| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 750 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good. | NAH, SIS | FDSFemmeFatale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 391 | Good morning! | MOOD FOR LIFE | FDSFemmeFatale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:48 PM |
| 129 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags. | #JustLVMThings | FDSFemmeFatale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 08:58 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 342 | Where's The Lie Though?Which is proof that you should look the way you want, wear makeup, do whatever you like. Trying to cater to what men want is a huge waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:46 AM |
| 24 | Do you meet more quality guys compared to east coast?SoCal guys are like eternal teenagers who are addicted to the beach. They're allergic to responsibility and most kinds of personal hygiene. I sincerely miss the straightforward fuckboi ways of the east coast! At least those guys give a crap and have some ambition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 06:52 AM |
| 20 | The disappointment I had when I realized this wasn’t satire 😬Will we never get tired of struggle love? Lord, it's exhausting! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 08:24 AM |
| 6 | Do any of you have an alternative style? What’s your experience been and how do you attract HVM instead of duds?I want to 1) look like a beautiful, ethereal, architectural wraith, or 2) wear rhinestones, leopard print, and faux leather pants. Lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Do any of you have an alternative style? What’s your experience been and how do you attract HVM instead of duds?I wouldn't be mad at this, to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 09:06 AM |
| 30 | Do any of you have an alternative style? What’s your experience been and how do you attract HVM instead of duds?I'm older, a minority, and alt. I've never shopped at Hot Topic, lol. Instead, I order my clothing from overseas so everything is super different, stylish, and of better quality than you find in the states. The more stereotypical goth schoolgirl thing would look crazy on me at my age. I'm more a Rick Owens/CDG/Alexander Wang-type alt girl, at this point. I have no problem meeting and dating accomplished men who lean alt, or who are fully that way, but I find that the selection of said men is way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:20 AM |
| 18 | Another gem found on bumble.Is this supposed to be attractive on any level? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:26 AM |
| 55 | Hmm.. what should she do??...Is she serious with this? She knows goddamn well what she's seeing, and what she needs to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:14 AM |
| 2 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?screams and fights the air | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:35 PM |
| 1 | An epiphany I just had 🤔Enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | An epiphany I just had 🤔Stop making excuses. You can pack a bag and leave, if you want. You don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 08:09 PM |
| 3 | An epiphany I just had 🤔She doesn't want to leave and is totally alright with settling for this. Read her comments in the higher threads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Is most of this generation going to be unmarried?No, you're absolutely not alone in your thinking. I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?If you don't know, then don't mess with someone till you do. This isn't hard. And we all know: if someone is wishy-washy on a label, then the commitment simply isn't there, or they don't know themselves and their desires well enough to move forward. That leads to BS and disrespects people's time and energy. Which is LV behavior! Don't use others as a test case to figure yourself out. Plus, there certainly is a label for this, it's Questioning. You can be upfront with your potential partner and s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?1) She literally says she's straight, not fluid. If she wasn't, I'm sure she would've written that. 2) I'm straight. Because I don't think that LGBTQ women exist as a straight woman's backup plan, I would never do that. I've never thought about it because...I'm attracted to men. Why would I date a woman who is looking to build a relationship with another LGBTQ woman? I'd be looking to waste her time just for shits and giggles, which is LV behavior. How does that relationship benefit and fulfill … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:27 PM |
| 15 | A fun response to the hot-crazy scaleYou left out the part where we get called stalkers and insane for having any expectations beyond being arm candy for a man. Otherwise, this is spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:19 PM |
| 61 | I think you mean you want a servant, NathanLOL! Dick is abundant and of low value. Obviously, he hasn't learned that and thinks way too highly of himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:27 AM |
| 30 | Think I am finally done with men.Girl, I hear you. They're all more than capable of pulling this sort of shit and are NOT trustworthy. They simply bide their time until they can hurt a woman. I'm sorry you had to learn this the hard way! I've been done with men for a while and my life is way easier because of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 08:23 AM |
| 3 | Are doubts in a LTR normal?I know! I'm quite excited, myself. I absolutely love astrology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Are doubts in a LTR normal?Astrologer party! I'll look, too. 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 07:26 AM |
