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6

Go for it it. What do you stand to lose? Literally nothing, congrats she says no you move on with ur life. The upside is so much higher, possible lover, FWB, anything, everything
/r/seduction19/07/26 01:40 PM
8

*Quirky widdit
/r/seduction18/07/26 10:15 PM
31

Honestly, my ADHD is my weapon. I'm pretty quirky widdit and it makes the girls laugh. Stop hating on urself and making excuses. My ADHD(medically diagnosed) has done nothing but HELP me pull. ADHD isn't stopping u, it's ur own mindset
/r/seduction18/07/26 09:28 PM
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Likewise
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:50 AM
1

Same I'm off apps. All lays this year were cold approach or friends of friends
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:50 AM
1

Honestly playfully disagree. Or if she says something pertaining to herself be like, "oh you WOULD xxxx"
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:16 AM
1

U should mentor me in life i want what u want
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:06 AM
1

Good for u?
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:34 AM
0

Nah lmao, u keep it ambiguous broski
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:24 AM
2

Cold approach, friends of friends. Apps, everything. The worst or lowest are from apps. Get fit, dress decent, hygiene, be confident, be funny
/r/seduction23/06/26 01:24 AM
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I like this advice
/r/seduction22/06/26 11:59 PM
0

Nah Minnesota lmao. And I'm short and Asian but I pull lowkey. Shits hard tho
/r/seduction22/06/26 11:59 PM
1

Okay so I'm cooked. Agreed Now give me solutions.
/r/seduction22/06/26 11:05 PM
4

Id disagree with the viewing her as nothing more than her body. I factor in personality as well which is why dating has been hard because finding a pretty girl is easy but finding a pretty girl with good banter, enjoyable conversation and kindness/empathy is hard. <- things I value. But ur right on the training my brain part
/r/seduction22/06/26 08:16 PM
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Yeah I know. I hate this rabbit hole, what's a good solution?
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:56 PM
3

I KNOOOWWW IM SCARED. I don't wanna do open relationships 💀💀💀. But I also don't want to commit just quite yet. My standards are very high, but I'm not hot enough/rich enough to consistently pull the baddies I truly want.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:46 PM
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I'm just doing FWBs rn
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:35 PM
1

Ofc. I always try to be respectful to women I'm with. If given the circumstance it's not reciprocated, I have the power to walk away.
/r/seduction22/06/26 07:20 PM
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Lowkey....this might be the strat
/r/seduction12/06/26 04:51 PM
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Oh fuck. Im getting there. My body count almost 50 and I notice I move on too fast and don't care anymore. nooooo I WANT A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IN THE FUTURE IM COOOOOOKED
/r/seduction10/06/26 04:30 PM
1

Id say 15+
/r/seduction10/06/26 03:19 AM
3

How many do u consider "plenty?"
/r/seduction09/06/26 09:09 PM
1

Might be ur issue....
/r/seduction04/06/26 04:06 PM
4

"I was until I saw you" "Only on odd days of the month" "If I take u out, I could change that perception" "Yeah, but u turned me straight" "My mom thinks so too, u could help me fix that" Etc...
/r/seduction04/06/26 12:56 AM
1

Def still intermediate. Fuck. Avg girl out of 38 I've been with is a 6.75.
/r/seduction03/06/26 08:57 PM
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What would u consider intermediate, then what would u consider advanced
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:59 PM
1

What do u look like?
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:58 PM
1

U can either sit on that side and view from afar OR YOU GET IN THERE MY BOIII, DONT LET PAST HANGUPS AND NEGATIVITY STOP YOU FROM REACHING YOUR GOALS(OF GETTIGN LAID OR RELATIONSHIP) downside: she says no, ur life stays the same. U feel a little bit shitty for like 5 mins Upside: you respect urself for approaching, she possibly says yes, likes u, u exchange contact info, u take her out, u hold hands, get a kiss, get more dates, u get laid, experience the beauty of relationships and the game. Ur …
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:38 PM
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Honestly, that's how it goes, when u care about getting laid, the universe gives u a desert, but when u stop caring and just focus on urself(still be social and talk to girls), the universe provides u with abundance. Me rn, I'm in "monk mode" I'm cutting weight, working, working out, building my business, and now girls are just throwing themselves at me
/r/seduction07/05/26 06:25 PM
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Id argue the number still matters. It's impressive to do 1000 approaches each year so that's 3 a day.
/r/seduction13/04/26 05:42 PM
4

How many bodies or what threshold do you start considering a man a manslut. Let's go with 25 yr old
/r/seduction13/04/26 12:16 AM
10

Well as chill as this is. I doubt it’ll work based on context but I see where u are headed. Another option is, “I’m making _____ dish tonight, I might need a helping hand, come over.” Less pressure on intentions cuz watching a movie tonight is too straightforward. U can def put on the movire after dinner and when she’s comfortable. Easy killings
/r/seduction10/03/26 06:08 AM
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Honestly, I look at it like a play sometimes and "play" a character. It doesn't always work, but it's a lot better than being a nervous wreck around women/peers etc.. Arent u tired of it? Are u going to always continue to beat urself down or eventually say fuck it and have fun with it. Life is too short to give enough fucks.
/r/seduction08/03/26 03:42 AM
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Not at all. If someone else had such PREFERENCES for me then I would respect it. Do I think of someone with a higher body count to be less human, no. Do I know it's a little hypocritical? Absolutely. I don't date myself so the conflict isn't an impediment on my life.
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:15 PM
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"if you're considering dating them."
/r/seduction03/03/26 06:09 PM
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Under 10 for me personally. Above 20 is a deal breaker for me usually. I'm around 30ish at 24
/r/seduction03/03/26 05:56 PM
1

