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Pre-selection is the ultimate aphrodisiac IMO. If people they like, like you, they will like you because: a) perceived safety b) social status boost c) increased amount of time thinking about you d) seriously, a lot of stuff I've read it in the lit and experienced it in the life, lack of pre-selection is a hill you can climb with things like kino and alpha play, barrier busting as it were. Pre-selection even comes down to fashion choices, activities that you do, etc. Think how on Tinder you'll g…
/r/seduction18/09/16 04:52 AM
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I would agree with some others here in saying you definitely want to check in with a therapist to get these feelings of general despair handled. Sports is a really great way to meet new people, if you practice and get actually good at the sport you will automatically be valued by others and will definitely feel better about yourself. Also get some nice clothes and lifestyle habits. Feel good in your Italian cotton shirt while you drink your vintage whiskey. Retail therapy baby. Final note: the p…
/r/seduction17/07/15 04:09 AM
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Went pretty well for a few dates but she went H.A.M on shit tests the day (4 dates in, she said she would invite me up that day). I decided to next her, I'm sure if I kept frame I would have gotten it in but I decided it just wouldn't be worth it for me.
/r/seduction14/07/15 03:51 AM
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This is horrible advice. A plethora of desperate guys turns the fun party vibe into the creepy men harassing me vibe. If everyone is having fun and hooking up, half the work is done for you cause the girls that ain't hooking up want in on the action. Have you guys never seen the 'Nerd queen' phenomenon when you have a 100-1 ratio?
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 04:36 PM
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Very eloquently put, thank you for this
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 04:06 PM
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Oh brother, you are going to get fucked over big time. Beautiful sentiment though.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 04:13 AM
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My mistake, I got a bit of a rational debate nerd boner. Anyways, all I'm saying is the guy sounds like a douche and deserved to be called out for it. You act like a bitch, you gonna die like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:21 AM
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Absolutely incorrect, there is no objectivity in his observation first because this whole matter is highly subjective and second because of the manner in which he framed his observations (bitterness). The only acceptable method of reporting first-party anecdotal evidence to support your argument is with rock solid presuppositions and premises (numbers, dates, neutral language, sources, etc.). He violated all these rules and got called out on it, by women and white knights. I find it appalling th…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 03:04 AM
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Bitterness is an immature trait. If someone is still embittered about a certain topic, their objectivity and wisdom regarding the matter is highly suspect. So it's not just an ad hominem attack, this trait must be factored into the argument because it does in fact undermine the premises of the interlocutor (his presuppositions are called into question).
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 02:46 AM
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Good points hidden in sensationalist bullshit, as per usual for this sub. Edit: A lot like feminists oh no he didn't
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 02:13 AM
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He does sound pretty bitter, if he was truly over it he wouldn't use such emotionally charged language and then put up a passionate defense after the fact. Edit: Long story short; you act like a bitch, you gonna die like a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/13 02:07 AM
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Listen, I have the same hate boner and psychotic bloodlust i'm sure most of us have here as red blooded men. I'm not saying to deny your dark impulses, but that true power is to overcome and dominate them. If not, in time they will come to dominate you. **Edit: Say for example in your comment above, the man's value is only defined by his material accumulation of wealth. I need not explain to you the perils of external validation. We all know the story of Ozymandias, king of kings.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 09:16 PM
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Because less mess. Besides, lying is a symptom of fear and weakness. I've been a complete liar all my life, but it's always been detrimental to me in the long run..[dramatic pause]..because I was lying to myself
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 09:02 PM
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A Pyrrhic victory is no victory at all. Maybe at the lower level this guy will be fine, but hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 08:33 PM
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Shocker: If you are actually powerful and not a total pussy you can get what you want even while telling the truth. I've the same thing as the guy in this story many times but the difference is that I let her know the fucking deal as early as possible.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 08:29 PM
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I think it's important to have a distinction between shithead manipulators and alphas. Lying about your feelings to get sex is pretty weak-willed trait and is just another way to put the pussy on a pedestal. Although yeah, I guess he's an alpha if you equate dark triad with being an alpha.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 03:18 PM
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This guy wasn't really an alpha, from the story it seems he led her on with a lot of bullshit romancing. Sounds like a typical scumbag liar actually.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 02:43 PM
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Your logic is sound, still it's a shitty thing to do to another person. I'm of the Harvey Specter attitude towards married women, regardless of morals, there's just too much mess involved. All that said, I have no problem stealing away a girl who is in a relationship but not committed.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 01:23 AM
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Respect, it can be tough not immediately dumping chicks/people that act out of line. The truth is, a real man isn't petty and judgmental, a real man is above it all.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/13 01:20 AM
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Nice date man, gave her a right proper romantic experience.
