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Question For WomenFar_Secret_2710/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 03:12 PM
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Everyone is poor! Yes media psyop goyslop radical femcuck girlboss hyper reality is the biggest memeplex in the way symbolically. But if there was still a middle class and the economy weren’t about to undergo an enormous price correction .. this stuff wouldn’t be that big of a deal. That’s why elites (who actually mostly aren’t white in key institutions) are immune to the cultural and institutional rot. They already own all the gates, thus they are not gatekept, and since they’re rich they get a…
/r/seduction05/02/26 10:17 PM
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Precisely. I want cases like this to pile up in the hundreds, yesterday. Stuff like this happens every day, at varying social/moral/legal levels. Enough
/r/MensRights05/02/26 06:55 PM
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Nice try, girl. Men compete overtly for territory, land, money, tools, rank. Things that exist outside the group chat. Things you either secure or you lose. Hazing and bravado are side effects of that sorting process, not the yield. It’s vetting for who can hold ground when there is no audience, and real-world action counts. Girls evolved to maneuver inside the circle. Status through consensus, whispers, optics. Useful skills, just local. You’re mistaking that village logic for the whole map. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:41 PM
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If you actually believe men act out of social pressure from a men’s only group chat, you are suffering from solipsism and need to develop a theory of mind for men. Maybe it’s just out of habit. Maybe you’re just used to slamming your palm on the ‘blame men’ button. BLAME MEN!! BLAME MEN!! REEEEEE 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 06:02 PM
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Girls pressure girls into optimizing for short-term position in the sisterhood. Right now men’s approval factors for only 5% of the dating choices girls make. That’s why girls don’t care that men are more attracted to a girl with no makeup. Men trust the authenticity, good trustworthy investment, whereas girls chase artificiality to optimize for visual appeal on apps. That’s why so many girls feel identical to men, like they were built in the same factory. Most are, these days. So short-term, a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/26 05:38 PM
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Not reading all that. congratulations Or, sorry that happened
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 04:36 PM
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Seems like you're the one who feels offended
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:54 PM
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I'm too experienced to fall for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:54 PM
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☝️ Leftist equivocates, avoids accountability, resumes projecting
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:48 PM
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Your scare quotes stopped working in 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 10:11 AM
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Let me move the needle forward on your worldview The elites’ choice to oppress white straight men specifically is rooted in their fear of white straight men’s cultural, technological, & intellectual power. The only way they could weaken us is by turning our girls against us, and thus, conveniently, themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 02:59 AM
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Whatever you say, junior
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:25 PM
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Well, since you wrote your claim in all-caps, it must be true
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:23 PM
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Girls don’t choose on looks or personality alone. That is my disagreement. It’s: Position/prestige (socially validated) Money (resources for lifestyle upgrade) Looks (proximity will visually raise her position) Whether they want bad boy / nice guy (opposite of whatever they already have) ‘Emotional intelligence,’ which is their version of personality, but today it really means the balance of malleability vs. masculinity in a man that the girl believes her standing entitles herself to It’s dark b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:03 PM
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It’s amazing how the confluence of vanity, female in-group bias and egotism, male out-group bias, weaponized incompetence, social media and the narrowing of attention spans, media campaigns, institutional capture and a comprehensive plummet in agency amid widespread unprecedented precarity have normalized the most low-IQ, transparently biased and unequal political platform of the century. I’m just marveling at the monstrosity of the great feminization. Like Cthulhu.
/r/MensRights31/01/26 12:39 PM
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Great points. I would add that I suspect most of the output of these girls in their high-paying roles has zero to low value compared to men. Which makes the vicious circle of incompetence even worse
/r/MensRights19/01/26 06:48 PM
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No that's the netflix version. The reality is that girls have betrayed men en masse to help corporations enslave them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:06 PM
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That’s just brainwashing, don’t waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:24 PM
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Girls have lost touch with their femininity. No man wants to date a man in a girl’s body
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:12 PM
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Maybe girls should work on being more desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 04:07 PM
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This is just sad
/r/seduction19/01/26 11:53 AM
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She noticed me and I seemed to have an authentic inner life so she plopped down across the table from me at the dive bar with a ‘hey’ like we were picking up from an old conversation
/r/seduction13/01/26 12:57 AM
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If they have wealth, or want to seem like they will and are cowardly, I have known many white straight men who support all of it, knowing its true purpose: to weed out and disempower the competition. When asked how they’ll avoid the institutional pressure and demonization, they simply seem to believe they’re a special case. Everyone wants to believe they’re the exception, and the moralizing high helps them cope.
/r/MensRights11/01/26 02:27 PM
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Sounds tough for both of you. It’s great for him that he’s found a girl who is willing to keep to the family, and not worry about worldly things. I recently dumped a feminist bc she was constantly inserting her opinions into everything we do, which led to us oscillating between inane silence or big loud arguments. Ultimately I think the man should be politically undisputed in his home, except in rare cases, so you could let him simply explain what meaning to take from ongoing events, and reflect…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/26 05:43 PM
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Amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:51 PM
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Did you have to google that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:33 PM
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User: Why are you associating lightning with thunder? Man: Google it User: You want me to Google why YOU associate lightning with thunder? Hard pass 🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:23 PM
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Google it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 04:12 PM
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This is interesting, because it lends explanatory power to the ‘shit test’ hypothesis of feminism. Not going to break that down here, but this has reached comical tiers of projection. Try to imagine what a girl really gets if some poor simp date mentioned the pamphlet to her with a smile on his face, grateful for the selfless empathy it must have taken for women to tell men to shower before a date. The emotional labor, the infinite tolerance of helping those rotten men become more appealing to y…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 03:59 PM
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I’m not sure it makes sense to treat men and girls like they’re psychologically identical. The differences are subtle but vast. I could see myself falling hard for a girl even if I’d slept with thousands of others.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 02:39 PM
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Haven’t read the research on this but it feels true to an extent. Increasingly girls just don’t seem worth dating, but I would if they dropped their politics and learned to be supportive. I suspect promiscuity affects girls’ pair-bonding capacity more than men’s. If I’d dated hundreds of girls, holy shit I’d be numbed out. That’s what I imagine the thousand cock stare feels like to girls.
