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Fundamentals RadiantTry9442/r/seduction15/10/24 02:56 PM
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And you need a woman to lower her standards to be that chad?
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:25 PM
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lower their standards because shes into you enough? 💀💀 yall gotta work on self esteem before moving into seduction.
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:18 PM
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Depends on those “high standards.” Ive noticed theres women with genuinely good values and morals who will actively work with you to understand hers and to understand yours. and then theres the high maintenance female. High maintenance females disguise their motives as “high standards” but in reality it’s a control ploy. its basically do as they indirectly want you to do or they’re onto the next. these women are simply not worth it unless you’d like to be a honorary puppy dog
/r/seduction21/08/25 07:10 PM
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no question is a bad question bro. for the dm (if she likes your pics back), you can simply say “hey.” she’ll reply and yall will send a couple texts back and fourth, and then you say “wanna ft?.” ( or call, up to you). she’ll more then likely agree. If you wanna dm the girl who simply follows you back>> Id wait until she posts something (on her story) that you have genuine interest in or genuinely wanna say something about. dont force the interaction. If you have an interest, swipe up and say w…
/r/seduction05/08/25 12:53 AM
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Sort of. The rule I use, is I only follow women I genuinely find interest in. I say go for quality, not quantity, only because other women will see your followers. You don’t wanna accidentally be the dude who mass follows chicks but also isn’t followed back. Like 2-3 of her pics (none of her in bikini’s or her showing off her body) and then follow her. if shes into you, you’ll have a follow back by the end of the day and the next day at the latest. Also, If shes likes your pics back and then fol…
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:57 PM
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Like 2-3 of her pics (none of her in bikini’s or her showing off her body) and then follow her. if shes into you, you’ll have a follow back by the end of the day and the next day at the latest. Also, If shes likes your pics back and then follows you, thats a direct invite to dm her. But yes, look in your recommendations. you’ll be more likely to find chicks in your area.
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:49 PM
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I would say being authentic means honoring your thoughts, actions and feelings. It means letting yourself flow freely and putting it out into the world. and to answer your question about how does it help. well because if you’re acting from anything other then authenticity, that mask will even come down. if you internally identify as a loser and you decide to fake not being a loser. well guess what? 1 date ghosted. people can smell inauthenticity. I can immediately tell when someone’s not being t…
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:27 AM
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I mean realistically you can do or say whatever you want and still attract those who align with. You can most definitely be 100% authentic, go out with no social awareness and live a perfectly normal life. plenty of people do it although you probably don’t hangout with them yourself. or you might, who knows. But in terms of social skills, you’d want authenticity and social context. Being authentic is always first because thats your compass. Honoring the context is to make sure you’re respecting …
/r/seduction04/08/25 05:18 AM
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now whats interesting about this is if you learn both Authenticity+Social Context, you can start bend the rules a little. For someone who’s demonstrated they understand the context but is being authentic and people are aware of this, they can get away with a lot more. So that means you make those edgier jokes or even be more up front. But you must understand the context of where you are, who it is, what it is you’re trying to do and so on.
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:55 AM
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I actually love your question. So authenticity also requires social context. (Authenticity+Social Context) This is actually the full equation and what most people don’t actually realize. Most people cant be themselves because they let everything that authentically comes to them fly. then in social situations (such as talking to chicks) they usually get burned for it. Now if you honor the context of the situation and act from authenticity, then suddenly your confidence, grounded and socially awar…
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:50 AM
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“for guys like mark” is gonna be a root to your problem later on. it really doesn’t take someone special to game chicks. its just up to what approach you use. I used to struggle with women and have watched dudes who got a lot of women struggle too. now I outgame my old self and those dudes pretty easily. thats because I learned the dynamics, they got good by accident. to do the same as your friend mark here, all you gotta do is two things. get a decent instagram profile and lead with authenticit…
/r/seduction04/08/25 04:32 AM
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You gotta let that stuff go man. I played the whole in shape/attractive road and neglected the internal. Yet as I battled myself daily, i went in circles. Learn to with yourself and start allowing yourself to process those things you mentioned. Your dad & specific triggering memories with him. Learn to let go of the attachment of comparing yourself with your peers or those you deem to be ahead (growth is not linear). You say you’re trying to make a life but the way i see now, you’re on your hero…
/r/seduction03/08/25 06:15 AM
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also biggest piece of advise rereading your post. try not to take most women too seriously. it is strange times and most people in general are not too special. but nonetheless a lot of women will say things totally not in alignment with their actions. most of the time its just fluff to weed out inexperienced men. “i need a rich man, i need him to spend, my ex was broke 😂, blah blah” Your mentality should be, -I can do all of that but for the right woman- and you can even say that as well dependi…
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:24 AM
