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SCROTES MADFaginRagette/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:11 PM
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That is literally their demand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:22 AM
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Young, hot, inexperienced..but an absolute sex-goddess tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:20 AM
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Confirmed. Their goal is to ruin your life before you've even truly begun it. Avoid these men and warn the girls. Stick to your own life plan and goals. A man who loves you will support you not tear you down or make you ashamed. It's fine to meet someone and then mutually decide that you have different paths you want to take or your goals and values don't match. What's not fine is someone who forces you to choose between your own life and making them happy. It can't be like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:56 PM
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Yeah I mean some people have trouble putting into words how they feel or why they feel a certain way about someone. This is right on- someone can tick all your boxes (or seem to initially) and make you feel shit and there's a difference between that person and someone who ticks all or most of your boxes and makes you feel genuinely happy. So long as he respects you as a person indépendant of himself and is actually glad for you when you achieve your own goals even the ones which have nothing to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:26 PM
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Not cheating but hard drug use. I had noticed, but anytime I brought up his weird behaviour or made an accusation, he'd get angry and so I started staying at my mom's. One morning he broke down and confessed to having spent thousands and got himself into so much debt. It didn't shock me. I didn't feel anything. But then this guy tries telling me that I should feel sorry for him because he's the one who f-d up. I think I wasnt shocked, it was just confirmation of something which I knew had been h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:15 PM
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They are literally not taught to control their behaviour around women. It makes you feel violated cus you know what just went through that creep's mind. The worst is when they look up and just smile at you ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:02 PM
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How many of us have met these guys, eh. We were probably all socialised the way girls are supposed to be - kind, empathetic and ignorinng our own needs and even our instincts in favour of making other people more comfortable.. There was a post yesterday on AITA by a father whose neighbors were trying to force his 6-8 year old daughters to "play with" a mentally disabled son who was an 18 year old man. This dude had the right idea, but questioned whether he wouldn't be teaching his girls to be ki…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:58 PM
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They're angry that they can't control themselves. They think we're the devil for "tempting" them when "temptation" to them is a woman simply existing and their perverted thoughts seeing it as an irresistible invitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:35 PM
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KEVIN. Fucking Kevins everywhere...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:21 PM
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Yes, I'm sure that the mother and daughter sleep soundly knowing that there are grown ass men acting out their sexual fantasies on basically what looks and feels like the daughter's corpse. In their heads, they're having sex with the daughter. But at least they aren't actually having sex with the daughter herself...at least she can't physically feel it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:29 PM
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They change the narrative to fit their agenda. What's new with the "logical " sex ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 09:11 AM
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I lived briefly with a Chinese guy and a South Korean woman for a while - they hadn't met eachother before. Within a few days, she told me that he had been following her around trying to tell her that he was starving and trying to convince her to cook for him. Dude lived off ramen for months. I moved out and apparently he never did stop pestering her. :/. She said that this is normal behaviour for some guys - their mothers cooked for them and then they're just supposed to go out into the world w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:36 AM
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Busuu is one I started. You pay for it , but it's actually pretty fun and easy for learning languages. Its a good thing to do with your time when you find your mind wandering - plus you can kind of make "friends" on the app, but all messages are public so I haven't encountered any creeps so far. When I left this dude a few years ago, I decided to take up language lessons in person with all the spare cash I finally had to myself and within a few weeks my teacher invited me back to her country for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:44 AM
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My mother has spent the majority of her life being referred to as "Mrs [my dad's first and last names ]". I think she loves being able to say "actually, it's Dr [her name]" now. I still go by miss, but only because I hate Ms. I also grew up thinking that it meant divorced. It's ridiculous enough that we're supposed to change our names when we get married, nevermind that we also have to have a title which indicates to complete strangers whether or not we're taken. And miss Vs ms being used for ol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:45 PM
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So a couple of men basically admitted that what men really mean when they call themselves "visual" is actually that they have a perverse obsession with women and our bodies and indulge themselves in sexualising and comparing/evaluating women they encounter in their daily lives ALL THE TIME. And this poor pickmeisha is trying to deal with the horror if that revelation by putting her mind through contortionist level gymnastics trying to rationalise it in a way which doesn't say what it really says…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:04 PM
