So I met this chick over the summer and we fucked the first night. We banged a few more times over summer and then she went back to school. She goes to school pretty far away so I only got to see her a few times during the past semester. From the beginning we only ever communicated when we wanted to meet up but she would occasionally send me snaps which I never replied to. She asked me to take her out on our first real date thanksgiving break so I did. We went on that date and had a good time and then she went back to school but she didnt send me any more snaps. I texted her the first day she got back for winter break looking to meet up (I had broken a couple plates, wasn’t getting pussy at the time and havent been going out hunting much lately so I really wanted to fuck.) I asked her out for the next night but she said she couldn’t do it that night but def wanted to meet another night so I suggested one and she said yeah. She texted me the night she was supposed to come over and gave me some lame excuse but insisted on coming over the next morning to bring me breakfast. I was pretty pissed cause I already had cooked a dinner for us and I fucked up by insisting that she come over that night and not playing it off when she clearly still wanted to see me. She did end up coming over the next day but she wouldn’t fuck me, I got her to give me a hj but she just seemed kind of uninterested in the whole thing. We chilled for like an hour on my bed and watched tv and she left.

Anyway I fucked up again by texting her the next day and telling her about some movie she told me to watch and I finished the conversation by thanking her for bringing the food over and 2 hrs later she replied was like yeah of course I owed you, which obviously i didnt reply to (the fuck would I reply after she makes me wait 2hrs to text me back.) But I never texted her in the past unless I was setting up a date so texting her to chat was a pretty beta move. I guess I caught feels for this chick but I think a lot of my problem stems from the fact that I’m not getting any other pussy at the moment. Anyway, we haven’t spoken since then (this was last week,) and i feel like shes losing interest. Should I softnext this girl in hopes of salvaging my status in his mind or hit her up again and ask her out again?