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U sound like a big pussy who gets his validation from women
/r/askTRP09/04/21 03:14 PM
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def not all red states are like this, but Florida is lit right now. Can Confirm
/r/askTRP14/01/21 10:38 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 04:29 PM
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You got it buddy no bars so girls over 21 are stuck w social circle and online dating go get em tiger
/r/askTRP03/12/20 03:07 AM
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OP this is a great response and the only one you need to hear. Don’t let things outside your control dictate your life, go out there and take action
/r/askTRP03/12/20 02:59 AM
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Who knows. I would try not to worry about it. Just text her if u want but don’t be needy be like yea actually I do want that can I come get it. Nothing else. Put the ball in her court
/r/askTRP01/12/20 12:31 AM
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If u want to bang her again ask her to hang out. But be prepared for her to flake on u. Don’t get emotionally invested. Fuck her a few more times then ghost would be my advise
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:43 PM
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Seems like if I had a sexy ass girl super into me I wouldn’t end it. Being too afraid to get hurt is also beta. But whatever man life goes on
/r/askTRP30/11/20 10:14 PM
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This comment is absolutely spot on. I’ve been in relationships exactly like this. Listen to what this dude says.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 08:02 AM
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Relax bro you’re going through a drug withdrawal. Just like a heroin addict quitting smack you are craving for those feel good chemicals. It just takes time and prolly like 2 years to get over it. In the meantime work on urself So u can find someone better. Don’t do anything irrational
/r/askTRP30/11/20 04:39 AM
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Def is hard to find one. It’s safe to assume that you have to fuck 25 girls to find an LTR candidate.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 05:00 PM
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None of the millions and millions of people who adore MJ made even a penny off him. People love him because he was a ferocious competitor. But that wasn't my point, the point of my post was for people with big egos to realize that can be a huge advantage in life but you MUST pair it with a crazy work ethic and you can achieve things the average person can't. That's all
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:25 PM
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He was not a sore loser which is key to his psyche- when he lost, his huge ego fueled his work ethic and he became great. He always shook his opponents hand when he lost, but he came back stronger and better the next time. I think there's huge lessons in that. What's done is done and what separates a winner from a loser is that a winner accepts defeats, regroups, works on his weaknesses, and comes right back at the throat of the competitor. They don't wallow in self pity and get mad at the perso…
/r/askTRP24/11/20 11:22 PM
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Wow, great answer, I really appreciate it.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 02:20 PM
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here's my thoughts on this- for online dating, social media helps since the girl can't really feel your vibe so seeing "Social proof" definitely helps you get more matches. But unless you are super high value (i.e. pro athlete,) i don't think it's going to be a huge advantage for online as long as you have cool pictures in your profile. but, from my experience, when approaching in real life, it really doesn't make a difference whether or not you have social media. if you do daygame and meet a gi…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 06:16 PM
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Just meeting girls walking around my small town has worked for me. The past month I’ve done 15 approaches and gotten prolly 6-7 dates and 3 lays. Works well if you look good. I also live in a college town and I’m 28. I use indirect openers
/r/askTRP24/08/20 11:37 PM
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Do something hard very day. Don’t bitch out. Try 1 approach a day
/r/askTRP24/08/20 01:46 AM
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make excuses or get results. it's ur decision boss. 90% of young people dont give a FUCK about covid. the game has never been easier. I am cleaning up out here..
/r/askTRP11/08/20 11:56 PM
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If u can’t do 1 approach a day I got nothing to tell u except enjoy pornhub
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:35 PM
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Daytime cold approach pick up works well for me. Try this challenge- do 1 daily approach (only counts if you end interaction asking her to get drinks.) come back in 2 weeks. Guarantee you will have options if you stick to it ( it will be very hard)
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:10 PM
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Ur mind is playing tricks on u bro. Remind urself that even if u got her back, it would never be as good as your imagining it would be in your mind. You’ve built this girl up to be some goddess, when I’m actually I (or any other guy) could fuck her and ghost her and she would just be another girl to us. There’s nothing you can do except give it more time and stay on the grind. Keep up the self improvement you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP07/08/20 01:39 AM
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Yea dude obviously. Having sex w someone u have a connection with is way better than fuckin some tinder slut. The latter feels similar to jerking off
/r/askTRP25/05/20 06:22 PM
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It's a hit to your ego. Some guys have more sensitive egos than others for a plethora of reasons. That is all
/r/askTRP17/05/20 08:48 PM
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Self discipline
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:14 AM
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That’s sucks dude, sometimes shitty things happen. Just got to accept it and move on. Time will heal it and in the meantime focus on staying busy and getting shit done so when you get out of the funk you’re good to go. Also chicks are so fickle who the fuck knows what is going through her mind. Don’t take it personally bro as the great Marshall Mathers says “Bitches they come they go.”
/r/askTRP07/05/20 12:12 AM
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Quit watching CNN you fucking retard NYC area was hit somewhat hard by the virus because everything is in close quarters but no where else in the country has been hit anywhere near as hard. How do you explain Florida where they were late closing and the population is older than other states? You need to do some fuckin research before you start spouting out your fear mongering bullshit. The flu kills thousand of young kids and this virus kills people in nursing homes. Tragic yes, but not somethin…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 05:05 PM
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Fuckin chode
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:07 AM
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Haha chill bro you realize people under the age of 50 have very very little risk right? Yes if I am an overweight diabetic who’s 70 years old I would be hesitant to go to a bar, but for young people the risk is on par with dying of the flu. and if you live with your high risk parents and you go out well then that is on you for being dumb. The fatality rate of this thing is way lower than they originally thought and herd immunity seems like the best strategy anyone has come up (see Sweden) with b…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 07:06 AM
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Hahahahahha
/r/askTRP28/04/20 09:02 PM
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How about just don’t date whores. If you feel the need to check their phone ur dating the wrong girl and if ur not dating and just fucking then who cares who she’s talking to
/r/askTRP27/04/20 10:44 PM
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I disagree I don’t think you should be checking ur girls phone. Jealousy is weak as fuck
/r/askTRP27/04/20 09:46 PM
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Put her out on the street. If you get back with her just know that you’re a cuck that lets his girl fuck other guys. To me I’d rather be single than to be that
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:44 PM
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Move on bro. You are destroying your mental wellbeing over this. You clearly lost by asking to go through her phone- she had all the power in the relationship. I know it sucks but all you can do is move on, the sooner you do the better
/r/askTRP27/04/20 08:38 PM
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Give it 1 year and keep lifting and eating clean.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:52 AM
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This is a good reply. It just takes time man, you guys will be alright. It might take 3 years but eventually you won’t give a fuck about this girl. Use the shitty/depressed feelings as fuel for your self improvement fire, that’s the best tip you can have after a break up. Clean up your diet, lift harder and more consistent than you ever have. Just become a better more attactive man every single day and you will have options that are better than your ex
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:45 AM
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I dont think you can make saggy tits firm unless you can’t a boob job I could be wrong
/r/askTRP25/04/20 08:13 PM
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No. They cheat when you become too much of a nice guy so actually the complete opposite
/r/askTRP24/04/20 06:39 PM
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Good job dude. Just open up every now and then. It’s way better than being the beta who is chasing her and miserable about it
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:36 AM
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This. Might work but wouldn’t get my hopes up...
/r/askTRP23/04/20 11:23 PM
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Yes. Unless your famous your odds will be low with cold approach. This is why 99% of guys don’t fuck a lot of girls from cold approach, it takes thick skin to constantly deal with rejection and keep going. This is coming from a handsome 6’4 guy so I can say with confidence no matter how you look rejection will always be a huge part of the game.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 09:13 PM
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You’ll be aight id def recommend to stop wackin off that should take care of ur problem. Also when ur with a new girl sometimes you get a little strange fright and can’t get it up it happens
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:37 AM
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Yea it’s normal, stop jerking off and just give it time. 4 yrs is a long time to be with someone it will prolly take at least a year to get over her
/r/askTRP23/04/20 01:26 AM
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I eat a lot..I’m just on a low carb diet so it’s hard to get the calories in. The past month I’ve been basically carnivore so eating around 300-400 gs of protein a day. I’d love to be 210-215lbs, It’s just difficult to eat enough steak/chicken/eggs to get there. I don’t want to blow up to 20% bf percentage either to gain 20 lbs, so I’m at a little bit of a crossroads. What would you say?
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:09 AM
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yes of course, because I look good and I’m good at sex and I’m not a pussy. Those are the 3 things required to get hot girls and have them stick around. But it’s always a numbers game, most wont stick around no matter what you do it’s just how it is
/r/seduction21/04/20 08:29 PM
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Quit watching CNN you’re fine
/r/askTRP19/04/20 02:21 AM
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Everyone’s going through it RN. It’ll be over soon
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:31 AM
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Just move on man. If she reaches out tell her to go fuck herself
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:16 AM
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“she's gonna get tired of him very quickly if he doesn't have a job. “ This is false. I fucked a lot of sexy girls when I didn’t have a job or worked part time as a bartender or other shitty jobs
/r/seduction15/04/20 02:42 AM
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fuck it dude people come and go and you grow and change throughout your life. don't worry about it too much it sounds like you have beta male friends
/r/askTRP14/04/20 05:45 AM
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first you get the money. then you get the power. then you get the pu$$Y
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:53 AM
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Try not to fight with ur gf dude. If you guys are fighting a lot then maybe you aren't a good fit. Life's too short to spend it dealing w that shit
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:52 AM
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210lbs 8% BF
/r/askTRP14/04/20 04:51 AM
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She looks like a straight ho
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:54 AM
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She ain’t over him player be careful
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:04 AM
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Don’t over complicate it. Just look good, work on your fitness and fashion, and talk to a bunch of chicks. Eventually a high quality one will say yes and stick with you
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:57 AM
