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FattiesMakeMeGag/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:22 AM
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FattiesMakeMeGag/r/askTRP15/06/16 02:07 PM
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How much time passed from the moment you first had sex to when you made her your girlfriend?
/r/askTRP25/03/20 07:41 PM
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She was trying to get a reaction out of you. You should've just soft nexted right away. Your reaction wasn't horrible, but instead you should have told her you don't care about the shit she's talking about and carried on by soft nexting. Tell her you're done hanging out and go home. She won't do it again. She obviously doesn't have much respect for you. I'm assuming you didn't vet for at least 6-9 months before making her an LTR.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 05:35 PM
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I read the post yesterday. It’s over man. She clearly doesn’t respect you. She’s playing dumb, playing ignorant. You shouldn’t have to tell her all these things. You should just end it and keep fucking her. As for the text, don’t respond and stop explaining your actions.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 08:26 PM
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Talk to people in class. Hangout outside of class. Social circle is made. For girls, go to university clubs/bars. If you want higher quality women than bars and tinder are not your best bet. School is your best option. Although, Stephanie from Accounting can still be a whore even if you did not meet her through tinder or the club. Keep in mind if you go in with your only want an LTR mindset, you will most likely get oneitis or LTR a girl that’s not LTR material.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 07:00 AM
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No male roommates is common sense, specially for someone in their mid 30’s. It’s a non spoken boundary. The fact that she’s considering it, should have you considering your relationship. She then tells people about your private conversation. This all should warrant a soft next at minimum and a serious reflection of your LTR. Go back and look at your LTR vetting process. Whatever you do, don’t say “ if he moves in, it’s done.” That’s redundant and she’s essentially choosing him over you, which me…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 06:51 AM
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There is no flexing. She rejected his last sexual advance, 6 months pass of them not talking. She texts this bs cause she got dropped by her plan A. He’s probably plan D. She’s not even a plate. She ultimately is looking for attention and since she didn’t have sex with him the last time, she doesn’t deserve any. Giving out non-sexual attention is a waste of time.
/r/askTRP09/03/20 08:17 PM
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Respond "I know", then change the subject.
/r/askTRP07/03/20 05:57 PM
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She agreed to hangout, that means she's dtf until you fuck it up.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:55 PM
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What do you have to lose? Get to the point and don't give her free non-sexual attention.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:54 PM
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Stop comparing yourself to other people. Look to become the best YOU can be and lay off social media. Jealousy is for women. Stay focused on yourself and with an abundance mentality you'll stop getting jealous. Work on yourself enough that you won't ever think your girl could do better. If your girl is applying dread on you or trying to make you jealous by flirting or entertaining attention from other guys that's a different story. Turns out she's a thot. You didn't vet properly and she has no r…
/r/askTRP06/03/20 07:50 PM
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This is very cringe. You shouldn't try to control what she does, but your girl snapping other guys is a hard next. "She cooks, does my laundry, buys shit for me, is great with sex, and I haven't caught her in a lie once." or you can add more reasons to justify staying with her. Abundance mentality doesn't mean not caring unless she cheats. She doesn't have any sort of respect for you. I'm in college, my girlfriend has snapchat, she's not snapping other dudes cause she knows better. If she did it…
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:46 AM
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You’re assuming a lot of things. If you have strong frame, she will believe you don’t care and will get the message. The only thing she’ll know is I don’t care for the subject and won’t mention it again. As I already have said soft next is useful here. She knows she was disrespectful and inappropriate, I don’t need to spell it out for her, girls know how to play the game. Girls will never mention it again, if they do I have no problem hard nexting. On the contrary I’m not afraid to lose her, she…
/r/askTRP27/02/20 01:29 PM
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Never flip it on her by getting her to empathize with you by painting the what if situation was reversed scenario. She doesn’t care about the logical. She knows exactly what she’s doing by bringing up that talk. Don’t fall into her drama. You’re going to come out looking insecure. You tell her you don’t care about the subject of conversation. She’ll feel stupid and never do it again. You shouldn’t bother wasting your time explaining or rationalizing why it’s logically wrong. This is basic stuff.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 04:02 AM
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Don’t ever do this. Never flip it on her saying “how would you feel if I did it to you.” You’re not equals, your boundaries are not the same. You sound like a female trying to logically justify why she’s wrong. All blue pill guys use that phrase. Just tell her you don’t care when she’s bringing up whatever you don’t like, and apply dread/soft next.
/r/askTRP27/02/20 03:42 AM
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No. You played everything correctly. I mean if you were supposed to hang with M after, you could have texted her. Thing is if she’s actually as hot as you say she is then I would have just ignored and not text. Next day I’d wake up and text, “didn’t check my phone, how was your night”. No guy has ever had the balls to do that to her. If you want a 9 to be obsessed with you, treat her like no guy has ever treated her like. I’ve had the hottest girls be so needy for me through doing this. To answe…
/r/askTRP24/02/20 05:23 PM
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You failed every shit test she threw at you. At least you said no to opening up about emotional trauma. The girl mentions sex twice and you take it at face value and say no to any escalation? Every girl says we’re not having sex. You should have said “who said anything about sex?” You’re also coming off like a weirdo and she’s coming off retarded. Move on and don’t take everything so literally, you’re suppose to have fun in the process.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 02:47 PM
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The chances of guys being approached are very small no matter what. If you're attractive the chances increase from none to unlikely. Therefore you should be the one approaching. Also, the hottest girls I've met almost never approach and like the man to make the first move.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 12:26 AM
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You can't deal wit her past so move on. Plate/LTR, what does that even mean. It also seems that you're just insecure about girls pasts and it hurts your ego. It seems like you have a low partner count and you don't want to be the beta cuck that LTR's the girl that got fucked without commitment. How many girls have you slept with? The reality is every girl fucks without commitment for an alpha guy. You're trying to find a unicorn. Just end it already because you're invested and you resent her for…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 04:37 PM
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“Hey bro what’s up? It’s been too long” “Blah blah” “ let’s catch up, hb this weekend?” Easy. It’s not that serious, whatever a person says just ask them about it or expand on it.
/r/askTRP07/02/20 09:09 PM
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You kinda fucked up because the best time to get into a group of friends is first year uni since everyone’s in the same boat. Most people don’t have friends so they are very social. Anyways, it’s very simple. Talk to people, exchange contact info, make plans , and repeat. Same with girls. What I personally would do is just go out to clubs/parties and take home the girls I met. I also would get numbers for future prospects if I already had my hands full that night. Sometimes, if I had pulled real…
/r/askTRP07/02/20 01:51 PM
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End it with her and gain self respect. You’re acting like a female.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:47 PM
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Stop focusing so much on everybody else and valuing your self worth on your physical traits. Strive to become the best version of yourself. Do you really think if you had a straight nose, all your problems will be fixed? Although, looks matter in attracting the opposite sex, they don’t define your self worth or give you a personality. Think about many of the people we consider great through history or even now. 99.9% of them are not perfect chiseled Greek gods and are not the best looking.
/r/askTRP11/12/19 08:38 PM
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You're alone because she doesn't want you, not because of what you read on here. For all you know she's fucking another guy right now and gave you an excuse because she's not attracted to you. Either way, she just doesn't want you.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:39 AM
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Simple breakup text. No anger in it. Just letting her know it's over and end of discussion.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 07:01 PM
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It's oneitis. Plates can get gang banged and I wouldn't react. You obviously treat her as more than a plate or she's your only plate. In that case, she doesn't respect you enough to not flirt with other guys. You're doing the right thing, don't ever react and raise SMV.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 06:47 PM
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It won't raise your smv. It could make your plates hamster about who you are with, which will increase attraction and dread. Don't post a story of you watching netflix with girls accessories in it, that's lame. Let it happen naturally and be vague when they ask you what you're doing. That's all.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:13 PM
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Your LTR has snapchatted a guy every day for 30 days lol. The relationship is over. Confront her about it, you'll receive some trickle truth and her tell you "you're being controlling, I'm allowed to have guy friends." Your only other option is to check her conversation between them and they might only talk through snapchat so the convos don't get saved. Best option is to leave and vet girls better next time.
/r/askTRP09/12/19 05:07 PM
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I'm 23. I've never found any of my high value friends through social media. You don't need social media. How are you quite popular at your campus, but haven't had invitations into social circles? It's as simple as people from your class asking if you want to grab food after class. No, one is not going to be your friend because you don't have instagram lol. This is all in your head. Also, at our age there are only benefits to having social media if you don't waste all of your time on it or to orb…
/r/askTRP06/12/19 04:38 AM
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If a guy looks away first, it’s not cause he’s submitting to you lol. Maybe, he doesn’t want to eyefuck another dude.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:02 PM
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I think you should cut, but if you're walking just do HIIT max once a week, on your day off. Yeah, I think you need more volume in your workouts. Your meals are fine, but I would track macros. Many people think they're eating enough protein, but when they track their macros, they realize it's lower than they thought. I'll post my split and you can try it out if you'd like: Day 1: Chest/Tris abs. Day 2: Back/shoulders bis Day 3: Legs/ traps/ abs Repeat. I used to do Chest, shoulders on day 1, but…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:39 AM
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There could be so many reasons. First, I would increase calories, even for a guy your height, 150 pounds is light. If your above 15% bf, you should reduce your maintenance calories by 10-20%, while increasing protein. You should change your split to a different one and try to hit each muscle group 2 a week. I found the best results with PPL and HIIT 3 times a week really helped lose the stubborn fat. Don't overdo cardio and do HIIT when you're doing cardio. Hit your obliques and your upper and l…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 10:24 PM
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Exactly, all these cucks act all RP until they're faced with ultimatums. OP if you have any balls, any time a girl says "or else", say "all good" and never look back.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:30 AM
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That size is good, everyones in the same spot. Make sure music is loud enough, I usually play music from my JBL speaker, and let my 70" TV auto-play music videos on mute so there's some visuals. For drinks get whatever, beer, wine, vodka, and definitely tequila. Later on when everyones buzzed you can bring them in by telling everybody they're doing a tequila shots. Ups the excitement and gets everybody a little more drunk. You can even pour and then cheers the girl you have your eye on and do an…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:21 AM
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Let me know, when you find this girl. That is hilarious, why stop at 3 sexual partners, why not 2 or 4?
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:37 PM
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Like I said it’s not TRP, it’s what I personally don’t do.I don’t want to message her again because she never replied. I genuinely also forget about the message, because I’m seeing other people, I don’t think twice about the message.By that logic, you should do whatever you want just because you want to and if not you are giving up control. If I’m on a cut and I’m passing by McDonald’s craving a Big Mac, I guess I should just go and eat one. I’m doing what I want, if not I’m giving up control of…
/r/askTRP17/11/19 10:29 PM
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Never double text.If you had a rotation of girls, if one didn’t reply to your message, you’d forget about it, because other girls are hitting you up.Lots of people will tell you to double text because she’s just a plate, but these dynamics matter all the time.Specially, if you want your plates to spin longer.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 07:01 PM
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She’s not yours it’s just your turn. She will never love you like you want her to. Never show weakness.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:45 AM
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I’ve been drinking since high school and I’m 23. During uni I drank 2-3 times a week every week. I’ve never thought of myself as an alcoholic cause I don’t crave it during the week. For example if I get a bad mark on a test, I’m not going to crack open a bottle to down my sorrows in. I can stop whenever and I have not drank for a month or two when focusing hard on my physique. If you’re young and over drink when you’re out, that’s a problem, but very easily fixed. Have it in moderation, don’t do…
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:54 AM
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You don't want to waste time, but write an essay on a girl who has a bf. "Thing is, she's hot. Even though she's got a bf, she's fukkin hot", your oneitis is starting up. It's not difficult, plan hangout and escalate. Also, contrary to popular belief on here, not every girl is open to cheating on her bf.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:09 AM