Well u should, if u want female attention, that's lowkey ur highest rate of success rn
/r/seduction03/03/26 02:26 AM
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Was going to comment something harsher, thank god I found this comment
/r/seduction02/03/26 06:26 PM
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Everyone needs to go on his profile right now. He's a good looking dude if u scroll down. He seems to be 6ft+ too. It's clearly not a looks issue but maybe more of an internal one. I'm 5'8.5, asian and look like a riceball. Ive been with some absolute baddies. If I can do it. So can you brotherrrr.
/r/seduction13/02/26 07:49 PM
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FACTUALLLLLLLLLLL ABUNDANCE MENTALITY GO BRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
/r/seduction11/02/26 05:29 AM
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7. Summer after senior year of college. I was fucking/dating 7 different girls. I sent around 4k on them in total that summer. I remember I started fucking up details and misremembering information. One of them was a runner up for miss Minnesota. I was in my peak fuck boy era. One of the girls really wanted to date me(it's been 3 years and we still talk, shes a good friend). I was too lost in the sauce to realize she was a dime. Currently single and haven't had sex in 8 months and haven't banged…
/r/seduction09/02/26 03:39 PM
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Most girls like muscles but hates gym bros, so u gotta frame it correctly
/r/seduction14/01/26 01:54 AM
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Could work.
/r/seduction14/01/26 01:54 AM
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Context matters and angles. If ur just doing a shit less pic of u flexing in the mirror, it won't NOT work but it'll def skew ur results. But beach? Lake? Etc....natrual setting is better
/r/seduction14/01/26 01:44 AM
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Honestly, in order to have this type of stabilization within yourself as a man you need to go through some sort of hardship or suffering in my personal opinion. Back in the old days, there would always be some sorts of like rights of passage whether it’s like killing someone or hunting an animal or providing food for your family. We don’t have that type of physical hard strenuous experience so we have to simulate it artificially through the gym. That’s why gym culture is so big. I’m only 24 but …
/r/seduction07/01/26 01:21 PM
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Can you even fucking try? This is ChatGPT.
/r/seduction17/11/25 01:03 AM
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Fuck this is so real.
/r/seduction13/11/25 03:11 AM
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Do u think it's more so because of a lack of constant exposure. Ive been kind of on a hiatus wit women recently cuz I got laid off and I'm slowly drifting into depression and didn't wanna drag any girls into my mess.
/r/seduction30/09/25 04:48 PM
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Maybe not scared of women but I definitely get very nervous around women who I find attractive because I can't help but see them as potential mates
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:32 PM
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I've been on over 100+ dates. Ive had rotations. I've been with models. I'm 24 and I'm still scared of pretty women lmao. When did that mentality finally switch permanently, it's like unless I'm constantly actively getting laid then my default is being a pussy around said attractive beautiful women
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:19 PM
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How old are u if u don't mind me askin
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:12 PM
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Thanks Sherlock
/r/seduction25/08/25 12:50 AM
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Factual
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:35 AM
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Nah bro, I would've immediately cancelled the date when she talked about going clubbing with her friends afterwards, like really -_-
/r/seduction17/08/25 06:35 AM
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I read it. It was indeed all garbage
/r/seduction13/08/25 03:07 AM
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24 hrs. I had a sugar mom who was obsessed with me reposnd to my texts like once every 36 hrs. But that was a very very rare case cuz she hated using hernphone and sucked at texting but general rule of thumb, if they spent 24 hrs without taking 10 seconds to text u, she ain't into u. As for the actual date, if she misses it by 30+ mins with no good explanation, I'm Out
/r/seduction04/08/25 10:48 PM
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For many it is. For me personally I am part of the social sphere at my gym as I've been going for 2 yrs and am known among a a few regulars. I'm not saying don't do it at all(cuz I've done it) but I'm saying be cautious and understand the effects in case it goes south. Not just in the approach but also in the relationship if u get that far. There's definitely better places than others for where to approach. For example. Grocery store > Gym Some random library > Your favorite coffee shop where yo…
/r/seduction25/07/25 12:44 AM
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I think approaching at the gym especially if it's ur main gym is just NOT the move. Getting to become friends with that person, then banging her friends is a different story. Be smart, not retart. Not saying u shouldn't do it at all, but just don't shit where u eat unless ur willing to deal with the consequences
/r/seduction24/07/25 11:18 PM
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Quality advice.
/r/seduction24/07/25 05:59 AM
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Ironically, mayo sandwich is an actual thing and is enjoyed a select number of people lmao.
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:28 PM
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Speaking of sliced bread. Everyone makes their sandwich differently, what works for me obviously doesnt work for everyone.
/r/seduction22/07/25 05:22 PM
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Honestly. Go out for drinks. Have a shot or 2. Take the edge off. Get in a nice heavy fucking lift before you go on your date to have ur testosterone elevated. Also secret tip, this might sound awful, but you gotta believe she's below you. If she's pretty, just look at her nose, not her eyes(they cant tell the difference). You got this, don't blow ur chance with fine shyt
/r/seduction22/07/25 04:50 PM
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Well duh, they obviously don't like seeing it in person if they are with you. Flip the script. For women, most of their attractiveness is revolves around their looks. If you think she's hot, chances are other men are going to think she's hot and vice versa. Now for men, we have more avenues of being attractive. Whether it is being funny, rich, good looking, well spoken, powerful, etc... or any combination. Obviously more qualities you have the rarer you are. If other women find you attractive (h…
/r/seduction16/07/25 03:01 AM
1

Sex on drugs.
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:01 AM
1

Anal Gadgets(blue tooth vibrator) Maybe 3some if y'all are comfortable(doubt it tho) Penis sleeves(like ribbed ones, dragon ones etc...) Do it in public places. Stop having sex for awhile and then have sex again. EDGING. NOBODY GETS TO FINISH. sex enhancers like those honey packets and then go to a movie theater and see who can last longer without pouncing on the other
/r/seduction10/07/25 06:00 AM
1

By getting rejected over and over and over until it no longer fazes u
/r/seduction10/07/25 01:40 AM
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Give her head? Duh....
/r/seduction29/06/25 07:55 PM
1

My exact tactic
/r/seduction28/06/25 01:25 AM
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I don't think it applies to just women, but everyone in general, when someone is too intelligent beyond the scope of what I considered conventionally clever it's a whole ball game that I can't catch. Overanalysis kills the vibe Low tolerance for stupid fun Power imbalance(as in no one wants to be read like a book all the time) Loneliness(a lot of friends who are too smart are bitter and isolated) No one wants to feel stupid in front of others. Also for girls who are too smart for me? There's bee…
/r/seduction26/06/25 11:16 PM
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Literally anything.... For me personally, I love banter. If I can tease her and she can't tease me back or build upon "the joke" then it's a no go for me Otherwise, blonde, siren eyes, big tits and ass... 115+ IQ maybe? Too smart ain't fun, too dumb is miserable. Need the sweet spot
/r/seduction26/06/25 09:15 PM
2

Lmao
/r/seduction24/06/25 07:41 PM
3

Well define alot/had a lot of gfs? What's alot to you?
/r/seduction20/06/25 10:20 PM
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BRO ARE YOU ME? IVE HAD THE EXACT SAME EXPERIENCE.
/r/seduction20/06/25 06:23 AM
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FACTS. You addressed this dumbass's every single fucking point and all she had to say was "ur an incel" like fuck off. Resorts to ad hominem when she ran out of bullets
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:11 PM
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U keep acting like I'm defending violence. I'm not. I'm AM saying the act of watching porn isn’t equal to committing violence. The majority of men who watch rough porn aren’t out here beating women. Correlation ≠ causation. ALSO SAYING SOMETHING ISNT BAD DOES NOT NECESSARILY MAKE IT GOOD. There's something called a grey area so stop putting words in my mouth. Also, you're dodging the bigger point: WHICH IS saying watching porn is worse when men do it is a double standard. If U think porn is inhe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:02 PM
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U think internalizing harm makes it more moral? It doesn’t. Whether u turn the damage inward or project it out, it’s still damage. Watching porn and then doing rough sex with a consenting partner isn’t the same as attacking people. That’s a reach. Citing science while making sweeping claims about men is just bias dressed up as fact. Impact depends on the person, not just their gender. Strawman's logic. I never said it was good. Doing porn out of necessity doesn’t make it good, but neither does w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 06:22 AM
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One thing I will say before I get into this is, porn overall is bad unless that is your means of putting food on the table. HOWEVER, claiming it is more morally wrong for men to watch porn than women is just gendered guilt disguised as ethics. If watching porn funds exploitation then it is wrong for both....period. U don’t get a moral pass because you're internalizing the damage instead of externalizing it. Generalizing men become entitled while women become victims is lazy, reductionist thinkin…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 05:28 AM
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Women ☕...
/r/seduction16/06/25 05:31 PM
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Facts
/r/seduction15/06/25 07:53 PM
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FACTS ON FACTS ON FACTS.... That's why you need to develop "abundant mentality" where this girl is not a big deal. If you have pulled a girl like her before, you will pull a girl like her again if not better as u improve urself. rejected? okay NEXT. fumbled? FUCK IT WE GO NEXT!!! You pushed her away? ON TO THE NEXT ONE. KEEP ER MOVING!!!!
/r/seduction15/06/25 12:48 AM
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Hit her up lmao
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:28 AM
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Then def give it a bit. If u jump in too early u seem like ur taking advantage of her vulnerability. But it doesn't hurt to be there for her. Which...usually is the best route.
/r/seduction13/06/25 05:26 AM
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Um...u trynna just hit or start something serious. If ur trynna hit and run, then anytime between a day or 2 to a week. If you want something special then I'd give it a month or 2 but being friendly doesn't hurt.
/r/seduction13/06/25 04:38 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction12/06/25 12:07 AM
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Scroll down to my profile and read my post about being yourself.
/r/seduction11/06/25 10:07 PM
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Next time, look at her. Wave and then point down and do this with ur hands 👌 if she smiles or laughs. Congrats. You have a date, unless ur socially impaired.
/r/seduction27/05/25 05:59 PM
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I think the answer is obvious. Hit the gym Quit your porn addiction Level up your game practicing talking to people in general Or stay where you are and never taste fine pussy
/r/seduction27/05/25 03:05 AM
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Ask her out to dinner/lunch/smoothie casually "Hahaha, omg that's a crazy story. Anyways, there's this cool Asian spot I've been meaning to check out, wyd later?"
/r/seduction22/05/25 02:29 AM
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You're
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:22 AM
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Heartbreak is a monumental pivoting point for most men where growth is almost necessary. In order to grow we must face hardship. Earlier the better. You don't need drain your bank account in order to date women. There are hella cheap ways to go on dates without spending much money.
/r/seduction19/05/25 02:17 AM
1