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You sound like a jealous bitch. Let me explain something to you- when you let a girl lock you down, you are taking yourself out of the game. You are putting yourself into scarcity, meanwhile, she is never in scarcity and dudes are hitting her up on Snapchat, IG, when she’s out, etc. And if she starts acting up, and you guys break up, well then you’re shit out of luck and you have to relearn the game and develop abundance again which takes a fuckin while and in the meantime she’s getting plowed b…
/r/askTRP09/04/20 12:33 AM
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Some will. Like 1 out of 20. Not bad odds though cause you can ask out 20 chicks a week if you feel like it
/r/askTRP08/04/20 11:58 PM
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Most girls won’t like you no matter how good you look. But if you keep taking shots you’ll hit a few. God speed
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:12 PM
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Look good. Talk to girls. Get laid
/r/askTRP08/04/20 09:08 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. The hardest part is that most of my friends are wifed up or in serious LTRs at the moment so it's hard to find people to do shit with when you're single. Any advice on this besides finding a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:08 PM
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Nah keep seeing them it’s better than being lonely right now. Going to take a lot longer than 2 months to get over her more like a year at least
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:41 PM
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Yea I felt that it’s just part of the process. It will go away eventually. Once you get a repeat customer that keeps coming back that should go a long way towards fixing it
/r/askTRP07/04/20 11:15 PM
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I don’t think it’s lasting a couple of months bro. But yeah if you want to stay strong during this time you’ll find a way. But most people won’t which is why it’s such a good time to get a leg up on the completion
/r/askTRP07/04/20 04:38 AM
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Just relax man, you’re not gonna feel like this forever. And if you’re so worried about not finding someone who makes you feel like her, that should drive you to improve yourself times a million. Let the fear of being alone fuel you in the gym and other areas of self improvement. Do you lift?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:37 AM
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Good. Dude I don’t mean to be an asshole but you do realise it sounds pretty pathetic that you can’t get over your ex from that long ago. You need to man up and realise part of being a man is accepting that shit doesn’t always work out the way you want it to and you might have to suffer for a while and take the L but if you keep doing the small things everyday that you have to then you’ll make it through. What you need to do is completely delete this bitch from your life, block on all social med…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:29 AM
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Bro, it’s 2020. Bitches are going to like other dudes photos. It’s an unfortunate realty of dating these days. Don’t be a simp and overreact unless it’s her ex she’s liking or somebody she used to fuck
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:18 AM
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are u still talking to this chick in any way?
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:15 AM
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Depends how long u dated. It took like a year and til I met someone equal quality
/r/askTRP06/04/20 05:02 AM
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Lol Elliot never got rejected. He was too much of a pussy to even ask girls out
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:17 AM
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Yea happened to me. Always felt I could do better and was very apathetic to the relationship until I dumped her and she moved on. Fucked with my head for a minute. It’s an issue of scarcity and feeling like you’ll never have a girl like her again and also longing for the “good times.”
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:15 AM
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I got bad news for you, if you’re worried about this then the relationship is already over. You’ll never be able to accept her for what she is and there will always be a divide between you guys. Im not saying I blame you for feeling like you do, I think it’s perfectly reasonable, but know that you’re wasting your time with this girl you should find a new one who you don’t have this hang up about
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:38 AM
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Just keep grinding. Every rejection puts you 1 step closer to finding the girl that will put out. It doesn’t matter if you’re thirsty or needy if you keep grinding and approaching girls you will eventually find 1 that shares her pussy with you. Only other option is to quit and hit pornhub like a beta male
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:36 AM
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Build momentum. The first 4 days are going to be the hardest but it will get easier after that. And just realize when you watch porn by yourself it’s the biggest beta male cuck behavior out there. You should feel like a little pussy watching another guy fuck a girl while u play with yourself. Internalize that
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:34 AM
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I wouldn’t tell them unless it’s a girl you’re dating. But if you’re having an outbreak don’t fuck anyone because that’s bad karma man a condom prolly wouldn’t keep them from getting it. You’ll be alright though it’s not like you have aids or something
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:17 AM
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Don’t sweat it bro. Just don’t bang chicks when you’re having an outbreak and you’ll be alright. Don’t make it a bigger deal in your head than it has to be I think a decent percent of the population has it
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:31 PM
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Talk to more girls. There’s nothing wrong with you it just sounds like you’re not putting yourself out there enough. If I put a gun to your head and told you I’d blow your brains out if you didn’t get laid in the next 72 hours then you’d approach and message enough girls to make it happen. Don’t over complicate the situation just put yourself out there way more. As you get older it’s harder to meet girls but it’s far far far from impossible you just have to put in more effort assuming you’re not…
/r/askTRP03/04/20 11:10 PM
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You sound like a gigantic pussy. Keep approaching and getting rejected. All it takes is one and if you can’t muster the strength to get through the no’s to get to the yes girls then you don’t deserve jack shit except pornhub
/r/askTRP02/04/20 06:17 PM
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quit watching porn so much it makes your sex drive artificially high and will turn you into a sex addict. not a good path to go down.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:50 PM
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Damn dude that was depressing as shit. I’m your age and I’ve been dating around for the past few months since I’ve been single and I’ve had decent success man with girls as young as 20. My age doesn’t even come up most of the time, I forgot that I’m way older than these girls. I’d say just get as shredded as possible and take care of your skin/teeth and getting laid shouldn’t be super difficult. I mean look it’s always gonna be harder for us because we’re men and we have to create our own luck w…
/r/askTRP02/04/20 03:05 AM
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I agree tinder is a beta male’s playground. All of the quality notches I have on my belt have come from cold approach (night game mostly.) The worst part of dating apps is that they make perfectly good dudes feel like trash when they can only match with fatties/weirdos. They should only be used as supplemental to cold approach or social circle if that’s your thing.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:06 PM
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No video games and jerking off. Literally everyone else in America and all over the world are going through this. It fucking sucks. But most people are just fucking off so if you can use these couple of months to put intense work on yourself you can make up serious ground on the competition. Get focused and don’t let your mind go to shit. And for real, no video games and no porn. Read this: http://www.manthesis.com/how-watching-internet-porn-can-destroy-your-dating-and-sex-life/
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:57 AM
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I usually just wear a well fitted white t and some some nice jeans. I’ve had success with that look
/r/askTRP01/04/20 04:20 AM
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How old are u bro? 12?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:32 AM
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Nah? 0? That’s what I thought
/r/askTRP14/03/20 02:14 AM
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How many cold approach lays do you have in the past 12 months? Just curious
/r/askTRP14/03/20 12:42 AM
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That’s like saying “if you can’t hit a home run without steroids, that’s pathetic.” But if steroids were legal every single MLB player would be on them. Just an edge on the competition brah obviously I get laid but the numbers game is exhausting
/r/askTRP14/03/20 12:30 AM
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guys will stare but not approach. very rare that a guy will put his ego on the line and approach a girl. girls almost never get hit on by any guys and desireable guys hitting on them is extremely uncommon. the reason is because it takes balls of steel and most people are soft as shit
/r/askTRP06/03/20 02:15 AM
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less thought, more action. you are only 1 girl away. might have to ask out 30 girls, maybe 50, but eventually you will find a yes. if that depresses you and you don't want to go through all of the no's to get to the one yes that could change your life, well that's on you. god speed
/r/askTRP05/03/20 02:25 AM
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The comfortable life of the mediocre male
/r/askTRP02/03/20 05:01 PM
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I’m not too worried about being a creep. Honestly couldn’t care less.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 03:23 PM
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Don’t chase. Text 1 apology message if you want but nothing after that if she doesn’t respond
/r/askTRP14/02/20 11:48 PM
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Don’t worry buddy she’ll be sucking new dicks in no time
/r/askTRP13/02/20 03:00 AM
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Another great definition of oneitis.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 04:56 AM
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Best explanation I’ve heard about oneitis
/r/askTRP11/02/20 01:18 AM
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Stay strong brotha
/r/askTRP10/02/20 05:15 PM
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No u don’t. Having a good day ig def helps but if you’re jacked n don’t act like a weirdo it won’t stop u from getting a quality girl
/r/askTRP10/02/20 07:01 AM
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False. Look good talk to women. Most will reject your. Some will give you number but flake. Some you will fuck. Easy as pie
/r/askTRP09/02/20 06:40 PM
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Just do carnivor don’t bother with Keto. Will lose 20lbs in 1 month
/r/askTRP08/02/20 05:33 AM
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U sound like a fuckin nerd dude. Take it easy with the adderall
/r/askTRP03/02/20 07:40 PM
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Numbers game
/r/askTRP31/01/20 05:22 PM
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A simp like u could never fuck a girl like this so u don’t have to worry about it happenin to u
/r/askTRP28/01/20 10:12 PM
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I dont care dude. Im not butthurt. Im just curious as to the most effective way to proceed for future reference. Could care less if I see her again
/r/askTRP28/01/20 05:02 PM
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RelAx dude. If u take care of yourself you’re still 4-5 years from your prime. And your prime lasts a long time. It seems you lack abundance like you’re afraid you can’t get a sexy girl. How many girls are you asking out on a weekly basis?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 02:19 AM
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Keep doing you. Your ego will heal itself it just takes time. And getting in fights with her and sending her long texts isn’t a big deal dude you’re a human being not some fuckin “alpha male” robot. There’s honestly nothing you can do to make that hurt ego feel better, it just takes time. You can speed the process up by never looking at old pics of you guys together or checking in on her Facebook but ultimately it just takes a long time. If you have a particularly big ego (sounds like it) it mig…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 11:54 PM
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abundance mentality in all areas of life is important part of success.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 08:56 PM
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The pics don’t lie so if you’re not getting sexy girls to match with your pics are not good. Also try tinder gold and lower your age to 23 than hide it. you’ll match with a ton of 18-22 girls.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:22 AM
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You’ll be alright bro. Sounds like you have your shit together. Honestly you just have to put yourself out there more. I’m your age and I deleted the dating apps because I’ve banged enough tinder girls I’m good with that, I’m looking for a high quality girl and I’m not interested in meeting an ltr on bumble. Just have to keep approaching and playing the numbers and success will find you. If you really want to take it to another level start tracking your approaches- keep a record of how many girl…
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:25 AM
1