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You're validating her because she's mentioning it to bother you. It's not rude. I told her the truth, I don't care for the topic of conversation. In his situation it was clear she did not respect him. Sorry to disappoint you, but there's no tactic or strategy lol. You can disagree, but that's what it seems your relationship is based off your advice.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:29 AM
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If you want to validate your girlfriend when she brings up a stupid topic of conversation to make you jealous, be my guest. I don't play those games, I wasn't rude, jealous, or mad. I get that result outcome I wanted out of me saying that, which is she wont bring up those topics of conversation again. It's not about being jealous, it's about her respecting you and vice-versa. I'm sure your girlfriend brings other guys up a lot and you listen and then tell her how that doesn't make you feel good.…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 01:43 AM
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Be alpha and rip it off
/r/askTRP03/11/19 06:03 PM
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It's subjective to you.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 05:47 AM
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You have not read the sidebar and your whole relationship is cringe. Don't LTR the first girl who let's you stick it in. Yes, dump her and don't look back.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:24 PM
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A few years ago, I would make a joke and just agree and amplify, but that's not the vibe I give out anymore. That's disrespect and my girl should know better than anyone else. Remember even in an LTR she should know you can drop her and get any girl you desire whenever you want.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:11 PM
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Sometimes the girl will try to carry on the conversation even if you ignore or act uninterested in what she is saying. It's better than her thinking you're upset, I'd carry on happily with whatever I'm doing. I agree, dread includes removal of attention. In this case it's probably past the point of no return, my girl wouldn't under any circumstances think she could bring up another guy and disrespect me like that.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:09 PM
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I live in a big city, but have family in Ohio, it's a nice place, but even though it's nice that the standard of living is way lower than LA, NY, SF etc. I still think they don't compare to the biggest cities in entertainment, women, education, jobs, and things to do. Maybe, I'm just a city boy now.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:02 PM
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Why would anyone want to live in Columbus?
/r/askTRP28/10/19 06:41 PM
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Acting jealous was the worst thing you could do. Your girlfriend clearly doesn't respect you and I wouldn't have asked her to rate another guy out of 10. You need to think before you speak. I bet she talks freely about her ex's, or about guys orbiting her. You need to have the type of relationship where your gf would never consider talking about other guys. Next time she brings up a guy, ex, or orbiter, just act uninterested in the conversation. If she keeps trying to continue the convo, say "Je…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 06:28 PM
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I meant clubs, very similar to bars. Loud music, drinks, girls etc.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 12:40 AM
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Anything that doesn't sound salty is fine.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:12 PM
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Class, clubs, and parties. Talk to people and you'll be invited if they think you're cool. If you have low SMV it will be hard to pull in any situation. As your SMV rises, your success rate will improve.
/r/askTRP27/10/19 10:10 PM
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Never start and end your day grabbing your phone and scrolling through Instagram. Get up, drink water, stretch, breathe and think about the upcoming day, then look at your phone. Keep your phone on silent. You’ll stop responding right away and check your phone whenever YOU feel like it. Never scroll through insta or Snapchat stories. I’ll go on insta everyday and maybe check the first 3 posts, but try not to scroll or look through stories, it’s mindless. Instagram actually lets you set a reminde…
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:36 PM
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No. If you’re doing everything right she should hit you up more often than you do. She could be used to you hitting her so skip seeing her for a couple weekends, it will hit her. You’re the prize, she should be asking you if you’re free. This goes beyond girls. If I’m always hitting up my friends to hangout and they never ask me, that should tell me something.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 06:30 PM
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I wouldn't even reply, but if you insist say" I have enough friends".
/r/askTRP24/10/19 02:19 PM
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I'm as emotionally unavailable as they come and I'm in an LTR. Yes, the girl has to express her interest in an LTR multiple times and never commit out of an ultimatum.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 07:03 AM
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It's not beta to want to have a meaningful relationship with a woman. One night stands are obviously not going to do much for you emotionally. If you want to be in an LTR, do it. I would never say "I like you and I want to try being emotionally available with you" to a woman though. She'd see that through my actions and that sounds needy. If you're going to get into a LTR. Wait until you have a genuine connection with one of the girls you meet. You will eventually meet a girl who you vibe with. …
/r/askTRP11/10/19 06:50 AM
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It's funny that all these "unicorns", end up magically wanting to go on a girls trip to Vegas or Cancun. Every future cuck on here hamstering to himself says the same thing on their posts. "No red flags, cooks, cleans, never has a had a casual relationship, good family, never goes to the club." Turns out they're not unicorns lol. Anyways, you have boundaries and you have even gone one step further and have verbalized them to her. Due to this you're fucked. You should not give a fuck, but now if …
/r/askTRP10/10/19 02:40 PM
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Tell her you're tired of hearing this shit. Tell her you're with her right now for a reason and to not stress. Seems like your dread is working. Whenever girls would say that kind of shit to me I'd ignore, take away my attention or tell her to stop. That's extremely annoying, tell her to thank God in her head.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 05:43 AM
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Read "Sex God Method." Also, not being blackout and not masturbating right before will help you stay hard. She has to be really turned on for you to bite her lip really hard, don't do it right off the bat.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:06 PM
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Who cares. If it makes you feel any better, the girl still wants you and just didn't want to look like a whore in front of your ex. Try to avoid events that your ex will be at and completely cut her our off your head. You should've just shrugged it off and not let it get to you. Move on and have fun the next night.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:01 PM
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I know, but he’s going to try and plate even if we all tell him it’s best to ignore her at this stage.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:59 PM
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“As a family member had given her number to the guy and she didn’t want to seem rude when he texted.” Do you read the stuff you write to yourself lol? You know what would’ve seemed rude, giving out her number while she has a boyfriend. If you want to actually know how to handle it. Do yourself a favour and hard next this manipulating hoe. Read all of the sidebar, then you can text her. I remember when my girlfriend would ask me why girls would follow me on Instagram on nights I went to the club.…
/r/askTRP06/10/19 06:15 AM
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I don't cum during bj's 99% of the time. Not your problem, if she feels bad who cares, let her hamster spin wild. If you can't cum at all, then stop jerking off to porn with a death grip 10 times a day.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:49 AM
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Women don't want men who treat them like shit unless they're mentally fucked up. Men who treat women like shit are also weak and angry. It's like treating your dog like shit over eating the food he found on the floor. The dog doesn't know any better. In this situation the truth is she prefers it when you value yourself over her. Overall, the truth is all over the sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:45 AM
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If you really want to plate. Fuck her and ghost her, that will shatter her ego and you will hopefully see the bitter-sweet truth of how women truly are.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:19 AM
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It's not all girls. This scenario plays out 2 ways, assuming she is single and you're not approaching like a cheesy PUA. 1) Low-SMV= She think's you're a creep. Tells her friend later that day, some weirdo hit on me at the mall today. 2)High-SMV= She talks to you and gives you her info. Tells her friend later that day, some hot guy talked to me at the mall and we hit it off, hopefully he asks me out for drinks this weekend.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:13 AM
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She's messaging you because she misses your attention, not because she feels sorry. She just wants to put you back into your rightful place as orbiter. Reply "all good." You have 2 options. She is going to try to extend the conversation to try to rope you in. If you want to plate, set up a meet to catchup. if you don't, ignore. Definitely don't talk to her and give her free non-sexual attention, because that's just what you used to do before you discovered TRP.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 03:07 AM
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First fix your outlook on life in general. It seems like you've fallen into this downward spiral of negative thoughts. Law of attraction. Life is good.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 02:58 AM
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Do you think it's a good idea to go exclusive after she gives you an ultimatum?
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:17 AM
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You're in college and are checking to see if she saw your insta story?
/r/askTRP05/10/19 07:10 AM
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Wow this must come as a surprise, since you properly vetted her before getting into an LTR with her right? Nothing you can do now. Don't mate guard. She doesn't respect you, I'd say demote to plate, but you won't do that. Stop worrying about her cheating on you, live your life, the sun will rise again if she does or doesn't. You guys need to realize that boundaries are for you and never have to be explained to the girl. Your LTR is supposed to know how to behave.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:36 PM
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If that's the mindset you have, that's the mindset they will have. Same goes with just 1 girl you invite over, if you think it's a big deal that you're inviting her over to yours to have drinks, she will think it's a big deal. This is why girls reject guys when asked to come over from the club. You have act like it's not a big deal and just trying to extend the fun and create good times. I'm in an LTR and there's been countless times where my girlfriend has had a friend come over to have drinks …
/r/askTRP01/10/19 04:21 PM
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I'm 172 lbs, 6'0. Bench 295 lbs 1RM. My bench started increasing like crazy when I started doing a PPL split. Also, since I am pretty lean I always do a 4x3 bench press before any other chest workouts. I go for power and try to add on more weight or a rep every week. This is what worked for me.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 02:51 AM
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Don't listen to the people who tell you deleting social media improves their SMV or that it's useless. To each their own, but most delete it because they had 40 followers and are ugly. They'll also say they don't want to provide girls with validation. I never like any girls pics, I just follow people I know and post pictures every once in a while. Having a good instagram also reassures girls you're not a weirdo and get out of the house. Social Media is a time waster and extremely addicting which…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:46 PM
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I do realize I’m setting boundaries without speaking about them. That’s why I am wondering if there’s a better way. If it makes the question easier, what would you do if she was a fwb and not a plate?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:26 PM
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So hypothetically what if she was a fwb, what would you do?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:24 PM
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I am in her frame just by posting here, but she doesn’t know that. My attention is valuable and I blew her off because I’m busy and want her to think of my attention as a gift which doesn’t come easy. Her attraction has gone up as her hamster has gone full speed due to this. I realize that’s why she fucked someone else, I still want to continue plating her. So there’s no way to train her or other plates to not do that I suppose?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:20 PM
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I always assume they have someone else, but I never check their phone or ask them as I don’t care that much. My friend told me because he said he’d want to know in my shoes and it hit my ego. I see her once a week, with a week or 2 off because I don’t want her to think she has the ability to see me every week. She will also message me first for every meetup and will cancel plans to hangout with me because I’m so hard to plan with. I have impeccable frame and dread is crazy with other girls witho…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:37 AM
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It doesn’t matter, but I’m a greedy fucker. I do care more than I should hence me writing this post, although I thought this would be a good advanced question which could help with future plates .
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:31 AM
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i know I want to have my cake and eat it too. I’m being greedy, but I don’t want to lose frame or set verbal boundaries because this will show that I care about her. She’s still just a plate. Isn’t the soft next while China’s is one of the strongest tools always going to come off passive aggressive in a way?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:28 AM
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She is free to do whatever she wants, I did mention in the post that it bothered me as I am not made out of tin. That’s why my question was if there’s a way to train her to learn that being with someone other than me makes my attention decrease. I want to do this in a way that does not come off butthurt, controlling, insecure or loss of frame. I thought the soft next would be the most effective, but am wondering if there’s a better way you or someone else can enlighten me with.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:21 AM
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Frame is everything Lift and fix diet Clothes Grooming and Hygiene Stop being a pussy and just do what you want to do Stop trying to get people to like you Be friendly to everybody, including girls Build a social circle and go out frequently, don't stay in on weekends It is okay to have your own opinion and to disagree with people
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:33 AM
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I’d rather go out and socialize than staying in watching Netflix.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:48 PM
2

