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| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?True, not many guys understand this haha | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I’d disagree, the US and U.K. have very similar standards of beauty. The only difference I’ve found in the US vs the U.K. is that in the US girls are more friendly and approachable. U.K. girls are the kings of shit tests. How can attraction ride on personality on tinder? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 09:36 AM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?But it’s tinder, you just swipe right if they’re good looking, if they don’t swipe back you don’t lose anything. It’s not like in real life where you risk rejection. No one is ‘too good looking’ for tinder where they get less matches. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Are you saying ugly is the norm in the U.K.? Haha. Good banter, but I don’t know. | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 12:40 AM |
| 2 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?What they claim and what women do are two very different things. People will deny that colour matters because they’re scared of offending someone. Forreal though you ever looked into modelling? | /r/askTRP | 17/05/19 12:02 AM |
| 3 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I look more androgynous, that doesn’t matter. The guy is masculine enough, the reason he gets less matches is because he’s black in a society where the standards of beauty are largely white. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:17 PM |
| 4 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Ima be real with you dude, you could model. The reason you get less matches is because you’re black. Women’s dating preferences will forever be racist unfortunately. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Yeah, you’re shredded, looks to be in the 8% area. Leaner than me I’d say I’m 10% ish. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 10:11 PM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Do you have a picture of your body on there? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Send some of the pictures you use and some alternative ones, I’ll help you pick your best ones if you like. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?That’s my favourite one so far man | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:56 AM |
| 3 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I wasn’t actually aware 750 was that much before I made this post, genuinely, should I post proof? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?How? | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:54 AM |
| 0 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I can post a screenshot of my profile for scientific reasons. I promise you, I’m no more than a 6/10 facially and I live in a small town in the midlands. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:54 AM |
| 8 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Are you lean? From my experience girls don’t care if you go to the gym unless they can see visible abs, women are stupid, and abs are the sign of peak Male fitness apparently. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:53 AM |
| 5 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?There’s other variables at play here 6’0 might not be tall enough for some girls (stupid I know) I’ve had my account for 2 months, it’s not like I just jumped on and got 750 matches in a week Are you lean? Girls don’t really care if you lift if you don’t have visible abs in my experience Picture quality? Maybe your pictures are displaying yourself as good as they could, I’ve found a lot of guys don’t understand what pictures they look good in | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:52 AM |
| 3 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I can show you my tinder profile rn with the risk of being a bit of a humble brag. I live in a small town in the midlands, UK. | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 11:46 AM |
| 13 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I normally swipe on anyone I consider a 5/10 or above (from my perspective). 5 is like my minimum for a hookup so it makes sense doing it that way I guess. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:25 PM |
| 3 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?Haha I’m far from a chad, I have the height but that’s about it | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:24 PM |
| 11 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?I’m maybe a 6/10 on a good day, my height and body probably helps but idk | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:23 PM |
| 9 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?6’3 185, I’m a skelly haha | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 10:21 PM |