Fuckin incels...
/r/askTRP22/01/20 02:20 AM
5

Just ask her to hang out if you want to see her man. If she says no than don’t reply. No need to play games
/r/askTRP20/01/20 01:39 AM
1

How long has it been since you broke up
/r/askTRP20/01/20 12:32 AM
20

Next. Don’t waste your time with girls who don’t value you
/r/askTRP19/01/20 08:27 PM
11

At that point you’d know you were dealing with a whore. A good girl would never say that in a million years.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 07:18 PM
3

This is the most simp beta question I’ve ever read on here. Do yourself a favor and get neutered so your genes don’t move forward into the next generation. You make your own standards to say a girl is out of your league is pathetic
/r/askTRP18/01/20 06:46 PM
7

I agree. It’s completely unacceptable for her to say this. I had a toxic relationship with my last girl but if she ever said this shit it would have ended immediately.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 07:31 PM
1

SLP
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:54 PM
1

Numbers game
/r/askTRP16/01/20 05:54 PM
1

I disagree. If your value to her is high enough she will initiate. If you fuck her good and show her a good time once then after that you don’t ever have to initiate. I want girls that are all in
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:59 AM
1

Nah. Don’t ever ask again. If she wants to see u than she should reach out. If u lose her oh well it won’t be because you didn’t reach out (if she cared enough she wouldn’t let you go)
/r/askTRP16/01/20 04:57 AM
-5

