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I'm considering using shoe lifts or maybe even some growth hormones. Have you considered just manning the fuck up? 5'10 is fine.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 10:05 AM
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gotta work off the weekend parties
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 03:21 AM
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If she has her way first she's going after TRP. That's a little dramatic. I think she'd go after all the ones about dead people and racism and shit like fat people hate. We're definitely up there, but we're not nearly the first stop.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 12:55 PM
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If she's as good looking as he claims, I very much doubt that.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 10:12 PM
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10/10 eye fucking you and you didn't approach because it wasn't worth your time? Sorry, then she either wasn't a 10/10 or you're not valuing your time correctly. Sounds like a missed opportunity to me.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/15 12:17 PM
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"I'm not arguing that violence is alpha. It's just that SOMETIMES violence isn't alpha, it depends on who you're being violent towards and why you're being violent towards them! It's not your actions that dictate whether or not being violent is alpha, it's how you feel about those actions!" Except for the struck out part, you're reading my post exactly as intended. Being in control via threat of violence is not always alpha. Threatening women physically is not alpha; it's a massive loss of frame…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/15 01:37 AM
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Sounds like your "would bang" is 4+ and your "would not bang" is 1-3!
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 10:35 PM
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The two of us have an argument. One beats up the other, and as result, they do what the winner says. Which one is alpha, which is beta? If we were comparable men before, I'd agree that winning a fight against you (for example) makes me the Alpha in that situation. But if you're scrawny and I'm built, or if I have a 100 pound advantage on you, I don't think me failing to persuade you via words and then pummeling you is Alpha. Also, looking at /u/SirNemesis' reply doesn't make me change my stance:…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 10:31 PM
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Classic blue pill move: no defense against a point being made, so attack the speaker. Good debating, sir.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 10:03 PM
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Domestic abuse is very much alpha. No offense man, but you're pretty illiterate if that's what you think. Hitting women is not Alpha. Period. There's no reason to ever hit a woman unless she's literally about to cause you serious physical harm and then it's not about gender; it's about self-preservation. Domestic abuse is NEVER okay and TRP doesn't say otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:21 PM
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I can't tell if you're trolling. It's literally Red Pill 101. Taken straight from TRP's glossary: Frame - The context in which something is perceived. Maintaining frame is often cited as the most important aspect of Alpha behavior. I mean this next statement genuinely and am not trying to be rude: Why are you debating Red Pill concepts that you clearly don't understand?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:16 PM
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Violence and domestic abuse aren't the same thing. I'll just parrot my reply below: What does the violence between men have to do with beating your wife? Does every man in the armed forces beat their wife? There's a difference between "using force when necessary" and hitting a woman, which is never necessary. Unless she's trying to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:13 PM
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What does the violence between men have to do with beating your wife? Does every man in the armed forces beat their wife? There's a difference between "using force when necessary" and hitting a woman, which is never necessary. Unless she's trying to kill you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 09:13 PM
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Who cares? 'Alpha' is defined in some context, and that context is no longer the stone age. Why would the definition of 'Alpha' thousands of years ago have any bearing on the conversation of what it means today?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 07:28 PM
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RP is all about maintaining frame, keeping your composure, having self control. ...that is pretty much the opposite of resorting to violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 07:27 PM
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^ this is the right response. It's not "alpha" to hit anyone unless its legit in self-defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/15 07:26 PM
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I feel like you wrote this specifically for /u/DarkisKnight.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 06:39 PM
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I just read that reply before reading this. Good call; I didn't realize they were by the same person. Also, note how self-contradicting that reply is: Yeah I feel bad. Several women have told me I've given them the best orgasms I don't feel bad really. I think that my own sexual strategy is augmented by the state of things in our culture today. I'm sort of this island of awareness in a sea of illusion that everyone has bought into. Yeah I feel bad, but not because of anything I've done. I wish t…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 04:56 PM
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Another Gladwell reader checking in. His stuff is very entertaining, if nothing else.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 03:43 PM
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He's advocating masturbation; that's what his entire post is.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 01:24 PM
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OP claims to be Red Pill, spends most of his "contribution" seeking validation from others via humblebrags. socially ept *apt The world literally and figuratively is your oyster. I don't think you know what the word 'literally' means. Remember: if you claim to be super smart, people will pay extra attention to things that might make you look dumb.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 01:23 PM
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Good call and good luck.
/r/askTRP06/05/15 01:08 AM
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...? I'm not insulting you. Where was the insult?
/r/askTRP05/05/15 10:36 PM
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she obviously doesn't like you if she's known you for a long time and is rejecting your offers for dates. she probably just wanted the D and figured getting it from someone she "knows" is better than some rando.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 05:52 PM
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Awesome, man. Let's stay in touch!
/r/askTRP05/05/15 05:32 PM
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I'm traveling to the very far East soon for a 4 year job and will have some time to travel. If I wanted to hang with an RP guy and check out Chennai, would you be open to visitors in general? Just asking.
/r/askTRP05/05/15 04:48 PM
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Unsure if sarcastic or illiterate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 02:53 PM
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A significant other should provide love, caring, respect, and sex, and those things are all of fairly equal importance. The thing is, you can get all but the last one from other places. I have plenty of male friends who I care for and respect and who care for and respect me. Love can be found in family and very close friends (I love my best friend like a sister). That last one though...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 02:51 PM
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Agreed. I hate to see it in such harsh terms, but this is the truth. My best friend also happens to be a [married] woman. She's a great friend, and I love her like a sister. We have mutual respect, can talk about private issues, etc. I'm good friends with her husband as well, and he's well aware that there's absolutely 0 intimacy on any level between us; she's literally like my sister, who I would never treat like a girlfriend. /u/nomdplume has the right of it. What's the one thing you can't get…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 02:50 PM
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Your first picture does not pass the boner test for me. That's why she's not a 9/10; because less men find her attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/15 02:46 PM
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I'd just like to point out this quote from 100,000 (top of sidebar): I suspect (and I’m sure there are some blue pillers who will have a hay-day with this) that the people who have found their way here were smarter than average, but severely mislead. I say that because I truly believe it takes an uncommon level of intelligence to really look inside and realize that the source of a problem may lie within. It’s something that I consider daily, and I wonder if most people I’ve met will ever conside…
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:14 PM
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Shoots herself in the head = next. You know society is in decline when you have to explicitly say shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 05:11 PM
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Agree. You never know if she has a hot friend and will turn to her and say "I met OP today and he was super cool. Let me set you guys up!"
/r/askTRP04/05/15 04:59 PM
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Old Buddhist proverb: Before enlightenment: chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment: chop wood and carry water. Red Pill man knows he needs to function within society (in most cases) and fulfills his responsibilities accordingly. Red Pill man also doesn't take society's constructs as granted, thinks about shit before he does it, and isn't afraid to say no to social pressures if they don't suit him (get gf, marry, house, 2.5 children, minivan, ...). He sacks up as necessary. And never forg…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 04:49 PM
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no workouts on weekdays? not enough lifting are these 20-30 minute workouts lifting? if not, why whats the deal with jogging? go lift 1 hour of meditation is pretty big. scale it back to 20 min. replace the rest with lifting. Make your monastery the Iron Monastery. Did I mention lifting, already?
/r/askTRP01/05/15 04:45 PM
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hit me up with that tl;dr or indent your paragraphs, bruh
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:48 PM
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Oh. Welp. I must've heard that quote at some point and internalized it. Too bad I'm quoting a chick, amirite?!
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:47 PM
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Their interests, attitudes, behaviors are all very shallow and egocentric. it's always just turned into me talking and them looking for any way to change the topic back to more important things like parties, clubs, and pop culture. I find there are 3 levels of conversation and, accordingly, 3 types of friends you can have (in that regard): Level 0 - Talking about people Level 1 - Talking about events Level 2 - Talking about ideas Those deep conversations you're having about philosophy and outer …
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:24 PM
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There was a great reply to a post on r/relationships that directly answers your question. The question was: Women of reddit, what baffles you the most? and the specific thing that 17x gold reply to is (in essence): Why are men so bad at receiving compliments? To expand and answer your question directly: Why do we, as humanity as a whole, have so little sympathy for males who just don't cut it in the dating and sex market? Because men must earn love, like they must earn everything else. There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/15 12:28 PM
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I've seen it. Bars by me do 25 cent wings all the time.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 10:30 AM
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Sounds like women make 72 cents for every dollar a man makes but work 50% of the time. I demand a raise.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:14 AM
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It's funny reading this right after reading the Dad Bod article. You can't negotiate attraction. No woman goes after a guy with the dad bod; she settles for him when she realizes Chad T. Cock wants nothing to do with her.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:10 AM
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if guys buy into that then we are in real trouble. Nah. If guys buy into it, we'll just be even more ahead of the game. You can't turn off a womyn's animal brain and no matter what she says she likes, she likes Chad and the abs that come with him, right on her face.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 02:06 AM
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Oh, I see. I didn't realize the ads were just in London. Yeah, I'd love to see more of their ads. I'm gonna buy a t-shirt from them and my protein from them for sure.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 05:55 PM
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There was an update. He's filing for divorce.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:07 PM
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And then the notary will have legal authority to claim that the notarization happened under duress and that they really didn't want to notarize and that yes shouldn't always mean yes.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:21 PM
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Serious question: is there anything stopping them from doing this? Why not just keep making crazy ads that attract a lot of attention from outraged fatties (who aren't their customers anyway)? Seems like it was a killer move.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:19 PM
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Great post and definitely true. I'd like to add a little bit of clarity and drive the point home. Instead of free apps, Johnny should've made a regular happy hour on weekdays; half off beers and mixed drinks, for example. It gets people into his bar earlier, just like the apps, but now people are buying the drinks. People who've had a few drinks in them are more likely to buy more drinks / buy a round. Johnny's goal was to sell more drinks, so he should've incentivized people to buy drinks, not …
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 03:14 PM
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unrealistic image of the bronzed model Unrealistic? A real woman attained that image in reality. I see women like that at my gym regularly. If multiple real human females can attain that physique, then it is not unrealistic.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 02:14 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 01:01 AM
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Yeah, I'm pretty sure relationships have been and will be pretty mainstream forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/15 01:01 AM
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A psychologist would disagree. How you feel is important. If the people around you make you feel bad, then you should associate with other people. The thing is, it's alright for psychologists to disagree. A professional opinion is still just an opinion. Your feelings are as important as you let them be. I can't tell you how many times I've had bad feelings about someone, waited and calmed down, then made a rational decision and was glad I didn't listen to my feelings. Yeah, because when you love…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 09:18 PM
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I think this is where we will have to agree to disagree, because this part is pretty laughable to me. This may be a gray area, but even this can be defined as emotional/psychological abuse. When you intentionally pull away, it pulls the women in. So now someone other than me gets to dictate what I do with my time and attention? Especially a someone who isn't treating me the way I want to be treated? No. Emotional abuse is constantly belittling. Psychological abuse is making them feel a way that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 07:11 PM
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Ah. Right play by you then. Next!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 06:38 PM
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Her: You should come over. We can pretend to already know each other (for my girls). Were 'her girls' her children or her female friends? If they're the former, you made the right call. If they're the latter, you blew an easy in.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:46 PM
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First off, congratulations on being done with college. Since you've found TRP, it'll only get better from here. Yes, the age spread is wider outside of college (duh) A lot of girls are freshly graduating from college too (duh) Believe it or not, you're not going to want to date college girls any more (what?!) Let's talk about that last one. You will: Have a job, which means you'll have more money and less time Develop interests (working on yourself, ...) Have less of a tolerance for petty bullsh…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 05:42 PM
