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It's my prediction.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 05:05 PM
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I don't understand, what hypothetically comes true? But yeah, men in high poverty and high crime areas tend to catcall. Then again, everyone knows the suited lawyers and CEOs may be just as lewd behind closed doors.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/19 08:05 AM
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A few hours? That's pretty stupid. That is why 'dating' exists. Dating is a series of interviews for sex. Most women won't go for sex until going on a number of dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 03:40 PM
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People period are willing to overlook a lot of negative characteristics and feel more sympathy if you have a pleasant face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 02:41 PM
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Eastern women are not all the same. There can be a world of difference between a woman from the Philippines and a woman from Japan, namely that the Japanese women is less likely to be submissive. Also, when talking about more 'traditional' women from Europe and Asia, that can go two ways: a nice bargain where everyone's happy, or the woman bailing as soon as she gets her citizenship. Also don't you think it's a shitty thing to do to target women that you know are vulnerable, don't know a better …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 02:39 PM
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Some men like thick and curvy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 01:20 PM
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You ignore the fact that the vast majority of women today are both workers and housewives. If a woman works part-time and the husband works full-time I understand that the division of housework would be more on the woman's side. But there are a lot of women working similar hours and positions as their husbands and child-rearing and housework still mostly falls on the them. Though in that regard I would also blame the woman for marrying such a dick of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:47 AM
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Mate when have pop stars been representative of average people? Also these pop stars/actors only do what they're told. There's other people writing the script or lyrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:43 AM
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Women are more picky than men. This is how the sexes have evolved and there are countless studies to prove it. Men evolved for quick mating with little to no commitment to spread as much of their genes as possible, therefore they can get off with pretty much most women around. On the other hand, in our society with actual consequences, if they could choose between a fat woman and a skinny woman with fat in all the right places they would choose the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:41 AM
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'Pills' are areas of modern philosophy regarding gender and society. They're inspired from the literal and metaphorical pills that appear in the Matrix movie. In the movie, the characters are in a simulation. A character tells the protagonist that they can take the blue pill and keep living in this simulated but fake reality, or take the red pill and face the harsh truth of the real world. This is a very general description of each pill philosophy in internet spheres.: The blue pill: Humans are …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:36 AM
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Naw.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:29 AM
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This is all hypothetically speaking of course. If I were to ever cheat, I would get out of the marriage right after. Cause there's no point in still living together if you're basically enemies. It would take a lot to get to the point of cheating. I'd only cheat if I knew our relationship was over with no hope of reconciliation, and this can happen in a lot of different ways. If my spouse cheated on me, I hate to be that type of woman, but I would give a second chance if I see that we really were…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:28 AM
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But men know they are performers and that any love they claim to show is purely to get more dollars out of them. Men know this and yet some of them are literally paying for a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:19 AM
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Is it a common notion that 18-24 women are going for men 10-20 years older? I know for a fact there are some young women who go for older guys purely because of the sugardaddy/gold-digger aspect, or they have serious daddy issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:18 AM
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What about those statistics claiming millennials are losing their virginity later and having less sex than the previous generation? That always blew my mind and I keep wondering if those studies are flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 07:16 AM
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Every woman has gotten catcalls, creepy stares, creepy DM's and dick pics period. Men don't even have to see their body or their face to do that. It is not a fun experience. It makes you feel like an object, made 10x worse because you know that the male wants to assert power and dominance over you. A few women may have conflicting emotions about this stuff i.e in the back of their mind they like it a little. But do not mistake this as 'wanting' that creepy stuff. These women usually feel so unwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/19 05:59 AM
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I'd feel sorry for him and try to reason why he's socially isolated or chooses to do so. Maybe I'd try to be his friend. Believe it or not I don't really see any isolated people except myself in my institution.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/19 09:51 AM
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Well she's Italian if that answers your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:41 PM
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Why on earth does that matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 06:39 PM
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Ok I'm going by what is medically considered a 'normal weight'. Happy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:49 PM
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No. She's at a perfectly normal weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:12 PM
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She's cute and attractive to me. But guys certainly aren't swarming over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:12 PM
