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I know it worked for you, I'm just saying in general that's my approach. Seddit is about maximizing opportunities, just because something worked for you doesn't mean there might not be an even better way to approach it. She responded, but you haven't actually set up a date yet. Saying you'll tip her extra to hang out with you is really needy, you're offering to pay for her time.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:35 PM
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Even after you say that you don't necessarily need to do anything special. It's awesome if you do, but if this is a girl you're not super interested in you can just bring them out for drinks or whatever your standard D2 plan is. When they ask you what the surprise is tell them the surprise is that there's no surprise and you just wanted to mess with them and build some suspense. It's lame, I know, but if you're dating frequently then sometimes you're just going to want to have a laid back evenin…
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:22 PM
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No, growing up with women telling you to be a nice guy. Growing up around girls saying all they want is a nice guy. Do girls really do this, or do guys just get it into their heads that that's what girls want? I know I used to be a big AFC, and I tried to weasel my way into hooking up with girls I was friends with by being nice, but no girl has ever actually said to me that I should try to be a nice guy to get girls. It was my own inexperience and naivety that led me to do that, I don't blame wo…
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:13 PM
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Personally I wouldn't # close a waitress/bartender until after I've paid my tab. You may just be getting the # because she doesn't want you to stiff her on the tip. I've hooked up with a bunch of hired guns in the past and they've all told me that they're pretty liberal with giving their number out but they rarely respond. "Hey, I'll tip you extra if you ignore that table and hang out with us." Don't say this.
/r/seduction13/04/12 04:07 PM
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It seems like clubs are much more presence/appearance oriented, whereas in social circle situations, because I can be HEARD, it's much more charisma oriented. Pretty much. Clubs are meat markets, girls are there to be hit on, so there's less need for indirect game. It's hard to hear so it gives you a good excuse to get very close and to kino (touch their back while you speak into their ear, etc.). Confident body language becomes very important (good posture, smiling, eye contact). And maybe this…
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:59 PM
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Remember, you're a busy guy with lots going on, you don't have time to be texting all day. Any time a girl sends a text with the implication that the conversation is over or she's not overly interested in it continuing (e.g., one word answers), you stop replying. You just had a night out with this girl, it's not necessary to continue the conversation indefinitely after you've split up. Text/call back when you want to set up another meeting.
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:53 PM
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On the other hand, stopping mid make-out in your room is a ridiculously strong move. It gives off a 'I'm very sexually attracted to you but I'm exercising self-control' message. Then you can lay out that you're looking for more than just a ONS. As a bonus you can still f-close because either a) you both want more out of this but you're still very attracted to each other or b) she's not interested in anything serious but just wants fun.
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:46 PM
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"I'm a med student, but I'm really only interested in playing doctor" In a sentence you DHV, make a joke, and demonstrate sexual interest.
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:22 PM
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Online dating is a purely numbers game. On the one hand it seems harsh that 95% of your messages won't get responses, but on the other hand you know when you do get a response that there is definitely some attraction potential there. I don't understand why it would be devaluing to the guy if you don't care whether you get responses from a particular girl or not. Rejection is part of seduction. Online dating just tends to put the rejection right up front, rather than during the conversation or fl…
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:09 PM
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Please be aware that any time you keep on escalating after a girl says stop that you're opening yourself up to rape charges. I'm not saying that's what happened, AT ALL, but just be aware of that. It's possible in such situations that the girl was intimidated, tried to say "stop" in a timid way, and then when you kept on going she was too scared to say stop again and got raped. Stop whenever she says stop. If she wants you to keep going afterwards she'll either let you know, or you can make a ge…
/r/seduction13/04/12 03:01 PM
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As long as you can recognize that your judgment of the situation is entirely subjective and personal. Just because as an 18 year old you wouldn't have sex with an older guy doesn't mean that all 18 year old girls feel the same way, or that it's inherently creepy. I'm a late 20s guy and I probably wouldn't go after girls who are under 22, but to each their own.
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:14 PM
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Plenty of younger girls date older guys. I'm not suggesting that we harass the girl, just that we should make light of whatever shit she tries to give you about being older than her. If men gave up every time they were faced with the slightest bit of resistance no one would ever get laid. What's the worst that happens by saying this? The girl declines to give out her number because she's not attracted, and we're left no worse off than if we had never tried.
/r/seduction12/04/12 10:47 PM
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3 is easier if you have a great wingman, but also works if you're willing to have a large group of people over, either a bunch of your friends or a bunch of hers. The logistics become more difficult though if it's just you and the 2-set. You need to come up with a reason to isolate, and then escalate VERY quickly. She may go along with it and skip out on any LMR because there's no slut shame if 'it just happened'. More than likely though in the back of her head she'll know that her friend is sit…
/r/seduction05/04/12 06:47 PM
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She was smiling and introducing herself to people. Sounds like she was on the prowl.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:59 PM
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Honestly it sounds like you instigated the bitchiness. You made a joke about being a garbageman that she didn't respond too, and then suddenly you felt like you needed to take her down a peg. The thing is, it was kind of working for you. When she said: "I think there are a couple types of women in the world. Insecure ones who suck up to men, insecure ones who manipulate men, and then ones who don't take any shit." She was letting down her barriers and really explaining her outlook. She was quali…
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:55 PM
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Your friend is doing it wrong. Flirt with everyone, but isolate and escalate who you're actually interested in eventually. Everyone gets the flirtation for a short period, but only the girls who you want get it focused on them for an extended length of time.
