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I seriously had to process that shit a few times in my brain - part of me said "well, good! if she brought it up, she's thinking about it!" but the other side was like... "dafuq!?!" At the end of the day.. it was obviously a shit test!
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:32 PM
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LMAO!!!! ain't that the damn truth! hahahahaha
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:27 PM
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True, true... we've already scheduled a 2nd date, I'll update after.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:04 PM
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Brilliant... yeah, I actually thought "perfect time to escalate", but I had to work today, so.... I do like the other 2 answers, thanks!
/r/askTRP18/05/18 09:00 PM
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Lol.... What went through my head was "like she's going to take out a tape measure when I pop it out!" Now, with that said, I do realize this was a shit test, how would you say it was handled?
/r/askTRP18/05/18 07:21 PM
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I don't know man, 2 of my ex'es hit the wall pretty bad. To the point that I have seen them and thought "I wouldn't fuck you right now for a million dollars...". My ex wife looks like a fucking family size refrigerator, I don't think I could reach my hands if I hugged her... and My ex GF of 2 years is preggo again, and she too looks like a 50yr old woman in a 32 year old body. On the flip side of that, I am a soccer ref and I have to stay in shape for my soccer career to remain alive. I'm 37 and…
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 09:15 PM
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it's the best feeling in the world when you run into her a few years later and realize she hit the wall HARD and you're with someone hotter, living a great life, in great shape and in the peak of your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/18 10:01 PM
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"I always hug and do a side kiss like a lot of latin-american people do" haha I'm Latino, and I usually open dates with a kiss and a hug, if I get any awkwardness I just say "where I come from, we hug and kiss, so, come here!" and do the side kiss again, but this time I hug a little longer..... Never fails!
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 09:23 PM
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Holy shit this is so true... this happened to my ex-wife. Now I look at her and she's 3 times the size of when we got divorced (and my friends tell me that she got "sick" after she gave birth and affected her weight LOL), got knocked up by some random dude who left her and the kid..... and all within a few months. That wall came crashing like an avalanche. Saw her a few months ago and she looks like she's 45 years old when she's only 32. Talk about feeling relief...
/r/TheRedPill23/02/18 07:23 PM
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Every single time I have hear the words from a woman "we're not having sex tonight" I end up having sex with her that night. Like clockwork!
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:11 PM
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Slow clap........ well played, sir! well played.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/18 11:10 PM
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Every single time I hear from a woman "we're not having sex tonight"... we end up having sex. 100% of the time! Like clockwork! Just food for thought... that means she's thinking about it. And "when are we hanging out again"... really? Take charge, be specific on the plans. Try something like "Friday night at X place, I'm gonna kick your ass in pool while we watch the Olympics" (you get the idea)
/r/TheRedPill20/02/18 08:27 AM
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YouTube “ataca y la alemana” those guys are legit bachata dancers. Look up some vids of their classes, they are the real deal. Good luck, post some pics when you’re destroying the dance floor ;-) Edit: oh, and don’t worry.... those classes are usually short of dudes.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:24 PM
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What are you looking into? If it’s Latin Dancing, I would suggest bachata. It’s a lot easier to pickup than salsa and much more “sexy”. (I’m Latino, btw, it’s a cultural thing to us... that’s why I’m suggesting that) Some people like Argentine Tango... but salsa/bachata is where it’s at as far as social parties and conventions and such. I’ve picked up some major HBs from the salsa scene, and went to the Orlando bachata congress a couple of years ago and the amount of women looking for dick was I…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:17 PM
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Dude, just a suggestion... but make your hobbies something social. Like Salsa or bachata classes (my favorite,and they usually do social nights and conventions FULL of women looking for dudes to dance with), Acroyoga (great way to grab some asses and it's a requirement), Coed soccer / softball. Approach it as you're meeting new friends, don't just go in and hit on everything that walks... actually learn the activity, focus on it! The pussy will eventually come. Just my $.02
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:47 PM
