| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection". | Fundamentals | Fair_Entrepreneur686 | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Another App Rejection | Field Report | Fair_Entrepreneur686 | /r/seduction | 20/10/25 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest? | Field Report | Fair_Entrepreneur686 | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:30 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationYou're literally telling her that she is above you and putting her on a pedestal. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:29 PM |
| -7 | I Think Cold Approaching is A Win-Win SituationAll you're doing is boosting her ego. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesJust don't do dinner dates, simple. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesSo why don't you just invite her to yours? Why not just do a cheap date? Why wouldn't I reject a woman who has no attraction to me? If she were attracted she wouldn't be asking me to dinner. She would come right over. Sorry, bro. You're clearly an unattractive guy. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesSo why are you simping? Why are you taking them out to dinner? You must be very unattractive if you need to buy their affection. At MOST it should be a quick drink or coffee, something cheap. Or she could come straight to yours. You're just unattractive, bro. That's why you need to simp and do dinner. No man should do dinner unless you've already fucked her. If she were sexually attracted to you then a silly dinner date wouldn't be a prerequisite. A woman once suggested dinner as a first date so… | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesSo why take her out to dinner? Why simp? Simping is never good. Never do dinner before sex. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesMy message exchange after a Hinge date from Friday: Me: "Hey also on Friday I got the impression that you found me physically repulsive off the bat so take care. Nice to meet you anyway" She then replied with: "Hey. I think you definitely got the wrong impression if that’s the case. From my side you seemed very disconnected straight away and didn’t really look at me when we first met and seemed in a rush or unimpressed" | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Lukewarm responses after datesWhy are you being a clown and taking women out to dinner? | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 11:41 AM |
| – | Some men never have a sexual primeHello. Me again. I spoke to the girl from Friday (another rejection). This was the exchange: Me: "Hey also on Friday I got the impression that you found me physically repulsive off the bat so take care. Nice to meet you anyway and no hard feelings." Her response: "Hey. I think you definitely got the wrong impression if that’s the case. From my side you seemed very disconnected straight away and didn’t really look at me when we first met and seemed in a rush or unimpressed" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 11:07 PM |
| 2 | Women like being approached a lot more than you thinkThey just want the ego boost. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 10:56 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?You're very emotional because someone questions your scammer friends. What exactly is your question, then? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 10:34 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?Low IQ response as you don't have an argument. Where is your evidence that PUA works? Why should we pay a scammer? Explain. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 10:21 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?Do you think investing in a scammer PUA/dating roach course is worth it? Why? It's funny how you can only insult rather than actually explain why it works. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 09:32 PM |
| 1 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?Work on themselves how exactly? | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Is it a shit test?Bullshit. Why would you even want to deal with a woman who treats you like that? | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 05:17 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?So what are they mostly attracted to then? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 07:00 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?So what is the secret? Enlighten us. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?"Just be good looking, bro." | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionI have no interest in having long conversations with girls on an app. I suggested a meet and she wasn't giving a straightforward answer. That's called a time waster. "is she going to be treated nicely - no, you don't even text first and insult her when she unmatched you" At no point did I insult her. Why would I message her first? "What exactly is there for her if she goes out with you? Are you going to make her life better in any way?" She was the one who wanted to have some pointless conversat… | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionYet I was the one who suggested meeting up and she just wanted to talk? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:44 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?Lmao the "natural" guy is just an attractive, good looking guy. PUAs are scammers. There is no "game." They're either attracted to you or they're not. It's simple. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionThe only "messed up chance" was the fact that she wasn't physically attracted to me. She was a time wasting c*nt. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:33 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionWhy would I want to talk for ages on an app? That's called being a time waster and I dodged a bullet. If she were attracted she would want to meet rather than wasting time "talking." | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionI said to meet up some time soon for a quick drink after work and she said maybe next week some time and so I concluded she wasn't interested (anything other than a yes is a no). ""I asked what her perception of what the average male experience is like on apps" asking this to a girl you're actively trying to rizz is the wrong time and it's coming from a place of butthurt." Rizz doesn't exist. Neither does "game." ""Time to give up the apps as they're not working and I'm not attractive enough?" t… | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:30 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionNo, she wasn't. If she was she wouldn't have made it difficult meeting up and want to instead continue talking for the time being. This is called a time waster. Why on earth would I want to talk to someone for ages on an app? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionYeah, so she's not attracted and was merely wasting my time. The messages prove that. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionIf she were attracted to you, why would you need to be a dance monkey/circus performer (going on dates)? | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | Is it a shit test?Only for men they're not attracted to. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 05:24 PM |