You should only see her once a week and don’t make yourself available every week. Skip a week of seeing her every once in a while. You definitely have oneitis since you also dropped your plates. Give her less of your attention and you’ll spin her for longer trust.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:52 AM
5

Socialize with them and don't use PUA tactics. Talk to the girl sitting next to you in your marketing class. It's that simple.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 11:51 PM
3

Haircut Clothes Grooming, Cleansing, Exfoliating & Moisturizing Cologne Whitening Teeth Tanning
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:56 PM
2

Send the message and see if it works out. Girls always have options, don't get insulted by it.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:50 PM
5

You could ask her if she wants to come over and study after class. If you don't think she'd be into that, then getting something to eat to build some more rapport would be better.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:46 PM
1

I usually wait until they reach out, but texting first to schedule a meet up is also fine. If you don't think she'll text you, send her a text to hangout. If she says yes, you have a plate.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:40 PM
2

Reward good behaviour. Once she's 100% invested in you, she'll hit you up every day, text you first, be submissive, take you out, pay for shit, do you favours, cook for you, and always sucking your dick. Once she's invested and she does those things you have to throw her a bone or she'll eventually leave. This is fine too if you don't want to spin her for long. You can start giving her non-sexual attention as a reward. You still have to limit it as women crave validation so you can never give he…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:20 PM
11

Tell the plate " Busy tomorrow, maybe next week." Stop chasing her. She should be chasing you. You have a date lined up so you actually are busy. You need to teach the plate you're above her and that if she wants your attention she has to adjust to your schedule. So what if you don't fuck her until next week, she's just a plate and you have many others on rotation right?
/r/askTRP06/04/18 04:30 PM
6

Minoxidil, to stop the hair loss from progressing. Besides that, I'd go with shaving it all of is your next best option.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:54 AM
8

I do believe it. You told her you liked her and spent 4 days in a row with her, proving your time is not valuable. You know that will turn her off and you're surprised she lost all respect for you? Then you broke frame by getting mad at the easiest shit test she threw at you. Then she get's a text at 3am and you "demand" to see it. You show her you're invested and controlling already. I bet you stayed the night and cuddled her till you guys fell asleep in each others arms. lol
/r/askTRP06/04/18 09:53 AM
9

Go get tested again. Don't tell your plate anything yet. Although, you should ask the girl who has chlamydia if she has had sex with anyone after you. She probably has, but it 99% was given to her by the new guy.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:06 AM
2

Be unpredictable with your attention. Don't like her pictures on Instagram, don't send her snapchats, and don't respond to her messages right away. The point is to give her only sexual attention, until she's extremely invested in you. You also don't give her attention when she misbehaves. For example you guys hang out on Saturday night and have sex. You wait until she messages you because you're the prize. If she doesn't message me by Wednesday, I don't see her the following weekend. This is sub…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 08:01 AM
16

Easiest ways are Tinder and night outs. 1) On tinder I open a girl, banter for 2 messages. Tell her to give me her number so we can grab drinks. Text her to setup the "date." She'll ask for details. Tell her she can come over to yours and you guys can drink wine. Easy sex. I never suggest a date outside of my place. I've fucked every girl on the first date like this. 2) Go out to a club/bar, find a girl then flirt and dance. Escalate and isolate. You can make out with her to get her horny althou…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:34 AM
11

Women have it easier. That said i'd rather be a male. Men were born to be leaders, women are a by-product of men. Women are born, men are made.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 07:27 AM
1

Sex is not that big a deal. You're realizing that now. You're a man who's suppose to have women far down on his list of priorities. This is how abundance mentality starts and you realize you don't have to bend over backwards for bitches. This leads to even more sex.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:57 PM
2

Stay busy.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:53 PM
3

It has nothing to do with words. It has everything to do with your frame. You allowed her to do that before, so she's used to you letting her get away with it. The answer in the present is to soft next, which it seems you've already done. She needs to be punished for this behaviour and has to realize it's not acceptable. Next time she wants to nag you she'll think twice and remember the consequences that come with it.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:52 PM
4

Lived in my suburb town which is about 45 minutes away from the a very big city. After high school I moved to the city for university and have not looked back. I’ve been here 3 years and they’re by far the best years of my life. You meet an endless amount of people and you mature since you don’t live with your parents. My best friends are people I met in the city although I still have friends from my home town. It’s also a fresh start since most people don’t know you. The only con is it’s crazy …
/r/askTRP11/02/18 06:22 PM
4