/r/MensRights10/01/26 02:36 PM
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There is no patriarchy, but there should be
/r/MensRights10/01/26 04:10 AM
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What if a man has had ~500 sexual partners (all girls ofc) but is still clean?
/r/MensRights10/01/26 12:27 AM
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That’s what it’s for!
/r/MensRights10/01/26 12:04 AM
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Nah just wanted to show how your rhetoric works. And men never need the last word, bc we believe in commitment, no emojis required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:26 PM
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Leftists always feign confusion so others will give them something easier to equivocate. Don’t worry about it, I’m sure you’re fine
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:17 PM
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The burden is yours. Act like a non-player character, get non-player character results
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:13 PM
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Descriptively speaking, modern girls are really fragile and breakable. Hence your selective, unreflective assertions. The rest is normative determinism, your conditioned beliefs from ordinary 2015 trends on Buzzfeed
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:09 PM
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Happily married, yet self-loathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:58 AM
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I can’t help you. You’re still living in the simulation of progress, lack a theory of mind for those you disagree with, and fight for your own marginalization bc it’s the only thing you’ve known
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 01:32 AM
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For 60 years the incentives men had to cultivate chivalry, like loyal, supportive femininity, have been erased. Meanwhile, girls can’t even see how demonized men are now because most never lived through anything like it, and simply don’t care. The idea of bearing children is seen as backwards even though it is the only physical way to survive your own life. What’s worse, now women feel entitled to the same high privilege of total masculine devotion with no accountability, and nothing to offer bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/26 12:41 AM
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Before modern medicine and before gender studies existed, most families pushed for high numbers bc it was guaranteed that not all your kids would survive. I think the cause of girls wanting fewer (if any) kids till they get older is normative determinism. It’s not normal for a girl to want kids more than a man. Not in media, not in public school pedagogy, not in western culture, if you can still even call it that. The psychological, economic, and social incentives all point to delaying or skippi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:39 PM
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That trajectory is statistically accurate for feminist girls, who inherently offer nothing in terms of long-term self-interest for men. I think if you show you’re different than those girls, then the man will chill and get to know you. If not, they’re too damaged by this world, and may never recover from their understandable hyper-vigilance toward the consensus reality that is not kind to men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/26 07:12 PM
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Great post, but I wonder which dam you’re talking about. I’m also a white millennial, grew up in a trailer and bootstrapped my way to a major city just in time for me2 and BLM to stop me and all men like me from having expectations of any kind of positive future. I read the article, have read many articles in this discourse and can’t help but notice that the writer of ‘the lost generation’ piece isn’t white. He’s jewish. That other recent one on ‘The Great Feminization’ was by a white girl. As f…
/r/MensRights07/01/26 01:01 PM
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Most social media platforms reward feminine modes of aggression. Passive aggressive intimation, sarcastic posturing, gossip and attacks on reputation. It’s all virtual, abstract, disconnected from consequence and context except those that social media itself creates. No girl would choose the bear lost in a forest w the animal charging and roaring. But she can get attention online by saying so online, without any real harm. Most girls w online lives today build their entire identity on being the …
/r/MensRights04/01/26 02:29 AM
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This is an attempt to obfuscate the racial distribution of gun violence, then redistribute the punitive narrative and any social shaming to the men who play by the rules — mainly White and Asian men. But they are not the lion’s share of gun violence. It’s gangs. ‘Always was’
/r/MensRights27/12/25 04:18 PM
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I’ve out-earned and held higher seniority than my current boss’ boss. Yet she and my direct report, both girls, are constantly hiring only girls, rapid promoting them over me, and praising them in general chat, while I do all the work and they make slideshows with spongebob artwork presented on tri-weekly seminars of stuff I learned ten years ago, and the lessons they provide are factually incorrect. But if I say or offer any kind corrections, it’s treated as a threat and erased. I’m also paid t…
/r/MensRights25/12/25 02:27 PM
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I suspect if you could truth-serum all alleged misogynists, 95% would ‘hate’ the extremes of deception and lies, the unmerited credulity and authority girls are given by default in public discourse these days. Most men hate the wrongs women do, not the women themselves. It’s just becoming difficult to see the girl behind the games and gimmicks anymore
/r/MensRights24/12/25 10:55 PM
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Post an ad to apply for an all-expenses-paid trip to Dubai. Dimes only
/r/seduction24/12/25 04:35 PM
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This is a glorious goal, what made life feel like magic before fourth wave. After a 10-month dry spell I remember setting out to get laid on the night of my 21st birthday. This was over 15 years ago, so diff world, but how it should work imo. I went alone to a quiet live music venue, sat at the bar till a guy friend of mine noticed me, offered to take me to a rowdier live show (this became a thing, mutual wing-man dynamic). We ended up going, then I met a girl in the beer garden soaked in rain, …
/r/seduction24/12/25 12:58 PM
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Lmao you actually used the white-coded emoji. I rest my case
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:35 PM
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A circle of simps isn’t data 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 07:23 PM
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Yeah, that's why Playboy Magazine is filled with 50-year-old singles. Hilarious, kid
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:38 PM
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Maybe it isn’t strictly correct to say that every unproven allegation is false in a metaphysical sense, but in practice an unproven allegation produces the legal outcome of “not guilty.” And in a system that is supposed to protect people from punishment without proof, “not guilty” has to function socially as “the allegation failed,” meaning it cannot be treated as true. If a claim cannot meet the standard required to justify destroying a person’s life, career, and reputation, then it should be t…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:46 PM
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I don’t take feminist arguments about rape seriously, but since the mods will need something civil, here's a disagreement that assumes good faith: > "...many cases labeled as 'false' in online discussions were never proven to be false. Often they are unproven, inconclusive or dismissed due to insufficient evidence. That is not the same as a false allegation. 'Not proven' does not mean 'made up.'" ^ yes, “unproven” isn’t the same as “false.” But innocence doesn’t need to be proven. That’s the who…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 04:23 PM
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Rare glimpse of reality, but not the whole story. If girls have one over on an older men, why do older girls scream in protest about age gaps? Shouldn’t they support any girl holding power over men? Older girls hate on men when they date younger girls bc the older girls hit the wall, experience scarcity for the first time in their lives, and use their old favorite cudgel, shaming men, to try to guilt trip men into dating their age. So for men it’s either date older girls out of the fear of shame…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 02:51 PM
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If only it were that simple. That would be easy to dismiss. Whites have been so thoroughly groomed to think everyone thinks just like them that they'll blame aliens before they blame anyone but themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 04:40 PM
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That's as close as I can come to saying what I mean, on this website.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 02:33 PM