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I thought this was starting to die out ..but I was just being hopeful. It turns out that I was just getting older. When I was pregnant it started all over again (messed up, right) and even still happens with a little one in tow. I think it's a lot to do with how vulnerable and fragile you look. Just the idea of something vaguely female and defenseless walking past them is enough. Its disturbing. Catcalling peaked for me from my early teens until about 22. Its the same for women in my family who …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:25 PM
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Exactly! The whole question is manipulative. They trap you in a hypothetical situation and demand a yes or no answer. And what does it tell them ? That people , not just women if they dared to ask men that question, would stoop pretty low for a one-time chance to significantly gain opportunity in an unfair system. They're just upset no one would ever offer ten bucks to sleep with a man, much less a million. This is pretty much their entire problem in life. One which causes them to insult, degrad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:11 PM
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All the boys in my school had this meme-like thing where they'd go up to random girls, ask if they'd have sex for money, when they said no, they'd increase the amount of money until she said "maybe " or "yes, for a million (or whatever)" and determined from that that all women (these were 14-16 year old girls) are naturally prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:13 PM
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Anyone who says that it's fine to have a boundary gets downvoted to oblivion too. What is their defense exactly ? That they have "needs" and would be cheating otherwise ? And we're supposed to stay with a guy like that ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:13 AM
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I agree, but I did read somewhere that higher testosterone does cause men to act more impulsively and actually be more likely to answer questions wrongly because of trying to answer them quickly. However I suppose that a woman's testosterone even during a period won't be anywhere near as high as an average man's. Plus nobody ever mentions the physical side effects, pain and discomfort. That's what probably makes us a little extra snappy/assertive. We feel like shit. But we can't lay down and eat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 06:25 AM
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Because they think that sex is for them and we should just ...get off on the...thrill of having the honour to get them off. Also porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:30 AM
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Right on. It's definitely a sign of some kind of Peter Pan-type mentality. This immature type of guy always expect you to mommy him, but when you try to lay down the rules like a mama should he insists that he's a big boy and you can't tell him what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:24 PM
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I agree with this. Everything a woman does whether it be normal daily routine or even painful is seen as erotic and indulgent because we're fetishized. But I also think that it has something to do with not being seen as fully human and having human experiences/ necessities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:11 AM
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I have a son and I'm really terrified about having to have the porn talk when he'll be so, so young. I mean he's only a baby rn, but it's gona happen sooner than I could probably anticipate. His father -my ex- will not support me on this issues and I know that it'll be a battle. I'd be interested to find out if anyone has successfully talked about this with a son.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:25 PM
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Hunter's Moon is definitely the one. Sea Hag is still a hard would buy/10, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:28 PM
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It's really telling on themselves when they fear men looking at their girlfriends and daughters the way they look at women and girls. It shows that there's something wrong with it, but they don't want to stop. They just dont want it done to "their" women because they see it as a disrespect to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:27 PM
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Men aren't the logical sex. They just decided that they are because their behaviour makes sense to them and they don't want to have to take anyone else's pov or feelings into account so they brand women as "illogical", "emotional" and "insecure" and that way they can shut us down. It's all projection. They defend their "need" for consuming women in the same way any addict defends an addiction. To them it makes sense and they are so wrapped up in their excuses and enjoyment that they don't want t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:23 PM
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I know some. The insecure ones who were popular in school, but only ever for their looks. After school these women seem to fear aging and losing what they perceived to be their "worth". Women who grow to realise that validation doesn't come from how popular with the guys they are become stronger and start to forge their own path in life. They see the creeps for what they are and seek to avoid that type of attention/those types of men. The others never seem to grow as people in their own right an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:23 PM
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Yeah I mean it's satire , but also completely truthful. This is actually the message we should be giving people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:56 AM
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Yea it's like we're different models of cars or something - and I can't see why or how people don't find it so deeply disturbing. They also feel entirely comfortable making assumptions based on a woman's "type" and bringing up those assumptions in conversation with the woman herself even. Evidently our hair colour and ethnicity determine what we're like in bed and that's also apparently totally fine to point out to a total stranger / colleague.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:30 PM
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Porn tells men that all their scrutiny of women down to the things we can't even control are completely valid. They walk around categorising and ranking us because we're constantly packaged as a product for them to consume and they can't see us in any other way. Racism and stereotypes are heavily perpetuated in porn too - it's all in the titles and the content is even worse. It's ok to have preferences , but they see us solely as types which they can evaluate and critcise publicly ...as if we ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:49 PM