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You could be accidentally giving off the wrong vibes via your photos, bio, or by leading with your wallet from the start. it also could be a trend in the area as well. you’re not wrong about the quality though. Ive been on the apps for years and have met some good people but also some pretty not so great people. although, I haven’t met a lot of women that expect me to play sugar daddy. they expect some $$ because of the physical quality of women i go after but its rarely been a cold requirement.…
/r/seduction23/07/25 06:17 AM
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The component you’re missing from this self development journey is the one within. 1) Two approaches: Find the very first moment you noticed this behavior. figure out moments where you’ve also noticed this behavior. And start to let go of the emotional charges that come with those memories. 2) Identify the fears under when you feel yourself acting as a “nice guy.” Whats forcing you into that frame? What are you so afraid of? (To achieve trye change, you’ll likely have to do both of these. but do…
/r/seduction04/07/25 03:22 PM
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blah. ignore these lame comments. Simply apologize and ask if yall can talk. if she doesn’t reply or is rude. Move on. If she agrees, even dryly, accept and talk. But this time, let go of it all. you’re already out the door so might as well be your best self. Meaning you can stop caring and be you
/r/seduction28/06/25 05:24 AM
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for any specific questions that you have feel free to PM. Hope this helps
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:24 AM
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Depends on the girl. Base line is don’t ever brag about the car. If its complimented, accept the compliment but change subjects. If she asks questions about it, then simply answer. As for etiquette, if you’re just meeting her on the first or second day and sometimes even the third, I would not try to put your hands on her shoulder or thigh, or around her shoulder while you’re driving or anything like that. Any kind of touching excessively in the car especially on the first and second day is just…
/r/seduction22/06/25 02:24 AM
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Also I see shes 6 hours away. Next time her interest flairs up, I recommend seeing her in this case almost immediately. Talk to her, test the waters of were her heads out by seeing where her life’s been at. Then get some attraction flowing (if you approve of her in ur mind) then take action. Make a plan to meet but this time be the man who acts on his words. (thats a powerful, powerful trait) Now just another little tip. Theres the beginning stage, the middle and the end of long distance. You do…
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:40 AM
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“Id love to” is not a real Im in. Effort is the “Im in” not her words. Shes not interested right now & the reason doesn’t matter because she hasn’t even responded for you to clear anything up IF you even had a real idea of whats going on in her head. Put her on the back burner, live your life, level up a bit and she’ll come back around. Theres no real moves you can apply other then if you have her on social media. If you do, go out and do some cools things and post a story a day. She may take th…
/r/seduction01/06/25 09:33 AM
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Also you will be of course be 100% better by focusing entirely on building game as you have. But as ive grown and decided i dont really wanna do all of tht hunting anymore. I have found its better to make game apart of who you are in a positive way. Add attractive qualities to yourself and let it be apart of you. Eventually a lot of game goes away because it simply becomes you. By doing that ive attracted a lot more with a lot less effort in my day to day. Hope this helps, goodluck brother
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:29 AM
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Thats because you’re in a fearful headspace. Game is a skill. Its learned like any other skill bro. If you learn a video game, then stop playing, you dont return at 0. No matter how the game changes or evolves, you at least have an idea of how its played or what it looks like, at bare minimum. You’ll be rusty but as you play, your comfort will return and you’ll regain skills and likely even acquire new ones. When it comes to this fear of losing game, stop worrying about losing progress. The best…
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:26 AM
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its a strange mix as you said. fun, challenging, yet easy to confuse for high attraction. the real sting for myself comes from fumbling the chick, especially knowing all you had to do at a core was not take her so seriously. But agreed. longterm, huuuge headaches. +play the simp, doormat or nice guy role and these women will flat out torture you.
/r/seduction18/05/25 04:16 AM
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Damn good advice. Toxic chicks have been a recent & unfortunate trend for myself. I now see my mistakes. Thank you OP!
/r/seduction17/05/25 01:40 PM
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I tend to be more direct. I state theres an age gap and that Id still like to meet. Ive noticed grammar is a big thing as well. Spell correctly and talk without all the extra stuff. Anyways, thats whats worked for me
/r/seduction16/05/25 01:04 AM
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good good good stuff here
/r/seduction16/05/25 12:51 AM
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Purpose is your lifes mission bro. Keep moving and you’ll find it
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:16 PM
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Some great stuff here. is a doubled edged sword. In the beginning of my dating journey, it helped a looooot. It got me in conversations with women I probably had no business with. And it continued to help me along with the physical and financial self improvement. — Later on though after a break from dating and maturing past a real need to over value myself, I forced that same “Im him, theres nobody greater” mentality on my older self and also tried to apply the same self improvement. Now after d…
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:12 PM
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also, one more things true. when you hurt others, you hurt yourself. so i wouldn’t worry too much about ruining someone else, unless your willing to open yourself up to the same level of pain, if not worse.
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:18 AM
