Fancy_Break_6130 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	Anyone else?	Fancy_Break_6130	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 08:17 PM
10	Vent	Fancy_Break_6130	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 08:09 AM
2	How to move on	Fancy_Break_6130	/r/Divorce_Men	23/09/23 01:45 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Wife having an affair Yeah.. I was my worst when I lashed out, too. Start that healing journey man. I was told it takes 5 years to fully heal, im on year 3… getting there	/r/Divorce_Men	12/02/24 08:01 PM
2	My daughter (16) won't talk to me. Her mother says give her time. This hits home so hard, and I’m a bit overtired. As a now father Ive cut ties with my parents over an abusive childhood. They didn’t seem to mind me cutting them off, they don’t call or ask about their grandkids. I haven’t spoken to them in years. If they’d just send a xmas card, or a gesture that they were thinking about me it would make such a word of difference.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 09:31 AM
0	My daughter (16) won't talk to me. Her mother says give her time. You’ve miss read: His daughter won’t talk to him. That is her choice and we honour choice. What the father can do is be there for the moments that matter- holidays, important events. By doing this the father shows that he is honouring her space but also turning up when it matters. Right now will suck, but I believe this will build to a more secure relationship, in time.	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 09:25 AM
0	My daughter (16) won't talk to me. Her mother says give her time. Do the bare minimum would be my advice. Birthday card and gift, xmas gift. Send a message on holidays and important events (be there for the important events).	/r/Divorce_Men	16/01/24 04:58 AM
1	Don't fear asking your wife/girlfriend to do what she is supposed to do in the marriage I actually really agree with the way you’ve worded this, and I think your point on ownership and boundaries is really good. I relate a lot to OP’s post - my ex had an affair, house was a mess and I felt I had to “man up” and take on the extra cleaning, cooking, taking care of the kids role. going through divorce from this is traumatic, and in my personal life I have to make the mental note of not letting my past experiences negatively effect future relationships. OP’s closing statement “demand r…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 05:33 AM
10	Don't fear asking your wife/girlfriend to do what she is supposed to do in the marriage I dunno bro. This has the trappings that wives are supposed to be servant. I searched ur profile and I think a bigger example of her not showing you the respect you deserve is that she cheated on you. Don’t let one woman’s toxicity taint your view on all women.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/01/24 04:06 AM
8	I don’t know how to be alone after 10 years Yeah, took me over 2 years to be ok being alone with myself. This is normal.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/12/23 06:29 PM
1	Vent I really like that mindset. I feel like I’m often judgmental or critical of some of the things I think or obsess over. I think a healthier mindset would be to accept these things as thoughts - like today I’m no where near as pessimistic as I was when I wrote this. Today I feel pretty decent. I’m glad I’m at least comfortable enough now to share some of my less flattering thoughts	/r/Divorce_Men	26/11/23 10:13 PM
4	Fellas please send me your thoughts\prayers\good vibes.....I'm struggling after divorce I needed this so badly this morning ❤️	/r/Divorce_Men	20/09/23 02:09 PM