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| 1 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?cold approaches, usually outside nightclubs, cant even talk inside nightclubs, too loud | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 11:01 AM |
| 2 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?maybe you got adhd too the way youre thinking in black and white. im not tryna be a sex criminal or get put in the friendzone, the whole point of my post is that neither of those methods work, i need a third option, i,e, the sweet spot, as per my post title. like i said, i sincerely doubt you are getting girls if you think generic conversation is enough. so give me a third option or get off this thread, you are not being helpful rn | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 12:54 AM |
| 1 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?this is better for my adhd, i like keeping shit simple. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 12:36 AM |
| 2 | I find myself being too direct or not direct enough, how do i find the sweet spot?i already told you what happens when i keep the conversation platonic, they only look at me in a platonic way, or the friendzone. i highly doubt girls are falling into your lap from generic conversations where you dont even try to escalate or show interest. | /r/seduction | 09/07/25 12:34 AM |
| -10 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.i dont know a girl on earth that cant cum from some clit sucking. worked for me everytime with my exes. shame i cant share my gift cause women be acting like offering sex is offensive. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.i havent even tried gaming yet, i dont know if i spend to much time on the toxic feminine side of social media but it seems like girls are just tired of guys, which is a shame cause im in my 20's, i have my own place for the first time, and i wanna make some awesome memories. | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 11:41 PM |
| -1 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.i dont want casual sex either but being undesirable is painful too. im mainly getting into game just to prove to myself i am desirable | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.I dont, these are just concerns i have before i start gaming, i spend a lot of time on femtok and the female side of instagram and this is what i noticed | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 11:36 PM |
| 2 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.How about the third limiting belief? Do women immediately shut you down when approaching or just look very uncomfortable? | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 07:10 PM |
| 3 | Some limiting beliefs i have about women, let me know how true they actually are.That's why they are called limiting beliefs, i know they are a bit extreme. What did you notice in your experiences? | /r/seduction | 08/07/25 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Has this sub became full of sh*t?Watch Pimp by Julian blanc. There were a couple instances where he got an uninterested girl to completely switch. He mostly just used sarcasm. When a girl was being very avoidant, he made a joke about how she was being way too friendly and that she seemed fake. The girl did a complete 180 and became friendly. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Has this sub became full of sh*t?Whole point of seduction is to turn reluctance into enthusiasm, turning a no into a yes. If we're only going for girls that want us from the get go, why are we even in this sub? | /r/seduction | 20/05/25 06:45 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce a girl that is opposite from youWhatever the elephant in the room is, don't be afraid to call it out. Use Irony and hyperbole. Tell her that her life is too boring and you wish she was as exciting as you. Make absurd statements about how dangerous office work is, how you almost died from a papercut. Things like that. Make sure you are very obvious when you are being sarcastic and absurd. You should watch some Ryan Reynolds interviews to see how he does it. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?That pretty much explains the vibe I want, the good looking loser | /r/seduction | 23/03/25 12:57 AM |
| 0 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?I feel like she would feel used regardless but I'll try out your advice. My ideal scenario is just having a ton of fuck buddies. I have a fuck buddy from high school that I still see whenever she needs a dick appointment. I wish all girls were like that. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Ey bruh, i learned how to have sex from lesbian porn videos, I'm not like yall | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 06:16 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?I don't mind continuing to see her but I can't give her the type of love women demand, that whole 'You're the only girl that exists type love' | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 06:11 PM |
| 2 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?That's why I give them aftercare, make them breakfast, and drive them home. But that just makes them fall in love more. I'm seriously considering fucking them doggy style no eye contact and then kicking them out after were done but I'm not a fucking psychopath. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Same reason I don't say on a first date: "hey I really wanna date you". Its because I don't know yet. Normal human beings get to know someone for months before they can make the judgement call of whether they want something serious. But these girls are so weird they will ask me the morning after. One even asked me right after we were done and we were cuddling. I could be a fucking serial killer, why do they wanna get into a relationship with a stranger so badly? | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 05:57 PM |
| 4 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?What about meeting a girl at a bar, flirting and having sex says I want a relationship? Girls need therapy istg. They pushed for the sexual liberation movement just so they can do everything besides having casual sex. Bizarre. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 05:43 PM |