/r/seduction25/01/13 02:05 AM
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Woah, very very solid text game dude. Well played.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:59 AM
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you kid, but one day.. [FR] M-Closed my oneitis thanks seddit!
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:54 AM
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Yeah most of the stuff is aimed at drunk hoes in the douche spectrum of the night life. But solid fundamentals will take you far in other areas too, it's just out of the spectrum of the advice here.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:53 AM
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OP listen to this guy. You gotta hop (cigarette) and step (bar by my house) to the end (ah lets just get a drink round the corner at my place) with these lukewarm girls not just run it straight to your bed.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:46 AM
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Agree and amplify. Are you here alone? >> Yeah I have no friends thanks for rubbing it in. When in doubt just say yes. Are you a player? Yes Your beard is ugly. Yes Omg you're such a creeper. Yes See how well it works? Up the ante with a bored look and turning away a little bit if she's really pushing it.
/r/seduction25/01/13 01:38 AM
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Yeah not to go MFA on you but if you worked to get cut, lost the (kinda lame) facial hair, and got a good haircut you could easily gain +2/10
/r/seduction22/01/13 08:14 PM
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Bro it's entirely possible she was turned on by you, especially if she's commenting about you after you've gone away. If she's thinking about you, positive or negative it's an in. AAA Always Assume Attraction Personally, if a girl is being bitchy she's probably craving dick and I'm happy for the free shit test. Passing shit tests = Attraction.
/r/seduction16/01/13 04:01 AM
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This is actually very impressive and applicable to building social circles in general, thanks kindly Fred.
/r/seduction16/01/13 02:49 AM
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This is so, so, very not true. Good looks is probably 75% body language and sense of style to start (except height, women are crazy for tall men). So yeah once you've got that nailed, its easier overall, definitely. But there are other unique challenges and hardcore shit tests to pass. Converting high initial attraction into actual results can be hard because you're competing against her expectations of this ideal super hot guy. If youre off point it's very easy to blow yourself out due to this.…
/r/seduction09/12/12 01:00 AM
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some shit like 'you're awesome we should eat organic food together or something' she asked herself out for me
/r/seduction25/11/12 04:16 PM
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first rule of the internet: OP is fag
/r/seduction24/11/12 08:49 PM
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love is war my friend
/r/seduction24/11/12 06:26 PM
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Haha yeah it's a massacre, guess a lot of dudes didn't get laid last night
/r/seduction24/11/12 06:06 PM
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That's tight man, lot of people don't have vm or just never check it nowadays though. I like my tactic mainly cause i'm fucking lazy.
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:30 PM
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Haha yeah I've heard a lot of PUAs say that you should 'call to confirm' or whatever but man it can get awkward real fast.
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:15 PM
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I can't find the study, but there's a large body of evidence that says body language dramatically affects your mood and health. So if you keep your chin up, shoulders back, back straight, stiff upper lip; all these things indicate good health and confidence, remind yourself to do these and you will be confident and in good health. You'll certainly at least look the part. I remind myself often to check these things and at this point it's become natural. I can't stress enough how big a change it's…
/r/seduction24/11/12 05:09 PM
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God you're boring
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:51 PM
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Christ, calling me a cunt over that? Fragile fuck aren't ya
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:48 PM
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Yeah but that's boring, and if you're at a low level you'll get killed with that approach. When you're at a high level, basically any tactic other than direct is overkill, but I dgaf about getting laid, I like to enjoy myself.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:34 PM
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You might be too rookie for it man, go with tactic C for now, tactic D is a beast at a higher level of play. edit for clarity: Once she's put her number in and while she's still holding your phone, playfully suggest that she text something to herself, my line "Text yourself something that'll work". I enjoyed this because she basically did all the work for me while I was chatting with my friends. In game terms, I did a nice little investment ladder, Take my phone > Put in your number > Put in you…
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:30 PM
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This guy right here, he knows
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:14 PM
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Most helpful confidence advice for me is also the most cliche: Chin up, back straight, lean back, relax. Thats my mantra and it definitely works.