Ignore. Don’t reply. Move on with your life. She’ll be back if you do that (assuming you gave her feels)
/r/askTRP15/01/20 02:53 AM
2

Never been cheated on (that I know of) but I’ve found a total idgaf what you do when I’m not with you attitude works well to repel cheating. I’ve had exes call me when they’re out and say “ the only guy in the world I wanna be with isn’t here.” I.e. making yourself scarce and fuck her good and cheating is a non issue unless you’re dating a complete whore. When she’s out just focus on something else don’t spend too much time thinking about it. It sounds simple but it always worked well for me.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 01:10 AM
5

Don’t do anything. If she wants to see you again she will reach out. Or text her and ruin your imagine in her eyes it’s up to you. God speed
/r/askTRP13/01/20 10:22 PM
1

I hooked up w a girl last weekend who’s boyfriend was beta orbiter before they dated. She told me relationship was nice but boring so she cheated on him with me. I suspect that’s very common
/r/askTRP13/01/20 03:04 AM
1

She wont leave you because u dont do shit for her bday. In fact in will actually turn her on because you're not acting like a fucking simp and buying a girl who's not your girlfriend a present. get ur shit together
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:43 PM
2

Who cares. Do what u want. Sounds like this is the only girl ur fucking so u should work on that
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:16 PM
3

Hey you’re super cute, we should grab a drink sometime
/r/seduction12/01/20 04:37 AM
30

Are you fuckin retarded bro? That was a lame ass message to her I would have blocked u too. Get your shit together man. TRP really is going downhill...
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:10 AM
1

This 2/3 rule is the bedroom is total bullshit. Fuck her brains out you should be doing dman near 100% of the effort. It makes everything in the relationship much better
/r/askTRP11/01/20 01:14 AM
6

You have AA. Every single guy alive has it too. It’s ingrained in our dna. Most guys don’t ever face this fear because nothing is forcing them to do it. It’s fuckin scary to do man so why would most guys do it? The reward is very high though if you can muster the courage. I guarantee you don’t have it worse than other people. Most people criticising you don’t ever approach themselves (at least not during the day where it is 10x harder.) if you put your mind to it though you can beat it. But you …
/r/askTRP10/01/20 08:08 PM
2

You are a weak man. Your genes will die with you and not move to the next generation, just as evolution designed. Is that what you want to hear you fucking pussy? You let a girl destroy your life. Get a fucking grip. Small action every day for 1 year will change your life.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 04:27 PM
1

Yea but a girl that wants to go out and get drunk is definitely a red flag. She shouldn't be doing this alot. If she is, and you're fine with it, you're a cuck. I don't think that's a stretch at all
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:07 PM
0

I think it’s more about them not going to the club without you. If you’re there yea obviously it’s not a big deal but when you’re not u have no idea what she’s doing
/r/askTRP08/01/20 07:29 AM
2

Bro. Don’t play fuckin games. You’re in a relationship precisely so you don’t have to. If she’s backing away, just elude to her that you guys maybe should just break up. If she fights for you, than you’re fine. If not than let her go. These stupid mind games just ruin relationships and worse fuck with your ability to focus on your mission. God speed
/r/askTRP03/01/20 07:44 AM
1

Bro you have to get out of this relationship. It’s going to fucking suck most likely but the longer you go the worse it will get. I just dated a girl like this- she was emotionally unstable and I’m telling you man it doesn’t get better it only gets worse. My girl got crazier and crazier the longer we dated- we had amazing sex but Our relationship was extremely toxic. Don’t let the same happen to you, you need to end it immediately. God speed
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:59 AM
1

yea it happens...I’m sure her friends/fam were telling her to dump u which never helps. Idk I never felt like fuckin other girls helps as much as other guys say when moving on, it just takes time. That’s really the only cure- you need those memories you made together to fade. That’s why no contact is the default thing after break up it speeds up the process. God speed
/r/askTRP02/01/20 04:51 AM
6

Who broke up w who? Sorry if I missed it I just scanned the post but if you got dumped it’s 100% just your ego that makes no other girl compare. Alpha widow syndrome. After fucking her again for a while you would lose the ego validation. But she sounds like a real whore I wouldn’t worry too much about it
/r/askTRP02/01/20 03:53 AM
1

Some guys can go to the gym twice a day and eat extremely clean diets. Most can't. That's why most guys don't look like a bodybuilder or fitness model. Success in anything is rare. Most people don't have the dedication that it takes. THey "want" something, but don't want it bad enough to put the work in to get it. They just like the idea of it. i would say this is 99% of guys that read pickup/seduction material. What you're saying is that you don't have the energy to do what it takes to be very …
/r/seduction02/01/20 01:03 AM
1

She sounds crazy bro
/r/askTRP01/01/20 05:41 AM
1

It’s unlikely you’ll never find someone to measure up to your ex. I suppose it’s possible if you fall into depression or just completely let yourself go, but I’ve found that guys usually improve the quality of woman they can attract as they gain experience.
/r/askTRP31/12/19 11:38 PM
1

Obviously choosing signals better than cold approach. If you want to use no choosing signal as an excuse not to approach you are more than welcome, nobody is stopping you. You get in what you put out.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 09:42 PM
2

Everyone was right when they said time heals all. It’s only been a year. That’s still not that long bro. It can take 2-3 years to move on sometimes. Life is too short to let oneitis make you miserable. You will be fine my man just give your ego more time to heal and keep taking care of yourself
/r/askTRP30/12/19 07:35 PM
3

Literally anywhere you see a girl. Grocery store. Library. Mall. College campus. Use your imagination
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:47 PM
12

You read too much bro. Getting laid isn’t a thinking mans game. Take action. Ask out 1 girl a day. Compliment, small talk, ask for number. Rinse and repeat. The more you do this, the more successful you’ll be. It really is that simple.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 11:14 PM
2

I just went through this same thing. Like other guy said your ego took a massive beating. It sucks but time heals all. You will bounce back, just give it time and make sure you keep making the right small decisions every day. Don’t let losing a girl define your life you’re better than that.
/r/askTRP28/12/19 09:32 PM
5

Great comment dude
/r/askTRP28/12/19 06:35 PM
0

Don’t do this. U don’t want to me the overly sensitive guy at work. Just drop it
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:35 PM
1

Real men approach little boys use tinder
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:37 AM
3

Just say hey what’s up or something don’t over think it pretend it didn’t happen god speed
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:04 AM
2

Get shredded and rich and your self esteem problem will be of no consequence to you anymore
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:03 AM
-4

Shit like this happens in a relationship don’t sweat it she doesn’t sound too bad but look through her phone next time u get a chance
/r/askTRP27/12/19 08:02 AM
1

Yes obviously. Women 25 plus want to settle down. I prefer 22-24 freshly graduated college chicks. None of the bullshit of college girls but not old enough to be jaded yet. God speed
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:59 AM
-1

I would recommend dumping her because you admitted you weren’t that into her when u started dating. Don’t get emotionally invested with someone you’re not that into. Plus she sounds like a whore. Cut ties
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:58 AM
3

Just pretend like nothing happened and if she brings it up shrug and change the subject
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:56 AM
24