| 5 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?I had one of those. Felt like an unpaid therapist. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 05:40 PM |
| 5 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Go easy on yourself young king | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:42 PM |
| 3 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?What's the lie? If they're clingy, I'll be clingier. They can't call me a fuckboy. If anything they will say I'm too much of a simp. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:21 PM |
| 3 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Bars mostly | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 03:18 PM |
| 4 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Its a small town, my bodycount isn't even that large. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Is seduction without "manipulation" even possible?I wish I was humblebragging. Its genuinely a problem for me. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 02:13 PM |
| 6 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?No dates exclusively night game. The only remotely romantic thing i do is lots of eye contact and kissing during sex | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 01:25 PM |
| 37 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?If she can out clingy me i think she deserves me at that point. At least I know she's not going anywhere. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 01:16 PM |
| 103 | How do I give off the vibe of a guy that's good for a fun time but not boyfriend material?Fucking genius, I'll just out-clingy them. Don't know why I didn't think of this sooner. God bless you sir. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 01:03 PM |
| 1 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?Looks have a lot to do with it. The popular jock that got the girls also looks a certain way. | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 12:30 PM |
| 3 | Is seduction without "manipulation" even possible?Push pull and negging works if you do it in a playful way, not a toxic way. And it works on anyone. Heck it even works on guys. Teasing people is just a way to build rapport. But seduction is manipulative in a sense because there is this underlying implication that if you have sex with a girl you have to date her after. Sometimes I wish I had bad dick game so the girls would ghost me instead of me ghosting the girls. Broke so many hearts so far I'm worried about the bad karma coming back to bite… | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 12:05 PM |
| 5 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?Yeah, if they get complacent. Positive reinforcement + ambition = bros gonna be a high level exec or a succesful entrepreneur | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 11:51 AM |
| 80 | is it true that very few guys, men, are naturals with "game" seduction, attraction? did most men need a mentor or help, guidance on this?Its about momentum. If you grow up as the popular kid, always receiving positive reinforcement, everybody loves you, it's going to do wonders for your mental health. If girls have been throwing themselves at you all your life, you are gonna assume friendship and rapport with every girl you meet in the real world. Those naturals are gonna keep that energy into their later life, and it will lead to more success with women, but also career success, etc. The trope of the jock that peaks in high scho… | /r/seduction | 22/03/25 02:11 AM |
| 1 | How would you seduce a woman that's anti casual sex?Good to know, maybe I just spend to much time on the femcel side of TikTok and IG | /r/seduction | 19/03/25 02:01 AM |
| 1 | How would you seduce a woman that's anti casual sex?I fully intend to. If she is truly celibate, there is absolutely nothing I can do to change her mind. This post was more in regards to girls that are doing it as a trend. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 09:12 PM |
| 1 | How would you seduce a woman that's anti casual sex?Celibacy is getting trendy amongst women, so much so that drake had to make a song about it. | /r/seduction | 17/03/25 08:50 PM |
| 6 | How to answer the "what are we question"?I'm gonna need more context, what is this referring to? | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 09:35 AM |
| 24 | Has your views changed since learning gameWell on the other hand, imagine you commit to someone and then find out they are bad in bed. | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 09:28 AM |
| 2 | So what turns on women?Okay so don't show sexual desire? Approach as a friend or something? Not sure what advice you are giving. Also I'm picky as fuck, not sure what guys you have been talking to. Don't even acknowledge girls unless they look like a warm ray of sunshine. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:27 AM |
| 26 | [Long] Learn when to walk awayI can tell exactly where you lost her. You guys talked about science, dreams? Who talks about science and life dreams in the club? That's the type of convo girls have with their gay best friend. You broke rule number one, which is to keep it fun. Here's what you need to understand. If you're keeping it classy, then she is going to keep it classy. And the classiest thing she can do is to not fuck you. Sex is absurd and dirty. I am putting my genital where I piss from in her genitalia where she pi… | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 09:15 AM |
| 3 | So what turns on women?Wouldnt a guy reveal his interest by approaching you? There isn't really any reason to approach a girl unless a guy is into her. | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Ok maybe I wasn’t clear. It was my way of saying lets take this convo to the PMs. I thought you were a good one, or at least you seemed like one jeez | /r/seduction | 13/08/24 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?I'm not gonna flirt in Reddit comments lol | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Has being super obvious about your interest ever worked?Yuh obviously | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 08:14 PM |
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