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Too many men have become feminized to the point where they can't lead in a relationship. If they can't take action and make consistent decisions, they need an equal to help them with the decision making etc or a woman to make the decisions for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:22 PM
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Why are dudes posting so much here about FDS/Women of FDS? They don't care about our opinions, that's the whole point of them having their own sub. For them being so supposedly off-base and TRP men not wanting anything to do with them, they sure live rent free in a lot of your heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 02:18 PM
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I was perusing sex toys on amazon after someone said she was into them and stumbled onto a particular dildo which strongly resembled my shape, along with a clit simulator on top. It had multiple thousands of 5 star reviews. After reading quite a few of them, I was like “damn, I want these sort of rave reviews!” So I invested in an a rabbit ear vibrator attachment strap on thingy. It was an ego hit at first knowing it wasn’t all me creating the ecstatic reaction (such a man mentality) but good lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:38 PM
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Thanks for the feedback, I’ve seen examples of what you’re talking about. Believe it or not, I’d like to think I’m thriving in the Nanny/Au-pair role! Wasn’t sure if I’d be up for the challenge, but I took it on as a personal challenge, and it seems to have increased my multi-tasking and preparation skills in other areas of life. Who’d have thunk it?!?
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:41 PM
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I missed this when you wrote it but I’m glad I caught it! You bring up a number of insightful points to consider and be mindful of. Thank you. And while I agree it’ll be more “work,” I intend on following the same route of integration that your father took.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 08:36 PM
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Good luck with him!! A healthy, loving daddy daughter relationship is such an incredible thing (speaking from experience). I'm in a similar situation where my kids are well beyond the "hard stuff" and I'm not at all recruiting someone to help parent. Thanks for sharing your example and thoughts.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 11:16 AM
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I'm starting to think the single mom single dad connection may be the most natural fit, as well. But yeah, not likely to rule out the latter category, either. Though the more I think about it, the less realistic it's seeming to have additional children within the next 4 years.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 11:12 AM
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The whole condemn hypergamy while excusing polygamy mantra is the state of men in the modern era, it's ridiculous. And you're absolutely right, it is a massive failure however you cut it, regardless of fault or underlying reasons. It's not as though I'm proud or was excited about being part of the divorce statistics. The kids are already subjected to it, can't change that (though I think your particular sentence may be in conjunction with another woman which will be addressed below). Anyhow, we'…
/r/askFDS14/03/20 07:01 PM
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Agreed, I've seen it, too with others. Not sure if they're unaware of the damage it will do the kids or being selfish about it - putting his wants and desires ahead of his kids.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:44 PM
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That's a very respectable preference and I can relate to why a woman would want to experience it with another man both for the first time. Thanks for sharing
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:42 PM
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That all makes sense, thanks for the feedback.
/r/askFDS14/03/20 05:40 PM
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I don't feel bad for you, I salute you and your resolve. I wouldn't put someone in that situation and my kids won't meet another woman until I'm sure we're meant to be together. You deserve happiness and I believe you'll find it.
/r/askFDS13/03/20 02:31 AM
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Btw, I've always been an admirer of your consistently awesome advice, insight, ideas, and opinions to the other ladies while lurking here. Keep it up, you're making a huge impact on people's lives!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:58 PM
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4 years dating before marriage. I was 17 she was 16, highschool sweethearts. Truth be told, were likely too young to know whether we were TRULY the ones for each other. But she got pregnant (while on BC, oops) in college and I was committed to making it work. So we got married. Then had two more kids by choice. Actually, the third was at her request, I was cool with two but she wanted a little girl. Oddly fateful seeing how my daughter has inspired me to change the world for her, couldn't imagin…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:55 PM
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Oh and thanks for sharing your story and providing some good insight
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:10 PM
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Aww that's rough, sorry you went through that. Hadn't really considered the feelings that will be bound to develop for step kids brought when forming a new family. I can understand why you'd advise against it and personally, I wouldn't ever expect to be involved with someone that much younger. I don't have specifics or someone already in mind writing this this post, just curious about the general mindsets.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 11:09 PM
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Yes, just read and responded to it. I get what you're saying for the most part and appreciate the level of detail in conveying your examples. Although, this is my first, and hopefully last, divorce. I totally agree how my past history and circumstances will limit my broader appeal - it's been something I've thought and wanted to hear feedback straight from the source(s) because I've found FDS to be the best reality check on the internet for me. Thanks again.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 10:59 PM
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Well yes, she was having an affair with a female coworker. The sex of her mistress didn't necessarily matter, it still hurt. I gave her the option of working through it together or to pursue her new life with someone else. I would've preferred to have stuck it out, personally, for the kids sake. But she made her choice and I'm moving forward. I'm not over 40 btw, if that makes a difference.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 10:48 PM
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That is a sweet visual now that I'm imagining it! Good points to consider in your wrap up, too. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 10:42 PM
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It's been a humbling transformation, to say the least. But the realization that I'm not that special is turning out to be a blessing. People around me have noticed the new sense of awareness, as well.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:54 PM
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My mistake, you're a Jedi now that I look at in that light because those aren't things I had considered. Sorry for the misinterpretion and thank you for taking the time to explain yourself. Yeah, I'm new to looking at things from a woman's point of view and I guess I really didn't know how widespread abuse is, so I appreciate the education. I'm a bit out of my element here.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:50 PM