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Seduction is a tool. It can be tempting to lay down morals for better results or chase that sense of power and satisfaction but as someone whose been there, i can can say the biggest lesson here is simply don’t hurt people because you have the power to do so. and also that feeling your after will take you to some dark dark places. seems obvious right? but yet I too was consumed by that hunger for more power. that was until I was traumatized back. the first couple of times facing real raw trauma …
/r/seduction04/05/25 05:15 AM
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additionally, if you’re “influencing” 20k people in retrospect that’d be a lot but online, not really. Its easy to follow a hot chick. Ive also seen girls not posting that influencer type content and having 20k+ followers. And when you account for the type of followers she’ll likely have (for both cases) the numbers seem like fluff. I don’t consider that an instagram influencer in the way the OP is defining it.
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:33 PM
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20k isn’t really as much as most people think. Im pretty active on my own instagram so Ive gotten a good feel for my followers and others. Ive also used instagram as a tool to attracting women. Most of those “20k followers” are gonna be complete weirdos, accounts that are either rarely used or are meme accounts. Then theres just the simp followers. aka the dudes liking and commenting hearts eyes. (which will be majority of an attractive women’s followers) Women don’t even pay these dudes any rea…
/r/seduction01/05/25 04:28 PM
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also people who need to blatantly try and insult in a conversation are usually pretty weak individuals. I would never take advice from you lol
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:03 AM
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dawg learn to get your point across. I reread your post and its the exact same context 😆
/r/seduction01/05/25 12:00 AM
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Ive pulled a couple of these “influencer types” (around 20k followers) but I never really noticed or cared for the follower count. I think I did once when I was like 16 and I ended up pedestalizing her. after that I never really cared ab the followers. the only thing that Id note about it is it’d be harder for her to see my follow or DM. But once you’re noticed and she takes interest, she’ll respond the same as anyone else. All women I date have options so those followers aren’t really much diff…
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:59 PM
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Honestly bro I got a chick following me with 100k. I wouldn’t really consider anyone around 20k an influencer per se. even if they post like one. If they’re not above 25k i really wouldn’t even notice or care tbh
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:53 PM
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“Women are supposed to be obsessed with status, not men” bros never ready a book. Ever heard of Julius Cesar? Napoleon? both wanted fame. hmmm Floyd Mayweather? Hmmmm who else. I feel like theres a long list of male actors as well. All people with an enjoyment for status. And you know whats ironic? Im pretty confident they all got/get more a$$ than you. Status isn’t a requirement but it gets you laid.
/r/seduction30/04/25 11:52 PM
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W
/r/seduction16/04/25 03:40 AM
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welcome to the experience of 90% of men lol. bro heard “tinders for hookups” nd thought it’d be a cake walk
/r/seduction09/04/25 01:45 AM
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Wealthy with no game. Drop the rich entitlement act and you’ll have tons of opportunities to meet chicks at whatever stage your dating games at. Money makes dating easier as long as its not tied to self esteem.
/r/seduction07/04/25 12:42 AM
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exxaaaacttlyyyy bro. forcing the interactions just isnt it. the gyms for me.
/r/seduction03/04/25 07:20 AM
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A coach recommended that unless a girls staring at you hard asf and I mean like a sniper. then its not recommended to approach. you dont sh*t where you eat and in my own experience I muuuuuch rather goto the gym as a stranger then have bad blood, relations or 20 friends i have to say wassup to everytime I go. Gyms, Me time. Adding people in with boundaries is Ok. but if yall grow as friends, its annoying
/r/seduction02/04/25 07:31 AM
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You scared her off. Its likely due to her own experiences though. usually when a chick vanishs like this is when you’ve accidentally gave off relationship vibes, triggered something from her past, gave fboy vibes, etc. The list can really go on tbh. chicks just do that sometimes, usually out of fear of something. I wouldn’t even boggle your mind about it. It could literally be for a nuuuuumber of reasons
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:32 AM
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agreed
/r/seduction26/03/25 02:06 AM
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Aye you know what. respect for going after the knowledge. that in itself is exactly self improvement. going forward, thats my advice and I appreciate you dropping this post.
/r/seduction19/03/25 08:43 AM
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Some good gems in there for sure. But my advice for you is to not buy these courses. Im 23 and broke out of that “nerd” phase you mentioned when I was 19. I bought a course in the beginning and refunded it a few days later. These coaches are oil salesman. To a beginner it can be beneficial but at the same time very damaging. It can very easily cause unrealistic mindsets, ego inflation and narcissism. Dan Bilzerian leads with money and no doubt has slept with more chicks than Ive met in the last …
/r/seduction19/03/25 08:31 AM
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More Nonsexual interactions=Catching feeling. Shes starting to check some those internal boxes. Whatever those might be You’re catching feelings my guy
/r/seduction19/03/25 02:02 AM
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If being yourself is a “nice guy” then you’re not actually being yourself. You didn’t come out the womb being mr nice guy. You likely screamed, cried and kicked until someone gave you comfort for being spawned into this bright a$$ room. So drop the bs act and talk to them like they’re human. Thats part of what the “asshole” does. Yet, the asshole turns good women off. Dont be the asshole. Unlearn that nice guy and “need to be a dbag” bs and learn to be you. The you before someone came along and …
/r/seduction14/03/25 09:14 AM
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Any human should care. And a Man should especially care. Knowing your audience is a powerful social skill. You’ll learn that in any Social Skills Course or Public Speaking Course. Whats even more powerful is being a man who can say whatever he wants but chooses to maintain a level of decency with whoever he’s talking to. A man of choice is powerful.