If you only have 20 followers don’t tell girls you have Instagram or you’re going to look like a loser. Just tell her you’re not into social media instead. If you have a very interesting profile than social media helps you, if not it makes you look worse. By the way you can have a very cool Instagram profile without having to post every day or weekly.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:42 AM
4

Besides some of the people who are stuck in the anger phase and take it way too literally. It is because the truth makes the (unplugged) people who have been socially conditioned to believe other things uncomfortable. Also, women don’t like that we have a manual that tells us about their true form. TRP basically is a tool kit to not getting manipulated and evens out the playing field.
/r/askTRP12/01/18 02:35 PM
2

It's hard no matter what. Don't ghost her, just tell her straight up. Say we need to break up, I realized I'm not in the place where I want a relationship at the moment and want to work on myself. You don't even need to say all that, but if someone treated me well I'd make up some reason so she doesn't hamster forever why I ended it.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 08:36 PM
1

A relationship is a 2 way street. You clearly haven't kept up your end either because you have found your goals are not that similar or because you don't find the friendship of any value to you. You're not a bad person for it, but either let go of these friends or understand why they are acting like this. As you get older you'll want to spend less time with people and instead make more time for yourself in my experience.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:04 PM
1

No, you're her boyfriend not her dad. Break it off with her, you'd be doing her a favour. The break up might be a revelation to her that she's let herself go and has no self-esteem.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 11:00 PM
32

You acted stoic. Usually when emotional tampon is used, it's when girls complain about trivial shit or gossip about how at work Britney fucked Ashley's boyfriend and everyone thinks she's such a bitch. That you can ignore or tell her to tell her friends that shit.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 10:00 PM
5

You have to learn to love yourself. I don't mean give up on improving and just love your skinny-fat self, but accept you were born with your face,height, and race. You can't change these things. You have 2 options. Stay home and cry about how life is unfair or improve yourself everyday eventually getting to somewhere you're satisfied and keep on going. It's all up to you.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 09:52 PM
37

The girls are definitely not 10s. Also, there are numerous reasons for this. Besides them using the guys as beta providers I would say girls just do this when guys have shown enough social proof. Think of it like high school, the most popular guys were sometimes ugly and fat, but they still were the coolest in their eyes. You own the bar... You have so many opportunities to show value, please use your head.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:19 AM
1

She’s a woman, if you’re doing things right they all start to care eventually. If you don’t want to deal with her drop her. Simple.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 07:33 PM
8

Oh then I understand. That sounds fine, just fix up your diet if you haven’t already and you’ll do well.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:49 PM
17

You’ll always find enough time to go the gym. Manage your time better. Unless you’re overweight, I feel like 30 minutes of HIIT cardio is excessive everyday. Cut it down to 2 times a week.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 04:26 PM
1

Stop being a pussy
/r/askTRP06/01/18 11:48 PM
2

The white girl is ugly too.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:24 PM
2

You don’t have to delete, just forget about her and go fuck other girls. She might eventually message you again or she might not. By then you won’t care anymore.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:33 PM
16

Yes, specially with hot girls at first. Now, I just fuck and never talk to them again, way better.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:20 PM
3

You can’t soft next if she already did it to you. You acted desperate because you’re in a desperate state, go get more pussy so you’re in the state of abundance again. You also don’t seem like you did anything wrong here at first. You didn’t invest more into her which is fine, but she probably found someone who is down to give her more commitment.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:18 PM
16

This for real, what the fuck. You met her 3 weeks ago and you want to LTR already. If you LTR I’m going to see you posting here in a few months asking why she doesn’t fuck you and respect you anymore.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:14 PM
0

Don’t tell me you actually believe her when she told you she was thinking about you the whole time she was getting used as a walking pocket pussy by the rebound...
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:10 PM
3

Every girl gets a “hey”, if you want to increase your chances of her replying, start with something unique to her profile. I usually tease them like if she has a bunch of emojis as her bio, I would say “ you definitely have to add more emojis to your bio” or some shit like that. Stop complimenting them unless it’s sexual. You can’t seem like you would just chill with anybody, sorta toy with her. Then finish it up with something like give me your number and we can chill sometime. Text her trying …
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:02 AM
1

I usually just try to have playful but brief interactions with a girl. Meaning I tease them a bit, flirt a little then leave or stop texting her. You don't want to tease her so much you come off as annoying. I usually start to build comfort if she really wants it after we've already fucked.
/r/askTRP21/12/17 05:46 PM
3

But Jay-z is a hip-hop legend and almost has a net worth of $1 billion lol
/r/askTRP19/12/17 08:02 PM
39

It's never too soon to start going out, but you're getting yourself into so much drama by having your ex LTR at your place. First of all she's not going to act like a roommate and respect you even less than she already does. Give her a deadline to move out by and she'll find somewhere to stay. She'd do the same to you.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 07:55 PM
1

I'm sure people have tried that, but I wouldn't advise that. Once you're doing it for a girl it's definitely sad because you're putting so much of your self worth on her. Do it for yourself, there are millions of other girls out there that will want you and are better than this bitch. In my case I had an LTR in high school for a few months. She was a complete bitch so I ended things with her although she definitely had checked out of the relationship before I ended it. Now 4 years later my SMV i…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:13 PM
1

I agree there are definitely girls like that out there, but they are rare. Honestly though I cheat on my LTR and I don’t really feel bad about it while I wouldn’t tolerate if it was her doing it.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:21 PM
1

Cause that's what it looks like from the outside. Girls are all about the now, she got tingles and cheated. I'm really curious on how every things going to play out.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:30 PM
2

I understand where you're coming from, but it's just in her nature to do that. According to her they hadn't had sex in around 5 months, and he'd beg for it, but she'd say she wasn't down. Pretty sure they also moved in together like 4 months knowing each other and they started dating within 2 weeks of knowing each other. She's also 21 year old. He fucked up so frequently I'm surprised this hasn't happened more often. Then again she's texted me telling me how sad she is and she told my best frien…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 09:15 PM
5

If she's dragging you away from your group she's trying to isolate you, so make a move.. Kiss her, grab her ass, or take her hand and say "lets get out of here". If she says something like "I'm not coming over to fuck you", I usually respond with " who said I wanted to fuck you" then continue leading her home.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 08:44 PM
2

He has tinder plus lmao
/r/askTRP18/12/17 03:52 AM
7

You can never know for certain. This is why it's preached here to not commit to any girl unless you've been fucking her for at at least 4-6 months. If you've vetted correctly and she hasn't shown red flags you can LTR if that's what you desire. Other than that, you will get a feeling she's probably cheating when she starts flaking on you, frequency of sex declines, and things don't start adding up. Every girl can cheat, but not every girl does. There was this girl I met about 6 months ago, I ask…
/r/askTRP18/12/17 12:34 AM
1

Get to around 10-15% by & stop sending “:)” for fucksake
/r/askTRP17/12/17 09:08 AM
2

Lmao
/r/askTRP17/12/17 12:09 AM
3

It is a lose-lose, but if she did this she was a shit person. Although AWALT if you vet your LTR properly before you commit to her, there’s a good chance they won’t do this.
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:10 AM
2

Lmao drop this hoe there’s an infitine amount of girls who won’t pull this shit. Give your commitment to those.
/r/askTRP02/12/17 07:04 AM
3

He’s pussy whipped so he’s not going to bring this up to her. Honestly I’d just ignore her as you would with anyone else who doesn’t put in an effort. If she goes to your friend saying you don’t give a shit just say I do the exact same thing she does and I’m not complaining.
/r/askTRP01/12/17 12:08 AM
3

After reading it all sounds good. To be honest kinos good, but it’s not the most vital thing. The only thing I could think of would be desperate like I said above or maybe you’re too serious. Did you tease her and flirt back and forth? I feel like that’s the best way to build sexual tension in my experience.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:49 PM
3

He didn’t provide details, but the biggest problem most people that post here is that they seem to desperate. When I approach or get approach I tell them we should chill sometime at mine sometime, get her number, then go on about my day. I then follow up with a very casual text like “it was cool seeing you the other day”, followed by a meetup text.
/r/askTRP30/11/17 11:42 PM
3

If she never has acted like this than it's the hormones, but why are you crying lol?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 06:32 AM
9

Exactly this. You’ve been looking for an LTR. You’ve already imagined an LTR with a girl who you’ve gone on a few dates with, your commitment shouldn’t be easily given.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 11:32 PM
1

I usually say I’m having a lot of fun with her and would like to keep doing that and change the subject. If she asks if she’s my gf then I do say no. If she outright asks me if I’d want to date her I say I’m not in that place right now, but could be in the future plus we have something good right now. If I’m feeling lazy I just say no and tell her I won’t talk about this anymore. Although this has a higher chance of a plate falling eventually.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 11:27 PM
2

Exactly. For #1 you don’t have to be an asshole. For example if I’m in my kitchen getting food and she asks from bed if I can get her a water bottle, I’ll say yes. If we’re both in bed and she asks me to get her one I’d laugh and tell her to get it herself.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:39 PM
1