| 11 | Are doubts in a LTR normal?First of all, if it's a birthday astrology book, you need to get a natal chart reading from an actual professional astrologer. Take that info with a huge grain of salt. It's not tailored to your full chart and can be misleading. Second, if you're feeling that doubtful, leave. Not for nothing, but four years without a ring is about two to three years too long to begin with. It sounds like this relationship isn't the right fit for you. You're also entering your Saturn Return at 29, so you're going… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:41 AM |
| 37 | I think I’m a LVW?NO, NO, NO. See, this is why I wince a little when people equate value with material and external trappings like a degree, a nice car, owning a home, low weight, etc. For women, those are NOT what make us valuable. It's our resilience, intellect, spiritual strength, communication skills, kindness, compassion. Those other things? We have disabled women here. Autistic women. Mentally ill women. Plus size women. Poor women. Thin women. Genius women. Queer women. Women of color. WE ARE ALL HIGH VALU… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:32 AM |
| 12 | Does anyone feel like they attract poor options?Yep, this checks with my experience too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:15 AM |
| 29 | Posted an image of my icecream and this guy just starts shitting on me. And they wonder why hot girls never date themHe just successfully negged you because you took the bait. 😬 Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:27 AM |
| 11 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣It's the safest way to go, honestly. Nothing wrong with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:17 PM |
| 80 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣White men often fetishize us. Straight up. Also, statistically most black women won't give white men the time of day, because most black women only date and marry black men, another group of people who threaten white men. And black women who do date out (I'm one of them) are super choosy and picky about letting them close. We know what's up, and our eyes are open to any sort of fuckery they bring. White guys HATE that. We're also very physically desirable. We have full lips; rich, velvety skin; … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 07:16 PM |
| 33 | Good morning!This goes not only for men, but for other things. If your job acts like you're a beggar at their potluck feast and your dish isn't worthy, take your dish somewhere else where they'll appreciate it. Same with friends. KNOW THE WORTH OF THE LOVE YOU OFFER AND GIVE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:52 PM |
| 7 | Let me hear it!Here's to a better future for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 01:39 AM |
| 53 | If the thought of your friends hanging out with him embarrasses you... you know what to doUgh. I was like that for several of the men I've dated. It's no good. I have a friend who scoffs at me wanting someone who's socially acceptable. Had to hear that whole Build-a-Bear argument from them and made this point: if I had my shit together enough at this point in my life, and I exist as a polished package, then why the hell should I not expect it of the man I'm with? Why should I have to teach some man how to carry himself, dress well, enjoy culture, and be comfortable in his body? Who h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:55 AM |
| 20 | My father (43) starting dating someone (26-28). Would I be the asshole if I told her about his "recent" past?Then yeah, I'd say talk to her. Why not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:37 AM |
| 61 | My father (43) starting dating someone (26-28). Would I be the asshole if I told her about his "recent" past?NTA. Does she even know that you exist? It's possible that she doesn't. If it will not place you in danger to do so, then I'd say it's safe to reach out. However, it sounds like Dad's a narcissist or sociopath (sorry!), so you WILL pay a price. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:33 AM |
| 5 | No, we can’t be friends.Yet another man who takes simple flirting as some sort of obsession and evidence of deeper feelings. I'm sorry he was immature and projected his feelings on you. You're doing the right thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 07:03 AM |
| 40 | Husband stalked wife until she married him, but she had no idea... this gave me the CREEPSShe needs to leave IMMEDIATELY. This man is a psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:16 PM |
| 6 | When males pretend they are incapable of doing the most basic tasks....Wow. No, you don't have to forge a damn thing. It's not your job to train a grown man. He knows what to do, he just doesn't want to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:07 PM |
| 40 | Two individuals in a marriage... Poor womanIt's painfully apparent why men are as narcissistic and selfish as they are. Society will find any excuse to center a man's emotional immaturity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 119 | Wife Unable to get birth control because of COVID, asks husband to use condoms. Husband throws tantrum and rips off condom during sex and now she thinks she’s pregnant again. She just gave birth to twins two months ago.Stealthing is rape. Period. Her husband raped her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 08:25 PM |