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Not quite. If you read critical theory and understand the political use of Frankfurt School, it’s clear that feminist rhetoric, like most leftist rhetoric, is a bootstrapped platform that rationalizes a disadvantaged position as morally superior, and via dialectic in the public commons the preceding hierarchy is inverted to put the disadvantaged, in feminism’s case women, into power. All feminist terms and talking points function this way. Vapid concepts with 10th-grade definitions passed off as…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:26 PM
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No. They're not 'POC.' Think richer. It's more like turning the farm against the cows, then, once the farm is moving all cows to the slaughterhouse, giving an elegy about how sad it is, right up to the moment they give the cow its final bump into the spinning blade. At least the cow feels represented by the elegy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 02:06 PM
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All I can say is that the same people who ran all the NGOs and policies on the left .. in media, institutions, gov't & corporate america .. the people who created the new norms against white men, they are now cashing in on melancholy from the other side, on our behalf. And except for some women they've found useful, they're not white.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 01:46 PM
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Did anyone notice that the author and most of his examples aren’t white
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/12/25 01:35 AM
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No. He is serving the interests of the people who engineered and enforced this demographic shift, but from the other side. It’s just vibes and sigma edits. And, if you do a little googling, you’ll find those same people also wrote this piece.
/r/MensRights19/12/25 01:30 AM
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Such outsized consequences just bc one girl had to step out of her frictionless user experience for one minute
/r/seduction17/12/25 09:31 PM
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Well, I can't bring myself to part w my area code real estate, so I think I'm out of luck. But yeah, it's ironic that girls flock to an app that bans the kind of guy they really want, considering how much attention I was enjoying. Guess it's back to the cold approach for me
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:26 PM
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yeah but you need diff phone numbers to sign up right?
/r/seduction17/12/25 04:16 PM
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This website is also a safetyism bubble. If I say it I'll get banned. DM if you really wanna know I guess
/r/seduction17/12/25 03:00 PM
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Post-Hinge aura
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:16 PM
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I get why they did it but still think it shouldn’t be a problem. It’s easy for a girl to unmatch if she gets offended, but Hinge only cares about investor risk, which means reflecting the cultural bubble of safetyism for girls and protected classes. So just imagine what would scare investors away and there’s your red line
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:14 PM
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Big waste. I was actually getting serious interest on Hinge but then I got banned so 🤷‍♂️
/r/seduction17/12/25 12:34 PM
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Stick ‘em with the pointy end
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:47 AM
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This is why I’ve shut down all seduction business for the holidays. I don’t want to manage something I can’t consummate for nearly a month. In a perfect world that sentiment itself would make a great holiday bio for dating apps.
/r/seduction17/12/25 01:46 AM
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I think there’s a real chance we’ll witness balkanization across geographical lines. Controversial figures like NF are already stealing the show from top media personalities, however disorganized their followings presently seem. It will happen fast, but I think divisions online are upstream of divisions IRL. It’s only a matter of where and when.
/r/MensRights16/12/25 08:39 PM
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Try the whole night without looking at her. Even when you get her inside your home and inside her, even as you kick her out in the morning. It’s funny
/r/seduction16/12/25 01:00 PM
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I agree - assume betrayal and control for unseen outcomes to contain blowback. Just don’t assume a single girl’s naïveté or blind spots are reflected in broader social narratives and conventions — they will happily fill in the blanks at your expense. And yeah, risk in even simple relationships has been raised for men intentionally, by very smart and powerful names — so that we can’t avoid it. Good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:16 PM
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It doesn’t take illegal action for a girl to falsely accuse and do serious damage. Stop seeing a lover who thought she had you hooked for life? She can tell the world it was all rpe, and it doesn’t matter what you say, even if you’re lucky enough to have *negative proof that you couldn’t have been there/done whatever she said. Read ‘Unwanted Advances’ by Kipnis for a sample. And I’m not surprised at all that lots of men, esp gen z and younger, want perpetual revenge for the hell they’ve grown up…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 11:00 PM
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Getting power and using it to disrupt women’s social advantages can feel good. I’ve done it, and probably will do so again. But without a dominant narrative like feminism has had for decades, you’ll only affect one or two women at a time, and their group chats or parasocial following will reframe it to cast her as victim, you as villain. Same old loop. To shift anything meaningfully, it would take collective action toward structural goals, not one-off provocations. Real leverage comes from recon…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/25 10:50 PM
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The world doesn’t owe girls anything
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 06:20 PM
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No. That is your illusion. People and institutions are being very nice to girls, and it’s infantile to believe otherwise. You’ll find out when you’re older, or after the next turn of the screw. Whichever hits first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 10:03 PM
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Can’t you read? Or are you just equivocating with flair I said girls push illusions to get people to be nice to them. Not that girls mistakenly believe people are nice to them. The two are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 09:23 PM
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This is what happens when millennial narcissism merges with projection. Stop repeating scripts to yourself, ‘yoloswag420noscope69.’ I can’t do your thinking for you
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:12 PM
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find the lie
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:44 PM
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Then why are they playing with feminist categories? Don’t waste my time
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:13 PM
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You’re mistaken. Formally, it is the same
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 05:07 PM
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You are archiving your own slow-motion extinction. That subreddit is a cesspool of whiners indexing failed appeal through feminist victim categories, logging grievances like sad abandoned clerks. They call it male advocacy. It’s closer to managing compliance for a corrupt warden. Feminist men mistake costume for character. You’re acting out pornographic projection as politics. Girls exploit it reflexively. That’s most of contemporary culture now. Many men learned the hard way in the twenty teens…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 04:13 PM
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You think you’re being open-minded, tolerant, and inclusive. You are being conquered
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 02:30 PM
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I’ve never been more convinced that men who submit to polyamory are inexperienced and emotionally unequipped to act on what’s really happening
/r/seduction12/12/25 01:36 PM
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It’s so weird how hard it is for them to understand that men can’t be happy living in a comfy illusion so that people will be nice to you, like most girls do. We have a word for that. It’s called cuck
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 01:26 PM
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You could do it as an accelerationist. If you can’t reverse the imbalance, the second-class reality of men under a giant gynocentric bubble of luxury and overconfidence and delusional waste, then bring things to their natural outcome, and be among the first men to rebuild in the aftermath.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 11:03 AM
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Breath work isn’t the answer
/r/MensRights12/12/25 02:52 AM