Yes, delete them. If you leave them up it'll remind your of her and she'll think you're creepy for leaving them up. Man up, delete and block her off social media.
/r/askTRP06/11/17 04:24 AM
3

To be honest just improve yourself physically through all the advice they have on here. You won't look feminine if you're 190 pounds and ripped. Also, try to make friends with the guys so you have someone to arrive with to parties. You also don't need to try to fuck every girl. Start with baby steps, talk to the ugliest one in a friendly way and she'll introduce you to her friends including you in the group.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 03:01 AM
3

Plates fall. You didn't do anything particularly wrong here. She just thought she'd never be more than a fuck so she found someone who would commit to her. Don't worry about why she stopped just move on. In the future, if you want to keep a girl around more the key is to fuck her really well and to get her invested in you before you ultimately tell her you'll never commit. Although don't use the word never. That's why so many guys go with the "right now is not a good time for me". Cause it lets …
/r/askTRP05/11/17 02:51 AM
2

Ask her, if she doesn't great and if she doesn't great.
/r/askTRP01/11/17 06:34 AM
5

Didn't read, but who cares and move on. Girls cry every single fucking day it's no big deal.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:56 PM
2

Either she mistook you for a cool guy and then realized you're actually beta or she found someone who will commit to her.
/r/askTRP31/10/17 10:54 PM
5

It's just easy because you see a ton of girls in your everyday life. You don't really have to introduce yourself as a new person to a girl because she most likely knows who you are. High school is also the time when you get invited to parties and no one knows how to properly drink so everyone hooks up with each other.
/r/askTRP29/10/17 11:40 PM
11

What do you mean probably 5-10 lol and yes you're insecure. If you aren't cool with it, just next her. You should care about sexual history with the girl you're dating.
/r/askTRP16/10/17 04:25 AM
1

Not really, sometimes the girl will want it to work so bad she will make herself believe it was the alcohols fault and not yours.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 11:09 PM
2

When will they learn.
/r/askTRP29/08/17 05:53 AM
3

Send her this emoji.
/r/askTRP14/08/17 06:34 PM
10

I don't get why people on this sub Reddit put up a front, saying shit like "who cares" or "your problem." Like don't comment if you're not going to answer the guys question. Anyways the way to salvage this would be to just act normal, until she gives you IOI's again. If you come on too strong you look like you have no options. Sorta soft next her.
/r/askTRP13/07/17 03:51 AM
6

Most people on here are confused with the term "plates". They think the girl they take on dates and let sleep over then get brunch with 5 times a week is their "plate" when in reality it's their girlfriend. Anyways I never text my plates they hit me up first or if I do text them it's something similar to yours like come over tonight which is probably once every 1-2 weeks. They'll all break eventually. If you put more time into them they'll most likely stay longer, but it's more time investment f…
/r/askTRP08/07/17 05:35 AM
3

Don't tell her she can't go. It also depends on how long she is going for. Just act normal, you don't have to act like you're thrilled about it, but don't be passive aggressive about it.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 05:06 PM
10

This is the dumbest shit I've ever read.
/r/askTRP02/07/17 07:07 PM
3

Only downside is she's a 1/10.
/r/askTRP18/06/17 03:43 AM
1

I'm 20. Your average girl probably an 8. Your average tinder girl probably 13. Although every girl who's at least an 8 has had at least 4 dicks in them. Most of the girls that I plate are 3-8 from what they tell me at least. Now I go out frequently since I'm 20 and I've met many mid 20's girls and they all have above 15 guys they've slept with at least and they've all done anal.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:25 AM
1

You're overthinking this. Don't be lazy during it and you'll be fine. To be honest I've slept with over 40 girls and I don't think there's a difference between my sex skills now and when I had just slept with below 10.
/r/askTRP02/06/17 08:19 AM
1

Literally a lose-lose in any situation lol.
/r/askTRP29/05/17 11:55 PM
3

You fucked up so hard. You're right to be skeptical about her not answering for a full day and then telling you that story, but why bring it up like that. You sound insecure as fuck to her. You lost from telling her that you know what happens in those situations and then implying she cheated. She's not going to tell you if she cheated so why bring it up? If you have a problem with her going out with a group of guys and clubbing then you should have just nexted her right away instead of talking a…
/r/askTRP29/05/17 07:43 PM
3

No. Just talk to them and stop putting them on a pedestal. 2.What Be confident and act like it's no big deal. Which it isn't.
/r/askTRP20/05/17 05:02 AM
5

Although most people say you should always approach, I think you should not. you're 50 pounds heavier than you should be. Fix your diet, keep doing bodyweight exercises, get a new haircut and fix the way you dress. Do this until you've gained enough confidence. The way you've typed this out it seems like you're a little socially inept. If anything practice talking to women in your daily life, not even trying to game them, but just being comfortable holding conversations and maintaining eye conta…
/r/askTRP20/05/17 04:59 AM
3

Reply back "Ok !"
/r/askTRP12/05/17 09:34 PM
3

No, don't LTR her over this. That means when she's upset she gets what she wants. You weren't exclusive so you did nothing wrong. Tell her this while also telling her how you like here more than the others. Something for her to hamster. Also LTR, next time she brings up being your girlfriend. Act casual be like ok that doesn't sound that bad plus we get along great.
/r/askTRP23/03/17 04:45 PM
3

If she reacted like that, there was no way you set boundaries and were red pill throughout the relationship.
/r/askTRP22/03/17 06:13 PM
0

exactly
/r/askTRP22/03/17 06:11 PM
3

He's overreacting. OP you're a tinder match, you mean nothing to her. If she reschedules that means she wants you.
/r/askTRP25/02/17 09:00 PM
1

If I'm with a plate all day, we'll fuck 3-5 times throughout the day. Although, if not I'll want to have sex everyday.
/r/askTRP20/02/17 12:51 AM
1

It's been a year. You're not her orbiter, go fuck her.
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:16 AM
6

Why are you in an LTR with a 6?
/r/askTRP17/02/17 01:12 AM
4

You fucked up, you have to show how it doesn't bother you at all. How do you feel when a plate tells you she's going out with the girls? Wait, your girlfriend is the only girl you've slept with so you wouldn't know. Although if you had plates you would give no fucks if they went out. You know you're worth way more to her than she is to you. Next time she tells you she's going out say ok. Don't tell her to enjoy herself and all that just act as if she's going to church. Then when she hits you up …
/r/askTRP16/02/17 12:47 AM
2

lol this is the weirdest shit I've ever seen, but I can see it working.
/r/askTRP08/02/17 11:42 PM
5

Lost frame way too many times.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 07:53 PM
1

Talk to every girl you want to talk too.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 05:10 PM
2

Yes, it's a red flag. Girls who have sex without commitment are not LTR material.
/r/askTRP05/02/17 12:55 AM
1

I agree, but I feel if you're in the top 20%, 18-21 is so easy. I'm 20 right now and have no problem with girls.
/r/askTRP04/02/17 11:49 PM
2

Kissing a guy is cheating.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 01:41 AM
2

She cheated on you. She didn't do it out of spite since she doesn't know you cheated. Why would you take her back after she disrespected you? You showed you're weak and that you'll forgive her if she disrespects you. Next. Don't tell her why. Just tell her you don't want to be in a relationship right now. Don't plate since you'll keep getting these thoughts. Even if you said "if you cheat on me again it's over" after she cheated the first time, it doesn't matter because she's reading your action…
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:59 PM
1

I don't think you did anything wrong. To be honest she probably felt uncomfortable doing that in the vball hosts house or she just was displaying major LSD.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:51 PM
1

Op don't listen to him, he doesn't make any sense.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:49 PM
1

lol, what a savage
/r/askTRP01/02/17 08:38 PM
1

She's checking back to see if you're the same guy you were back then, ready to kiss her feet. Block and forget about her.
/r/askTRP30/01/17 01:14 AM
6

lol op is retarded if he thinks he'll find a girl who's never made out with somebody casually.
/r/askTRP28/01/17 10:54 AM
1

5 is try hard lol. Let people take their own pictures.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:57 AM
6

Don't talk about trp. If a friend shares similar views, but don't tell them you adopted these ideas from trp.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 09:19 AM
2

This, why are people asking questions when they have so many answers in the sidebar. Feel like AskTRP's 90% of questions are answered in the fucking sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 03:38 AM
7

I think girls do this as a way of dread, if they feel you're constantly dreading them.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 03:32 AM
1

Why does she know your love life is not going well? Ask her to hang out if she declines or make up an excuse you're an orbiter and just next.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 12:26 AM
7

Don't ltr and her saying that's just a test.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 12:22 AM
1

I agree in part. OP if you were high smv you could take them home. Girls always say how many girls have you asked to take home or they see me talking to other girls at the venues. It's not that you're a player that is the problem. I swear 90% of the girls say "you look like such a fuckboy, how many girls have you slept with 50?" and I still fuck me. You're either overestimating your smv or you're not providing plausible deniability. They don't want to feel slutty coming over so I usually say "le…
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:11 AM
1