| 7 | I think this entire thread is a great list of behaviors to watch out for while we’re vetting men. I’d encourage everyone to check it out and read through itThank you for posting this. That thread is incredibly sad and heartbreaking at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:44 AM |
| 7 | Men are crabs in a bucket when it comes to healthy, monogamous relationships. Other men in your man's life are more capable of sabotaging the relationship than other women are, and here is whyI'm really sorry that you've gone through all this. This is exhausting. I hear more and more every day that affirms my decision to stay free of dating. It's just too complicated and drama-prone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 04:46 AM |
| 17 | Intimacy Shaming: Anyone else experience these? Or am I the wrong one?Intimacy shaming is totally real. When I was dating my ex, he tried it. His insult of choice was that I always scraped him with my teeth when I went down on him. That was a whole entire lie, because I'm super careful to never, ever do that. I knew that he was trying to neg me, and he was out the door soon after that. He was just a controlling jerk, when it came down to it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:57 AM |
| 25 | Oh my god I love thisLOL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 04:37 AM |
| 13 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellExactly. It takes work to be this awesome! These uncultured slugs out here know better than to try approaching with nothing more to offer than some substandard crap. Nah...you'd better be just as brilliant, engaged, and talented as I am, or keep it moving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 9 | Why would a man be a bachelor later in life if he claims he has always wanted a family?I know several women over 40 who have never married, me included. To a one, we have strong personalities, good careers, lots of hobbies, tight friendships, and want a true companion rather than simply needing a man. No, we're not ugly or frumpy, either. I feel it's different for long-term single men because they usually don't have the full emotional lives that we women are able to build with friends. Therefore, they look for women to fill that void and add fullness to their existence (YUCK, lol)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:54 AM |
| 8 | “I think he is intimidated by me”High standards intimidate men. Guys know when a woman will expect the best and they can't give it to her. They will literally run a mile rather than try and fall flat on their face making an attempt. Dusty, musty, crusty men don't even make eye contact with me because they know their normal shit won't get them anywhere, and I love seeing their eyes dart away. They certainly do get intimidated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:37 AM |
| 26 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellMen on OLD hold up a fish while wearing a dirty, nasty t-shirt and think they deserve a fucking model in a cocktail dress for their effort. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 6 | LVM ignores quarantine and risks exposing PREGNANT WIFE to COVID 🤮🤮🤮That sub is infuriating and heartbreaking at the same time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 174 | Incels/Mgtows in a nutshellYou'd be surprised how many men hate beautiful women just for being pretty. I've had mediocre men literally treat me like trash because they wanted to feel like a big man who "defeated" or "humbled" the pretty girl somehow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 18 | Can a man get any lower than this?Or drink water out of a Hershey syrup bottle. That sort of stuff is funny and harmless, you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 05:13 PM |
| 169 | Can a man get any lower than this?Like...what kind of sociopath? I can't even imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/20 06:21 AM |
| 1 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameThey're also good for a laugh. Scrotes are great comic relief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 3 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsHis Twitter is hilarious, too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?You're fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?One of the tenets of this group is that you must accept that you can end up alone, either by choice or otherwise. This post is valid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Has any considered or made the decision to stop dating men for good?I find this interesting. Are queer women, then, the experiment for straight women who are tired of straight men? The consolation prize? How is that fair to them? As a straight woman myself who tries her best to be an LGBT ally, I'd feel sick leading on an LGBT sister when I know that I'm never going to give her the intimacy or commitment she deserves. I'm not entitled to their sacrifice like that. Sounds like LVM behavior, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 08:21 PM |
| -10 | Let me just post this as a reminder for us Queens 👸💖Hey, where's your high quality post today? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:48 PM |
| 3 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameAwww, thank you! That means a lot to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 12 | Indian/Desi Double StandardsWow, this is a great post! Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:02 AM |
| 49 | He expects her to remember his mother’s birthday for himThey give nothing, but then expect the world back. He'd be livid if anyone forgot his birthday, I imagine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 12:00 AM |
| 30 | "mEn dOn'T hAvE a WaLL"Ugh, don't waste your pretty. Leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:11 PM |
