FeelingRisk89 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Got flat out rejected, don’t know how to feel do like 1000 more approaches over the next year or two and then none of these will matter in isolation.	/r/seduction	22/05/26 04:55 AM
3	How are some men so successful with hookups or casual relationships? Always lead volume. That's where it starts. Advertise your dick and you'll get some takers. Simple. as.	/r/seduction	22/05/26 04:47 AM
1	What is Flirting and Why Does it Turn Women On? Always "not about looks or money" guys with the cringiest of shit.	/r/seduction	22/05/26 04:46 AM
1	Let girls introduce other girls: One of the Easiest Ways to Meet Women (That Most Guys Sleep On) People still have "social circles"	/r/seduction	03/06/25 06:08 AM
0	The worst part about rejection Someday you'll realize that the rejection was never about you. That girl has fucked uglier, broker, shorter, hairier dude than you. With a worse car, and a shitty apartment with no windows. It's all about her emotions and situation, and there is nothing you can do about that. All you can do is approach the next one. Takes only a minute/	/r/seduction	24/07/24 10:58 PM
6	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? I truly wish that were true. It's not, though. Not even in primates. Or rats.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 10:56 PM
-9	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? I don't have any interest in proving anything to you or anyone else here. My only interest is in letting people such as OP know that their preset frame and beliefs may not be congruent with the real world. Wallow in whatever brand of self-pity you see fit.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:52 PM
-9	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? Everybody is speaking from experience here. Warren Buffet's investment experience shouldn't be confused with your average Shark Tank participant's.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:46 PM
4	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? fax.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:38 PM
-13	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? LOL tell me you get no girls without telling me you get no girls.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:37 PM
34	The difficulty increase from seducing 8/10's to 10/10's is unreal. How do y'all do it? One man's 10 is another man's 7. Someone out there truly is tired of fuck1ng her. Even though you think she's a 10. This someone is probably an unemployed jailbird with a sub $1000 beater that he drives her around in to get to the cheapest, seediest bars where she pays for his drinks. And begs him to cum inside of her but he refuses to do it raw. Your own mind is your greatest enemy. There are no 10s.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 02:37 PM
1	Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working?? look who's talking heh.	/r/seduction	04/06/22 02:46 AM
1	Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working?? Learn to read jackass. I said "take care of yourself" which is code for bettering yourself as much as you can all the time.	/r/seduction	18/05/22 03:59 AM
0	Getting pussy requires hard work! How hard are you working?? LOL no. It doesn't. Just gotta take care of yourself and bust a move.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 05:45 PM
2	My (almost) bulletproof method to prevent flaking Bla blah bla blah bla. She wants to flake, let her. Find yourself another two leads while you're there and get a nice dinner for yourself.	/r/seduction	17/05/22 06:21 AM
0	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Ah, you are female. So then you must be the ultimate expert on the subject. LOL	/r/seduction	26/04/22 05:07 AM
2	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. You do not speak from experience. You speak from the POV of a timid fella who stares too long at a woman he wants to approach and creeps her out before barely busting a half-assed move.	/r/seduction	26/04/22 03:03 AM
6	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. Probably will work out for him, likely not for you. heh	/r/seduction	26/04/22 03:02 AM
2	The Proximity Principle: Unless you are consistently interacting with women, don't expect them to magically show up in your life. It's unbelievable how many girls you can approach on the street and in grocery shops.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 08:01 PM
1	This sub is delusional. Enjoy your dryspell. heh	/r/seduction	25/04/22 07:40 PM
0	This sub is delusional. Again, you seem to have comprehension issues. I never said anything about girls going up to you. I only talked about approaching them. Dude, you either have comprehension issues, or worse. You seem to be intentionally misreading what I write. At this rate, you're not gonna get anywhere. Nor is this conversation. I wish you the best and hope some day you can actually see what I see.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 07:31 PM
0	This sub is delusional. Who said anything about game/PUA? I just said you won't get a girl to love you if you don't approach one. Dude, you're gonna need help.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:52 PM
0	Dl we miss out on the nice girls when we focus our game on clubbing? I don't do clubs. Never have. Never missed it. Don't know what I could be getting out of it. Don't care either. I'm good with daygame.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:45 PM
1	Taking girls on expensive dinner dates You're being programmed by society. Your dad has been. The societal belief is that men are somehow worth less than girls and more disposable, and so must earn girls, or compensate them for their time. All in all, you don't need to compensate them by paying for expensive dates and such. I don't buy expensive dinners until I'm already banging them on the regular. Even then, I keep it infrequent enough not to make a habit out of it.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:41 PM
1	This sub is delusional. LOL 'bro' you're the one that's gonna blow up one day because of all the bs you believe in.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:37 PM