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My man just lurks FDS and can't get a girlfriend so he wants to spread hate and misrepresentation of the sub/ encourage this sub to be taken down for being "hateful". Looking for a man who adds value to your life is so totally objectifying , but spending hours watching porn and using numbers to describe women nah .../s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:13 AM
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Does she live in the same reality that we do ? This "advice" could lead to a poor girl/young woman's death and that is not an exaggeration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 09:14 AM
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Oh they're all super supportive when you tell them. It makes you tell them everything. You trust them. And they store everything you give them and later use it to hurt or manipulate you. A genuinely caring man will never push you to tell him anything and will understand if you mention trauma without going into much detail when you don't know him so well. I've learned to never give up sensitive info to anyone - male or female unless you feel completely secure in telling them something. Never give…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:41 AM
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I started doing that as a teenager because I kept getting accused of being cold or mad so I had to put "lol" or ";p" or some other bs after so many of my messages. Then I got older and realised that there's absolutely nothing wrong with simply ending a sentence. My younger self gives me a lot to cringe about. I even had a boyfriend who'd get mad if I didn't put kisses after every flippin' text. 3ventually I stopped doing it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:53 PM
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Makes me wonder if there's anything like that out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:30 PM
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Yeah the sucky thing about mental health services in my country is that they're really underfunded and when you actually go to use them , they really tend to let you down. There are the odd few who seem to help people, I don't deny that. In my experience they really don't pick up on the things they should be trained to. Everyone who I know with any kind of experience with mental health services has had at least one if not many terrible experiences - often therapists are condescending on top of j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 03:40 PM
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Oh yeah why can so many men always seem to find a million "excuses" to stay the same, never one reason to change. Even when it directly impacts us or even themselves, we can't even ask anything of them more than once or they call it "nagging" or "controlling " . They think accusing us is just a get out of jail free card. Any man who breaks rank is a simp. It gets tiring. If they didn't harm anyone, I'd be happy to let them destroy themselves. Sadly we're supposed to inhabit the same planet. They…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 09:01 PM
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Why are men ? Seriously why ? Why do they exist ? Their life is a masturbation fest. They have no threats and so they're bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 09:09 AM
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Yeah do any rich women cook or clean unless they have a cooking hobby. It's not like her fiancé is doing it. Cardi B , I don't know enough about her, but she reminds me of Nicki Minaj - they project this powerful woman image wnd, the irony is that they are incredibly powerful, but they don't see it in the same way that we do. Their power comes from being able to turn a man on and make men want them. Tbh that isn't actually hard, but it's harder to do when you're competing against thousands of ot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:30 AM
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I have terrible small-talk, but I work on it. If I don't know what to say, I'll let the better talker take the lead. If they're uncomfortable, I'll try to bring up something interesting but neutral. I have no interest in going hard and deep into someone's personal life or bringing up sensitive or potentially triggering/uncomfortable topics. Not being good at small talk isn't an excuse for going straight into intimate topics with a stranger. It's a way to forge a fake connection with someone. It'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:53 PM
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Ugh I had a situation where a man literally began to mansplain to me that feminism is sexist (and that BLM is apparently racist). I held my tongue, explained that focusing on issues which we as women or black people specifically face which are unique to us is not the same as saying that we are better than anyone else. How can we fix a specific problem when we have to talk about everyone's problems and the implication is that white men already matter. He did shut up luckily. Not because he agreed…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:31 AM
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PickMe friends, family and therapists are very dangerous. Often abusers can use them to triangulate you as well - I had an ex with a PickMe mother and sister who he'd use for advice. Even when they didn't take his side and blame me, they'd still say that we were "just as bad as eachother" as a cop-out rather than get involved. Just as bad as eachother. I never raised my voice nor laid a finger on the dude even in private. He wouldn't let me speak about what he did to me, or as he put it "air our…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 11:19 AM
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I also thought she was referring to the dude. I'd be proud to look like her in the first pic or the second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:27 AM
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I grew up voluntarily keeping myself to myself, never believing or worrying about finding a man. I was shamed for my "vanity" and as an older teen really bullied by certain people who were close to me. I'd always had awful self-esteem and had been abused in two separate instances - one short and one long. I didn't like myself and was easy to manipulate. When I was living rough, I gave an ugly , older and broke guy a chance. He screamed in front of his friends that I was all kinds of nasty. He to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:54 PM