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Look at Undead_Chronic's first reply to my comment and maybe redeem yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:09 PM
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Lol. And what about the knee jerk reaction he made in the first place about my friend victimising herself and claiming she doesn't really struggle?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 03:08 PM
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I mean she's doing quite well for someone with so much against her. She's a chef and she lives in a shared apartment.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:15 PM
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Not embarrassed at all, I just know we'll never be more than acquaintances.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:10 PM
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And thank you for enlightening me with your prejudice and cynicism.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 01:09 PM
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Alright virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:46 PM
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Are you downplaying her conditions?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:28 PM
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That doesn't just result from 'spending too much time alone', and in that regard, one must look at why the person is spending so much time alone. Most people know how to socialise, what turns people off. She either has severely bad self-esteem or ASD, or both.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:27 PM
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A co-worker with ADHD and OCD ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:17 PM
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Yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:13 PM
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Yeah well, it's not easy finding someone who has the exact same condition as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:13 PM
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No. She's quite humble and never gave me that vibe. And she's literally neurologically not like other girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 12:08 PM
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Women watch romance/erotica. Men watch action, horror and porn ​ Of course they're getting different messages. And please do consider the aspect that 90% of tv shows, movies are directed and written by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:33 AM
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We know that nobody give a fuck about the characters or stars on TV if they didn't look the way they did. Well in my opinion, always casting the attractive folks detracts from the story. The most attractive people aren't always the greatest of actors. In many adaptations, attractive actors are cast for originally unattractive characters and it detracts from the original point of that character.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:30 AM
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Incel does not just mean a guy who hasn't had sex yet. A guy who hasn't had sex yet, a virgin, is just that. Incels have particularly harmful philosophies. If they didn't we would just call them virgins. And fyi, they weren't labeled as incels as an insult but actually adopted the term, therefore setting themselves apart from other virgins. Yeah I strongly despise incels unless they're not actually deep into the philosophy but merely trying to find acceptance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:26 AM
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If you think 18 years old is a good age to marry you're screwed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:24 AM
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Thank you for this perspective. I feel that most people here fail to see the true underlying reasons and psychology for people's behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 11:01 AM
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Dumb. They're gonna divorce eventually. I don't think you can even know a person until at least 3 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:53 AM
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I think men are slightly more miserable because they are more likely to be alone (because men don't look ot for each other), there's a stigma to getting help and female-on-male abuse is not taken seriously. But if you look at married couples, it's most often women who are more miserable because they are still doing more work than their husbands around the home. But please never say a woman's life is perfect. The sexual abuse rates are ridiculous.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:50 AM
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Mate your first mistake is thinking a woman can get sex no matter what. Tbh I can see where this comes from. The fact is, men are not very choosy when it comes to sex. Studies showing women genitalia, abs without faces elicited little to no reaction, until they added the faces. Meanwhile, the same technique showing men the bodies and genitalia of women elicited a lot of activity in the brain and also boners. In a (unethical) study on college students, a guy got a very attractive guy and a very a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:42 AM
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Personally I can't see sex as something on its own but in relation to the bigger picture. There are correlations, statistics and facts associated with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:37 AM
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A nagging, critical personality Being negative all the time Being excessively submissive and conforming
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:33 AM
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Most definitely not. The vast majority of people are fat through their own choices. And just because they find being at a normal weight hard, does not mean it still isn't their fault. I think it is quite hypocritical for someone like that to want someone who maintains a healthy body through mostly just self-discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:30 AM
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I don't want 'control' over my partner. But I want to have agency and independence. I don't ever want to be unable or unwilling to do something because he's not there. I want us to work together and do an equal amount of work.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:22 AM
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Of course. To me, the ability to debate, be critical and dive deep into things is more important.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:15 AM