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Idk if it’ll catch on but I keep using this rebuttal whenever I’m confronted with ‘manosphere:’ "Manosphere" is a containment term. It tries to pathologize pattern recognition, as if noticing asymmetry, drift, or hormonal biology means you've joined a cult. Plug-and-play however you find useful. But after seeing the last couple of decades and the decline of men and the west in general, I’m increasingly skeptical any movement focused exclusively on men’s rights will ‘improve our image’ or make in…
/r/MensRights12/12/25 12:52 AM
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You got me at dumbing yourself down, but there’s just so much worse in the bla bla and bla that I can’t resist ranting about, like fighting off the constant internal monologue that asks why the hell these girls have zero curiosity about anything but frictionless ego strokes, how can they live with themselves, do they even have a real existing mind behind those bangs, and so on. Then the idea that it takes serious brains to learn game becomes this self-gaslighting exercise where you tell yourself…
/r/seduction11/12/25 10:03 PM
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Wonderful, thank you. People should clip this up and spread it as a survival guide for ambitious men in an age of feminine hysteria
/r/MensRights09/12/25 05:50 PM
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Thanks for posting, and congrats on the victory, however costly it was. It’s the first case I’ve heard of an SA accused man using soft power on social media — where girls have enjoyed a permanent home-field advantage — to prove your case and humiliate the liars w a taste of their own medicine. This isn’t your burden but I’m wondering what lessons you could share from this ordeal that could inform a broader push or campaign to reverse the norms in places like social media? For too long girls have…
/r/MensRights09/12/25 03:28 PM
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I heard there was an election reflecting this sentiment, and from my understanding of the conditions, mandatory military service and biased hiring practices, things seem far worse in South Korea. Would be interested in reading/seeing how the line connects from daily life to political momentum, and whether you’re seeing the changes Korean men want.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 02:34 PM
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Point taken. Although I’d like some girls to work with men, even if they rarely excel at most things.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:44 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 10:37 PM
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You’re fascinating
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 09:11 PM
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I can’t argue with that, it’s being debated in this very thread as I type to a girl w cartoon hair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:50 PM
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You’re mistaking absence from the manosphere for adjustment or ease. “Manosphere” is a containment term. It tries to pathologize pattern recognition, as if noticing asymmetry, drift, or hormonal biology means you’ve joined a cult. Most men who keep the world running don’t post. They move weight. They fix what breaks. And whether they’re online or off, they’re not starved for attention. Being wanted clarifies perception.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:32 PM
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The entire thread is about male disposability, not generic labor value. Gender is central because the system extracts service from men while treating their deaths as expected. You’re pretending your white-collar job gives you insight into this structure, when all you’ve done is project your personal anecdote onto a reality you’re not part of. You’re not striking under threat of state violence. No one’s telling you your suffering is meaningless or mocking you for wanting out. If you had even a ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:14 PM
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‘Hair men?’ Girls were built different back then. But they still couldn’t do the war itself. Still can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:10 PM
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‘In my scenario their choice is either do those jobs or die in collapse.’ If you think they’d rather not die, you’re overdue for a reality check on what modern women actually do when faced with hard necessity. They’ll moralize it, aestheticize it, rationalize it, crowdsource a narrative, start a Substack about it, anything but the work itself. Comfort and entitlement have rotted the feedback loop. As for your second point: show me one civilization maintained through female tenacity in infrastruc…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:08 PM
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Now you’re mistaking your ability to spectate for relevance. ‘Even if they did, their employers would replace them within weeks.’ This is a confession. You admit the system depends on men, yet frame their disposability as proof of your autonomy. What it actually reveals is a parasitic wish to entrap the very men who maintain infrastructure, tech, logistics, and defense into continued service, while you discredit, mock, and pathologize them into silence.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 08:02 PM
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Cute fantasy. The IQ bell curve isn’t kind to your scenario. Civilization depends on the top two percent in system-level cognition, almost entirely male. Lose them and you don’t get peace, you get cascading failure. And even if women had the capacity, they overwhelmingly avoid the trades, logistics, energy, and defense. Preference matters. They do not want to do what keeps society alive. You are pitching a utopia staffed by HR and influencers. That is not stability. That is hospice care for a dy…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:49 PM
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You’re confusing what most men do with what is mostly done by men. That’s a basic category error passed off as confidence. Most men are not tradesmen, engineers, or operators. That part is true. But the overwhelming majority of people who maintain physical infrastructure, energy grids, industrial systems, and national defense are still male. This distinction is not cosmetic. It’s the difference between knowing who fills out onboarding paperwork and who recalibrates a reactor mid-failure. If you …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 07:46 PM
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cf. OP's and related posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:42 PM
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If girls keep insisting we live like a lie is true, critical infrastructure will continue to weaken until men won't need to reverse your rights. Thanks to entropy, your lights will go out automatically.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 06:39 PM
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After learning this policy, I have to agree that no women in the military is preferable. I wasn’t in the military but that same rule was applied during the title-ix days in academia, and it is abused ruthlessly to weed out ambitious and creative men who refuse to bow to systems that hate them.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 05:34 PM
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This reads like someone trying to close a philosophical tab they were never equipped to open. Saying “we invented firearms” like Glock ownership erases biology or civilizational dependence is delusional. Civilization isn’t self-sustaining. It’s upheld by a gender-skewed caste of men in STEM, logistics, energy, and defense. A woman having a gun doesn’t mean she can maintain a grid, patch a supply chain, or adapt under systemic collapse. The people who can are still mostly male. There is no silent…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 05:30 PM
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It’s far easier to pull girls when you’re young bc no one expects you to have money or reputational power, so do it on the side, maybe wife her if she puts you first in her life (extremely rare). But if you spend your 20s playing ‘fucboi simp’ for girls who bring no value outside momentary ecstasy, your 30s and onward will be living hell. I’ve seen too many fun and sexually successful guys get soft and mentally (if not literally) cucked by their early thirties bc they didn’t know their youth was…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 03:17 PM
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That is sickening, I didn’t know this was a thing and assumed that girls in the service were more masculine-coded in their understanding of things like honor, duty, integrity. If there was misconduct of that type, I assumed it was locals in areas in deployment, like those Iraqi prison scandals.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 03:07 PM
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All v true. But I shy away from pretending false accusations is a ‘people’ problem. It’s a feminine mode of reputational violence, and it’s mostly practiced by girls who are never confronted with accountability for their words or actions. I wonder sometimes how different things would be if there were a mandatory 10-year sentence for girls making false accusations in court if they can’t prove it. I suspect only fear of serious consequences for baseless accusations will reverse this dynamic.