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Huh. That's pretty interesting and not how I've used dread game at all in the past. I definitely can't argue with anything you just said if that's the way it's really intended. I'd just like to point out the next sentence in that same definition: In its original meaning, jealousy is distinct from envy, though the two terms have popularly become synonymous in the English language, with jealousy now also taking on the definition originally used for envy alone. This is how I've been (apparently inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 05:17 PM
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Dread Game - Purposefully inciting jealousy in an LTR by openly getting attention from other women. Soft Dread is similar, but less open. With Soft Dread, the attention doesn't even need to be real. Creating the possibility for female attention is enough to get the hamster going. (If you develop a great body, she knows that other women will find that attractive without having to actually see other women displaying interest.) The purpose of using Dread is to get the target (wife, girlfriend, plat…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 04:46 PM
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Only if you interpret it literally, meaning that girls should accept you exactly as you are and that all you need to do is to "be yourself", e.g you don't actually need to do anything, just passively and patiently wait until "the one" arrives. Which is shit advice. This is exactly the point. If you have a unique interpretation of shitty advice, that's fine. That doesn't make the actual advice any less shitty; you're just taking advice differently than it's intended. The advice of just be yoursel…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 04:33 PM
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This is a really great example. I have my own opinions on the matter (as a Red Pill man) but you're completely right when it comes down to the words TRP uses. If you want my opinion, I'm happy to take this conversation further. If not, that's cool too. Either way, great answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 03:32 PM
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I absolutely agree with the sentiment of your post and I'd be happy to debate/discuss actual logical morality and ethics. They're going to use moral/ethical arguments that stem from logic. Can you give me an example or two of such an argument? Specifically, what logically-based moral issues does TBP have with TRP? Not that something "feels manipulative", but something that is actually detrimental in application when used correctly according to TRP. (Genuinely interested)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 03:10 PM
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But that's immoral, partially because it's illogical. If fairness and equitability are synonyms, the example you used is a formal fallacy. I agree completely. I am trying (and maybe failing?) to say that some people claim that it is moral and fair that the man pay for dinners. I agree that it is not the case, but many women have given me this advice: The man pays for the dates. It's as simple as that. It's the right thing to do. Where (in my opinion) "right" can be interpreted as "moral", "fair"…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 03:00 PM
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/u/benzamtrp did a good job outlining the disconnects between a woman's advice of just be yourself and a mans desire to just better yourself. I would like to focus more on what woman's just be yourself implies at a slightly higher level: Often, the "Be Yourself" advice is something that women tell men when they're asked about what men should do in order to be successful with women There's actually a fine nuance here that you missed. In my experience, "Just be yourself" is something that women te…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:56 PM
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Remember: past doesn't matter, which is why it's so important to hide it in the first place! /hamster If 80 is the number she gave, I wonder what the real number was.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/15 02:46 PM
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I disagree that biology supports TRP in any way, but other than that you're right. I didn't mean to imply that biology does support TRP. I tried to word it to show that biology supports evolution (not creationism). Morals are derived from logic. They are not mutually exclusive. While I agree with this ideal, this is clearly not always the case in practice. Can we at least agree that some people claim they are taking the moral high ground while making an illogical claim? For example, "it's fair t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 02:41 PM
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Sure, I definitely agree if we're using the term mutually exclusive correctly. I find that when most people say "those things aren't mutually exclusive" what they usually mean is "those things aren't exclusive". I'm with you 100%, but maintain that we should talk about the correctness of something and its offensiveness mutually exclusively (as in, they are always separate conversations, even when both occur).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 02:36 PM
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I never see people using this in the context of supporting their SO Exactly. You do see a lot of women using it on the men in their lives though, and men deciding to buy into it and stay, even though they are being a colossal bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:29 PM
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I don't believe any of these things. Does that make me Red Pill? No, but it certainly DOES make you not very blue pill. I'm not saying there's no happy medium out there, I'm simply stating what I think blue pillers believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:28 PM
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I mean, the two aren't mutually exclusive... They are. Calling something wrong and offensive are completely separate statements that can be, should be, and are made exclusively separate from each other. Something can be wrong AND offensive (yes, this means they're not mutually exclusive; but they are completely separate qualities) Something can be wrong AND NOT offensive Something can be correct AND offensive Something can be correct AND NOT offensive If all four of these statements are true, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:25 PM
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So no one can be objectively right or wrong on many of these topics. I think this is what makes it different than the being a holocaust denier or a creationist, right? We have hard evidence of the former (holocaust happened) and lots of science backing up the latter (modern biology, etc.). I agree TRP doesn't have this level of evidence behind it, but I hope you can see that /u/polyneophite 's statement of: I have no desire to debate because it does feel exactly like arguing with holocaust denie…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:21 PM
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yeah! it's so green and awesome and greeeeeeeen! hooray mods!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:15 PM
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Also, don't mods usually have a [M] next to their name when speaking officially and not have that when they're just posting/replying?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:06 PM
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There are people who think that way ? I would argue that the majority of contemporary western men believe more than 50% of this list, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:02 PM
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please clarify edit - by 'clarify' I mean take 3 or so bullets and explain why they're wrong edit 2 - downvotes for asking for clarification on a pretty vague statement. classy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:01 PM
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Here are some concrete examples (from experience) of blue pill beliefs: It's okay for her to have a height requirement but not for me to have a weight requirement It's okay for a girlfriend to withhold intimacy from me constantly; it's HER body (not OUR relationship) It's my job to be perfect in all relationships all the time and putting up with "her bad days" is part of that (e.g. supports the Marilyn Monroe quote: "If you can't handle me at my worst, you don't deserve me at my best") Asks her …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:54 PM
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sigh I understand this. I get it. You're talking about the population of the study. 515. Point nailed. I'm not disagreeing with you. I'm talking specifically about the question the OP posed as a result of the study; what do the genders of the people you just assigned a 1 to say about men in general [the fact that you assigned 7x more 1's to females than males]? The population of this question is all the people assigned 1s. 3% of the males, 21% of the females; 7x more females than males were assi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 01:01 AM
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I think this is the difference between people who do math for a living and people who care about the vocabulary surrounding math on an internet forum. You're absolutely right. The population of the study was 515. This isn't the point I meant to get into a big debate about. My point was to answer the question posed by the OP: what does the 7x more likeliness of a man leaving a woman (than a woman leaving a man) who is terminally ill say about men in general? Again, you're 100% correct in saying t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/15 12:57 AM
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They're awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 09:59 PM
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So yeah, first off, if reddit had a friend button, I'd click it. I don't agree with a lot of your subjective stuff (our experiences clearly differ) but it's immediately clear that you're not the average blue piller or ex-TRPer, in that you've read a shit ton of the material and come to your own conclusions, instead of taking quotes out of context and parroting arguments about misogyny. I think your views are totally legit and if rejecting TRP is better for you, then that's obviously what you sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 07:24 PM
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Dividing two numbers isn't that hard. 21/3 = 7. That's how they got the 7x in the original study. I'm not a genius, but the math checks out to me. The 21 and the 3 are both the incidence rates of separation between the genders. FEMALES DUMPED / MALES DUMPED. It's a ratio and neither number in the ratio involves NON-SEPARATED people. For what it's worth (which is nothing, because this is the internet), I have an extensive background in statistics. It's just not needed for this discussion. No matt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 06:37 PM
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The study already did this when they said: But the pattern changed when the researchers looked at the patient-divorce breakdown by sex. When the man became ill, only 3 percent experienced the end of a marriage. But among women, about 21 percent ended up separated or divorced. That answer was taken by, I assume, what you're saying. That's not the question I'm addressing. Let's say there are 100 men in the study and 100 women (doesn't have to be even, just makes the rest of the math go easy). 3 me…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 06:31 PM
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However, you assume that most people are capable of differentiating the good from the garbage I don't assume this. TRP works for me because I am able to do this. People slam TRP because they judge it as people who can't do this, based on reading garbage and claiming it's what TRP thinks is good. For example, did you know that TRP strongly advocates meditation? How many men in the anger phase do you think meditate daily? The problem with the angry stuff and the bullshit going unchallenged is that…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:43 PM
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You wouldn't multiply it by the rate of incidence, unless you were performing some kind of test on that population specifically. I am. I'm only looking at the number of people who got divorced, am I not? You can look at: (MEN SEPARATED / ALL SEPARATED) vs (WOMEN SEPARATED / ALL SEPARATED) and glean information. If you want to ask the question given that a couple separated, what's the probability the man left the women you only need the 62 couples to do that. There isn't a big difference between …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:16 PM
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You could've just looked at: (MEN DIVORCED / ALL DIVORCED) vs (WOMEN DIVORCED / ALL DIVORCED)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 05:11 PM
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Anything resembling a viewpoint that does not agree with the sidebar gets you labeled as a concern troll or feminist, and you get banned pretty quickly. This isn't true. The sidebar is the salad bar. It offers advice on a wide variety of topics; self improvement, fitness, dating, LTRs, etc. Sure, it doesn't take multiple views and has one stance on an individual topic, but that stance has been vetted and decided on as 'what is red pill'. If you like it, great. Use/modify it. If you don't like it…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 03:16 PM
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Sweet Jesus. 62 is not the sample size. A sample is representative portion of a population. 515 is the population. Read the OP. His statement is only about the couples who end up separating. So you can eliminate the couples that don't separate. Then, out of the ones that DO separate, we look at the fact that 7x more often, women are left than men. The population of the problem becomes the 62 couples that separated and the question is who initiated the separation. edit - Jesus Christ people, I do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 03:05 PM
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a fact would be one that showed that link (i.e. if this study showed the average age of divorce was in the elderly years). The study couldn't possibly control for age with a population size of 62, because each group would be even more statistically insignificant than the population of this study. To quote your OP: what does this say about men? It says nothing. You can't make a sweeping generalization about half the worlds population based on 62 couples in a very specific hardship with zero confo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:56 PM
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based on what? Facts. edit - I realize that, however stupid, the argument can be made that the stats in the UK aren't the same as the USA. Here's a similar source from the US CDC. The first link is to a great PDF that breaks things down by demographics. On page 32, you'll find that cancer incidence GREATLY increases (more than triples) in the 45-64 age range and stays high thereafter. tl;dr - you're much, much more likely to get cancer when you're elderly. It's a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:46 PM
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what the hell is it girls are out there doing these days on dates? It always comes off like millions of bored little girls are sitting mutely at dinner tables or demanding to be entertained and amused. The thing is [again, caveat of me being mid-20s], this is completely how it is. Seriously, 80%+ of the girls I meet are exactly what you just said, and the other 20%- do a couple of those bullets at most. Another confounding factor may be that I'm using online dating, so the girls might be a littl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:40 PM
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515 patients who received diagnoses of brain tumors or multiple sclerosis from 2001 through 2006. Over all, about 12 percent of the patients in the study ended up separated or divorced, a rate that was similar to that found in the general American population during that time period. 515 * 0.12 = 62 (rounding up) over FIVE YEARS. Hardly a meaningful sample size population to talk about. It is not known whether the illness prompted the breakup or whether the couples in the study who divorced were …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:33 PM
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TRP offers a mindset about the world and a persona which you are supposed to adopt. Right. It offers one. Here's a quote from 'The Basics Explained, and Our Direction for 2014': What is The Red Pill? A loose and highly debated collection of frameworks that describe sexual dynamics between men and women. In short, it is purely information. What each person decides to do with this information is up to them. Remember, sexual strategy is amoral. You decide what you want to do and how you want to go …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:19 PM
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In my honest opinion, if TRP became mainstream (like feminism is right now), I think it would be equally bad. I really believe the following statements: Modern feminism attempts to 'level the social playing field' for women, but does this by knocking down men. The Red Pill seeks to behave optimally within a feminist society, attempting to 'restore order to the social playing field' by empowering men by taking feminist-drawn power away from women. The problem with both "philosophies" (feminism, T…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 01:01 PM
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care to... point them out anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 12:48 PM
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TRP is rigid ideology It's very clear you've never read TRP seriously, because this can't be further from the truth. TRP literally says "take what's useful, discard what is not, and add what is specifically you're own". Bruce Lee said it and it's good advice in general and for TRP specifically. Internalizing TRP is simply about understanding the behaviors of the people around you and acting accordingly. That's it. Based on your post, it's easy to understand that you're writing before reading, ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 12:43 PM
