FappulousApple Archive

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1	Question For Women: Who do you find sexier, physically attractive men who suck at physical activities, or physically unattractive men who are amazing at physical activities? Been there, stuck with them. Get into enough fights, you’re gonna lose eventually. Could be they had a weapon, could be fighting styles, could be inebriation etc. Where I live, it’s normal to get your ass handed to you at least once. Back when I was dating, fights were generally avoided unless there was a serious problem. I didn’t stand around waiting for my guy to win or lose. I’d fight as well, cuz as a former street kid I learned that you protect your loved ones no matter what. Then you go ge…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 05:38 PM
1	Question For Women: Who do you find sexier, physically attractive men who suck at physical activities, or physically unattractive men who are amazing at physical activities? I don’t give a shit about athletic performance, so I’d prefer the attractive guy who sucks in athletics IF he’s a genuinely good guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 05:11 PM
1	Up to what extent should I try to be ‘alpha’? Ugh, please don’t try to be “alpha”. Every guy who’s tried that gets an instant no from me. And my friends. And pretty much everyone I know lol I had a guy apply quite a few “alpha” tactics recently when I lost interest and it’s just.. Phoney and lame. It doesn’t rekindle shit	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/19 05:06 PM
0	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic True, but I mean its public knowledge. He wore lifts for his last role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 10:15 AM
0	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic Haha nah, I’m of the firm belief that you shouldn’t meet tv crushes. They have a persona and performances, but they’re not their characters, and don’t need random strangers weirding it up. That being said, I didn’t notice him until he got a star role in a show. And even there he was treated like an ugly weirdo. But seriously, he’s stunning to me. Limp, hooked nose, mascara, alternates between murder and actually wanting to do the right thing, just gah I want to carry him to safety lol If someone…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:58 AM
3	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? “same reasons you feel able to do it” When did I attempt to speak for 99% of women? I can see clearly in your post where you did, but I cannot see it in mine. “Yeah, I pointed out that where you are is not where everyone else is” Agreed. None of us occupy the majority of areas. Therefor none of us should be using anecdotal evidence to speak on behalf of billions of strangers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:50 AM
3	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? “So you're like new to dealing with women?” Lmao No.. Not at all. “The majority of women literally do not know what they enjoy and what they don't, and what they find unpleasant.” You don’t know the majority of women. “Obviously within the BDSM community that is different, but the amongst the 99% of women who are elsewhere limited very limited sexual self awareness is the norm.” Ugh it’s my new usual, but what is the evidence that allows you to speak for 99% of women? “In fact even within BDSM i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:15 AM
4	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Man why are you so bitchy? Guy’s asking women for their opinions and you gotta Karen it up lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 08:00 AM
2	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic I’d go for him. Height never mattered to me, he’s funny as fuck and he’s great on Its Always Sunny. So yeah, I’d see where that goes if the option arose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:44 AM
6	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic Hey now, if you think wine is a chick thing, get fucked and learn history. Our greatest thinkers were winos who held symposiums about the dumbest shit. Plato’s whole thing on love is a prime example. For god sake Bacchus was the wine god. Man if the people you hang with are retarded, find people who aren’t retarded.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:38 AM
4	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic I mean, that’s kind of the thing you’re supposed to do. I liked certain men and women, but I was a mess who dated messes in the past. The kind of people I’d pursue now aren’t into that. So yeah, I gotta be willing to improve if I want someone to feel safe and happy with me. Is working on yourself a bad thing now?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:09 AM
5	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic “I mean, you could simply not read or engage with them if you hate what they have to say.” It’s a debate sub. We might hate each other’s opinions, but this is the place to argue about it. “Telling them no one wants to hear their complaints isn't going to change anything and may even make it worse.” To be fair, jax did say nobody cares what ugly women think. If discounting complaints is wrong, you should have told him that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:04 AM
1	"Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction Demographic Man, I know height matters but that’s depressing as hell. I’m gonna be a total dork and admit that my biggest star crush is a 5”6 guy on a TV show. I’d take him over a tall person any day. People have their preferences, but I find that unattractive people become attractive sometimes just by knowing them. Sometimes attractive people become fucking ugly for the same reason.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 07:00 AM
2	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Lol well it’s not hard to just talk to someone before getting to the old slappety slap!	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 06:50 AM
2	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Ew. Kink shaming is gross.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 06:45 AM
