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Read the shit test encyclopedia. If someone throws a fastball and it hits you, it's gonna sting. If you knock it out of the park then it becomes a positive. Learn to turn it into a positive and it won't bother you any more.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 03:13 PM
1

I think he's just a dickhead and is feeling out whether you're a soft target for a bit of bullying.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 08:48 AM
1

Oss
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:09 PM
0

If you write a check you can't cash it could backfire. I'm guessing OP isn't a fighter or he wouldn't be asking this question. Humour is safer and easier to deliver than a nuclear threat.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 06:07 PM
1

But what does it mean?
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:43 AM
3

Better to learn how to deal with them. It's very useful to have a bit of verbal judo up your sleeve for guys like this
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:40 AM
0

He is basically giving OP a shittest, so don't give a nuclear response. What if he then slaps you on the head, are you gonna back it up? Keep it playful: "I'll open you up like a can of beans." "I'll slap you silly, son."
/r/askTRP08/04/19 08:38 AM
1

Exactly right. Abundance mentality. It's not about any one fish, it's improving the quality of your net and casting it as wide as you can.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 07:08 PM
2

You frame sounds pretty good, I don't think you fucked anything major up. You've just been a bit unlucky and found some difficult ones. Next them and find new ones. A few minor tweaks and you'll be knee deep in pussy.
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:48 PM
1

it will really suck for you if you gonna get so turned on and wont be getting any The fucking cheek, what's wrong with women? ​
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:45 PM
5

This thread is great, don't stop here
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:39 PM
1

Damn, big channel, how did I miss this?
/r/askTRP06/04/19 06:19 PM
6

Depends on the job. You probably don't want an aggressive bookkeeper or receptionist.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 05:26 PM
22

I think there's a strong case that women should be paid less for the same work, because they're worth less. They take more holidays, call in sick far more often, don't work as well under pressure, have an inherent risk of discrimination/sexual assault cases, are less accountable, drop out of the workforce around 30 or at least drop to part time. When you're a business owner who needs valuable, dependable employees, women just aren't as good as men.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 03:25 PM
48

I'll quote the best description I've heard: "Imagine you have two neighbors, one male, one female. The male earns $100,000, the female $50,000. Is this enough information understand why their earnings differ? Clearly not. You don't know what they do, experience, hours worked etc. The gender pay gap is the exact same thing, but on a national scale. When you account for all those things, the gap disappears."
/r/TheRedPill06/04/19 02:19 PM
3

Upvote for wishy washies
/r/askTRP06/04/19 11:38 AM
4

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Florence_Nightingale_effect
/r/askTRP05/04/19 11:16 PM
7

You said yourself that you're only considered good looking by default. Wait until those girls hit 18 and get on Tinder, then you won't just be competing against the Chads in your school but the entire city.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:39 PM
2

/thread
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:29 PM
2

Take Viagra to break cycle of performance anxiety, then stop. Also, don't put your dick in things without a condom, you don't know where they've been.
/r/askTRP05/04/19 03:26 PM
1

The problem is girls like this are exceedingly rare and you have no way of telling until it's too late. If you figure out where to find one then please let me know. I thought I found one once, until she cheated on me. That's why we say AWALT.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:33 PM
2

They're not direct equivalents, but the closest would a women who is attractive but not a slut. She does not diminish her value by giving out sex without receiving commitment, as the alpha does not diminish his by the reverse.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:22 PM
3

It can make a huge difference. I don't think speed is much of an issue, but you should speak from your chest, project, and sound confident. It is literally the difference between sounding beta or alpha. Watch this: https://youtu.be/P41ER1Wmkj0
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:08 PM
6

The problem with this is that girls are actually really fucking boring. You'll have more fun if you just try and amuse yourself. Also girls fucking love humour, go watch some PUA videos on YouTube and you'll see it's all about that witty humour with sexual vibes.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 10:02 PM
12