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Mind if I ask where you live? USA? I've lived in MA and NJ and have never, ever met a girl like you described. The only caveat I can think of is that I'm only 4 years out of college and this kind of mindset takes time to internalize and cultivate. In our 20s at least, I think you're overestimating the amount of effort girls put into these kinds of things, and how many girls do it. Edit - I'm not saying men at this age are perfect or even looking for an LTR, so it could totally be a chicken and e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 11:20 AM
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You fucking nailed it. I agree there's no surefire way, but if you do these things, then any guy who legitimately wants a relationship would be an idiot to pass you up. edit - I can't speak for every man, but if I met a girl who did these things, it would make me want to improve myself as well. I'd try to match her cooking skills (either by learning to cook as well, or by bringing something similar to the table like learning about wine), I'd dress sharper around her, return interest in some of h…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 03:19 AM
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My do stuff is more like do interesting stuff. I'm blown away by the level of advice you're dispensing, and for free! Being a confidence dispenser isn't being nice, acting nice to get sex isn't nice. [...] being a sycophant isn't being nice, its being manipulative. Can you describe 'being nice' for me? You've clearly identified that what I thought was 'nice' before TRP wasn't, and I agree. I'm curious what you think 'being nice' means. I hope you're as specific as you were with your other advice…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 02:41 AM
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I only know a hand ful of women that are like how TRP describes women. Then you must only know a handful of women. OK first off being nice is prerequisite for being a decent human deal with it. It most certainly is not. I no longer give my respect out for free, or give complements just for the sake of complements right off the bat. And you know what happened? People began stepping up to earn my respect and taking my complements more seriously, because these things weren't given out like candy. O…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/15 02:24 AM
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Ah, sorry - I wasn't trying to correct you. Your comment just seemed like the right place to reply with my thinking about unconditional love between people and pets and why it doesn't extend to [the much more complicated case of] humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 10:01 PM
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oh shit, bots triggering bots. the end is nigh!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 09:46 PM
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The love doesn't need to go both ways (i.e. the dog doesn't need to love me back). That's part of the whole unconditional thing. When it comes to people, I don't believe it's possible. I think some people have incredibly high thresholds for love, but even those can crack. In my opinion, there is no human love closer to 'unconditional' than a mother's love for a first son. There's a lot of reasons for that, but the obvious ones are the pains of birth and the first heart-aches associated with him …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 09:40 PM
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Unconditional love definitely exists. I will always love my dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 09:30 PM
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The problem of sleeping with every woman with BPD? yep i will let RP solve the problem all day long. ...so what you're saying is you don't really know what you're talking about. Most women we talk about are completely normal, regular, nice girls. TRP is about understanding how social dynamics really work (opposed to how people say they should work) and using that knowledge instead of the platitudes we've been spoon-fed through disney moves and TV. Have you looked at the state on men lately? No? …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:20 PM
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:( thanks. fixing now.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:19 PM
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you must have never heard of MGTOW then
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:13 PM
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femininity IS empowering though this has no relevance to what you were asking
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:12 PM
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Yeah but just because you're not in a long term relationship, doesn't mean you're not getting the benefits from friendship and intimacy. And as far as LTRs correlating to lower mortality, you don't live forever anyway; I'd much rather chase my dreams than chase women. I've done a lot of awesome things so far and have a great career, and that is DIRECTLY a result of taking women off the pedestal and stop making them the number one priority (instead focusing on myself and the other things I want).…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 06:09 PM
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so we agree that only a select minority of men can be with a 'traditional' woman I think only a select minority even figure out if that's something they want. Most [Western] men just go through the motions society tells them to go through: go to college, find a girl, eventually move in with her and marry her based on length of the relationship, get a house, have kids, consume consume consume. Few men even ask "...is this what I really want?"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 05:07 PM
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so you are arguing that career and money are more important than long term relationships as far as happiness? Actually, deep in my heart, long before I even found TRP, I thought (and still think) this is true. Finding true meaning and achieving long term happiness comes from the self, not from being with someone else. Leaving a positive mark on humanity, helping others, building useful things, moving science/social progress forward, these things make me happy. Would I love to share that with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 04:55 PM
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as an MRA my biggest issues with guy is getting them to see where they vulnerable. many will call me fag or a loser for doing so even though it empirically true. I'd be interested in hearing more about this. It more like men are in denial that they are playing a rigged game. I think you're wrong here. A lot of men (e.g. most men who find TRP) simply don't know they're playing a rigged game. They thought it was fair (or even rigged only by men!) only to "take the red pill" and "wake up" to this f…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 04:19 PM
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Third data point here to back you up. Here's the so crazy weird! part: Now that I feel I understand how women work, I take the appropriate actions to make sure they're happy and satisfied. When I was a beta orbiter, I thought I was doing what makes them happy/satisfied; all TRP taught me was that what I was doing was wrong and here's how to fix it. Done and done.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 04:07 PM
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expect people to have moral fortitude Please clearly define what you mean by moral fortitude? not resort to manipulative tactics The irony of you posting this with the words 'Feminist Male' in your flair is palpable. You do realize that modern feminism is one of the most manipulative forces behind current Western cultures, right? Don't like the message? Attack the speaker Decides who is/isn't worthy of respect instead of telling people to earn it Race to the bottom / victim cards worth more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:56 PM
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I miss the notion of true, balanced, mutual love. It was a major driving force in my life that I thought was the ultimate reward / validation for all my hard work (academic, work on myself, ...). TRP showed me that I worked on myself to be the other half to a partner I was searching for (e.g. "what would the person I want to be with want ME to be?") instead of working for myself. I miss the selflessness I used to attribute to bettering myself, but the outcome hasn't changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:46 PM
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The game is rigged, and men are doing half the rigging. ...if both parties playing do half the rigging, the game isn't really rigged now, is it? Keep in mind men have been giving away sex for free for ages, maybe it time for men to start assessing a toll. I don't suppose the differences in male and female biology mean anything to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:40 PM
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I wrote the letter for me, not her. I think this is the important part. There's nothing wrong with getting your feelings out on paper. It's clear based on your letter that you should get a divorce and move on. It shouldn't matter to you whether or not she even reads these words. Keep working on yourself and improving; the rest of the world is yours for the taking. Leave your (hopefully soon to be ex-)wife in the dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/15 03:23 PM
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I feel like this is a good use of our numbers.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:08 PM
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Wow. If these are real, I'm buying their product. Way to make no compromises and call things like you see them.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 01:07 PM
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Well, they also own Ben & Jerry's, Klondike, Popcicle, Hellmann's Mayo, and Country Crock. So... holy shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/15 12:58 PM
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Wow. Good on Protein World for sticking to their ad. The worst is when a company puts out a good message and buckles under the weight of a few SJWs.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 10:15 AM
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Sack up, cupcakes. You were born a man I know we have no motto, but if we ever did, god damn should this be it. Great post.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/15 12:31 PM
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"the catch" doesn't apply to plates? I just mean good job passing her ASD and whatever LMR and plating her.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 06:03 PM
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The Beta Male clings to codes. When I use the word “code,” I mean it in the broadest possible sense. HTML code is just one of many types of code that Betas cling to. ...what. Please tell me this is just a bad joke.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 05:43 PM
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Good FR except for the very end. The thing killing her bf is the distance, not your status. Girls like status and looks for two different reasons (AF vs BB). Keep working on yourself and good job with the catch.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 03:15 PM
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Holy shit your post hits home so hard for me. I don't know how I didn't make this connection about certain Facebook friends I have, but it's completely obvious after reading it. Wow.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:52 PM
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If you get good grades, get a good education or trade and dedicate yourself, you will be successful. If you're successful women will want to be with you. You're literally telling people to be beta bux.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:41 PM
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Don't waste time on women because at your stage of life, girls are not worth the hassle. Remember, these are guys in their TEENS Right, and what everyone is telling you (and rightfully so) is that girls are never going to be MORE worth the hassle than in high school for all of the reasons mentioned. Ignoring women in high school and college to "work on yourself" is blue pill advice. There's no reason you can't do it all. Banging chicks in high school (when you're in high school) and college is a…
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:40 PM
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Completely untrue. Your GPA matters for good schools in hard sciences.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:35 PM
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Wow, good answer. I was sure there was a happy medium between the posted blue pill answers and actually testing to see if the offer is legit. I think you nailed it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:24 PM
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Are you saying that in support of social skills or academics? Good grades get you into good schools which is where the early networking happens.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 02:15 PM
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Make sure to get a good amount of protein to help with the soreness. Don't quit.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:39 AM
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You'll get there. There's a girl at my gym who I think is drop dead gorgeous. Lately, I occasionally catch her flat out staring at me. When I look at her, she maintains eye contact. If I smile, she smiles. Only reason I don't go up to her is because I'm relocating for work very soon. Keep lifting.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:38 AM
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Before enlightenment: chop wood and carry water. After enlightenment: chop wood and carry water. Old Buddhist saying, right in line with OP.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 10:31 AM
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Yeah, keep doing what you're doing, man. This happened to me too, and doing everything you mentioned in the OP is exactly what you should be doing. It definitely gets better over time and keeping your self busy, productive, and moving forward helps it go by faster. Work on you for you.
/r/askTRP22/04/15 07:38 PM
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This is another case of using red pill ideas (improve yourself, increase your social reaches, ...) in a blue pill context (women are the prize). The friend zone is never a gift.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 04:46 PM
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Didn't you know? Taking control of your life, increasing your SMV, and changing your actions in general are manipulative!!!!!!! Just be yourself! /s
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:49 PM
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Amused mastery and amused idiocy aren't the same thing.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 09:52 PM
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Wow. I would say none of those things to anyone who asked me if I was mad. Ever.
/r/askTRP19/04/15 04:41 AM
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Few More Items Knocked Off List Of Desirable Traits In Partner As Woman Turns Year Older is still one of my favorite Onion articles of all time, exactly because of stories like this.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 06:51 PM
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Another shit test like this that I get all the time is "don't you want to find someone and be happy?" as if being a single 26/M is the most unhappy thing to be. I usually just laugh it off or say something like "you can't have both" with a smirk.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 05:34 PM
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I used to box for 2 years and at the end of every training session, we would line up and our coach would hit us in the stomach/core for 30 seconds each; jabs to the stomach and ribs, and we were to keep our hands above our heads (i.e. no defending). I finally asked why we do this and got the response: Boxing is as much about learning to take hits as dishing them out. We spend most of class learning one but should never forget the other. Articles like this are those gut punches that keep my red p…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:22 PM
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And now you know to never date that girl from college. Plate her, spin her, and next her.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:17 PM
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ex-gf somehow i don't think he cares
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 03:10 PM
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You're fine. When I was in college I hooked up with... quite the beast. This girl knew everyone and was proud about it. I lost all frame (way before I found TRP), lied about it, then got called out and finally told the truth. I got laughed at for a day or two and that was because of how poorly I handled it. That same semester I ended up FWBs with one of her best looking sorority sisters. Small world, indeed.
/r/askTRP16/04/15 11:24 AM
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just the fact that I am interacting with someone in the morning pisses me off. This is the story of my life. If you're talking to me before I can finish my coffee, someone better have died, or it'll be you.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:14 AM
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Wow, I've never heard this before but I really like it. Looking back on a lot of my relationships and past plates, this definitely would've helped me.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/15 12:07 AM
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She didn't focus on how the wedding was ruined by those actions but rather, on how it made her feel. Wedding days are all about feelz, man. Weddings and funerals: don't fuck with them.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:15 PM
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To be at least a little fair... it was her fucking wedding day. I would agree with you in every other situation (birthdays, holidays, anything). Hijacking a wedding though? Pretty beat. The only other event you should never hijack like that is a funeral (because to a man, they're the same thing).