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:12 PM
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Lol just have fun, it's a semi consequence free environment. I dont like hardcore grinding but I like to dance, talking isn't really a go unless you head outside for a smoke. I'm all about brief interactions (10-15min tops) to get her turned on and escalating, moving, or coming back later to keep it hot . You can't be stale in a hectic environment like that, even if you move slow(er) you gotta keep things fresh and exciting. Club pickups can be very fun because it's almost all non-verbal. Gotta …
/r/seduction24/11/12 04:06 PM
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This guy sucks, always opens asking for directions or some other elaborate excuse, closes weakly, doesn't build much of a connection at all. LAME. A stuttering amateur that goes for honesty is way more impressive and will get better way faster.
/r/seduction23/11/12 06:03 PM
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This is all top notch advice man. I have to laugh though cause the way you write it makes you seem like cold calculating seduction robot. Homeboy's got no love for dem hoes.
/r/seduction23/11/12 05:45 PM
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These girls already want your dick, all you gotta handle is the logistics of getting her alone with you in a place where you can heat things up. Just lead her. In a conversation you don't have to say much other than 'cool', 'yeah', 'thanks' and signal intent with your eyes (when you look at her imagine you're fucking her, you'll get a suggestive smirk and she'll start smiling too). Then once you feel like it, just be like "i'm going to do (whatever thing) later, come with" then "yeah text me you…
/r/seduction12/10/12 06:06 AM
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The guy in this movie dresses and even moves in some pretty gay ways, yet he's one of the coolest guys I've ever seen (From 'Blow Up by Michelangelo Antonioni 1966) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-ywa6qeYJAg&feature=related I go pretty hard with my sense of style, but I very rarely get asked if I'm gay and even then it's from clueless/hopeful people. Style, not fashion. Find clothes that fit you and your ideal lifestyle. Oh yeah, and it's better to buy cheaper and get it tailored than more expen…
/r/seduction12/10/12 05:50 AM
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Think with your dick. See a girl, let your dick lead you to her. Don't think if she's hot enough, if she's got a boyfriend, etc. Your dick knows whats up. If she ends up being hot and kinda turns you on, don't think of good things to say to charm her, just look at her and imagine her blowing you. Now you'll probably have a shit-eating grin on your face, and she's gonna start smiling too. Trust the dick. Also: No fap. Stop beating your manhood into submission, let it grow. Let it fuck fine bitche…
/r/seduction04/10/12 06:51 PM
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Good on you mate! I'll keep an eye out for an epic FR
/r/seduction02/10/12 11:02 PM
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The goal is to get her grinding on you, not grind on her. Open Hip bump and a slightly accusatory look (with a smile) [You should be able to do this easily if you're dancing 'alpha' and taking up space] She bumps into you on a crowded floor, "Oy watch where you're going", slightly serious face into a smirky smile Maintain eye contact and come up to her fairly close, smirk/hey/sexy eyes, she will grind up on you Catch eye contact and hold out your hand, maybe spin her like the other guy says Midd…
/r/seduction01/10/12 07:28 PM
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I had the same 'problem', it depends on how you smile. Is it a weak and supplicating smile or a strong and confidently happy one? If you have a winning smile you can beam all day and you'll improve your mood and that of those around you. A lamer smile? you'll just look weak or worse. I suggest you study different smiles and see what you're flashing in comparison, you'll learn a lot about yourself.
/r/seduction01/10/12 06:56 PM
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wait your turn kitty, i'm busy
/r/seduction27/09/12 02:19 PM
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You gotta think with your dick a little more. If you think a girl's hot, instead of pretending to be interested, just think about fucking her right then and there. You'll probably naturally crack a sly smile and have a sexy look in your eyes at this point.. and well it goes from there
/r/seduction25/09/12 09:02 PM
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My god man, why would you try and use things like sexual jokes and just ruin your whole aura? Just have a conversation and lead, little things like motioning for her to walk with you and using your hands to maneuver her (not even touching necessarily). Talk slow, take some pauses and see how you feel when you keep some eye contact going, does it get sexy? Then seal the deal touch her and tell her you're doing x thing on y day, come with. Trust me man, sexual jokes, touching too much, overt flirt…
/r/seduction25/09/12 05:02 PM
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I was worried about this too, if she's the real deal, you'll develop feelings anyway. This approach means you don't get tricked (as much) by infatuation and attachment issues and can develop deeper feelings naturally and cleanly.