| 27 | I currently have 750 tinder matches, quick one liner i can copy and paste to them all?It’s a good job I’m not that good looking, 750 women actually turning up at my house at 9 is a scary prospect. I’ll try this one, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 15/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaYou went on my profile and commented on my posts from weeks back, and I’m the one who’s upset? Lmao you’re literally triggered over one comment I made on r/blackpillscience about men being attractive as a result of being athletic. | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/04/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?Job market is tough in London, investment banking isn’t easy to break into surprisingly. No excuses, just not made good enough applications clearly. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?Lmao, I’m a student. Probably going for better jobs than you’re currently in, hence the struggle. You really are obsessed. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaBeta this beta that beta beta beta beta You are what you outwardly project | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/04/19 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?Jesus Christ man you’re obsessed. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/19 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaThat means they’re beneath you and you shouldn’t be dating down anyways if you can do better lmao. Guys that like big girls only like big girls because they can’t get any better. I refuse to believe there’s any more than few rare people with fat fetishes that actually prefer bigger girls over the agreed ‘ideal’ female body shape. Calling other people beta online is a very ‘beta’ thing to do. You’re the only one speaking like a true beta here. This sub isn’t entirely incels, it’s just more realis… | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/04/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaIf your girl is insecure around you that’s a good thing. It means she’s punching. Women don’t prefer ‘Dad bods’ they just like the security behind having someone they know they’re better looking than and they know will never cheat. Alas your first comment, I’m physically fit enough to attract women purely with my body but not big enough to the point they think I’m ‘obsessed’ with my body (even though I am haha). | /r/BlackPillScience | 22/04/19 01:50 AM |
| 1 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?I slept with my uni housemate (a couple hundred times), turns out she’s a psycho BPD case with an abusive ex, I’m an extreme example. I decided that considering I’d already slept with her I may as well make the most out of a bad situation. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 01:23 PM |
| 11 | What Red Pill lesson did you learn the hard way?Never shit where you fucking sleep | /r/askTRP | 21/04/19 10:32 AM |
| 17 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaIt’s like they’re being purposely awkward because they’re scared of the obvious truth. | /r/BlackPillScience | 19/04/19 10:26 PM |
| 34 | Adam Conover tries to convince Joe Rogan that there are no Alpha and Beta Males; comes off very BetaThis guy also said physically athletic males aren’t necessarily more attractive to women, fucking moron. | /r/BlackPillScience | 19/04/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?I’ve fucked 6s. I’m just saying that guide someone linked before is all kind of messed up. The ones I’ve fucked would be listed as 8s/9s on that guide, even though they’re not. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?According to that ridiculous guide that got posted here I guess so. Some of the people I’ve banged I’d consider a 6 though. Most of the 7s on that guide are 3-5 range. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 07:26 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Most people consider Cardi B average if not ugly. You seem to have a warped sense of what’s attractive. I’m talking purely facially here. You’re being halo’d by her body and fame clearly. When we talk about female attractiveness of young women, we compare them to other young women, and she’s average, if not below average. TIL I’ve never banged anyone below a 9, so that’s nice I guess. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Well I’m 20, so there’s that. I’m judging her against young women and she’s not much above average at all facially. I’m viewing it as objectively as I can, I doubt many people would say she’s above a 6. That scale is fucking hilarious, some of those 7s are straight up 3s. I wouldn’t swipe right on tinder on any of those 7s, and I’m not that picky. They’re all at least below average. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Cardi B is approximately a 5. Id fuck Cardi B for status reasons and status reasons only. If she was a normal girl I wouldn’t even swipe right on her on tinder. Makes me laugh when people talk about ‘HB7’ and ‘HB8s’ yet they’re probably talking about 4s and 5s lol. | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Is it better to game 5's than none?Cardi B isn’t even a 7 lol. What the fuck is your scale? | /r/askTRP | 19/04/19 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How to get employed?But first and foremost my priority is getting a job. Not being picky about what job I get. I’d rather focus on getting employed than be picky and end up unemployed. I’m a college student, I don’t have enough value to be picky yet. It’s like an ugly dude holding off for all the hot girls, he’ll remain a virgin. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?It may sound defeatist but that’s honestly not it. I need a job before I can become self employed, I don’t have any kind of money to be self sufficient yet, and honestly, I don’t care for being employed for longer than maybe 3-5 years, so what I do doesn’t matter too much. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?Beggars can’t be choosers, in the current job market I can’t afford to be picky. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:56 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?I don’t know honestly, I’d take anything at this point, I guess my placement year should help me decide what I want to do. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How to get employed?I got help from my university’s placement officer, that was great, I think my CV/resume is about as good as I can make it with my experience, but I’m still not having any luck, you’re right though, this probably isn’t the best place to ask, I have emailed a bunch of people at my university, but all the other mainstream subreddits on here just ignore my questions and the post quickly gets lost.. Appreciate the response dude. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 10:46 PM |
