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| 1 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?Women are attracted to masculinity. Act masculine and chances are she’ll be attracted. If you approach a woman and hit on her with confidence then get to know her in a playful way she’ll feel a LOT. If you’re worried about being boring, ask fun questions, tease, flirt… you don’t need to piss her off. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYep agreed. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateThat just shows me you have no real world experience. A good looking tall guy taking her out to a nice place is more memorable than a wannabe PUA taking her for a drink. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Nyc looking for wingsDm me been doing this for over a decade, lay count over 100. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:24 AM |
| 1 | To all the dating gurus How to show a intrest in a girl without looking creepyAsk her on a date. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:22 AM |
| 22 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?Women are NOT drawn to “bad” men, they’re drawn to confident assertive men not losers who start arguments. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:20 AM |
| 1 | Got 10 numbers in a day and none messaged back?Are you sure the conversations were good? How did they end? What did you text? | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:20 AM |
| -2 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateYou can be the most memorable thing in her life or some guy trying hard to bang her. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:19 AM |
| 0 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateI like how you can tell who is an amateur by the way the comment. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateThis. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateExactly. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:18 AM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder: NEVER take a girl out for dinner on a first dateNope. Restaurant dates are gold with 10’s and other high value women. If you feel like it. | /r/seduction | 29/05/25 03:17 AM |
| 2 | Good indication she's single?Don’t be weird and those questions are weird. Talk more and flirt and if she reciprocates, asks her out. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?Yeah most of this body language stuff is bunk. Unless you’re obviously nervous or weird no one notices a damn thing. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Women Can Tell — Or Can They, Really?Not at all. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:18 PM |
| 1 | How to talk to a women in online dating appsGet her number. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:17 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to and bond with women in a non-romantic way especially in social settings (college, gym etc) as I do with men?Don’t think of them as “women”. | /r/seduction | 24/11/24 07:16 PM |
| -1 | Actual material of “The Game”Please no. This is terrible “game”. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 11:30 PM |
| 0 | Actual material of “The Game”Mystery method is absolute garbage don’t do this to yourself, | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 11:30 PM |
| 1 | The meaning of “no spark”?You probably didn’t flirt and you admit you haven’t made a move. There’s the problem, you need to touch her during the date and at some point go for a kiss. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Conundrum?More context is needed but it sounds like you did something that made her lose interest. I wouldn’t say anything at this point. I would however analyze how you acted. I can help if you give more context. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Dilemma of girl proposing another day for a dateYou’re overthinking it. If you want to see her and are free then see her. She isn’t thinking about this at all like this trust me. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Is this a good idea?It’s a good idea yes. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | A guy asked to do night game with me and I wish I didn’t agree.Sounds like you just wanted to brag about your success. All I see is the word “set” and it’s just cringe in 2024. I don’t think any of this happened, but if it did seems like he needs self-help for his anxiety and you need to work on your need to brag/make up stories. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Hookup texting help?You don’t ask for sextung, you just get to know her. At some point you can misinterpret something she said and make it sexual. Don’t force anything just be playful. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | What’s going on with this girl?Your conversation wasn’t a success. If it was lengthy then you should’ve gotten her number and setup basic plans to meet. The whole see you around thing is pretty bad. Now just approach and ask her out. She knows you like her and if you don’t ask her out she’ll only think you’re scared. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Why is it so hard to hook up with single women?You’re not escalating. Example 1: Why did the interaction end? You could’ve said “are you inviting me?” In a flirty way. Example 2: You should’ve asked her to your house for a drink or asked her if she wants to go somewhere else. When she asked what you’re looking for say open to anything. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Did I just find a cheat code for seductive dates?You don’t need to show vulnerability or explore her deep self. That’s weird to be honest. All you need to do is show genuine interest in getting to know her and not be shy or negative. Escalate physically and ideally pull. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Girl went from messaging me first to unmatching and I don’t understand (Hinge chat analysis)Seems like you went for a date too fast, didn’t give her time to respond to the first time you asked. Also it’s online dating and there could be a million reasons. You did fine honestly. | /r/seduction | 22/10/24 10:38 PM |
| 0 | “I’ll let you know” - any hope?Problem #1: If you’re worried about being high or low value, you’re low value. Problem #2: overthinking Text her to meet up again say “I miss you, let’s meet up on (puck day you can and you know she can). If she says no/ignores drop her. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 05:38 AM |
| 2 | What do I make of this ?These ratings are useless and just in your head. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 05:35 AM |