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:51 PM
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I just noticed you noticing me so I had to put up the notice that I noticed you too
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:45 PM
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Right out the gate this article is so so very wrong. If a girl finds you very attractive she will usually purposely not look at you and steal a glance when you can. Think about it, when you see a really hot chick and you're being beta, you don't look at her, you avoid looking at her cause she turns you on too much. First result on google for "how girls flirt" : http://www.wejkteb.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/girls-flirt.jpg AAA Always assume attraction, fuck this article mang
/r/seduction25/09/12 04:41 PM
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Sounding off with the other gentlemen here, you were too slow. Don't sweat it man, happens to the best of us. Remember that fortune favors the bold so if you see a huge opening slam dunk that shit.
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:33 AM
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You gotta do what you want to to do and communicate your true motives and intentions to whoever you're dating. If you're feeling morally unsure, talk about it. I approach this subject from an emotional standpoint, not a factual one. Less talk about how many girls you're doing, more about how you feel about them, about you, and about you and them. I always make sure to let the girl know why she's special to me, even if there are other women in my life. Haven't taken any heat whatsoever so far, in…
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:28 AM
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You should be proud, you did really well man. You probably failed some shit test during the chat up that ruined your chances with each of these girls. As you get more experienced your ability to convert slightly interested girls into very interested will increase. The single most helpful tip for me was this: ANYtime a girl tries to put you on the spot (and if they like you, they will in some way), just respond with one of 3 things and then talk about something else a) yes b) thanks c) oh bonus d…
/r/seduction17/09/12 06:06 AM
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If you're creepy, everything you do is creepy. If you're attractive, everything you do is attractive. You see an older guy loping up to a woman, his shifty demeanor indicating that he is doing something wrong, he looks at her almost pleading for a date. He gets rejected, awkwardly ambling off like a wounded animal. You see an older man strolling up to a woman confidently, he looks like he has a good reason to talk to her. She senses this and perks up from what she was doing, he speaks clearly an…
/r/seduction05/09/12 01:40 AM
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Posture, voice, face. Good straight back, abs tight, chin up, a nice sexy strut. Loud and clear, just keeping your chin up will help immensely. Relaxed facial muscles, close your eyes and just breathe deep, try and feel deeply who you are inside, now look in the mirror, thats your real beautiful face. Now make your life interesting and you will get approached more.
/r/seduction03/09/12 04:47 PM
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it's possible she got fuckzoned, but she played it pretty well IMO. She didn't make it too easy or act too annoying and hard to get. Fem game for me is more about avoiding the fuckzone and getting a solid relationship. Not being clingy and being interesting and attractive (like OP is doing here) is solid game and this guy might even just be a little extra intrigued. My advice to OP is to not make it too easy, looks like buddy here is really commanding and you need to put him a little off balance…
/r/seduction24/08/12 06:57 PM
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Be friends with the unattractive one and be seductive with the one you want. It's little things like, smiling more and irregular eye contact (like with your friends). Sprinkle in little disqualifiers like "You remind me so much of my friend Janet" "My hockey buddies would love you" etc. If you roll up and you're all sexy and baller you're going to make the friend sad that she isn't getting any of the value that her friend is getting. You need to balance that equation a little to make the vibe ri…
/r/seduction14/08/12 02:35 AM
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It really depends, if you're turned on and you want her, try until you're no longer feeling it and then go to sleep. Be real. Because LMR is often a test in itself so if you react by changing your behaviour/mindset then you've failed. For example, your method might completely ruin your chances with a good girl who just wanted to make sure that you really do want her and aren't just trying to get yo dick wet.
/r/seduction06/08/12 11:32 PM
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Jewbot69 has the right idea. Here's a trick that's even better and requires even less effort. Someone puts you on the spot? Use these responses, listed in order of power. [silence], yes, cool, ok, thanks, oh. In this case I would either just not respond and start a conversation that's actually interesting later (if she's obviously hot and obviously desired by other men) or I would just say yes. This is a ploy for attention and to see if you're going to react. Don't give her attention. Don't reac…
/r/seduction06/08/12 11:21 PM
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I hear what you're saying man but it's either a lie or you should just stop wasting your time with a girl that you don't find attractive. Because when you see a girl you want you should be thinking with your dick and as long as you have the balls to back it up it's a natural thing. Probably a good idea to stop masturbating, it suppressed your natural manly urges.