| 0 | PUA vs Chad. who wins?PUA never wins lmao | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:16 AM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionIf you need to show effort, then she's not attracted. That's why I laughed at her when she said she rarely gets approached in person. Women only want to be approached for the ego boost, which sums it all up. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:12 AM |
| -4 | Another App RejectionMeets early and messages first. She doesn't send endless messages like this c*nt. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 06:11 AM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionWhat exactly was her advice and why was she right? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:50 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionWait, so you do take women out on dates and simp? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:10 PM |
| -1 | Another App RejectionShe wasn't. If she were, she wouldn't have given a wishy washy answer about meeting. She was just a time waster and wasn't attracted. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionI'm not being a dance monkey/clown by going on dates/approaching. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionIt's standard logic. You're already pedestalising her. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionYep, onto the next rejection. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:17 PM |
| -1 | Another App RejectionAfter I said that I never approach as I'm not a dance monkey she said that "She would rather a dance monkey than a man who feels he's too good to approach" and said that she hardly ever gets approached lmao. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:10 PM |
| -1 | Another App RejectionI bet you take women out on dates like a simp | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionShe unmatched so I don't even have it. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:44 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionIt wasn't low effort, but if she's not making it easy to meet up and giving vague responses like "Should we now? What should we do?" then they likely have no interest. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:35 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionYou also can't "self-sabotage" when she wasn't even interested. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:20 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionYet I was the one who said that we should meet up... | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionYeah, maybe. I keep getting rejected on them. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionI told her what we should do and she went off on a rant about how I didn't message first and some nonsense about how men should approach. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionI was the one who suggested meeting... | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionShe had no interest and was intent on wasting my time. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:10 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionShe made it difficult to meet (low interest). I didn't reject her. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionBecause she was giving wishy washy answers about meeting. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Another App RejectionBecause a woman wasn't attracted to me? | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Another App RejectionYes, bullet dodged. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:07 PM |
| 0 | Another App RejectionShe wasn't attracted. That was the simple answer. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Another App RejectionHer advice was abysmal. If you approach you're already telling the woman she is above you. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:07 PM |
| -5 | Another App RejectionIf she were attracted she wouldn't be giving wishy washy answers. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:06 PM |
| -1 | Another App RejectionShe wasn't interested, she just wanted the ego boost. If she were she wouldn't be making it difficult to meet by not giving straight forward answers. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She did have low interest. A woman who mentions potential dinner has low interest. Never do food until you have smashed. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Acknowledging reality isn't wrong. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She clearly had low interest. I did the right thing in getting rid on reflection. If she had interest she wouldn't say nonsense like "For steak?" and dismiss my suggestion of a coffee and walk. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 11:40 AM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?ALL women want to be approached for the ego boost and validation. That's why men shouldn't do it. You're already lowering yourself into a dance monkey position. "And no, boosting her ego and validating her a little won’t make her think she’s above you and wish you were dead. That is a very specific, very toxic kind of woman. For most women, a little effort, comfort and validation from a man they really like just makes them appreciate him more - as long as it feels genuine." That's exactly why me… | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 07:49 AM |
| 2 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She had zero attraction anyway so she was a time waster. The fact that she wasn't happy to meet for a walk and coffee showed that she was a time wasting cunt. "Coffee and a walk is actually a great first date. Low investment, easy exit, but still leaves space for chemistry. The problem wasn’t the idea, it was the delivery. When she teased you about steak, that was her playful opening for you to flirt, not get defensive. A more charismatic response would’ve been, “Steak’s for the second date. Fir… | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 07:46 AM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She had zero interest and was a time waster. Good riddance. | /r/seduction | 04/10/25 07:40 AM |
| 2 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenSounds like my good friend. He wears a bra. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 06:46 AM |