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:26 AM
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If only these dudes knew the trial and error it takes. Then they’d know its far riskier to never play the game then to play and continuously fail. Trial/Error is necessary. Trying to be perfect only builds a shell of dependence.
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:27 AM
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Or do a little inner work/trial and error and get it for free!
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:17 AM
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First realize you are good enough. You are human, same as anyone you interact with. That value you have as a fellow human does not change whether you can speak to someone or not. it doesn’t change whether ur rich, poor, jacked or scrawny. You can’t get rid of it and you cant increase it. Realize you’ve always been good enough. 1.2. Embrace awkward moments. everybody has them, even the most socially capable person you know. The difference is they likely ignore it, embrace it, laugh at it or do so…
/r/seduction10/03/25 09:15 AM
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Work on setting the date vibe, not sexual. That means building a connection via a text convo then a potential phone call (to see if u even like the chick) My philosophy for this is do I want ndes or do I want the actual woman. If woman, then stop the sexual/thirsty bs. Throw it out of your mind. Friend vibe is the classic neediness, cornball/comedian mindset, overly simpish, too much talking and not enough progressing the interaction, etc. Simply respond as a human and progress as the convo goes…
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:56 AM
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Makes sense. on dating apps, the date intention is there via the match. assuming you’ve worked on yourself and stand out.
/r/seduction10/03/25 08:48 AM
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and lastly, as you’ve found out. watch words like chick and female. any word you use with the bro’s other then women/woman, you gotta somewhat watch. easy to give the wrong impression
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:43 AM
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also if you’re actively dating, chicks will come and go. sometimes you simply dont check her boxes or you fumble. not the end of the world bro, shes her and you’re still you at the end of the day. It didn’t move you up or down
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:41 AM
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the lesson here for any guys reading this is: talk less. <—- that right theres a game changer. especially for you joker types
/r/seduction10/03/25 05:40 AM
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If it sucks=You haven’t done the external work+ the internal work of not needing chicks.
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:47 AM
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Simple, yet a very effective tip. Do not move yourself closer. You offer her a spot next to you. offering her a calm reassurances of you’re not gonna “bite” as the older folks would say. In my mind, you moving closer shows immediate interest and gives two vibes. Nervous and Needy. Just offer her up a spot or let her sit first and then take your seat right next to her.
/r/seduction09/03/25 07:44 AM
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me somewhat as well. hookups dont interest me. i want high quality and longevity
/r/seduction08/03/25 11:57 PM
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Ironically, the work gets them everything they’ve been after all along
/r/seduction08/03/25 02:48 AM
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I think what gets most men is the initial positive response they get. It can be great used as a social tool but one on one in terms of seduction, it can land you into a friendzone pretty quick or the no a$$ zone
/r/seduction08/03/25 02:47 AM
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Also I noticed you say its a serious investment into yourself. The GREATEST investment you could EVER MAKE, is investing in yourself inner world. The inside paints the outside. None of this stuff will fix whats going on inside. It’s a mask. Even the investments. You are not any of these items, services or even the money. You are you. Learn to let that be everything and more, and then you’ll see how seduction, dating, charisma, losses/wins, etc., all start to become easier. These things in your p…
/r/seduction07/03/25 06:04 AM
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Doesn’t wanna piss it away but is actively trying to invest it into self development. Most of this sh*ts free or you can do with a little effort. Buy a gym membership, maybe fix the tooth if its obvious (no whitening, your not rich, stop acting like it) and then Invest it into an asset, IRA, or something thats gonna get a return. Take a free public speech course or enroll in a semester of college and take their course. (life changing, either way.) This list looks like you’re trying to skip the w…
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:59 AM
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^
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:52 AM
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ditch the jokes and corny sh*. Seduction lands harder every other way.
/r/seduction07/03/25 05:52 AM
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truth. if you find yourself attaching to people fast or consistently, regardless of that persons quality or if you even really like them, then theres most likely an underlying cause from the persons past.
/r/seduction28/02/25 03:59 AM
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dawg. end of date, ask the question. She says yes or no. thats it. tip: ask casually. as if it was just any other question.
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:02 AM
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Every human is born with value. Thats the core of having self worth. When you were a baby, you had a clean page. It was only until people put their standards, fears and ideas onto you that you then internalized and tried to align with it. You are not less than anyone on this earth because you’re shorter. Are you really gonna let another person put their low standards onto you? or will you create your own, for yourself? No ones plays god on this earth, meaning that handicap you’ve placed on yours…
/r/seduction25/01/25 01:02 PM
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It’s also letting go of those negative internal beliefs. that in my experience has been the hard part but as you do, you notice that things you used to need, you don’t anymore.
