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Fundamentals FKaria/r/seduction01/04/25 01:14 PM
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Here's rule number 1 for you, my friend: The phone is for setting dates and nothing else. No memes, no chit chatting, no insta, no face, no snap, no yippy yapping. Talk two or three sentences, and ask her out. Then, move on with your life.
/r/seduction04/07/25 07:03 PM
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If you're stance is so strong, why do you need some non-forward way to ask if she's single?
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:45 PM
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Don't
/r/seduction26/06/25 12:43 PM
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If you see a girl IRL and approach her undirectly, this indicates to her that you didn't have the balls to approach her and they get turned off immediately. It can be Tinder, Instagram, Facebook, a mutual friend, etc.
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:15 PM
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No group dates until she's your girlfriend. Ask he our another time. Stop caring
/r/seduction10/04/25 09:12 AM
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Yes, if your intention is to attract/seduce a girl and not be her friend.
/r/seduction09/04/25 12:38 PM
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Generally, you contact her once a week to set up a date. Or if she contacts you you set up the date or ask her to come over. Let her send you the memes if she wants.
/r/seduction09/04/25 10:58 AM
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The phone is for setting dates and nothing else. Keep off the damm phone. How many times do we need to repeat this? This scenario gets posted here almost every day. Stop using the damn phone to chitchat with girls.
/r/seduction09/04/25 10:34 AM
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Forget about instagram. It only barely works if you're willing to make a great profile with good high quality pictures. It's not worth the hassle. If girls are not giving you their number, they aren't interested. Just move on.
/r/seduction09/04/25 10:32 AM
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You do it the same way as if you're not 5'7''. There's no law of physics that forces you to behave any differently.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:58 AM
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Tell her to come over. No dates.
/r/seduction07/04/25 10:53 AM
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The problem is not the app. The problem is that there are 2 men for every woman on Tinder and they swipe right on every girl, so girls have a lot of choices. If there was an app just for hookups the ratio would be 5 to 1 or 10 to 1 and it would be even worse. You need amazing pictures. Think magazine advert type pictures. Think how do they advertise a Big Mac on a poster? It never looks like the one you get but it's the same burger. You need to hire a professional photographer or put in hours of…
/r/seduction07/04/25 06:48 AM
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"Hey I gotta go but we should go out some time for coffee or ice-cream" "Yes/Ok/That'd be cool" "Gimme your number" And otherwise you don't give them your number. If you're not clear with your intentions, I don't know what you expect.
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:42 PM
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You're mistaken. What women find unatractive is insecurity. You being passionate about the music you listen to would be attractive. You need to do some thinking and fix that insecurity. That's the real issue.
/r/seduction05/04/25 03:55 PM
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It is very hard to just approach that one girl you like. Usually the way it works is that you approach a bunch and get all warmed up and keep approaching while you're in the zone.
/r/seduction05/04/25 01:30 PM
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I answer with the type of music that I like. How is that a big no-no?
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:16 AM
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Embrace it
/r/seduction05/04/25 08:14 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction05/04/25 06:47 AM
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Bro, you have it a lot easier than many dudes that start from zero. Approach anxiety is a thing and it will be always be a thing, so get comfortable with it. Do not fear rejection, because you will get rejected no matter your looks. There's no shortcut other than approaching. You do the reps and reflect on what went well and what went wrong. Open girls and ask them questions. Or if you are in the club take them to dance. What you say matters very little as you will learn soon by yourself and it'…
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:35 PM
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If you want him to be more attracted to you, your appearance is your biggest asset. It is what it is with men, let's not pretend otherwise. Apart from that: 1) Don't blow up his phone 2) Be easy going, easy to get along with. 3) Do not bring problems, cause drama, or put pressure on him.
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:25 PM
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Just don't go? Grab a coffee or ice-cream and have a walk in the park.
/r/seduction04/04/25 09:13 PM
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A few things: 1) If you're not getting matches on dating apps is because your pictures suck. Not being "bad looking" is not enough. Competition in dating apps is trough the roof so you need to stand out. Hiring a professional photographer is highly recommended. You need to put in a lot of effort here, but the long-term payoff is very good because once you've done that you'll get a lot of matches. 2) Messaging girls on Instagram only works if you have very good pictures. Same as the dating apps. …
/r/seduction04/04/25 11:02 AM
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You are right, but this is bizarre isn't it? because even if you wanted long term commitment doesn't mean you want it with her So unless you agree to an arranged marriage of sorts, "connection and seeing where it leads" is as good as it gets realistically.