I do alright with these: "This means we're gf and bf now right" "Behaving yourself this weekend?" "How's your day been? I like your dog" (especially if she doesn't have a dog) ​ I don't think it's that important though, she's decided from your pics if she wants to bang, your job is just to demonstrate you're not a weirdo and get her num.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:57 PM
19

No. Mine just let me float around with no guidance, and I wasn't smart enough to emulate him. This should be taught to us by other men in our lives, but I think most of us are here because we missed out on that lesson.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:44 PM
8

How old are you? It seems like you're in very early RP days so read the sidebar. Take this chick to a bar and try and flirt. Don't worry if it fails, just get some practice. what do I say if she, or girls in general, ask why I’m single? Any lighthearted answer. "I'm picky", "It's complicated" etc. Don't talk about your relationship or your life story.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:40 PM
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if she gives me a vibe that lets me think I could take her home, me NOT taking her home puts me in the position of power Paying a higher price than you could have doesn't put you in a position of power. If you could fuck, you should fuck. My point is that many girls who aren't sluts (yet) just won't fuck on the first date
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 09:33 PM
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They're programmed to trade sex for commitment. She gave you sex, so where's her commitment? They're the female version of beta nice guys, who give commitment then expect sex. Women seek commitment from betas because they can't get alphas to commit. Alphas won't commit because they know that women who give sex without commitment are worthless (except for sex), as women know that men who give commitment without sex are worthless (except for extracting resources). ​ See the similarities?
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:23 PM
13

This is true for super sluts, but not all girls in my experience. A better rule is: you should know by the end of the first date if you're gonna fuck or not.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/19 09:05 PM
1

Depends on the girl. I've got two plates that I've been seeing on and off for years. They have relationships and disappear for a while, then come back. Other girls will flip out and leave the second they realise you won't commit. Don't worry about any one plate too much, just keep doing you and maintain abundance mindset.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:40 PM
3

Just go to a bar anyway. The atmosphere is what gets people in a good mood as much as the alcohol. Have a weak drink, then when she offers to buy ask for a virgin Cuba libre as a joke, if needed follow up with "I don't drink much, coke is fine". I don't see as you have any real issue here? I've given myself a hard rule to not talk about money. It never goes well. Talking about having a lot looks tacky, asking her to pay looks cheap. It's all lose-lose. Set the expectations early, and non verball…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 06:22 PM
2

I don't think so at all. Avoiding those things with plates is because you're specifically avoiding commitment, attachment and drama. In an LTR you're (probably) commited, so those rules don't really apply, so long as you're not being a bitch and doing everything she asks. You should only do things because you want to, at least until she's proven that she's worth more.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:56 PM
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Just say you don't drink. I've also gotten away with first ordering a single gin and tonic then switching to lime soda, won't work if she's buying rounds obviously. Regarding getting her to pay, you have to set the precedent on the first date. Buy the first round and say "I've got this round, what do you want?", then when you're finished just sit there with empty drinks without mentioning it. I've tried telling them it's their turn a couple of times and it backfired spectacularly. If anyone know…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:51 PM
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Sounds like she's throwning a tantrum form of "sooo where is this going?". Just brush it off as much as you can: "Yeah sorry been busy lately. What you been up to". If she keeps pushing then you'll have to lay out the boundaries and let her decide if she wants to meet them. Whatever you do, don't reward her with more attention or do anything she asks, you'll end up in a scorpion and frog situation.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 05:28 PM
2

If she's been good to you then give her some closure. Her whole world is probably falling apart right now and she's wondering if she can mend it. Tell her no and that it's best you don't talk any more, that way she knows she has to move on.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:36 AM
7

Did you have a troubled childhood? Sounds like some pretty deep rooted issues. I'd see a therapist personally if you feel that bad.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 08:32 AM
1

It'll be easier for you if you cut all contact and get rid of everything that reminds you of her. Stop thinking about her and just move forward.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:38 AM
10

