| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 148 | Tell it to me straight Queens | RANT | Fantastic_Ad680 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:52 AM |
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| 1 | The Red flag of Parasocial RelationshipsAhh, timely. I typically enjoy living on my own, but the pandemic just created a feeling of isolation. A once quite casual interest in kpop music became a bit of a hobby. I lost my sobriety in pandemic time, and I felt, exclusively through being a kpop stan, my sense of being a thoughtful, HVW. The two also make an interesting combo. It’s not really to do with artists (although the complicity does speak some volumes) and more to do with the increasing prevalence of parasocial relationships and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:20 PM |
| 3 | Skater boiThis is the best response to it https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=af_veBEHMi0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 11 | Hard truth: Long distance and/or online "relationships" are not real relationshipsYUP👍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 08:15 PM |
| 10 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseBabe cave lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:46 AM |
| 14 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!I live in a city that is built around the marinas, people here don’t really “dress up”. Standard attire for women is leggings or jeans and a T-shirt, and wearing dresses and simple minimalist jewelry with a bit of makeup is enough to make people gawk but also keeps them at bay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:41 PM |
| 25 | Nobody actually *needs* men 😎 🤷🏻♀️This is me. Though it brings me shame, I dated/slept around for several years until I reached...catharsis? Enlightenment? Those are the best words I have. Now I am fully decided I’ll spend my life single. I’m 30 and just coming into myself. Buddhism, weed, cooking good food, female friendships, my Mom, my pet cats, and crushing with good detachment on kpop idols is my fulfillment. I just like my own company. FDS changed my life. I seriously believe I found this site on divine intervention. I was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 4 | How to detach from men you have crushes onNo insightful comment. Just a thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:29 PM |
| 7 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡Somewhat off topic, but remember the guy who smashed his gfs mason jars cause he didn’t like her using them as cups? I sometimes still think about that and realize it was a weird little catalyst into me never wanting to date a man again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | I said what I said.I sleep even better than before ‘cause I’m comforted I’m not drinking the kool aid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 10 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:41 PM |
| 46 | If you want to be married, do NOT become a girlfriend. It's a scam! This woman will change your entire existence. Watch at your own risk.Summary? It’s a long video I don’t have the attention span | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Chronic illness, CPTSD“But everyone in your life denies it exists” Yes I feel this today especially. Even the people I think love me. We are warriors. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:12 PM |
| – | Chronic illness, CPTSDI know it’s a redundant statement but as someone with complex PTSD I had no idea just how complex it was. It seeps into every facet of my life...I battled a lot of self destructive behaviours and still do, albeit to a lesser extent. Dating can and is very difficult with it. But, a gift is that - buried under the CPTSD - for me, is a self with very good introspection and intuition. I am becoming better aware of my triggers and what is helpful for me. And I agree with what others are saying - comm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 05:11 PM |
| 15 | Let’s talk about “Trad” men. And why I used to be attracted to them.They cheat a lot too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:24 PM |
| 7 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactAt first it made me LOL then absolute horror crept up on me as I thought about it. Girl what. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 8 | If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupidIt’s a cesspool. Also, hack, if anyone uses it, only answer the questions that are REALLY important to you. It’s a stronger vetting process. If you get a 98% match on questions that matter to you that’s better vetted than 98% on questions like “is a hotdog a sandwich?” (Unless you feel real strongly about that). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:16 AM |
| 7 | “Your body is more than a vehicle for desire” YES QUEEN. Breasts👏🏻don’t👏🏻exist👏🏻for👏🏻grown👏🏻men👏🏻. End of.So amazing to see her speaking on this! I have large breasts too and I HATE bras. I hate how they feel and everything they represent. It’s more comfortable for me to be without them (big boobs are uncomfortable enough as it is). I haven’t worn a “real” bra in years, only wireless, pad less bralettes, and that was a huge adjustment because yes, men stare. I’ve considered reduction just to divert attention and the need to wear bras not to be gawked at. I truly think small breasted women are lucky.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 12 | "Vanity is only a sin because a woman who believes she deserves good things is harder to commodify". I think regardless of size, the principles she lives by emanate the FDS vibe.Hell. Yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Tell it to me straight QueensIt’s a beautiful thought and you have a beautiful mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Tell it to me straight QueensI didn’t expect to cry today but this is really moving. Thank you, thank you, thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 5 | Tell it to me straight QueensI’m so happy you’ve found your HVM girl. Thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:28 PM |
| 5 | Tell it to me straight QueensI could have articulated it better but I was having a moment, that is not how I meant to be interpreted. I am frustrated by seeing myself and all relationships around me play out as the woman being very open vulnerable, generous, and doting and men never matching that energy, and society telling us it’s OK cause that’s how it is and we should accept it / “men express / feel love differently”. That’s why I asked if men can love like women love - which is wholly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 17 | Marriage is overrated as a woman, but society desperately tries to convince us otherwiseIs this a for real view point? Lol good lord. I’m too scared to give ANY guy a chance and am considering never dating again because every relationship I’ve seen that’s played out over a long span of time ends with him being a LVM or a dud and the woman unhappy. Even if he appears HV at first even for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:35 AM |
| 5 | If he walks faster than you in public, DUMP HIMWow I’m triggered. My dad who I always thought was a HVM but is actually quite the LVM (still love him with lots of boundaries) does this hard core. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:34 PM |
| 5 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter).Lol. Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 10 | Beauty standards are a prison.I have very blue eyes and am always floored when someone with brown eyes says they wish they had blue eyes. Nothing makes me swoon quite like inky dark eyes. And framed by dark lashes - so beautiful! Edit: spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 9 | Dating in the 21st century. Funniest roast of men I've ever seen. Her twitter is yellowspoongirlThis is some high quality sardonic humour. I agree with an above comment - definitely took one for the team on this one 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 3 | I am done dressing for men, or anyone else. Is misogyny so internalized that people both men and women are now revolted by things (for example fashion styles) that remind them of femininity?Dress in what makes you confident and happy I think! It seems no matter what a woman wears it will be criticized. I have the same style as you, LOVE dainty floral prints, flowy linens. I don’t get jabs or bullying comments for this style, but I do get overly sexualized / men thinking I’m dressing like that to attract them and wanting them to leer at me. Like they think I’m trying to be some flirty tradwife to be, which couldn’t be further from the truth. Imagine their disappointment when I’m a r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 09:16 PM |
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