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:17 PM
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Laugh and smile more, and be more sociable. Being laid back can be misinterpreted as being uninterested or aloof. If you are engaged, talking to everyone, but still relaxed you should fine. The best PUAs are very relaxed and at ease with themselves. Girls will respond very well when they try and qualify themselves and you suddenly become excited and interested, because it's a reward for them to see this change it attitude, whereas someone who is excited all the time has to sell the successful qu…
/r/seduction05/04/12 03:13 PM
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It all depends on the nature of the relationship. It sounds like you had a FWB situation going and it just naturally petered out. That will happen. When you're dating after sex you usually talk for a bit and then she either goes home or you fall asleep. As things progress you'll probably stop leaving after sex. I think post-sex is really one of the best times for seduction. You're both relaxed, the sexual tension is lowered, and you can actually have some really deep conversations. You can be of…
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:54 PM
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Aside from building attraction you also need comfort, particularly if you're trying to convince a girl to leave her friend to go home with a guy she has just met. Hooking up with you at the club is relatively safe, going home with you is completely different. You have a few options: win over her friends and they'll encourage her to go with you build enough comfort that she'll feel comfortable leaving her friend invite her and her friend to your place to after party. Isolate once you get them bot…
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:23 PM
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This is a "you're too old" shit test. Your response should be to agree/amplify or reframe. Agree/amplify: "Oh my god you're just a baby, I feel like a dirty old man for hitting on you. If I ask you on a date do I have to get your parents to sign a waiver? Would you rather go to this hot new bar in town or Chuck E Cheese's?" Reframe from a negative to a positive: "You're 18 and you're already flirting with older guys? Wow, that's advanced stuff. Clearly the age difference won't be a problem. I ha…
/r/seduction05/04/12 02:15 PM
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What has always worked for me (and this applies to bartenders/waitresses too) is to acknowledge the social construct in which you're operating. By that I mean acknowledge that they're paid to talk you and/or flirt. Initiate a conversation, shift it to non-work topics, then say"listen, I know your job is basically to talk and be nice to people, and there's a small chance that this whole conversation was just you doing your job. I don't think that's the case though..." then suggest something she s…
/r/seduction03/04/12 09:10 PM
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Point is, two hours of dancing should work most of the alcohol out of my system, making it safe for me to drive. Next time I go out, I shouldn't have any of these problems. Sorry, I hate to be 'that guy' but nothing but time will get the alcohol out of your system. Please don't drink and drive!
/r/seduction03/04/12 08:39 PM
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Respectfully, have you considered that you're kind of weird? I don't mean that to be rude, only to say that you may be the exception rather than the rule. You've only provided your personal opinion, and that's completely valid, but IMO I don't think it extrapolates to the general population.
/r/seduction02/04/12 07:28 PM
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This is so incredibly lame. If you've brought a girl home she's probably interested in you already, you don't need to set-dress your apartment to DHV. All you need to do is keep the place reasonably clean and have a variety of drinks on hand. You should demonstrate that you're a healthy and well-dressed person through your physical appearance. Show the girl that you're smart and funny through your conversation. You shouldn't need props to help you out with these things. If it's stuff you use reg…
/r/seduction01/04/12 03:23 PM
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What about positive attention, e.g., telling her that you think tall girls are sexy?
/r/seduction01/04/12 03:17 PM
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Use this with caution (i.e., only do it to girls you've developed a connection with), but what I often do is I'll tell a girl that we're having a boring conversation. She's talking about her day or something mundane, and you can interrupt and say "I'm sorry, but honestly this is small talk and it's kind of boring. I want to get to know what you're actually about. If you could X, what would it be?" where X is: Live anywhere in the world Have a dream job Fulfill any sexual fantasy etc. You'll seem…
/r/seduction31/03/12 01:32 AM
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Exaggerate/amplify. Say stuff like you think you broke your hip and you need a massage, or you're looking for a nice young trophy wife to show off to the fellas at the home. Age play is actually a fun way to show dominance too, e.g., "Back in my day women didn't talk back so much... those were better times."
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:54 AM
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Point out that you're having a boring conversation. Start to ask a question and then interrupt yourself "Sorry, I don't actually really care what you do/where you go to school/whatever. This is boring small talk and I actually want to get to know you. Tell me, if you could be anywhere in the world right now where would you be?" Ask whatever you want, as long as it's not a small talk question.
/r/seduction17/03/12 03:29 AM
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Ask her out. "I'm going to be doing [fun thing] at [time], you should come. If you're really good you might get that massage I owe you".