| 3 | After meeting a girl in person and getting their contact, do you chat for a few days before asking out or just go straight to the point?You should set up a date when getting her phone number. If not, text after, her to know her a bit more and make plans within the day or two. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendThis. | /r/seduction | 29/03/24 05:43 AM |
| 2 | How do you guys handle a long series of rejections?If rejection affects you then your self-value comes from other people. Yo need to stop relying on others for your self-worth. If you keep getting rejected, analyze where your game is wrong | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys handle a long series of rejections?Working on self-esteem is the best idea. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 04:20 PM |
| 10 | I get bored on datesAre you interested in women? Only interested in sex? | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Women have options! So, I realised I have to do something to make them choose me, and how do I do it?You have options too and you choose them as well. You need to stop thinking that you have to win them over. You have something to offer. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:09 AM |
| 2 | DAE intentionally try to act nervous for fun when picking up girls?What’s the point? | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Should i ask her out?If you want to then yes. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:06 AM |
| 2 | What is the best possible way to open a conversation, as in how to approach someone randomly?You don’t need openers, be direct cause she’ll know what you want and if you don’t get to the point she’ll know you’re scared. Biggest complaint from women is guys who don’t get to the point. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:05 AM |
| 1 | How do some people naturally know how to game?Confidence plus understanding of women. | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:03 AM |
| 98 | 3 dates in - how to move forward?You’re not chasing, you’re being a man. A man takes charge and schedules things. Saying “ball’s in your court” is pretty weird to be honest. | /r/seduction | 05/03/24 04:20 AM |
| 1 | ApproachingTechnically they are rejecting you and their perception of you could be right. They might think you’re ugly for example. The key is not letting others‘ opinions affect how you feel about yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 06:01 AM |
| 1 | ApproachingIf you go in indirectly you’re just showcasing that you’re not confident and scared of approaching. 99% of the time she’ll know you’re hitting on her anyway. If you still get a girl‘s number after, it’s despite your clear insecurities. Going in directly is for real men and is much more effective. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | ApproachingThis isn’t the issue. The real issue is you rely on women to define your value in life. You need to work on accepting yourself and your self-worth first. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | ApproachingOr he‘ll commit suicide because of depression. Hitting rockbottom works both ways. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 05:52 AM |
| 2 | ApproachingYou need to accept yourself for who you are and change what you can that you don’t like. You can never rely on others to decide your mood or value for you. You might need therapy or a lot of self-help. You’re not going to magically get over this. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 05:51 AM |
| 0 | What to Do If a Woman Starts To Lose InterestThis whole thing doesn’t make much sense. Are you talking about when a gf does this? Some girl you hooked up with? Someone you’re talking to? Just no longer talking isn’t really advice. It depends on the context and no women can be pretty open about their lack of interest. | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 05:41 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal to not see at least one good looking girl in public?It happens. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:41 AM |
| 1 | Is there away to persevere through the mountain of rejectionsYes stop letting other people determine your value. Nothing changes about you if some woman doesn’t like you. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:40 AM |
| 1 | I like to put the front part of my shirt in my shorts. Now my bulge is visible... Is that a problem?Depends on size. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Rejected after first date/kiss close“I told her I live with my ex, why doesn’t she like me now?” | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | My text game is pretty badBefore you text anything ask yourself these questions: Would you find this text interesting if you were her? How is this moving you closer to the date? Are you building comfort? | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:27 AM |
| 1 | You Can't Slip Up Around WomenSo a woman will fall out of love if you change into a bum? Yeah that’s common sense. Same works the other way. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you think porn and masturbation can have a negative impact on your dating life?It doesn’t matter unless you’re an addict. No proof whatsoever otherwise. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:18 AM |
| 1 | how do I develop a godlike confidence chill vibe?Don’t base your self-worth on other people’s reactions. | /r/seduction | 24/02/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | How to Make out with Women on the First DateIt’s much easier then this. Just always go for a kiss by the time she’s OK with physical touch and the vibe is good. | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 06:15 AM |
| 3 | She seems distant after I kissed at the end of the second date, time to move on definitely?He can still turn it around, I know I would’ve pretty easily. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:53 AM |
| 1 | She seems distant after I kissed at the end of the second date, time to move on definitely?I’ll analyze it for you as someone with 100+ lays. You did a good job with regular conversation as it builds comfort. Sounds like you think the first date went well, next time just talk about your surroundings when nothing to say. Based on her texting the next day it did go well. It sounds like you didn’t show much interest in future plans or the awkwardness was really bad. Talk about surroundings, talk about something interesting in your life, something about her.., it’s impossible to run out o… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:45 AM |
| 3 | How do I get better at reading dating intentions?Don’t bother trying to figure it out. Unless you promise exclusivity or anything like that, what’s the difference? | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:30 AM |