| 70 | That's why we should test men first, beta men always seem nice at first...This poor woman, and such a small punishment for her abuser! I hope she's safe now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 11:10 PM |
| 10 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags.Sadly, the thread was FULL of men who disagreed with her. Just pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:53 PM |
| 8 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameMy stance on this: 1) There is not a Reddit poltergeist who makes anyone click on a post that they don't wish to read. Furthermore, said poltergeist doesn't then make people then leave mean comments about how useless or lacking they find said post. That's mean to the OP and disrespectful. The first step of being a HVW is to take responsibility for your actions. That also includes filtering the information that you choose to consume. It isn't anyone else's responsibility to parse this, or to cens… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 10:43 PM |
| 23 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags.Or they're constipated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:30 PM |
| 42 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags.They think they look inscrutable and mysterious. In reality, they look inscroteable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:29 PM |
| 6 | This sub is turning into a LVM hall of fameEspecially if you're new here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:09 PM |
| 94 | FYI: any man that thinks women "need to be humbled" is LV and deserves a kick in the nuts. Avoid at all costs & heed red flags.Men who think this way will neg, insult, ignore, and mock you early on. They'll downplay your accomplishments and not support the things you love. These things happen from the start, and will break you down over time. If a guy walks in front of you, he thinks like this. If he rolls his eyes at simple requests, he thinks like this. If he talks over you or knocks your intelligence, he thinks like this. RUN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Woww so appealing :$My skin is crawling just looking at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:59 PM |
| 10 | It's not cute to move in with someone you barely know because of the lockdownsOh. This won't end well. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 02:39 AM |
| 7 | It's not cute to move in with someone you barely know because of the lockdownsHold up! Where is the wife in all this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 12 | A real winnerHow do men think these pics are attractive? Like, HOW? It's just like posting a picture holding a fish. NO ONE IS EXCITED ABOUT YOUR FUCKING TROUT, CHADWICK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 22 | What the actual...DelusionalLooking like a fungal toe headass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 12:42 AM |
| 9 | Adele’s divorce settlementIt came from a British Twitter post that didn't even have an article linked. Total rumor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 11:01 PM |
| 13 | We need to stop letting society pitch us against each other - we are stronger togetherGreat post. There's always an impulse to pit women against one another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | A healthy mind cannot exist in an unhealthy body.I agree. This post is a whole entire mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:55 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever felt like never dating again?Heck, yeah! I'm too busy being beautiful, talented, and free. Who has time to babysit one of these personality-free jerks out here? Who wants to invest emotions and resources in a person who will eventually cheat or abuse me (I've dodged those bullets so far, thank god)? Plus, sex is usually boring and terrible. Nah, sis. I'm good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 07:31 AM |
| 3 | Websites with quality affordable clothing?Nordstrom Rack. They take my wallet all the time, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 04:34 AM |
| 31 | Dating feels like eating at the same restaurant over and over again. The menu seems to change but everything ends up tasting the same.Or sports. Ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:18 AM |
| 18 | Dating feels like eating at the same restaurant over and over again. The menu seems to change but everything ends up tasting the same.It takes too much effort to do that, I'm sorry. It takes way too much energy to deal with more than one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:16 AM |
| 48 | Dating feels like eating at the same restaurant over and over again. The menu seems to change but everything ends up tasting the same.Sounds about right. It's like pulling teeth to find a guy that has interests and culture. I feel as if they expect us to give them polish and finishing. What's funny is that they then want us to pick up their boring interests, rather than them broadening their horizons to pick up ours. An exhausting amount of labor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:15 AM |
| 5 | I feel so bad for women like thisThat's where I stopped reading, honestly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 09:17 AM |
| 163 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)One who's gonna use him for everything she can while she fucks guys her own age behind his back. Water finds its own level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.My mother used to make a paste with baking soda and water. It worked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 06:58 PM |
