivated to do it and have fun with it.
/r/seduction23/07/26 12:19 PM
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Preselection basically means other girls are assuming you are high value male because of other girls are with you. This works in any enviroment. You can build up social proof overtime but it's easier to look at it as different occasions and situations. Overtime it works the same but just in a bigger timeframe. Whenever you are with other women you are 1 step ahead of any other guy without women. You still can ruin it by failing shit tests and bad bodylanguage and stuff so look into that too.
/r/seduction23/07/26 12:18 PM
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It's shit testing. Look it up on youtube. binge watch that shit. learn how to pass and it will be way easier to generate attraction.
/r/seduction23/07/26 12:12 PM
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Most of the time when guys think they struggle because of their appearence, it's wrong. It's always innergame.
/r/seduction22/07/26 11:46 PM
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Don't overthink it. Look at the full picture.
/r/seduction22/07/26 11:44 PM
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I'm kind of confused. What is the problem exactly? Can you phrase it in one centence?
/r/seduction22/07/26 11:42 PM
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I'd really recommend speed attraction from david snyder. you can find it on youtube
/r/seduction20/07/26 10:55 PM
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"Am I autistic or is this lady into me?" Probably both lol. Nahh just joking. Go for it man.
/r/seduction27/01/25 02:42 PM
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I find myself in the same situation. Also afraid of rejection and stuff. try to make little conversations as possible to get "loose" and see it is possible to start conversations out of nothing.
/r/seduction16/01/25 12:28 PM
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Is it possible that you're insecure about maybe not fitting in because you're asian, and that kills your attraction?
/r/seduction10/01/25 09:08 AM
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I got in the same situation. It sucks as much as you let it suck.
/r/seduction18/12/24 03:02 PM
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Reageren op Extreme-Bid-I try my best. Once a week i go and play music with friends. The only problem I have with my live is I work at office till the end of januari. That is not really interesting but I go to the gym and do much personal improvent so I think it’ll be fine.
/r/seduction15/12/24 12:37 AM
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I try my best. Once a week i go and play music with friends. The only problem I have with my live is I work at office till the end of januari. That is not really interessant but I go to the gym and do much personal improvent so I think it’ll be fine.
/r/seduction15/12/24 12:36 AM
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Thats a good idea. I’ll do that.
/r/seduction15/12/24 12:03 AM
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I am not shure if I waited to long for alsnog her out
/r/seduction15/12/24 12:02 AM
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What is the reason of you wanting her to take the lead?
/r/seduction12/12/24 10:47 PM
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Just keep eye contact until she breaks it. One time i was camping. I walked past the place where you can clean plates and stuff. there was a girl and she was waiting. she looked nice and i did not try anything with her. I looked and she looked back. I smiled friendly and she did too. She looked away smiling. the rest of the week everytime she walked by she looked nervous (in a good way). Her friend or sister tried to make her say hi to me but she was to shy. I really underestimated the power of …
/r/seduction12/12/24 11:49 AM
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Also you waste good topics to talk about by texting about it.
/r/seduction11/12/24 08:51 AM
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#1 DHV
/r/seduction11/12/24 08:28 AM
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Bro she push pulled you, leading you in getting anxious and her gaining control over you. Then when you tried to take back the control when you tried to leave, she wantedd you to stay. you need to hold control because that is what she wants. The best you could do in my opinion to fix this is leave. when she reaches out give minimal interest and attention like she would do to you. she will feel you're in control and she does feel attraction because she gets jealours when you date ther girls. 2 po…
/r/seduction11/12/24 08:24 AM
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