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"i texted her this morning and thanked her again for hanging out and said we should do it again soon" Translation = Your majesty, thank you for giving this low value man some of your precious time, this never happens to me so now I am just going to put you in a pedestal, become a "nice guy" and scare you away. Dude! when she answers, take charge and make a fucking date! she's begging you to be a man and lead the interaction. "hey, they just opened this new spot that I've been meaning to try. Let…
/r/askTRP15/02/18 04:39 PM
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I agree... but why not just call it for what it is? Isn't it a masculine trait to speak up for what you want and be bold about it? why leave the door open for interpretation of what your intentions really are? Remember, "fuck yes! or no" if she's excited to go out on a date with you, it's on! if not? next! I have better stuff to do with my time than to be a woman's GF.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 10:11 PM
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because it is a date! you want her to know exactly what she's going for.... covert BS games get you in the friend zone. Ain't nobody got time for that! And if you get ghosted? what's the big deal?.... you should have other options (AKA, abundance mentality)
/r/askTRP14/02/18 08:50 PM
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Don't listen to what she says, see what she does.... you still got dumped, right?
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:52 PM
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THIS - be bold and state what you want. Polarize! if she's not interested you'll know right away and it'll save you a waste of your time / money. If she's interested, then escalate!
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:21 PM
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"i don’t know about you but seems like most of the guys here are chasing the superficial.. the HB8, 9, 10s... instead of someone who you connect with spiritually.." To me, TRP is about embracing my masculinity and achieving the goals I set up for my best self in life. Yes, I am searching for the smart HB8 and HB9's that I can connect with. The standard that I want to setup for my potential partner is: If I bust my ass at the gym to look and feel good, so should you! If I work hard to increase my…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/18 04:48 PM
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IMO, only a fool believes 100% of what he’s told... I too question a couple of TRP principles, but for the most part it’s been pretty on point.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 03:11 AM
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Quite a few of my friends have been fucked over by there ex's especially when they have a kid with them. I was almost yelling at the TV when they showed the case of the guy that owes over 30K in child support for a kid that's not even his.... I was like WTF!?!!?! And the video of the little boy getting a malpractice on the circumcision was fucking brutal!
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:07 PM
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I'd say he's spinning plates :-)
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 07:19 PM
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I'm 37 too! and I've been breaking my own PR's at the gym and doing stuff I couldn't do when I was 30... Like running a 6 minute mile, doing 20 full burpees non-stop, going surfing again after 20 years. Age is just a number! TRP for me is not about women, is about defining and embracing my masculinity. The women come as a side effect! I still have lots to learn and work on (like my diet, polish my game among others), I only discovered this about 7 months ago after I was fed up with my failures w…
/r/TheRedPill05/02/18 07:10 PM
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That was my point... thanks!
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 10:52 PM
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Here's my biggest gripe with the TRP / AWALT there's no responsibility on yourself The reason why I am here is to work on myself. I can't change how the world works, but I can change how I approach it. Or at least that's how I see it. I also have been this guy too.... more times than I would like to admit.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/18 08:15 PM
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He saw it... posted a reply and deleted it shortly after. Maybe was too embarrassed of what guys were going to tell him. I posted a quick reply, and now the comment is deleted.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:25 PM
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"Most people will do more to avoid pain than to gain pleasure" - Corey Wayne.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:23 PM
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That's exactly how I found TRP - I had to hit rock bottom, I was confused, knowledge hungry, fed up with letting good horses slip away from my hands and not knowing why. I was clueless, angry, disappointed.... now I'm on a mission to change my mind, I cringe at other guys when they do BP crap like I did in the past. And yes, I wish I would had known this earlier. BTW, the guy that OP was talking about posted a reply on this thread last night and deleted it shortly after. So, he saw this....
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 04:21 PM