Hahahahaha. Bro u like fat girls so why do u care what the other girls think?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:54 AM
1

Seems like u got this one figured out all by yourself
/r/askTRP27/12/19 07:53 AM
42

Lmfao. No, you shouldn’t get in a relationship with a former prostitute. Seriously man?
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:48 AM
1

I was on vacation she’s American
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:46 AM
1

I was in Europe dude. Not exactly easy to just end it
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:29 AM
1

I guess yeah. I was more concerned the cops would come she was really freaking out man.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:02 AM
1

some men are burned alive by the fire, other men are forged by it. decide who you want to be
/r/askTRP26/12/19 08:12 PM
10

Sounds like u should get a therapist bro. No shame in it
/r/askTRP25/12/19 07:57 PM
0

I don’t agree with this strategy of picturing your girl getting railed if u want to forget her. To me all It does is cause unnecessary emotional pain. Just try and forget her if you can but nothing really helps besides just time
/r/askTRP24/12/19 07:37 PM
-2

Haha “it’s hard and takes a lot of time therefore I don’t even want to try.” That’s an avoidance technique bro. It’s not that fuckin hard u see sexy girls pretty much wherever you go during the day you might as well start talking to them. Also if u look like a fucking dweeb yeah it’s going to be a lot harder
/r/askTRP23/12/19 01:34 PM
1

No they don’t dude. That’s false. No guys approach women during the day. Night time is different
/r/seduction23/12/19 02:02 AM
2

No. Completely different. She has a pool of guys talking to her online and 0 guys approaching her during the day. Much easier if you can muster the balls to approach
/r/seduction23/12/19 12:56 AM
12

Cold approach is and always will be king
/r/askTRP23/12/19 12:54 AM
10

Any girl that goes out and blacks out is a red flag man. You can try and justify it but there’s plenty of women out there who don’t get blacked out when they go out. It’s trashy as fuck man. Every single girl I know that goes out gets black out drunk is a slut. 0 exceptions
/r/askTRP22/12/19 09:19 PM
1

This is very true. She will drop you and not give a single fuck about you. Don’t stick around and let that happen because I can tell you from experience it will fuck with your head for months if you let it happen.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:43 PM
5

This. The next few months are gonna be extremely hard you’re going to 2nd guess yourself several times. If you haven’t blocked her, this is a critical step in your recovery because she will keep blowing you up and you will inevitably slip up and let her back in. Block immediately and stay strong brother, we all got your back here.
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:39 PM
3

The fuck? Ice skating is a good time and chicks like fun shit like that
/r/askTRP21/12/19 11:27 PM
1

Ice skating n hot cocoa than bang
/r/askTRP21/12/19 10:35 PM
1

Fuck bitches get money
/r/MGTOW21/12/19 02:45 AM
0

how ugly are u that this shit doesnt work? u must look like a real piece of shit if this doesnt work. and even if u are ugly, if u get shredded it doesnt matter. so u are just lazy cause everyone can get shredded. quit blaming outside circumstances for being pathetic and take some fuckin accountability
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:02 PM
0

Haha you seem like a pussy. Here’s what you’re saying “It didn’t work for me, so it CANT work for you!!!!!” You’re a hater/loser
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:15 PM
2

Don’t overthink it bust most importantly don’t pussy out
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:43 AM
1

Love this post bro. So simple yet so elegant. My post got a bunch of likes but I got to say this one is more mature haha. Well done Sir
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:19 AM
1

Here’s the thing- AA is an emotion, so logical won’t help you to cure it. The only thing that will relieves the anxiety is exposure therapy (AKA talking to girls.) Give 1 girl a day a compliment until the new year and then let me know how you did. U got this
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:15 AM
2

Bro- you are not ready for same day pulls. Take it 1 step at a time. Give her a compliment or ask a question and see how she responds. If she’s nice engage her. If she’s a cunt, walk away. Easy as pie.
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:13 AM
1

Tell them you like their shoes. Ask them where they got them. Then proceed to whip out your dick and ask them if they know if Python snakes of this size are legal in the US
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:10 AM
0

She’s out there waiting
/r/seduction20/12/19 08:08 AM
3

This is the harsh truth. She will leave your ass in 1 second when she finds someone better. She doesn’t give a fuck about you only the emotions you make her feel
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:07 AM
3

She sounds like a real bitch dude. I went through something similar- I dumped a girl and tried to get her back and she moved it. NGL, it stung like a motherfucker, but there was a reason I dumped her. Several actually. And your case is the same. You just haven’t replaced her yet so your brain is still clinging on to the past because that’s what we as humans are programmed to do. But it’s over now and you can rest, relax and get back focused on taking care of yourself. Get shredded dude, it will …
/r/askTRP20/12/19 08:03 AM
2

If you want to join a co Ed sports league so you can play sports that’s fine, but joining to meet girls is about the lamest shit I’ve ever heard in my life. Talk about an avoidance technique. Just approach girls dude and learn to get good at embracing rejection
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:35 AM
2

Why u on reddit talking about a girl? Move on bro. Keep fucking her if you want. Who cares
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:32 AM
1

Chill bro. It’s going to be OK. Like the other guy said, she was your whole life. That’s why it hurts so much. Combined with the fact that you feel like you acted needy at the end - but don’t beat yourself up about this- you were just vulnerable. You’re human, it’s ok to be vulnerable. It should just show you that bitches don’t ever love you- they love the emotions that you stir in them. When you were vulnerable and wanted her back, she felt it wasn’t a challenge anymore and lost interest. That’…
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:19 AM
10

This
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:08 AM
20

She hasn’t found a replacement yet
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:07 AM
6

Or people who aren’t sheep
/r/askTRP20/12/19 07:05 AM
0

Yep
/r/seduction20/12/19 07:04 AM
2

Block out all the negative bullshit in your mind. It does nothing to help you. You have to cultivate positivity- it’s what will keep you taking action. All it takes is 1 girl man. Only 1 girl has to like you enough and you can have a lifetime of companionship. If you quit trying you might never find that companionship. Let that fear motivate you to keep taking action. Quitting is the only thing you can’t do. You don’t lose until you quit. Take a deep breath, you will be fine, just keep approachi…
/r/seduction20/12/19 04:21 AM
6

Exposure therapy. Small steps every single day. Even asking a girl for the time is a win for you right now. Do that 5 times a day. If you can’t do that, than start with eye contact. Make eye contact with every woman you see. You got this bro, but you have to plant the flag and start somewhere, nobody is coming to rescue you. God speed
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:21 AM
5

Tomorrow you will do it again. Don’t sleep until you do another approach. God speed
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:20 AM
0

😂😂😂😂 lot of response here bro
/r/seduction20/12/19 03:14 AM
1

So if you quit than you go back to getting 0 dates. Which is better? 3 dates or 0 dates. Cmon man. It took Edison 10,000 tries before he figured out the light bulb. Think if he would have quit after 150 and sad "this is depressing as fuck. I'm never going to figure this shit out." He would not be Edison if he did that. Keep working on improving your looks. Get stronger and more masculine looking. Improve your style. Cold approach is very very very dependent on looks. If you look good and act nor…
/r/seduction19/12/19 11:14 PM
1