The Buddha told his student, ‘Every morning I drink from my favorite teacup. I hold it in my hands and feel the warmth of the cup from the hot liquid it contains. I breathe in the aroma of my tea and enjoy my mornings in this way. But in my mind the teacup is already broken.’ Before saying a word, he [Ajahn Chah] motioned to a glass at his side. “Do you see this glass?” he asked us. “I love this glass. It holds the water admirably. When the sun shines on it, it reflects the light beautifully. Wh…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:31 AM
0

Username checks out? Sorry my man
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:25 AM
8

Start a martial art. Some good ones are BJJ, wrestling, muay thai, MMA and boxing. Having good masculine friends can help you learn a lot quicker. Emulate them. Lift heavy weights and push yourself all the time. Do you want to be a pussy soyboy? No, so lift that fucking weight or finish that round even though you think you're gonna die.
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:24 AM
2

It's not his fault but he's doing a disservice to his Petersonians when he says "go get married, it's amazing" but doesn't mention 50% will lose everything from it. Most of his followers will not know any better and will just think "oh, the problem is me"
/r/askTRP04/04/19 07:10 AM
5

Could you provide a TL;DR? I can't be arsed to read all that
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:45 PM
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You can't salvage this one, but still reply. "Cool. Lmk if you need an upgrade" You never know, she might change her mind in a week. Edit: I just read your reply. You made yourself sound like a fucking weirdo.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:39 PM
2

It makes sense when you realise that. In what fucked up world does a 100lb woman have authority over a 200lb man who could throw her across the room with one arm? On a primal level, she has no business being there and she knows it.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:31 PM
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I'm pretty sure it's 80%
/r/askTRP03/04/19 11:05 PM
11

You're being autistic here, so I'd stop talking about it altogether. Just treat her questions as shit tests. Have you ever been heart broken? "Not really". I've had some good conversations with plates about red pill concepts as they relate to other people e.g. "most guys are too worried about what a girl thinks, women can smell the neediness" but NEVER talk about how they relate to yourself e.g. "I try to be outcome independent". In a woman's mind, a true alpha is born perfect, he doesn't ever n…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:47 PM
2

I'm convinced more often than not, women truly believe they are pursuing love. She has found a good man, she wants the dream of falling in love, but she doesn't realise that after gobbling a hundred cocks she's incapable of it. So she chases him until he falls for her, she feels nothing, so tries again. "If only I could find the RIGHT man I would fall in love", not realising that the kind of man she truly wants learned long ago that women should be leased, not bought.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/19 10:30 PM
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Well put. He truly believes the solution lies within men. He thinks gender relations are turning to shit because men are checking out of society, if only men would fix themselves everything would be fine. In reality men are checking out because society because gender relations have done to shit and women are fucking broken. Ironically the actual solution does lie within men, but he spends the other half of his time condemning anyone who figures out what it is.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:13 PM
2

Just put a little bit of effort into helping yourself before asking us to solve you problems
/r/askTRP03/04/19 10:01 PM
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Because he advocates for traditional marriage but won't acknowledge that A. it's suicide for men and B. modern women aren't capable of pair bonding. He won't admit that the societal standards that upheld marriage are no longer there.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:56 PM
8

It's because young women don't have a fucking clue how hold a position of authority and handle men. They turn into little Hitlers to compensate for their imposter syndrome
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:31 PM
5

Like velco. My sides
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:28 PM
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She's trying to show you that she's fun and sassy. Take it as a compliment
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:26 PM
1

If you've never done a cut before, I'd do it now. I fucking hate cutting, I'm constantly hungry, tired, I lose strength and generally feel like shit. Cutting from above 20% body fat will take a while so I wouldn't go any higher personally.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:18 PM
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"Stop acting like a child." "Make me" then smack her ass ​ "What's your kill count?" "More than Jesus would've wanted" smack her ass ​ "Your boring me with the music" "You're boring me with your face" smack her ass ​ "I get bored easily" "That's because you're boring" smack her ass ​ "your lucky I'm talking to you, I don't talk to just anybody" "Thanks babe, I feel lucky" smack her ass then go talk to somebody else ​ "Is that your tactic with everygirl?" "Only if they're at least 5/10" smack her…
/r/askTRP03/04/19 09:11 PM
2