Most of the time experience equals growth. And to a certain degree, you kind of do. Reality doesn't always align with what's in your head and on top of that, you don't know what you actually want until you have some sort of experience in the field
/r/seduction19/05/25 01:20 AM
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Never said you had to commit to love. I agree with your points under the circumstance of serious relationships. However entering 25+ with a lump sum of money, career but absolutely zero experience with women can also detrimental. You don't know what you want, you don't know how to navigate the complexities of a relationship, you don't how to please a woman let alone keep her so your chances of success is quite low, but hey, at least you know how to pay your taxes right?
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:53 AM
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Dating to MARRY as a dude under 25 without his shit together is a bad idea. Otherwise this is an awful fucking take. You have no idea what the fuck you are talking about. This is way too nichè of an experience to generalize an entire demographic of men. Dating for experience is fantastic and there's nothing wrong with going through the mud and trenches and heartbreak and etc... it's almost like the entire point of being young and stupid.
/r/seduction19/05/25 12:15 AM
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Good sex and sometimes I enjoy the unpredictability, but overall yes, you are correct
/r/seduction18/05/25 04:10 PM
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Ur not, but I bet she was
/r/seduction17/05/25 06:16 PM
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Lmao ur welcome?
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:38 PM
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I agree, but those guys haven't truly discovered themselves yet.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:57 PM
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:(
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:56 PM
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I try lmao, this unfortunately just happened to be my recent trend of girls that I meet.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:42 PM
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Lmfao, that part was a joke. I don't try to attract these types, but like attracts like.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:41 PM
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Precisely
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:06 PM
1

Lmfao fr. They can be fun but quite exhausting
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:05 PM
1

It's a joke. Relax.
/r/seduction17/05/25 03:52 PM
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This should've been its own post and not a comment lmao
/r/seduction17/05/25 06:06 AM
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Show empathy by acknowledging her feelings without making them yours. Stay grounded. Don’t over-invest, don’t fix, don’t spiral with her. Just listen, validate, and hold frame. That’s empathy with backbone
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:59 AM
0

Check out my other post :)
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:53 AM
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Thank you. It was through experience and alot of internal mental turmoil that I now have this type of knowledge. Wouldn't make sense to just keep it for myself.
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:40 AM
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That's when you leave.
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:15 AM
4

Lmao thank u, no point in posting all this shit without hooking y'all beautiful fuckers in first.
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:14 AM
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Wish more people commented on this post instead of my baddie with trauma post :(
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:13 AM
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Happy for you 🥳
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:12 AM
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Lmfao social circle and cold approach. I use OLD when Im too busy and want a quick dopamine hit, but quality in-person is ALWAYS better. The girl that inspired this direct post I met 3 days ago at the beach. I was there alone by myself for the first hour, playing dubstep and just dancing sober like a maniac and saw these 2 really gorgeous girls staring at me like I'm a fucking idiot. I waved at them, they waved back. Then one of my boys finally got there he brought a football. I beckoned the foo…
/r/seduction17/05/25 05:07 AM
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Start by doing things that aggrandize self respect. Most examples are some form of mental or physical stress like lifting, cold showers, running, working harder etc....
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:55 AM
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Probably shouldn't have put a ring on it then. I tackled this point about if they are healing and have trauma then it's fine, but if the behavior is consistent and awful with no change in sight then it's not worth pursuing. I'm sorry you had to go through what you went through. Now you are wiser and more dangerous than before and will not tolerate bs like that.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:51 AM
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PRECISELY. Only a selected few can pull off what you are doing right now. Godspeed sir.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:49 AM
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This^
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:44 AM
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Lmao a girl I was with last night inspired me to make this post. She had BPD. Dating these type of women can be quite exhausting, but can be rewarding if handled correctly.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:40 AM
2

Lmao read my other post.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:34 AM
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Crazy how quickly they switch up once you start respect yourself. I disagree, it can be worth if you know how to keep it at a distance and not make her your priority.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:34 AM
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Fair enough, but that’s kinda the point you can’t fake being “him.” If you're forcing it, chasing validation, or building a persona off red flags and lust, yeah, you will break yourself. The post wasn’t glorifying broken women or selling delusion, it was a warning and a guide. Being “him” doesn’t mean being unbreakable or cocky. It means being self-aware enough to hold your ground, know your limits, and walk away from what’s not aligned.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:32 AM
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When a girl tests you like storming off saying something retarded like “don’t talk to me” she’s not just being dramatic, she’s subconsciously checking ur emotional strength, boundaries, and how much power she has over you. The absolute WORST move is to chase, apologize, or fold under pressure. Instead, stay calm, respect her words, give her space, and hold frame. If she comes back, don’t reward bad behavior. set the tone with grounded maturity. One emotional moment is human, but if it’s a patter…
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:29 AM
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It is natural for us dudes to immediately resort to that solutions-oriented mindset. If she's dumping, your response needs to make her feel seen, safe and respected. You aren't there to fix her shit, you're there to be somewhat of an anchor. Some examples. “Thank you for trusting me” shows appreciation and emotional awareness. “I’m really sorry you went through that” acknowledges pain without pitying. “I’m here to listen, not judge” makes it clear you’re not there to fix her or run away but you’…
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:18 AM
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Thank ya sir!
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:08 AM
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Well, like attracts like. I never said I wasn't. I am not saying I'm stable or completely put together. That's why I'm giving tips on what I know about my experiences. My general trend recently has been the alt/goth/emo types cuz I'm also relatively alternative lmao. But thanks for your input. Hopefully I won't be 40 and divorced based on a post on reddit I made in my early 20's.
/r/seduction17/05/25 04:01 AM
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Most of this post was written by CHATGPT. You can tell with the usage of "—" OP was too lazy to even edit it out. Also if you check his post history his writing style is different. ON TOP OF ALL THAT. This is fucking terrible advice I would never give anyone. Respect yourself and move the fuck on.
/r/seduction17/05/25 02:37 AM
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Do things that make you more confident, usually in a form of stress like cold showers, running, lifting, working hard, making money, etc.... some sort of personal achievement. As for humor, you just have to be an interesting person and in order for that to happen you must have hobbies or a wide range or interests. I dont exactly how someone can aggrandize their level of humor. Might just be innate, but if you can make a dude laugh, you can make a chick laugh lmao. Their emotional blueprint comes…
/r/seduction16/05/25 09:02 PM
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As a good friend once said, "Fuck it, we go next!" Way too many baddies in this world to be hung up over one.
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:57 PM
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Grab her number. Say something funny and cocky and then grab her number. Shows intention
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:11 PM
2