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:54 PM
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This is spot on. I had to fake and take my personality to a bad place to date chicks. Since working on my self esteem, things have improved significantly. My lifes options feel as if they’re opening up (socially & career wise) and the quality of what I attract AND allow has also significantly gone up. The best part? I can be me and be proud of that.
/r/seduction25/01/25 12:51 PM
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Housing safety: Get a ring camera, that’s priority one. Get a safe, doesn’t have to be fancy but store anything valuable or private. watch your clothes because even the really nice girls can wonder off with them. (not a security risk but ye girls like clothes lol) Always,always, alwaaaays, lock your door at night. Just do it for your safety and hers. then when your dating look for any signs that give you crazy vibes (the something feels off, kind of vibe). another really good way is to see how s…
/r/seduction22/01/25 12:06 PM
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Yea idk about this post. Im active on socials and dating apps and have women messaging me pretty regularly. I actually prefer to attract and then pursue. It allows me to focus on other things rather than chicks and still get the girls I want. Id say the most important thing with this route is being able to back up your lifestyle. meaning when she reaches out, you’re the same person in the spotlight as behind the scenes. Its made my own dating life and everything else infinitely better.
/r/seduction22/01/25 01:01 AM
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Again, scripts are just unnecessary memorization, obstacles and overall just one big headache. I know plenty of dudes, like myself who do better than I and don’t use some 10 page script to talk to a chick. Its just extra steps
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:44 AM
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“The scripts might not be moral, or ethical but it doesn’t matter as long as they are effective!” is a very dangerous way of thinking. Also another lesson Ive learned myself so I wont judge. Sure you can play unfairly as you would say in your two teams example but longterm? Probably not. Again, Its unfulfilling and comes with bad repercussions. But let’s say you drop all the moral restrictions, well guess what? Psychopaths also lack moral restrictions. You know whats even worse? They’ll do it be…
/r/seduction21/01/25 11:40 AM
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Well considering your using a script and prescribed plan, id say thats pretty unauthentic. An actor acts and you (the audience) know they’re playing a role. They’re authentically an actor but that character isn’t authentically them. It could be (in some cases) but likely not because again, their career is to act. Additionally, 90% of us aren’t actors. As somebody again, who’s been down that road, saying things in a script occasionally got me laid, sure. But at times, it came off as try hard, cri…
/r/seduction21/01/25 10:30 AM
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Unless u wanna memorize the 18+ steps recommended by others that I’m seeing. I gave up that route a couple years ago and my dating life has neeeevvveer been this good. Its almost too easy
/r/seduction20/01/25 11:31 PM
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In my experience, Scrips don’t really work. It comes off as copy/past and unauthentic. You’ll also be looking for that next line constantly and if you dont have it? Just simply, Develop a set of rules (to ensure you create the effect you’re wanting) and let your personality fill in the rest. That mixed with built up confidence will naturally make you more charming.
/r/seduction20/01/25 11:27 PM
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yup. an unusual either or for me as well
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:54 AM
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a, b , c , d, e , f
/r/seduction04/01/25 06:53 AM
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Just start talking to more women romantically. No need to over complicate or worry. And no need to be down. Often times the easiest answer is the right one. Additionally, you’d be surprised how flip floppy the dating game is. One week you’ll be talking to 3 girls and the next none. It really is that fast. So it may be dry now but with some simple convos with the opposite gender, it’ll take off. Take a breath. Talk to more chicks, see where it goes.
/r/seduction31/12/24 06:00 PM
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games always existed in some form throughout history. also you dont necessarily need game to find a partner but it improves your odds of success and lets you have that insider knowledge to avoid a bad situation. Love or that strong feeling of chemistry or however you’d describe it is human nature. It likely wont go away.
/r/seduction22/12/24 11:22 PM
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It sounds like her interest is low in terms of any seriousness. Id just ignore it and continue playing your role. basically be who you were to her when you pulled her initially. Ignore the comment. Shes having fun, so you have your fun. Continue per usual
/r/seduction19/12/24 09:07 AM
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These comments are pretty spot on. I also wouldn’t type so much, its coming off as thirsty. Your texts length should be around the same as hers.
/r/seduction04/12/24 05:47 AM
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It’d be to become 100% self sufficient and to raise my self esteem via self love, care and acceptance. It would’ve saved me a lot of headaches On top of that, get into the interests/areas that help attract chicks from the start. Combine all that and it becomes so much less of an overall headache.
/r/seduction04/12/24 05:32 AM
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Tinders too expensive nowadays. I have 99+ likes but veeeery rarely see matches in the pool. I dont even use it atp
/r/seduction14/11/24 04:17 AM
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Its okay but learn to recognize what you like. when you like someone soley for s*x, you gotta be aware of that so you can make a good decision. If its performance issues on her part, that can be taught. If its bad chemistry then thats perfectly acceptable to tell her that chemistrys simply not there and to move on. Regardless, Always, always trust your gut but identify what made you lose that interest. It’ll help you going forward
/r/seduction13/11/24 03:33 AM
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Man I wish I knew some of the dudes on this thread irl. Its hard finding people with this kind of knowledge
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:53 PM
3