2	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? I’m.. Not built that way. For the record, my dislikes aren’t based on the desire to be different. I got beat for that shit. Put it this way, when I was a kid my aunt used to warn me about all the things I’d want when I got older. It never happened for me. Then wouldn’t you know it, she got mad that I wasn’t weak and silly and all the other things she was prepared to shame me for. I honestly don’t believe that I was built at all. I feel like the product of I don’t even know how many decades of ev…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 06:38 AM
7	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? It’s not difficult when you discuss boundaries before sex, which you’re supposed to do in the bdsm community. Like oh jeezus how will I ever figure her out? Ask her.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 06:18 AM
2	Is it true that almost all women want to be dominated in bed? Nah. Personal experience is finicky here because people seek out traits in their potential mates. You might get more women who like being dominated because the women who like dominating choose someone else. I’m a relatively short ferry trip to a city with dungeons and sex clubs, and doms aren’t any rarer than subs. I think the rare ones are virgins and vanillas exploring their sexuality.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 06:14 AM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? My best friend calls me all the time to vent his feelings. He’s a turbo asshole, but I’m the one he comes to for girlfriends, family, work, his kids, politics, all that shit. I turned my phone off this morning cuz he’ll spam call me knowing I’m trying to sleep, and all he’s looking to do is share his feelings lol I’m female, and it took me months to cry about my dog dying. My dad cried and I made sure we had beer and I made too-soon jokes and did what I do. But I didn’t cry for months. When my h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 05:49 AM
2	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? Haha yeah maybe	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/19 05:35 AM
2	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “Bullshit. Give me the scientific hypothesis you wish to test and test it. Data is meaningless stats if you don't understand what you are trying to test. So yes, ambiguous data.” Because you made the claim about men and women, the onus is on you to present the data supporting it. I am free to doubt your claim, citing the lack of evidence. “This we can test.” Not any better than testing your previous claim. Black and white people have a wide variety of traits. Different schools of thought have ap…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 10:41 PM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “Yes and I've hear this all before. Ambiguous data doesn't serve much point.” For those who follow the scientific method, ambiguous data on the nature of emotion and competence among men and women means we do not yet have the ability to make sweeping generalizations on the subject with any validity. “"Its complicated" doesn't allow men to be functional. I understand what you are saying but I'm not talking pure emotion and pure competence. Just right up the middle. Like before, you are discussing…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 09:44 PM
5	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “Ever looked at the causes of suicide? It's heavily breakdown of marriage, loss of access to children and severe degradation of finances to the point of deprivation. Often those things occur together. Let's not pretend that this is something that this is something that men are doing to themselves or that a bit of talking can fix it. As Cain says, more masculinity could be the answer here.” I agree that family issues are a common trigger for suicide. When I mention pursuing treatment, I don’t mea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 09:35 PM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? Men and women both want to be heard and both want solutions. It’s why they both talk so much, and both solve problems. Our current neuropsychological understanding shows that neither are merely their feelings or competencies. Through fMRI we can map out which parts of the brain “light up” when answering questions, reporting feelings etc, and so far there is no conclusive line that sections women into pure emotion, nor men into pure competence. There’s also the issue of men who have zero emotiona…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 09:08 PM
2	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? No they aren’t. The friendships are superficial, everyone only cares about appearances, and there’s no sense of pride in ones talents and abilities. It’s essentially grown women who peaked at high school and still think they’re teenagers. The most awesome women I know dropped that shit and became functional adults who support each other and do cool shit like art, science, law, all that. We’ve talked about the old days and the pressures of appealing to a bullshit standard, and it’s unanimously ag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 08:52 PM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “You sure they weren't saying the sex was bad out of pure shame? Because...they just fucked a drug dealer...but they just fucked a drug dealer. And now they're trying to convey their not one of those chicks that fucks drug dealers...BECAUSE IT WAS BAD SEX. So, because their not the kind of girl to fuck a drug dealer, fucking the drug dealer didn't count.“ He also said it was bad! You know the saying “any port in a storm”? It was like that. Gross for everyone. Those girls don’t feel shame for ban…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 08:35 PM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “No, this is about the lack of masculinity.” Men who commit suicide were listed as unmasculine. I’m just disputing a point within the overall idea of what makes a man unmasculine. If you don’t see how that’s on topic, not my problem. “Probably because that translates easily to women because it's an inherently feminine thing...” Maybe, maybe not. From what I’ve seen, women have a variety of personalities and preferences. Plenty of guys like their women to be just as jealous, and they’re not recog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 08:24 PM