/r/MensRights04/12/25 03:04 PM
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For the last 15 years, every western legacy media outlet, institution, streaming etc has centered girls’ comfort. There was a piece years ago on the suicide rate of men rising, but the angle wasn’t about how to help them, let alone what’s causing it. And since it couldn’t argue that girls’ suicide rates are comparable (they’re not), it focused on how this was affecting women. ‘Men are dying, women most affected.’ A girl’s life isn’t stress-free, but compared to a man’s it’s child’s play. Each si…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 11:02 PM
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Late to this but yeah, in modern life men's lives are secondary to women's comfort. The marriage between corporations and women via feminism guarantees it. Look at Reddit, or even this subreddit's thread history. Extremely biased in favor of women and girl-coded frames. Men's issues are pathologized as malfunction, and any reversal of this arrangement is seen as a threat. I'd be willing to bet most of the moderators are girls or feminist men (it fits, those are the types really attracted to the …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/25 06:37 PM
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What a sophomoric anachronism. 'Man distrusted women in the past' + 'all of the past is patriarchal and thus evil' = 'Any accountability for the excesses of feminism is hysterical woman-hating' You people don't even understand your own politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/25 05:06 PM
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‘Your friends don’t actually care about being moral’ I know, & they’re not my friends anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 10:22 PM
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I think you mean simp but yeah figuratively emotionally psychologically formally this anecdote is mental cuckery. I watched a lot of men who were my friends shrink themselves into spineless idiots in the wake of me2, just so they could pretend to be ‘good men’ under the new moral inversion. It’s a far deeper psyop than it seems.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 09:57 PM
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I feel like I’m in a seminar, centuries from now, pointing to this chat. ‘Behold, children: Observe how both genders default to their respective drives. Men seek freedom from their state of constant accountability for a few hours, while women seek to alleviate their permanent groundlessness with the force and security of a captured man.’
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 04:50 PM
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I think this is mostly GPT, explains the aggressive formatting, minus the bullet points. But I’ll just say yeah, girls are manipulative hypocrites when you let them direct you. So don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:44 AM
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‘Toxic’ is the girl-coded euphemism for ‘men who don’t shrink themselves for safety,’ and the world is a dangerous place. Ofc girls want what they repress. It’s what they do, why they’re unreliable narrators
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 12:36 AM
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That kind of exhibitionism never works if the girl thinks she’s just a girl getting banged behind a bar. You need serious rep, at least in her head, to the point where you seem way better than everyone else in the bar. Like fucking in or near it is a blessing to the premises, and she gets elevated by it too.
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:23 PM
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I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again. ‘Fuccboi’ is girl-coded apologia. Don’t analyze your life with rhetoric like ‘energy’ either. Don’t trust girls, they manipulate men for optics in their group chat, even against their own self-interests. That James Bond reference was apt. Not the last movie where he died, nineties and earlier. Anyway yeah there are zero successful men with archetypes clearly portrayed in media, (just bumbling dads and caricatured baddies) so you have to find a middle groun…
/r/seduction28/11/25 07:18 PM
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Yeah, she has a preconceived box of ‘no’ she’s already placed you in. Next
/r/seduction28/11/25 06:37 PM
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Partial agree. Dumb arguments from girls will continue until men stop paying them attention. This is arguably how the disgusting overreach and greed of fourth wave happened .. if men didn’t give a shit, it wouldn’t have accelerated into the mess we’ve ended up with. However, the micro-discourse here about the internet exaggerating IRL opinions and outcomes is wishful bluepill bargaining stage. It’s worse than you think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 12:45 PM
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You have to figure things out for yourself. Don’t live in the girl-coded world. Plenty of clear takes on how girls use ‘age gap’ discourse out of bitterness against men for not being picked, and how working on yourself can help. Feminism functionally enables and incentivizes every petty zero-sum instinct a girl can have and weaponize against men, while cloaking every rotten move in a flattering veil of care or empathy — and most men have never tried to understand that level of petty subversion. …
/r/seduction28/11/25 09:47 AM
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I’d accept this if girls also accepted that not getting the kind of commitment they want from the kind of guy they want (or sleep with) is the girl’s fault, and that it means she needs to change herself, her behavior, her attitude and belief system, and aim for more basic men (even ones her girlfriends would never even look at twice) without deflecting her shortcomings or emergent issues onto men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 03:09 AM
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Learning a lot in those months is a claim I didn’t make.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:59 AM
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high school
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 02:23 AM
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I guess but I’ve been raped by at least 3 girls. Nobody cares, fact of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 01:09 AM
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Uhhh when I was 16 some nice but ugly girl got booze from her bro, offered to bring me some then we drank till I blacked out. I awoke w a used condom on and a note from her saying she’d stolen my v-card. Before the week was out the whole school knew. Took months of partying before I figured out how to level up to a better lay I’d actually remember. Moral of the story: Your peers will judge your level on your first lay even if you didn’t want to do it so bottom of barrel has cons. But to tell you…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/25 09:50 PM
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You can totally generalize about this if you’ve been dating a while and can translate girl posts to understand the kind of attn they’re secretly seeking through the kind of engagement they get. ‘Not all girls,’ but that’s what generalizing means.