| 3 | Went clubbing with my mate and it really killed my confidenceJust saw your truerateme. Girls are intimidated by you. It’s that simple. The girls you’re probably going after (7s, 8s and 9s) have never faced rejection before, have incredibly high egos, and are not about to risk their frail self esteem on a good looking guy, especially when they know good looking guys will approach them eventually. They instead dance with your worse looking friends in the hopes you’ll come onto them. It’s quite comical really. I guarantee if you approached them you’d have gr… | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesThis is the best response I’ve had here, thanks. Needed this hard truth. The moment I apologised in the first place was my biggest mistake. Well, besides from taking a massive fucking steaming dump where i eat. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesOh I know that now, i guess I’m learning from experience. At the time I hadn’t read much trp theory but I had the vague idea shitting where you eat was a bad thing, in my mind though she was hot and I couldn’t resist, thinking too much with my dick clearly. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesThis is what I normally do but she continues the psycho petty behaviour until I say sorry of some sort.. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 10:53 AM |
| 2 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesAhh I see. Yeah this makes sense because I told her she’s being like her ex once and she flipped out screamed and threw something at me, lmao. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesThat’s what I have been doing, I don’t even have the mental space available to deal with her shit anymore. At least I’ve got 3 weeks before I have to see here again. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesYeah I think this it exactly, definite BPD case. Do you recommend I lead her towards help? | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesWe’ve already had that talk and I’ve repeatedly told her what we are. Despite this she continues as such. She talks about us as friends and saying how a real friend wouldn’t do what I’m doing to her. I think she knows we’ll never be in a LTR and that’s what’s killing her. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:19 AM |
| 3 | Forgot to phone back FWB... she calls me 51 times and sends over 100 messagesThis is a good shout. Looking like my only option at the minute. No point trying to debate with crazy. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/19 12:16 AM |
| 32 | I discovered that my tinder match is a neighbor !As someone who’s fucked his uni flatmate more times than most married men have fucked their wife, I wouldn’t do it. Albeit neighbour isn’t quite as drastic as actually living with them. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/19 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Cues of upper body strength account for 70% of the variance in men's bodily attractiveness (Sell et al. 2017)I don’t think women are choosing them purely because they perceive them as strong, there’s other variables at play here. They’re choosing them because they’re aesthetic/attractive, and by that, the side product is that these women assume that person is strong, but it isn’t the fact they’re strong that is making women attracted to them, it’s the broad shoulders, low body fat, 6 pack, etc. All things that are seen as conventionally attractive on a man almost everywhere worldwide. Women don’t just … | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/04/19 09:46 PM |
| 25 | Cues of upper body strength account for 70% of the variance in men's bodily attractiveness (Sell et al. 2017)I think it’s more to do with the fact attractiveness and STRENGTH are not that correlated, but attractiveness and AESTHETICS are obviously heavily correlated. Most women can’t tell when a man is actually strong, and see anyone who looks aesthetic (proportionate, low body fat%, good abs, taller etc) as strong. So aesthetic men in the eyes of women are perceived as strong. Women are attracted to aesthetic men who appear to be strong in their eyes. Not actual strong men who have Dad bods, wider hip… | /r/BlackPillScience | 04/04/19 08:43 PM |
| 11 | Homeless woman BLACKPILL: "No-one really looks at men twice, whereas I'm a woman, people feel sorry and more inclined to give me money. It's not really very fair."I know I’m an anomaly here but I actually am more sympathetic to Male homeless people. I think that’s because I’m Male myself and see myself in them sometimes, and think that could be me in that situation given a horrific change of circumstances. With women I have a disconnect because I’m not a female and just don’t relate the same because of it. Anyone feel the same? | /r/BlackPillScience | 30/03/19 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How does a Red Pill man find a job?I’m currently doing economics at a top U.K. uni and sales is the only area of work that really intrigues me. My ideal path would be to go into sales and eventually become self employed. Every time I mention I want to go into sales to someone though they give me the ‘really, you’re doing economics and you’re going into sales? Don’t sell yourself short’. Which imo is fucking stupid. I’ve been rejected from EVERYWHERE I’ve applied to so far, not even one phone interview, having a degree doesn’t mak… | /r/askTRP | 20/03/19 12:38 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Even if women dont care about looks (so much), 80:20 is still true for other criteria as wellWouldn’t exaggerate that hard. Only the ‘Very very top men’ get more attention than fat girls? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 03:49 AM |