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He has to so that he can feel like he rejected her for being a prude. Otherwise his ego would be possibly damaged beyond repair..!!! Why change your behaviour when you can reverse the blame onto someone else and lash out at her for not accepting it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:30 AM
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I made the mistake of intoxicatedly telling my ex about some pretty shitty stuff which had happened to me. I was homeless at the time and he failed all this caring and niceness when I told him sorry for telling him. As soon as he had me, suddenly I was no longer "beautiful, nice, kind..etc." I was "ugly, disgusting, a failure " and everything bad which had happened to me became weapons for him to hurt me. I'm glad I read this. I kinda realised it after the first 2 years of being with him. He exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:11 AM
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That's beautiful and a fantastic way to spend your time:, making something beautiful and using bad experiences to learn lessons and as a reminder. Imagine a house filled with little decorations to deter us from chasing validation from some LVM who doesn't respect us. I'd rather live alone in a home decorated apartment for the rest of my life than waste my time and effort on another man who is just there to take what he can get and basically waste my time, energy and effort. Respect! 👊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:48 PM
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"in sickness and in health" Men: sure she should take care of me and be there throughout both of our sickness and health. I wasn't married but I had broken feet due to medical negligence. I had to work full time until late at night, do all the housework, shopping, cooking etc. and still care for him and his depression, mood swings and anger "because of my childhood". When we went out, he'd scream at me for wanting to take a 5 minute rest because of the agony I was In. He'd feign sympathy sometim…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 03:05 PM
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Classic male projections. Every horrible thing they like to say about women is true of themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:31 PM
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I've been in the same situation. They don't leave. They won't leave and they act like you're a bitch every time you remind them that they need to get out of your house. I had a messy end to a tenancy couple years back because of this guy. He didn't just cross the line multiple times; he trampled back and forth across it and then pitied himself for his own mistakes. It sounds bad, but it was actually surprisingly easy. A financial loss but a life gain. He tried getting angry; he tried screaming, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 12:29 PM
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Men hate women because bruhuhu wiminnz dont give me pussyyy to fuck bruhuhuuu mummyy whyy dont they give me pussy bruhuhu Lmao and then there's women like my grandmother who turn on us "modern women" just because their sons can't get a "nice girl to settle down with" (read: be a slave throughout sickness and heath forever and ever til the end). Like "why won't you young girls give them pussy, huh ? They've been through literal trauma ? Don't you think they deserve a nice hot meal to come home to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:16 AM
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Their masculine ideology is destroying them. What it means to be a man is never properly dealing with emotions because "men don't have them "; promoting violence and domination as an outlet; discouraging impulse control and encouraging the acquisition of primal desires as a status symbol; discouraging co-operation with women; relying on the promotion of brotherhood and cameradie to keep eachother in line; and picking on and discrediting those who don't keep in line. It's really unhealthy and it …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 01:04 PM
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Yep, there isn't really anything you can say because they all agree that apparently they "wouldn't care" if someone told them to smile. They're ignorant and the only times they will maybe feel bad is if you really genuinely are having one of the worst days of your life - e.g. someone died. In reality, we owe no one a smile nor an explanation for our face. Even moreso when we aren't working - most men seem to say it to complete strangers. If you retort them, you will usually end up getting called…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 09:58 AM
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"....at which point she left the house and hasn't texted me since. Must be sulking cos I gave her a taste of her own medicine..... She'll be crawling back any minute now... Any minute." ... "Guys she texted to say it's over. Omg she can't take a joke. What a wh0re. It's probably cuz I ain't tall enough. Women are such shallow bytchez. " How that situation would play out if it ever happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:26 PM
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I think calling themselves our protectors was just a cynical move to deter women from running away from them. They have never protect us. Nor do they protect children or the vulnerable and weak. It's all women. Even female animals have to protect themselves and their babies from male animals and other predators so it's absolutely not "a man's nature to protect.". It's man's nature to harm. Obviously humans, being conscious and self-aware, they are able to overcome that. Some, however, don't even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:11 AM
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Oh, it's to "protect us" now is it ? I thought we were part of the "spoils of war". They used to guard women like they were treasure. That isn't protection; we were just used by whoever managed to capture us. Male soldiers have always raped no matter what side they were on. They'd even be using old ladies to cook and wash for their armies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:48 AM
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Perfectly put. They basically say it themselves that they arent ever going to give you the respect or treatment that you deserve. You have to be with them lest you end up 4evar alonnne so they try to convince you that giving them inches won't lead them to taking yards etc. and that they're being "good" by not demanding miles from you. You try to tell them that giving them inches led to yards and you're getting upset and they try to say "but my guy friends do much worse ..but my dad ...b-but guys…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:27 AM