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Look man, I just hope you're super pissed at yourself and vow that this shit won't ever happen to you again and start reading and changing your mentality. God knows I've made mistakes like those and when I realized what I had done in the past I wanted to punch a wall...however; I went on a self - improvement mission and here I am. In much better shape mentally and physically. I needed to know, I needed to hit rock bottom to break from my old habits. From the book, No More Mr Nice Guy: "What if t…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 05:20 AM
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Oh, I see your point... cool, I’ll make some edits Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:51 PM
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I've put myself down and wrote about my BP mistakes from the past t on this sub too, not intended as a brag. These are the kind of things that happen when you change your mindset and approach. But take it as you will...thanks for reading
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 08:31 PM
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THIS. I've actually went all Beta on purpose because I wanted to get rid of her. I remember thinking at the moment "I'm going to test this out since AWALT"... If anything, I wanted to learn what NOT to do while I was in a lab environment. My mindset was "fuck it, I don't like this chick, at least I'm going to experiment stuff and learn from it" and kept things interesting in my brain even though I didn't give a fuck about the situation.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 06:51 PM
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Hahahahaha I glanced at it and had to stop reading when I saw some other dude telling OP that he was a decent guy and wished him the best! She was just just not the type of girl for him.... facepalm
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 06:26 PM
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Oh god.... now I have to go read this! Lol
/r/TheRedPill29/01/18 06:13 PM
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THIS. Go to have fun FOR you! And if she starts rambling about the the ex, set your boundaries. However; you cannot go with an outcome-dependent mentality (aka sex), your goal is simply to have fun.
/r/askTRP28/01/18 08:30 AM
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THIS
/r/askTRP26/01/18 10:08 PM
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Travel! Go to fucking amazing places by yourself. You'll find that real quick, and you'll meet some cool people along the way. You're free! Best gift a man can have.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:30 AM
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Lesson: what did that get you when she found out? Or did she? You (like me) overstepped your own boundaries based on getting someone else's approval, and that's not cool. Take it as a gift! If that wouldn't have happened, you wouldn't be in this journey of improving yourself. So, props to you for recognizing it!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:02 PM
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Good luck writing your next book of theory that doesn't work, because in practice shit is still happening. You can deny all you want, and live with the idea that football is the safest sport hahaha. Best joke I've heard all year! Bye darling, keep up the good work!
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:12 PM
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You go do 10 more years of research and publish 7 other bullshit books....guess what? It ain't working, buddy! Want to know why? There are still players leaving the field on a stretcher with concussions and people are still getting their brains fucked up because of playing your precious "manhood" sport! Throw on top of that a ton of political crap, and there you have it.... America's passion is backfiring! Lol I got my facts ONLY from this NFL season: 1) Davante Adams 2) Joe Flacco 3) Tom Savage…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:04 AM
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That's why I posted this..... "There's no such thing as failures, only learning opportunities"
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 06:03 AM
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Talk to the man upstairs and tell him to re-wire them! Lol
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:09 AM
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I’m not here to discuss football with you.... I have a strong feeling against it, period. If the Junior Seau case, if the numerous cases of CTE recently discovered do not alarm you, we’re going to be here forever discussing this. It is not about the one hit that gives you a concussion, is about the 70000 others that don’t that concern me. So, let’s leave that subject aside. There’s plenty of good soccer on TV to keep me entertained and it’s WAY much more exciting and athletic. The point of the p…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 01:08 AM
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Basically. Should I edit the post and add this as a TL;DR? :-)
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:56 AM
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Exactly! Talk about learning the hard way
/r/TheRedPill25/01/18 12:38 AM
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“I don’t know, I keep cutting it but it keeps growing” Fucking brilliant! Thanks for sharing, great read.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/18 07:56 PM
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In Denzel's voice from the movie training day..... "My nigga" Way to be prepared!
