I went on a couple of dates with this girl I met last year, it's obvious she wants me, and I've always pushed back on her. After I met her she gained a little weight, we started dating other people and went our separate ways. I just wasn't utterly attracted to her.....

9 months later (about a couple of weeks ago), I saw her in a party, we talked for a minute, and that was that... later that night I went out clubbing with some friends and saw her there too, we were both pretty intoxicated and ended up making out in the dance floor. I really didn't think too much about it, we were both pretty drunk and went our separate ways, I didn't even attempt to F-close, I was just having a good time with my friends.

In the past few months, I discovered TRP and been spinning a couple of plates, one of them fell, so I said "fuck it" I'll plate her, and decided to text her.

Me: Hey, drink at X place Friday?

Her: (5 seconds later) YES! let's do it....

Me: OK, meet at X place at 8PM

Her: OK!

Then yesterday she sent me a BS text -

Her: This is cuddling weather

Me: OK, I'm coming over! wear something sexy lingerie!

Her: my sister is here...

Me: ok, let's do it tomorrow after drinks

Her: well, about that... my sister is here visiting and she wants to come, can we meet and hang out instead?

Me: Sorry, not interested in a group date, if you want to go with your sister, feel free.

Her: but wait, it's our first Holiday together since 2007, why don't you come with, it'll be fun! we can have our 1 on 1 after NYE when she leaves.

Me: Have fun! (and left it at that)

Today... I just get a message.

Her: Hey, I was able to straighten things out with my sister, you still up for a drink?

Me: Haven't responded yet. I'll tell her I have plans already in a little while - letting it marinade for a bit.

I already made plans with my only plate I got left at the moment, and a buddy of mine called me and said he's got a bunch of girls lined up for a salsa dance party, and they are looking for guys that can dance salsa.... uhhhmmmmm SIGN ME UP, Chief!!!!

Ain't nobody got time for BS, she had her chance... Thanks TRP for teaching me abundance mentality!

Now, hard next? or if she comes back for more, give her the meat rocket?