In my experience it all really depends on how the dude proceeds. Being high interest after the fact (as if you’re more interested) is probably the worst thing you can show her. (unless its planned but thats a different game) With that in mind, the best thing to do is go on as if nothing changed. Doing that increases her interest naturally as well because it shows aint nothing change. meaning also no defense mechanism. On a deeper level, Id say her emotions are more engaged making it easier to bu…
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:31 AM
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You must be new. Ill drop a lil advice for ya. Don’t make enemies because your ego wants a free drink. You think its cool to “look em in the eye” and I think most dudes who get a lil success with chicks go through this phase. But for longevity, its not too bright. Also I have a feeling your girl wouldve been in my bed getting her “hair braided” while I talk her through the steps of why shes about to cheat on yo cornyahhs. probably why shes ur ex now 🤣
/r/seduction03/11/24 11:25 PM
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Giving a woman head after meeting her 3x is insane. Who teaches yall your game? 🙃
/r/seduction03/11/24 10:27 PM
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Just not optimal & a perfect place to get used for drinks. Im the guy chicks call over after the club. it’s nothing but laughs and good times. We appreciate your free drinks tho! 😂
/r/seduction03/11/24 10:23 PM
1

ahaha, Yes! I fell into that until I read “The Game.” Then I realized I was masking myself instead of working on the parts I actually wanted to change. I think Tyson has a pretty good quote that relates to that: “A person that is friends with everybody is an enemy to himself“
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:24 AM
1