/r/seduction06/08/12 10:54 PM
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You need ~20 minutes. Write out 10 of each: nouns, verbs, adjectives. Now write some statement (2-3 sentences) relating said word. Bonus points for 'threading' the statements together. Now think of any word and instead of writing a statement just say it out loud. Congratulations you've just learned how to 'vomit words' and if you did extra credit you learned 'conversation threading'. Now next time your conversation is in a lull (or you're just bored of what they are talking about), just pull som…
/r/seduction06/08/12 10:19 PM
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Sasha daygame is utter shit. He's needlessly pervy and overexcited but still somehow manages to be boring as fuck, and if you watch his videos you can see that his results reflect the quality of his approach. The only thing you can take away from him is that it's okay to chase down a girl, in fact you will probably have to most times.
/r/seduction06/08/12 09:46 PM
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this is so on point, thanks for writing this up.
/r/seduction06/08/12 09:37 PM
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fuck that shit man, she just wants your nerd juice, lose her.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:03 AM
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Really? So far I've had more success with just projecting a baller aura and letting them chase me, giving them a little here and there. Working hard, replying too often, these things kill me.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:00 AM
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'imma catch up with my friends, see you round' 'fuck you're cute, i'm gonna find you later k?' 'i gotta go, catch up with you in bit' etc. I do this even if it's going swimmingly, give her a chance to miss you and legitimately spend time with friends. If there's a chance I won't see her again and she's aces then I'll get the number 'in case of adventure'
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:56 AM
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I'm always more vague on the meetup time the farther away it is (ie: cool lets go biking next week; i'm feeling a bike ride thursday eve, you in?, etc.). This is cause i'm legit busy and won't pin down an exact time and place weeks in advance for a chilling session. I guess it's 'abundance mentality' but it tends to work a lot better for everyone involved.
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:30 PM
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x1000 its so easy to start it up in line, the only problem is sometimes you can't shake the girls off once you're in the club!
/r/seduction11/07/12 01:24 PM
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I dunno man, I rock boners on dates from time to time and get nothing but a positive reaction. I just tell her she's turning me on too much with x cute thing she's doing, etc.
/r/seduction10/07/12 04:42 PM
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before: Life is so scary, nobody likes me, nobody wants to hang out with me, bitter, constantly missing opportunities in life due to shyness and neediness now: Life is easier, I go into any situation knowing I'm awesome and believing i'm worth ittm. Coincidentally I now get invited everywhere and girls are all over me constantly. Also I should note that my looks barely changed, except for better body language and more confidently wearing the clothes I already owned.
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:50 PM
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Dude you're in NYC, everyone's different colors and crap there. I mean if you look and act 'fobby' you're probably gonna have a bad time (as do my friends), but if you have your style and confidence dialed being an exotic guy can even pose an unfair advantage. At least it has been for me.
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:46 PM
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Oh and another point, all the things you list as negatives (weak eye contact, lack of smiling), aren't all that bad. It actually takes pressure off and feels much more rewarding, I actually hate it when girls stare or smile to get a reaction out of me, it's like cool it girl you don't know me. Of course a genuine smile and some nice mutual soul gazing is always a major turn on. Be nervous and just own it, play with your hair, turn around and look away when he looks at you, fidget. If a girl is n…
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:31 PM
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Put yourself in the position to be approached. Go to the cafe instead of reading at home, go out to a show instead of dancing by yourself in your frillies, go to the market instead of buying frozen food from the chain store. Have something on your person that someone can very easily comment on and physically place your body in closer proximity to the guys who seem interesting. Then think about all the sexy things you want to do with him, steal glances at the stuff that turns you on. At this poin…
/r/seduction10/07/12 03:12 PM
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Wave and then beckon her over.
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:53 PM
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How to talk to anyone, extremely solid outer game, take notes and practice and you will see dramatic results across the board. You can also find it on the pirate bay.
/r/seduction10/07/12 02:50 PM
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Being a man of few words is nothing to be ashamed of. It's all in how you don't talk. Parroting: Repeat part or whole of a phrase they just said to get them to talk about it more. (girl: I went to school in bahamas, you: bahamas?). Congratulations you are now the best listener in the world. Protip: uh huh, yeah, cool, no way, and filler crap like that are your worst enemy. Frame control: If you don't want to talk, why the hell are you leaning in and hanging off her every word? Lean back, relax, …
/r/seduction09/07/12 08:16 PM
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Sexual assholes and emotional sluts Extremely relevant. You have to change your mindset or you're gonna get fucked sooner or later.