| 12 | My heart is breakingYou're doing your best. Be kind to yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:17 PM |
| 21 | My heart is breakingYikes! He didn't want to make sure you were taken care of if HE cheated? After you would've raised his kids? Doesn't sound so HV to me. In fact, it sounds like he would've been using you. I know it's hard to get perspective after a change and loss, but tomorrow is another day. There truly are other men to be with, in good time. For now, turn that energy towards yourself, let yourself mourn, and open yourself to others when the time is right. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 34 | Drive safeWhew, chile. He totalled her car, but she should've totalled his LIFE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 08:46 AM |
| 6 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.I can't tell you the number of social media posts I've seen by black men telling black women to marry down or expect less. I actually had an ex-friend, a gay black man, who was unable to affirm that straight black women maybe deserve something better than a $20 engagement ring. Literally my white and non-black friends laid into him about it, and he preferred to unfriend me than affirm that we have inherent value. It was so depressing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 5 | How do you cope with loneliness if you don’t have a lot of friends and you’re not dating ?What a beautiful story! ❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:25 AM |
| 15 | Small PP energy is alive, well & adapting during this global pandemicI'm instantly suspicious of any man who drives a pickup truck for non-work purposes. They're almost universally assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 08:19 AM |
| 16 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.The mental gymnastics boggle the mind. A need for control like that shows that she felt she had no control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:51 AM |
| 37 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.You said what you said, and it was fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 11:37 PM |
| 59 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.How about we NOT police us black women who have made an educated decision about access to our time, emotions, and bodies based on OUR experiences and trauma? Let's get this straight right now. I don't owe a damn soul access to me because they have melanin and are from the diaspora. I also don't owe you a fucking study and thesis to prove any sort of truth to you. I certainly don't owe anyone my healing. Neither does anyone else. You want to "not all" about some men, this ain't the place. Underst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 11:31 PM |
| 17 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.Aahhhhahahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 11:25 PM |
| 50 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.What kind of armor would work against her? What spells? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:05 PM |
| 98 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.I'll be honest. I'm a black woman who has never dated a black man because of the things I've seen in our community and the way I've been treated by them. I've yet to be sorry for my choice. I can't even relate to a lot of what happens in the community. It sounds crazy and deranged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:04 PM |
| 105 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.😂 You could? But I would NEVER want to wax my own cooch. That would be torture! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 10:01 PM |
| 155 | There's a lot happening here, and none of it is good.This is pickmeisha supreme. The last pickmeisha before the end of the video game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:16 PM |
| 3 | And again and again and again until you realize your worth.Nah. This calls for no contact. He's telling you you're on the shelf. Block and move on, no explanation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:27 AM |
| 7 | LOL imo this is a male lurker or a pickmeisha that doesnt want to get banned.Aaaand he just messaged me. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 11:29 PM |
| 18 | It's not getting better, ladies.This girl needs to love herself and RUN AWAY. Not only is this man hating on her body, he's also a racist. This is just all bad, all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:57 PM |
| 21 | LOL imo this is a male lurker or a pickmeisha that doesnt want to get banned.This is definitely a dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 04:49 PM |
| 3 | The KinkMeishas have officially gone too farShe can try to control him as much as she wants. It's not going to keep him from cheating. How sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:43 PM |
| 44 | Share your top leveling up strategy tested and worked for youThis might sound frivolous, but really indulging in clothes and things that are my style and desired quality level. Yes, it's easy to cheap out and buy low quality clothing and such, but I absolutely love adorning myself in original designs, soft leather, beautiful fabrics, lush perfume, and quality makeup. When I put together a look, I feel like a fucking queen and carry myself like one. The outer glow-up has been real this past year! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:39 PM |
| 32 | Don’t make the first move, he’ll feel he settledThere's racism there. I can't quite put my finger on the exact flavor of it, but it's there in his sentiments, you know? He was willing to potentially put her through the hell of dealing with his racist family, but felt like she was beneath him to begin with. Am I making sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:12 PM |