/r/askTRP21/01/18 07:39 PM
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THIS
/r/askTRP21/01/18 01:36 AM
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No More Mr Nice Guy! Absolute must read!
/r/seduction20/01/18 09:27 PM
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Dafuq? What kind of question is that? Get something you feel comfortable with
/r/askTRP20/01/18 02:12 AM
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I was drinking water while reading and just snorted my water all over the monitor reading this! hahahahahha
/r/TheRedPill19/01/18 10:47 PM
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Great work! I've made the same mistakes you did with girl #2 - when I sit across them it feels like a fucking job interview and it never goes well. Rule of thumb is I like to sit in the bar, ALWAYS! And I don't ask, I just go straight to the bar, she can follow if she wants. I had a FR earlier this month similar to yours with girl 3... Solid!!!. I've slipped a couple of times lately, but for me this is all lab work, so I don't sweat it. Heck, last date I had 3 days ago I took some risks to screw…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 04:59 PM
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NMMNG is a must read IMO....I kept getting the "you're a super awesome guy, but X, Y, Z bullshit reason". So the title seemed like something I needed to hear. And boy, was it an eye opener! Like I said, it's a different type of book, more like a self improvement book, rather than how to work on game, etc. I read "what women want when they test men" from Bruce Bryans, and I liked it a lot too. Also I really like Corey Wayne, he's got a good book too, and he's funny AF. What you'll come to realize…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/18 06:49 PM
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You will be an " intellectual outsider" great! I'm finding this so fascinating... Now I'm sitting in a bar with friends and I'm thinking stuff like "yeah, hypergamy is a bitch" or "let the hamster work"... Even if I'm not gaming, I'm having fun people watching and comparing shit I've learned over the past few months.... it's so interesting to me, like a school project or something. Cheers!
/r/TheRedPill11/01/18 09:09 PM
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I spent a whole hour typing this post and the only thing this dude picked up was that the Tinderella was 41 years old.... Lol
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:01 AM
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Well, NMMNG is a different type of book.... But it's a must read if you ask me. I had to put it down several times because I couldn't handle the anger and embarrassment at myself when I figured out that I had the "nice guy" syndrome...It's an uppercut to the gut, You should check it out. Back to Corey, to this day, I still follow him on YouTube, and I occasionally listen to his audiobook when Im driving. I like the humor he puts to his work! And yes, dude is Red Pill as fuck if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:59 AM
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That dude is the freaking man! I see his vids often.... I stumbled my way here when I started watching his vids. Very informative, and the mofo is funny as shit!
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 05:43 AM
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It’s becoming more natural, I’m thinking about it while I’m on dates and interacting with women now. What this has given me is awareness in all aspects of how I need to behave.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 03:29 AM
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" I taught a young man named Chad. I kept his actual name because I cherish irony" I was hooked after that line LOL... great post! Oh buddy is he in for a rude awakening soon!
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 10:06 PM
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Uhmm maybe.. I have not claimed to be the super RP Chad yet. I'm still learning :-)
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 09:32 PM
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And she just texted me "maybe we should do dinner next time?"........... That hamster is working OT! :-)
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:43 PM
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I went for the K-close because I was reading a ton of IOI's (more than normal eye contact, slight touching, bumping into me, laughing at every stupid joke)... I could feel it! you do need to escalate until she tells you to stop. I just looked her in the eye and told her "you need to get over here and kiss me right now!" (thanks for that one Corey Wayne!) She kinda looked at me for a second and said "oh really?" and I just kept looking at her silently... she then came and gave me a big, wet one! …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 05:14 PM
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I have been on a mission.... my anger phase was brutal! I had become the BB I despised, and I couldn't stand it! There's still a ton of work to do, insecurities to fix (specially in the bedroom), fears to face and life issues to take care of. But you know what? At least I'm starting to feel like a fucking MAN when I go out on dates! not a douche, not a doormat but it's been all about putting my balls between my legs and not handing them to some random chick. I will not loose another good horse (…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:41 PM