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Yeah, us dudes are pretty grand with our delusions!! Not even being sarcastic. I legit didn't realize the level of our entitlement complex until the last 4 months.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:31 PM
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You're 100 correct. Just met a 33yo last week and she legit wow'd me with her elegance and effortless beauty. Cut me some slack, I was literally out of dating for 20+ years. Gotta start someowhere and I started in the wrong place and had some bad ideas put into my head. I'm decided against being a pickup artist and further damaging pickmeishas. I refer them to FDS instead. It's pretty cool. I don't need your validation, and you probably don't want my opinion, but if you're throwing red flags for…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:29 PM
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First off, well maybe I didn't make it clear in the first comment I responded to, so scratch the first off and allow me to clarify. I watched so many videos from PUA's, RP's and read in a bunch of forums under 30 is the way to go. I can't change the content I viewed and read 6-8 months ago. I claimed it wasn't the way to go and disputed the notion. I brought it up to highlight my progression. NOWHERE IN ANY THREAD HERE did I claim under 30 is my current strategy or requirement for a LTR. Not sur…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:22 PM
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Question - how do you know you can deal with them forever? I understand your advice here is for women reading and yes there's a risk of divorce in any marriage and having people think you're tainted afterward; I don't deny that. I'd like to believe most people THINK they will stay together forever when they get married. But if they went by your method of knowing, I think the marriage rate would plummet far lower than it already is - aka there is no way of every knowing 10 - 20 -30 years into the…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:11 PM
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Unlike u/TheOGJammies who used generalities and typical examples to voice her opinions without once implying, accusing, or stating I did something specific, this strikes me as a personal attack with these incredibly baseless accusations. Maybe I was abusive?!? So bad about me as a father she had to leave?? Like come one. Maybe I'd spiral if any of it were true, I just find this to be the most disingenuous and disheartening response so far considering my question was in good faith. You already ga…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 07:04 PM
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The first and last paragraphs were especially helpful, thank you. Heck, your entire reply was very insightful, the middle two paragraphs for different reasons. I totally get what you're saying about "not seeing them often" - my primary role at this point is being an amazing dad. We're very close, a slightly different relationship with each of them, of course (two oldest are boys, youngest is my daughter) and I'm never going to downplay my role in their life, for a woman or anyone else, for that …
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:17 PM
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Yeah, that's along the lines of way I had thought about it with someone potentially wanting children, as well (minus the relocation part). Only time will tell. Thanks for adding your perspective and good luck in your journey, career and motherly ambitions!!
/r/askFDS12/03/20 05:58 PM
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I do believe I've already acknowledged the bit of ingrained entitlement (in that same comment you claimed to read) and admitted to finding it hypocritical when I asked myself about it. Isn't the fact I'm aware of it, considering the flaws of initially thinking it, and working out my thoughts to form a more sound outlook, a good thing? Regardless of if the answer is yes or no... I don't care how I look. I'm trying to consider different viewpoints and learn. I mean I could have kept hanging around…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 05:55 PM
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That's fair. Like I've mentioned in a different thread, I don't feel a need to jump into another serious relationship just yet - which I think is testament to my agreement with you that the healing isn't fully complete yet. It's an evolution and a journey which has essentially just started. Maybe I'd benefit from switching therapists; the last few sessions seemed to lack challenges etc so I didn't feel compelled to do it weekly. I'm not opposed to it, thanks for the advice.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 05:26 PM
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Confession to your point about weird emotional issues from marriage fallout: I was close to falling into that trap. My initial instinct was to find another woman right away, so I'd feel "whole" again... Fortunately, I took a step back and realized the only one who could fill the "hole" was me. I did weekly therapy for 4 months, plan on doing monthly maintenance visits for another few months. It's been rewarding to actually be critical of myself, and of men, for once. Instead of blaming the ex fo…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 04:12 PM
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That's a fair question, one I've somewhat recently asked myself. To be fair, I'm in the process deprogramming a lot of the TRP & PUA I consumed fresh off the separation last year... I def fell for the "only date childfree women under 30" meme before I even started considering dating again. Now, after some much needed critical self-awareness and a re-assessment of reality, my answer is that I'm not exclusively looking for a woman without children. I'm considering my options and deciding what dire…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 03:48 PM
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Thanks for your feedback, I can respect that and it's probably best for all parties to be on the same page when one is committed to a childfree lifestyle.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 03:44 PM
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I was hoping you'd chime in, I find your ruthlessly honest opinions quite refreshing, even when directed toward me. No lies ever told by The OG!! For the most part, in principal, I agree with you in respect to what's best for many single women... though I'm tempted to defend against certain points. Instead doing that by providing unsolicited past-life explanations/circumstances/reasons to justify my qualifications as a bachelor, I'll resist temptation and point out a line which made me "hmmmm" a…
/r/askFDS12/03/20 03:40 PM
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Hi thanks for the encouragement. It's been a rewarding journey thus far, actually improving myself. A lot of internal pressure has also been relieved not being so entitled thinking it's women's fault. We just forgot what being a man really is. Also, I didn't mention it since I had stopped watching porn on September 29th prior to discovering FDS... this to the other male lurkers, prolonged porn use is definitely wreaking havoc, even for non-heavy users. It took me 3 months to REALLY notice (Mid j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 12:24 AM
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Been waiting for one of these. When I first started lurking here 14-16 weeks ago, I felt defensive, angry, and overwhelmed by the candid, truthful nature of these posts ... until right before the new year, when I conceded most of what you're "demanding" should be common courtesy. Now, I'm frankly inspired by how you're raising each other up! After my wife of 16 years filed for divorce this past summer, I naturally gravitated toward TRP and PUA to stoke my disdain of women and gain an "upper hand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:44 PM
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