yep, this. I spent so many years doing the whole dating games. “when should i text”, “how often”, “what should i sound like”. at the end if the day, you are a person same as they are. communicate exactly how you’d like to.
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:10 AM
1

You lost me at club. You don’t goto clubs to meet chicks
/r/seduction31/10/24 03:08 AM
25

social confidence and lowered ego due to real life experiences.
/r/seduction30/10/24 11:28 PM
1

If you’re well groomed, work on your looks/body and have decent social skills, any combination of those things and preselection is already assumed. Preselections a tricky thing when it comes to showing options. If you get a pretty girlfriend, I suggest you show her off on your socials and wherever you go frequently. That’ll entice preselection and is the only way Ive really used it aside from getting comments on my posts by pretty chicks
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:08 AM
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Being honest can take you far. If you try that and it doesn’t work, just simply say “i dont kiss and tell” or “i dont like telling my past info” and move the convo along. Id say personal preference because at the end of the day, a person of quality that genuinely likes you is what you want. And that person wouldn’t let one thing ex you out. Now dont go sharing this advice on the first or second date unless she asks lmaooo
/r/seduction25/10/24 06:04 AM
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I dont think women are focused on relationships atm. Most are career focused due to social media conditioning and the illusion of options. Just work on yourself and talk to chicks without expectations of an outcome. its what I do and its been a far less stressful and ironically more successful dating experience. Im 22 btw
/r/seduction25/10/24 05:02 AM
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damn thats deep
/r/seduction19/10/24 11:51 AM
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My only issue is that ive built up this weird “ive never done it, so if i do it now, i may actually succeed” kind of attitude. and then i just cant. i ignore the girl. Its like a weird fear of success
/r/seduction18/10/24 10:35 PM
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ahh i see. well guess what bro. regarding the confidence thing: If you mess up (and this goes with any chick) there always another opportunity down the road. In this case, she works with you. So as you go through your day to day working on yourself, she may come back around. Thats been my experience with tons of chicks. i was unconfident before and got em later. its not end all or be all
/r/seduction18/10/24 09:59 PM
1