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Yep they want to put us all down and when they desire our bodies, they'll "elevate" us , but they know that they can keep us in our place by warning us that things we say and do are "just like other girls waaa". The implication still being girls=bad and they're hoping that we continue to struggle to prove them wrong by going out of our way to accommodate and please them lest we be "one of them". Ugh it's like that film "the platform".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:01 AM
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Yep that's the cue to skedaddle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:58 AM
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Exactly. When men give all that "now that I have a daughter..." BS, they're implying that they didn't even respect the woman who had their daughter even if she was his partner/wife , but a lot of women give respect to men who don't deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:29 AM
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Something I got told : "you won't be any lonlier when you're single than you are with a man who emotionally neglects you. " If anything, it's less lonely being single than being tied in a bad relationship. I was with a guy who isolated me from friends and family and then ditched me all the time to hang out with his friends. There are many a lonely housewife and SAHMs. It's worse knowing that you should have someone, but they just aren't there for you ...or worse, abuse and hurt you. A relationsh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 09:06 PM
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And the naive woman who comes next will be all like "aww no that's so terrible, I'm not like that!" *2 years later * Him:. "waaaa you're just like my ex!!!!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:30 AM
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She is such a PickMe. She is/was a powerful woman in ways she never realised. The power which she perceives in herself is solely related to her ability to turn men on. She talked a big game, but she taught girls to self-objectify, to go to great lengths to get male attention and to ultimately "catch" and settle down with a man - even if he's a piece of trash. She had talent; she chose not to use it to inspire girls in any way other than reinforcing the "Sex-positivity" message which we're alread…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 05:57 PM
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Yeh I was out one night and gave a dude a fake number. He held my arm as he rang me then told me it was fake. He tried to twist my arm while demanding my real number. Of course this was in a loud club and no one was paying attention to me. His friend was right behind him. I have him my number then proceeded to get away as fast as I could. I had to then change my number because every time I blocked him, I'd get more calls from various other numbers and texts with loads of kisses and emojis. It wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:01 PM
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Came to say this. They tell us to love them the way they are; to not be shallow ; to appreciate and learn to love the beer-gut-balding-look of a "mature man". They would fuck anything which has a hole. They are not picky , but they love to scrutinize every inch of us, saying that they are "visual -creatures" (lmao these guys can't tell pink from red from orange. Visual my arse). They love the way that women buy into massive, multi-billion dollar industries based solely on changing our appearance…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 11:19 AM
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Yeah I used this on a guy and he lost his shit. I just rolled my eyes and said "point proven even without the horrendous pain and general ickiness of an actual period. ". He was really mad. I had to try not to laugh. Unfortunately the irony was lost on him and so he does as man is wont to do and started attacking me personally. Men in general are too emotional to reason with. They only seem to calm down if another man explains things to them from a man's perspective because viewing a situation o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 05:33 PM
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I was forcibly exposed to porn and weird stuff when I was quite young and so shaved as soon as I saw even the faintest hint of hair down there. Also none of the other girls in school had hair there yet and so I thought it was embarrassing to be the first one (we showered communally for sport ). I assumed that every girl would save or wax and that if I didn't then I'd be weird. had always shaved out of humiliation and fear. It wasn't that I wanted guys to like me because I didn't really look to d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:34 PM
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They all talk like they're exceptions to their family. At best , they're usually just maybe not-as-shitty as the rest of their family. But those ones are catch-22s- they're just better enough so that they think/ or at least claim that they're trying their best while knowing full well that they are going to be given lenience due to their background. My grandad was born in poverty and lost his parents very young. His one older sister is now diagnosed as bipolar+ other issues but growing up, he jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:09 PM
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What I noticed with one guy was his he'd always claim to have my back and use a few examples such as when my dad and I argued and I came home in tears which is thought would make him angry, but he comforted me. He caused me more pain than most people out there, but if I did ever break down or ...dare I say it ... Get angry with him, he'd respond with irritation and rage. He could apologise to a man when he lost his shit or say he overreacted .. so.. Yeh he understood emotions and their causes. H…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:17 PM
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Yes! I think women definitely need warning about Low Value Pickme Women. They aren't friends. They don't have your back. They'll use you as a free therapist and ignore or dismiss your problems or take up so much of your time with their problems and you won't bother them ever with yours. They'll vehemently defend the most awful of men and ferociously tear other women down as if it's a competition. But they're also the type of women who raise girls and daughters in toxic environments which lead th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:50 AM
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Hang on. She didn't even say that she had an abortion. So in this "joke", it seems like the dude just went ahead and cheated as a punishment for his wife believing that she should have the right to decide to abort if it ever came to that. But yeh clever man brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 09:08 AM