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I just wanted to pump and dump.... plain and simple.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:33 PM
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The fuck yeah I did.....I almost even wore a rubber to pee in her bathroom hahah I’m telling you man, after seeing her house I almost didn’t even want to touch her.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 06:44 AM
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Make a fucking date and stop dicking around! 1) don’t “ask” - wanna get a drink sometime?. Translation: your majesty, can you please get off your pedestal and allow me some of your precious time to grace my BP self with your presence? If she gave you her number already, she’s just asking you to lead her where you want to go! Drinks Friday at 8 at X place? Done!
/r/askTRP07/01/18 12:46 AM
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"I'll never be that married." Did she tell you this as she turned around Dropped the mic?!?! HAHAHAH this is great!
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 04:37 PM
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It's tough!!! a great workout and super fun (it's super tough on my tight hamstrings, but I feel much better after). Plus, you get to meet a shit ton of women. Just don't go there to creep! show interest in the yoga.... the rest will take care of itself
/r/seduction04/01/18 04:14 PM
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Read No More Mr Nice Guy! And the sidebar is there ————->
/r/askTRP03/01/18 11:07 PM
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"She doesn't give me prime time; no weekends, no holidays" Why should you give her yours? "Gossips about her boyfriend in front of me" Have some self respect - set boundaries, if you don't respect yourself, nobody will. "Calls me sweetheart and darling yada yada yada" Meh, the medium IS the message, she's still fucking another dude Reach to the ground, and pick up your balls..... I think you dropped them. I won't judge because I've done the same thing in the past, but just cut it off.... like, Y…
/r/askTRP03/01/18 10:46 PM
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I'm Latino, Salsa and Bachata is in my blood, I've tried that and have had huge success - I highly recommend it. Another thing... try Acroyoga - every class is full of women that need men to "base" them (pick them up), tons of physical contact and yoga pants!. Besides, it's a good workout. They usually end up going out for drinks after too.
/r/seduction03/01/18 10:30 PM
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Great! get new friends and keep working on you - the crabs are just trying to keep you in the BP barrel.
/r/askTRP03/01/18 07:11 PM
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Sounds like you need a hobby... Take a salsa lesson, learn something new, I started 2 weeks ago to do acroyoga, it's a great way to meet women and it's perfectly fine to touch all over their bodies, only 7$ per class, and a good workout. Find a hobby that drives you! it'll make you a more interesting person, and will give you a topic of conversation when you're gaming chicks at the bar.
/r/askTRP02/01/18 10:18 PM
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Why not? It's lab work, bro.....
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:18 PM
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Fair enough.... Again , it's just a plate.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 08:16 PM
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Quite honestly, I just wanted to plate her and keep the abundance mentality going.....
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:49 PM
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Well, she's been on a gym high and lost a few pounds, been into personal development lately (new job, working out, blah blah blah)....So I thought "this is starting to become interesting" Her face is really pretty, and she's fun to be around, but man, I like some sort of athleticism in a chick. And she's got a kid, and the dad is not in the picture, so she's got the child 100% of the time which is a pain in the ass. I'd say she's a 5.5 - 6 / you look at her face selfies and you think.... Damn! T…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:46 PM
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I don't know, just running it by the audience? :-)
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:34 PM
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"I was pretty pissed cause I already had cooked a dinner for us and I fucked up by insisting that she come over that night and not playing it off when she clearly still wanted to see me. She did end up coming over the next day but she wouldn’t fuck me, I got her to give me a hj but she just seemed kind of uninterested in the whole thing." Holy outcome dependent behavior, Batman! Your only goal with this girl is to have sex (duh, right?), but I feel like you're just acting desperate for it. Propo…
/r/askTRP29/12/17 04:56 PM
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Who cares? If it's what makes you happy own it and go for it. I bet you meet a shit ton of girls with that. Just lift in the process.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:01 AM
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Oh, and since it's winter, bonus points if you're representing a fleece sweater with the logo of any SEC school (Preferably Alabama or Ole Miss) Extra Bonus points if you have some sort of camouflage on Extra Extra Bonus points if you have a "Ducks Unlimited" sticker in the back of the F-250 Post that in your Tinder and get unlimited pussy! and if you don't believe it, you're still blue pilled!