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:13 PM
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I would just like to point out: She's also paid for him to get her and her daughters name tattooed on his chest. I believe that's the name of the 17 year old she had when she was (32-17... yep) 15 years old.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 11:12 PM
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Nah, my guess is he poorly paraphrased it back to her and followed up with "I told you he was bad news! This is how he treats girls!"
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:25 PM
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Ew you shitlord, you can take your neckbeard and your "science facts" back to your moms basement! Men and women are obviously equal (except women are better)! But seriously, these are awesome and I'm going to read them.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:11 PM
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I believe the word you're looking for is 'omega'.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 05:04 PM
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That entire post was a punch to the gut. I know it sounds cliche' but I really REALLY feel bad for those kids. Nothing wrong with genuine sympathy. This post hit me hard too. Usually, after I read shit like this, I just go lift as hard as I can and thank my lucky stars.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:51 PM
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Guys like that are literally delusional. There is nothing you can do. This is really starting to sink in for me. It's one thing to be a beta; too nice for your own good, weak in body and spirit, not aggressive or even assertive. It's another thing to live with the blue pill delusion of how the world around you works, what women are really like, and how the whole human species operates.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:49 PM
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tl;dr You didn't attend his wedding; you attended his funeral. My heart broke a little, but you're completely right. I wonder how many men have died on the aisle like this.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 04:47 PM
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And don't say that TV doesn't impact the way we think. It manipulates us.. Only true until you swallow the pill, realize this, and no longer allow it to do so. Enjoy your rest day.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 03:58 PM
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I think you're looking for /r/madmen. Nobody here should care what TV guy X said to TV girl Y. Go lift.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 01:22 PM
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The answer here is simple: lift. Lift regularly and be consistent. Follow a routine. Develop the habit. Commit. Then clean up your diet. Cut out the junk. Eat completely right and if you use cheat days, don't let them spiral out of control. Commit. You now have two commitments that you've internalized. The next thing you pick up will be easier to follow through on, because lifting and eating right are things you're continually following through on. Also, learn how to say no to yourself. It sound…
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:54 AM
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I'm also 5'8 (... 5' 7.5") and I agree. Almost all of my friends are taller than me and it's no issue. I don't wear shoes to compensate, I just look like I have my shit together. I will say that height does put a barrier on you when it comes to online dating. Some girls flat out write you must be THIS TALL to ride, but those girls are openly displaying how superficial they are and thus put themselves in the ONS category immediately.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 10:49 AM
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I agree that the past matters but I have a hard time when comparing it to "if you have nothing to hide, I should be able to look" when clearly I enjoy my fucking privacy us gov. I just see the relation It's not the same because the government isn't providing YOU a direct service in return; they're spying on you to simply to see if you've done anything bad. When you consider buying a used car, do you check CarFax? That's how I'd think of a person's history that I'm thinking about being 'exclusive…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 07:29 PM
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Wow. This reply is flawless. Imagine what you'd think if I was trying to sell you a $100,000 sports car, but I was only charging you $15,000 for it. You'd assume there was something seriously wrong with it. You'd assume it's true value was WAAAAAAY below what I told you it was. That's the same kind of thing running through a woman's head when you try to make her yours, instead of making her work hard to make you hers. Great analogy and a total truth bomb. The Skittles Man article is a great read…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:58 PM
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sounds like that confidence came from getting swole
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:45 PM
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Same. I realize that the usage of this sub goes beyond “men’s self-help information” for me; it is a comfortable place I go to when procrastinating. I couldn't really see this in myself but now I see it clearly. I spend a lot of extra time on TRP since I've found it. Initially, I was just reading everything but lately I've just been checking for new posts. Maybe it's time for me to internalize, reflect, and go deeper into the sidebar instead of stick to the sub.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 04:41 PM
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I have experienced true ego death once, and once is all it took. I was around 1/3 done with my PhD (finished my post-Masters classes, was about to start my post-Masters research) when my advisor and my company decided not to fund my work and not tell me why. I had great grades, an objectively great proposal (relevant research, plenty of current interest, etc.), successfully juggled my job and my PhD work for over a year (aced classes, got a merit-based bonus that year at work). It was my current…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/15 02:54 PM
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That's because when you live true to yourself, you expand your comfort bubble regularly. Expand it enough, and almost everything is already inside it.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 10:00 PM
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Wow. 200 dicks. You could fill four of my high school's classrooms with men and have some be stuck without seats and they would have all fucked her.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:41 PM
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OkC's correlation studies are pretty fascinating if you ignore all the nicey nicey relationship stuff. I read Dataclysm (Christian Rudder's book) and if you strip away all the nicey nice relationship stuff, the book would read as follows: AWALT
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:38 PM
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Anything can be rationalized, no matter how absurdly, when you prioritize happiness over truth. Very well put. I'm pretty sure you can replace the word 'happiness' with 'comfort' and you've just summed up the entire blue pill mindset in one sentence.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 09:34 PM
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For sure. I was really lucky with the engineering shop too. There was lots of CAD (we shared a lab), lots of machining, and the guy who taught it was in the Navy as a submarine crewman, so we ended up learning a lot of physics and fluids and building a lot of water-based stuff. In terms of exposure, it was awesome, but the shop was 3 hours a day with a lot of homework. My grades in other classes suffered for it. I didn't walk out a 'well-rounded' student, and I was definitely a "computer nerd" b…
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 04:00 PM
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Most girls legitimately think dogs are cute.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:18 PM
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I went to a vocational school and it really does make a difference. We had an automotive shop, welding, a computer aided drafting (CAD) major, an electronics shop, an engineering shop, a cosmetology shop, agriculture, HVAC, wood working, and "clerical skills". The school had a junior high (7th and 8th grades) attached to it and they would rotate to a different shop every 2 weeks so that when you hit 9th grade, you had some good experience and got to pick a shop. I can't overstate the difference …
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 01:15 PM
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Engineer here. I completely agree with everything you said. Access is a non issue because I don't shit where I eat, and my biggest obstacle is that LMR so a girl can show me she's worth keeping around. In my opinion, having a career and the shit you want heavily outweighs any considerations for women when choosing a field.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 10:56 AM
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The full statement is "looks don't matter... When you're beta bux"
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:09 AM
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...this doesn't belong in /r/asktrp, it belongs in /r/theredpill, but ok.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:41 PM
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Cool, now clean this whole post up, inject the lessons learned where appropriate, and submit it to TRP.
/r/askTRP11/04/15 12:02 PM
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The past doesn't matter. We don't need to talk about it.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 11:46 AM
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Consider this radical idea however, maybe we just have to hang in their and look after ourselves for a while. That's... not a radical idea. That's pretty much what TRP says to do.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 02:06 AM
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inb4 comments about guys who don't enjoy getting rimmed/have no desire I find this comment to be very... tongue-in-cheek. I'll see myself out.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:43 PM
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Sincere feedback: Congrats on finding and starting your RP journey. Read much more of the sidebar. Do not post partial field reports. If you have nothing to say, say nothing.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 10:41 PM
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Only if you let it be bad.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 10:09 PM
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Doesn't sound like you did anything wrong. You got a number, set up another date, and she said she wanted to bring friends. So what? You talked to her with her friends the first time, do it again. Try to isolate and escalate. Don't let her wanting to bring friends affect your frame.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 10:03 PM
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why is this in /r/asktrp and not /r/theredpill?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 10:00 PM
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I started balding at 18. Trust me. Shave your head.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 09:36 PM
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I also notice you selected your words specifically to state "based on our definition of blue pill". I'm pointing you to the sidebar so you can see where I'm getting this definition for blue pill and why your advice falls under it. Your reaction makes me think that you feel that I'm 'shaming' you by pointing you to the sidebar. This isn't the case; we're on the same team and I'm sharing with you my (and this community's) definitions and resources.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:17 PM
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Yeah, seems pretty sleazy to me. I'd never say that over the phone to someone I ever wanted to see again.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 07:04 PM
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It's some monk level shit to get over those psychological traumas. But you did it and there were probably some insights you've gained that "natural alphas" (who don't have the same introspective qualities you do) will never have. Their life is easy and automatic. Yours is thought out and constructed out of necessity. You would've "lost" had you remained beta, but you've actually won, because you can always look within and adapt. Natural alphas don't have that.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:19 PM
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Interesting, if me providing my reasoning is considered hamstering from your perspective, then what is your consistent rebuttle considered? I'm just pointing out the blue pill and beta content in your posts and providing a consistent red pill (and alpha, where appropriate) alternative. My justification can be found, you guessed it, on TRP's sidebar. Especially if you believe your opinion to be the valid one...why would you continue to waste your time in replying? Oh, you're trying to educate me?…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:15 PM
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To clarify, I meant "who says that shit over text"? Your context is completely fine.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 05:01 PM
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My father wasn't there and I was raised by a hardcore feminist mother who was a psychologist. Keep in mind, no parent DECIDES TO or WANTS TO raise their kid poorly. He did what he thought was best for you; he tried to be honest with you up front, even if that honesty was misplaced or down-right wrong. You can't blame someone who's plugged in for not knowing they're in the matrix. You can't blame someone who has been swallowing the blue pill day-in and day-out their whole life for not teaching yo…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:57 PM
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Wow, this post would be perfect in /r/TwoXChromosomes; your "justification" (hamstering) is unreal. let me provide my reasoning behind why I was "giving her control". You "gave her control" (immediately lost it) because you don't know better and society taught you "wearing your heart on your sleeve" is okay and "honesty is the best policy", just like it taught me. Thank goodness for TRP. Does she really have control? No. Because she stopped to talk to me under my terms. "Hey, I noticed we might …
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:45 PM
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My defensive was against your inaccurate assessment of my suggestion. You have failed to even point out what caused you to render my suggestion as "blue pill". I was very clear about what made it blue pill: Definitely don't tell her your feelings or that you "may be wrong" or that you're attracted. [Quoting myself] To expand: Ask her if she's in too much of a hurry to talk to you. You are giving her control by asking her. Instead, tell her she should slow down and talk to you. Come right out and…
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:24 PM
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The conversation can be right before class, doesn't have to be during You nailed it; subtle flirting, nothing too distracting Not sure why you're getting so defensive about your horrible advice; nice frame. Read more sidebar.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 04:01 PM
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"Nothing is more attractive than a man who asserts his relationship to "his boys" who are still about random hooks ups and side chicks. Maturity is hella sexy". From an RP perspective: "Nothing validates a woman more than a man telling other men that she is better than the competition."
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:57 PM
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Jesus man, who says that shit? Why don't you try just showing her some excitement while you escalate?
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:56 PM
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say almost exactly what you've told us, "Hey, I noticed we might have some chemistry. I may be wrong, just checking with you because I'm definitely attracted..blah blah blah". Wow, holy shit, definitely DO NOT do this. What is this, the Blue Pill School for Betas? The other guys have it right; sit next to her, start a conversation about the thing you have in common - that class. Build from there. Definitely don't tell her your feelings or that you "may be wrong" or that you're attracted.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 03:52 PM
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Nice. Good job not letting your past LTR define you as a man. Enjoy spinning plates and don't forget to lift.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:35 PM
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Wait until you're 25-30 35-40 before you even think of settling down. Fixed. Rest is good advice. Don't be Jake.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:29 PM
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This should be posted under 'Blue Pill Example'.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:25 PM
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Yeah, I know. Reading this stuff and then looking at my plates, though... kind of rough.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 03:07 PM
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/r/asktrp is where this belongs. Also, hit up the sidebar. Rollo's blog (Rational Male) can answer some of your questions.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 01:00 PM
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Welp, time for me to go MGTOW.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 12:47 PM
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You're a bird, flying around. Commitment is a cage. What kind of fucked up bird asks to be put in a cage? Jesus Christ this is gold. You really hit the point home. Thanks for this.