U sound bitter bro.
/r/seduction19/12/19 11:11 PM
1

Sounds like you're seeing success. 3 first dates is really good. Here's the thing- keep approaching and you will get better. Go on more dates and you will get better at dating. Don't give up 3 dates out of 150 approaches is not bad at all.
/r/seduction19/12/19 11:07 PM
0

You sound like a real white knight. Concerned way too much about how women feel when you approach them. Who gives a shit? You're not fucking raping them, you're flirting with them and asking them out. It's an inherently masculine thing to do. Guys who are unsuccesful probably need to work on their looks and perhaps their basic social skills, but those are the only 2 things you need to be efficient. The better you look, the more efficient you become. But you still have to put in the numbers. Unle…
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:47 PM
1

you're missing the point. being nervous and scared around a girl doesn't make her "special," it's unattractive to most girls because you're putting her on a pedestal. She is a normal human being just like me and you. If you can get comfortable enough with approaching women (through repetition- the literal only remedy) than you become more attractive to women and you can get the kind of woman that you want. You will still be affected by her in a myriad of ways, and you will still get nervous/scar…
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:40 PM
2

27 is your prime bro. Perfect age to attract college girls, mid 20s girls, older chicks, whatever. No excuses.
/r/seduction19/12/19 10:17 PM
1

Exactly. It's avoidance. Avoiding something you fear desperately- rejection, or more specifically, fear of judgment by strangers. So how do most people handle this? By not putting themselves out there and having to face that fear and focusing on improving themselves when what they really want is women but they're too scared to go after them.
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:47 PM
5

This is an example of mental masturbation at its finest.
/r/seduction19/12/19 08:00 PM
3

Having sex with a stunning girl will cause an emotional response in you
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:56 PM
5

Bottom line. Women hold all the power in dating and are the gatekeepers for sex and they wine let ANYBODY through those gates who isn’t confident in who they are or what they do or have done. Overthinking 101. There are terrible scumbag loser pathetic guys who have hot girlfriends. Why? Because they talked to them. Every guy who starts this shit is terrified of approaching. That's why so few guys are successful. The ones who are successful can kill their ego and approach even though it feels wei…
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:48 PM
2

in my mind that is a better option than waiting for luck to bring you results. plus facing your fear of rejection is empowering. it translates to other areas of your life.
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:27 PM
1

it's difficult for every other human on the planet to approach people. AA is stamped in our DNA. There is no try- either do or do not
/r/seduction19/12/19 07:13 PM
3

All it takes is 1 girl my brother. If I told you that you had to get rejected exactly 57 times in person to find a quality girlfriend, would you do it? Probably. It's just hard because it's not guaranteed but I can guarantee if you ask out 100 women in real life you will get a few dates.
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:56 PM
8

Agreed. Quitting porn and drugs is a good thing. But it’s not necessary to getting laid. Talk to girls and look as good as you can
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:52 PM
3

Haha u mad bro?? Nobody wants your shitty dime a dozen dating services. But good luck I got better shit to do than bicker with internet strangers.
/r/seduction19/12/19 06:07 PM
4

Having to study little manipulation tricks like “negs” and “micro calibration” is pretty fuckin lame and nerdy as shit. And it makes guys overthink things- that’s my point that you are clearly missing. So many guys overthink this shit because of attitudes like you have. That shit is not necessary: How bout just being a cool guy who’s not too nervous chatting up a girl? That’s more than enough it the girl is single and attracted to you. Most guys don’t talk to enough girls to find the ones who ar…
/r/seduction19/12/19 05:31 PM
32

good post bro. After having just gone through my first breakup (3 months ago,) this hit home for me. I am realizing that it wasn't losing her that fucked with me, it was the devastating blow to my ego that left me so battered. Having a valued person who used to cared about everything you did now not give a fuck about you is very difficult to deal with on an emotional level. It makes you second guess yourself since that validation is gone from your life. But the lows of life make the highs so muc…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/19 08:07 AM
4

I would just add fuck 3 girls of equal or higher quality. This is critical.
/r/askTRP18/12/19 05:27 AM
1

Social just jack on here calling out all the racists because he can’t accept the fact that some people don’t share his retarded view of white privilege
/r/askTRP17/12/19 07:17 AM
1

Gtfoh with this white privileged social justice warrior bullshit. I didn’t even say what my race was why are you assuming I’m white I could be Hispanic or Asian. Either way having black friends means I’m willing to treat a black person the same as any other person therefore not a racist
/r/askTRP17/12/19 06:01 AM
1

It’s a known fact that fat white girls go for black dudes. U can’t deny that bro. The brothers seem to like white girls with a little extra meat on them. It is what it is
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:51 AM
0

You can’t be a hardcore racist and have black friends think about it dumb fuck you think any KKK members are buddies with any guys named Jerome
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:23 AM
2

Former fatty. Lost 20lbs and maintained it through vigorous exercise. I theorise that she hooked up with black dudes because she couldn’t get the attractive white frat guys (she was in sorority in college)
/r/askTRP17/12/19 05:22 AM
3

I dated a girl and first time we hung out her friend say “I’m surprised you’re not black.” It ruined our relationship and tbh I never got over it
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:09 AM
4

it hurts so bad because you have someone validating you and then that person is gone. What you describe as a dagger to the heart is just a a major blow to your ego. You had a girl who made you feel desirable and instilled confidence in you and now that source of reassurance is gone. It definitely sucks it just takes time and finding someone of equal quality who is into you. You said yourself the 2 you’ve been with are of lesser quality. If you had a quality woman you would feel better. And you w…
/r/askTRP17/12/19 04:05 AM
1

No I just want to play my cards right I’m not used to having friends introduce me to chicks I’m usually going cold approach
/r/askTRP15/12/19 05:50 AM
1

Ask her to hang out. If she doesn’t agree than ignore her. It sucks because you haven’t found a girl you like as much as her. Time helps
/r/askTRP09/12/19 01:35 AM
2

Was just gonna say this. She shouldn’t be causing u pain my dude
/r/TheRedPill06/12/19 08:31 AM
1

Only talk to girls when ur drunk
/r/askTRP06/12/19 07:43 AM
1

Good advice dude
/r/askTRP06/12/19 06:31 AM
1

This is good advice. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP05/12/19 08:28 PM
3

Every question always has one or 2 fuckin retard who Answers
/r/askTRP05/12/19 03:13 PM
0

He’s just an incel. I know what u mean tho. I wasn’t trying to be a dick I was just trying to help the dude out but yea I’ll drop it
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:56 PM
1

Bro you sound like a tool lol who the fuck says that shit you fuckin faggot you probably eat your daddy’s asshole
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:53 PM
-2

Wat?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 02:52 PM
-7

i guess thats a possibility. what kind of dude doesn't want to ever get a girl tho? It's fuckin weird man- it's like defying evolution or some shit. I'm trying to help the dude out cause I feel bad for the guy he's a lonely high functioning alcoholic
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:44 AM
3