While this is both hilarious and awesome (I do love the idea of separating cucks and their money), have you checked the legality? You could look into using amateur models' pics and setting up multiple profiles, but it doesn't sound like a very profitable use of time.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:58 PM
1

Please give examples
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:53 PM
1

An ultimatum wasn't necessary here, all you had to do was smack her on the bum with a grin and say see yah. That said, you delivered it pretty well so I don't think you did much damage (she may even have liked it). Ultimatums can work well as a last resort if they come from a position of no fucks given.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 08:44 PM
5

Do I just say fuck it and start cold approaching right NOW, join clubs NOW, use tinder NOW Yes, yes and yes. You clearly know what to do, just gotta start acting it out. There are three things you need: lift weights, take some good pictures if you're doing Tinder (I prefer Hinge and Bumble) and go out and get some practice. Ignore everything else.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:57 PM
5

Check out Christian dating websites. The number of decent, traditional women on there is surprisingly high. Many of them will be fully red-pillable with adequate leadership.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:52 PM
5

The fucking state of this sub. Are you 18? Earn money. Pay for shit. That's how you get out of other people paying for your shit.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:50 PM
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All you need to hear
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:45 PM
3

If you're completely content, why worry? I'd gladly turn my mojo down if I could, it distracts me from more interesting shit.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:44 PM
1

My point was, it was shocking enough that the thought of it still upsets them to this day. It's shocking for a woman to see you cry. A good woman who's loved you for a long time won't leave you, but it will do damage to how she sees you that will last for years.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:47 PM
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https://showbizpost.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/07/Candice-Pool-Neistat-1-780x396.jpg https://static.independent.co.uk/s3fs-public/thumbnails/image/2014/03/05/16/web-sarko-getty.jpg?w968h681 https://i.kinja-img.com/gawker-media/image/upload/s--VmJVuFq9--/c_scale,f_auto,fl_progressive,q_80,w_800/awslgru7zklcf0mu8k72.jpg How many fucking examples do you need? ​ Success, muscle, confidence, humour, etc. any of these things are enough for a woman to overlook a bad face. All of them can be earned. ​ …
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:38 PM
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https://fortunedotcom.files.wordpress.com/2016/03/gettyimages-476251705.jpg
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:30 PM
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Haha fucking excellent
/r/askTRP31/03/19 12:13 PM
3

Look at it this way. A woman is valued for her looks/youth. If they're old or ugly, they are irrelevant and there's nothing they can do about it. We on the other hand are valued for what we accomplish. You have HUGE upward potential that girls would kill to have. Sure, women get have the upper hand when it comes to sex, but would you really wanna trade places with the above?
/r/askTRP30/03/19 05:48 PM
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Grieving is normal and healthy, but if your woman sees you do it she will never see you in the same way again.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:08 PM
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It will be if she sees it. When I was young one of my sisters died. It was the only time we'd ever seen my dad break down and cry. 20 years later, my mum and other sister still get emotional at the thought of him cracking up. If your woman sees you cry, it'll crush her. Get your emotions out when she's not around. ALWAYS stay stoic around her.
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:06 PM
7

Requiring that a woman prove herself worthy of a LTR by first being a good plate is stupid. It eliminates all the women who aren't sluts and don't like casual sex.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 05:35 PM
3

What's the easiest way to go about finding subs/slaves?
/r/TheRedPill21/03/19 04:20 PM
1

My 2 cents: it sounds like she's kind of interested, but not enough to actually make time while she's busy. Try hitting her up in 3 weeks as you having nothing to lose, but she'll probably say no as waiting that long for someone you haven't fucked yet seems needy.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:17 PM
1