1	This sub is delusional. LOL with that attitude it won't ever work for you, that much is certain. As for the majority of people on this sub: depends upon them. Sadly most of them subscribe to your way of thinking, and so you're right. Those who refuse to subscribe to your pessimism though, and start approaching with confidence will have different results.	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:23 PM
0	This sub is delusional. This kind of post is exactly why we need forums still. Because anyone can vomit a wordpuke without knowing what they are talking about. I regularly cold approach girls. Sometimes dozens of girls a week. And it works. It's a numbers' game, sure. But it works enough that my life would basically look like a porn movie if you could film it. Am I tall and attractive? Yes. Do I have other advantages? Yes. Do I have other discern-able disadvantages? Absolutely yes. But I am not going to let any of thos…	/r/seduction	25/04/22 05:14 PM
2	How much of Game is working out family issues? Abusive mothers are everywhere. So are guys who have no idea how to man up. It's just sad.	/r/seduction	24/04/22 10:24 PM
3	Is approach anxiety rooted in low self esteem? Absolutely is. We are BOMBARDED non-stop with the social message that girls are more valuable than men. From birth. Hence the terms "getting lucky" and "out of your league". This is all social, not true for individuals. You have low self-esteem entrenched into you by social messaging. I personally like to issue a wide grin as soon as I see a sexy girl that I want. Make sure she sees me checking her out. Some are just not into it, so I move on. Others start getting wet, so I move in. :D	/r/seduction	23/04/22 06:17 PM
1	How do you defuse people who call you a creep for dating younger women? Why is there so much hate on some subreddits for men in their 30s who date/seduce ADULT women in their early to mid 20s? I'm 38, I regularly date 18-22 year olds. Any shit I get for it slides like water on oil. Gotta get a thick skin and then you do you.	/r/seduction	16/04/22 01:20 PM
-1	Why guys don't approach during at the day, unless it's at a bar or something, when I am with my girl friend? Simple... most guys are pussies and basically even on this board are keyboard warriors. Very, very small minority of men have balls to approach. Like 1 in 1000 on an average. A man who approaches hot girls during the day is about rare as a threesome with two victoria's secret model tier girls. happens, but super rare. I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news.	/r/seduction	04/03/22 04:58 AM
1	Maybe = No, right? "Don’t worry, I developed good rapport weeks before I asked the question." LOL. You must be trolling.	/r/seduction	23/02/22 02:33 AM
2	Women dont want to BE your life, they want to be IN your life How about filling it with other women? heh	/r/seduction	20/02/22 08:05 AM
1	How would you turn this around on her? "OK." That is my go-to response if they play too hard to get. Reason immaterial. Sometimes I'll tie the reason into it. "That's OK. Text me if you wanna join me and another girl, or maybe work with me to pickup another girl for a hot threesome."	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:58 AM
2	What do you do? I offer her a dinner date at my place. I'll cook but she has to help. And maybe pickup a couple of ingredients on her way over.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:54 AM
1	Your date is taller than you, whats the game? Do less verbally and more physically.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:53 AM
1	Have you ever hooked up with a chick and she didn’t get fully naked, either left her bra and or shirt on? LOL, use those things attached to your arms.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:52 AM
0	[deleted by user] No you didn't. She wanted sex and you weren't very willing to lead her to get it on. This "relationship" will be short-lived.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:42 AM
1	How do you not tie yourself esteem with success with the opposite sex? I treat all girls I meet as disposable pleasures until they prove themselves to be more. Their rejection means as little to me as the guy at Whole Foods butchering section telling me they're all out of organic salmon today. There is no cost to it - social or legal - and really it's nothing more than a fart in the wind.	/r/seduction	13/11/21 09:40 AM
0	girl outright telling you that you're not her type and she isn't attracted While move on and all that is great advice, she just tested you and found you lacking. Girls tell me I am not their type all the time only to later end up in my bed.	/r/seduction	12/09/21 08:04 PM
1	Losing hope If you're living somewhere your social status is low, move. You're not going to out compete with guys whom you yourself think as being more extroverted, alpha and so on than you. And that weight problem is real. You gotta get rid of it.	/r/seduction	17/08/21 04:50 AM
34	Girls don't care where your confidence comes from Confidence on men is like tits on girls. The bigger the size, the more attractive the person.	/r/seduction	17/08/21 04:48 AM
1	Dating apps lower self esteem If you're in the top 5% of men looks-wise, dating apps are still confidence-killers. You get all these women matching and trying to fuck you that IRL they'd have no shot at spending a night with you, and they'd know it. The best looking girls are just too few, and are inundated with messages from thousands of men everyday anyway. Dating online is masochism.	/r/seduction	17/08/21 04:42 AM
4	For all of you who are successful with women Nobody sleeps with more or less any woman they choose. Nobody. Not even George Clooney or Brad Pitt. The key to my success is walking away the second I feel a girl isn't into me. That, and I am not a fat bald fuck with not a dime to my name. I don't get them to emotionally invest in me. They do it when they want to, and I invest in them when I'm ready to. There is no manipulation going on. I talk to them about everything including video games and computers. If they're into me, soon they get into…	/r/seduction	15/08/21 07:14 PM