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:25 PM
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Shakeweight: "You are so forthcoming and delightful. Tell me about which woman at work makes you the angriest."
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:25 PM
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There's a world of difference between making and maintaining eye contact and sitting close to a woman and literally staring at her for 30 seconds before you say anything.
/r/seduction23/02/12 08:10 AM
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In that case just wait until a few hours before the party on Friday, and then ask for the address again. How old are you? Generally younger people are a bit looser on logistics, it might not be a bad sign at this point if she just doesn't know the exact address of the party.
/r/seduction23/02/12 05:16 AM
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I don't even think you did anything wrong with the initial FB message. Putting a <3 after a line like "Promise I won't stalk you" could be really funny if she thinks you're saying it tongue in cheek. If you were really AFC though I can see how it could come off a little bad. The follow up message was brutal though.
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:59 AM
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Sounds like she's flaking, which is weird if she invited you and you work together. Anyways I would probably try to make it look like I'm flaking on her. Wait 30 minutes and text back "It's kiiiinda hard to meet you at a party if you don't know where it is. I thought about wandering around the city shouting your name and hoping for a response but settled on other plans instead. We'll meet up some other time". If she gets back to you with an address in a reasonable amount of time you can always j…
/r/seduction23/02/12 04:53 AM
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First of all congrats on getting out there and actually trying to talk to someone, that's half the battle right there. Unfortunately your approach was way too indirect. You used 2 indirect openers, but didn't follow through on either one to start a conversation. All you had to do was ask a follow up question. "Can you fix my bracelet for me? ... Thanks, I got this at this cool store at X, do you ever go there?" "How much is coffee here... oh ok thanks, you study here a lot? What are you taking? …
/r/seduction22/02/12 04:07 PM
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I'm sure your ex was a great girl but you're not going to game her back after a 5 yr relationship, and for your own sake you shouldn't even try. Now, if your problem is that you're looking for someone who measures up to what you had, the obvious solution is to try to meet as many women as possible. The chances of it just finding you are pretty slim, and I bet if you think back to how it happened with your ex you'd see what you were offering at that point to draw her in. There are 3.5 billion wom…
/r/seduction22/02/12 03:24 AM
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Call her out on it. "You're looking at me like I have 3 eyes, what's the matter, have you not been hit on before? Based on how good you look I refuse to believe that that's true, so you must simply be shocked by my ridiculous swagger" You'd demonstrate intent, compliment her, and be fun/cocky in 2 sentences.
/r/seduction20/02/12 08:24 PM
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I would love to see the chat. Basically I just started getting very compliment-y and sexual. She asked why I was all of a sudden showing so much interest when I didn't even try to call her when I first had her number, and I just explained honestly that I heard she was in a relationship at the time and I have enough else going on that I don't need to give myself headaches pursuing girls that are involved with someone else. I told her that now that I had heard that she was single it would take an …
/r/seduction18/02/12 08:58 PM
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Yea in retrospect this seems like the better approach to just refuse to buy it but make an effort to keep the set going. Ah well, you live you learn.
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:25 AM
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That ran through my head, that's why I walked away. I'm still torn about it though. On the one hand I'm going to have the upper hand in whatever future social situations I see her in, on the other I might have thrown away some easy sex.
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:23 AM
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Hmm, why did you propose a FWB situation before you've had sex with her? I asked her on a date, she said she wasn't looking for anything serious so soon after she got out of a LTR, so I jokingly said "you don't want to date? so we'll just skip to meaningless casual sex then?" and it's been a bit of a running joke since then. I've been trying to calibrate my game a bit more to the type of girl I'm with. If this were a less attractive/cocky girl I probably would've stuck around and been more playf…
/r/seduction18/02/12 02:20 AM
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... you're good. I left a little detail out of the original post because it was getting long, but when I first proposed a FWB situation to this girl I teased her that I knew she liked me because she flirted so heavily with me, and she told me she does that with everyone and that if she wanted to she could be a better player than I am and get guys to buy her stuff/fall in love with her. She said we can't sleep together right away, but if I'm fine with flirting and partying then we would get along…
/r/seduction17/02/12 11:27 PM
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Explicitly friend-zone her (e.g., you're a fun girl but I don't chase girls who are foolish enough to have a boyfriend that isn't me), and mention that you're down to hang out in a platonic way but it wouldn't hurt if she brought some cute female friends too. Suddenly she's hooking you up with girls, and you have instant value because you're a) friends with a woman, b) you showed respect for her by not pressuring her when she has a boyfriend, and c) you weren't needy or insecure and showed you h…
/r/seduction13/02/12 08:56 PM
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I'd just approach it fresh, go into this night as if you have a blank history with this girl. If she is dressed up sexy to meet you, aggressively compliment how she looks, say something like "You look incredible tonight, all of these other guys at the bar are wishing they were me right now". I've tried this with some girl I've known for a while and it's fairly successful. I've gotten a few reactions like "I've never seen this side of you before" (a good sign!) and you can just respond with somet…
/r/seduction28/01/12 08:00 PM
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