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:32 PM
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Or as I like to call them: the "my dad is a lawyer" guy. The shortie pink Khaki shorts, sky blue Polo button-down shirt, sailor shoes, Justin Bieber hair-do, a Titleist (or any golf brand) visor, Ray-ban glasses and the half pipe sunglass strap - preferably yellow, and the gigantic F-250 sponsored by daddy. Yeah, those are the guys that get all the ass around here. Do that, and you'll get a shit ton of right swipes on Tinder GTFO here!
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 09:08 PM
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I'm not white either, I'm Latino.... and 90% of the girls I've met online (and actually F-closed) have been white. Maybe the stats show otherwise, but I have done fairly well without being white. As a matter of fact, all the girls that I've met have said that part of the fact that they swiped right was because I was Latino. That pre-req is stupid AF. OH, and I live in TN....
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 07:06 PM
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AWALT.... I'm Latin American (from Venezuela). Depends on the chick, I know girls that will banter back like a champ and sarcasm as a second language too. It has nothing to do with culture.
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:32 PM
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In Rollo's words.... the medium is the message!
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:09 AM
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Every single freaking time when a woman tells me "but, we are not having sex", we end up having sex. Don't listen to what she says, watch what she does.
/r/askTRP19/12/17 05:04 AM
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you need to create a psychological catharsis so that your friends have the opportunity to rethink their habits and change I don't think I needed to get that far... as soon as I showed them the bartender's phone number under my bar tab, they knew I wasn't fucking around.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:48 PM
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I know that 2 of the 3 are probably not ready for TRP.... now, Luis might be. However; my goal was not to bring them here, but more like trying to teach the young cats a couple of life lessons. And in the meantime, learn myself from their experiences.
/r/askTRP18/12/17 10:00 PM
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Thanks , I'm on chapter 1 :-)
/r/askTRP16/12/17 01:55 AM
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Yeah, what I found that the whole sidebar is based on concepts in this book.... (Plating, Hypergamy, etc) I really enjoyed it, and learned a ton. While I do agree on abundance mentality, and spinning plates, etc etc. He talks about how the main goal is to achieve a state of perennial polygamy, even when you're in a LTR / marriage. This has been a really hard concept for me to grasp, and I've seen stuff here about it as well. But I guess that's the one topic where I have not swallowed the Red pil…
/r/askTRP15/12/17 09:44 PM
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Yeah.... There's a few things I disagreed with on the Rational male. But great book nonetheless. I just used my second monthly credit on Audible and listening to volume 2. Seems to be guided more towards where I am in life (mid 30s guy) than volume 1
/r/askTRP15/12/17 09:09 PM
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Yeah, I agree... I am working on everything else except the drinking part, that will come after the holidays. No way I'm not drinking when I'm going to see my buddies in Florida next week. Other than that, it's on! Nofap day 7, day 3 of two-a-day workout (Lift in the morning, Orangetheory at night), started on the Art of seduction book, work is going fine, and I'll try the field when I get a chance....
/r/askTRP14/12/17 06:31 PM
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Sounds to me like you're unplugging from the Matrix..... Keep working! It's not easy, but you'll be glad you've put the effort.
/r/askTRP14/12/17 03:03 PM
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Brother, I was there a couple of months ago.... one book that was a nasty pill to swallow was No More Mr Nice Guy. I had to stop it several times because I felt I was going to punch a wall after realizing my behavior towards women and towards people in general (not setting boundaries, settling for less than what I wanted, putting others in front of me, etc). Made me so angry to look at myself in the mirror, and thinking that I've lost so many chances in life because I wasn't aware of it and beca…
/r/askTRP14/12/17 05:18 AM
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Come on dude... doesn't this have a HUGE red flag over it? especially since she started touching the topic and I've not replied to the message, she has sent me TEN messages with names, pics, blah blah blah... #insecurityalert Sounds to me like the type of chick that will key your car, show up at my place un-announced to figure out why I didn't call her the next day!
/r/askTRP13/12/17 10:47 PM
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hahahah I didn't reply for about 2 hours and she kept sending me pics of her dogs. I have like 4 pics of the different ones, she even sent me a text naming every single one. I think I'm going to reply with "You should name your next one after me....CASPER" LOL
/r/askTRP13/12/17 10:17 PM
1