| 10 | WhAt ShOuLd I dO?I've always said that if a man tries to hit me, someone will leave in an ambulance. That someone won't be me, and I WILL draw blood. IDGAF. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/20 11:01 PM |
| 15 | Is this what hitting the wall looks like?Same here. Blessed, melanin-rich, and in my early 40's but assumed to be 24. 😂😂😂 Wall comments crack me up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 04:00 AM |
| 26 | [QUESTION] What's it like dating a HVM?This sounds blissful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:28 AM |
| 16 | Another reason not to date older menThis applies even to ladies in their 40's. I just got done with a 50 something guy, and yeah...the laziness and issues he had were just crazy. He took me out on dates, but he just expected me to accept so much immaturity that I couldn't deal with it. He ended up ghosting, at his age! It just wasn't worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 05:17 AM |
| 26 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.That fact that you still equate those jobs with stupidity is what I'm calling out. And no, I didn't know anything of the sort from that reply. One thing we emphasize in this forum is that a job doesn't make you a HV person. It also doesn't make you inherently smart. You can be a lawyer and be dumb as hell. Your barista, on the other hand, can be brilliant and publishing on her way to a doctorate, or own her own business. My point stands. Wealthy men may marry service industry women to feel econo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:08 PM |
| 21 | Some quotes to practice, memorize, and repeat. Don't bow to the patriarchy, queens.Service people are assertive, too. You have to be in order to keep customers in line and do your job well. There's no need to be classist and knock our blue collar sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 05:55 PM |
| 194 | And that’s how you do itShe wanted to make it abundantly clear that she'd seen him. As many guilty, entitled men do, he'll then run around and try to keep her in his harem...which won't work, because she made herself vanish. I love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | Deleted dating appsThank you for this great comment. My feelings are the same - I get on OLD, look at the prospects, then realize that men are just in it to ogle women's pics and do little else. I've had a few start playing games immediately, and the couple that I've tried to date have been a disaster. Plus, the laziness! These guys can't even be fucked to complete their profiles, much less spell and punctuate correctly. The sheer carelessness leaves me dry as the Sahara. It's sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 1 | I am so over this—second person blocked this weekThat's...a lot. Sounds like a narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 05:49 AM |
| 3 | The gf proposed to him and now he is encouraging other women to do the same insteadOh. That's terrible. This is NOT going to last. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:13 AM |
| 10 | The gf proposed to him and now he is encouraging other women to do the same insteadThat actually makes this even worse. He should've begged for her hand, not the other way around. She just destroyed their entire power dynamic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:11 AM |
| 50 | Man (34M) lands shiny new job, is thinking of upgrading forever GF of 6 years because he now "knows he can do better", worries about his penis. THIS IS MALE BULLSHIT ON FULL DISPLAY. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!!!This man was using her to build his life up. I guarantee it. He takes her for granted, and now wants her gone. This is why you never build a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:39 AM |
| 12 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingIf a man doesn't have the guts to pursue me, I already know that I'm not going to enjoy being with him. Why bother? You cannot stop a man from going after what, or whom, he wants in life! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 06:20 AM |
| 10 | Tips for college-aged womenI know a couple where they met in college during freshman year of undergrad. Dude got a doctorate and a massive glow-up; she's awkward, plain, and inelegant. He's definitely flirtatious, but I don't think he's cheated on her. They've now been together ten years and she has no ring on her finger yet. Me and my friends all think she's in for rude awakening, at some point. Moral of the story is don't waste your youth in some long-term thing. Men ALWAYS dump the girl that built them for an aspiratio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Tips for college-aged womenStarter marriages. People out of grad school are broke and need help paying bills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:36 PM |
| 8 | Dating a Smoke Show Hot Guy? Always Do THIS Before Seeing HimI have a hardcore thing for beautiful men. I love muscles and a handsome face, and I usually get what I want, lol! Truly, the men that treated me the worst were the weird, awkward, largely unattractive guys. They treated me like an empty trophy (appearance-wise, I'm about a 8.5) and didn't value me at all. The smoke shows were kind, consistent, and valued me. Yeah, I had to deal with their vanity (they were gym bunnies), but they were fun, attentive, and genuinely good guys. The others? No, comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:29 AM |
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