/r/seduction04/07/12 03:43 AM
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You usually build up to that, you start with holding handshakes and such a little longer than usual. Then at a high point you briefly hold her hand (just enough to build some tension) to lead her somewhere or to support the conversation. From here things heat up (mutual caressing, complimenting how her hand feels, smacking her butt with her own hand, with interlock being near the end and this meaning she really likes you). Long story short, play with her hands because it's intimate but casual an…
/r/seduction03/07/12 07:06 PM
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Usually not good to shit where you eat as it were. You kind of have to slowly build up to it and not go in guns blazing. Try first to have some sort of basic conversation (hi, bye, i'm so looking forward to this coffee etc.). Very important do not overtip. Next time, greet with more familiarity and go for a slightly more personal conversation (x slightly complimentary comment about them), exchange names. Then, next time if it's going well bring up stuff you're doing (conversation about art on th…
/r/seduction28/06/12 11:29 PM
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"Who are you?" (and a light redirecting touch to turn them towards you) In a confident tone, best single statement by far, just make sure you're ready for the shit test cause it's gonna turn them on too much
/r/seduction20/06/12 02:00 PM
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Ball so hard you need a jersey on
/r/seduction15/02/12 05:06 PM
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People will always give you shit for being awesome, but if someone I know who I thought was AFC all of a sudden started getting balls and chatting up and seducing women, I'd find them more intriguing/mysterious than someone who is just obviously badass from day 1. In fact, when I approach in a bar after thinking about it publicly/getting goaded by my group I don't gain any value, but if i just GO and CLOSE and then come back like nothing happened, yeah. it works. rule#1 DGAF
/r/seduction03/02/12 04:31 PM
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Sounds like you're dating pedobear but hey...Perhaps do sexual things in a very innocent way and play dumb if he calls you out on it (like in the smoothie scenario)
/r/seduction27/01/12 08:25 PM
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Listen to this guy. I'm 6'3" and very good looking, I won't deny it's a lot easier but for consistent results and choice, especially with top tier girls, it doesn't mean that much.
/r/seduction26/01/12 07:59 PM
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The real question here is do you want to fuck her? If so then just plow through and if you don't want her after getting to know more, just peace out on your terms instead of on a rejection. A really helpful tip for me was to remember that girls are silly and cute, who gives a fuck if she's flaky and waffly, it's cute how she can't help it and how attracted she is to you because shit tests are a natural behaviour even from the nicest of nice girls.
/r/seduction09/01/12 06:36 AM
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I don't think you're understanding that you have a natural talent for communicating that most of guys don't have. Men are generally very bad at reading body language and reading subtle social cues, the naturals are that 'other 10%' that just get it. This material is just training wheels to help get the average frustrated chump to the point where they can express themselves naturally and get what they want out of life.
/r/seduction17/11/11 03:22 PM
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I heard that you should be humorous about everything BUT sex. It shows that you are different from the usual people that are too scared to candidly talk about it and have the strength and confidence to be sexual.
/r/seduction16/11/11 06:59 PM
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Try indirect game and pre-opening, takes pressure off of both you and the girl, plus it's more fun
/r/seduction31/10/11 06:11 PM
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I'll add that the state you're in should be relative to what you want at the moment. If you want to chill, be chill. It's all about being real and confident in what you want out of life, not about being entertaining for others. Of course that's the endgame, pump up strategies are essential to break you out of the illusion of comfort. Or so I've heard
/r/seduction31/10/11 03:17 PM
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Bravo good chap!
/r/seduction31/10/11 03:01 PM
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Pretty poor article. Circlejerkey selective sourcing and mental masturbation at its finest. It was certainly interesting to read, if only for the novelty factor. Tbh I find reading articles written by feminist writers is often an embittering experience due to the adversarial framing of the entire text as well as the dissonance between content and thesis. This confusion and bad emotion can really fuck up your frame (I used to read mainstream liberal media a lot until the adversarial and feminist/…
/r/seduction19/10/11 09:01 PM
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Read this somewhere the other day. -Evoke emotion (i felt, she felt, he was furious) -Action words instead of descriptive words (the stench just hit me like a ton of bricks vs. it smelled awful) -Sense of place (there were these massive and intricately carved statues towering all around me vs. there were a lot of nice statues all around) -Pauses (and then...boom there it was vs. and then boom there it was. -Punchlines (punctuate the story throughout with punchlines that you exaggerate/gesticulat…
/r/seduction13/10/11 09:20 PM
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