Split it into three workouts to give each muscle maximum recovery time. Something like: Chest/triceps Back/biceps Shoulder/core If your goals are both size and strength, you could start each workout with 3x5 of Bench/pendlay rows/overhead press at max weight with 5 mins rest, then follow with various sets of accessories. I think ICF5X5 is pretty close to this.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:55 PM
1

If your SMV is really a lot higher than theirs then don't worry about it. They're no threat to you, right? I do however think it's a red flag. She'll probably do the same thing with Chad one day.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:33 PM
1

I don't think it's much different to real life. Girls also have a hard time finding quality men who aren't betas these days.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 05:15 PM
1

A bit late to the party but here's my advice. Read the sex god method. Don't know how dominant you are with her, but I'm assuming you're not, in which case you need to address this first. She won't WANT to suck your dick until she worships you. Start taking control of her, in and out of the bedroom. Smack her ass when she's cooking. Randomly throw her over your shoulder, chuck her on the bed and fuck her with her clothes on. Talk dirty to her and choke her during sex. If she really sees you as b…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:56 PM
1

Don't think OP is alpha enough right now to get away with this. Lack of head is a real sign she sees you as beta bux.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:42 PM
1

Catch her eye, laugh and give her a wink. If she seems interested then go talk to her. If not, don't. Not replying isn't necessarily fatal, I've matched with girls a second time after getting nowhere the first. It can actually build a rapport if you play it right. "oh no not you again"... "Let's get it over with then and go for a drink"
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:27 PM
2

I totally understand the lack of enthusiasm. We all feel its pull. You need to have a look in the mirror and decide if you're willing to be an out of shape, unsuccessful, lonely loser in 10 years time. Then understand that being successful is a product of thousands of days of non stop grinding. Get back in the gym, lift like your life depends on it, focus on success and you'll naturally start attracting women. You'll also be so busy you won't care to give them much time, and your neediness will …
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:08 PM
1

How long have you been regularly dating different women? It might pass with time as conversation with strangers becomes normal to you. If it doesn't then it's probably a deeper issue you need to dig into.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:52 PM
1

I think you're doing everything right. It takes time, often years, to be able to learn and effectively use everything. For dealing with women, keep reading and learning the principles. First learn why you should respond to certain things in certain ways, then learn how to do it by reading examples and practicing in the real world. Repeat ad naseum and you'll get there.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:51 AM
1

Try Jocko podcast. Ex navy seal turned life coach
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:18 AM
1

Found it. It's at 13:50 https://youtu.be/v2KutX6MNFU
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:15 AM
2

This an excellent reply.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:54 PM
1

I don't think you're as wrong for feeling jealous as you are for being in an LTR with this girl in the first place. She's hopped off one dick and onto yours, without any commitment. Why do you think she's capable or worthy of exclusivity?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:51 PM
2

This seriously works so well. If you're good with a chef's knife and wok then it works even better. A 5 minute stir fry is all it takes to impress the panties off them.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 11:14 PM
2

For me. I honestly wish more women were into it. Sadly the girls I've had the best rough sex with have all been batshit crazy.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:57 PM
1

you should normally buy them new for each bitch I'm imagining a drawer full of dildos with different girls names written on them
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:50 PM
3

She's either wants you, or you're severely friend zoned. Above is the right answer - escalate first. If she's not interested you'll know.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:40 PM
1

Based on that, she probably thinks it's more.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:36 PM
7

You really need to see a doctor if you're hearing voices
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:33 PM
1

Then I did a derp and asked her to be my girlfriend, and she got really shit testy after that and I wound up kicking her out after she did my laundry because I was tired of her shit. Haha, totally redeemed. So do you tell girls you own all this kinky shit or just pull it out once their clothes come off?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:28 PM
1