Me personally, I can't live without pussy. I need it in my life. My career and social life suffer (but definitely not gym/diet- I keep that tight) when I'm celibate. But I'm not saying every guy is like me, I think it's cool that guys can go without getting laid and feel OK I wish I was one of them (sometimes ha)
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:03 AM
21

talk to girls bro. don't complicate things. literally talk to women you see in public. if the convo goes good or not it doesn't matter you ask every one of them if they want to hang out. if you truly look good it will take you 10 approaches and you'll have a date. if for some reason it doesn't happen by 10 i guarantee it will happen by 20. shit aint rocket science.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 07:00 AM
12

For me I would never want to meet a ltr on a dating app. I think that’s lame as fuck. Cold approach is for real men tinder/drunken shitty bar game is for dudes who are terrified of rejection. Just my 2 cents
/r/askTRP05/12/19 06:00 AM
0

No. See link I posted in another reply. It’s incel shit
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:28 AM
0

These guys all feel like they can’t find a girlfriend because they’re ugly or broke in some away. It’s not mgtow it’s a bunch of fuckin incels. It’s sad to see but at the end of the day I guess Evolution has a purpose right?
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:27 AM
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It’s crazy cause how many of those guys are approaching girls in real life and getting shut down? Precisely 0. Like you guys said- they need someone to kick them in the balls and tell them that life isn’t easy and if you want a girlfriend you have to go out there and get rejected a shit load and find her. Instead they download tinder and get 0 results cause they prob don’t take care of themselves and then they are so demoralized they won’t leave their house except to go to Gamestop to pick up th…
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:24 AM
1

I’m starting to get out of my funk. Got a drinks date lined up tomorrow. I truly am starting to think it was for the better she didn’t take me back. I needed something to shake up my life. I was complacent as shit in our relationship- I stopped improving as a man. And honestly if she took me back right away I wouldn’t have changed. Things are looking up
/r/askTRP05/12/19 04:35 AM
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I'm gonna tell you how to lose your virginity. get some good tinder pics. I dont give a fuck what you look like, get some pics of you doing bad ass stuff. take a vacation and take pictures. borrow somebody's dog and take pics. whatever you have to do to get good pics. then buy a bunch of the tinder boost things. and SWIPE RIGHT ON EVERY GIRL. accumulate matches. message every single girl that is under 200lbs. It doesn't matter what you say just try and get them to hang out. most will flake/not r…
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:36 AM
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Im working on it my man. Still have oneitis- she was my first gf. She wasn't the greatest girl but it's hard losing your first love, know I mean? But I'll be ok.
/r/askTRP03/12/19 05:17 AM
1

True. She was real happy to hear from me the first time. But I wasn’t ready to get back w her. It’s funny cause if I did get back w her I wouldn’t have made these positive changes to myself. She’s too dumb to realize that though. Oh well
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:08 AM
1

She is in grad school far away so that’s not really an option. Good advice tho
/r/askTRP03/12/19 12:07 AM
1

I did dude. that's what i did 2 times in my post i won't be reaching out to her ever again- it would be pointless anyway
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:53 PM
1

Don't worry dude life is a giant learning lesson. Like the other guys said, the best/most effective way for you to get her back is to delete her numbers and never reach out to her ever again. That's it- you don't do anything else. Just keep working on yourself and become a better version- lift, get some new clothes, get your teeth whitened, whatever it is just keep improving. If you haven't made any big mistakes since the breakup, she WILL come back. If you have made big mistakes, don't worry ab…
/r/askTRP02/12/19 11:38 PM
1

I never would. I'm ambitous I have bigger goals than just getting a sexy ltr- what I'm saying is it's hard rn to focus on approaching enough to get that sexy girl when i'm so busy with my career. I know I need to approach and play the numbers game but it's alot harder to do that now since I didn't have a career last time I was single. You know I mean?
/r/askTRP29/11/19 11:11 PM
1

I love my job man, I really do. It’s an unbelievable job. If I quit it would be a horrible move. It’s just I value having a good relationship more than a career. I guess that’s a problem at least the guys on here would say it is. But that’s why I’m struggling
/r/askTRP29/11/19 10:35 PM
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I lift 6-7 days a week, I’m 6’5 and I have a good career. And I’m only 27 I can do fine on tinder it just feels lame to me. I’d much rather go out and hunt but I don’t blame you for capitalising on tinder it’s easy and you don’t have to face rejection
/r/askTRP26/11/19 03:02 AM
1

I would say there’s a lot weirder fetishes than wanting to bang sexy college girls but ok. I’m 27 I’m not 40
/r/askTRP24/11/19 09:52 PM
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Haha I went to community college bro and then finished online. Also my ex girlfriend was a sorority girl. I just like what I like I don’t see why everybody bashing me it seems like a pretty normal fetish...
/r/askTRP24/11/19 04:15 PM
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I have a good job and I work out 7 days a week dude. But thanks for the help
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:35 AM
1

It’s a fetish I have. Like some dudes like fat girls and other guys have a thing for feet. I like sexy girls that are in a sorority
/r/askTRP24/11/19 12:34 AM
2

I’m graduated bro I have a career
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:57 PM
2

I’m not in college
/r/askTRP23/11/19 10:57 PM
2

thanks bro. i needed to hear this. i needed to hear "how bad do you want it." I know the only thing that stands between what i have and what i want is rejection. and dediction. I am a good looking dude and tall (6'5) and I lift. I just have to get over rejection and the world is mine. I appreciate it bro
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:36 AM
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i had to get out bro. we were fighting alot. she was going through my phone regularly. i cheated on her twice she didn't trust me at all. i couldnt go out with my boys and blow off steam. it was either go out with her or nothing. and she would get to go out with her friends which made me resentful. it wasn't going to end well. i made the right decision i took the hard road and I'm feeling it now.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 03:22 AM
1

How bout just approaching girls? Isn’t that a reasonable thing to do? Also, yeah I mean I always felt like I could do better than her, but now that we’re split my mentality has completely shifted. I feel like she’s the best I can do and that’s what’s making me miserable. It’s a mind fuck
/r/askTRP22/11/19 09:30 PM
1

I lift 6-7 days a week faggot prolly more than u. A little vulnerability doesn’t hurt try it sometime
/r/askTRP22/11/19 07:47 PM
1

I have a good job that I enjoy. I work out 7 days a week. Pussy is one of the things I enjoy most about life. I don’t see anything wrong with that
/r/askTRP22/11/19 05:40 PM
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6-7 days a week for the past 2 months
/r/askTRP22/11/19 01:50 AM
1

It really fuckin sucks man. I can’t believe I’m struggling so much. I put her way up on a pedestal in my mind. And now she’s rejected me and it fuckin stings worse than emotional pain I’ve ever felt
/r/askTRP21/11/19 10:23 PM
1

Yea I dumped her so in my mind I thought it was different but I guess it wasn’t. I just made myself look like a weak asshole it really stings
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:59 PM
3

true. how do i respond
/r/askTRP20/11/19 06:21 AM
2

Here’s my issue man. I acted Beta. I have former beta tendencies. They came out in the break up. I basically begged her to give me another chance and sent cringey texts instead of being a man and sticking by my word of breaking up with her. I guess I have more work to do. But it bothers the fuck out of me. I feel like I reverted back to my old self. I acted dominant and stoic during our entire relationship and now my reputation with her is soured I’m sure. I mean if she was turned on by me she’d…
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:36 AM
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Nada. She was first serious girlfriend. Missing the companionship. I am acting like a beta male pussy
/r/askTRP20/11/19 05:00 AM
1