I've kissed plenty in the club and haven't had trouble taking them home. I honestly think I've taken more girls home that I've kissed in the club then the ones I haven't kissed.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:08 AM
3

You mentioned something she's pretty insecure about lol. Yeah, you're socially retarded for saying that, but it's funny just move on and don't say that shit again. It's like if a girl has a big nose or big hands don't tell her straight up. Common sense
/r/askTRP12/01/17 09:04 AM
1

This. Why would you say that, it makes you look beta and still mad.
/r/askTRP12/01/17 08:59 AM
1

I wouldn't reply for a bit just so she doesn't take you for granted.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 11:23 PM
7

She's testing you even more right now. If you pick up you like the biggest pussy. It's also over, you shouldn't care anymore. Go fuck a bunch of women to get over her and keep busy.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:07 AM
2

True, but it seems like she's not the effort for him. To be honest I wouldn't think its worth to wait longer than 3 hang outs for sex.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 05:05 AM
1

I just told you what's going through her head.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:58 AM
9

She's 29 though lol and is definitely lying about sleeping with 2 people.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:56 AM
1

Anything, but mirror pics or selfies.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:55 AM
3

She's just poking fun and is thinking about sex with you. I would've said "maybe if you're lucky".
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:54 AM
1

lol what the fuck. You're getting fucking cucked. She's cheating on you and doing this shit more bluntly to try to get you into it more. So when she finally asks to bring him into your sex lives for real its not out of the blue.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:50 AM
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Need more context, how many times have you hung out with her including dates? If it is more than 3 times, I'd ghost until she asks you to hang out. Say you're busy, she'll then probably send you nudes or sext you.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:47 AM
1

That's still bad. Yea I'd definitely keep as plate and focus on not catching feelings for her.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:03 AM
2

I feel like everyone goes through a stage like this. I think most experience it when they first start trying to get many girls and since TRP says don't give a fuck and tease them. They go overboard until the girl actually gets hurt or thinks they're the biggest tryhard.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 01:03 AM
6

I get that, but I just don't mean move out to get women. I'm only 20 and I live away from home. I have a good relationship with my parents, but living downtown in the city has changed so much for me. I'm talking about experiences or just my own maturity as a person. I would never go back and live at home.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:57 AM
2

Say something like "we should hang out outside of class sometime". Proceed to get number and work out logistics.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:54 AM
1

Oh then just approach as you normally would, but if you're talking to her and she constantly is being called it takes attention away from you. I wouldn't rush it, but I'd try to be quicker than I usually am and more bold.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:51 AM
1

I think on top of everything, dancing on other guys is so fucked. Just imagine what she does when you're not around lol.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:40 AM
3

An example would be you checking your phone all day constantly to see if she's texted you or you being extremely upset because she hasn't texted you.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:35 AM
1

No u/roseilluss is right, you haven't fully swallowed the red pill. You're scared to approach a girl who's 12 years younger than you. Just do what you should've done a long time ago and don't do a note, that's pussy shit.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:31 AM
3

Just do what you usually do. Obviously, try to flirt while she's taking your order and throughout your meal. I wouldn't stay long after I'm done to just talk. I'd say just then ask for her number and leave.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:25 AM
4

I agree. I also think him getting a place on his own would really benefit him at 25 as a stepping stone. I feel like as a person you change drastically once you move away from your parents.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:23 AM
7

Looks do matter a lot. Confidence and game helps. You're talking about online dating which is basically all based on looks. Your inner game is what helps you succeed in person where they judge everything else besides your looks. They both tie into each other. If there's 2 guys that are both extremely good looking, but one has shit confidence and is a beta he will attract less women than the other guy.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 12:20 AM
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He knows she cheated.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 08:52 PM
1

I agree he has massive oneitis, but I think if he really wants to fuck her he could. Since you say you're going to see her in 4-5 months, stop talking to her and improve your smv. Literally she only is talking to you for attention. Go lift for 4 months and when she comes back hit her up and escalate.
/r/askTRP10/01/17 06:24 PM
3

To be honest, if everything was going well this is probably true and not an excuse. I wouldn't have texted "thoughts about catching up?" when she didn't reply to me the first time. I'd just let her come around, get your mind off her.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 10:03 PM
1

No, don't get them to buy drinks/smokes for the girls. All that would do is make them lose money while being rejected. About the girls numbers you got and didn't hit you up back. This is completely normal, most girls don't reply back in most cases. To be honest I don't usually text them at all and sometimes I do if I slept with them and the sex was really good. I would recommend just keep trying to text and one will finally reply, but I'd say try to escalate from the club to your place for same …
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:46 PM
1

I go through the exact same thing. Guys will invite me out and I'll decline or say maybe next time nicely of course. I do this if I feel I'm way ahead of them at life or honestly since I feel most of the guys in my social circle are high SMV. Same with girls, I never really make friends because any girl I speak to it's done sexually. I have a social circle where there are girls that I see often and I don't hook up with, but I also don't become their friend and sometimes we'll dance sexually when…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:33 PM
1

Girl A: If she gave me the runaround I'd ask one more time. When you said how about Wednesday or Friday and she gave you that response. I would've not replied. That's so flakey, it is not that hard to make a plan. I'd say look up a post on TRP called "deal or no deal" if I remember correctly.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:27 PM
1

Her place or your car.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:20 PM
1

Don't post any mirror selfies. Mirror selfies are for women. Try to post a picture of you shirtless but at a pool party or beach. More candid type. If you don't have any like this just keep whatever you have for now. I posted this on a similar post "You want to get her number within the first 5 messages. I usually tease her about something from her profile then mix it into a plan to chill. For example one girl's caption was "I'll probably friendzone you." I then teased her about me friend zoning…
/r/askTRP09/01/17 01:01 PM
1

Yes, all girls are obsessed with social media so they check their stories. For this reason for girls I'm hooking up with I never look at their stories. This is automatic dread meaning I'm too busy with my life or don't care enough to look at her story.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:57 PM
2

If you know it's clearly a shit test why would you give her the validation she wanted. She clearly knows why just wants you to validate her. You could've even used amused mastery or said something like" I like doing charity work every once in a while". Ghost her until she texts you first.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:54 PM
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You can't agree and amplify expecting results if she doesn't respect you. Don't apologise she's being childish, but if she's ignoring you for 3 days that speaks for itself. Next.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 12:50 PM
2

You can never let your guard down that's why most people say don't LTR. You can still be nice and loving to your gf without being beta. For example I'm nice and take her out to eat if she's done stuff for me. It's all balance. She's cooked dinner for me 3 nights this week, so I reward her with a night out on me. I also never compliment and if I do I say your ass looks so good, I can't wait to bend you over. I've never said you're so beautiful baby I like the way your eyes sparkle to a girl and n…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:50 PM
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Wall of text, so I didn't read but from the title sure plate her. The only thing is make sure you wrap it up and don't ever LTR her.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:46 PM
5

Sacred gift
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:27 PM
3

lol op has to be trolling
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:27 PM
1

Change doesn't happen overnight. It seems like you're also doing this just for girls when YOU should want to be the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 11:24 PM
2

Sure, whatever works for you. Although I've learnt even if strategic waiting to close is a mistake.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 04:19 PM
2

lol you got nexted, that's why you never stop approaching and adding girls to your roster. Don't text her till she asks if you want to hangout one night for sex.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:22 AM
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dude trust me you're feeling some sort of oneitis for her. Also, you always text her first, you're being too clingy man. You don't want to listen to what you have to hear.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:20 AM
3

She messaged you because she thought she could do better than you. Now that she's been pumped by multiple chads and they wouldn't LTR her she's come back to see if her plan Z is still available. By the way I had an LTR then I learnt RP you still have feelings don't go back. Best decision I've ever made. I don't even talk to my first ex anymore and wouldn't fuck her because I'm way too high smv to giver her that satisfaction.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:18 AM
2

Even if it is, just try it out if you want to. I have social media and no one knows through that unless they see the comments girls leave on my pics. Stop overthinking and just do.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:02 AM
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I think you wanting to go back is you still having oneitis. You're going to end up losing. You're not ready. Plus don't date anyone right now, fuck multiple girls so much more fun.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 01:01 AM
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First of all, don't let her sleep over or you sleep over if you didn't fuck her. Second, you acted so beta that she's thinking she mistook you for an alpha. Wanting to actuallly confirm for the last time if you are in fact a full on beta, after ignoring you weeks, she rejected your advances for kissing her and you still stayed over and cuddled. Congratulations, you failed her beta test and now confirmed you are in fact beta as fuck. Next her and work on yourself. At least you learned something.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:58 AM
3

No, you married a hoe man. She deceived you and it might be evil, but ask yourself do you want to be a winner or a loser.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:54 AM
4

A text doesn't hurt. Say" hey name it was cool seeing you again, we should chill and catch up."
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:53 AM
5

Why would you re-attract her when you're clearly still a beta and are improving. Why would you go back to your weakness when you're still improving and you're not ready. The only way I'd say to re-attract her is if you had no feelings for her and had a bunch of plates. Still then I'd recommend ghosting her.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:51 AM
3

Stop feeling bad for her, focus on yourself. Be selfish.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:49 AM
2