| 3 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenIt's best to ignore women completely and not talk to them when you go do activities as it's creepy and you could be arrested. If you need to approach them then they are not attracted. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenI go to classes but tend to ignore the women and just speak to the men. It is creepy to talk to women in person under any circumstance. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Where am I wrong? Tell me. | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 06:35 AM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?How you carry yourself doesn't matter. Why aren't looks the most important thing? How on earth can you say they're not? "Women back in the day were most attracted to the pack leader, the strongest male leader that in turn gave her and her children the highest chance for survival." They're attracted to good genes (looks) as they know that if they have an attractive son he is more likely to pass on his genes. "That doesn’t mean he acts all retarded and stubborn like you do though. He simply meets … | /r/seduction | 03/10/25 06:11 AM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Ugly guys do not pull unless they go to a brothel. Who is more picky with looks out of men and women? | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:12 PM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?This woman on Hinge wasn't attracted to me at all so I wanted to troll her too. She was the one who said "For steak?" and said I should put in some effort, so I had to get her out. If you need to chase, then they're not attracted. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Look up the Halo effect and Chadfish experiments. Women don't care. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 11:04 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She wasn't interested, hence why she said I should put in effort and brought up meeting for steaks. "Women don’t evaluate attraction based on looks alone." Yes, they do. They either find you hot or revolting. "There’s a saying women love with their “ears”, if you come off as an insensitive dumb moron then whatever attraction or interest she had is probably gonna be gone unless that’s what she’s into." That's a bullshit saying. This woman just had zero attraction to me. Just like when I messaged … | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?I bet you take women out on dates and approach them. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 10:42 PM |
| -1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Women solely want to be approached for the ego boost and validation. They already get enough simps in their DMs or approaching them on the street or at bars. "Boosting her ego a little isn’t going to hurt you, giving her validation doesn’t automatically invalidate you." It makes her think she's above you and makes her want you dead. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?These women told me that I was worthless and should die by telling me that I didn't possess a spark/connection. "So my question is, why do you still date? You've already made these women the ultimate judges of your self-worth. You're giving people you’ve only met once or twice the power to define who you are. Think about that, does that sound rational or delusional to you?" I'm just reiterating what they meant. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Dates should be low effort. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?If you need to approach then she isn't attracted to you. Imagine being a dance monkey/clown. It's pathetic. Confidence doesn't mean shit. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Those women aren't attracted to you, then. It's simple. If a woman expects you to take her to dinner before sex then there's no sexual attraction. They just see you as a simp. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Fair enough. Dinner at mine I guess can be good. What I mean is dinner or food at a restaurant or equivalent. If she were sexually attracted it wouldn't be a prerequisite. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?She never was interested in the first place. The interaction showed it. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?So what makes a woman attracted to you other than looks? What makes you an expert? If you need to initiate, then you're a loser in her eyes. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Approaching women and "running game" is being a clown/dance monkey. If you need to approach or make the first move, she isn't attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?If I need to message first then they aren't attracted. I don't want to give them the ego boost or validation. If I ever message first I tell them to be grateful that I messaged them first. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Is it a shit test?There is no such thing as a shit test. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?A few days ago lmao. You seem really mad that I don't approach. You don't know anything about dating/sexual dynamics, hence why you admit to simping. Why do you think I should approach? What should I do on dates? | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 06:00 PM |
| 2 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?You seem really triggered by someone not wanting to approach lmao. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?"How come women don’t feel spark with you on dates then?" Because they didn't find me attractive and found me ugly. Simple. "How come your dating life sucks?" It doesn't. I get thousands of matches. "How come girls don’t want to have sex with you?" They do. Probably more than you do. "Because they know you are a loser and not a man" I think you need advice, bro. I can help you if you want. You approaching women just makes them perceive you as a loser. Just because you don't have a clue doesn't m… | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Why would I approach them? All that will do is make you look like a desperate loser and boost her ego. Women approach the men they are attracted to. If she isn't making it easy then she isn't attracted. You're just unattractive, bro. Sorry. "You are soft, weak loser." And you are a simp. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?All approaching women does is boost their ego and give them validation. They don't approach you because you are unattractive. I'm not going to give her the validation. Women very rarely, if ever, get rejected. If she's not approaching you then she's not attracted to you. They go after the men they want. You can't give any reason for me to approach. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?I bet you approach women. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:37 PM |
| 2 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?If a woman is attracted to you, why is she expecting dinner/food before sex? I want a woman who is actually attracted to me. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Yes and I am responding. She probably thought I would simp (go on a date) so it was a bullet dodged. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:07 PM |