| 2 | (CMV) Even if women dont care about looks (so much), 80:20 is still true for other criteria as wellSource that only 45% of men get married/LTR? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/19 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating ExperimentHoly shit, he was 5’10 and 115? I underestimated what you meant by skinny haha. Congrats on the weight gain btw, I’ve put on 20lbs since I started lifting myself, it’s a struggle when you start off skinny like us, we all gon make it 🙌 | /r/TheRedPill | 25/02/19 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Online Dating ExperimentI’m pretty damn ‘skinny’ girls see a tiny bit of muscle definition and get wet. As long as you’re not anorexic, overweight or obese and have abs? You’re Gucci. I’ve posted a screenshot from my tinder and my body on my profile, 1000+ matches, 170lbs at 6’3... You don’t have to be a roided beast to get tinder matches. I’m also not model tier looks wise, I’d say I’m above average but the body pic is prob what gets me tinder matches honestly. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/02/19 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Smh my headYeah, it’s fake. I don’t quite understand why people make up fake tweets to try and prove their points, just discredits them if anything. | /r/MGTOW | 23/02/19 04:52 PM |
| 10 | Fat old woman being extremely picky on TinderEh if you’re at university you can get a decent amount of matches as a Male too, mine says 99+ pretty much year round (tinder though not bumble), hard to get this point across without a slight humble brag sorry. Sidenote, the standard on bumble is fucking awful where I am, full of landwhales and ugly girls with filters, prob bcos women have to message first and it filters out the 8/9/10s that are on there for attention and followers. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/02/19 07:25 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach girls in clubs with loud music?Oh I am. I get called stubborn and boring all the time by my friends. I have a very driven and borderline self-obsessed personality. I wouldn’t go out for my friends birthday recently because I wanted 8 hours sleep for recovery and had gym in the morning. I told them straight up. No one can peer pressure me into going out and it annoys them, from my heart of hearts I do actually want to enjoy the odd night out though as I believe it’d be good for me to develop socially, this isn’t about pleasing… | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 04:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach girls in clubs with loud music?I don’t go out anymore for that exact reason. I fucking despise alcohol and what it does to people. However i would give it another chance if I felt I could enjoy it. Also, I’m at university and in the U.K. especially it’s a big part of the culture here, without it, its hard to make any friends/get girls honestly. It’d be nice if I could go out every so often and enjoy it. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:19 AM |
| 1 | How do you approach girls in clubs with loud music?Yeah that’s what I’ve found, gets annoying real quick when you can’t hear shit, impossible to have good conversation. There lies my problem though, can’t dance for shit. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/19 03:03 AM |
| 9 | No wonder there is a Gender-wage gap.and Australia are one of the worst men’s footballing nations in the world...imagine what an English academy would do to these girls | /r/PussyPassDenied | 11/02/19 02:43 PM |
| 2 | Reminder that women unironically live life on easy mode, even if they are obese landwhales.Depends on your definition of privilege | /r/MGTOW | 10/02/19 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Reminder that women unironically live life on easy mode, even if they are obese landwhales.Would rather be a man anyday. I prefer a challenge, personally. | /r/MGTOW | 09/02/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Girl creating unnecessary drama?Gotchu, thanks bro. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Girl creating unnecessary drama?This is next level drama though. It’s not normal girl shit. She’s had a history of abuse in the past from her ex/her father so I’m pretty sure she’s extreme BPD. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Girl creating unnecessary drama?Flirt and make advances?? Is this the right time? Since this post she’s sent me over 50 texts telling me how terrible I am, it’s getting a bit ridiculous, I still don’t understand her problem with me. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Girl creating unnecessary drama?What do you mean by ‘escalate and game her’? Excuse my ignorance. