Let me explain ; I'm quite good-looking, I always go out with a lot of people, I used to have problems to make friends but that's been a solved problem for a while now.

But despite the fact that I've read everything it's possible to read about seduction (I mean, not everything but a lot) I'm still unsuccessful in that domain. Even if I have several good occasions on the same day. And last week something happened that really shocked me.

There was that pretty girl that I had not seen in ages, who seemed very open, we were at a bar, it would have been so easy. But as I was listening to her, I simply realized that I didn't care at all about was she was saying. And it just became obvious in my head that, every time I was trying to seduce a girl, I was always more interested by whether my plan was gonna work or not than by the girl (and it failed once again of course).

And in the end it completely drained my motivation, in spite of all I had learned on seduction after days of reading about it. From today, I'm gonna try to really take a true interest in the girl, and not just try to apply what I've read online for a start.