LOL... it may not happen, I'm thinking "ghost" might be her next one!
/r/askTRP13/12/17 07:12 PM
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"and have her bring a lint roller" Oh my dear God dude, I'm in tears laughing..... hahahahahaha
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:07 PM
1

WTF?!?! who cares?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 07:06 PM
1

Hahaha someone played Contra back in the day! And I wish it was unlimited pussy, there's still PLENTY of work to be done. Just picking on the low hanging fruit for the moment. Good advice, bro. Thanks!
/r/askTRP12/12/17 03:53 AM
1

Oh, and the Punisher.... it's awesome!
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:58 AM
1

Increasing difficulty... uhmmm interesting! I STILL have a shit ton of work to do on my game... specially getting over some approach anxiety. Now, once the conversation starts, it's downhill from there. And once I'm on a date, it's easy for me...or at least the last few, have been. Guess I'll just have to focus on the things I need to work on and keep improving. You know? I'm not here to talk about my ex bullshit, however, I don't miss "her" much as a person (I still do from time to time, I'm a …
/r/askTRP12/12/17 12:57 AM
4

Huh?
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:52 PM
8

I play coed soccer - treat them as any other person... usually soccer chicks are pretty fun. Just another teammate on the field, just another girl off the field.
/r/askTRP11/12/17 11:12 PM
2

Lift, run, get a hobby.
/r/askTRP07/12/17 03:42 PM
4

I feel like if it had been some Chad's bodily fluids he cleaned up instead, it wouldn't have changed much of anything with the situation. hahahaha that made me cry out laughing...
/r/askTRP06/12/17 10:11 PM
1

It means you messed in OTHER departments. OK, I can agree with this. And that's why I'm here...
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:51 PM
1

Yeah, Works amazing in the movies.... Countless times did I take control of chaotic situations like daughter crying because of whatever, and son needing help with homework, while dinner was cooking and solved everything like a champ. An hour later having a glass of wine after kids were in bed and having awesome sex after and getting the "what did I do to get an amazing guy like you?". Yet, I still got the "you're amazing, but Im not ready for a relationship" message a few weeks later. Fuck that!
/r/askTRP06/12/17 06:31 PM
4

Who cares what she says... look at what she does.
/r/askTRP05/12/17 09:07 PM
3

“Now imagine the position I would have been in had I not been talking to any other women other then my LTR?” The same position that brought me here.....
/r/askTRP04/12/17 06:12 PM
1

The only man I've seen pulling that shit off is his eminence, Hugh Heffner....LOL Damn, I got some work to do!
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:12 PM
1

I get that... but to me, if you do find a plate that you want to turn into a LTR, would seem logical that the other plates need to stop spinning..... right?
/r/askTRP04/12/17 04:32 PM
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No, she's my future ex-wife! With a huge grin in your face
/r/askTRP03/12/17 09:00 PM
3

Exactly! But "she fell asleep for 5 hours"? C'mon man, that's some rude bullshit right there... I wouldn't even give her the privilege of my time
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:48 PM
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No... Kiss that one goodbye, she wasn't into you to begin with. She knew you asked her out, she knew you were at the bar. Stop chasing bro! You're the prize.
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:44 PM
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Hard next! 'Nuff said.... delete the number and move on.
/r/seduction03/12/17 05:40 PM
1

No trips or fancy dates until its a LTR.... I like keeping it casual while just dating. You usually set those terms in the first date?
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:54 AM
1

Last night it was pint night at a local bar, we had 2 beers each, an appetizer, total was about 35$ I usually keep it to drinks and appetizers first, then decide if I want to go further (AKA dinner, etc)
/r/askTRP29/11/17 12:52 AM
1

Lmao! That made me cry out laughing!
/r/askTRP28/11/17 11:25 PM
2

That's gutsy... I usually live by "I invite I pay, you invite you pay" But then again, TRP is about shifting how you've always done things. This is a big change of how I've done things.....
/r/askTRP28/11/17 10:08 PM
1

Negative... I was brushing that shit off, not affirming it.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 08:48 PM
1

From the book No more Mr nice guy: "Staying in familiar but disfunctional relationships prevent nice guys from getting what they want in love and life" Just my $.02
/r/askTRP28/11/17 08:30 PM
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I didn't promise a damn thing...
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:34 PM
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That's a good advice... I don't know if I want to keep taking shit test after shit test though. I'll sleep on it, or let her chase for a bit.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 07:24 PM
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Focus on that trip! when I focused on mine, it gave me a topic to talk about with people (specially women) that brought that fire when you talk... you'll be happy you did.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:56 PM
1