Almost certainly I expect. I'd personally find it extremely odd to see a 30 yo man with braces. But it still might be worth it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:26 PM
3

That Patrice O'Neal clip where he compares women to fishing is the funniest and reddest of pills I've ever fucking seen. Does anyone know the link? I can't find it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:19 PM
3

I'd have to see to give an opinion. Sometimes people are worried about things that other people don't even notice. But if your teeth are really bad then I'd probably do it personally and just go monk mode for 3 years and hire a call girl if you're really desperate.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:16 PM
5

How bad are your teeth? Can we get a photo? I'm 98% sure it will be an instant turn off for virtually all women, but look on the bright side: if you're overweight and socially inept then you probably unfuckable already, so you've got nothing to lose at least for the first year.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:09 PM
1

Careful putting pressure on the trachea, you can do serious damage. It's much safer to apply pressure to the carotid arteries. Squeeze your hand inward rather than putting pressure down. You can make them light headed/pass out very quickly this way, without any risk of injury or death. Source: Brazilian Jiu Jitsu, I choke people for fun
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:02 PM
1

Yeah, the police do not fuck about with this. You're an adult, she's a minor. You may be able to legally have sex, but the photos are almost certainly VERY fucking illegal. Delete everything immediately.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:47 PM
2

Agreed. With this little info it could be anything from they're attracted to you and are just being retarded women to they see you as a disgusting beta.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:42 PM
3

If she's hot she could be getting banged on some millionaire's yacht in a couple of years time and she wouldn't give you a second look. It's good that you're confident, but keep things in perspective.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:39 PM
15

At 16 you have no SMV.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:13 PM
1

You're young, so even if you do have feelings for her, keep fucking her because it's a good way to learn AWALT and why letting yourself get oneitis is a bad idea.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:08 PM
12

Mate I'm English. That's still a retarded thing to say by text
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:02 PM
1

Watch PUA videos on YouTube and read the comments on TRP. Learn how they make conversation. Memorise good default answers to standard shit tests in case you get into trouble (e.g. How many woman have you had sex with? ... More than Jesus would've wanted). Then practice, practice, practice. I did have social anxiety AND I was unfunny and boring. You can totally learn to fake it and eventually become it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 08:01 PM
3

Depends on the woman and how mature you look. Some women are gonna be into it, but be prepared for a lot of rejection.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:56 PM
1

Yeah, this. Jokes are all in the delivery. By text there is no delivery. Move on from the bum comment.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:55 PM
8

"YoU hAvE a BuM" Amazing pickup line
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:51 PM
1

Explain in more detail what happened? ​
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:50 PM
1

This. You've got nothing to lose. If it doesn't work, move on.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:44 PM
1

Ignore them or confront them. What do you want us to say?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:39 PM
1

Choked my ex unconscious. She lost memory of what happened when she woke up and started crying. Would've hot as fuck otherwise. I'm dying to find a girl that enjoys it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:31 PM
1

Never heard of it. Thanks, I'll check it out.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/19 06:51 PM
7

A few years ago it used to be great. I used to get lots of high quality matches even with shitty pictures. Now days unless you're 10/10, it's pay to play, and 99% of the women are trashy sluts. Tinder seems to be degenerating into its final hoe market form. ​ Bumble is a fair bit better, but they've just introduced a boost feature too, so that too will be pay to play from this point on.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 07:02 PM
1

BJJ is the best entry point if you've got any anxiety about it. It's mostly normal, friendly people rather than meatheads. It's a very cerebral sport so you'll get a lot skinny nerds and teenagers who are absolute fucking killers. If you've got the balls for it, MMA is amazing too. I personally don't like being punched in the face, but I think everyone should do it for a while at some point.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 06:56 PM
1

If she didn't reply the first time then no. Contacting her again will make you look thirsty, because you are.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:19 PM
2

I give this advice to everyone, but do a good martial art. I do BJJ and it fixed most of these problems for me. Provides a huge boost in confidence, gives you a social circle, and if you enjoy it, can be one of the most exciting hobbies you can have
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:11 PM
5