/r/askTRP10/04/15 02:48 AM
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Stay vigilant my friends, and don't bother to save your beta friends, because, as you will notice, they hold you in utter contempt. I'm 26 and what hurts me the most is that since I've started reading TRP, two of my closer male friends have gotten engaged. The pain is real.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 11:03 PM
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Plates gonna plate
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:58 PM
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50 Shades isn't porn. No, neither is The Notebook.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:43 PM
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This is a startling revelation for me. Recently, a few girls have complained to me about their boyfriends, and I took it as them attempting to gain me as an orbiter (e.g. "listen to my problems for free!"). You telling me this is some sort of mating call?!
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:08 PM
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"Wow, you are a really, really great guy! Why couldn't I meet you 10 years from now?" I've never heard this one, but putting these all together makes me realize what a chump I've been for most of my dating life. Thank god for TRP.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 10:00 PM
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/r/asktrp is a thing, you know...
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:56 PM
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when she first met him, within ten minutes she was leading him around the club they were in trying to find a second guy to have a threesome with. My god, does this shit really happen? I thought I was past having emotional reactions to posts like this, but god damn does this hit hard. I hope this guy bails.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:55 PM
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Replace car with horse. Analogy works again.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 09:38 PM
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That's your call, but your life is the only one worse for it.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:57 PM
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I'm sure they're ignoring other guys they think are beta while they are with me. Uhh... this is basic animal instinct, man. Women want to pair up with top dogs to spread the best genes. You can't get angry at animals for being animals. Humans are just animals that wear pants. Sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:54 PM
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When we talk about frame, we talk about the way it's defined in the sidebar content. Stoicism, patience, abundance mentality, outcome independence, amused mastery (where appropriate). We don't care what your frame currently is; we're telling you what frame you must maintain. Obviously, you must change your frame to the appropriate frame first. I sent you a message; I think you have a lot of stuff to work through and I'm willing to help. It'll be a good exercise in patience, discipline, and strin…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:52 PM
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It's about being stoic, outcome independent, and "cool". Pretty much the opposite of everything you've been describing.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:40 PM
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the motivation to do that is so I can afford escorts regularly Slow down, man. You'll get an escort once and it'll change your life. Hopefully for the better. No need to plan to get them regularly. Keep reading the sidebar. Lift, dress sharp, get the rest of your shit in order. Work on your personality. Do these things for you, not for women.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:39 PM
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What if my frame is desperate and needy? Then it's time to change your frame.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:36 PM
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ideally The world isn't ideal. Time to grow up. they control my sex life An entire huge facet of my life is hostage to their whims. You control your sex life. Time to grow up.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 11:35 PM
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But her past doesn't matter! That's why she kept it from you in the first place! But seriously, way to man up. She spilled it, you didn't like it, and you nexted her. Good luck with your new job and don't forget to lift.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 09:43 PM
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There's an article in the sidebar called Powertalk and other Language Categories which resonates strongly with what you're saying and what the OP is describing. Worth a read for anyone interested in understanding the different forms of communication (e.g. conveying information vs. getting something vs. reframing/shifting emotions).
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 06:27 PM
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TL;DR LTR gf got a salary job with benefits, we moved together so she could pursue. our relationship is as good as its ever been, but i will now be giving up working going to school full time while she works...resulting in me having to ask her for money when i need it. we agreed to this. Sounds like these plans are already happening, as in: the couple has already moved and agreed that you will 1) not be working and 2) will be going to school. Which parts aren't set in stone yet? whole reason im …
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:08 PM
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Let me read this back to you, just to make sure I got it right: Upon finding TRP I remade myself, complete shift. Left the beta zone i trust her completely. honestly, i found the unicorn. no question in my mind is that i found the unicorn. truthfully, i can preach and say how different she is all day. she will be making more money than me, i will not have job as we've decided for me to go back to school. if i really want to go get something i need to ask her for her card or cash. now i seem like…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 05:02 PM
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The pudgy little princesses were taught to expect no less. Thank god TRP has taught me that I don't have to settle for them.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:36 PM
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Post in /r/asktrp and read the side bar. What kind of dude would stay with a girl who gave him an STD? A fucking beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 04:06 AM
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Sounds like she was trying to give you a taste of your own medicine. Next time, don't bring her. Edit - also, plate the other girl. It'll help with your one-itis.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 03:39 AM
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I’m a beta and I will always be one, but that doesn’t mean that I can’t assume the guise of an alpha Bad mentality. No one is one or the other. Don't say this about yourself. I now work every day to minimize my beta traits and maximize my alpha traits Practice. Patience. Discipline. Stoicism. More practice. Less beta.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:17 AM
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Wait so, did you guys split it or did she pay? She sounds like she ruled in the sack and if she's as hot as you say, why didn't you plate her? I don't mind buying a round of drinks to keep a plate spinning every once in a while. From the entirety of your post it seems like she earned it 90 minutes after meeting you.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 10:13 PM
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First off, welcome. Nothing wrong with being curious. Second, these kinds of posts are better left to /r/asktrp. But since you're here and I've got some free time, let's move right along. What exactly, is the 'red pill'. In very basic terms, The Red Pill is a framework with several calls to action. The framework simply states: the modern world caters heavily to women and their agendas, and you must adapt to the modern world before you can thrive in it. The calls to action are things we can activ…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:53 PM
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I like to think that we (guys) intuitively know who are our superiors are, our equals, and the ones below us. This varies by context. I know guys who aren't "as far along their life path" as me, but are more affluent, or better athletes, or make more money, etc. Different things attract different women. What does it say when a pretty broken woman has the audacity to reject you, and literally turn around and do worse than you. To me it says "count your blessings". It's much harder to spin cracked…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:14 PM
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Stay frosty gentlemen. And then I woke up. FRs like this do absolutely nothing for this sub.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:07 PM
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These days, though, they are best kept with pen on paper, and under lock and key. I believe another great place for them is this sub, in the form of field reports.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 05:02 PM
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I don't know what you did but it looks fine now. Before, it didn't wrap the text and had a long side-scroll bar.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:38 PM
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But mostly, you're an asshole for the way you've formatted the top half of this post.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 04:26 PM
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go back to her place after just for her to invite another guy over within 5 minutes of getting inside. J was coming over. J was her dealer "I'm heading to bed, goodnight." And short story shorter, they go in her room and start fucking. Even if she was already a full-on plate (which I don't think she was), this is all you'd need to drop her. She may be a 6-7 by looks, but the CC-sleaze dripping off of her drops her to a 4, easy. Good FR; reminds us that not all plans succeed and TRP men must adap…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 01:04 PM
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So, lots of great feedback already. Here's another thing you should remember: I have a near irresistible compulsion to call girls out on even the slightest bullshit. A single ignored text, flake or rude remark is enough to make me think the person is basically worthless and puts me on edge to call them out. 2 and all bets are off. The thing is, men do this too. I miss occasional texts, I make rude remarks, etc. I'm human. People who are in your social circle aren't going to treat you like they t…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:47 PM
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The transition from restaurant to apartment, did you do anything in particular or just invite her back. Any pretence involved? I built the pretense with the kino. We talked a little about my room mate throughout the night (because we talked about hers with the cellphone thing) and I was said "I live pretty close if you want to meet him!" with an obvious grin on my face. She jumped at the opportunity.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:39 PM
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I don't think there's a universal definition of The Wall in terms of age. This is Tricia Helfer. She's 40 and hasn't hit her wall yet.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:44 AM
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I know this might be a silly question, but... could Red Pill Women be considered Alpha females?
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:38 AM
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I saw the pics. She's everybody's regular plate.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/15 12:37 AM
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I would honestly say that effective time management is the other "core activity" that TRP should preach (alongside lifting, dressing well, etc.). My guess is that TRP doesn't preach it because what it means varies so much by living situation that it can't be put concisely enough to work for everyone the same way "go lift" can.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:57 PM
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Yeah, except Shakira isn't 60 and she's still gorgeous. She makes the money to maintain her looks for a long time, and her stardom is a driver for her to keep up her appearance.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 05:30 PM
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I don't think Gerard Pique marrying Shakira makes him a beta. That woman has through-the-roof SMV (she's an international star) and is nowhere near her wall.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:46 PM
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You go there, have a few drinks and dance like an idiot for a few hours with a group of friends. Why would you do this at a club instead of, say, an apartment party or a bar with an open space?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:41 PM
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I'm pretty sure you're there so the guys who pay a lot more money to just walk straight in look good in comparison. Is this a real thing? You can pay to be put on some list that lets you skip the line? Just curious.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:41 PM
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"I love life and live it to its fullest", "I'm not like most girls...", my 'typical Friday night' (okcupid question) is spent "there's no typical Friday night for me! It's either at home with a bottle of wine or out on the town with my girls!" It's eye-opening to realize that girls online and girls who don't do online dating aren't so different, which means "most girls are the same". It's great for the abundance mentality.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 03:32 PM
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In case someone is 'WTFing' a little at this post, here are some concrete examples: Brushing your teeth in the shower instead of after Going grocery shopping on your way home from work instead of making a separate trip Timing your rest days at the gym with all-day plans Try thinking about the most efficient way of doing everything on your to-do list, not just the best way to do one thing at a time.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:59 PM
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Welcome to /r/progressivepenises
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:51 PM
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I find it insanely hard to plan dates with girls who just sit around and hang with their girlfriends. I love it when a girl includes this as a hobby, as in: Me: What're some of your hobbies? Her: Oh, you know... hanging with friends and family, shopping, having fun. Wow. What a catch.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:36 PM
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I've gotten so many messages of chicks telling me I'm a douchebag, an asshole, how I should start seeing "inner beauty", etc. The sad thing is, you're getting these messages from girls with no inner beauty to speak of.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:35 PM
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I gave you gold because this post hit me on many levels. First, great job explicitly pointing out the double standards involved with having preferences. As a Caucasian guy from the USA, I get a lot of shit for not wanting to date white girls or heavy girls, exactly because the "average American girl", as portrayed by USA Media Inc., is "curvy" (cue me rolling my eyes) and white. The second reason I gave you gold is because these double standards are actually harmful for ethnic men. I have a very…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 02:20 PM
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Can you share the email with us? There are a lot of petitions / email movements where someone writes the 'rightly worded' email and then supporters flood a box with them. I'd be down to put my name on that, I just feel you have a lot more eloquent things to say than I do.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:28 PM
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Great post. I agree with everything except: work out in a FUNCTIONAL way (your work out ideally should be the result of your daily activities, not some planned strict gym workout session) I think your goal is to appear this way (according to magazines), regardless of if you have a desk job or not. Hitting the gym is the way to do this for most people. Once you discover TRP though, you don't lift for this reason; you lift for yourself. There are a lot of benefits to lifting besides looking good. …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:52 PM
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Moreover, it's easy to subscribe to a magazine and have someone else tell you "exactly what to do to get the girl". Why think for yourself? ...right?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:48 PM
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Not trying to be a hater. But why take a first date off of the internet to a sushi place, and buy a $100 sushi boat? The sushi boat was $40. There's a 1 in 3 percent chance that she'll be using old pictures and is a hippo IRL. At that point even when you cut your losses you've still inconvenienced yourself by driving out to the place. She was pretty. She ended up looking exactly like her photos. In my experience, being catfished is very rare, definitely not one in three. I honestly wouldn't even…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 11:33 AM