2	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? No.. No it isn’t. Also I get the intent, just take issue with suicide. Where I live, most women don’t seem to care that much about toxic masculinity, it’s men who care. I don’t know any women who want men to act like women. I know some women who want men to act like jealous assholes for some reason, but I’ve never heard a woman say she wants men to be women. Maybe a lesbian would crack that joke. (Not doubting it’s been said, just seems like it’s far from common).	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:55 PM
0	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? Yeah something about the pug image I had to share lol In any case the drug dealers I knew banged some serious hood rats. Like skinny and fat somehow? And every party ended with shit breaking and people screaming, and I heard the stories about how bad the sex was. Put it this way, if I passed them a cigarette, no way was I puffing on that thing again.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:46 PM
1	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? Oh I know this one! I’d say toxic femininity is when women cut down other women for not living up to the feminine stereotypes. Ripping on her for looks or status or how attractive her mate is. Manipulating people by pretending to be weak and stupid because you think you’ll get away with it as a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:39 PM
4	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? “Thing is men want the kind of sex drug dealers get.” Ah yes, the 8 minute drunken romp to Chlamydiaville while a confused pug watches from the doorway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:25 PM
6	Will manosphereans admit that toxic masculinity exists if we accept that it's partially caused by male biology? I wouldn’t lump suicide in there with lacking masculinity, considering the highest suicide risk is combat veterans.. Also it’s common for suicidal people to be well liked, with good jobs and women who love them. Interestingly enough, it’s men who are speaking out against “toxic masculinity”, and they using suicide rates as a prime example. They were taught not to be vulnerable, show weakness, cry, or get help from others. They were taught to “man up”. They argue that this actually contributes to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/08/19 05:20 PM
1	Would you still consider a girl relationship material if she gave into blackmail? She was taken as a teenager when her biological mother reconnected after giving her up as a baby. She sold mom to a pimp who pretended to be a friend who took her to a new place for work. He then stole her passport, she had no phone, Facebook wasn’t a thing and my family was fundamentalist farmers in the middle of nowhere. She was then told she owed her pimp for rent and travel and food, so he had her do modelling gigs where she was raped multiple times. That turned into stripping and eventually…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 11:25 PM
2	Would you still consider a girl relationship material if she gave into blackmail? No. My mom was forced into sex work from a young age, and I have nothing but empathy for people who go through it. Shit if anything I might even closer to a girlfriend for it cuz she’d understand how fucked up it is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 03:20 PM
3	Does a man's relationship history matter to you? I broke up with a girl I’d been dating for four years after high school. We weren’t engaged, but we’d talked about it enough that it was assumed we’d eventually get there. After awhile we fought more often than not, she wouldn’t communicate and I was drinking too much, and I realized at a party that I wanted out. I wanted to be free to explore my options and not constantly feel like I was resigned to my high school sweetheart. So later that week I told her. It sucked, hard. The next person I dat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 05:12 AM
7	CMV: It's a bigger red flag if a girl's ex's have cheated ON her, than if she has cheated on her ex's. I don’t subscribe to the concept of alphas and betas, since the only primates who have this aren’t human and don’t even have a ranking system that reflects how people attempt to apply it. For example alpha chimpanzee males are chosen to become alpha by alpha females, and alpha bonobos serve others rather than dominate through force. In my experience, the men and women who fixate on those titles lack the confidence to just be themselves without clinging to labels. They also tend not to have studi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 05:01 AM
34	CMV: It's a bigger red flag if a girl's ex's have cheated ON her, than if she has cheated on her ex's. Two of my ex buddies were cheaters, and they always had stories about how poorly treated they were by their girlfriends. Then we all met the women, and it turned out they’re normal people and these dudes just cheat on everyone they date. One was such an opportunistic predator he went on to bang teenagers and assaulted a woman while she was passed out. We don’t hang out with those guys anymore, cuz yeah. They’re dicks. Last I heard they’re both drunks (one lost his job cuz of a DUI) trying to pic…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 03:00 AM
7	Does a man's relationship history matter to you? If I don’t feel loyal to my partner, I end the relationship. Nobody forces you to cheat; it’s a huge betrayal that follows the victim and the cheater, sometimes for life. Better to be honest and separate than to be known as a cheater wherever you go lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/19 02:49 AM