Think of it as monk mode and detoxing from the constant dopamine and validation women bring you
/r/seduction15/05/25 06:23 PM
1

Do you have her socials? Invite her out to go do something you normally wouldn't mind doing urself. Be like "hey yo, there's this cool restaurant nearby, I've been meaning to check out, would you like to join me?"
/r/seduction15/05/25 06:23 PM
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But that being said, sending a meme, recalling to a previous joke, or simply saying what's goodie my hoodie should work.
/r/seduction15/05/25 04:46 PM
1

You should've stood on business and not accepted anything but a phone number. I'll do snap when I don't see her as potential gf material but rather just hook up/fwb, but IG is pussy shit. If you are okay with it and it works and she doesn't seem like the Instagram hoe that we think she is cuz memes are cool then it's all good. Don't listen to me or the rest of the these fools and just do your thang. HOWEVER since you ARE asking how to open up a convo with a chick on IG, I think you might not kno…
/r/seduction15/05/25 04:45 PM
1

Have u talked to ur boy about it
/r/seduction15/05/25 06:59 AM
1

This is beyond my pay grade brother. DM me. Who is she more into?
/r/seduction15/05/25 03:41 AM
1

Always. Amen.
/r/seduction14/05/25 08:50 PM
2

Yup, too many factors for us to consider
/r/seduction14/05/25 01:02 AM
1

Agreed.
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:30 PM
1

Thank u for reading
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:30 PM
1

Yes, but if I wrote that for the post then it wouldn't have shot to the top the way it has.
/r/seduction13/05/25 06:29 PM
2

Um that's a very vague question my friend. Wdym you can't pull, do you go up and talk to girls? How's ur OLD game? Are you getting matches?
/r/seduction13/05/25 03:37 AM
3

Thank you sir! Best of luck out there 🤞
/r/seduction13/05/25 03:01 AM
6

Yes. But think about it as a lucky draw. If your chance of landing a hot gf who you like is 3% ur gonna have to draw alot. But thank god u get unlimited draws, but....ur gonna need to shoot ur shot alot
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:51 AM
6

Lmfao that's overkill, but why do u think that happened?
/r/seduction13/05/25 12:08 AM
3

If you know your demographic u should be able to figure out location
/r/seduction12/05/25 11:06 PM
17

I think it's a sign to get off dating apps. Talk to girls in person
/r/seduction12/05/25 09:10 PM
2

I appreciate it man :))) Agreed, same. Even after putting up very solid numbers I sometimes still get stuck in that mindset
/r/seduction12/05/25 09:07 PM
14

Me rn fr fr. Took me awhile to figure it out and sometimes I backtrack and don't have it on lock but roll the dice and see what happens.
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:41 PM
11

In that case it's the confidence/internal. Also sometimes depending on our diet, the way we slept, lighting and shit like that affects our attractiveness. Sometimes it's just pure randomness or at least that's what I tell myself so I don't pull my hair thinking about the reason why
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:36 PM
47

People need to stop thinking attractiveness is static. I hate the term "conventionally attractive"
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:30 PM
15

I had longer hair when I got rejected by the 6. Which doesn't make sense since most girls tell me I look better with longer hair. Wasn't the only instance that I was rejected by girls who were "below" my attractiveness tier. I fluctuate between a 6.75-8.25 depending on the day. How can you achieve this? What're are you trying achieve exactly?
/r/seduction12/05/25 06:28 PM
8

Confidence = attractiveness Insecuritiy = no poonami
/r/seduction24/04/25 03:50 PM
4

Practice makes perfect ;)
/r/seduction18/04/25 11:21 PM
0

Because girls like men who are bold and assertive with their words and actions. Most women are meek and dainty so they generally prefer a man who has grit, confidence and boldness. Some younger women confuse this with douche/badboy behavior and end up with an abuser. Why do girls stay with men like that? Because they are naturally attracted to the the darker behaviors of such men. Women generally like to be entertained. Danger sparks their curiousity as does a level of boldness and unpredictabil…
/r/seduction26/03/25 09:11 PM
1

U met ur wife through pick up? Wild...
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:47 PM
44

Lmao idk what to make of this. As someone with over 100 dates and 30+ lays in my early 20's. I'd say this is a black swan event. Some bitches are weird. Move on. Fuck it we go next.
/r/seduction25/03/25 11:11 PM
1

Yup. A dab of deodorant right above my shaft(where their nose goes) and a little on my taint has done WONDERS
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 01:25 AM
12

HAVE GOOD FUCKING HYGIENE. Taking care of yourself goes a long way. Simply looking/being clean puts you above most people. Also make sure you screen her out depending on your goals. For example, if you don't want kids, make sure she's pro-choice and on birth control otherwise wear a fucking condom, it's not a big deal. Get your finances in order, get your fitness in order and THEN game will be much much easier because you have a solid baseline of competence which leads to confidence. Learn how t…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/25 01:00 AM
10

"Hey I'm behind on schoolwork and I'm going to the library to study, could you help me review some flashcards" "hey this new restaurant just opened and I've been meaning to try it out. I don't want to look like a divorced dad, would you like to come with me" Literally anything that you would do by urself normally, invite them.
/r/seduction20/03/25 10:37 PM
2

You're cooked, ggs On more serious note, stop prioritizing her. Let ur balls and that thing swang, AND GET SOME FUCKING TANG
/r/seduction19/03/25 12:45 PM
2

I give it 3 months before I'm sure I want to date her. If everything is still fine and dandy by then. Ask her out.
/r/seduction18/03/25 09:14 PM
2

Okay fair enough. Don't ask her out too early on if u happen to be into her. Just enjoy the music
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:42 PM
2

This is a chance to get some gf experience Brody. She will probably be over the moon. Girls like commitment and shit
/r/seduction18/03/25 08:10 PM
1

U might want more than FWB's if u are thinking about her this much
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:50 PM
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I only ask for alphas. Sorry
/r/seduction18/03/25 07:24 PM
3

This is hard to tell. I think she is mostly very "nice" to you and understands that she is smart enough to not shit where she eats and you shouldn't either. There are SO MANY attractive women in this world brah. I would like to inquire about your reasoning on going after the one you see at work. Keep work and love separate. Trust. Or...bite the bullet and ask her out. Pussy.
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:14 PM
46