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In my country, it is completely legal for a 70+ year old man to have sex with a 16 year old girl. It's disgusting and men here have no problem getting off to girls under 18 because of the law here. Sorry I just had to complain. If you try to talk about underaged porn being leaked or on pornhub, so long as the girl is 16 or over, they fail to see the problem. Apparently "she knew what she was doing ". I knew through mutual "friends " of a guy who groomed a 15 year old until she was 16 and he offi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 10:22 AM
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Yikes my head goes weird every time my phone rings because of my ex. He used to repeatedly ring me so much in the relationship to check where I was and who I was with and if I didn't pick up straight away, I'd get murder when I saw him. If I walked out during an argument, he'd chase me and call and call and call and sometimes I'd just sit there watching the phone ring over and over just too scared to pick up, but scared of not picking up either. Now every time I hear my phone, my heart flutters …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 09:24 AM
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You're now my hero of the day! Congratulations, bask in that sweet, sweet freedom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:20 AM
3

So true it hurts when I laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:14 AM
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It's why they need so much "space" and "guy time". They find it exhausting doing all the acting they do just to keep a relationship- aka the easy life. They treat us like their mothers, but with far less of an emotional connection. And when we piss them off, they go to their mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:13 AM
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That's a sad story. Once you're stuck in the industry, men don't want you to leave unless you become too old/ugly to make money. The pimp game has been upped. The sex-positivity movement has turned sex work into a corporate industry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:01 PM
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Yeah these men will pay for nudes from someone for whom they have no respect. I did cam when I was just 18 and got eventually threatened and blackmailed. Idk if I'll ever have the words to tell what it felt like. The way these men spoke to me. And when I told my ex, he called me a "slag" and didn't trust me. These men who consume this don't see you as human and the more they dehumanize you, the more you dehumanize yourself. You feel disgusting - you have to buy make up and props and the men, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:48 PM
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Yep when you gotta get them to imagine being catcalled by the biggest guys in the prison yard and explain that that is how it feels to be a woman getting catcalled when she sets foot outside her house. .. and they still don't get it. I also think that homophobic men are so afraid of gay guys because they assume that those men think of them the way that they think of women and it scares them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:30 PM
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Boomer women had to be hard-as-nails. I think things are getting worse for women on a way. Legally it's getting better, but every legal battle we win, men want to either find a way around it or use it against us. My grandmother's generation were not afraid to kick their husbands out for the night, slap them across the face or joke about poisoning them. Edit:. I'm not saying that kind of attitude is right , but men didn't used to scream "abuse" every time that women raised their voice. I think th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:09 PM
11

Ugh I used to get this all the time. Like no, dude, maybe I just want to Marie Kondo my life - you are not useful, nor do you spark joy so... Byeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:50 PM
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Ok, I was trying to say that society judges fat people more than perverts . I'm sorry it came across as a dig or judgement. That wasn't how I intended it. People assume wrongly that fat people are gluttons . They make rude comments and tell them to "just eat less! !" As if it is that simple . People assume that bulimics and over-eaters "just need some self-control". It's not true. People look at men with disgusting perversions and fetishes for violence and degradation and say "sure, dude - go nu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:02 AM
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Why does everyone think I'm shaming fat people ???? I really am not. I don't give a fuck what someone looks like. I have been in inpatient FFS. What is causing people to misunderstand me ? I'm sorry that I can't put my point across as eloquently as I like. I tried to say that SOCIETY , not me, automatically judges fat people unfairly. Especially fat women without even knowing their story.... But the same society tells men that all their gluttonous sexual desires are legitimate and don't need to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:34 PM
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Oh, I didn't mean to imply that! What I said was that a fat person is automatically judged as being a glutton and often rudely told in various ways to "control themselves ". I've heard fat people described as "disgusting " etc. But the same language and advice is not given to men when it comes to "consuming " women by means of sex - Men are not told to control their urges. in fact, they are encouraged to consume more and more pornography depicting whatever they're into - even of it's blatant rap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 08:21 PM
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Most men were always into BDSM. It's just that back in the day, they didn't have to find a name for it and it was usually expressed by things such as getting drunk and screaming at, hurting, raping and bullying the wives. We had enough of this shit and these types of behaviour started to be called "domestic abuse." Men turned to prostitutes and porn to take out their impotent rage on women - because that is what they do. They feel down trodden by other men and the system so they take a huge stea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:32 AM