No one needs to know you live the player life style though. Don't give up you still have time. You don't have to be a player to be alpha, being a player just helps some people with abundance mentality and some other things.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:48 AM
1

Soft nexting or ignoring her for a bit is fine. She'll get the message and won't do it again. This is the best way without sounding like something bothered you. She loses your attention temporarily when she acts badly.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:46 AM
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this, clean your fucken place. Having my place clean makes me want to be productive during the day.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:35 AM
2

You're 32.. Man just apply the sidebar. You've given up on yourself. You know what to do and you've tasted being alpha why go back. Obviously get ripped, groom yourself, stop playing wow, get a hobby, and start going out. Also don't get into a relationship right now, go find girls to fuck until you think your mind is ready.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:34 AM
1

Tell your boss that you're doing work that isn't your responsibility and it's affecting your work.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:32 AM
1

I soft next her. I usually ignore and go out. She'll text me and I wont respond or say I'm busy. When she asks"what you doing tonight" I respond with going to XYZ with my friends. If she asks why you're being dry say you're busy or sometimes I just straight up say you're annoying don't really want to text you.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:30 AM
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Thank god you found TRP. Divorce her and live your fucken life. Go look up a guide on how to do that properly. Start improving yourself.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:28 AM
1

lol can't be a plate if you haven't fucked her.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:26 AM
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People saying it's already over and demote are retarded. You probably run dread on her and she knows other girls want your dick. She probably wants to show you she can get guys too. This happened to me once and really surprised me when she did that. All I did was find the hottest girl at the party and proceeded to talk and flirt with her. Literally after 10 minutes my plate came up to us and introduced herself, which I said this is Rachel and you're being rude interrupting our conversation. Talk…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:25 AM
1

Man just look up Zac efron and there's a guy that girls find attractive. There's tons of them. Just have a good haircut, groom, and be ripped.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:19 AM
1

Go for it. It's not that fucking hard to go up and talk to her. If she seems interested be like " we should chill sometime, put in your number". Simple af. You're making excuses cause you're scared of her rejecting you. You're also over thinking about the social justice shit. There's always enough time for girls.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:16 AM
2

Intermittent Fasting. Besides that I just drink water and try to keep my diet low carb so when I do go out and want to eat a pizza I can.
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:14 AM
2

The only reason I'd recommend to delete the app is if it's consuming your life or you're wasting too much time on it. Personally I look at my insta before bed so I'm not on it all day. Don't delete it and become more active. Girls at least my age (20) care about it. When their friends ask them what guy they're fucking they ask to see their insta. Having no followers and awful pics hurts you. Follow more people don't be scared to, it also is a good way to keep in touch with girls you meet. Any ho…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:11 AM
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Pre RP I was popular in highschool and I'd go out to parties, but I had slept with 3 girls by the end of highschool. I'd play video games and didn't hit the gym. Now at 20 I'm part of a new circle of friends (although still chill with some friends from hs) go out every single week. The only problem I have on weekends is having too many plans, so I have to pick one. I also have 2 plates atm and have slept with around 35 women. I stopped counting as I don't care about how many girls I've slept wit…
/r/askTRP08/01/17 12:06 AM
1

I don't really give a fuck about her anymore, I just go on about my day. If she comes and says hi I say hi. Not interested in a conversation with her though.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:59 PM
1

If that's the case, maybe they just want your dick. If it's not that the only thing I can think of is maybe it comes out like you're trying too hard when saying it?
/r/askTRP07/01/17 11:54 PM
1

It's weird that she called you an idiot. She doesn't respect you. Next her.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:12 AM
1

Hard next. She doesn't find you attractive lol
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:10 AM
2

Keeps going after college. Usually, I stop seeing them after they're around 25-26 cause they realize they're approaching the wall.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:09 AM
1

No, it doesn't. If you're ripped from bodybuilding or playing football it doesn't matter. Only thing that would help is if you played for a team and she found it hot.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:07 AM
0

You can't act a certain way if you don't look the part. I have a friend who tries to act like me and he's still a virgin. Every girl says he comes off too intense. One of my plates found it said friend is a virgin and said I should help him. I said I have by telling him to stop getting friend zoned by every girl. Her exact words " nooo you have to tell him to be nice, he can't get girls by being like you." lol
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:04 AM
5

She's trying to throw it in your face that she's partying. Don't reply to her the next day. After she sends you a bunch of messages say you were busy and continue ignoring. Basically, soft next till you think she's learnt her lesson.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 10:01 AM
1

nah
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:59 AM
2

You want to get her number within the first 5 messages. I usually tease her about something from her profile then mix it into a plan to chill. For example one girl's caption was "I'll probably friendzone you." I then teased her about me friend zoning her first. She responds back positively. Me: Kk, give me your number so we can chill and you can see you're the one getting friend zoned. Her: # I also always invite them to my place. Never actually take them out on dates. Sometimes I meet them at t…
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:57 AM
2

You're thinking too much about this. Also, you telling her more about yourself after she just said she feels like she doesn't know you enough to have sex with you makes you look like you're trying to please her for sex. Some girls honestly have it in their heads that they won't sleep with you the first time. Just hangout again and it'll go further. If not next.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:49 AM
1

Minorities are looked down upon everywhere, what matters is your SMV. People also probably do worse in those cities because the women are hotter than in the midwest.
/r/askTRP07/01/17 09:46 AM
1

He's serious. He got a taste of being Chad for a bit and thinks he's already there. His post reeks of him thinking this girl is special, and he still has oneitis. Stop thinking about your ex and plate more bitches.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 04:32 AM
1

I'm interested, could you pm me them? Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 09:58 PM
1

To the other comments, I realize she's just a plate and OP might sound like he's throwing a fit/ too invested. Respect is demanded from anybody even plates. If you're sure this is a shit test to try to bother you, just don't answer her. Or you can be dry like don't ask interested in the convo for a few messages then stop responding. Let her initiate the conversation in the future.
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:10 PM
2

That's what I mean. I don't use radio silence.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/16 12:20 AM
8

I feel like the advice that people give on here about radio silence and only using text for logistics is the best advice. The thing is I think it's the best advice because this basically puts you at a neutral position. It prevents your from fucking it up through texting. Low risk low reward. Although if you're really good at texting and push pull, I feel like it turns into low risk high reward.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 04:56 AM
1

Never speak about TRP to women because even though TRP is not a cheat code. It's just a different way of looking at the world, the way that you're not brainwashed by society. If you tell a girl you learnt how to be alpha and are not a born natural alpha she will think less of you. Never speak about TRP to blue pill people because they still are plugged in. The only way for them to unplug is through themselves. Never speak about TRP to anybody else because it just comes off as weird and they can …
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:35 AM
1

Not that I know of. He seems like he definitely does because he makes so many right decisions. But I've never and will never speak about TRP to him or anyone else.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 02:50 AM
2

I'm not a complete assholes to people who see value in me so they try to befriend me. I'll smile and exchange contact information if they want it. I'll also say hello or have a little conversation with them, but I won't do more. It also never hurts to know everybody. For the people I hangout with are usually people who I are on a similar path as me. University and most likely in business. I also surround myself with good looking people who care about their appearance. For my friends there's only…
/r/askTRP14/07/16 01:56 AM
3

When they use that phrase, it's complete bullshit. They're just feeding you lies for you to believe. Other similar phrases would be "if only you gave me more attention", "It was an accident". She's just saying anything she can think of for you to forgive her. Continue doing what you do. If she does something to deserve more attention then give her it. If you always try to make her feel special it will become what's expected of you and won't respect you. With one of my long term plates whenever I…
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:36 AM
1

If you don't find the girl attractive don't do it because you'll just see yourself as desperate. Although you could justify it by saying ugly pussy is better than no pussy.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:29 AM
1

Guccie dark guilty, literally have been complimented endless times. I also some times moisturizer with coco butter on my arms when I go out. It makes my arms look better plus I smell good.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 04:26 AM
3

I always say " Yeah that's me! with a big smile on my face. Just laugh about it. If they see it bothers you they will do it more often.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 12:14 AM
3

You're acting like a little bitch, complaining won't get you anywhere. Then work towards the things that you don't have.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 12:13 AM
1

If you're lifting, learning, and improving your life drastically you should be able to have sex. Stop being a bitch. It'll naturally come. Search for the top FR's of all time on TRP. Go out every night you come so you're always interacting and increasing the chances of you fucking someone.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:59 PM
1

She's clearly a whore. Don't LTR her, just fuck her. lol, a guy showed up at her house at 2am and you believe her when she tells you he means nothing. You also said you've just begun your TRP journey. Don't start an LTR until you've plated enough woman that everything becomes habit.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:51 PM
2

lol sound advice, but stop over thinking it so much. She clearly wants to fuck you.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:44 PM
2

Since you know about protection I'll talk about the girls you're fucking. There's a much higher chance that the girl that wants to fuck you within hours of knowing you has an STD than the girl that takes you a week to fuck.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:42 PM
1

You need to immerse yourself in the sidebar. In your specific situation regarding your hookup today. It sounds like you are desperate and displayed that to her in some way. When you're setting it up always act like nothing's a big deal. Set up logistics but don't act like her time/money is more valuable than yours.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:39 PM
1

ok or kk is better than k or k. It was popular about a year ago that k means you're butthurt.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 10:32 PM
1