Nah nah nah don't listen to these retards, this is the answer you want to hear. If she's an 8 or above that's long term gf material, def hit If she's a 7 or above, then thats fwb material If she's a 6 then it doesn't hurt to have her as a FWB or hook up If she's a 5 then possibly reconsider or drink to the point where she's a 6. In conclusion yes. Gain experience. Don't listen to these boyscouts. Get some tang so you know what to do when you meet the 7.5's and above. Most guys are bad at sex, ga…
/r/seduction18/03/25 12:28 PM
2

U don't need to be. It's almost a Separate thing
/r/seduction18/03/25 03:00 AM
17

Also a great way to avoid a catfish
/r/seduction17/03/25 11:41 PM
2

Ideally the other way around in terms of order. Otherwise yes.
/r/seduction17/03/25 06:45 PM
30

Yes, dude, facebook dating is the way to go right now. ONLY IF YOU ARE LOOKING TO FUCK. not necessarily the highest quality of women, but sometimes you find a few roses among the bed of weeds. CAREFUL, most of these women are crazy.
/r/seduction17/03/25 04:05 PM
18

or be her breakfast kek
/r/seduction17/03/25 03:23 PM
5

Good. Brodie planted his feet and stood his ground. Your gf may react negatively to this short term, but she respects you alot more now. Trust. Some people call this "frame." Keep it up.
/r/seduction17/03/25 12:58 PM
1

Don't fuck it up if you love her. Focus on yourself if u want it in the Long term
/r/seduction16/03/25 06:03 AM
3

U need to grow up bro. I get it, I was an overthinker like u too. Take a chill pill. Everything is good. Don't let these insecurities ruin ur relationship like I did when I was 19
/r/seduction16/03/25 02:44 AM
3

U asked for my thoughts. I gave advice. Do whatever u please then
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:52 PM
2

Oof. Don't shit where u eat. If she's in the same department or you cross paths alot. I recommend just being her friend.
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:46 PM
2

Life is too short to do this shit. If u like a girl, think about it for a second. She won't remember this in 2 days let alone 2 years. Just go for it.
/r/seduction15/03/25 10:33 PM
17

Did u even read the 2nd part. OP can't meet her
/r/seduction14/03/25 07:06 PM
2

You princess carry her to dinner. Congrats, you now have a date. You're welcome. I'll DM u my venmo
/r/seduction13/03/25 04:04 PM
3

Hmmm, still salveageble lmaooooo
/r/seduction13/03/25 12:32 AM
3

Calling u bitch boy is my way of being friendly. What I'm essentially saying is despite how attractive she is, you can find better. A more attractive girl who actually likes you. Congrats on ur self improvement plan.
/r/seduction12/03/25 10:28 PM
1

Stole it from my dad
/r/seduction12/03/25 10:27 PM
5

Also that's a double negative. So I appreciate the compliment
/r/seduction12/03/25 09:04 PM
2

Lmao. U would be surprised
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:54 PM
3

Deodorant old spice gentlemen lavender for FWB's and hook ups. Temu cologne cupid whatever fuck bullshit for dates Creed Irish Tweed for possible gf's wife material
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:42 PM
1

Excellent detour. This only works if she was receptive to the punches. Also only works if she has a sense of humor. Otherwise beautiful continuation of a baseline
/r/seduction12/03/25 08:16 PM
5

Okay...then ur not fucking ugly, she's just a retard and u need to move on, lower ur standards, improve even further or take the black pill. On average, I'm a 7.5/10. To some girls I'm a 9.5/10 or maybe even 10/10, but to some other girls I'm like a 4.5/10. Attraction is subjective. Find the person you think is a 8+/10 or higher and thinks of u in the same way. Godspeed bitch boy
/r/seduction12/03/25 06:20 PM
1

Then u might be ugly...
/r/seduction12/03/25 06:05 PM
1

Which move?
/r/seduction12/03/25 06:01 PM
5

BAH TOH UH WU-UH
/r/seduction12/03/25 05:08 PM
24

Under the said circumstances(being decent looking and having a spine) THERE'S NO FUCKING UNIVERSE WHERE THIS DOESNT WORK(yes there is technically if you believe in the multiverse theory, but it just means in THAT universe you are a pussy ass bitch).
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:38 PM
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Nah nah nah, don't listen to these fucking fools. HERE IS HOW YOU FUCKING BREAK THE TOUCH BARRIER WITHOUT BEING A CREEP(if you are sub 4 in looks with no relation to this girl DO NOT FOLLOW THESE TIPS) The gotcha circle, make an okay with an "o" with one of ur hands while making on contact with her, then look down at it to make her look down, BOOM she looks down you give her 2 playful punches. Could be used as an initiator and HAS NEVER FAILED in terms of positive reaction Something funny happen…
/r/seduction12/03/25 02:16 PM
6

Approaching a girl in a group of dudes? Now that takes some fucking balls of tungsten carbide. It's one thing to approach a girl in a group of girls by urself, but this shit next level. Lmao good shit OP
/r/seduction12/03/25 12:51 PM
3

Hey, but the Malaysian guy is happy. Let him be hahaha. If he starts losing frame and starts to acting like a fucking puppy, she won't be with him long. Also stands to show that you shouldn't trust dudes that are bffs with dudes especially if she's attractive. Master your finances, master your physique, master your mentality, master the game and everything in life will fall into place.
/r/seduction09/03/25 11:07 PM
1

Well articulated
/r/seduction06/03/25 09:29 PM
2

Idk why you're getting downvoted. This comment is hilarious
/r/seduction06/03/25 08:57 PM
4

Self-induced. I was 20 in my junior year of college and decided it would be a great idea to invite 5 girls I was fucking to a massive house party I was throwing. This was essentially the day of the party and I thought most of these girls had plans because it was the weekend and I could talk to 2-3 girls and keep them separate from each other in a crowd of 200-300+ people(we threw ragers). NOPE, all 5 of them showed up within a span of 15 minute window. It was all good and dandy as I was trying m…
/r/seduction06/03/25 08:56 PM
3

Probably when you pass all her shit tests to the point where anything else would be redundant
/r/seduction06/03/25 02:29 PM
17

There are wayyy too many factors that go into this, here are some that I've noticed as a former "bad boy," tats, earrings, a bit of eyeliner, all black clothes, substance abuse and a bit of crime(I'm not fixed, I've just stopped being retarded) Some women may enjoy projects and seeing the fruits of their labor, so changing you into their "type" can feel purposeful Someone already said it, but sex appeal. Some people are just into the dark aesthetics, just like how goth girls are the trend rn Emo…
/r/seduction06/03/25 04:36 AM
3

Bro suffering from success lmao. Good shit man.
/r/seduction05/03/25 01:51 AM
3

Confidence and awareness. It's one thing to be interesting and know what to talk about, it's another thing to read the vibe of the opposite person. If you are hella nervous, it doesn't hurt to take a shot or 2, 20 minutes before the first date I ALSO consistently close on first dates(when I want to) but don't always go in with the expectation of sex. If you guys made it clear beforehand then sure whatever go for it. However, personal preference restricts me from dating girls who fuck on the firs…
/r/seduction27/02/25 04:21 AM
9

Nah don't listen to anyone giving you shit. You shot your shot. Be proud.
/r/seduction26/02/25 09:58 PM
8