/r/seduction26/11/25 03:32 AM
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I recommend not treating what girls say as maxims to guide you, but as unreliable narrative from a people to whom you owe nothing. Improve yourself, put yourself out there for your own passions, and girls will do what they do: Come
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/25 10:11 PM
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Start talking to her like a girlfriend who owes you things. Don’t call her by her name call her girl. Reward her by finally speaking a full sentence if she comes closer or wants your attention more than ever before. Goal is to withhold full serious attn so she lowers her guard and dissolves boundaries to find yours, then partially reward while still withholding. Eventually it will be the case that she’s just down and is waiting for you to step over the line.
/r/seduction24/11/25 04:54 PM
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idk man. i’m a tad taller than you but i have this phobia of waking from a drunken frenzy to find myself climbing a tree of a woman like a monkey in a sexual jungle and i don’t like how it looks in my mind’s eye
/r/seduction23/11/25 01:14 AM
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It’s become extremely taboo to discuss current issues because digital media has decentralized access to how the real world plays out. This means the most low-friction way to communicate your experience of the world without scaring everyone away is to mediate it through the past, when taboo subjects weren’t so high-stakes. That means the lowest-risk way for people who want to be political without facing present-day consequences is to complain about stuff everyone remembers but no one currently li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 11:21 PM
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It’s not my job to teach strangers what metaphors are, or how to interpret. I will, however, point out the absence of thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:25 PM
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Predictably, instead of a counter argument, this observation is being downvoted for pointing out the obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 06:09 PM
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Despite the esoteric references, it’s telling in a bored, unsurprised way how every ‘blue pill’ comment merely reacts to tone, instead of addressing the argument itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/25 05:30 PM
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I don’t disagree, the modern woman has fewer choices or opportunities to create material change LARPing as a man in the workforce than she ever did at the core of families and cultures, creating and nurturing life. But what should we do? Cut girls out of the workforce? Take away their bank accounts? repeal the 19th? And how? After playing victims for so long, I think any new deal for girls would play into the hands of hysterical feminists, desperate for control. Would take a huge social shift fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 11:51 AM
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Calling it a ‘ho phase’ is ‘fucboi’ apologia. I recommend not girl-coding your exploits. Go forth, conquer, and fuck like you’ll live your thirties on repeat, forever.
/r/seduction18/11/25 01:38 AM
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Perfect material explanation. It’s just so hard to imagine how we could sit an entire generation of girls down and get them to want to understand that they’ve been fooled into service by people who do not think of them (or us) as human.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 07:14 PM
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An obviously lazy post, but most embarrassingly it demonstrates a failure to build a coherent theory of mind for RP. Normie speak: straw man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:18 PM
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Girls have spent the last 15 years enjoying varying shades of almost total moral inscrutability. This has made them fragile to critical self-reflection (‘the political is personal, how dare you!’), and made everyone with skin in the game learn never to criticize girls in traceable ways. Because unlike criticism or outright hatred of men, the reverse can permanently ruin your life. To make it worse, the default social narrative (NYTimes, legacy publishing, Hollywood, Netflix etc) presents us with…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/25 05:07 PM
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This is a talking point commissioned by Buzzfeed in 2015.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/25 05:32 PM
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You’re right about resentment, it’s poison. However, most girls untick those boxes once hard times hit, and withhold proportional to how much you’re carrying. It can become a very real kind of sabotage, when it comes from feminism. And since girls don’t really experience accountability until later in life (if ever), they lack empathy for men, and narrativize their own shortcomings away (hence why men have ‘rage,’ but women have grievances). Meanwhile, men have to learn to navigate mood cycles an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 05:25 PM
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The fact that this will get downvoted is part of the proof. Reality doesn’t adjust to consensus. If you grew up any time after 2000, you didn’t choose feminism. It was already ambient. Baked into HR trainings, dating scripts, college seminars, prestige TV. Before you had language for it, it had language for you. And if you’re a man, the language is a prison you’re told to be grateful for. Feminism operates as a permission slip for living, not a coherent moral framework. It contradicts itself by …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/25 10:29 AM
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In that case there are no easy solutions. Perhaps seek abundance in another aspect of your life, like a craft, or straight wealth (cultural or literal capital). Little wins snowball into an interesting life, which makes for an interesting man, which attracts. In other words, if you can’t control your love life, you can find other loci of control, and leverage them. But it won’t be easy.
/r/seduction13/11/25 02:46 AM
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Cool yeah
/r/seduction12/11/25 09:38 AM
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The obstacle for men is not convincing girls that they have it easy but finding ways to stigmatize or override the narrative monopoly that is feminine by default that girls use as context for every scenario. Control, favoritism, and maintenance of the narratives surrounding relationships is what allows girls to posture in endless contradiction. Until that changes, the best men can hope for is independent-minded women who understand and value self-accountability, especially when the optics won’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 10:57 PM
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I’d consider leaving hockey, it sounds like it isn’t helping much. It’s also crucial to make free time outside of school. It’s easier now than it will be for the rest of your life, because jobs are usually far more draining and time-consuming. Nothing good happens without serious effort.