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Thank you! Luckily finding this community and starting to re-educate myself has really helped me to grow a backbone. I grew up with little to no female friends (moved around a lot ) and now I'm making an effort to befriend women; nurture the relationships and help them with confidence. I have a son with a LVM who I had to leave shortly after my baby was born ...he basically led me here by and sealed his own fate by his actions over the 5 years I was with him. I now only sympathise with men to a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:49 AM
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Adam Sandler. Man, I got forced to watch one of his movies even tho I hate seeing his highly punchable face. The man fast forwarded his life and basically wanted to bang his own daughter even though he had a beautiful wife. In a scene at the beginning of the movie , he also told his daughter that she would t be allowed to date for the next 20 years, but his son..nah. fuckin creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 11:00 AM
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Ugh men know that porn isn't empowering. It's a horrible lie that they repeat over and over so that young girls will have it burned into their minds without realising it. When they become desperate for money/or are even just seeking validation from a world which looks at them constantly , they'll probably think of OF or even porn. That's the idea, sadly. We need to keep spreading the message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:03 AM
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A lot of women in my family seem to be in some kind of masochism contest whereby they use their suffering as a badge of honour. I can't really explain it, but it bothers me. They try to 1 up other women by telling them how easy she's had it , compared to them. They're all really strong women who genuinely have had hard lives , but they not only normalise it, but seem to think that a woman who hasn't suffered great hardship is just a "silly little girl" or "doesn't know she's born".. or worse "sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 02:22 PM
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Tough but fair. So do any of the women who say these things even read back what they just said and realised that they ve basically just admitted to being brainwashed to be a man's unpaid servant. Like what is right with this situation ??? He is not a baby. There's caring and then there's mothering a newborn. I think I said in another post some where that if men want to be treated like infants then us women shall make the grown up decisions in the world as in the relationships. And it shall be ag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 06:50 PM
13

Ugh " You don't listen to me when I try to discuss things and always misinterprets what I'm saying. It causes arguments which are unproductive. I'm going to try to text you so that I can convey my point in a concise and coherent manner in the hopes that you'll understand..." "I dont get wat u mean? Whats the matter sweaty ? U seem pissed off. " "Ok, I'll use simple vocabulary and explain myself further." "Wtf u expect me to read all that. Get to the point." ... "You're a dick." There's no poing …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 05:13 PM
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Men are good at manipulation and avoiding accountability at all costs ...but so are very little kids so. They ought to be treated like toddlers if they're going to act like them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:32 PM
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I could never mention anything my ex did to me because "it was in the past" and "the past is the past. Let it go". If I persisted to try to speak calmly yet assertively, he'd accuse me of being "emotional". When I'd tell him that I wasn't emotional then he'd accuse me of being "hysterical" and "crazy" and "looking for a fight". He told his friends and family that I was abusive. Like Uhm. You can literally hit me and do all sorts of unkind and cruel things to me , not apologize other than "I'm so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 03:28 PM
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Agreed. We just need to keep spreading our message. Men want us divided. They want us ignorant. They want us to believe that our views are our own and not shared by billions of other women. We need to keep speaking out and let our sisters know that we got their backs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:38 PM
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I think most women are sadly ignorant/not in a position to have access to information or means of speaking out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:02 PM
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I'm going to use this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:53 AM
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I've met so many women who have been through harsh lives and still keep going on. A man simply crumbles and spends the rest of his life moaning to women about how he had it so hard ... I did actually notice this before I even found feminism. Women pick themselves up and actively seek ways to improve themselves - usually women have kids and families for whom they must stay strong - sometimes they put up with abuse and disrespect for years for the sake of children (especially in the past). Men hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:16 AM
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Because movies. There are so many movies where a dorky but "nice" boy gets the hottest girl in school and she leaves her Chad boyfriend for him. Young nerdy and even not-so-nerdy boys automatically identify with the protagonist and think they're entitled to hot girls because chads= no personality whereas nerds= great personality, fun and interesting and hot girls should just see that or else they're shallow and ugly on the inside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:16 PM
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Ikr ???? How in the hell do men continue to have sex with someone who clearly doesn't want to. I could never ... I don't think any sane woman could ... But most men think it's normal to pressure a woman to have sex and then complain about it - so , dudes, you're initiating sex with a non-consenting partner and then finishing - therefore using her limp body to pleasure yourself - and then admitting that you basically just raped someone and it was "shit". Uhm... Try having sex with someone who wan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:03 PM
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Yes, I found this out shortly after gender Critical disappeared. All our female-only spaces are going.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 10:18 AM