Better yet, use her to get you laid with some 6's 7's. If you are a 3-4, but confident enough to be friends with a 9, you may seem like a 6-7 through envy goggles.
/r/seduction25/02/25 10:03 PM
4

Counterpoint: Some people REALLY need that character development. Is it logical? No. Is it beneficial long-term to some? Yes.
/r/seduction25/02/25 10:02 PM
40

I think you have been dating the wrong women then. To a certain degree I agree. All my past and current FWB's have split bills and not expected too much while I enjoyed all the perks and minimal downsides. HOWEVER, you got to understand that most men like 80-90% of men will not have such options. I grew up ugly. When I first started, I didn't have that abundance mentality which you obtain through experience. My options were limited. Commitment was essentially the best thing I had to offer and th…
/r/seduction25/02/25 09:48 PM
54

All this is true. Never date one of these party girls. Copious amounts of tattoos, piercings, mental issues, otherworldly sex, drugs, alcohol, nicotine. A great example would be rave girls and club girls. HOWEVER, if you want to learn a life-lesson and/or in need of a personal growth arc, then dating/falling for one of these girls will provide you just that. Be warned. These women are beautiful, absolutely stunning, personality vibrant, but they will undoubtedly crush your soul if you choose to …
/r/seduction25/02/25 08:55 PM
5

Ask her out on a date. "Hello, would you open to coffee next Thursday?"
/r/seduction23/02/25 03:46 PM
3

Grow up
/r/seduction23/02/25 07:00 AM
4

If he doesn't do it, ur gonna have to do it urself. And YES he will be receptive if he's already watching a movie with u that close
/r/seduction23/02/25 06:58 AM
26

I read ur post history. I wanna be friends
/r/seduction22/02/25 04:16 AM
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Skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 05:57 AM
3

Ask him out and even if he rejects u bc he has a gf u will make his week
/r/seduction21/02/25 03:25 AM
3

Some girls fucking suck at texting. That's the only explanation for your situation.
/r/seduction20/02/25 08:22 PM
1

facts
/r/seduction20/02/25 01:24 PM
19

My girl said her first reaction is "she has a boyfriend" it doesn't hurt to ask why
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:38 AM
75

Few things she's into you but cautious bc you might play her like the past she's a virgin she's not sexually attracted to u she wants to get to know you more before she gives it up because she respects herself(hopefully this one) she has trauma with sex and is not sexually open she doesn't like u she has a boyfriend she wants you to string u along Good luck OP
/r/seduction20/02/25 12:37 AM
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Not many goals, currently in a situationship with a baddie who makes 3x more money than me and is 3 yrs older(I'm 23). Why is she with me? Cuz I'm fucking hilarious and this dick game strong. But...I really really REALLY want a cute alt goth blonde so imma try to curate that while still maintaining my sugar mom. Yes I've asked her, yes she's okay with it. Why? Idk.
/r/seduction19/02/25 09:43 PM
1

Yes to an extent, I feel like guys might be more open to something casual, but if he flat out rejects you then he most likely doesn't find you sexually attractive, but things can always change.
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:51 PM
1

Don't listen to anyone's advice to go out and date if you are not happy with yourself. Work on yourself more. What's your purpose? Why do their opinions matter. I'd first do things to build confidence like lifting, learning an instrument, find a new hobby, etc... things to make you interesting and more confident about yourself. In order to be confident around women, you need to be confident with yourself and who you are first.
/r/seduction18/02/25 03:08 PM
1

*hail mary
/r/seduction18/02/25 01:57 PM
1

I usually give it 2 days and then throw a bail mary. It's worked before. 20% success rate
/r/seduction18/02/25 11:03 AM
29

She means casual and possibly more if y'all connect
/r/seduction17/02/25 09:18 PM
2

I think it doesn't necessarily have to be painting, anything creative will work. I played guitar or folded origami, anything you enjoy.
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:44 PM
2

I direct this energy elsewhere when I'm not sexually active. The gym is a great outlet, however you can also put this towards something creative and productive like painting.
/r/seduction17/02/25 08:41 PM
21

Besides the pushing a bit I think you did fine. This is just a girl who needs some momentum before she's willing to give it up, which is a great thing as it shows she doesn't sleep around(unless you are only trying to fuck). Maybe she grew up ugly, had a hotter friend who got all the attention, abusive family who destroy her self esteem, possibly an ex. We don't know. As long as you believe she isn't doing ONS on the side(which I doubt) I think this a good girl and you should treasure her and no…
/r/seduction17/02/25 07:43 PM
3

I suggest you take that confidence elsewhere. Once a girl rejects you that means she doesn't ever really see you as a potential partner. Even if she were to say yes the initial rejection(unless for some other weird reason like no money or family stuff) will still hold you back and you will never seen as first option. If you are feeling confident, take it elsewhere and go ask someone else out. Trust me, been there done that too many times. Had a girl freshmen year in college I absolutely crushed …
/r/seduction17/02/25 04:51 PM
1

Then do the opposite, be evil
/r/seduction16/02/25 02:51 PM
1

I'd start by being friendly and working from there
/r/seduction16/02/25 01:15 PM
8

"Do you know how easy it is to make chloroform?"
/r/seduction15/02/25 01:59 AM
3

Precisely
/r/seduction10/02/25 10:26 PM
26

Cold approaching: - Makes you look confident and thins your competition because most men are scared of women IRL - Allows you to hit on much more attractive women versus just a swipe - Allows for conversation and if you are more of a talker than a texter works to your favor - Allows for experience talking to girls IRL because from my personal exp, they don't text how they talk. - theres more but i gotta clock out so lets see where the current responses get me
/r/seduction10/02/25 10:07 PM
2

Perfect advice. Said it better than I could ever have
/r/seduction09/02/25 06:39 AM
3

Stop putting her as your main focus. Enjoy her presence as if she's a side character to your story because...she technically is. Enjoy yourself and loop her in. Make yourself laugh and she probs will too.
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:46 PM
1

Start by complimenting strangers then goto women ur not attracted to then slowly work ur way up
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:27 PM
1

Bro u can't say a good morning to someone?
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:26 PM
1

Start by being more social. Can be as simple as saying hi to a few strangers you walk by male and female. Then work to compliments with no other intentions. If they talk about it continue the conversation, otherwise don't anchor urself. I'd say get to this point first and then when you believe ur comfortable saying hi and shit, shoot me a dm
/r/seduction06/02/25 09:21 PM
2

Fuck what everybody else says, this is the final stage of playboys/fuckboys/players before settling down. I've had similar thoughts with girls I don't want to officially date, but still be apart of their lives so having at least a positive impact or showing her how she deserves to be treated is awesome, HOWEVER, you must make intentions clear if you're going to pull this shit as many girls will fall for this behavior.
/r/seduction06/02/25 03:22 PM
19

I think you're putting too much pressure to sleep within a number of dates. I think it's perfectly okay to even go on a first date without a kiss if both of yall were nervous, doesn't mean the date went bad. 2nd date if you really believe she's down to sleep with you, I would test it with going out first maybe for some drinks and dinner and then talking about ur interests, whether it's guitar/movies/some cool rock collection, u then ask her if she wants to come see XXXXXX and she usually gets th…
/r/seduction05/02/25 05:52 PM
8