1	What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island? Check out Umoja, Kenya. It’s an all female society that’s been successful for decades. They formed it to protect women. They pay equal taxes and there’s no status or hierarchy. Super interesting to check out	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/19 12:03 AM
1	What do you think would happen if a group of women went on to live on a remote island? I don’t know what would happen on island specifically, but there’s currently a society in Kenya called Umoja that has only women. It was formed in 1990 by a woman who was beaten for speaking out against the rape and abandonment women were suffering through. As more women joined, men got together and attempted to make rivalling societies but ultimately failed. The women were more successful as “craftsmen” and soon became a flourishing community that had a steady income which they used to buy the …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/19 12:00 AM
1	Men Should Never Give Up Their Harem / The Case for Polygamy I wouldn’t say plenty, but I’m sure they do exist. Plus there’s societies where women take multiple husbands, like in Tibet..	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 11:30 PM
2	Men Should Never Give Up Their Harem / The Case for Polygamy You uh.. Ever see what happens to those charismatic leaders in the end? Dead or in prison, often betrayed by the women who served them. The NXIVM fiasco is a great current example. If you want the women to feel loved and validated in a polygamist relationship I imagine you’d be open to them taking multiple lovers as well. I mean that’s love, right? Wanting your lover to know the joys you experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 11:06 PM
2	Men Should Never Give Up Their Harem / The Case for Polygamy Canadian here, it’s illegal for a reason. The cults who practice polygamy are selling off children, practicing incest, beating and raping women, denying girls access to school and careers. At the end of the day it’s about enslaving girls. Your average North American female has seen a world where women have freedom and options. They’re not gonna trade that in to serve some dudes fantasy. You’ll always be able to find women who’ll accept it, but they are the minority. If you want to get a good und…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:59 PM
1	Men Should Never Give Up Their Harem / The Case for Polygamy Not really. Men didn’t actually run the household like a king. Wives had power in the house. In a multi-wife marriage, they can come to value each other more than the man; in which case he’s not managing anyone so much as trying to keep people who outnumber him happy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:51 PM
1	Men Should Never Give Up Their Harem / The Case for Polygamy I mean, in my province there are illegal polygamist cults who straight up brainwash and marry children, and whenever they get tired of a girl they just take another. They claim it’s about love and faith, but it’s just sex slavery. Those guys absolutely want to get their dicks wet.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/19 10:46 PM
1	Low N-count women in serious relationships, what kind of man did you pick? Correlation doesn’t equal causation. It’s a basic rule everyone learns in research methods which states that even if two things are linked, or occur together, it doesn’t mean that you can use one as a valid test for the other, nor can you declare with certainty or even as a generality that they go hand in hand. Hymens are historically and culturally associated with virginity. However with modern science and the global exchange of information through peer reviewed studies etc, we now understand t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 06:08 PM
1	What are your hang ups about discussing things here? Chivalry put noblewomen on pedestals. While vaginas figured into the equation, they weren’t for fucking. Courtship was super strict and very much based around preserving the woman’s honour. Basically you couldn’t shame her or treat her like a whore. My dad treats women exactly as he treats men; with kindness, a sense of humour and yeah, holding open a door if he gets to it first. Every woman who’s flirted with him he shuts down because he’s not interested. Gay and asexual guys obviously aren’t t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 07:41 AM
9	I don't think drunk sex should be rape Just tossing it out there, rape victims don’t always scream and fight back. Shock and terror can trigger dissociation, freezing, all sorts of things. Sometimes people don’t fight because they fear for their life. Others may have been abused as children and have reverted to their former state of helplessness. Some are in denial and tell themselves that it is different and therefor not really happening. Others totally shut down. Rape is a serious trauma that immediately impacts the brain. Victims …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/07/19 07:20 AM
1	Don't be this guy I thought this place was about going your own way as men. Instead all you do is obsess about women and complain about other guys finding happiness. What gives? You sound like those middle aged divorcees who rant about “not needing no man” but then can’t shut up about men the entire day.	/r/MGTOW	28/04/19 08:26 AM
2	I started to read /r/raisedbynarcissists and in over 90% of abuse stories, the responsible is the mother An interesting note on filicide, while mothers are more likely to murder their children, it’s not significantly higher than fathers. Additionally, mothers are more likely to kill infants and daughters, whereas father are more likely to kill boys and older children. For mothers, Postpartum depression and abuse are the most common reasons. Due to a variety of situations some women become so ill and desperate that they come to believe their only chance of escape is death, but they’re afraid of leav…	/r/MGTOW	28/04/19 08:13 AM
-1	Let women in the army lol How is this an equality issue? Male recruits die in training as well lol	/r/MGTOW	28/04/19 07:51 AM
-1	Women are fucking stupid It’s only her own medicine if she said all men are trash...	/r/MGTOW	23/04/19 11:07 PM