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Oh. I thought there was some sort of crowd sourcing or investing resource for newer clubs that let you "buy into a percentage" or something. I'm not trying to get a job at a club.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:41 AM
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How can one invest in a club?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 01:29 AM
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Eating with chopsticks isn't really a skill though is it, unless you count eating with a knife and fork to be a skill as well. Chopsticks require some level of dexterity and coordination. Not everyone can use them well. Whether or not you call it a 'skill' is semantics; I got to sit next to her and teach her something new.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 12:12 AM
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Hey man, I'm glad to hear that this approach to messaging is working for others. Intuitively, chicks probably get a ton of messages, so long ones are a chore to read. You wouldn't walk up to a girl at the bar and give her some speech about what an attentive guy you are, would you? You'd go up and give her a one-liner you think is relevant and/or funny. I feel like this approach mirrors that. The only difference I noticed was that you give her your number instead of requesting hers. I like gettin…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 08:35 PM
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Sushi is meant to be eaten with hands, right? I keep hearing that. Honestly, I like chopsticks and they played a HUGE role in the date. Would do again.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:51 PM
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I'm still learning as well, so no worries. Let me see if I can directly answer each part: I think you did great sitting next to her. That move always makes me nervous for some reason. I'll usually wait til we get back to my apartment. I get nervous too. There's always a table between me and the girl on coffee dates. I had a real reason to sit next to her this time, though. It's tough to show someone chopsticks from across the table, so I sat next to her to show her and then had an excuse to stay…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:44 PM
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Wow, thank you for this. I waited 2 nights before writing this up so that I could give everything some thought and contribute where I can. It's awesome to see feedback on things I didn't even think about, and you're right: I'd lose out on that if all I did was mask my failures and play up my successes. This is my first FR and I'm still new (~2 months reading), so I wanted to be explicit and detailed for other new guys. I'm glad that's how it came across.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:22 PM
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Yeah, I think "I just saw this" is just enough. It lets her know I didn't check my phone and not answer, and literally nothing else. I'll give this more thought though, because I say "I just saw this" all the time. It might be good on the first reply, maybe I'll drop it from later ones. Thanks for the feedback; I wouldn't even have given it thought until you and /u/GREF_ said something.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:10 PM
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All good points, guys. Here's my take: I love sushi, wouldn't mind eating there alone I did pay for her, because I went in knowing she might hate the food I chose sushi specifically because she said she knew nothing about it, so I got to treat it as a "fun new thing" for her, even though it was just dinner I completely agree with your points and the venue choice was conversation specific. I definitely wouldn't invite every girl I meet out to the same place. I just picked something that would wor…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 01:02 PM
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Wow. I wish this is exactly how I played it. You did some serious justice to your username, huh?! Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:59 PM
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You're making all great points, especially for online dating. Expensive dates have definitely burned me before, but in all honesty, I feel it's because I let them burn me. BB pays for sushi dates. AF makes the venue work for him. Like /u/MAY_BE_TOM_BRADY pointed out, I chose Sushi because our specific conversation led us there and it was a chance to show her I have a skill she doesn't (chopsticks) and know a lot about a food she doesn't (sushi). A little more expensive, sure. But a lot more oppo…
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 12:57 PM
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I would suggest a read of Daniel Rose sex god method and really think about the balance of immersion, emotion, dominance, and variety. Thanks man, I'll definitely take a look. I'm a little embarrassed about these kinds of things, but I know how important they are to work on.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 04:56 AM
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Cool. Good start. Your job now is to identify all of these bad habits (including your writing habits) and decide how you'd like to change them.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:24 PM
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I find it fascinating, and wonder why the mainstream dislikes TRP with such passion. This, to me, says that you need to spend more time with the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:22 PM
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Are you kidding me? They're like the most relevant part. How long have you been reading TRP? I was making fun of you for saying you want to be transparent and then obscuring all the red flag details that would have given substance to your post.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 04:15 PM
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Yeah, zero of those things should tell you to call her m'lady. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:35 PM
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If you've read even a single other post on this sub, you'd know your post is off-tone and without substance. If you want to give us a field report, give us a real one. Don't refuse to go into detail.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:34 PM
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And now, my field report of sorts red flags that I refuse to go into detail about I wished to be transparent Sweet baby Jesus this has to be the dumbest shit I've read today, and I read r/shittyaskscience.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:30 PM
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I'm a year in and I've noticed no difference What exactly are you a year into if you don't do the most basic thing TRP says you aught to be doing?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:37 PM
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"What's mine is mine and what's yours is ours." - Every woman ever
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 12:27 PM
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This isn't true everywhere in the world... Its not even true in America. I have had plenty of classes by Adjunct Professors without PhDs.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:51 AM
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At the risk of sounding totally plugged in: That second one can't be real... Can it?
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:32 AM
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And really has a multiplier on it because it happened more than once. Thanks, college!
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:27 AM
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Nah, even a beta gets lucky on online dating. Don't confuse them with blue pillers. Before working on being an alpha (still working, I mean before I found TRP and started), even I got laid every blue moon. My classic mistakes were trying to lock down whatever would come my way more than once, but I still got some...
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:24 AM
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As a guy who actually dated a stripper, I can tell you that you're completely wrong. Girls being judgmental means they'll instinctively (and incorrectly) think they're automatically better than the stripper ex and that the bar is set low. In reality, women in that line of work (that aren't bat shit crazy) are pretty down to earth, akin to waitresses.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 11:21 AM
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Your post was a big injection of TRP truth for me. I have that mentality with lifting already, but certainly not with relationships, even though I've seen the pattern you're describing. Since swallowing the pill (still absorbing), my game has dramatically increased. I used to open 4s and 5s. Now I open 5 and 6s with the same confidence. Sure, I still have improvements to make, but it's as noticeable a jump as bad coffee to good coffee. Thanks man. Your reply definitely gave me a push.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 09:15 PM
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I'm working on doing exactly this. I just bought both of Rollo's books. I read TRP every day. I hit the gym 4+ days a week and eat right. I'm not telling you... I guess I'm just telling myself. I'm on it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:34 PM
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That comic is 100% what I'm talking about. Great find. I love SMBC.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:25 PM
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slithering God, this word is so spot on it kills me. These women are snakes.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:02 PM
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I don't have ex's I have y's as in why the fuck did I date you -/u/Day_man2020 But I'm totally stealing that
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 07:00 PM
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The internet makes this much more true. Before it, you'd hear about that one guy through the grapevine. Now, you can see Justin Bieber on TV, getting eaten alive by models. I'm not saying he's the ultimate red pill man, but no one can argue he's maximizing his potential big time.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 06:53 PM
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...I feel like you're talking directly to me... and I don't know what to do about it.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 05:58 PM
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Definitely another good data point on the dissonance surrounding "past not mattering". I also really like your thought experiment: Pretend a wife wrote in, saying her husband admitted that he was physically and emotionally violent in several prior relationships. What would the response be if Dear Prudence advised her, "You two have been together for five years, and you don’t indicate that during that time you have ever had cause to doubt your safety. I don’t know if meeting you was the turning p…
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:22 PM
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I think we need to see the snaps to get an accurate account of the whole story. (But seriously, I agree with /u/SCROTAL-SACK )
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 03:57 PM
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I'm here to tap ass and watch Netflix... and I'm all outta flix. - Duke Nukem
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 12:23 AM
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Ever see an action movie? Ever learn about a war hero? Ever watch a President give a state of the union? Ever get picked on by a bully? Ever watch a sporting event? In all of those things you can glean TRP concepts and mindsets by observing. Again, you're confusing TRP with being an Alpha. Action movies are laden with romantics and one-true-loves and the guy saving his soul mate. All your other examples are equally alpha and equally not TRP. Admitting you were dumb before you found TRP (if you w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 10:12 PM
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Another good technique is to stare at the bridge of their nose (right between the eyes); it seems as though you're making eye contact but can help put you at ease, since you're not looking them in the eyes. I agree though; Hulse's presence is so strong it's intimidating, even over the interweb.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:28 PM
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I'm willing to say that everyone at some point in their life has been exposed to the alpha behavior and TRP mindset. Alpha and Red Pill aren't the same thing. You can be a blue pill alpha. You can understand TRP and be a complete beta (that's how most of us start). The first time I got exposed to the TRP mindset was by visiting this sub as a 26 year old. The only other Red Pill ish (strong "ish") stuff I've ever been exposed to is the PUA community because of a book I bought myself after a bad b…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 09:09 PM
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some of us (probably more than a few) caught on long before TRP even existed. We just didn't have anyone sprouting wisdom and found this place seeking for the equation which led to answers we already knew were true. Totally. There's no doubt that TRP had to start somewhere and certain people (e.g. the guys responsible for the sidebar content) are putting together most of the pieces for 100,000 other dudes. I'll be the first to admit that I'm not a thought-leader when it comes to TRP; a lot of it…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:35 PM
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Thought for everyone: compare yourself to someone you see from your life as being naturally alpha and having their shit together. They probably didn't do it through TRP. I know plenty of "natural alphas" that are complete blue pillers. They're socially great people, hit the gym, and do all the right surface-level things. Their motivations are still things like "finding their soul mate". They apply their red pill tendencies in a blue pill context. Rollo has a great article about it. I know plenty…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 06:09 PM
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One of the harshest truths you need to accept is that you are here because you are dumb. But you were slow to learn, didn't catch on to the game as quickly as others. TRP is a cheat sheet But realize, you weren't dealt an unfair hand. Wow, this is a pretty dumb post (the irony!). Let me break it down for you: A lot of people here aren't dumb, they've just never been exposed to an alternative to "the way things are". It's easy to take something for granted when it permeates the core of your socie…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 05:59 PM
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I am commenting without looking at the original article I'm commenting without reading the rest of your post. Go read the article.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/15 02:37 AM
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And it overlaps heavily with "being good at the male imperative at the expense of the female imperative" I think this is on point. Teasing can be done to your benefit without being done at her expense. Instead of teasing her, try to find a common target and tease each other about that target. Not every interaction with a girl is a zero sum game.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 10:03 PM
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Life begins at the edge of your comfort zone. The alpha in you works to keep you there while the beta in you tells you to stay under the covers because it's cold out. No one writes books about betas. Great post. Listen to the right voice.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 09:58 PM
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Tim Minchin gave an awesome commencement speech. It's very relevant. Read it and/or watch the video. I think you'll enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 01:22 PM
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We're in agreement. My only point was that some people don't like the anger in parts of our message, some others don't like the message in general. That's all I'm saying.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 12:53 PM
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Some people don't like what we say either. Feminists, girls who want to have their cake and eat it too, mega blue pillers, etc.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 11:23 AM
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I agree with you on a personal level, but as a scientist, I can't help but wonder how much further along the human race would be if we cared more about being correct than politically correct. How much closer would we be to curing cancer (over-dramatic example, obviously) if more scientists (both men and women) were happier with their personal lives and more confident in themselves?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 05:15 PM
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Serious question: do you lift? If not, you should start. If so, you should lift more. I had my anger phase after a bad break up right when I started college. I definitely said a lot of stupid shit that started with "all women..." instead of focusing on myself. YOU SHOULD READ THIS. Seriously worth your 10 min. Lift. Run. Find a sport you like. Get physically engaged. Channel that energy into something physical. Nobody gets swole like a guy filled with hate. edit - take it easy on your girlfriend…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:59 PM
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Woah. I know TRP usually talks about women -> SMP -> economics, but I never thought of the reverse. Having multiple income streams means having options and alpha is equated with having options. So what you're saying is; part of being a 'business alpha' is acquiring an 'abundance mentality' (creating options) when it comes to income?