0	[deleted by user] shulda banged then	/r/seduction	10/07/21 09:37 PM
3	Want to be better with girls? Get female friends. Fuck no! All they do is waste time and money. I have not yet had a pleasurable long term friendship with one fucking female. And in my youth I could list dozens of female friends. And no, when you're approaching/dating/banging girls whom you didn't know three minutes/hours/days ago, your "female friends" don't matter.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 06:30 PM
2	Need a check from the guys here. Plow plow plow. No, really.	/r/seduction	15/06/21 06:28 PM
1	To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them? Keep it short but mostly if a girl likes you she'll stand and talk for twenty minutes. Personally if I enjoy the conversation, and if I have the time, I just lead her to a coffee shop or whatever. And I can go deep but usually it's best to keep the banter light. They don't tell you the truth of what they're thinking anyway until they lose inhibitions which happens over weeks if not months.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:29 PM
1	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. Just hooks, not lays.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:25 PM
1	32 year old male exploring Florida alone, what are some good spots for me to go? As far as I am concerned, the downtown Whole Foods and neighboring blocks are always teeming with girls to approach cold.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 07:42 AM
1	To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them? Thanks man. Feels good to be healthy and in control all the time. No, while I meet lots of people through social groups, primarily my lays come from cold approaching.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 07:41 AM
1	Date with a way older woman (F40) than me (M20) Nah most people will assume she's your mom heh.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 04:06 AM
1	32 year old male exploring Florida alone, what are some good spots for me to go? Miami has a fuckton of pussy man can drown in and no, you really don't need to be Tony Montana to do it.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 04:05 AM
1	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. My pleasure.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:58 AM
1	Why is the mainstream media against cold approach? Because I said nothing about ONS. I am always open for repeat business heh.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:58 AM
1	To bother with pubs and clubs if I don’t naturally enjoy them? I have been sober for six years now. I was an alcoholic. Never needed clubs and pubs to meet girls. You meet girls everywhere.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:57 AM
1	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. Who you are is not what you achieve but who you are is still what you are capable of achieving.	/r/seduction	11/06/21 03:56 AM
1	Ninjas: What's a go-to move you do on dates that almost always works out great? I tell them about movie scenes while enacting them mildly. So instead of saying "actress x put a knife on his throat and said blah blah" I enact it while putting my hand on her collarbone and say the dialogue. The panties afterwards tell the story of what they feel in that moment heh.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:53 PM
1	If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with others Lots of carbs and sugary soda. Those'll get you rounded like you wouldn't believe. If you toppled you'd simply roll. heh	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:51 PM
1	Why is the mainstream media against cold approach? But what would you say to those of us who are only interested in swimming in the pussy moisture? Personally I don't wanna know them... just fuck heh. And if I don't remember the name in a week, don't blame me.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:44 PM
25	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. 3% is about average, though. I don't know anyone who's hit beyond 4% on a long enough timeline. But there's good news there. Personally I hover at 2.5% in America, and around 4% in Japan where I have spent several years of my life and still do. Do some math: 100 approaches. 70 straight out rejections: 70 minutes max 30 long-ish hooks at 5 minutes each: 150 minutes 10-ish first dates: 10 hours to 20 depending upon how well sorted your logistics are 5-ish second dates: Another 5-10 hours. That put…	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:41 PM
6	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. More like 90-95% in my vast experience. But the good thing is that with 90% of the girls you barely spend 30 seconds, so no loss really.	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:33 PM
-4	If you're not a traditionally good looking guy, be prepared to face A LOT of rejection and by LOT I mean A LOT of rejection. This is guaranteed so make sure you have the emotional ability to deal with it and stay in the path for longer duration. I suppose you don't mind your left hand doubling as you girlfriend heh	/r/seduction	10/06/21 03:33 PM
5	Ladies, don't be that woman I met Depending upon where you live, this isn't even as bad as it gets. I've seen as well as experienced way worse.	/r/seduction	21/02/21 04:25 PM
2	So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy. You place your trust in the wrong kinds of peeps heh	/r/seduction	18/02/21 01:56 AM
3	First date problem or two No logistics = no bangs. Simple as that. I used to bang 2-3 girls every week consistently just by living alone in a tiny apartmet in the heart of Chelsea. I've had plenty of girls who bang just because they need a place to crash for the night that's close enough. Back when meatpacking district in NYC actually used to be packed with meat, you could just walk around and bring a girl home. More often than not in under an hour, especially if you went out around 1-2 am. Logistics are everything. Ther…	/r/seduction	18/02/21 01:54 AM