/r/seduction04/04/25 07:42 AM
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If I was you I'd focus on work and my mental health. I suspect the ED will go away once you sort those two and stop choking the chicken compulsively. You don't need to go to therapy but try stuff like meditation or journaling. It can't hurt. Otherwise seek a therapist. But sort out your job first. Removing that source of stress will do a lot for you.
/r/seduction03/04/25 07:21 AM
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I don't think he's expecting you to talk much at all if he's the dominant one. That said, guys want to hear anything that communicates that you are horny af and want him to do all sorts of nasty things to you. Tease him. Tell him that you're not wearing panties. Or that you masturbated thinking about his dick. Send him a pic at a random time of the day.
/r/seduction01/04/25 08:37 PM
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You can respond immediately but again the point of the chat is to set up a date.
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:54 PM
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I never used one, but I think if you feel you are very behind and have a lot of work to do, is good to get some help. You should be doing 90% of the work by yourself still but good to have like a once a week call or follow up with a coach.
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:43 AM
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At 2am the only thing you should be doing is either partying or sleeping, not texting. Texting, specially at 2am, communicates that you have nothing to do now, you have nothing to do the next day, and that this girl is a priority over anything else. Girls of any age like men, they don't like little boys. And men get their shit together. Your priorities should be your grades and your fitness. Getting up early on Saturday to meal prep, hit the gym, study, etc. Texting a girl you never met only wor…
/r/seduction30/03/25 08:24 AM
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The phone is for setting dates and nothing else. Do not chit chat with girls on the phone! You've learned your lesson.
/r/seduction30/03/25 01:57 AM
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1) Let her see you with other girls. 2) Cut off the friendship.
/r/seduction29/03/25 03:17 PM
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Honestly, I don't agree with the advice of being talkative. If you can get a girl to talk herself I think is generally an easier way. So what I would do in your case is ask lots of interesting questions and then follow up on her answers. What you want is her to tell you of some exciting, scary, interesting moments of her life and relate to them. But let her do most of the talking and actually listen to what she's saying.
/r/seduction27/03/25 08:45 PM
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That's great to hear. You shouldn't have any reasons to feel insecure, other than your lack of experience then. Read some books, go outside. It takes time and it's a bumpy road but it is worth it.
/r/seduction27/03/25 08:40 PM
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Why didn't you end up kissing her? What's holding you back?
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:35 PM
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Read Models, by Mark Manson Go out and build your confidence. Build a life you're proud of.
/r/seduction27/03/25 10:50 AM
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Being respectful and caring in general is not a turnoff. If you're respectful and caring towards everyone, and that's how you genuinely live your life, women will like that. What is a turnoff is being extra respectful and extra caring only to them. That's a turnoff because the only reason you do it is to seek her approval, and approval seeking behavior is weak and communicates that you don't think you deserve her.
/r/seduction26/03/25 08:40 PM
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Yo go there and have some nice and casual conversation. Hey I noticed this thing about you, what's your name? How's your day going? Talk to her like if you were friends already. If she's cool and talks and shows interest "Hey, was nice talking to you but I gotta run. How about we go out for drinks some day?" She says yes, ask for her number. She says no, move on. Do not ever ask a woman if she's single --> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L14QdGBpjZk
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:36 PM
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Do not ever get butthurt or try to "explain" stuff to her. Pull back and go back to make her relaxed, have a fun flirty conversation. She should be doing most of the talking, you keep eye contact and a nice smile. Otherwise, you can watch something together laying down. Touching hands, arms and face. Then start with your hands on her legs and slowly get to the magic spot.
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:05 PM
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Girl probably got weird rules so there's probably little you could do. That said, I think you could have tried to escalate again 5 mins after she said no. Make her relaxed, nice fun conversation, eye contact. Then touching hands, legs, etc. She may still say no. You never get butthurt. Try one more time and then move on. Do not attempt to plan a date too close to the first date. I wouldn't have texted her nothing and then texted her 3 or 4 days after to plan the next date. I wouldn't not text un…
/r/seduction26/03/25 12:00 PM
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That's so dumb, bro. You think a girl that doesn't want to come to your place will suddenly change her mind? Specially after you mislead her? Ask her directly. Offer her drinks or to cook dinner together or watch something. You gotta be a man and say what you want. The whole sneaking around is weak dumbass behavior.