This. Also many of us started weak and scrawny like you, so we doubley don't care. I couldn't bench 130 lbs when I started
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:06 PM
2

It's important to be honest with yourself and accept your current situation. If girls aren't interested in you then it's because you're not attractive to them. Get hobbies (if you don't do a martial art, start one), advance your career, keep practicing game and approaching girls, and most importantly, lift. There are no shortcuts. For those of us who aren't born natural Chads, confidence has to be earned through all of the above.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:56 PM
10

Aren't girls hilarious? You know what she wants, she knows what she wants, but she demands you play a silly game so she can pretend that she's not a slut. Gay guys have it so much easier, they can get dick on Grinder in under 5 minutes
/r/askTRP18/03/19 03:14 PM
4

"oh no, what would I do, no one to bitch and moan, or to work overtime for... why would I want to finish this great movie when I can pause it and converse with an angry woman all evening..." You've got the right idea on agree and amplify, but it's coming off as resentful and passive aggressive, which is pure beta behaviour. You can let her know she's being a brat while still keeping it playful. Pull her in for a kiss then say "and get some peace and quiet? Definitely not."
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:59 PM
3

Quality response right here
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:52 PM
22

Imo you have to be top 2% to really have your pick on Tinder, at least without boosting. I've checked Tinder from the women's perspective in my area, I'm solidly in the top 10%. If I use a fake picture of a jacked model, I get literally 10x the matches. Girls are so fucking picky online you wouldn't believe it
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 02:42 PM
4

The beta provider spends his money out of neediness or stupidity. Do you think Leonardo DiCaprio is being a beta when he spends $50k in a night and wakes up covered in bitches? He doesn't give a fuck about the women or the money he spends on them. He needs nothing from them.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:13 AM
4

Your relationship might improve once you've moved out and grown a bit older. I couldn't stand my parents at all and left at 18. Now I love seeing them every chance I get.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 01:02 AM
1

If you can realistically buy a house in the near future, do that. Renting is money thrown down the drain, so only worth it if house prices are unaffordable.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:18 AM
2

I was a very similar case to you. With the exception of being gifted with a good face, I had literally nothing else going for me. Beta as fuck, skinny and weak, hardcore introvert with social skills right on the edge of autism, literally slept on a mat on the floor of a workshop that I shared with my sister. I discovered TRP, starting lifting and learning game, after a 18 months I was spinning 4 plates. I did that for a year or so, then decided that I really fucking hate dating and would prefer …
/r/askTRP17/02/19 12:13 AM
2

If you want to know your past, look at your current conditions. If you want to know your future, look at your current actions. Learn that shit inside and out: your current actions set your future conditions. Quitting will give you the life of a quitter. Unless you're fine with that, quitting is not an option.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 08:42 PM
2

Gotta give a specific problem to get a specific answer my man
/r/askTRP13/02/19 12:14 PM
8

Oh yeah, my bad. Literally stopped reading there
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 12:13 PM
-11

both sisters were standing there nude in the hallway This seems unlikely ​
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 12:00 PM
6

There's a biological purpose to hypergamy as well. Back to when we were living in caves, cave woman Jane likes alpha cave man Bob, but then cave man Jim comes and unseats cave man Bob as the new alpha. Cave man Jim gives better odds of child surviving, so her "love" must switch. Men never have that problem because we don't rely on women for protection or resources. Our problem was making sure that the kids we raised were ours. That's why today's women are disgusted by betas, while today's men ar…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/19 11:55 AM
31

That's the sad part, they've been tricked. They're complicit in it, yes, but it's not entirely their fault. By the time they're in a position to realise something's wrong, it's too late; no good man wants them. I think men have the better end of this deal, but traditional family values really were a rising tide that raised all ships. Now we're all dragging in the mud.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/19 10:53 PM
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