He's a good friend to me that provides value to me in other aspects of my life. He's also my oldest and best friend that will always care about me. It's almost like having your brother be the beta. As for beta bucks I now encounter I usually won't become friends with them as I'm very careful who I surround myself with currently.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 09:56 PM
20

She's twice divorced, 30 years old saying she's slept with two men when you fucked her the first night you met her, already hit the wall, talking about marriage when she just met you, and you're in the medical field. Can you not see any more red flags? Please just fuck her with a condom on for a while at most. You're already catching feelings and you're hamstering your way into a relationship with her with the thoughts of a prenup and not proposing for another few years. You're 28, don't date so…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 04:59 AM
2

Good job. I honestly would've said " I don't hate you." Just act like you're happy, you don't have to be cold. Literally act like what she did means nothing to you even though it definitely did.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:11 AM
5

Yes, that makes sense. You're doing it wrong. Think whatever you want (TRP), but keep it to yourself. I had beta friends before I found TRP and I still have beta friends. Do I try to give them advice or show them TRP? No. You're just going to make your friends and family think you're crazy. My best friend is pussy whipped by his religious girlfriend who wants to wait till marriage to have sex with him. She's blown like half the guys from my friend group. He believes she's changed. She's even mad…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:07 AM
1

Google exactly what you wrote in your post.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 04:01 AM
1

Stop texting and wait till she messages you. You might have already fucked it up by boring each other over text. Remember use texting for logistics 99% of the times. Maybe text if an interesting conversation is ignited, but make sure you're the one who ends the convo. You want to end the convo at a high so she remembers you by that.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:55 AM
5

If you're good looking, lift, and know how to talk to girls you're fine. There are enough girls to go around for younger guys too. You also have the advantage of house parties, college parties, and girls on campus. Older guys usually won't be around any of those. I'm 20 and haven't had any issues even at clubs in a big city where the majority of men are 22-28 wearing suits and buying thousand dollars worth of bottles.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:52 AM
2

Don't ask her how the night went. Act normal or act distant and if she asks if you're mad because you're not talking to her. Just say "I'm busy." If she blew you off when you had definite plans like a time and she blew you off for coworkers I'd soft next. You don't have to completely not talk to her just say you're busy. I feel like soft next is also the best since you guys haven't fucked since before Tuesday? This issue aside maybe you need to start light dreading as you're hitting that 2 year …
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:48 AM
4

lol "update me" is not that bad. You were genuinely wondering what you guys were going to be doing. Instead though when she doesn't answer just don't text her. Eventually she'll text you "so what we doing?" just answer " made plans" even if you don't.
/r/askTRP08/07/16 03:45 AM
6

One night in over 2 years. You responded well. Although if it happens again recently and she doesn't invite you I'd probably soft next. Why the fuck would she need to go out to a bar with her most likely single coworkers. If she asks if you're mad don't respond while she's out at the bar. Instead, just answer the next day and say you ended up doing something so you didn't look at your phone. If she sends another text again just be like " no lol, sounds like a good time." Try to make it not sound…
/r/askTRP08/07/16 12:08 AM
2

This happened to me a while ago. Tips on how to get over her: Fuck someone else. Decline on going to places where she'll be hanging out. If it's a party go and try to fuck someone else. You definitely still have oneitis so just search for posts on TRP on oneitis. As for how you treat her just outright ignore her, if she says hi to you, smile and say hi. Don't be rude, just treat her like you'd treat anybody else.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:59 PM
-1

If you're in a LTR you should be confident that she won't cheat on you as you're committing to her. This doesn't mean there's no chance she will cheat on you, but you should never really be wondering. If you start seeing changes in her behaviour or her acting different then you can be suspicious. There will also be a higher chance of her cheating on you if she can tell you're insecure about it. Such as asking her to check her texts, asking where she is all the time, or forbidding her from going …
/r/askTRP07/07/16 11:55 PM
11

RPSigmaStigma is right. This is not a comfort test lol. He's just so beta she expects him to let it go. That's why he even came on here to ask what he should do when it's clear she's a whore. This seems so stupid to me that I even thought it was a troll, when he mentioned about the Ask Women subreddit.
/r/askTRP05/07/16 10:37 PM
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Oh yeah I've seen that I waited for when she's asked already too many times to count. I would never ask her for more commitment without her bringing it up same as I never express affection unless she does it. An example " I like you so much fattiesmakemegag" " Me too" or I ignore it and change the subject. She's also said I love you and then asked me if I love her back. I said I enjoy her and really care about her. So I haven't said it back yet and don't plan too for a long time. Okay thanks so …
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:34 PM
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okay that's true, so you think I should plate or just see how things play out although always reminding myself of AWALT and be prepared to walk away.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:08 PM
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I spent a lot of time with her throughout the school year, I thought it was too soon as well and regretted it shortly after. What do you think is an appropriate time to wait before becoming exclusive. I waited 4 months with her. Im still young and haven't LTR'd before so I thought this would be a good experiment for later. She also has had sex with me multiple times every day we've hung out. She sends me nudes and videos. To be honest the main reason I became exclusive was she's taken care of me…
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:49 PM
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Okay, I'm wondering how she's a whore when she waited till she was 18 to lose her virginity, and I'm her second guy she's ever sleep with. She's made out with guys in high school like every other girl my age. I don't think I'm going to marry her lol. I'm just enjoying my time with her cause I know this is just my turn with her. I really didn't see her as a whore that's why I became exlusibe with her. She also hasn't rode the cock carousel yet. You think I should still demote her to plate? Btw I …
/r/askTRP15/06/16 03:44 PM
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If she admitted to cheating before, I feel like that's already a reason to never promote her to LTR or am I wrong?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 03:25 AM
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I don't know if I completely understood, but if you're still with your LTR who cheated on you. She is still cheating on you.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/16 12:33 AM
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I understand that there is more opportunities to have sex when you're older, but I think it depends on the person. I have no problem having sex. Not to brag, but me and my other friend average fucking around 3-4 new girls a month. If you get invited out by people it shouldn't be that hard. I also feel like you shouldn't hang out with betas. The people you hangout with reflect who you are. I'm 19, hit the gym, 6 ft tall, good looking kid, outgoing, and nice to everyone. But the people I hang out …
/r/TheRedPill26/01/16 05:00 AM
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Would you be able to provide examples? I totally agree and always try to do this, but you seem like you have it down as a habit.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/16 07:13 AM
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Why would you stay over night if you live in the same building? Say you have an early day the next day, or you like sleeping in your bed. Also run some dread game on her, seems like you're giving her too much attention for the amount of commitment you're at. She's a friends with benefits don't try and treat her like a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/16 04:36 AM
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I know, I meant your question's solution is so obvious. Abundance mentality is the opposite of scarcity mentality. An example of this would be if you text a girl to come out and she doesn't respond. A person with abundance mentality wouldn't be give any fucks because he's got an abundance of women to pick from he doesn't care if one flakes or is being annoying. Abundance mentality is the key because that's when you don't over look girl's faults and treat them accordingly because you have other g…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 09:11 PM
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I'm in college as well, first year actually. Half the guys here are virgins or suck ass at getting women. College is easy as fuck you can do it I believe.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:08 AM
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This is so obvious it's almost a troll post. She cheated on you and she has mental issues. She also doesn't sound hot. Go bang other women and don't consider your work girl for an ltr, please just go fuck other women till you have abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:05 AM
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Hot girls get approached all the time. With social media they also get asked out getting up to 10 messages a day from Instagram or twitter followers.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:02 AM
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One of the best friend's I've made at university is a girl. I wasn't attracted to her because she's a whore. So I didn't feel like gaming her, she's always down to party, and finds it funny how I fuck multiple women. She's an HB8 so when I walk with her to class or go out in public I'm sure it gives me pre-selection. Plus sometimes she'll tell her friends how many girls I fuck and how I am the biggest "fuckboi" you'll ever meet. If anything I feel like some of the girls take it as a challenge. M…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:52 AM
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This happened to me twice and what I've said has worked for me both times plus has made the girl laugh. "No thanks, we've been together for so long, a flower doesn't make a difference." I really don't remember what I exactly said because I was drinking, but it's more or less what I said. The thing was I already had kissed them although it was our first encounters.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 04:07 AM
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I would not respond. If she sends you a message about something else just answer, but don't say much. This happened to me a couple weeks ago. I was texting a girl that's really into me, she was going out that night for her friends birthday. Her friend and her got into a fight so she stayed home. I asked her if she wanted to hangout with me instead as I was going to a party. She completely ignores my question and then the conversation goes like this: Her: I hate dumb bitches Me: same, that's why …
/r/TheRedPill02/01/16 03:58 AM
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OmLaLa, I have been reading over all your posts and this one is probably the one that has resonated with me the most. I look to improve myself in every way possible and I feel like this is the one thing that's hindering me. I notice some negativity from some of my friends at different times. It first started when I would lay a new woman 3-4 times a month. It started feeling really upset when I would come home without a new woman, even if it was due to logistics, or even if I made out with 8 diff…
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