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Yes. But as long as he's doing something to make his position better. I do not want to date someone who was a slacker in school because they didn't think for the future, and then keeps on living with their parents and pretty much doing nothing to improve their situation because they think their parents will always be around to provide. But if he's born into really bad circumstances, and I know there are such people in the developed world, I would give him a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:14 AM
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How does he looks like? No idea. I can just picture a normal weight and a good sense of dress. I never say 'I'm into this' cause every time I think I have a type I get attracted to the opposite of my type. Does he need to be well dressed? Well groomed? Absolutely, this should be the standard for everyone. Personally I have very strict rules on what clothes are good for different contexts and occasions. And women definitely can be ill-dressed. Yeah as you can tell, I don't think leggings are real…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:10 AM
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I can live without sex. I doubt that I will ever be confident enough to have sex. But no one can live without love and companionship. Social awkwardness, facial deformity, general ugliness will even deny you companionship. So I guess I'm screwed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 10:02 AM
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Um, because they're a human being with actual feelings and they're not directly harming anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:59 PM
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I believe that incels are quite the threat in that they will be the cause of many mass shootings and terrorist-like attacks that seek to have a high kill-count and garner lots of attention. I think it's very unlikely that their votes could impact women's rights because incels are too few in number, and with the death of the baby-boomer generation there's an even lesser chance that women's rights in the West will decrease.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 03:56 PM
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Well that shirt's kinda disrespectful. In this case 'nice guys' are the nerdy, shy, loyal guys who want marriage and children instead of hook ups and wild sex. 'Nice guys' in another context can mean a guy (typically unattractive, neckbeard) who always gloats how 'nice' he is to women but in reality only does to get sex and then gets angry and resentful when women don't want to fuck him for some very valid reason such as too early in the relationship, hygiene issues, social awkwardness, general …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:12 PM
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What you're saying is all correct. From my observation all abuse perpetrated by women seems to be more narcissistic and emotional than physical. If hypothetically research papers and articles ran with the headline: Women commit more domestic violence than men' it's going to communicate a very specific message regardless of the facts. People are going to gloss over it and think that women are hitting/beating up their husbands when in reality they are psychologically abusing them. Which is also pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:01 PM
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Yeah that is yikes. But how many situations have happened this week with the gender reversed? And if indeed domestic violence is mostly perpetrated by women, certainly more men kill their wives and children than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:55 PM
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Nah not really. I only notice if a guy's beard is untrimmed if I look really closely and decide to be nitpicky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:53 PM
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Right now women's erotica is divided into two big parts: yaoi and alphaborderlineabusive/actuallyabusive1000yearoldvampire/billionaire. I'm not proud of this situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:49 PM
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It's pretty scary for me to vet anyone. Vetting for me would be discussions or inquiries about core values regarding politics, ethics, beliefs, feminism etc. Some disagreements are deal-breakers, some are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:44 PM
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Ok I'll answer, but just know that fucking and love are not the same thing. A bond formed out of mutual interest and chemistry can be enough to get people horny. But if we're going entirely on physical characteristics so be it. I like some good legs. Yeah I know that's odd, but I have a thing for guys' legs. Typically I like them long and covered in sparse hair. What's better than legs? Thighs. I like them quite lean. After that the arms are cool too, and a little bit of bicep is ideal. I'm not …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:40 PM
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Unfortunately because of biology and social norms men are expected to make all the moves and detect signals that indicate a woman's interest. But in retrospect, that girl is being unreasonable. You're not a mind reader.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:32 PM
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What makes a woman a catch? Loyalty, intelligence, ambition, ethical, being fair and equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:29 PM
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Yeah they're assholes, and that's not because they disagree with 3rd wave feminism. They are obsessed with the negative traits of women, generalise women, quite literally think most social problems are women's fault. And that's besides the fact that some of them downplay women's suffering throughout history and don't even agree that women should have gotten the vote. And to me, even the sexist assumption that women should be mothers and housewives is enough to send me out the door. At their best…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:26 PM
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No. Tbh if it were a regular bar I'd think a guy like that is happy drinking on his own. But at a party I think it's sad and I'd go try to be friends with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:23 PM
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No. The very idea that misogyny has a specific face or age is pretty damn dangerous to me. Attractive, athletic and nice-acting guys can go one to be wife beaters. From my experience even the neckbeard-looking guys in real life are mostly harmless and socially awkward. But certainly sometimes you can tell within the first hour of talking with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:19 PM
