| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Reading too much about seduction disconnected me from reality I think | FallUpJV | /r/seduction | 09/10/19 09:38 PM | |
| 3 | Should we wait for "the right girl" or should we keep trying with a lot of them to be sure not to miss the good one ? | FallUpJV | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:20 PM | |
| 1 | When I make girls not my priority, it fails because I'm not involved enough. When I prioritize them more, it fails again and it makes me even more unhappy, what do I do ? | FallUpJV | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 10:57 PM | |
| 1 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problem | FallUpJV | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 03:12 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 9 | Things I learned that could help you guys from EuropeIs France so hard compared to other countries ? I mean I live there so it is difficult for me to draw a comparison | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 1 | When I make girls not my priority, it fails because I'm not involved enough. When I prioritize them more, it fails again and it makes me even more unhappy, what do I do ?Looks like we're on the same boat bro, it's exhausting really, no matter how much knowledge you seem to have acquired. | /r/seduction | 15/08/20 11:25 PM |
| – | If we all realize that...If you constantly try to get laid like a robot with faking every feeling you have girls feel it you know, actually I'm pretty sure that Ted has a better "getting laid" rate than Barney on this show By the way if your main goal in life is to get laid there's a problem somewhere mate, no wonder why women think we're creeps here I don't mean every advice you find here is shit and this is the only truth, but if you ignore that you're just forgetting half of the whole thing | /r/seduction | 19/04/20 10:48 AM |
| 2 | Reddit's system might be one of the reasons you still struggle with seduction."Motivational nonsense" thank God I'm not the only one who thinks that's sums up most of the stuff that gets upvoted here | /r/seduction | 14/04/20 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Leave your excuses at the doorThat's a big problem with this sub Of course you won't get anywhere without trying, but in the end the most upvoted posts tend to be the same cliché "self-help" sentences all over again You either agree with that or you're treated as a f***** moaner, at least some people try to be more creative than that here | /r/seduction | 03/02/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Girls playing hard to get really piss me offI can be judgmental in my bad moments, I'll give you that, but it wasn't one of those, I mean, just having a good time at a party you know. But I can't really stand people who make me feel like I lose my time. For the first one, well yeah I told her, didn't change things a lot, she just kept behaving the same way. And for the second one, well she was clearly saying it as a consequence of me talking to her, not just as a simple assertion. Like, I try to tell her something, she just turns her head… | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Girls playing hard to get really piss me offWell, two examples from last night : • I was talking to that girl, very cool, interesting and all. But she just kept pretending that she was leaving all the time and coming back after 5 seconds, telling me all kinds of crap about how she didn't agree with guys drinking and hitting on girls (while she VERY OBVIOUSLY didn't actually mean it, as I my intentions were very clear since the beginning believe me). I left eventually. • Also that girl I'd been trying to talk to for like 5 minutes, who kep… | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Girls playing hard to get really piss me offThe problem with that strategy is that, on the long term, it kills the whole interest of the conversation, I mean, besides the 'I wanna have sex with you so hard' vibe (talking to girls isn't only to use my dick thank God). I might as well talk with some other girl (which I do when it happens). All I'm saying is that it is difficult to care about someone continually showing that they don't care about you, even though it's not entirely true in the end. Actually I think I just found the answer in … | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 01:02 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problemI'm going to try that out, thanks a lot for helping me ! | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problemWell that's the problem. I can read the signs, but usually in my head it takes a lot more than a few of them (you know, when the interaction starts and they're not really obvious) to break the ice. Because I can never feel 100% sure it's actually working (which is why I was talking about paranoia before), I can never feel 100% comfortable. Maybe trying to behave like if I already know the other person can help (though it could cause the same problems I explained before). Or simply trying to cool… | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problemThat type of thing yeah, I simply can't avoid it when I talk to someone whose intentions towards me aren't clear. And of course it works a LOT BETTER if everyone, including me, is drunk. | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problemI guess we're all here because we've got something to learn from that sub, whatever our age is or what experiences we've had. Just wish you good luck, I'm sure it's all gonna be fine in the end ! | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | I wonder if never really being myself is my big problemThe cool, extroverted, "always smiling" guy, who people like to be around, who is always interested in what the girl says whatever happens. Not that I can't be like that in real life, of course when I'm having a nice moment with my friends (people I already know well and whose relation with me is already defined), but with people I don't really know yet it's always difficult. And it ends up not really being what I expected, so I try to be more extroverted even if it looks fake. Maybe I should in… | /r/seduction | 20/10/19 04:10 PM |
| 1 | “It is possible to commit no mistakes and still lose. That is not a weakness - that is life” - Jean Luc PicardDid everything right but got "cock blocked" by her friend at the last minute as I was about to kiss her, and I couldn't try anything without that friend looking at us so I basically froze. And after that it just went downhill, me and that girl had a real connection but she went on holidays the day after for 2 weeks so I just started idealizing her, and then it failed again (my fault this time) | /r/seduction | 19/10/19 03:48 PM |
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