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I would love to see this . I wondered if it would be possible to build like a female only social network with an easy to use interface , but which would require some form of ID to sign up. I think it would be possible , but of it was promoted , scrotes would catch wind and try to get it taken down. Oh they have their precious 4chan where they literally preach hatred ...can we not just brigade them as gross-ass autistic women who rate men on a scale of 1 to 10 and tell stories of when we masturba…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:22 PM
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Thanks , I just downloaded to share with a few friends I have in case they never get the chance to make it here. I hope there isn't a cleansing going on , but it could be our night of the long knives. Dissenters and potential threats to the patriarchy are being terminated with extreme prejudice. What Orwellian nightmare is this ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:14 PM
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Yeh in the same way any addict "needs" a drug .. it wouldn't be a need if they didn't constantly get off to that stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:01 PM
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I have met a few older men like this. They age , but their personalities make up for it and they are all married with kids and lots of friends. They aren't bitter getting off to extreme porn; posting about how "shallow" we women are and defending pedophilia; not washing, showering or taking care of their teeth ...or their environment , eating crap etc.;. And then still hitting on younger women. Why is it always the most ugliest and creepiest of men who think they can just strut up to you when yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 09:00 AM
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Oh but here's the humour . I was in debate club in school , not because I wanted to because while I enjoyed debate , a lot of the boys who joined the club were real pretentious edgelords. Type of guys who would interrupt a female substitute teacher . They thought they were the shit. The type of guys who grow up to be libertarian d-bags who blah their way through life and enjoy "trolling" irl. So the teacher in charge or debate set up a women's rights debate and then switched the teams so that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:34 AM
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What is point bras ? Seriously what is point ? Chest support for women with bad backs , I can understand , but bras are not made like that . Bras have wires and things which force your breasts into uncomfortable positions. They provide no back support . Sports bras and full-comfort back support bras I can understand the need for - but lacy little things , padded bras , push up bras .. these are the majority of bras out there . They can actually damage your breast tissue. I had boobs since I was …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:06 PM
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Hussain , my boy . Future HVM king in the making . Good job to his mother and sister for raising him well. His father needs to grow the fuck up because his little boy has far surpassed him intellectually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:52 PM
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Love the username btw. Thank you for your support. Places like this have been a big help to me in dealing with the men in my life . Now they are unable to affect me in the same way they used to. Unfortunately as was the case with my ex the other night, sometimes I do slip up and sympathise . I suppose I can only add this to the list of the many ways he's proved to me that there is no hope for him and no point in trying to help . This threatening of suicide was a regular occurrence when I was wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:07 PM
5

So weird . Literally the other day my ex was up at my house threatening suicide. I ignored him , ignored him screaming that I don't care . Ignored him telling me that it's what I want anyway . I refused to give him money to leave with and told him he'd have to rob me if he wanted and that I'd call the police. He's not only still alive today , but also gave me a huge piece of my mind, threatened to call the police on me for assault when I tried to kick him out manually . It was hours of hell and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:44 AM
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Ikr when I was a teenager , I was paranoid that I'd stink and not even know because I couldn't smell myself , but because boys and TV always had nasty jokes and "common knowledge" that women's vaginas stink . And then I found that men's dicks not only stink, but they taste absolutely horrible and guarantee that any guy you hook up with or are in a relationship with doesn't wash his hands or dick for days on end ...and still expects blowjobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 09:09 AM
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I think most of them play dumb . They secretly either don't give a fuck or they love getting feedback on how they're crushing you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:51 PM
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Yep . Iwoulda saved so much wasted time with a good for nothing porn addict. . When I confronted him , he belittled me and laughed. I tried getting help by asking people who basically just told me that "it's natural " "all men do this ", "it's [MY] insecurities which are causing a problem ".. ugh . I felt like I was the only person to see porn as it is . These pickmeishas talking about how they enjoy porn / watch it with their lovely bf together don't serve any purpose other than to pressure wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:49 PM
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Mine too . Total handmaiden the one and the other was the poor , stereotype of a housewife at the mercy of an emotionally stunted and angry husband who spends most of her time taking prescription drugs for anxiety, bless her .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:07 AM
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Damn. I think I'm in love . I spend a lot of time tryna figure people out . I was raised by a total handmaiden female apologetic grandmother who brainwashed me into taking care of these poor fellas ..they've hurt me; forced me to do things; destroyed my life and trapped me . It was like I had to override all my instincts in order to (literally) bend over backwards and cater to their fragile little egos . All LVM see themselves as Dom and any time any woman doesn't lick their boots , she's a horr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 06:05 PM
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I let it happen , then I let it happen again. Our low self-esteem is catnip to over-confident lvm scrotebags .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:54 AM
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