so the other day, I had a date with this girl. I'm usually pretty good at getting second dates and escalating. Of the women I've managed to get on first dates and have WANTED to take out again, I've only fumbled one. Now it's two. The odd thing here is that she showed very high interest.

See, with the first girl I wasn't able to get out again, that's because the first date was horrible. She wanted to meet in a busy coffee shop at 1pm. The coffee shop was also full of children that day for some reason. I felt like I couldn't escalate much physically or verbally. So yea, she didn't feel the connection.

But this new girl, I met her at 9pm. We had boba in an empty place and flirted. We went back to her place, played some games, and watched a movie. I escalated nicely. First I had my hand on her thigh, then we were spooning, then she started grinding on me, and then we made out for a while and she passionately kissed back with a lot of tounge. She moaned while I choked her and asked me to take her bra off and touch her breasts. The only reason we didn't have sex is because she told me that she doesn't do that on the first date and kinda pushed me off of her a little. I listened. I know some men push past this, but when a girl says stop, I do. And it's never stopped me from getting laid before.

Now, I'm no casanova. In fact, I've only slept with 10 women in my life, but even for me 99% of this date was a sign of pretty high interest. Before I left that night she said "you better text me tomorrow. I don't want to wait another week again." This is because we scheduled our first date far in advance and I'm not a big texter. She was literally asking to keep in touch. The next day I texted her simply this; "I enjoyed last night. What's your schedule like this week?". She then removed me on all social media, unadded me on the dating app, and I've been ghosted for 4 days.

What happened here is probably very obvious to a lot of you, but I'm new to this, so I'm bewildered. What's up?