You won't be happier or fulfilled lil bro
/r/seduction04/02/25 02:10 PM
1

I have bit of a hot take. I think head/cunnilingus is more intimate than sex. I don't think it's submissive but it's definitely not something you should be doing for everyone(IN MY OPINION). If it's someone I'm dating or long term fwb, I LOVE eating her out(I'm good at it too). But currently I'm against giving head for hookups(i don't ask for head either and I make it clear I don't give head unless we are dating or fwb). Good head > Good sex Great sex > Great head
/r/seduction04/02/25 02:09 PM
1

Ask for feedback
/r/seduction30/01/25 10:10 PM
1

I think that's more than possible but your results won't be the same. You don't have to have a gameplan for every specific chick but it helps. A one size fits all usually never pans out well but thats just my experience. I'm 23, currently with a roster of 7-8's. Do what you must.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:11 PM
5

As someone who is familiar with game, I realized today i've been falling off. Thanks for the reminder!
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:09 PM
2

It's experience + your vibe + the girls you want to attract. I think there's really no "general rule of thumb" for charisma as everyone experiences emotions and processes words differently. You're just going to have dive deeper on what works for you. Your personal "rizz" I've landed dates from "hey, I think you're cute, do you think I'm cute" to "I'll fucking suck your toes with wingstop ranch if you don't go to dinner with me" Don't worry too much, you will only get better with time.
/r/seduction30/01/25 06:07 PM
1

No ur not. Ur overthinking, sometimes scheduling is really weird and the interest gauge is ambiguous but the fact she still texting u and asking u to make plans means she still cares. My current main girl we spent 12 days sending 1 text message a day before we finally met up. Went like 36 hrs to 48 hrs no text at times too. Turns out shes not a phone person, but now we are fucking like 5 times a week so I'm not pressed. Keep talking to her but keep your options open. I would stop texting her and…
/r/seduction29/01/25 02:19 PM
6

Fumbled 3 last week, fumbled 2 this weekend, fumbled one just now. It's okay tho, I got a main girl and a few sides so I'm chilling, but it's crazy how I can have a roster and still fumble out of my ass
/r/seduction28/01/25 10:13 AM
6

"she's in my bed, we just got done having sex, is she into me" Yeah, can't be jumping to conclusions anytime soon, she might've just been really tired and couldn't really see if it's really dark in the room. Better to keep yourself together and continue to look for signs. Bro go for it
/r/seduction27/01/25 04:29 PM
2

I wrote this post to lick my wounds after fumbling this past weekend
/r/seduction22/01/25 08:49 PM
1

If this is constantly happening then it is 90% because of you and not them. So there's a few scenarios I can think of where you might've gone wrong: - You talk too much about yourself - You may think you're confident, but instead come off arrogant - Your dick game needs major work - You're uglier in person than in your photos - You have a controversial take or opinion that might've rubbed them the wrong way
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:31 PM
3

Dinner Cocktail bar Museum/Art Museum Music event(small/local) Minigolf Axe throwing Escape room(meh...maybe not good for first date) If shes active, take her to do something active. Anything where you can talk to her in a intimate setting and something with activity if you're nervous about what to talk about.
/r/seduction22/01/25 06:15 PM
8

Inviting them to your place, I usually say, wine/movies/check out this cool thing/guitar or what not to make them feel less promiscuous for coming home with me. If it's the first date and she's down then that's a red flag for me. If they INVITE THEMSELVES over to your place and its the first date, she might be trying to steal your money/drug you OR shes VERY interested in you. Just be smart, wrap it, tap it. If it's too good to be true then it probably false.
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:59 PM
1

If she says she can't and doesn't suggest an alternate time then shes not that interested and I would move on.
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:47 PM
1

Get her number. Strike while the iron is hot. If anything you are a bit late. Make sure you have a solid foundation/idea of a date before you propose it. "I'm picking you up friday at 6:00 pm. Dress pretty, we are going out for italian"
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:47 PM
1

Most extremely physically attractive women(from my experience) are pretty dry so this makes sense. If yall don't vibe, fuck it and move on
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:08 PM
2

If it really went as bad as you said it did and she doesn't text you within a day. It's over. It's cooked. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Texting right after a first date is usually not good unless you ABSOLUTELY vibed on the date and you don't care about formalities. Listen to your gut.
/r/seduction22/01/25 05:02 PM
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Everyone is chiming in and giving great points so let me round it out. - Confidence, goes hand in hand with the rules of attractiveness, be attractive, don't be unattractive. Even if you are physically unattractive and boring on paper as long as you are mentally intact and have the confidence to back yourself up. You CAN and WILL pull. Ex. I was a party in college my senior year and in comes this short ugly bald kid wearing a oversized The Doors Shirt and shitty mom jeans, who's next to him? A f…
/r/seduction13/01/25 05:10 PM
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You're overthinking. The more overthink, the more room to fuck up. Trust me
/r/seduction13/01/25 03:53 AM
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Hahahahahaha if this ain't the fucking truth
/r/seduction11/01/25 11:32 PM
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Beautifully said. All these guys on this sub just end up being FUCKIGN creeps. BUILD tension first THEN escalate. Let it marinate. These fuckers be dunking their chicken for like 20 seconds and then ask why it's fucking flavorless later
/r/seduction11/01/25 03:40 PM
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The smart answer
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:35 PM
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Keep approaching but don't stay in same spot. If women see u get rejected by other women, doesn't matter if they found u attractive in the first place they'll reject u too
/r/seduction10/01/25 11:04 PM
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Don't be a fucking scumbag. You clearly know she's in a relationship. How would you feel if you were the boyfriend and some scumbag tries to rizz your girl up at work. I don't care how hot she is, she's A. In a relationship B. Your coworker Just those 2 things alone should be enough for you to not make any advances. Talk her to her, sure. Maybe even slightly flirt with her. Don't be a homewrecker dude. No one likes that. Be friends with her, get to know her personal life. If her boyfriend dumps …
/r/seduction10/01/25 03:25 PM
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With skills
/r/seduction10/01/25 02:29 AM
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By getting rejected to the point it doesn't affect u
/r/seduction09/01/25 10:47 PM
5

If you fuck up, be like ope, I'm rusty.
/r/seduction09/01/25 09:18 PM
1

You see a pretty girl. She's browsing thru whatever fuck section You: "Hey, excuse me, not to bother you but I just got into this (insert category) and I was wondering if you have any recommendations? Her: "Oh yeah, blah blah blah blah" *Ask for her name at this point, if she introduces herself and asks for yours then continue convo You: "Hmm, what intrigues you so much about this particular book/author?" Her "oh yeah, blah blah blah blah" You: "omg no way, same. Well...to be honest I think you …
/r/seduction09/01/25 09:15 PM
1

I didn't sleep much if at all the first 4 days. Yesterday slept great tho. U got this.
/r/seduction09/01/25 07:09 PM
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FACTS. It's a compliment. Now to address it... And actually get laid with this reputation, u gotta prove urself to be NOT a player. Take girls out on actual dates and shit
/r/seduction09/01/25 07:07 PM
3

I quit weed 5 days ago. I'm getting my ass handed to me rn
/r/seduction09/01/25 07:05 PM
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Cafes, restaurants, malls, libraries, bookstores, gyms(that isn't your main gym), raves, clubs, bars, parties are my gotos. Make sure these aren't places you frequent
/r/seduction09/01/25 06:54 PM
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I'm hard on the toilet at work
/r/seduction09/01/25 02:13 PM
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I feel like you are making excuses because you are scared. Trust me. We all are the first couple of times. But even if you get rejected you feel better about approaching because you left your comfort zone.
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:24 AM
1