I was a late bloomer fo sho
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:58 AM
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i got to be honest...by 28 i feel like most girls are full blown panic mode. I'm 27 now and girls who are single my age are 95% past the wall/declining in looks rapidly. The ones who weren't boyfriend'd up by 25 are in trouble IMO
/r/askTRP12/11/19 05:11 AM
1

But is there something I can do to show her I'm not an asshole?
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:12 PM
1

You were an asshole then you dumped her to be an even bigger asshole. If the girl has any self respect she is completely done with you. I realized I made a mistake man. I'm not perfect it was my first serious relationship. i apologized and shit for doing that to her.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 04:07 PM
1

is there anything i can do to get her back or do i have any hope that i'll ever hear from her again. i did dump her so that must count for something
/r/askTRP03/11/19 03:04 AM
1

I'm not dwelling on the fact that I cheated. More how I handled the entire situation. I wish I hadn't dumped her because I thought the grass was greener but it's not yet. That's my problem. I can conceptualize it just fine but I'm struggling to get through it on an emotional level. I appreciate the advice. At the end of the day, the only thing that will save me is not lifting, working more, etc. it's taking action and fucking somone hotter than her who is in to me. I'm being a bitch about it but…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 09:43 PM
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I guess I feel like she was the prize. That's my real problem. Even though logically I know that's not true- she's got 100k in student loans, a body that won't age well, a slut past etc. Emotionally I don't feel like I'm the prize when I'm in the depressed state I talked about. But she was a real girl who loved me and was cute enough to meet my high standards. I know the issue is my own- I get too attached to women and look for them to provide my happiness. I acted like an alpha the whole time (…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 08:35 PM
15

no dude thats not going to happen. i'd be more worried about tasting ur own jizz that's pretty weird man
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:42 AM
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who cares. text her or dont text her. it really doesn't matter. shes only 1 girl
/r/askTRP28/10/19 04:40 AM
1

Thanks for the kind words dude. I've really been struggling the past few days. I have these mood swings where I'm fine then I get real depressed randomly. I think cause it's my first relationship it's particularly difficult for me. And the way that I ended it, I really feel like I fucked up cause she was so in love w/ me and made it clear she didn't want this. I just miss having someone who loves me and cares about me- even though our relationship was pretty bad at the end. I slept with a girl t…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:25 AM
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Read the other comments. I've had my share of "have a thrown away a good thing" but nothing bad has happened from not getting back with them.. if you start feeling that way start writing down all the shutty things you can remember about her and you'll soon realise you are better off. even after i cheated twice, dumped her, then ran back to her like a beta male and sent those cringey texts, you still think there's a shot she would come back after no contact? Oh, and obviously I still do care even…
/r/askTRP28/10/19 03:22 AM
1

life is hard dude you just have to keep going. there's an expression out there- "nobody cares, work harder." this applies to your situation. or continue to be comfortable mediocre. it's your choice
/r/askTRP27/10/19 12:01 AM
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i know what awkward/bad sex is and it wasn't that, or at least on my end
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:43 PM
1

I think she was drunk and realized she made a bad decision when she woke up naked in a strangers bed. i legit didn't even get her name.i was cool about it all though i didn't pressure her to stay or anything. she was sexy and I'm coming off a break up so I'll take the confidence boost and move on. thanks bro
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:40 PM
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same problem here bro. just keep your head down and stay on the grind. if you say you are happier when you have women in your life, than try harder to make sure you always have quality women in your life. it's 100% your choice how many girls you have around- if you don't fear rejection than the sky is the limit
/r/askTRP26/10/19 06:38 PM
1

I have. I tried to get her back but she didn’t want that. I’m pretty sure she won’t do better than me I gave her the feels I’m just upset at myself for getting so needy at the end. I was sending texts in a depressed mindset that’s never good.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 10:31 PM
1

What would u think the odds are i hear from this chick again. Not that I care just curious if she'll crawl back...
/r/askTRP25/10/19 08:57 PM
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I always hear "constantly starting arguments" but I feel like that one is too complicated to just say she wants to dump u. I broke up with my ltr a couple months ago cause we were always fighting- but when I broke up she was completely devastated and literally ran in front of my car to try and stop me from leaving. I think we fought because I cheated on her and got caught and she was never the same after that. So don't just assume these things mean she wants to break up.
/r/askTRP24/10/19 09:02 PM
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It's all cardio no weight lifting really. I told her to squat for a better ass but she says its only genetics and she can't change it. She works out for an hour every day sprinting and shit I can't imagine that's good for her knees/back/joints
/r/askTRP23/10/19 08:15 PM
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it’s fuckin annoying man. Like I highly doubt she would bang this dude (there’s def hotter girls at those classes he’s banging) but I know she’s just doing it to fuck with me
/r/askTRP07/02/19 07:05 AM
1

haha lmao you totally shouldn't text for logistics only. You're doing great xxx ;) i dont really understand this
/r/askTRP16/01/18 12:57 PM
5

get a job as a bartender/barback/server at a restaurant or bar. You'll be working with tons of young girls and it will force you to interact with them. Just pick up a couple shifts a week, you can still work your dead end job. It will change how you views girls and make you 100x more confident interacting with them
/r/askTRP16/01/18 10:08 AM
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She literally did none of those things. She isn't even that hot, very mediocre tbh. My standards aren't as high as they need to be. I think that comes from a lack of self esteem. Thank you for opening my eyes to this I feel so much better after reading all your guys posts
/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:21 AM
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Very true. When I fucked everything up w/ her i had no other chicks and acted completely different from when i first met her and i had options. She blew me off and I came right back to her it was weak as shit. But I think I can learn from this.
/r/askTRP04/01/18 06:20 AM
2

Great advice man thank you. I need to find more shit to keep me busy. That quote is golden
/r/askTRP04/01/18 04:56 AM
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I feel you. I'm just beating my self up over it, thats the worst part. Second guessing everything I did to fuck it up. But i gave her herpes so at least she'll have that to remember me
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:38 AM
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this girl wasn't a slut tho man, that's what bothers me most. I've fucked plenty of sluts this year and they're pretty easy to get over but when u find a good girl and fuck it up with her it sucks way worse. But yeah i feel u man
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:30 AM
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since this post I tried to set up a date but she was taking forever to text me back and I then took forever to text her back and when I actually asked her out she didnt respond. idk it all just felt forced. i should have just cut my losses while she was still responding to me at least
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:20 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/asktrp/comments/7muip2/she_is_losing_interest/
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:19 AM
1

this is what I struggle with the most. I feel like I have low self esteem or something. I also have a ton of free time so I'm constantly overthinking shit. It sucks
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:12 AM
1

I really dont think she fucks anybody else shes a pretty inexperienced girl but who knows. So should I delete her number or try for another meet up ?
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:31 PM
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Just go for it man. if they are back at your place alone or your at her place alone then they want you to make a move and try to fuck them. Just give them what they want
/r/askTRP29/12/17 02:17 PM
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