talk to her more and try to work closer to her without jeopardizing or hurting your job. she’ll notice you coming around more often and drop hints wether shes open or not. If you get open/good reciprocation, you can probably ask if she wants to go do something after work. a hobby you enjoy, like the gym or whatever. Just remember, the more a woman likes you, the more she will make herself available. Now, If she casually drops the “i have a husband” or the “oh my husband was just..” then thats yo…
/r/seduction18/10/24 09:05 PM
1

Ive noticed my masculinity working against me as well. Its just tough because certain behaviors i find so stupid and i guess weak but those individuals tend to get the good reactions from females in a social setting. I think personally, I need to get better at expression when it comes to my own masculinity. Likely develop more social context as well. That way I can effectively draw in the chicks the same way those who have a weaker sense of masculinity do. One on one, I do fine. Its just that so…
/r/seduction18/10/24 07:36 PM
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I get what you mean. It does seem awkward because our generation is hella antisocial (im 22) but ill say the times i have saw someone our age casually cold approach, they usually succeed. Its insane because its so casual and kind of hard to notice but those dudes are winning. im tryna get there
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:36 PM
2

Treat every interaction like an experiment and dont care what results you get. I used this when i was your age as my mentality, just to see what works and what doesn’t. It really does make it easier
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:33 PM
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I got you. I usually do feel good about myself. I think my social skills or confidence is somehow intimidating some of the women im talking to. So i guess i need to learn how to be a little more direct (as you’ve kind of said) and also to tie that energy into a more casual convo with a girl. any takes or experiences on this?
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:31 PM
2

So let that attraction show through? I also usually act uninterested romantically but try to convey interest in my words. Particularly in a group setting because I feel like its awkward
/r/seduction18/10/24 03:27 PM
1

Its not necessarily if they’re real or fake. its moreso am I gonna hate this chick or not. If you both say this’ll get me more date experience then Ill get back to doing it that way
/r/seduction16/10/24 02:43 PM
1

Cmon man. thats big advice, surely you’ve got a follow up for me
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:43 AM
1

My only issue here is going on a date with a catfish or someone I simply dont get along with. So by using the phone calls, ive been able to mostly screen out these women. For example, one time I was talking to this girl and it was ammmaaazing over text. but when we got in person, it was mostly fine until a disagreement came up. and she turned into this entirely different person. so from from that, i started screening girls better on the phone and its really saved me some time. some of these girl…
/r/seduction16/10/24 05:42 AM
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noted
/r/seduction15/10/24 08:52 PM
0

Voice notes? My in person game is solid, its just that gap of getting the number to getting on the date
/r/seduction15/10/24 04:41 PM
2

How do i tease her over text tho?
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:41 PM
1

I see. What would you recommend I do to start attracting them in that way instead of that online dynamic?
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:16 PM
1

Like I can get the number/social/ a response but past there is when I fail. Im so much better in person but the texting or date setting is where I struggle. I usually ask for the number and no reply
/r/seduction15/10/24 03:13 PM
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