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives gift backOnly really been disrespectful since I bought her the gift tbh. Go figure. AWALT. I’ve chalked it up as an L for sure, you live and you learn. | /r/askTRP | 14/01/19 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Girl gives gift backShe’s 100% that type man. She’s a product of her abusive childhood and abusive ex relationship and she doesn’t even realise it. Honestly the only reason I still speak to her is because I get to fuck her. I practically told her that too, she’s disrespected me in the past and I told her she’s lucky I still speak to her because if I didn’t find her so attractive I wouldn’t (she went off when I said that) I calmly just said I meant it and walked away. You’re probably right, I should stop speaking to… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives gift backNot really, I probably should’ve provided context in the original post but i explained it in another reply. She’s more of a FWB. (She originally took the gift and appeared grateful yet has since given it me back because she’s worried I’ll use it against her). But yeah that’s what I was thinking, to me it’s borderline disrespect. Why can’t a girl just be grateful for something good rather than seeing it as something I can use against her? I never even considered using that against her. She was in… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Girl gives gift backOkay basically it’s a FWB essentially. We’re friends but we’ve crossed that line many times, I bought the gift for her because she’s been a good friend to me, but as she’s a girl she constantly brings emotions and shit into it and I honestly can’t be dealing with that shit, but me as a man thinking with my penis is sort of stringing her on for sex. She always says ‘I don’t want to continue this’ then is back on my dick 24 hours later. Hard to provide relevant context here but yeah, more just loo… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaI mean that in the sense of fashion, hairstyles, grooming, etc, I understand what makes a man attractive, most straight men have no fucking clue and have awful fashion sense and an awful excuse for a haircut which completely ruins their SMV. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaBit of an odd story to just make up. They’ll always be skeptics I guess. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaI’ve always felt good enough for women honestly. I’m probably over confident and borderline cocky. I have too much success on shit like tinder to the point that it’s inflated my ego to unparalleled levels. lol. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:12 AM |
| 0 | Sexuality phenomenaIf you’d like evidence I can provide it (not quite sure how) but no agenda here, just explaining my situation as I believe it’s relevent to trp. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:10 AM |
| 0 | Sexuality phenomenaThis is completely wrong. I’ll explain my situation further. I never was attracted to masculine men (or ‘what I wanted to become’) I was attracted to guys younger/shorter/less muscular than me that had the pretty boy look. I never ‘started’ idolising men, I always fancied pretty looking guys since I can remember even thinking sexual. I only just recently ‘started’ being attracted to women. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaI wasn’t really attracted to ‘masculinity’ ever though, I’ve never been attracted to older/more masculine men, it’s always been younger pretty looking guys. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaYes exactly, which was good because a lot of young gay guys naturally have that androgynous look anyway. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Sexuality phenomenaI did exclusively look at gay porn during this period and only had fantasies about other guys yes. (I’m open to all questions don’t worry!) | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Sexuality phenomenaWould’ve been a mutual thing, a lot of the gay world revolves around dating apps, that’s the only way I could’ve seen it happen. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 03:01 AM |
| 6 | Sexuality phenomenaAlways feminine. I wasn’t attracted to masculine men whatsoever, I was attracted to young pretty boy looking guys and girls that other people would typical find attractive. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 08:42 PM |
| 14 | Sexuality phenomenaI have a separate theory about my sexuality that I completely missed out in this post. Whilst I didn’t necessarily 100% lack a father figure (I saw him on weekends etc) what I never had was a brother. I always wanted a brother, badly. I feel like this lack of a brotherly figure in my life was a big factor in what made me gay. I wanted another boy (not necessarily a man) in my life that I could be close to. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:46 PM |
| 4 | Sexuality phenomenaI still found people attractive during that phase (men and women) but didn’t find them sexually attractive, I had no desire to fuck either. Interestingly though, I still masturbated during that time. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:43 PM |
| 4 | Sexuality phenomenaInteresting, I’m open to both these being a possibility, albeit them being sub-conscious, and yes, there was a period I genuinely thought I was asexual, a short period, it was in between the time when I thought I was gay and then straight, almost like a transition between the two. Sidenote: I only really ‘discovered’ trp recently (past month), I don’t believe trp to be the main influence on my sexuality/discovering my masculinity, but perhaps it helped further my masculinity. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:39 PM |