/r/seduction25/03/25 02:02 PM
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Whatever you want, getting angry is a losing move. If you put a boundary, you must be willing to break the relationship if the boundary is not respected. It's the only way you can enforce it and mean it. Tell her your boundary. Don't expect her to agree but don't fight, don't get angry. Now you told her. Next time she breaks it you'll leave and be no contact away until she contacts you and apologizes. If you are not willing to lose the relationship for your boundaries, do not set them. Never get…
/r/seduction23/03/25 07:44 AM
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You can't. That's the natural course of things. Try being clingy and blowing up their phone. They'll lose interest quickly
/r/seduction22/03/25 12:59 PM
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It's your job to start the courtship and schedule a date. You cannot wait for girls to do that. It will never happen. After the first date, schedule one date a week but do not text them for any other reason. After sex (usually 2nd or 3rd date), the girl is going to start chasing you and you can sit back and relax.
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:55 AM
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What are you telling the girls that makes them roll their eyes? That's quite a strong rejection.
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:50 AM
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It does help, dude. You're a lot closer to achieving your goals than if you were fat bald and had yellow teeth.
/r/seduction22/03/25 08:48 AM
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Yes. Some of them will be very happy that they're not approached. Some of them, though, will get bored very quickly looking at those men and realizing they are being ignored.
/r/seduction21/03/25 08:33 PM
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If you don't care about salsa (and it seems you don't) go to Meetup.com and meetup some "excuse" events like language exchange, expat communities, or something like that. Become friends with the social butterfly dudes that are always organizing stuff with new people. Get invited to lots of different events, parties, camping trips, beach days, etc. Your friends will bring girls or girlfriends who will bring other girls.
/r/seduction21/03/25 05:59 PM
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Yeah, maybe not. Surely I had girls laugh at this kind of buffoonery but I'm not sure it really helps.
/r/seduction21/03/25 04:07 PM
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I was usually going out with a larger group of friends, gay friends, and girls. I don't remember a girl ever asking me that. I would have replied with some kind of joke. Yeah. I don't know. But it's fun to have all these guys hitting on me. How do you know I'm not gay? Maybe I'm very gay. Me? What are YOU doing here? Oh yeah I'm SUPER gay. (Then pull her towards you, implying that because you're gay, touching is allowed.)
/r/seduction21/03/25 01:49 PM
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Girls dancing or partying with her friends are the most difficult. Unless the whole group is open to receive attention from men, they'll usually ignore you. If they're open, you have a lot of competition. The easiest ones are bored girls that choose to stay. They sit down and look bored. You can approach them much more successfully. Usually you have to wait until late for that. We used to call it the "sales" time. Life hack: Go to a gay bar if you can, but one where there are girls. This is not …
/r/seduction21/03/25 09:34 AM
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If what you say or do you wouldn't do to your mom that's flirting.
/r/seduction21/03/25 08:26 AM
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Guys. Seriously. Lose the fat and put on some muscle. You can still do everything else, but you'll be playing on easy mode.
/r/seduction20/03/25 03:10 PM
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Stop yapping over phone or text. Talk in person. If she is receptive, talks more than you, smiles, etc. ask her out. Otherwise, move on. If she says yes to go out. Ask her number. Go on from there.
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:22 PM
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They don't show you the other thirty failures.
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:19 PM
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Best would have been to approach her right away. That's not being needy. It's your job to approach her. Being needy would have been putting her on a pedestal, seeking her approval. Well explained in this chunk of this video: https://youtu.be/trXZqVkR5SI?t=267
/r/seduction17/03/25 07:24 PM
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Numbers don't mean anything, you want dates. You start chatting and see how the vibes are going. Does she seem excited to speak to you? Is she talking more than you? Does her body language indicate interest. Have fun, chat with her, crack a few jokes or something. If she laughing at your stupid jokes? Good. Make the conversation light and entertaining. She should be doing most of the talking anyway. If she shows no interest, no excitement, short answers, closed body language. You say "nice meeti…
/r/seduction16/03/25 11:06 AM
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The phone is for setting dates. Nothing else.
/r/seduction15/03/25 09:33 AM
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Don't know why you guys are asking numbers before asking if she wants to meet up first. Asking for the number is just logistics.
/r/seduction12/03/25 07:57 AM
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That is very spot on. All three things are accurate and hard to implement.
/r/seduction10/03/25 04:32 PM
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I have a couple of questions if you don't mind How much time/money do you invest on your appearance? Going to the gym. Diet. Haircuts. Buying/trying clothes, accessories. Grooming, shaving, etc. before leaving home. How do you choose the girl? Did she look at you and smile? Is she alone? Is she in a rush? What's your intent/mindset when you strike a conversation? Do you want to find out if she likes you? Do you want to find out if you'll like her? Or if she's nice to talk to and easy going? What…
/r/seduction09/03/25 03:51 PM
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Yes. They are there for practicing and for you to realize that girls aren't nearly as attracted to highly educated high earning man as you think. You'll be humbled and will learn something.
/r/seduction02/03/25 10:24 PM
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