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:48 AM
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I might be wrong, but if hockey occupies a lot of your mental focus and takes more than it gives, you might want to try something else. It’s not your only route to success, maybe you have another talent or passion, and most of those guys won’t have much going for them after high school. Cliche, but true. Biggest issue is finding friends. They’ll keep your perceptions in check, boost self-confidence, and make you more stress-resistant. I don’t envy the high school experience today, esp for men. F…
/r/seduction09/11/25 03:28 AM
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If you haven’t already, try getting good at music or sports in a school organization. One music trip to Disney world and by the time I got back a girl had asked me out. If you really want to pull the emergency lever, you have to try things I’m not sure I’d encourage. Go to parties with friends. Be different and girls will get curious. Never had luck in asking girls out in high school, but if you become interesting, girls will become interested in you. All of this does not acct for the social med…
/r/seduction09/11/25 02:58 AM
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Once she’s engaged, start acting like (or revealing that) you’re disinterested, or underwhelmed. If she pulls away, get her engaged again, then selectively pull away. Act slightly more interested in topics that make her open up more, but nurture a sense of lack by withholding interest. But be careful, don’t look totally bored, she’ll read it as condescension and may even retaliate with anger or make a scene. Slow, thoughtful pulls. Like fishing. Good luck
/r/seduction08/11/25 11:36 PM
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Not to sound like a bot, but give yourself a break. You realized this and are showing a real metacognition of your boundaries. It’s a sign of low social engagement when someone info dumps their life, but now you know, which means next time, you can practice strategic withholding.
/r/seduction08/11/25 09:46 PM
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I agree. Every girl that hits the wall is replaced by another hitting legal age. The cycle may eventually correct as demographics continue to shift, but that could take decades. Resentment isn’t productive, and ultimately it reduces and softens a man. It also makes him more likely to hit his wall of having no career, no wealth, no fitness, no love or family or even time left before the grave.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:19 AM
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‘Manosphere’ inherently decenters and makes alien the idea of men living, learning, and acting for their self-interests like they did until, say, 2013. Very rapidly, fourth-wave feminism flooded social media, legacy institutions, media, education, government, and more. So when I hear ‘manosphere’ I think of an island in an ocean of grievances and girl-centric reasoning, where the few men still trying to live like their own dreams and goals are worthwhile are doing so with wildly varying but usua…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 01:08 AM
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Lady, I already told you what your problem is. Your post lacks any reasoning. You assert every point. No mention of culpability of girls, so you’re groundless. If you can’t understand that, maybe you’re right, and I am just too superior for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:53 PM
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There you go, asserting again. No need to deflect, you’ll get through this, life goes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:49 PM
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For clarity. You keep saying ‘emotionally immature men do x,’ but without the context of girls’ behavior, you’ve failed to show your work besides some dude you know and presumably dislike personally. Maybe you had a rough break up or unrealistic expectations. Maybe you did something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:43 PM
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I may not see value in debating an avalanche of groundless assertions, but I’m fine with naming the core issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:33 PM
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A great hermeneutic for arguments that mistake emotional pressure for inference is the non-ironic use of the second-person plural, “y’all.” Roughly 5% of this post approaches something true in extreme cases of genuinely isolated virgin incel pickup culture. But the rest I’m afraid is a tirade of groundless assertions, i.e. projection, pulled from hundreds of feminist hit pieces of the last decade. I think it’d be wise for OP to start by reflecting on issues girls are culpable for via feminism or…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:06 PM
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I emerged cesarean with a chauvinistic grin, snapping my baby fingers and pointing at the nurse’s asses. Screams could be heard echoing out of the maternity ward. Screams of elation, screams of fear, screams of pleasure in pain. Born with confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:59 PM
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If it's been seven (7!) years I'd say it's time to get back in the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 03:35 PM
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That sounds like a fair proposal if it’s clear that premarital sex isn’t off the table. I like tradition, but wouldn’t want to go too far back in time. I’m white and hate the idea of Europeans disappearing, even in our own continental homeland. Maybe, where there’s will, there are ways to keep us going. Which country?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:52 AM
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I’ve commissioned puff pieces like that. It’s a media narrative that makes girls feel good (and consume), but doesn’t hold when the spotlight fades.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:36 AM
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I think the burden of thought here is yours. Metaphors aren’t plug and play. The crucial part of it is that men know their sex appeal is gatekept by girls who are desired by other men — but those girls don’t understand that their sex appeal isn’t innate, and will vanish when men stop wanting them. And without sex appeal, men won’t give you marriage, bc that’s a decision where men finally have explicit leverage. Hence, the aging girl hits a wall, denial kicks in, hubris reigns, and instead of thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:21 AM
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The RP ‘wall’ metaphor implies impact, as in pre-existing motion, i.e. sex appeal. That’s something nearly every girl has at 20, and nearly all lose by 45, or earlier. For men who never experience sex appeal, the metaphor doesn’t apply. There’s no impact, no sudden stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:03 AM
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Banging, sure. Also, gross! But, locking down in marriage? I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:46 AM
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How does one get ‘born at the wall?’ Is this a Jewish thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:43 AM
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I don’t know about Europe, but in the U.S., marriage has few if any incentives for men beyond the symbolic ‘finish line.’ It makes men extremely helpless to anything the girl wants to take or do to him. Maybe marriage is harder to get bc men are learning how dangerous it can be. I recommend verbally affirming your willingness to sign a prenuptial to protect the husband’s rights and money, and ensure 50/50 custody in case of things breaking down after having kids. Encourage him to get a lawyer, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 10:41 AM
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Most will get old, hit the wall, and live in bitter denial that their own choices had anything to do with it. By 30-50, men their age (few, not most) will finally become desirable after building from the rock bottom of countless invisible consequences. And when they do, they won’t want girls their age, because when you can finally exercise control over outcomes, you tend to eliminate noise. Just don’t expect girls to own up to their hubris, even when everyone knows life has passed them by. Like …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:27 AM
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Noticing a pattern in this subreddit: Every potential flaw that girls might have (entitlement, inflated ego, self-deluded), even as a technical possibility to consider, is deflected, every time, into a flaw on the part of the man who recognizes it. There has to be a way to disincentivize this, but I don’t see how on Reddit. Simps and egotist girls abound, downvote what gives them ick, and call it justice. Disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/25 03:11 PM