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:36 PM
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I honestly feel more pity than anger when it comes to feminists and SJWs. no matter how much stress or drama I have to deal with, I always look within to see what I can change about myself as opposed to bitch about it to the internet Unlike the feminist or SJW agenda, TRPs advocation of choosing to follow what you believe in and applying only what you deem rational and effective have a great sense of appeal to all those wishing to enrich their lives. Couldn't agree more. This is the stuff that s…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:29 PM
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I think a big part of TRP is realizing that all of the things society tells us in your post simply aren't true: Your adolescence and early 20s are the time to enjoy drinking, partying, wild hookups, amazing romances, and just living it up. The TRP man knows better. Whether you're established by 30 or not, it's never too late to start working on yourself and reap the benefits of doing so. Then after that, it is time to be an "adult", time to grow up, time to be responsible, and time to be "mature…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 03:12 PM
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I think you need to write a bigger post about this shit. I've given zero thought to the Producer-Consumer dichotomy and I think it's something TRP can/should talk about sometimes. In fact, I think this is the kind of shit that makes some men go MGTOW to the max. I'd really like to learn more about this.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:21 PM
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A trolled woman is a happy woman. This is strangely good advice. I've started doing this more since starting TRP and it actually works out.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:11 PM
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Girls in the restaurant industry tend to be hard workers, and therefore appreciate money. They work hard for their money, and likely aren't at uni on Daddy's dime (at least not entirely). Juxtapose that for a moment with a sorority girl who has never had a job. If she respects her own money, she's likely to respect yours. Oftentimes, I find bartenders and servers I've dated insisting on splitting the check for this very reason. I can definitely vouch for this. Dated a cute server from a higher-e…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 01:05 PM
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OP knew what he was getting into. He's obviously not fucking insane: Now I know Friend very well, and in the past at this point I would back down. The opportunity cost of getting laughs from this "hilarious joke" vs. the possibility of losing my eye just doesn't cut it. But, he wasn't sober. He was pretty fucking drunk. I wasn't, and I was pissed. OP handled it right. I lived in a fraternity house for 5 years and this shit happened often. Things escalate, but everyone there is still a human bein…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 12:52 PM
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I think this is a little over-the-top. I've cancelled on a girl 3 hours before a date and I've been cancelled on in that window as well, but I've never been actually stood up on a date. I think you can utilize abundance mentality without stacking dates. If I have multiple dates lined up over the week, I feel equally abundant as I would if they were the same day. Also, I've had great dates that go several hours, and having to cut them short for another date would definitely fuck up my frame for t…
/r/TheRedPill30/03/15 12:46 PM
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The 'decoder ring', if you will.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 08:01 PM
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I agree, but it's good to keep tabs on what women are saying and how they're framing out theories because as the market changes, we want to know.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 07:17 PM
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'Either we have sex and I promise on my mothers life we'll see eachother again, if you want to. Or we don't have sex and I promise you we'll never see eachother again' I can't second this enough. When it comes to girls I've already gotten back to my place, I have a 100% success rate with this.
/r/askTRP29/03/15 06:53 PM
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Thank you for wording your post in a way that let me see the light. I've definitely come across the 'love flows down, charm flows up' points before and "understood" what that means in terms of the 'love hierarchy'. It wasn't until your post: The boy's mind Charms women... the man's mind Loves women. In other words the Beta is still viewing reality as an (honest) child. That I saw this "love discontinuity" (I'm sure the RP community has a better word for it) and all of the sudden things just fell…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 06:36 PM
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I really like that they tallied how much police time she wasted and got the story of how these allegations affected the two soldiers. I wish there was more reporting and justice like this in the US. I think it would be a huge shift in the dating culture.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 11:56 AM
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Men love women, women love children, children love puppies. The boy's mind Charms women... the man's mind Loves women. Equality is the greatest lie mankind has ever created. Holy. Shit. Neural bridges forming. Memories becoming clear. I think I need to lay down. Next day edit: I realize my above comment doesn't really add to the discussion, so I want to share where the clarity for me is: Women are loved by their parents; the love of a father and mother flow down to them. This is also true for bo…
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 05:03 AM
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I think that this is the most red pill part of the quote, because he's talking about love for his work, not the love society tells men they should go find with women.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 04:52 AM
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That's some black pill shit, right there.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/15 04:47 AM
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Just because it's from a fiction book, doesn't mean it's not good advice. No one is going to look at the OP and not see his height. I say that as a shorter guy. The OP, and every other guy with some "obvious" quality, need to build their image and life in a way which makes that quality an afterthought. In the books, Tyrion becomes so cunning and powerful (at one point) that the first things the people who know him say about him no longer involve his height. For a fiction book, it's pretty damn "…
/r/askTRP28/03/15 01:17 PM
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"Never forget what you are, for surely the world will not. Make it your strength. Then it can never be your weakness. Armour yourself in it, and it will never be used to hurt you.” - Tyrion Lannister
/r/askTRP28/03/15 03:12 AM
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First off, this probably belongs in /r/asktrp . Second, you're a douche. If you had swallowed the pill, you'd realize there's no point is provoking the feminazis of the world, and you played right into her hand. I bet she can't wait to tell all her friends about the guy who not only refused to let her open her own door, but called her a bitch for "standing up for herself". Next time you open a door, walk through it. It's as simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 09:43 PM
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Also a very good comfort challenge because you can't blame a buddy for your mistakes. It's all on you.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:54 PM
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and how I would look back and think she was right about everything Hooooooly shit my mom does this all. the. time. "Remember me saying this... one day you'll look back and realize I was right."
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 05:13 PM
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To be fair, TRP isn't just a community you join. If you're here, you changed at least part of your worldview and the way you interact with every human being in your life. It's certainly not an easy thing to do, so a lot of people will naturally shy away from it.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 03:33 PM
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Not just content, like a fat video game addict jerking off to porn and drinking beer. This is the line that really clicked with me. To me, TRP is about leaving your [blue pill] comfort zone and not being satisfied with being content, which is a momentary feeling, not a stable mental state. There are two things men need to balance: happiness and fulfillment. Happiness is that momentary pleasure: a steak dinner, a lady, a great beer, the look from a girl across the bar. These things make us happy.…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:55 PM
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I definitely agree with the first 70% of this post and really dig some of the gems: Of course, bitches don't like it when they think they're the best a man can get. I've been trying to think of things more in terms of 'the marketplace' and I completely agree here; women don't want to be a man's best option, they want the man to be THEIR best option. only men who lack options have the time to spend hours making thoughtful birthday cards. This line really hit me. I did this kind of shit all the ti…
/r/TheRedPill27/03/15 12:31 PM
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There is no such thing as sexual leagues. Would you mind expanding on this? Or do you simply mean no girl is "out of my league" (no leagues exist)? This may be a dumb question; I just haven't run into this on TRP yet.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/15 05:27 PM
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Is this a result of TRP, or just 'life in general'? I just don't want to see your message get mixed, here. I'm an atheist, but I don't think TRP really pushes people away from spirituality or organized religion, it just provides a different way of looking at everything in general.
/r/askTRP25/03/15 04:12 PM
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Welp, guess I'm gonna start watching Mad Men.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:48 PM
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hurry up and set your life up I read this and it just has that extra level of materialistic need in it. Hurry up and get your bank account / car / nice place / everything that puts the Bux in Beta Bux. At least "maybe our paths will cross down the road" is about you and not your stuff. Either way, I agree with you; one of the things TRP is changing the most for me is these kinds of beta-appeasing comments. They're just the gravity meant to keep you in orbit.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:09 PM
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I demand many field reports.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 01:01 AM
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Great post. Very interesting to see so many striking similarities to the women in my life. I also really liked this part: She would hit me up from time to time to tell me about her life, her new boyfriend and somewhere in the mix tell me things like 'hurry up and set your life up so we can get married'. In a BP context, you'd read that as "this girl really wants to be with me!!" while in a RP context it's more "this girl really wants to to use me!!" Good job seeing the poison in the honey pot, O…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 12:58 AM
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Just remember: hamsters are stupid. When their wheel isn't getting them anywhere, they just turn around and start spinning it in the other direction.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 09:54 PM
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No prob, man. It's easy to get buried in the details (how he found out, how many times it happened, blah blah blah).
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:32 PM
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So, without derailing this thread, I'd just like to clearly convey where you're mistaken, because you've already hit the point home, yourself: I know that she purposefully deceived him actively, and thus deserves what she gets, but still. By lying to her husband (by omission) for years about something that affected his decision to marry her (her past), she was being dishonest to him in the present. As mad as he was about her past, it was clear he was more mad about her continual concealment of i…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:17 PM
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I agree that four such boxes exist, but don't agree with your descriptions of them. For example, I was raised to be very Blue Pill, but I was also raised to be Alpha. So I find myself in boxes 2 and 4. I think that's a result of you mixing/matching Blue Pill with Beta (which isn't the same) and Red Pill with Alpha (which isn't the same). I think the 'exterior' section is Alpha vs. Beta and the 'interior' section should be Red Pill vs. Blue Pill. Also, remember that both of these are really a spe…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 05:10 PM
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I think I was teetering on the boundary between completely accepting RP truth, and just using RP to get the blue pill ideal situation. Honestly, this is how it was for me and I didn't even recognize it until I saw that one comment and looked for the information. It's easy to treat TRP info as "tools in your kit" and just go about your pre-TRP (i.e. blue pill) life with these new tools. In fact, at first glance, it's an incredibly attractive proposition; look at all the new information you have t…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 04:55 PM
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I agree with this, but that part is never really laid out. The way it's been instilled (in me at least) is how I wrote it above: women mature faster than men. That's it. So if you meet a woman your age, she's more 'mature' than you. I've always taken this to mean "mentally / emotionally advanced," meaning that women are great people to talk to your problems about, which falls right in line with the whole girlfriend = best friend thing. A lot of these lies compound each other, making the whole fr…
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 01:11 PM
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It is - just above the 'NEW HERE?' section.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 12:33 PM
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that is the fact that the woman claimed she was a virgin when they started dating Is this true? I thought I read through both threads pretty thoroughly and didn't see this. I thought her lie was simply omission and she was outed by her friend at some gathering. If this is true... holy shit. edit - I'm not calling you a liar. I just missed that huge detail and it does change the story for me.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:57 PM
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Here are some gems, just for posterity (in case the archive thing gets deleted): You can be as angry as you like. You are not accepting the blame and like all people who say the past is the past you hid your past. Because you kept the information from him, he loved the picture you placed in front of him. His reaction may be cruel and cold and I agree, but you put the loaded gun into the relationship and it went off when your friend pulled the trigger ... It was apparently something that you knew…
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:42 PM
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His view of me has been irreparably changed and he no longer sees me "as someone worthy of being [his] wife". (quoting him here... fucking prick hero ) This quote sums up my thoughts, especially after seeing her decide to challenge the prenup. So much for her leaving with whatever dignity she claimed to have as a "changed woman" from her drug-fueled DP-me college days.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:21 PM
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No one here is getting riled up except you, bro. Emma Watson is a good looking lady with minimal/no makeup. There are plenty of celebrities that don't cake their face with makeup 24/7 and are good looking. Also, what OP described was his gf getting all dolled up for auditions, more specifically she didn't do these things everyday in some effort to hide her "real self" from him before marriage. TRP is about working on yourself. For starters, you should work on your reading comprehension: She had …
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 03:15 PM
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I don't think a little makeup is harmful. I think if you read the OP again, you'll see that his ex did a lot more than 'put on a little makeup' and he uses Emma Watson to show that a little makeup is okay, as long as the person underneath it is actually attractive. The post warns RPers to know the difference between 'getting ready' (which is fine) and 'polishing a turd' (yikes).
/r/TheRedPill23/03/15 01:35 PM
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What do you even say to the crazy shit like "would you still love me if I lost a leg?"
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 09:17 PM
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Just reinforcing this; I too was raised by a single mom. I don't think it's any more embarrassing than having your parents go through a divorce, which is fairly typical anyway. Who cares if your parents aren't married?
/r/TheRedPill22/03/15 09:11 PM
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If she can convince him that her past actions have no/little bearing on her present value as a wife, she lessens the impact to her SMV. Based on the OP and replies, my understanding is that it's not just her past actions, but how he found out because she lied (by omission) to him prior to him deciding to marry her.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 10:17 PM
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Did we just become best friends? But seriously, that's good advice. Defining a new set of moral/ethical standards makes a lot of sense; the ones I held so firmly were definitely of the beta flavor (women inherently deserve respect, are entitled to blah blah blah). Deciding on a new set of rules for myself seems like a great first step. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 07:17 PM
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TRP is so fucking ironic. It gives you the tools to become a great man (knowledge of humanity), but it also takes away the easiest motivation to become great in the first place (getting laid). Very well put. This is exactly how I feel at the moment, while I feel the pill slowly dissolving in my system. It's great to see myself improving, but now I have no idea why. I think that sense of being lost is what's contributing so much to my 'anger phase'. What the fuck am I working for?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:46 PM
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I've always known they were scum since I was a child. I guess I'm what you guys consider a 'natural alpha', but less retarded I laughed. I think you're missing the entire point of the red pill. Read the side bar.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:41 PM
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redpill thing which is to increase her SMV by saying that her past was irrelevant and has no bearing on her current value Can you explain to me why you think that her having 12-15 threesomes with her college boyfriend and his room mate in college has no effect on her sexual market value to her husband?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:37 PM
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I agree; if her husband was some rock star / AF that also had a ton of threesomes in his prime, it'd probably be a non-issue altogether. The issue is in the fact that she kept a secret that she knew would change her husbands perception of her. "Oh yeah, also, I was born a man. Sorry! Don't be so judgmental!"