| -5 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?They want to be messaged first for the ego boost and validation. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:06 PM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?I'm not sure why she would think I would want to meet for steak just because I mentioned it on my profile. If we met up, SHE cant eat by herself but I wouldn't be eating. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:01 PM |
| 1 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Nah, no food until you have slept together as you need to make sure she is attracted to you. I don't put in much effort as I have seen and experienced how women are with the men they want. Putting in effort just seems like being a dance monkey to win her approval. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?It's a red flag that she mentioned steak (potential dinner). | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:52 PM |
| -8 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?Date women who are attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:47 PM |
| -5 | Weird Hinge Interaction - Was I In The Wrong Or Was it Just Low Interest?I have nearly 1.5k matches on Hinge atm and a lot of them are empty. I guess the woman isn't attracted to me as she hasn't messaged yet so I might just unmatch. | /r/seduction | 02/10/25 04:47 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".She just found me very unattractive. | /r/seduction | 17/09/25 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?It doesn't make any difference at all, but you sound inexperienced. Maybe you will learn. Do you do simp shit like dinner dates? Why even go on dates? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 04:47 PM |
| 3 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?LOL wtf? Why? It makes no difference. Do you simp and do dinner dates? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 04:44 PM |
| 5 | Why do so many men fail at first-date sex if a lot of women are open to it?First date sex means she's sexually attracted to you | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Lost All Confidence After a Date. All Hope is GoneWhat on earth could "not feeling a connection/chemistry" mean? | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Lost All Confidence After a Date. All Hope is GoneThen she's a time-wasting bitch. | /r/seduction | 16/09/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Why are you believing self-reports? They are meaningless. Actions are what matter. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:50 AM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8133465/#:~:text=Not%20only%20are%20males%20more%20likely%20than,dependent%20on%20the%20planned%20mating%20duration%20%5B16%5D. Wtf kind of study is this? This is stated preferences, which mean absolutely NOTHING. The only thing you can gather is from people's ACTIONS. Women swipe left on 96% of men on dating apps. That's far more telling. Women claim that a sense of humour and kindness are more important than looks which we know is complete bullshit. "Yo… | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:27 AM |
| 2 | Lack of belief in cold approachSounds like a Hell of a lot of effort. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman?Okay. I'm just confused why a woman would be asking for "seduction" advice. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".No they're not. Women are extremely selective with looks, far more than men are (men have to take what they can get in most cases). What "non-physical characteristics" are they attracted to? Your attitude and mindset on a date don't matter. What matters is whether she is attracted to you or not. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkWhy should I approach? Give me one good reason. When you approach women, she just sees you as a desperate loser. If I approach them I know it's a guaranteed rejection. Women go after the men they like. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 09:06 AM |
| 3 | Men, how do you want to get seduced by a woman?Why would a woman need tips and tricks? It's extremely easy for women lmao. | /r/seduction | 14/09/25 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkWomen approach the men that they like. That's the raw reality. I don't even approach them at bars as I know they make it easy for attractive men. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:41 PM |
| 0 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkAttractive men don't have to approach. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection"."That's why you are sticking with the "I'm just ugly" narrative. However it's easy to debunk your second paragraph. There are couples out there who were in each others life without attraction. Think about coworkers. They literally were in a professional relation to each other: small talks in the elevator, work related convos etc. And suddenly you see them leaving hand in hand. Or even a better example: when couples started as friends. They went on for months or years without attraction and sudde… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 08:16 PM |
| 2 | The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help)So then why dinner? If a woman suggested dinner to me then I'd know she's looking for a simp. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 05:35 PM |
| 14 | When do you usually initiate physical touch on a first date?If they have tattoos or jewellery I will often ask to see it and then do that (if they're comfortable ofc). | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 04:01 PM |
| 0 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkIf you need to approach, you have lost. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:37 PM |
| -1 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkI mean, it is an accurate one. If you are anything less than 8+, you could be thrown into prison for a very, very long time for looking at a woman or talking to one. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkThey only want to be approached for the ego boost. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:35 PM |