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I’d rate myself a 7 or 8 visually, have nearly always been the most attractive in my friend groups, but I only get 1-2 matches/week on pics alone. I don’t think looks do much past your mid-twenties. Hoe Math talks about this. The highest-converting bio I ever used just said that I make six figures and have a triple-figure body count. Of course, it helps if these are true, but it was like rain in a desert with a match nearly every day, several of which DM’d first, with several potential dates per…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 08:18 PM
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You’re mistaking submission to desire for systemic helplessness. The problem isn’t that men feel lust. It’s that male lust has no cultural infrastructure, rituals, education, or insulation. Female status games are designed to exploit this vacuum. They will not change because they don’t understand what they’d get out of it. What can change is male prep: single-sex formal training, signal immunity, financial escape routes, conflict channels that don’t default to apology or coercion. The real issue…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:40 PM
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Like most feminists, the ex didn't really have beliefs. Her worldview embodied a passifying gesture, interpreting everything into DSA thoughtcrime, pathological empathy for out-groups, and current-thing outrage, such that her self-image never strayed from the herd, no matter how abundantly it imposed restrictions on her speech, feelings, or life. That's not why I dumped her, but 'navigating' this behavioral matrix isn't very hard. You just have to placate the algorithm, and dissociate. Which sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 03:43 PM
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Vincent Gallo was a supreme douchebag to Cristina Ricci and she paid him back by accompanying him to his family dinner and convincing his dad that instead of a washed-up ex-con Vinnie was ‘The King’ of his office in the CIA.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 12:39 AM
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You make it sound like the bulletproof option. But I appreciate it, girl. I’ll check it out .. I’ve never met one who submitted unwillingly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:36 PM
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And here I thought I’d survey sentiment.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:22 AM
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Alas, the apps don’t reward gaiety. In person, small talk has tension, subtext, the chance to improvise. Online, it loops into posture. Chan feels like a lost type. I can’t picture a girl now sinking into a Moon Pix hole, undone by her own softness. I wonder where that kind of femininity went. I’d rather not outsource my reasons for being to God or a campus meetup. Why not make our own instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 01:07 AM
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I know I sound famous but I promise I’m not
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 10:46 PM
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You sound like Vincent Gallo if he were a poster, and I mean that as a compliment. I’ve lived abroad before, and the contrast really opened my eyes when I came back to the states in 2014. As for renewing my passport, it’ll be a year or two before that can happen, bc I have one last thing to do before I bounce. Something most girls will hate, so a few can enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:24 PM
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Notice how my syntax was just repeated, here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 09:15 PM
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To clarify, I originally marked this as 'Debate' or 'Discussion' (I don't remember which), but the moderator changed it to 'Question for Women'. Maybe that was intentional, to nullify the possibility of debate. And lastly, I don't think empathy is something any man should seek. You fix it, or drown.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:55 PM
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So far, they pay me to talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:37 PM
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Sovereign men don't cater to red flags.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:36 PM
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In my view, they don't really control anything. But they think they do, and that is out of my control.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:32 PM
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You can say whatever you want. If men don't lead girls, then they'll be led (and coldly controlled) by Corporate America. And, save for a few at the top, that guarantees a grim, lonely end. We don't live in the best of all possible worlds, and I think it's really manipulated my generation for the worse. So I'll likely date younger girls in the future.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:30 PM
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Take a step back. The relationship girls used to have with men is one nearly all of them now collectively share, in an extremely alienating way, with the state. And today, the state is Corporate America. They'll never be a partner, unless you get to the very top, which is very, very isolating. And in the end they dump everyone, because there's no family, and no love lost or credit roll. Just a cut. As for redpill, remember it's a popular metaphor for what in philosophy is called logos, or the tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:22 PM
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With my rate of growth, I'm pretty sure my 40s will be my golden years. I probably won't date girls my age anymore. Possibly not Americans, either. The satisfying ex was on a visa from Eastern Europe, so I might look into that. While I'd prefer an American, the gender stuff has made it feel like they've lived in a totally different culture for the last decade, so compatibility is uncertain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 08:07 PM
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I honestly wouldn't know where to begin. And I'd prefer not to get into debates about anecdotes. But considering "The Great Feminization" (great recent article, though many won't read bc of the venue), the ubiquity of feminine modes of conflict evaluates every statement or action under prevailing narrative orthodoxies, or the worldviews promoted by legacy media. If it doesn't complement those worldviews, the moral compass points to popular antagonisms (things we're told are bad, like maleness, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 07:58 PM
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I think part of what I’m saying is it seems to be reaching levels of robotic that shouldn’t be possible. I can tell when I fumble or scare a girl away, but now even the girls with impromptu lectures have dropped off. Which is good, in a way, maybe it’s a sign that attitudes are changing. On power: It’s ever-present, and acting otherwise is ill-advised. Keep in mind I’m talking about major cities, where everyone has an agenda.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:31 PM
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You have a point on baggage. Most people just aren’t that interesting, which is fine. Because if everyone’s special, no one is. On dumping a feminist: Half CTA, half curiosity. I think I’ve only dated one girl in the last decade who wasn’t a feminist. And she was the most satisfying until the very end. Pros and cons for both but I wonder what happens when men just move on from the culture war stuff, with or without one group of girls. On hostility: Yeah, I don’t recommend men saying ‘non-hostile…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:14 PM
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On being old(er): Yeah, w/o $$$ and micro-celebrity most late-thirties men are going to be past their party animal days, maybe more cynical, and hopefully less naive. I’m easily bored by behaviors that 15 years ago felt magical (however, I think social media has flattened and disincentivized genuine Chan-Marshall femininity, so it’s a feedback loop). On control: You got me. It’s simply my position from experience that relationships are far better when men lead. Otherwise you end up narrativized …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/25 04:05 PM
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