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:34 PM
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Keeping a secret like that is almost as bad as a lie by omission. FTFY. Otherwise, completely agree. If it's something your partner would weigh before choosing to marry you, you owe it to them to tell them at some point before marriage.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:29 PM
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She can still win favour through effort, and will be more inclined to, because he could leave and find a higher SMV woman at any time. This makes it possible that, if he plays his cards right, he could have his wife treat him like a god. The approach would entail making sure she knows that he hasn't 'forgiven' her, but is open to letting her try to prove herself. I honestly read this and thought that she should try to set up a threesome with him and another lady and let it happen a few times if …
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 06:24 PM
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was checking the other subreddit called lifehacks. The hints given there were incredibly dull White Tea. My favourite is Silver Needle[1] . Calms the fuck out of me, great in combination when reading a book too. How can these two quotes be part of the same post? This shit's weak. /r/lifehacks is the right place. Life hacks are solutions to material problems. There is no such thing as a philosophical lifehack; only a philosophy (e.g. TRP). Please don't post this shit here.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 11:29 AM
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Their source is right here, bro! Three Melbourne mums agree
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 11:26 AM
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You get what you put out My sincere hope is that he meant 'you get what you put in' as his life's motto. Otherwise, I agree with all of your points.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:55 AM
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Women aren't opportunistic sluts, PEOPLE are opportunistic sluts. And the truth is evolutionary biologists have known this for decades. First off, the men here who call women sluts are doing it out of anger. No one who has actually swallowed the pill can blame someone for following their biological instincts. Hypergamy is a driving force for humanity and women aren't sluts for it (this is what biology tells us). They appear to be sluts to betas, and calling a girl 'slut' is a beta thing to do. S…
/r/TheRedPill21/03/15 01:32 AM
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I don't view The Red Pill so much as a strategy for getting laid, but rather guidelines for becoming the men that we were meant to be in a culture that has systematically attempted to break men down. I think you're spot on; RP is about being the best version of yourself. To do that, you have to examine the limitations society artificially places on you (spend money on this, look like that, talk like this, don't do that) so that you can remove them and grow the way you're meant to. A side-effect …
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 07:37 PM
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So am I supposed to be looking for friends like that? Because going through each list mine would not do anything on that list at all.. I would place "best" in front of those things. E.g. your best male friend, your girlfriend, and your dog who loves you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:50 PM
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Don't ask a fish how to catch a fish. Glad it works for you, but it's generally a shitty idea to take girl advice from a girl. You just dropped a huge truth-bomb on me. I've never thought of it this way. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/15 03:40 PM
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The automoderator is telling me to stop posting giving me the newbie warnings (I'm fairly new here but have been reading a lot), but I just wanted to ask: do you consider the activity you just described to be a form of meditation? Can lifting be considered meditating? Several great posts make indirect mention of meditation or just directly say "incorporate meditation" but never go into the details. I'd like to understand more, but don't want to break the rules of this sub or derail this thread.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 05:07 PM
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Then /u/sealteamaus posted "but wouldnt we all laugh at the guy who said "i'm going to work really hard to win the lottery" just as much as we would laugh at the guy who said "i'm going to work really haed to find an LTR?" And I thought this was accidental and excellent advice on having an LTR. I don't like analogies but once in a while they are good ;) If this was good advice at all, why put in practice anything you learned here? After all, lottery tickets are only a matter of chance. I think t…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:34 PM
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Money is worthless if you don't have a good physique, face and decent height. Don't spread myths. It seems you're the one spreading myths. There's nothing you can do about your face or height and they are non-factors for men who know how to play around them. I'm 5'7, balding, pale, and have an 'okay' face at best. RP teaches you to work on the things you can to be the best version of yourself and it works. If what you said was true, many of us would be doomed out of the gate.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 01:15 PM
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I think it does deserve to go into the sidebar, for all of the reasons you just said. 'Henry Rollins on Self Confidence' would be a fitting title, or anything related to self-improvement. I know I'd greatly appreciate easy access to this article when I'm on RP.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 12:35 PM
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I felt the same thing after reading it. This article made me realize how young I am and how much I have to learn about the lifestyle I want; I've been treating the gym as a chore instead of a teacher.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 12:32 PM
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he wrote well to convey his message well. there's no contradiction here.
/r/seduction23/10/11 11:39 PM
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props for having the insight about what the girls you're chasing want and the ingenuity to figure out how to get them.
/r/seduction06/07/11 12:20 AM
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Also moving to the boston area (Woburn) in a few days. Would love to meet up with fellow redditors/sedditors!
/r/seduction27/06/11 01:19 PM
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whatever got on your fingers is totally your problem though
/r/seduction26/06/11 08:29 PM
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this made me chuckle. very true though!
/r/seduction22/06/11 11:38 PM
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Hey DJ Fuji, thanks a lot for doing this. I've learned a lot from this Q/A already! I read your answer for the incoming college freshmen question, and my question is a bit similar. I'm just finishing college and moving to an urban area (Massachusetts, just outside of Cambridge). What are the most important things to know and consider for post-college game and social success, and can you recommend any resources? How much does the crowd change after college? Thanks again!
/r/seduction22/06/11 03:08 AM
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Just a note; people in relationships make great wingmen, since they're never looking to close for themselves. Unless you're constantly running into situations where every girl needs to go home with someone, dudes with relationships are perfectly fine wingmen.
/r/seduction18/06/11 07:44 PM
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See a hand in the air? Grab it and spin them. ...this is a move I have never ever thought of. Mega upvote.
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:18 PM
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Not that I am your life guru, but the best game to work on when you've graduated and found yourself unemployed is inner game. Stay on your path to success (that is, keep looking for a job in your field) and pick up the girls that are fortunate enough to cross it.
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:14 PM
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From a PUA standpoint, glasses are just another piece of peacock gear. No man should worry about glasses past the point of making sure he looks good in them. On the flip side, not being able to see is awful, especially when you think you've been talking to an HB9 all night only to squint and see she was the grenade.
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:10 PM
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You already have all the data you need, man. Look over your text conversations and notice the trends in the way you speak. What kind of words do you use? Do you make a lot puns, innuendos, etc., or is your talking very straight-forward and to the point? Do you respond in paragraphs or sentences? What kind of vocabulary do you have? The questions are all answered on your phone already. Check it out and get in that mode when you see her in person. Social engineering, baby.
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:06 PM
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"The game resets at the end of every night." That quote was a huge help for me too.
/r/seduction18/06/11 01:40 PM
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i don't know, initiate flirt mode? what kind of field report is this?
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:47 AM
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There's actually a quote I used to say to myself before every approach that would always get me to do it. I very recently hit the point where I no longer need the quote to go talk to girls, and that's how I know. I don't want to look back at all the time I was alive, only to realize I never truly lived. Alternatively, this.
/r/seduction18/06/11 02:40 AM
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Kino is short for kinesthetics, which is your sense of touch and your sense of self (balance, etc.). PUA's use it interchangeably with "touch". The question "when should I start kino?" means "when should I touch?"
/r/seduction18/06/11 12:20 AM
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As an electrical engineer, I agree.
/r/seduction17/06/11 01:14 AM
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Invite her over for something she likes to do + alcohol.
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:47 AM
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You to her: "Aw, I'm so glad we're friends"
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:43 AM
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this. girls give out numbers, even if they don't want to, especially if they think it'll avoid conflict. they just put your name as "DO NOT CALL HIM" or "CREEPER" if they don't want to meet up. Not saying that's what happened to you, I'm just saying it happens. Yikes!
/r/seduction17/06/11 12:41 AM
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This topic seems like it can help you out. Nothing says "I'm attracted to you" like a playful smile. Humor is what gets HER attracted to YOU.
/r/seduction16/06/11 03:28 PM
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Agreed. This is what you look like when you say "thats what she said" to a girl.
/r/seduction14/06/11 03:21 AM
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First off, I'm assuming all of your isolation and placement are taken care of (these are 1-on-1 dates, she's not distracted and trying to leave, etc.). Second, kino should be simple courtesy to start: when opening doors for her, gently place your hand on the small of her back as she passes through; if you're walking somewhere and suddenly change direction to avoid/pass through a crowd and she doesnt immediately follow, gently guide her your way (just so she doesnt lose you in a crowd), etc. If y…
/r/seduction14/06/11 12:39 AM
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In the military, some training exercises are fake, but their lessons are very real. ;) The best any of us can do is take away from each thread what lessons we can, and hope to give back so that others may do the same.
/r/seduction13/06/11 09:48 PM
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^ mega upvote. This comment is right on the money. You can be serious and not be a downer. Go study something interesting. Art, music, whatever; just for 2-3 days. Talk to girls about an art exhibit, a piece of music that really changed the way you vibe, etc. If you're never serious, you'll never be taken seriously.
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:37 PM
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Not sure how serious your relationship is, but with video skype, try setting up a double candle-light dinner (or something kind of different/sweet) for anniversaries. Even if she doesn't do it, dress nicely and light a nice candle when you sign on. She probably won't expect that. If you both have face-time (or phones with front-facing cameras) try doing out on mini-dates. Both going outside during sunset and face-timing or something. I've never been in a long distance relationship, but I hope th…
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:32 PM
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Ask nicely for directions Bump into them and apologize playfully If you're both waiting at a cross walk, positively comment on the local surroundings If you both have over a minute (cross walk just went red, public transportation, etc.), ask politely where they got a particularly interesting piece of clothing they're wearing, because you're in the market for a birthday present for one of your girlfriends
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:15 PM
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I've never read a post on here that makes women sound so much like wild animals. You'll notice that when you do this to members of the same sex (obviously with shorter eye-contact), you'll get the same diffusion of tension. Eye contact is a sign of respect in American culture, and the smile is a very positive IOI on any level. That's why you do it for job interviews, etc. Lesson one: complete.
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:12 PM
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You'll find that the things that work best for you are the things you're most natural at. I assume that when you talk about yourself, you stammer and pause a lot less than when you're trying new material, or even rehearsed tactics. Women pick up on the flow of conversation very quickly, and since many topics can be interesting, the best ones to talk about are the ones that keep the mood going. Good flow is associated with being genuine. This is why practice is so important in almost anything, in…
/r/seduction13/06/11 07:03 PM
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Upvote for the last sentence. If you know that school stress is what brings out the AFC in you, then you already have the answer to your problem.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:58 PM
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Tall, interesting job, good sense of humor. You nailed it. If it's working for you, don't change a thing.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:56 PM
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Gone are the days where seduction and the internet domain are mutually exclusive. People come to seddit to improve their repertoires in all facets of seduction.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:40 PM
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Yeah, don't worry about it. There are girls like this, even after high school. I ended up dating a girl that I didn't kiss until our 4th date. After that it was smooth sailing. And yes, when parents control your car and cell phone, it's very reasonable to not want to make them angry by making out with people in their home. Relax, be a gentleman in that respect, and keep reading the shit out of seddit for smooth moves. God speed. P.S - if she doesn't seem interested in you the next time you guys …
/r/seduction13/06/11 03:31 AM
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Just remember, the crazy-hot scale exists for this exact reason.
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:32 AM
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I'd use "GR" for anything 4 and under. GR is, of course, my made up abbreviation for "Grenade".
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:27 AM
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