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I guess many women are still 'traditional' in a lot of ways, but ultimately they keep being passive because men keep making the first move.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:17 PM
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Not attractive to me. As in I always appreciate someone who works out in an age where obesity is the norm. But still not physically attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:14 PM
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Online dating to me is really non-sensical and a terrible idea. It's a last resort. If you can't find a partner while going to activities, at your job, meetups etc. what makes you think you'd hit it off with a person you've never met in person until an expensive dinner date? Though I'm sure lots of people like getting online attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:13 PM
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Loyalty, being engaging, being empathetic towards people, wanting to do good in the world, having aspirations, having a healthy body weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:09 PM
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A lifetime in prison, maybe doing slave labor too. Those kinds of people, along with serial killers will always be unsafe to society.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:07 PM
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I dislike extremes in pitch and also seem to have an attraction to British and Italian accents.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:05 PM
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I have no firckin idea. Some guys that are physically attractive turn out to be overly dominant douches and some socially awkward guys would actually be a better option if given a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:03 PM
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Fact: No matter how ugly a woman is she will still have female friends. Why? Because women generally look out for each other (even though they may eventually stab each other in the back). Seriously, that isolated kid in the playground/school is almost never female. If boys get isolated, no other boy has enough mindfulness or empathy to try and look out for him. Ugly/fat people in general are less likely to have a partner unless they gained weight after marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:00 PM
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I think that's a very specific problem within the African-American community and I don't see how any blame can be put on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:54 PM
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It is mostly true. Picture this: Guy works in an ordinary office, wears his neat button-down shirt and pants, with a smooth tie and a beard. He works well and is treated well by his colleagues. A female works in the office with the guy. She also wears a neat trousers and shirt and just typical female office clothes except perhaps no miniskirt. She works just as hard as her male and female colleagues. The gig is: she wears no makeup. She is chastised and called weird by her female colleagues, and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:50 PM
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What challenges do you think they face that are unique to being a young man? The effects of circumcision, porn addiction, abusive girlfriends who's abuse is not taken seriously by anyone including the victim, false rape accusations, courts favoring abusive mothers over responsible fathers solely because of gender. ​ Do you think being a man is easy? Do you think it’s hard? Being a man in Western society isn't any harder than being a woman. In a global context, taking into account non-Western/sem…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:35 AM
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The first time I got groped was at age 11 when my breasts just started growing and had to wear my first bra. I was in my school uniform, in trousers not even a skirt, on my way to school and 2 18-19 year old brothers (garbage truck workers) decided to cup a feel. But I never got groped again, just been catcalled and leered at constantly, ironically by foreign immigrants and not locals. ​ I don't dress like a hoe, and I have a friend who's entirely tomboy who's too unconfident to even wear shorts…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:16 AM
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Hot: sharp jawlines and high cheek bones, has more of an alpha, determined look. Cute: nerdy, curly hair, soft. ​ Notes: hot can turn into cute at times when you get to know them and they do something inherently adorable. And in rare cases, hotness and cuteness can exist within the same person, all the time, depending on their facial expression.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:11 AM
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Hoe: any girl who unnecessarily shows off too much skin, especially when they're supposed to be in a not so casual setting like university or work. That is the minimum standard, sleeping around and hooking just makes one more of a hoe. ​ Is it good or bad to be one? Bad. Sex-positive people will say there are no negative consequences with being a hoe and that you should just mind your own business until they're blue in the face, but the fact is that it has negative consequences. Studies show tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 07:08 AM
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When you talk to your friends about attractive guys how often do you agree? ​ Almost none of the time. One of my friends is solely into shy, awkward nerdy types. I don't find her preference odd, I just find it odd that it's her only preference. Meanwhile me and my other two friends don't have any set preferences. Our preferences change constantly, and we can't say we have a specific 'type' since every time we think we have a type we end up liking someone completely unexpected. Though I will say …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:57 AM
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I think it's an immoral industry. Even if government stepped in to regulate it and provided workers with std tests and healthcare, nothing is going to curb the high risk of stds, unwanted pregnancies, and the exploitation of workers. Besides that, porn usage, even a moderate amount, has been shown to cause problems in arousal and romantic relationships. I browsed anime porn comics for 4 years before I moved on to real life porn for one year. I ended up cutting out both, because of the reasons I …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 06:39 AM
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The funny thing is that they're intolerant of Middle Easterners but would fit into the Middle East just fine with their hatred of women.