Fire response
/r/seduction09/01/25 04:23 AM
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Your response relies more on insults than real arguments, dismissing valid points as excuses. It assumes that bars and clubs are the only places to meet women and mocks other approaches without acknowledging that people succeed socially in different ways. The idea that pursuing women outside of party scenes is lazy overlooks the fact that confidence and social skills can be built anywhere. Labeling women as "receptive" reduces interactions to a game of finding easy targets, ignoring that real co…
/r/seduction08/01/25 12:37 AM
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Cope
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:07 PM
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I hopped off my phone for this. *flexes fingers The claim that "1 to 2 parties a month is not uncommon at all" assumes that this frequency of socializing applies universally. Social lives vary greatly depending on personality, location, age, career focus, and cultural context. For many, attending frequent parties isn't a measure of social health or desirability. Suggesting otherwise reflects a narrow and elitist view of social interaction. The dude is 31, this isn't college. "If you fuck up badl…
/r/seduction07/01/25 09:06 PM
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Try it, why not. U miss 100% of the shots u don't take. You literally have nothing to lose
/r/seduction07/01/25 08:25 PM
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Parties hosted by mutual friends don't always happen. Especially if he's 31. When they do, it's usually once in awhile depending on how many friends and types of friends. Also if you fuck up badly, people you know will remember it if the girl is a friend of the host as well. Bars there's pressure to have a drink in your hand to fit social setting so therefore you have to spend money on beer almost every single time Have you ever hit on a girl at the club? If you don't take her home that night, I…
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:39 PM
1

Okay then give him better suggestions...
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:31 PM
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If you want to grow and improve your game. You're going to have to approach women in crowded places and without alcohol. You gotta understand that comfort is the enemy of growth. Expand your horizons. Just fucking do it. No one actually gives a shit. Everyone is too fed up with their own problems and ego to worry about others. If anything, the dudes will be jealous because you have the confidence they don't have...
/r/seduction07/01/25 05:29 PM
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Malls the next city over Art museums Libraries/bookstores Churches(might be sacrilegious if ur not Christian) Fairs Literally on the street if ur good enough
/r/seduction07/01/25 06:00 AM
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That's what I'm saying. I like to wait to open my presents lmao. Unless I'm actively just trynna bang, slow and steady is the ideal route
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:22 PM
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I was just talking looks but yes if we factored in the personality the 9 was flipped upside down
/r/seduction06/01/25 10:08 PM
1

I mean I've dated someone who I've slept with on the first date, but as I get older I prefer women who make me wait
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:57 PM
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Her personality was lack luster, sex and looks only goes so far my guy
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:51 PM
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Eh, not really. I would say if it feels right it feels right from my personal experience. I've had a 6.5/10 girl make me wait a month for sex and another 9/10 pounce on me within 30 mins. All depends really. Id date the 6.5 girl over the 9 because of this tho
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:41 PM
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I'm asian, chinese full blood. around 5'9, jacked with a decent 7-8/10 face(i've been told I look viet or filipino). I'm funny, my humor is dark and twisted with alot of banter. The girls that usually go for me are sometimes(mostly ugly) decent looking but not my type. There's been one or 2 that I've gone out with and had a good time. I don't attract any particular types, but well rounded I'd say. MY type are tall skinny quirky blondes with blue/green eyes and all my exes except for 1 have been …
/r/seduction06/01/25 09:32 PM
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The most logical conclusion, she met someone else or was already talking to someone else that she was more interested in. girls switch up all the time no worries homie. Literally had a chick I was talking to for like 2 months(a month ago), had sex and everything. Everything was going well and then was like, let's be friends instead. Yeah fuck that. It sucked, I moved on. Currently talking to a cuter way cooler, funnier, richer person.
/r/seduction06/01/25 06:22 PM
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It's hard because it's different for everyone. For some it would be already agreeing to a second date, others would say a deep hug. Some may even consider it to be a bad date unless you get laid. So ending off on a high note essentially means steering the direction of the date to the outcome you want. Don't ease off the pedal of confidence and empathy.
/r/seduction05/01/25 05:38 PM
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It's only awkward if u make it awkward. If you're the male, you are generally who decides the flow of the date. Just learn how to execute and finish off on a high note, not just start off with bang. You need both. First and last impresssion. Just comes with experience to be honest.
/r/seduction05/01/25 01:57 AM
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Unless ur planning to switch gyms or switch times. Then yes. Play long game. Get to be friends with all the girls there first. Builds social proof. But also be friend with the dudes. I've gone to planet fitness at a random places. Get a free pass to workout and hit on some gals for practice. Gym is probably one of the hardest places ngl.
/r/seduction02/01/25 09:54 PM
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I personally start off with a hi and smile first. If we start more eye contact after that each visit then I'll approach or offer to spot/give encouragement. If she's lifting next to me like if I am doing deadlifts I'll be like "oh are we hitting ___ lbs today and act impressed by their lift.
/r/seduction02/01/25 08:58 PM
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Nah if she really fucked with u, ur comment about midgets and whatever frame bullshit wouldn't have affected it. If she hasn't responded. Fuck it, move on, we go next
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:46 PM
1

I did business. Supply chain and Marketing with minor in business analytics. Freshman year - 2 Met one at a frat party and another was a girl on the same floor as me(would not recommend). Both okay. One of them looked like Arya stark, but her pussy smelled bad. Sophomore year - 3 Dated 1 i met off tinder for about 6 months(shit show but she was hot and blonde). My rebound was this gorgeous Indian model, I met off tinder. And 3rd was this girl I stole from someone else at a frat formal. Junior ye…
/r/seduction23/12/24 07:42 PM
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Lift Hygiene Dress better Haircut Become interesting(hobbies, books etc...) Practice talking to people in general Then learn game Quit porn and jerking off Quit drugs and bad habits Quit eveyrhting that you wouldn't respect yourself for doing. Keep this up for 6 months and u WILL get SOME experience. If you don't, you did it wrong.
/r/seduction05/12/24 07:50 PM
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How'd it go?
/r/seduction29/11/24 01:16 AM
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R u stupid. Ask her out or I will
/r/seduction27/11/24 09:43 PM
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Workout, learn game, dress well, make money
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:50 PM
11

Find someone with a child
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:43 PM
2

I second this. Got my last gf doing this exact tactic
/r/seduction06/10/24 03:12 AM
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There will ALWAYS be outliers when there's a categorizing threshold. Otherwise it's just a spectrum and outliers are just part of dataset. Ik you didn't ask, but I might fit somewhat into this submissive-ish role where I don't exactly lead the woman or relationships, but rather think of it as a duel effort where each person is dominant in their own respectful ways in their own area of interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/22 10:43 PM
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Try Hinge if you're doing online dating. If anything, hop off it. Meet people in real life. You're pretty and a good conversationalist yeah? Then, go up to a guy you you find interesting and start talking to him about intriguing subjects. Also....if your looking for a relationship and not a hook up, goto events or locations where you can meet people sober and get full understanding of their intentions and who they really are.
/r/seduction16/07/22 02:13 PM
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This one made me want to cry for OP....
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