| 4 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkWomen largely don't want to be approached other than the ego boost. No woman lacks male suitors anyway. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Girls are being approached less than you might thinkGood, this is what they asked for. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:33 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Behaviour and attitude don't really matter. They just found me ugly. You don't "create emotion or attraction." She's either attracted to you or she isn't. Saying "I didn't feel a romantic connection" basically just means she wants your genetics to die out. | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection"."Here's what I think is going on. You said you're not a very expressive person. If you're not expressive, that means you're likely suppressing your emotions. If you're suppressing your emotions, that means you're going to have a lot of buried emotions inside that bubble to the surface in the form of negative thoughts. That's where your thoughts about being unattractive and repulsive come from. When the date doesn't go well, it triggers some buried emotion inside of you, and the emotion leaks out… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection"."She didn't call you ugly. Instead, she said she didn't feel a connection with you, likely because she didn't think you flirted enough or was being romantic or playful enough and you interpreted that as you being ugly." Yeah, the accusation that you do not possess a connection is calling you ugly. You do not need to "flirt" if she is attracted to you. Just don't be weird. "Sounds like you just called yourself a loser and defended that position." Why would you approach a woman? Sounds like you ne… | /r/seduction | 11/09/25 12:28 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".But women are only attracted to a small number of men. This woman just found me ugly, hence why she told me that I did not possess a connection/spark. If you need to approach, then you have lost. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 11:10 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Obviously. It makes them think they're above you and hot. Women approach men they want. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:58 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Not sure, I don't like boosting their egos. Hence why I never approach. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Very few men. Most men will never have a woman genuinely attracted to them. They also only want to be approached for the ego boost. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".I'm not trying to act tough or nonchalant. I'm just not an expressive person. It doesn't bother me if they think I'm disinterested (they often do). "Be more vulnerable and up front with how you feel about her (just as long as you put her comfort first before yours)." What? How? "If you like her, tell her you like her. Don't try to pretend like you don't." Why would I do that? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Such as? If they didn't find me ugly/repulsive, they would at least give it another date. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 07:08 PM |
| -2 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Attitude doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Yeah, she just means you're ugly/sexually unattractive. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:55 PM |
| -1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Why else would they say it? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:55 PM |
| -4 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Because confidence/self-esteem doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:52 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".So when on a date, what to do? They likely just found me ugly. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".How? Why would they want men to approach? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".It's amazing that you have to be some dance monkey to win over her approval. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Women don't want men approaching them irl. If it weren't for apps, where else could you meet them? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".They tend to be at a bar/pub or cafe and just normal discussions. I don't smile at them very much. This last one hurt particularly because she seemed keen and then sent me a nasty message about how she felt more of a friend vibe but how I supposedly was "great" and "enjoyed the date." | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 06:39 PM |
| -1 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection"."Did she literally say the words "Hey mister, i wanna tell you that i think you are wrotheless and unlovable"? Or is that what you are choosing to interpret? I have a hard time believing that the words "worthless and unlovable" came out of their mouth. Stop making your interpreatations of women's behaviours something that happened when it didn't happen dude. It's so disrespectful because when you do that you are making them sound evil and they never actually said that." What else could they poss… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:51 PM |
| -2 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".Well when enough women tell you that you are unlovable/worthless (saying they didn't feel a spark/connection) then you are going to start believing it... I already do those things and I don't even smile at them and yet they still send me that crap. | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:44 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".If she tells me I'm worthless/unlovable (no connection/spark) for no reason, then yeah it will hurt. "The spark is not a reflection of who you are, but on how she feels aroound you. She feels nothing because you showed nothing and you showed nothing because you deliberately chose to prioritize being safe, neutral over being auhtentic without filters and risk upsetting her or annoying her." So be a dance monkey for her entertainment? "So this is not about giving up, it's about learnign what she m… | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:29 PM |
| 0 | Being Told That you Lack a "Romantic Connection".I mean, the woman who told me I didn't possess a spark yesterday just obliterated my confidence. No matter how much she tried to send a bullshit message about how supposedly great and attractive I am, yet somehow accused me of having no spark. Just makes you want to give up entirely when they tell you they felt more of a friend vibe (AKA you're a loser). | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 05:14 PM |
| 2 | The seeming controversy over first dates being dinner. (Help)Dinner dates are stupid. If she were attracted to you, why would you need to do it? | /r/seduction | 10/09/25 04:44 PM |
| 10 | How often should you reach out to a FWB?I usually wait for them. They just message out of the blue and come over usually. | /r/seduction | 04/07/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Advice on seducing a manA woman asking for seduction advice? What? | /r/seduction | 09/12/24 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I'm a 5 ft 5 obese janitor with moderate autism. What's the best way for me to find a girlfriend and get laid?Is this a troll? | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 05:38 PM |
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