See? I don't live anywhere close to the water, my latest surf trip costed me like 2000$ (I bought a surfboard though). It took a lot of work to make it happen. However; now I'm hungry for more! I feel like plating is getting in the way of that dream due to the money, but I can't get better if I don't go out, practice, get rejected a few times, sort through the no's to get to the yes'es, get stronger game if I go into monk-mode. Because I KNOW eventually, life will present me with another opportu…
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:50 PM
1

I've actually pondered for a bit just saying "fuck it" and going monk-mode for a while and dump all the money I'd be saving from plating into paying for my next surf trip, also on fitness supplements (aminos, protein, etc etc) Iron church, work, TRP (and my other books, to work on myself), wash, rinse, repeat. I feel like plating is a stage of finding what I really want though.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:12 PM
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I'm not joking... when she opened her house door said "Are you allergic to cats? I'm a cat lady" I thought about that video that went viral a few years ago about the chick that LOOOOOVES cats so much that she started crying on the video! hahahahahaha Not even halfway kidding!
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:02 PM
1

I like athletic chicks... I've thought maybe do a "get together for a run?" type of date.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:54 PM
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I am now in an LTR again with a good quality girl who looks after me, I prefer that to dating at the moment. Running costs are a bit cheaper than spinning plates! ;-) Eventually.... that's the main goal for me. I find spinning plates somewhat annoying sometimes.
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:51 PM
1

I already have that! I ref soccer at a semi-pro level (another reason to workout 4 -5 times a week), college and our local adult league. That's what paid my last 2 trips...
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:50 PM
1

DEF NOT LTR MATERIAL!!!!!! as a matter of fact, I kept thinking that on my way home. "Just plate"
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:17 PM
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It almost happened right on the spot.... all I kept thinking was "frame, buddy... frame" Haven't texted / called today at all
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:15 PM
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haha! I thought the same... on the flip side of that, she's a psychotherapist!
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:09 PM
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I'm framing this... preach it, brotha'
/r/askTRP28/11/17 05:02 PM
1

More like.... WTF? I shrugged it off and kept in frame, but was thinking "little early for that!"
/r/askTRP28/11/17 04:51 PM
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I'm printing this and sticking it to my bathroom mirror to read every fucking morning!!!! well said!
/r/askTRP16/11/17 09:18 PM
1

You're ready. For more. For better. ....That's why I'm here! thanks!
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:25 PM
1

Thanks, I am starting to believe in the abundance mentality, so many bad habits to break though. Work work work!
/r/askTRP16/11/17 04:24 PM
1

I did the good old fashion braces @ 35 years old... still wearing the retainers. It sucks at the beginning, but eventually you'll get used to them. Do it! it's a huge confidence boost when people tell you that you look a lot better :-)
/r/askTRP15/11/17 04:01 PM
1

yep.... it's clear now. Thanks
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:51 PM
1

I see it now, thank you.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:44 PM
1

"While I can understand the urge to tell her off, it's the absolute worst thing to do" No shit, huh? LOL .... Lesson learned.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:43 PM
1

Live and learn... hey, if anything, was a good experiment.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:07 PM
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"You really need some guidance" That's why I'm here... right? Thanks for breaking it down :-)
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:40 PM
1

Agreed on the last couple of msgs... fuck being an orbiter though.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:11 PM
2

Fair enough...
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:28 PM
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You mind elaborating?
/r/askTRP14/11/17 05:13 PM
1

Great advice... thanks! I really wanted to set a boundary that I didn't want to be jerked around like that. But I see what you mean. Thanks!
/r/askTRP14/11/17 04:24 PM
2

What a great post, I just finished reading this book... some of the things discussed in it are so uncomfortably true that it's like a mirror you're afraid to look at! Thanks for the notes, I need to read it again and apply some things I learned.
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