| 0 | Brunch for first date?Yeah that’s not how it works in real life. It doesn’t matter nearly as much where the first date is and lol at coffee stimulating love. Is that from some chick magazine? | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:20 AM |
| -2 | Brunch for first date?There’s nothing wrong with a brunch first date. Why does it suck? Get to know her more, build a better connection… | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:19 AM |
| 0 | Brunch for first date?Please stop. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:17 AM |
| 3 | Saw this line somewhere, thought id share it.Her: “Please learn how to talk to women”. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:16 AM |
| 11 | What are some cheap/ free resources you used to improve your dating life ?This 100% | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:12 AM |
| 3 | Why optimizing your looks won't get you more womenLooks do matter quite a bit and it’s 100% recommended to improve them as much as you can. In your example of a good looking guy stuttering, some women find shyness attractive and no you don’t need to “stimulate her emotions”, you just need to attract her and not f it up after, while leading the interaction. | /r/seduction | 09/02/24 05:11 AM |
| 14 | I am pretty sure I just fumbled an easy layYou’re basing your life around women and acting desperate. If you want to have sex regularly, give them a reason to want you, focus on giving them what they want. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 05:02 AM |
| 4 | Tips for texting a tinder date?Actually not regularly texting is how you lose girls. You want a connection and comfort. Text regularly but don’t force it. Ask her out asap. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Tips for texting a tinder date?Again, doesn’t work outside the fantasy world. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:57 AM |
| 0 | Tips for texting a tinder date?That advice is pretty bad. Text regularly to build a connection and comfort. The opposite leads to lack of attraction and flakes. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:56 AM |
| 0 | Tips for texting a tinder date?The exact opposite actually. You text daily and build a connection. If you don’t text daily then you don’t build a connection and show a lack of interest. Mystery? This is how I know you’re an amateur and shouldn’t be giving advice. Sorry to be mean but you shouldn’t give advice without experience. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 04:56 AM |
| 2 | I feel unable to seduce with a cold approach. How overcome it and start meet women? (33M)This 100%. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:40 PM |
| 0 | I feel unable to seduce with a cold approach. How overcome it and start meet women? (33M)Your problem is lack of confidence. You need to work on not letting others have the power to decide your emotional state. Who cares if some stranger with a vagina doesn’t like you? Would you be as sad if some random guy said “you’re ugly bro”? Women aren’t barometers of your value in life. You’re giving them compliments if you call them attractive and asking out on a date is offering them fun. No reason to be worried over it. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:40 PM |
| 57 | Is asking only once, always the right choice?Any rule on asking out and the number of times is BS. It entirely depends on the situation and the girl. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:35 PM |
| 3 | Is it good idea to ask her out on valentine day? (22M)Well she either thinks you’re shy or sees you as just a friend. She either is willing to give you a chance or sees you as just a friend. Ask her out and you’ll find out but be prepared for the consequences. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Is cold approach an edge these days since most guys gone online and women so desperate of not being approached?This. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Suddenly, I have a lots of female friends... Good thing or?No offense but having a lot of female friends makes a person look kind of gay. You should have more guy friends at least. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How do I get a girl friend to introduce me to other girls?Don't make it look like you’re just using her for her friends. Depending on the situation either ask directly or hint by saying you’re looking for a gf. | /r/seduction | 03/02/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)Not my experience and I have a 100+ lay count. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 06:30 AM |
| 2 | 🧙📖 Total's First Date Manifesto (manifesto just sounds cooler than guide, right?)I like your effort to write all of this, but as someone with a 100+ lay count, this is counter to my experience. I’ll go point by point… If you can pull to your house then sure but deferrals it’s better to be close to her house. That way she’s less likely to flake. If her house is an option even better. She doesn’t know you yet, the easier the date is for her the better. Disagreed. She’s more likely to have you in her home than going to a stranger’s house. More comfort for her. It depends, if yo… | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | Matches on dating apps randomly stop texting backBe playful and constantly stand out. Absolutely nothing wrong with double texting, that’s another issue. | /r/seduction | 02/02/24 06:01 AM |
| 4 | Cold approach success rateIf you’re bad in person, online is a crutch. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Cold approach success rateIf I get a girl’s number after talking to her in person, my success rate of getting a first date is very high. You don’t build enough comfort, don’t talk enough/build a connection before the date. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 06:28 AM |
| 5 | Anxious attachmentThe key is to internalize that you’re the prize and that if the girl doesn’t like you for you, she’s not worth a relationship. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | How to Have Fun and Playful conversations with womenIt’s somewhat good advice but it’s simpler to just have an interest in getting to know the girl and not asking boring questions too much. You have to actually ask normal get to know questions, but you can tease/ask fun questions too. Just ask yourself “is this a boring question?” | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 06:04 AM |
| 0 | I walked away.You’re not doing anything about the actual problem. There’s a reason she’s not into having sex with you, did you find out why? You can simply ask. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 05:55 AM |
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