/r/ExRedPill28/03/19 09:49 AM
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Perhaps it wasn't being too affectionate but clingy. For some couples messaging every day is almost a must, but for some it can get tiring and give the impression that you're too clingy.
/r/ExRedPill27/03/19 07:17 AM
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This is important. mgtows and incels often have a distorted view of history and think women were privileged when they actually weren't. And I say if someone has that view, they are too far gone.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 06:54 AM
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Literally any psychology talk about the differences between the genders that are not from MGTOWs or incels.
/r/ExRedPill19/03/19 06:51 AM
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Your standards may be too high then. There's a reason most people do not want to go back to the 50s-80s.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/19 04:26 PM
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It depends. What do you mean by 'modest'? What do you mean by 'traditional'? And what do you mean by 'moral'? What I'm asking is, are your standards reasonable or are they from an era that no one wants to go back to? If they are reasonable, consider looking in other states or Europe. Or heck join some political groups and rallies and you can find traditional women. And depending on your definitions, there are still very conservative towns in the bible belt.
/r/ExRedPill18/03/19 06:24 AM
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Naw, r/askwomen is a very chill subreddit, and men ask questions there all the time.
/r/ExRedPill16/03/19 04:22 PM
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Yes op. Reality is tough. And the reality is that people regardless of gender are uncaring ***holes. But what you'e projecting here is that one gender, women, are all incompetent and morally bad while all men are responsible and good-willed when history has shown the complete opposite. I don't mean to bash all men, but men are the ones that have started 90% of wars and prevented women, minorities and the poor from getting justice and improving themselves. Nowhere in history except now have women…
/r/ExRedPill09/03/19 01:54 PM
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Yes to both. Whatever you believe, it's not gonna change the fact that mgtows hate women and would go as far as to deceive, insult and hurt them with no provocation. All you have to do is take one look at the subreddit at any time of day.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 03:46 PM
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A conservative woman cannot by definition be some average woman. She has values and core beliefs that are very different from liberal women. I try not to project stereotypes, but every conservative woman I have seen is traditionally feminine and religious in addition to having conservative views and politics. By traditionally feminine I mean she wears more skirts and dresses than the average liberal woman, she wants a husband, marriage and children. Very often these women stretch the differences…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 03:17 PM
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What you have to understand is that PEOPLE, not exclusively WOMEN are shitty in general. There are women who have been screwed over by many if not most men in their life via rape, abandonment, abuse, narcissism etc. Don't do what some women do which is blaming an entire gender for the toxic actions of a few. I'd rather someone be a misanthrope than a mysoginist/misandrist, because the latter most frequently is not just about staying away from an entire gender for your own good, it's about wantin…
/r/ExRedPill24/02/19 11:30 AM
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I'm sorry for whatever you've been through. But keep in mind that there are women who've been taken advantaged of by men their entire life. Don't let the crap people in your area paint the picture for the rest of the world. If possible travel and talk to as many people as possible. And maybe this is not what you want to hear: but people who've been abused frequently attract more abusers because of their vulnerability and a poor idea of what normal relationships are supposed to be like.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/19 08:06 PM
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Scratch that, there aren't just a million different rules, but mind-boggling hypocrisies too.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/19 09:14 AM
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Because they're psychopaths.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 06:43 AM
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Every post? Not likely.
/r/ExRedPill24/12/18 05:39 PM
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Lol I don't even know what my dating preferences are because every time I've gotten things figured out my preferences do a 180.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/18 08:42 PM
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