| 20 | Sexuality phenomenaI was almost exclusively attracted to males, I was young so I never took that step to have sex with another Male but I can’t say I wouldn’t have if one was attractive enough to me, accessible and of similar age. Now the thought of it almost knocks me sick. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:23 PM |
| 55 | Sexuality phenomenaThis is interesting and an extremely valid question. Myself, sort of. My dad worked away for the first 8-9 years of my life and I only saw him on weekends, I believe this lack of a masculine figure in my life 100% contributed to it and was borderline the reason I was the way I was. To add, Every. Single. Gay. I know of grew up with a single mother/had an abusive father, with zero exceptions. I don’t know one gay that grew up in a healthy family with a solid father figure in their life. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Social anxietyI normally do avoid these situations. In this case it’s a party at my own house and I’m that anxious I’ve just left all together and have locked myself in my room. I want to enjoy these things, I want to talk to people, I want to go to parties, I just feel like I physically can’t and it’s eating me up. It’s not even a confidence issue, I could tell you with 100% certainty I’m the best looking guy at this party, yet I’m the one who’s too scared to come out of his room, the whole thing just confus… | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Social anxietyThank you so much for the reply. What does a psychotherapist actually do? How did it help you? | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 10:55 PM |
| 1 | Logistics of going monk modeI don’t actually watch porn but I still masturbate on occasion to release stress. I guess that’ll be my first step. No more chokin’ the chicken. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | Logistics of going monk modeCurrently on 2/6. (No alcohol/drugs, gym 6x a week) but still feel I need more. It’s become that much of a habit now that I can still feel like a lazy shit all the time because I don’t use the rest of my time beyond the gym effectively. This is why I feel I need to go full on monk mode. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 11:56 PM |
| 1 | How can I get this feeling more often?Similar the other suggestion someone made below? This makes sense to me. I’ll look some more into this, thank you. | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 09:55 PM |
| 3 | How can I get this feeling more often?Interesting. I’ll look some more into this and definitely try it, thanks! | /r/askTRP | 01/01/19 09:54 PM |
| 0 | What does this actually mean?Purposely avoiding her stories to keep frame is the definition of overthinking, but ok. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:30 PM |
| 1 | What does this actually mean?Hit the nail on the head here. I didn't even realise it when i posted this how ironic that comment was. I'm just trying to better understand women and their actions, the whole thing is interesting to me. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:29 PM |
| 1 | What does this actually mean?Eh, I enjoy the chase. | /r/askTRP | 31/12/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | What does this actually mean?I watch my boys’ stories and I’m not attached to them. Purposely avoiding her stories to try and keep frame would be incredibly beta imo. I could be wrong. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:52 AM |
| 2 | What does this actually mean?I watch everyone’s on my friends list, sort of a habitual thing. Would be a bit weird to purposely avoid her story would it not? I see your point though. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Lifting with a long term injuryYou can pretty much hit every single upper body part without ever needing to use your legs. As long as you can stand up you’re fine. Only drawback is the obvious, you won’t be able to train legs, which isn’t ideal but I’d rather train upper body and no legs than nothing at all. As long as your legs aren’t twigs it won’t matter too much anyway from an aesthetic stand point. | /r/askTRP | 28/12/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...Do you not think I broke frame? Or does it matter less due to the circumstance? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...Imo, it won’t be seen as ‘needy’ as we’ve already had sex multiple times, and she knows I have many sexual options, it’s not like she’s the love of my life, I could easily dismiss her and go and fuck the next girl and she knows it. She’s already said she’d say yes instantly if I asked her out and gets upset seeing me even using tinder (we’re not dating). How would you recommend I agree and amplify? Example? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...I did break frame. Like I said, I’ll admit that. You’re right. I do it often by mistake. It really doesn’t matter though. Its not like she’s going to stop fucking me. If I did this before we had sex, it would be a vital mistake imo, and would probably cement me as a friend/orbiter, but she’s basically already admitted she fancies the fuck out of me and I get sex pretty much whenever I want it. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...I like this one. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 07:03 PM |
| 6 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...I’ll gladly accept that. Like I say I accept it was a big mistake. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...Perfume. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Bought a girl a Christmas present...That’s the way I was trying to look at it, good advice, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/18 06:43 PM |
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